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We focus on Walt Disney's
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life and history of Walt. Oh, what
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did I just hear? Just heard of
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was born in Chicago, Illinois,
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in 1901. Yes, that wasn't the thing
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that I heard. Really put her to
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the test there. That's right. Oh,
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wow. This is very timely. I'm
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taking my daughter to Disneyland on
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Friday. Oh, that would be so
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much fun. You live in California? Yeah,
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I live in LA actually in
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Franklin Village. Oh, Jesus. You live
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just a stone's throw away from
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where we are right now. She
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knows. Yeah. Yeah. Okay, this is
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an interesting prompt. I don't know
3:30
that I even understand it, which
3:33
is exciting, but this is haven't
3:35
confessed to parents. There's still
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harboring a secret. Oh my
3:40
gosh. And there's there any
3:42
threat of your parents listening.
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Probably not, but might have to send it
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to them after. This could be an opportunity.
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Oh, okay. I like that. Okay, where
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are you originally from? I'm originally from
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Bakersfield. So that's where the story
3:55
takes place. All right, hit us
3:57
with the Bakersfield story. Summer of 22. I
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was going to go to my junior
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year of high school. I was definitely
4:04
in my mischief era. I was dating
4:06
a guy who was a senior and
4:08
he had been trying to get me
4:10
to sneak out of my house. And
4:12
it was always a joke that you
4:14
couldn't sneak out of my house. And
4:16
it was always a joke that you
4:18
couldn't sneak out of my house. My
4:20
parents had designed it. They put me
4:22
on the second floor and always had
4:24
a guard dog. had this alarm system
4:27
that any time a window would open
4:29
or door would open it would ding.
4:31
I finally decided I was like okay
4:33
today I'm gonna commit to devising a
4:35
plan I cracked a window during the
4:37
day in our laundry room. This was
4:39
gonna be the only spot feasibly that
4:41
I could actually get in and get
4:43
out. So that night, around midnight, I
4:45
crept down the stairs, made it past
4:47
the guard dogs, locked myself in the
4:49
laundry room, and was like, okay, step
4:51
one, complete. The window that I was
4:53
climbing out of was on top of
4:56
a countertop, so I had to climb
4:58
up on the countertop, take out the
5:00
window screen, I just put it outside,
5:02
and climbed on out. My boyfriend was
5:04
down the street, picked me up, we
5:06
went out to a party on the
5:08
orchard. He dropped me back off. It
5:10
was like 3 a.m. Had you gotten
5:12
drunk at this party? Yeah, okay. So
5:14
different person returning than had left. Very
5:16
competent Tom Cruise person made their escape
5:18
and now Mr. Bean's returning. Yeah. So
5:20
my boyfriend had left. Once I got
5:22
back to the window, I realized I
5:25
had messed up. The window, I had
5:27
to climb up on a countertop. So
5:29
it's six feet off of the ground.
5:31
And I'm five two on a good
5:33
day. All I'm thinking of is just
5:35
get my body back inside. We're not
5:37
thinking about anything else. Can't get caught.
5:39
So I finally hoist myself up. climb
5:41
back in and then I look outside
5:43
and realize the stupid window screen is
5:45
still outside I didn't think to keep
5:47
it inside can't jump back out not
5:49
doing that again and I try to
5:51
like dingle down to grab it the
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dingle didn't work I know I was
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like you know what it's in this
5:58
garden area there's a lot of plants
6:00
I'm just gonna wake up early in
6:02
the morning I'll get it put it
6:04
back so Make it back upstairs. I
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remember just like laying down in my
6:08
bed going like, I did it. I
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got away with it and was so
6:12
happy the next morning. My sister's waking
6:14
me up and she's on the phone
6:16
with my dad and she tells me
6:18
someone broke into the house. Oh, of
6:20
course. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, all
6:22
right. It could have been a squirrel
6:25
that removed a screen from the window?
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They're very, they're very, okay. See, I
6:29
needed you, Monica, coming up with some
6:31
ideas. That would have been a big
6:33
red flag. I think it was definitely
6:35
a squirrel. Yeah, when your kids suggest,
6:37
like, I bet it was a squirrel.
6:39
Okay, so you did it. That's fine.
6:41
Let's find it was a squirrel. Okay,
6:43
so you did it. That's fine. Let's
6:45
fine. Let's fine. When he was leaving
6:47
us. against the watering hose was the
6:49
stupid window screen. My dad concluded it
6:51
was a break-in. He was running late
6:54
to work. So he's like, just check
6:56
all the windows, check all the doors,
6:58
make sure nothing has been stolen. And
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so we had to check. And he's
7:02
trying to work through it. He's like,
7:04
but you have to take the window
7:06
screen off inside. And the way our
7:08
windows are, they kind of locks. And
7:10
I'm just so panicked in this moment.
