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2:04

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2:06

Us Anything. We got heaps of questions

2:09

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2:11

be answering them for you guys. Okay.

2:14

Is there a TikTok you wish you

2:16

never posted? Me? Yeah. Oh

2:18

my God, there's multiple. Really? Well,

2:21

I feel like

2:23

I, I was like,

2:26

and I still really, oh my

2:28

gosh. I feel like Sam. Do

2:31

we have his videos? I

2:35

put a lot of pressure

2:37

on myself and I always want

2:39

to post at least once

2:41

a day, which has landed me

2:43

in a bit of trouble

2:45

sometimes because it leaves you with

2:47

very little time to think

2:49

about what you're saying and what

2:52

you're posting. And

2:54

one, I

2:57

will say, I've posted

2:59

multiple videos that I regret

3:01

posting. One

3:03

of them would obviously have to be the one

3:05

that when I was in New York, you

3:08

guys all know the one I'm referring

3:10

to. I'm not even going to go

3:12

into that. No, I

3:14

don't think so. I can't remember what happened

3:16

to it. I mean,

3:18

oh, there was another video. Dude,

3:21

I'm dying. I did this. So

3:23

when we were going through COVID, I

3:26

did. a COVID test

3:28

and I had my pajamas

3:31

on and I actually

3:33

accidentally did a nip slip.

3:36

Yeah. And I

3:38

posted it and it was

3:40

under review. And I

3:42

was like, what's happening? So

3:44

I rewatched it and realized I

3:46

had given a nip slip, deleted

3:49

it, but had already

3:51

posted it on YouTube,

3:54

I think. And so I had to delete

3:56

that, but only like. 20 people saw

3:58

it and I don't think they saw my

4:00

nip slip but um yeah so things

4:02

like that they they would probably be

4:04

my main ones that I

4:07

wish I never posted what about

4:09

you oh there's so many

4:11

to choose from honestly I Never

4:13

regret anything in the moment,

4:15

and then I'll get you know

4:17

this tiktok flashbacks. Mmm, brah.

4:19

So cringe. I would delete every

4:21

single tiktok I've ever posted

4:24

for the last three years up

4:26

until today. I literally

4:28

hate seeing those flashbacks.

4:30

It's so cringey. Like,

4:32

I don't know. It's

4:34

just so wild, but that's how

4:36

you start. Exactly. Exactly. And

4:38

got to be cringey. And

4:40

we'll probably look back at our videos now as well

4:43

from three years from now and be like, what

4:45

the hell are you thinking? But

4:47

yeah, there's so many. But is there

4:50

one particular one that I wish I

4:52

never posted? See, I don't

4:54

think I can think of one

4:56

because obviously everything that I posted

4:58

has led me to where I

5:00

am. But can you think of

5:02

one? Yeah, the one in New York. Oh,

5:04

no, for me. Oh, for you. Well,

5:08

I know you might

5:10

regret posting certain people on

5:12

your TikTok, but I

5:14

feel like that's taught you a lesson

5:16

as well. What do you think? Yeah,

5:20

definitely. But I

5:22

don't think there's anything to, you're

5:24

not very, you're very

5:26

like, can I

5:28

be real? Yeah. You're very

5:30

like, there's no drama.

5:32

Yeah. I don't like

5:34

to cause drama. But it's

5:36

like the opposite to me. Whereas,

5:38

and I like to share

5:40

my opinion a lot, which I

5:42

know sometimes triggers people. So

5:44

that that could be reasons why

5:46

I have more TikToks that

5:48

I want to delete. But

5:50

at the same time, I feel

5:53

like that's why my audience loves me

5:55

because I'm not afraid to sit

5:57

there and pretend like everything's OK, like

5:59

I speak my mind. But

6:01

probably because my opinion is

6:03

like. I

6:06

probably get cancelled because

6:08

you speak your mind,

6:10

but you can agree.

6:12

I have pretty strong

6:14

opinions. Yeah, but

6:16

like I have strong opinions, but

6:18

I'm also a believer in I

6:21

think everyone is, you know, right

6:23

to have their own opinions and

6:25

how they want to live their

6:27

life is completely up to them.

6:30

So that's why I don't share it

6:32

because I actually don't care what other

6:34

people do. I just care about me.

6:36

Why would I care about you? Like

6:38

I don't even know you. Yeah. Yeah.

6:40

Yeah. You know, but yeah, no, that's,

6:42

that's true. And I guess it's good

6:44

because yeah, I don't really regret everything.

6:46

Obviously there's a lot of things that

6:48

I think are cringy, but anything that

6:50

I've regretted, I just delete before it

6:52

even gets big. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

6:54

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. What if you were

6:57

like a little kid and you know

6:59

that outfit you used, you're wearing in

7:01

that photo I showed you with like

7:03

the bright purple. What

7:06

if you were posting stuff like

7:08

that? I probably have. Does

7:10

that cringe you out or embarrass you

7:12

or you regret? Or do you think

7:14

it's funny? Yeah, but I'm not like

7:16

I wish I never posted that because

7:18

it's just like who you were. It

7:20

added to my glow up. Yeah. I

7:23

get it. I get it.

