Marriage isn’t always easy, but what if we could make it easier? In today’s episode, I sit down with Arlene Pellicane, author of Making Marriage Easier, to talk about the ups and downs of marriage, navigating grief and loss together, and how small intentional actions can reignite connection. Arlene shares her own love story—from longing for marriage as a young woman to waiting on God’s timing and eventually walking through infertility and loss. She also gives practical tips on keeping fun and affection alive in marriage, communicating well, and choosing commitment even when emotions wane. Whether you’re newly married or decades in, this conversation is full of wisdom, encouragement, and hope for making your marriage stronger.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How waiting on God’s timing shaped Arlene’s view of marriage

• The importance of processing grief together and marking moments of loss

• Why affection and fun are vital to a thriving marriage (and how to cultivate both!)

• The power of small daily actions that strengthen connection

• How to move from transactional to intentional in your relationship

Bio:

Arlene Pellicane is a speaker, host of the Happy Home podcast, and author of several books, including Parents Rising, Making Marriage Easier, and Screen Kids (coauthored with Dr. Gary Chapman). She is the spokesperson for National Marriage Week and has been happily married to her husband, James, for more than 25 years. Arlene earned her BA from Biola University and her master’s in journalism from Regent University. Arlene lives with her family in San Diego.  

Connect with Arlene:

Website: www.arlenepellicane.com  

IG: https://www.instagram.com/arlenepellicane Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ArlenePellicaneAuthor

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