7:12
We're not going to get creative. I'm
7:14
not going to get creative. yesterday. We're
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hanging out in our house the entire
7:18
day and then at night they snuck
7:20
out of the laundry room. Oh, squirrel
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adjacent theory. A little squirily. Kind of
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like that movie, Parasite, where they live
7:27
in the basement. It's like the burglars
7:29
lived in the basement for the day
7:31
and then snuck back out. Something like
7:33
that. I was like, this story makes
7:35
zero sense. close the window behind themselves,
7:37
but then didn't replace the screen. Yeah,
7:39
but somehow that story stuck. Oh, my
7:41
dad bought that story. He was like,
7:43
you know what? I guess that probably
7:45
is what happened. Oh, I wonder if
7:47
he knew. That night, my family, we
7:49
were talking about it at dinner. I'm
7:52
still going hard on this story, trying
7:54
to get into the mind of these
7:56
burglars. Wow. What a crazy thing that
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they did. They must have just been
8:00
hiding in one of our closets. Oh,
8:02
you're making so scary. And my parents
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are like, I think we need to
8:06
call the cops. This is bad. And
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I'm like, they didn't take anything though.
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Maybe like, let's not get the cops
8:12
involved. They're just baffled. Nothing was stolen.
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This summer, I was getting in trouble
8:16
a lot. My parents were always trying
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to sniff out a lie or like
8:21
a cover-up. Why wouldn't they just say
8:23
hey we know is you? Well maybe
8:25
they just don't want to talk about
8:27
it at all It kind of like
8:29
if you think your wife fucked somebody
8:31
and you're like I actually don't ever
8:33
want to talk about it. I just
8:35
not going to bring it up and
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I might have been suspicious for months
8:39
But then once I think it happened
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like I really don't ever want to
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talk about that. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. There's
8:45
that or a squirrel or they're just
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like It'll be more of a punishment
8:50
for her that she has to continue
8:52
this preposterous lie. Maybe they're amused by
8:54
you. That depends on how fun your
8:56
parents are. They're definitely a fun time,
8:58
but during this period I was being
9:00
grounded a lot. They were really enjoying
9:02
that and taking away all my things.
9:04
Okay, then this is confusing. I think
9:06
they believed it. A week later, my
9:08
dad's friends are over and one of
9:10
them is a dean of a high
9:12
school. He's always sniffing out suspicious shit
9:14
that kids are up to. He's telling
9:16
his friends this happened and I'm just
9:19
standing there like oh my god I
9:21
have to continue to sell this stupid
9:23
story and his friend is like wow
9:25
what a weird thing to happen and
9:27
just keeps moving on and I was
9:29
like okay and my dad would keep
9:31
bringing it up every now and then
9:33
and I just haven't said anything so
9:35
I'm like he wanted to think the
9:37
best of me is might as well
9:39
keep that going. How did they get
9:41
in originally just the front door was
9:43
unlocked during the day while you guys
9:45
were home? I got away with it,
9:47
it's been almost 15 years. Oh, this
9:50
is great. Yeah, like I could see
9:52
my, I won by that story for
9:54
a hot minute, but I might also
9:56
not even deal with it. Would you
9:58
believe a squirrel? Nope. Okay. I'm excited
10:00
to hear what the reaction is if
10:02
it does get to them now. Your
10:04
dad's been peddling this story. What if
10:06
his only resentment is like, damn, that's
10:08
one of my best stories. I just told
10:10
it last week at the bar. God, I hope
10:12
not. He saw a parasite and he's like, I
10:15
lived this. Yes. It's my life. He is a
10:17
lawsuit against him. Oh, well, thanks for
10:19
sharing. I hope you feel relieved.
10:21
It's off your chest now. It
10:23
seems like you're not a
10:26
troublemaker anymore. You seem like
10:28
you're really sorted. Once I
10:30
moved out at Bakersfield, left
10:32
all that mischief behind. Where
10:34
I'm from, Milford's a little
10:37
bit Bakersfieldy. I know about
10:39
just having to get into
10:41
some shit, because there's nothing
10:43
else to do. Exactly. Well. Have
10:46
a great day and Monica your race
10:48
to 35 changed my outlook on life.
10:50
So I just want to say thank
10:52
you for that and thank you for
10:54
all the work you guys do. All
10:56
right, take care. Remember when
10:58
you said Mr. Beans? Mr. Bean.
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Such a old reference. It was.
11:03
Yeah, I like him coming in
11:05
the house. It's the right visual.
11:07
He wears a suit a lot.
11:10
Yeah. You want to hear something
11:12
even more random? So Rowan Atkinson
11:14
plays Mr. Bean. Two funny things.
11:16
He does a perfect Martin Brundle
11:19
impersonation. And when he was interviewed
11:21
on the Formula One grid by
11:23
Martin Brundle, he's doing Martin Brundle
11:25
to him and Martin doesn't realize
11:28
it, but it is identical. Rowan
11:30
is just doing him to him.
11:32
And he doesn't realize it.
11:35
It's one of the funniest
11:37
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11:40
he bought a McLaren F-1
11:42
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11:44
He crashed it two or three
11:46
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11:49
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11:51
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11:53
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Dallas. You've never seen that show
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because you're too young. I'm from Dallas.
15:02
Oh you are. Maybe that's why
15:04
it's the hair. Were you a cheerleader?
15:06
No. My roommate from college was
15:08
though. Did you watch the Netflix show
15:10
about it? Not the most recent
15:12
one. you remember the one that was
15:15
on the country channel? Yep. Years
15:17
and years ago. That was her season.