7:25

You know? No, that makes sense.

7:27

It doesn't bother me. What

7:29

if you had to swap social

7:31

media accounts with me? What would

7:33

be the first thing that you

7:35

would do? Well, that's

7:38

an interesting one. I

7:42

don't know.

7:45

What would you do if I had

7:47

your access to all your social media

7:49

or am I you for the day? You

7:52

had access to all my

7:54

social media. I've been boring. There's

7:56

nothing really I would like. I

7:59

feel like this might if you

8:02

were like Overprotective

8:04

mother who wanted to search through

8:06

your child's social media that would intrigue

8:08

you and you'd go through messages

8:10

and all that sort of stuff But

8:12

I can't think of anything more

8:14

boring like I wouldn't go through your

8:16

messages But I wouldn't go through

8:18

your messages like that doesn't interest me

8:20

at all you guys would be

8:23

talking about Minecraft movies and I don't

8:25

know what you ate for breakfast

8:27

I Wouldn't even I

8:29

don't even do anything. I just go to sleep. Yeah,

8:31

literally. Because the thing is, if I

8:33

wanted to social media, I could just ask you

8:35

to give it to me and vice versa.

8:37

So, yeah, I mean, there's not really anything. No,

8:40

nothing yet. There's nothing that we would do that would

8:42

be interesting. It would only be interesting if it was

8:44

like, what would you do if you stopped bank accounts

8:46

for a day? Okay. Well, what would

8:48

you do if we stopped bank accounts for

8:50

the day? I'd go by

8:52

jet ski. Wow. Okay.

8:55

What else would you go do? Um,

8:59

that's it. What would

9:01

you do? I would just

9:03

go. Actually, I would go

9:05

by my, um, dual heels and

9:07

the Louis that, um, tote that

9:09

I want. Wow. Suspending all

9:11

my money. buy that Van Cleef bracelet that

9:13

I really want. The gold one. The

9:17

list keeps crawling. Nah,

9:19

Jane, I honestly wouldn't do anything. I

9:21

would just be very curious because you're

9:23

very secretive about how much money you

9:25

make. What do you mean? I

9:27

show you all the time. You never show me.

9:29

But if you asked, I'd you. But sometimes I

9:31

feel bad. Like I don't want to ask you. So

9:34

I would just like go in and

9:36

have a little stalk and be like, wow,

9:38

she has saved a lot. Do want

9:40

to show you? Yeah, show me. Show me.

9:42

Show me. Show me. You can see.

9:44

We can see a reaction. OK. This

9:47

could be funny. Are you

9:49

showing me your savings or? I'll just show

9:51

you like the total. of

9:54

all of them. Okay, God, I'm

9:56

scared. I have like 20 bank accounts,

9:58

so I don't even know how I would show

10:00

you mine. Wait, I don't think it's going to

10:02

load. There's no Wi -Fi in here. Write

10:04

it down. Oh gosh. Okay,

10:09

you got to show me yours though. Well,

10:13

it's hard to... Is

10:15

it actually working? No,

10:17

there's no reception in here. Well, I'll

10:19

give you an estimate then. This is

10:21

like an actual estimate of mine. Mine's

10:24

working. I'll show you. Don't ask me to

10:26

get you anything. I'm not joking. I'll show

10:28

you my business account. This

10:31

is just an estimate, but mind

10:33

you, a lot of this is tax

10:35

and stuff. Yeah. Well,

10:41

that's crazy, girl.

10:45

Well, probably about

10:47

the same if we add it all up

10:49

because I got five different accounts. But

10:52

there you go. But yeah, I

10:54

wouldn't spend your money. You

10:56

wouldn't. No, I wouldn't either. Yes,

10:58

you would. No, I wouldn't.

11:00

I wouldn't because I don't like

11:02

to spend my money. So that's

11:04

why I wouldn't want to spend

11:06

yours. No, I would just be

11:08

a sticky beak and I'd have

11:10

a little looksie about where you

11:13

are at in life. You see,

11:15

honestly, all the money I do

11:17

spend is just on the gym. Cause

11:20

I like to do like three classes

11:22

a week and then my membership and

11:24

then anything else would just be gross.

11:26

Wait, so you have to pay for

11:28

your lessons? Your gym? No, like the

11:30

boxing lessons that I do. Yeah. Okay.

11:32

I have to pay for that. Gotcha.

11:34

But no, I don't do lessons at

11:36

the gym. So not lessons classes. Yeah.

11:38

Yeah. Yeah. But yeah, I just spend

11:40

a lot of money on gym and

11:42

food. Yeah. That's it.

11:45

Yeah. But that's all investments,

11:47

you know, investments into your

11:49

health. Yeah, love that. I

11:51

mean, I'm the same, except I don't spend a lot

11:53

of money at the gym. So

11:56

I don't do classes.

11:58

I just spend it all on for your PT. Oh,

12:01

yeah, true. But that's that's that's

12:03

over now. Oh, I might start back

12:05

up when I get back to Australia.