15:19
Making the team. How exciting. The
15:21
newer Netflix one they do show that
15:23
other show quite often. That's how
15:25
I know Rycroft was on that. She
15:27
was from the bachelor so I
15:29
really enjoyed double dipped on these reality
15:31
shows. And who loves Bavarian Motor
15:34
Works in your household? I work for
15:36
BMW. There we go. My husband
15:38
did as well. Just kind of kept
15:40
it in the family. In what
15:42
capacity? We worked for just about every
15:44
dealer you can think of. We've
15:46
bought and sold several dealerships over the
15:48
years. Anywhere from a Hyundai to
15:51
Ford to BMW, Subaru, Mazda, all of
15:53
them. We moved to Colorado. We're
15:55
buying into this BMW Mini store. And
15:57
my husband was very good at
15:59
fixing dealerships. Taking them from being very
16:01
low profit. to being super high profit very quickly. And so
16:03
when he got sick and passed away, they kind of
16:05
shoved me into his role because I knew
16:08
how his brain worked and what his plans
16:10
were. First of all, so sorry to hear
16:12
that. You look very young to have lost
16:14
a husband. Definitely. Secondly, is
16:16
it get the service situation working
16:19
correctly? Is that the first step?
16:21
Always. That's your repeat customer. Okay,
16:23
Ashley, you have a story. Does it
16:25
take place in Dallas? So this takes
16:27
place in Albuquerque. Actually, I think y'all
16:29
were filming Employee of the Month when
16:32
this took place. Oh my gosh, I
16:34
was staying at the embassy suites. I
16:36
was in high school. And mind you, I
16:38
lost sleep last night. I have not told
16:40
but one person, the story. in 23 years
16:42
since it happened. Oh my God. I'm about
16:44
16. I'd wrecked a motorcycle. Had to
16:47
have surgery. Along with surgery comes
16:49
pain medication. Happened to wake up
16:51
the day after surgery, I'd also
16:53
come down with mono. Street bike or
16:55
dirt bike? Street bike. So I raced on
16:57
all through high school and partway through
17:00
college. Oh my God. Not drinking enough
17:02
water, my throat hurts. I'm trying to
17:04
get food down, taking Tylenol on top of
17:06
it for a fever. It's just this whole
17:08
perfect storm of things. About nine, ten days
17:10
in, I haven't pooped. Sure, you're on opiates,
17:13
yeah. I'm like super duper impacted. My
17:15
doctor's like, you need to put her
17:17
on some stool softeners that should help.
17:19
And if that doesn't work, try laxative.
17:21
So we do that over the course
17:23
of a couple of days. Finally, I'm
17:25
like, I gotta go. Of course, it's
17:28
the day that my parents have 15
17:30
people over for Bible study. My bathroom
17:32
is the guest bathroom. Oh, fuck. I
17:34
managed to go in there, give birth.
17:36
It's essentially labor, because it's hard,
17:39
two weeks worth. Oh my God.
17:41
My best friend was like, you
17:43
should make a play-dough model, so
17:45
they can see it. So I get this thing
17:47
out. I look in the toilet and
17:50
I'm like, this isn't going any years.
17:52
Sure, sure. Try to flush it. It's
17:54
not budget. It's in there. Solid. Now
17:56
I'm like, okay, I can't go out
17:58
there and ask for plunger. I can't
18:00
leave it here. People are going to
18:02
want to use this bathroom. I'm looking
18:05
through the cabinets going, maybe I can
18:07
break it up and get it down.
18:09
I find this solo cup. It's under
18:11
the cabinet that I had left under
18:13
there from one of my secret parties.
18:16
Just I'm going to fish this thing
18:18
out. It's bad enough of my parents
18:20
have to see it, but if all
18:22
my friends' parents from church had to
18:25
see it. So I fish this thing
18:27
out, and I'm like, all right, well.
18:29
I'm going to open the window and
18:31
toss it, I guess. Wow. Okay, great.
18:33
Now it fit in a solo cup.
18:36
Girthwise. Okay, wow. Okay, great. Yeah, yeah.
18:38
Can you believe that was in your
18:40
body? I don't know how, I didn't
18:42
have some kind of rectal prolapse. Giving
18:44
birth was not even as bad. We'll
18:47
say that. So I take the screen
18:49
off the window, toss it out on
18:51
our side yard where all these juniper
18:53
bushes. Everything's perfect. Seven months down the
18:56
road, my parents just said they're going
18:58
to clear out that side yard. My
19:00
mom was rescuing turtles or something at
19:02
the time, and so she wanted this
19:04
space for these tortoises. I pull out
19:07
these bushes. Lo and behold, this thing
19:09
has petrified. So it's just laying there.
19:11
Oh my God. So I hear... My
19:13
mom come inside and she's like, I
19:15
don't know who would poop at our
19:18
side yards. That's just crazy. And my
19:20
dad is going, I don't know. It
19:22
must have been a contractor. He's on
19:24
this person. He's of course thinking this
19:27
had to come out of a man.
19:29
Right. Yeah. Man. I'm like, what do
19:31
I do? So I go out and
19:33
I'm like, what happened? What are you
19:35
guys doing? It's big to do. Why
19:38
didn't it get washed away? It snowed
19:40
and just like froze it and then
19:42
it was there. I turned into an
19:44
icicle. I agreed. I was like, it
19:46
must have been one of these workers,
19:49
one of the roofers maybe. Sure, one
19:51
of these jerks. To this day, I
19:53
have now 38 years old, about to
19:55
be 39. I've never spoken a word
19:58
of this, but to one person. We
20:00
feel so lucky. Me too. I'm so
20:02
proud of you waiting. handle your business.
20:04
If I'm your father, I go, good
20:06
for you. When the dirty work needs
20:09
doing, you roll up your sleeves and
20:11
you get it done. A literal dirty
20:13
work. Got to get the duty done.
20:15
I want to see it so bad.
20:18
Don't you mind? Yeah. I do think
20:20
the Plato would have been a good
20:22
idea. Here's the disgusting part about me.
20:24
If I did that same thing. I
20:26
would want to see it again maybe
20:29
a couple weeks later. I would be
20:31
like, I'm going to go look because
20:33
you might build it up in your
20:35
head like a fish you caught. It
20:37
wasn't really as big as I'm remembering
20:40
it. Most people think, I want to
20:42
forget this ever happened. I got you.
20:44
I think that's the female take. I
20:46
think that's the female take. I think
20:49
that's the female take. I think that's
20:51
the female take. I think that's the
20:53
female take. I think that's the entire.
20:55
Yeah, it's a good start. Did the
20:57
hydrocodone thing ever pop up again? No,
21:00
one, it kind of made me never
21:02
want to take it again. But even
21:04
later on with future injuries, I realize
21:06
it makes me so sick, I can't
21:08
take opiates at all. We've done a
21:11
lot of things right. Ever get back
21:13
on the motorcycle? Not since having my
21:15
kids. Don't shame me. I feel that
21:17
sub-tweet there. There are moments, especially after
21:20
losing my husband, where that adrenaline rush
21:22
and that ability to just turn off
21:24
everything around you seems so tempting, but
21:26
when you're in that level of grief,
21:28
the last thing you need is the
21:31
temptation to just do 180. just because
21:33
it feels good. Yeah. Well, actually, this
21:35
has been a blast. Yeah. Thanks for
21:37
trying to you guys. I know everyone
21:39
does this. I have not been an
21:42
armchair from day one. We like new
21:44
listeners. Yeah, we do. When Steve got
21:46
sick, we were going through chemo and
21:48
that takes forever. Our first chemo deal
21:51
was eight hours of a day. We
21:53
don't know what to do. We were
21:55
bored. and I was looking for a
21:57
podcast and I came across you guys.
21:59
And so we were sharing our little
22:02
airpods and it's what we did during
22:04
his two or three chemo appointment that
22:06
he had before he passed those nights.
22:08
It got us through and got us
22:11
some laughs. Oh man, that's. really lovely.
22:13
Well, lovely meeting you. Thanks for sharing
22:15
all that was. All right. Have a
22:17
good one. Bye. Take you. Hi, Noah.
22:19
How are you? Hi. How are you
22:22
guys doing? Good. I'm so intrigued by
22:24
all the different posters on your wall.
22:26
Welcome. We got Twin Peaks. We got
22:28
The Day The Ersted still. We are
22:30
movie nerds in our house. How fun!
22:33
Where are you? What part of the
22:35
world? I'm far away from you guys
22:37
in Los Fillas. That's twice today. We
22:39
had a Franklin Village person. Do you
22:42
guys think we over index in those
22:44
Fillas for secrets we haven't told parents?
22:46
Oh. Well we like run away from
22:48
our homes because we're so ashamed from
22:50
our past selves. We're trying to escape.
22:53
I agree. I think there's something there.
22:55
I think there's something there. Okay, so
22:57
what did you do that you haven't
22:59
told your parents about? This was my
23:01
freshman year of high school. I was
23:04
in an English language honors class. My
23:06
mom was really strict on maintaining A's
23:08
and B's. We read a book every
23:10
quarter, maybe two books a quarter, and
23:13
she would do weekly reading checks. Our
23:15
teacher, let's call her Mrs. Puff. Okay,
23:17
great. He did a signed reading growing
23:19
up. It was really difficult. I would
23:21
push it off to the last second.
23:24
So that class, which required a lot
23:26
of assigned reading, I was falling behind.
23:28
I was heatering 85 as a B,
23:30
84 as a C. Well, that's bullshit.
23:32
It's 79 as C. In South Carolina,
23:35
where I grew up, it was 85
23:37
to 92 was a B. Oh, yeah.
23:39
That's bullshit. It was tough. I had
23:41
to maintain that my household. So we're
23:44
reading this book. I do bad on
23:46
another reading check, it's gonna bring my
23:48
grade down to a seat. And I'm
23:50
really dreading it. So we have this
23:52
test on a Tuesday. Monday night comes,
23:55
I didn't read. And this is 2010,
23:57
2011, so there's not iPhones when you
23:59
get to school, you can like cram,
24:01
you can do the spark notes. So
24:04
I get to school, the class before
24:06
my English class is. P.E. We're doing
24:08
basketball. It's one of my loves. We're
24:10
in a really intense pick-up game. I'm
24:12
playing point guard at one point. I
24:15
get... elbowed really hard in the chest.
24:17
I'm okay, you know, it took me
24:19
a second to catch my breath, but
24:21
I kind of had this light bulb
24:23
moment. Maybe I just exaggerate this a
24:26
bit, so when I get to this
24:28
class, I can go to the nurse
24:30
and take the test a little, and
24:32
take the test, I can go to
24:35
the nurse and take the test a
24:37
little later. I finished the test a
24:39
little later. I finished the class, I
24:41
can go to the test a little
24:43
later, so I'm like sitting in the
24:46
locker room, I'm like, I saw him
24:48
on the stairs and he was struggling.
24:50
I'm like, yeah, I'll be good, I'll
24:52
be good. I'm walking to class. I'm
24:54
really trying to sell it as a
24:57
little bit. I'm walking up the stairs,
24:59
baby stopping every few steps. You can't
25:01
go over the top, but you have
25:03
to plant these seeds. Right. I saw
25:06
him on the stairs and he was
25:08
struggling. He rested midway up the stairs,
25:10
I think. Get in the full character.
25:12
I make it to class at second
25:14
period. I'm sitting next to a couple
25:17
guys, the guy sitting next to me
25:19
is this guy Caleb. So I'm like,
25:21
yeah, I'm really not feeling good. Even
25:23
Caleb looks at me, he's like, man,
25:25
do you think you should go to
25:28
the nurse? Oh my God. I think
25:30
I'm good. Really quick. What could feel
25:32
worse than getting sympathy that you don't
25:34
deserve? It really puts you into the
25:37
headspace of these people with moonshows and
25:39
me because I feel so guilty. I
25:41
know. I don't take sympathy very well.
25:43
Like someone feels bad for me and
25:45
try to pat me on the back.
25:48
I'm like, oh no, I'm fine. That's
25:50
my initial reaction. And I try to
25:52
play into that here. So I'm kind
25:54
of thinking we're gonna maybe do a
25:57
couple things before the test starts. We
25:59
have. All right guys, we're going to
26:01
get to go on to the test.
26:03
And I'm like, okay, it's showtime. Oh,
26:05
fuck. Raise my hand. I'm like, Mrs.
26:08
Puff. And she's like, no, don't interrupt
26:10
me while I'm talking. That's rude. In
26:12
that moment, I got really heated. I
26:14
think my defense mechanism really went off.
26:16
You got a dig. I'm dying and
26:19
you're telling me to stop. You believe
26:21
your own story. Immediately, this fire goes
26:23
off in my head and I raise
26:25
my hand and I scream at the
26:28
top of my lungs. Miss Pottup, I'm
26:30
having a heart attack. Oh. And I
26:32
put my head on my desk. I
26:34
just made myself hyperventilate because what do
26:36
you do when you're having a heart
26:39
attack? This is wild. She sprints out
26:41
of the room and yells, oh my.
26:43
Oh my god, I call 911. Oh
26:45
boy, there's like the girl who staged
26:47
a slip and fall at Kmart. What
26:50
I'm doing right now, I don't realize
26:52
until much, much later on that it
26:54
is really illegal. Sure, sure, sure. Let's
26:56
not get hung up on that. I
26:59
don't think I can get in trouble.
27:01
No, no, no. So she runs out
27:03
of the room. She's like, someone calling
27:05
911? I'm in this. There's no being
27:07
like, just kidding. Yeah, you're past the
27:10
point of no return. The whole class
27:12
is cleared out. Oh. And an EMS
27:14
comes. They're like talking to me. I'm
27:16
not answering any of their questions. Oh,
27:18
God, oh, God. They bring in an
27:21
air tank and they give me oxygen.
27:23
What if they started doing like a
27:25
chest tube? Yeah, they took my pulse.
27:27
They're like, yeah, it's probably an anxiety
27:30
attack that this kid's having. So they
27:32
put me on a stretcher and they
27:34
stretch me out of the high school.
27:36
I had a really big high school.
27:38
It was like 4,000 students. So I
27:41
get taken in the hospital. I'm sitting
27:43
there. My mom shows up. Well, hold
27:45
on, she kind of deserves deserves serves
27:47
this. Why? When you put this much
27:50
stress on your kids to get bees.
27:52
Like, look what length they'll go to.
27:54
That's how strong the stress is. We
27:56
had a strict household. I'm terrified of
27:58
my mom. I'd rather do this than
28:01
go through the argument. So I'm sitting
28:03
there, my vice principal shows up, the
28:05
principal of our, like, freshman academy is
28:07
there. The whole time, I'm just acting
28:09
dopey. I'm like, I'm okay, I'm doing
28:12
better. That was really scary. to get
28:14
x-ray results an hour or two. My
28:16
doctor comes in, he's like, I'm glad
28:18
you're doing better. We found some interesting
28:21
things on your x-rays. It turns out
28:23
you have a bruise on your sternum.
28:25
I was like, oh yeah, I got
28:27
elbowed in basketball earlier. He's like, when
28:29
you have trauma that suffered to the
28:32
chest area, sometimes. Our bodies react in
28:34
a way that is uncontrollable, which might
28:36
have caused your body to go into
28:38
panic. This guy's helping me get out
28:40
of it, I swear. Right, he doesn't
28:43
want to embarrass you, that you had
28:45
a panic attack. Exactly. I got sent
28:47
home, I had the next day of
28:49
school off. So because it all happened
28:52
on school property, it all ended up
28:54
being covered by the school, which is
28:56
great, because my family didn't have health
28:58
insurance at the time. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
29:00
yeah. Oh my God. It would put
29:03
my family in so much trouble financially.
29:05
The next day I go back to
29:07
school, I shamely made my way over
29:09
to Mrs. Puff's room. She's like, Noah,
29:11
she hugs me. She's like, I'm so
29:14
glad to see you. I'm like, thanks.
29:16
This is so bad. I'm feeling so
29:18
much better. I miss that test the
29:20
other day. Can I make it up
29:23
after school? And she's like. Don't worry
29:25
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29:27
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29:29
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disease. So I didn't tell anyone about
31:38
it. It was like two years later.
31:40
I told my best friend about it,
31:42
we were smoking weed, and I was
31:44
like, Brian, I fucking faked the heart
31:47
attack. It's like, what? It's not hard
31:49
attack. The famous hard attack. Later on,
31:51
my senior year of high school, this
31:53
is like three years later, I was
31:55
in a talent show. I did a
31:58
stand-up bit. And I was not really
32:00
doing good at writing jokes, so I
32:02
decided to tell the heart attack story.
32:04
Turns out Mrs. Puff is one of
32:07
the judges at the talent show. Did
32:09
you say you faked it? Yeah. Oh,
32:11
I'd said it all happened in sixth
32:13
grade. I changed her name to Mrs.
32:15
Applebottom, Genez, boots with the fur, because
32:18
I was in the zeitgeist at the
32:20
time. The bit killed, and I won
32:22
the talent show. Oh my lord, did
32:24
she not. She never put two and
32:26
two together. Oh my God, this is
32:29
tough. She deserves it too. And neither
32:31
my parents were there. So that's kind
32:33
of where it is. Wow, that's a
32:35
great story. You just won, one, one.
32:38
I don't feel great about it. No,
32:40
of course not. You have a big
32:42
smile on your face. Well, he knows
32:44
he's a rascal. It's that rascal smile.
32:46
I promise I've changed, I've changed, I've
32:49
learned. I don't think I've. The kind
32:51
of thing they condone. David Lynch wouldn't
32:53
be very proud. He might be. He
32:55
was a rascal. The things we do
32:57
to survive a moment, I get it.
33:00
It was fight or flight, 100%. The
33:02
heart attack. I like that he had
33:04
to unburden himself while stone like Ralph
33:06
Scallnakoff. Like I have to get this
33:09
off my chest. Well no, that was
33:11
great. I'm happy that you did all
33:13
that. Thank you for listening. Our pleasure.
33:15
Great meeting you. Great to meet you.
33:17
Also before I let you go, my
33:20
girlfriend's the one that signed this up.
33:22
Can I get her to say hi?
33:24
She's a huge fan. She's about to
33:26
do a job interview so this is
33:29
going to make her day. This is
33:31
Elise. Hi guys. Wow, this is very
33:33
exciting. I listen to you guys every
33:35
week. Nice to meet you. Where are
33:37
you from? I'm from New Jersey originally.
33:40
Okay, a garden state in a South
33:42
Carolinian. We met five years ago. and
33:44
on our first date he told me
33:46
this story. It's like he's a winner.
33:48
It was a red flag at first.
33:51
He won me over. Yeah. Like he's
33:53
a liar but he's a charming liar.
33:55
That's right. Exactly. Thank you guys so
33:57
much for all of the stuff you
34:00
do. I saw the prompt and I
34:02
was like all right babe you got
34:04
to do it. You're up. Well nice
34:06
meeting you guys. Yes. All right take
34:08
care. Thank you so much. Bye. see
34:11
myself going for going for it. You
34:13
acted earlier like you hated the idea
34:15
of getting sympathy but you don't. No
34:17
I do I wouldn't want any of
34:19
that I'd want to get out of
34:22
the thing I had to get out
34:24
of and then that would be the
34:26
consequence of it is that I'd have
34:28
to receive all this sympathy for something
34:31
I didn't deserve. You like sympathy because
34:33
you left blood out for people to
34:35
see. My goal there is for them
34:37
to go like he's so stoic. Look
34:39
how much he bled. I want admiration.
34:42
Try to be very honest. This story
34:44
is that Kristen walked in and saw
34:46
in the trash can there was all
34:48
this bloody. And that's my whole move
34:50
is I don't tell her I was
34:53
bleeding. Right. I put it on top.
34:55
I put it on top. Yes, I
34:57
wanted it to be seen and then
34:59
I wanted to hear that they admired
35:02
my stoicism in the face of being
35:04
injured. I don't want sympathy, but you
35:06
can understand that, right? Like her arm
35:08
broke in half and she didn't even
35:10
flinch. She just calmly went to the
35:13
hospital. I don't have that, although in
35:15
cheerleading, I guess there was an element
35:17
of you did need to suck it
35:19
up and move on and that was
35:22
a compliment. Yeah, yeah. Hi. We find
35:24
you amid many pillows. It is my
35:26
best attempt at a pillow for it.
35:28
It's good. I like it. I'm not
35:30
at home, so I don't have a
35:33
closet with clothes in it. Are you
35:35
at an Airbnb? I am. So I'm
35:37
originally from Vancouver, Canada, but I live
35:39
in Phoenix and I'm on tour right
35:41
now in Miami. How do you like
35:44
Phoenix coming from Vancouver? That couldn't be
35:46
a more opposite environment. I actually had
35:48
seasonal depression. My first three years there
35:50
with too much sun. is in full
35:53
effect today. The episode came out with
35:55
Seth Rogan. So I'm a Canada chef
35:57
and I travel around the world doing
35:59
very high-end fine dining cannabis dinners. I
36:01
actually develop the curriculum for the American
36:04
Culinary Federation to start training chefs how
36:06
to use it. And today Seth was
36:08
talking about how bad the edible experiences
36:10
can be. I was literally yelling like,
36:12
no, don't say this, you're scaring people.
36:15
I guarantee he'd be first in line
36:17
to have your cuisine. So you're making
36:19
different dishes and a lot of them
36:21
have weed in it. As the meal
36:24
progresses, you're getting a little stoned and
36:26
then more hungry. So by the time
36:28
dessert hits, you're like, fucking bring this
36:30
shit. Yeah, we look like a five
36:32
course menu, every course has one infused
36:35
component, and then we dose each guest
36:37
on their own tolerance level. I've served
36:39
over 25,000 people now with about a
36:41
thousand first time cannabis users, people who've
36:43
never touched the plant before, so. trying
36:46
to change the perception that edibles mean
36:48
cookies brownies gummies gummies and that it
36:50
can be a very enjoyable fun experience
36:52
if done properly. Wow what a neat
36:55
niche you found yourself in. Unintended it
36:57
just kind of happened. What's your signature
36:59
dish? What's the one you're most proud
37:01
of that people rave about? probably a
37:03
progee poutine dish that I do where
37:06
we do a potato infused progee short
37:08
rib ragu and then a maple apple
37:10
borsin cheese. Oh my god. Right now
37:12
with my menus it's very Canadian forward.
37:15
We're all very patriotic at the moment
37:17
in any way that we can show
37:19
our pride. Sure. I get it. You
37:21
got no beef with the citizens I
37:23
hope everyone knows. No, I love America.
37:26
I love Americans. We love Canada. I
37:28
also love poutine. You have a huge...
37:30
percentage of people are non-chair anonymous that
37:32
are Canadian. I don't know if you
37:34
guys recognize, but there's always Canadians phoning
37:37
in with good stories. You're dead right.
37:39
It does over index, given the fact
37:41
that there's less in Canada than California.
37:43
It's pretty wild. Absolutely. Okay, so you've
37:46
got a story to confess. I do.
37:48
I got to start off with saying
37:50
I have the most amazing parents and
37:52
I don't know how they didn't give
37:54
up on me, get rid of me
37:57
or trade me in because I got
37:59
in a lot of trouble as a
38:01
kid. This story has to do specifically
38:03
with Halloween. Where I'm from in Canada,
38:05
our high schools were grade eight to
38:08
12. So we didn't really have a
38:10
middle school. You went from elementary school
38:12
into high school and I got grounded
38:14
every single Halloween. from grade 8 to
38:17
11, I would do something in September,
38:19
get grounded, and that was the thing
38:21
they would take away from me. They
38:23
took away trick-or-treating, that's harsh. That is.
38:25
I probably would have been up to
38:28
no good, so maybe it was a
38:30
good thing, except I still got up
38:32
to no good. Okay. Grade 9 suspended
38:34
at home, not allowed to go up
38:36
for Halloween, but my dad still wanted
38:39
me to have some fun, so the
38:41
fireworks in Canada are pretty tame. So
38:43
we used to actually drive across the
38:45
border down to Blaine, Washington. We would
38:48
buy the fun fireworks and then we'd
38:50
bring them back up to Canada. So
38:52
my dad's like, listen, you gotta stay
38:54
home, but let's go down and get
38:56
you some fireworks. So he's kind of
38:59
to blame here a little bit, I
39:01
would think. Halloween's going on. I'm in
39:03
the backyard lighting off our fireworks, having
39:05
fun. My little brother comes home from
39:08
trick-or-treating, his friend is there with him.
39:10
It's getting later in the night my
39:12
parents decided to go down the street
39:14
to a friend's house to see them
39:16
for a little bit. Little brother and
39:19
his friend are in bed and I'm
39:21
wide awake. I've got a basket full
39:23
of fireworks and don't know if you
39:25
remember the movie Problem Child was a
39:27
movie early in the 90s about a
39:30
family that adopted a boy who looked
39:32
beautiful but was very mischievous. Oh my
39:34
God. There's a scene in the movie
39:36
when he lights an at Mady at
39:39
school. Flushes it down the toilet and
39:41
the ambide goes all the way over
39:43
to the other washroom where the principle
39:45
is and it blows all the water
39:47
out of the toilet. Oh, what a
39:50
great plan. Right? Let's give it a
39:52
try. I've only got a little bottle
39:54
rocket. I light it. I drop it
39:56
in the toilet and starts to spiral
39:58
around and around and around. It's not
40:01
going down. It blows and it cracks
40:03
the entire toilet base. Water starts gushing
40:05
out. It's pouring everywhere. Now I'm 13.
40:07
I don't know there's a water valve
40:10
right behind. I'm grabbing towels. I'm trying
40:12
to put it around. I give it
40:14
about three minutes and pretty much I'm
40:16
going to bed. Oh! Oh my God,
40:18
yes, God bless your parents. Hold on,
40:21
all that, all that, all that. There's
40:23
so much here already. Three minutes. The
40:25
notion that it was a good idea
40:27
for you to. put a firework in
40:29
the toilet inside your house. This is
40:32
like, if you got a 13 year
40:34
old boy at home, anything's on the
40:36
table. I know. Like, I can see
40:38
that making sense to me, but why
40:41
would that make? And then another thing,
40:43
shame on your, you should have known
40:45
where the fucking shut off valve was.
40:47
You got to teach your kids or
40:49
shut off valve over. There's a fucking
40:52
nozzle behind the toilet and you crank
40:54
it to. Diff in the bed and
40:56
pretend it wasn't me. Oh boy. Literally
40:58
lying in bed waiting to hear the
41:01
front door open and then coming home
41:03
and also thinking, please hurry up and
41:05
come home because the basement is flooding.
41:07
Did you take the rocket out? No,
41:09
it's still in there. Okay. You just
41:12
threw your hands in the air. Exactly.
41:14
I hear the front door open. I
41:16
hear my parents come in and then
41:18
my dad was six, six, two hundred
41:20
sixty pound, very big band, very intimidating.
41:23
All of a sudden you hear, what
41:25
the fuck? Mama pulls me, my brother,
41:27
and my brother's friend, out, plines us
41:29
up. Now they shut the water off
41:32
because they know what the valve is.
41:34
And they're like, who did this? And
41:36
I'm keeping my mouth shut. My dad
41:38
lost his temper a little bit. Remember
41:40
the old big computer monitors? Yes. Yeah.
41:43
So there was one of those in
41:45
the room you're standing in. He may
41:47
have broke it in anger. When the
41:49
monitor broke I knew right then I
41:51
I was never going to admit to
41:54
doing this. Yep. Right, yeah, yeah. I
41:56
was sleeping. Must have been my brother
41:58
and his friend. Oh. My father was
42:00
a good kid. He didn't do anything.
42:03
Sounds like he's got a buddy sleeping
42:05
over. He was loved to trick-or-treat. By
42:07
the way, I can't even believe they're
42:09
asking. It's so obviously you. Clearly, they
42:11
end up sending my brother's friend home.
42:14
Me and my brother are grounded for
42:16
another two months. I'm grounded for another.
42:18
He gets a grounding he didn't deserve.
42:20
Ironically, it's his birthday-to-day happy birthday Blair,
42:22
and I'm very sorry. It's a confession
42:25
to you as well. Oh, poor Blair.
42:27
That is the time that I blew
42:29
up our toilet on Halloween. Oh. And
42:31
you never confess, you just stood strong.
42:34
I got in trouble so much that
42:36
I saw how mad he was. Now
42:38
let me ask you this, if he
42:40
hadn't broke the computer monitor, do you
42:42
think you would have confessed? I don't
42:45
think in that moment. I was already
42:47
in a grounding. I handled every part
42:49
of it wrong. Did your brother try
42:51
to rat you out? I actually convinced
42:54
my brother it was his friend. The
42:56
sad part is it cost him that
42:58
friendship. They never hung out again because
43:00
he was like, you need to admit
43:02
to do it. And I was like,
43:05
like you said, who would blow up
43:07
their own toilet, right? Clearly it had
43:09
to have been the friend who was
43:11
over, who had this idea. Oh, yes,
43:13
this is really for Blair. Happy birthday,
43:16
Blair. And so sorry that Travis perpetrated
43:18
all this on you. I love you
43:20
Blair. He made it. I made it.
43:22
My wife and I are trying to
43:25
have a family right now. And my
43:27
mom and dad keep saying to me,
43:29
you're going to get a trap. Yeah.
43:31
I will have a travesty of my
43:33
own and I will know what it's
43:36
like to walk in their shoes. When
43:38
I look back at what happened throughout
43:40
my teen years, amazing parents. Well, Travis,
43:42
thank you for that. That was great.
43:44
I just wanted to say one thing.
43:47
Dax, the very first episode I listened
43:49
to was Gwenith Peltro, the very first
43:51
time you had. Oh. You said something
43:53
that impacted my entire career. And I
43:56
don't remember a word for word. what
43:58
it was, but it's always stuck with
44:00
me. When you're working on a project,
44:02
you're always kind of focused on finishing
44:04
and what the reward is. And the
44:07
real reward is the journey. I've got
44:09
to go everywhere about to cook with
44:11
amazing chefs, but I've always kept that
44:13
mind of, I'm here right now, and
44:15
in 20 years, I'm going to remember
44:18
this moment, not the reward. It to
44:20
me has been just such a great
44:22
motto to really. recognize how special everything
44:24
is. I just really appreciate the shows
44:27
you guys do. Travis, thank you. I'm
44:29
so delighted. We hope you have a
44:31
great rest of your day. Yeah, take
44:33
care brother. Nice meeting you. Thanks guys.
44:35
Well, that was fun. I wonder if
44:38
this will instigate a slew of people
44:40
confessing stuff to their parents. The only
44:42
one of these that I would think
44:44
the parent actually didn't know would be
44:47
Noah. You think... Oh the shit. I
44:49
guess they don't think it, sir. You're
44:51
right. But they won't care. If they
44:53
find out now, you mean? Yeah. But
44:55
the heart attack, the mom's still gonna
44:58
go, that could have bankrupted us. Exactly.
45:00
Noah? All right, well, love you. Love
45:02
you. Do you want to sing a
45:04
tune or something? When it was a
45:06
theme song? We
45:09
don't have a thing, so for this new
45:11
show, so here I go, go, go. We're
45:14
gonna ask some random questions, and with the
45:16
help of armchairies, we'll get some suggestions. On
45:18
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45:20
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