12:07

Well, maybe that's what I'd buy. I'd

12:09

just buy a few more classes for

12:11

the week. Nice.

12:13

Nothing interesting. Oh,

12:17

this will be interesting for you,

12:19

because I feel like no one

12:21

is in my DMs, but who's

12:23

the most famous person that's been

12:25

in your DMs? You're not

12:27

even going to name drop you're so

12:29

annoying. You know who it is. Yeah,

12:31

I know who it is. They're not

12:33

even that famous. They are,

12:35

but that's probably it. Yeah,

12:37

right. Who's the most famous person

12:39

that's followed you? It's

12:43

so weird. It's hard to

12:45

know. And I'm James Charles.

12:48

Oh, yeah. Probably. Yeah.

12:50

Yeah. Yeah. Um, dangers is

12:52

definitely bad baby. Yeah. But

12:54

in saying that, like, that's

12:56

the one that we've noticed because we

12:58

followed them. So it's so hard to

13:01

know. there's so many people that I'm

13:03

like, Oh, I didn't even realize they're

13:05

following me. Yeah. Yeah. So that's who

13:07

I would probably say. Yeah. Um,

13:09

but then also it's like, well,

13:11

what about Sarah? She

13:14

has like 18 million followers on

13:16

Tik Tok. Sarah Magasua. Yeah, but

13:18

it's different. But I'd

13:21

consider James like famous

13:23

because his longevity of

13:25

career and everything. not

13:27

only that. I

13:30

say followers? No, see, this is what

13:32

I feel. There's people

13:34

who have like way more

13:36

followers, right? But

13:38

the type of content Sarah creates is like

13:40

dancing and stuff like that. And

13:43

she does like do a little bit of

13:45

family vlogging, but there's a

13:47

lot of people that follow her

13:49

that just follow her for the

13:51

dancing. So they probably don't know

13:53

her as well as James Charles,

13:55

who predominantly just does talking videos,

13:57

get ready with me videos. So

14:00

a lot of more people know

14:02

him as a person. So

14:04

I feel like people have different

14:06

types of relationships with certain types

14:09

of influences, if that makes sense.

14:13

Why is the most famous person that's

14:15

followed you? Literally

14:18

no one. Are we

14:20

talking from Australia? Or just

14:23

anywhere? I honestly don't

14:25

know. I've never freaked

14:27

out. hard. I've never really thought

14:29

of who is the most famous. The

14:31

Madeleine Argie is her name? Oh

14:33

yeah, she follows you? No, she follows

14:35

Deja. Everyone follows Deja. I was

14:37

going to say Deja has all the

14:39

famous people. Famous fun people. But

14:43

yeah, I don't know. Probably

14:45

no one. Yeah,

14:47

literally no one. Interesting.

14:52

No one that I know of anyway. Okay,

14:55

if you weren't creators, what would you

14:58

be doing right now? Nothing.

15:02

Like it's hard to think because I'm like,

15:05

if this didn't work out, like

15:07

there's just. It was just meant to work out like

15:10

there's no other way my life would have gone. I

15:12

don't know how to explain it, but it's just like

15:14

destiny. Um,

15:17

yeah. If this,

15:19

if we weren't creators, we'd probably be

15:21

doing it really tough right now. I'd

15:24

probably have a nine to five job. Yeah.

15:27

What the hell? I'd probably

15:29

be stressed out of my eyeballs.

15:32

The thing is. It

15:35

was just fate. I don't know

15:37

how to explain it. But

15:40

it was just something we were always meant

15:43

to do. Yeah, I

15:45

definitely feel like our

15:47

paths led us here. Me

15:50

starting a clean eating cafe

15:52

and that failing led me into

15:54

content creation. Me

15:56

being, you

15:58

know, having my job interact

16:01

with people and get to know

16:04

people and understand how people are led

16:06

me into content creation. Like everything

16:08

that we've done and struggled with in

16:10

life has led us to this

16:12

point. But yeah, if we weren't in

16:14

content creation, I don't know, I'd

16:16

probably be doing something frickin random as

16:19

hell. Well, like I'm just trying

16:21

to think because like doing this has

16:23

made me who I am. So

16:25

I'm like, who would I even be?

16:28

I really I

16:31

can't even imagine. Yeah,

16:33

it gets really hard for me to imagine. Yeah.

16:37

Do you reckon you'd still be in uni? mean,

16:39

I guess so. You sound so

16:42

depressed. Probably.

16:45

Oh, funny, fun times.

16:50

Do you have a fan interaction

16:52

that's really stuck with you? I

16:55

mean, I remember at

16:57

our basically besties tour. there

17:00

was a mother that came up to

17:02

us and she had a baby six weeks

17:04

ago. Do you remember that lady? And

17:07

she came to our show and she was

17:09

like, I couldn't miss it. Oh no, I think

17:11

it was like a week ago. A

17:14

week, like she literally just

17:16

popped the baby out. And

17:19

she's like, you guys have inspired me so much. I

17:21

just had to come to the show and I was

17:23

like, what the hell girl? You need to go home

17:25

with your baby. But that was really. touching

17:28

to me like her story and

17:30

just hearing about what she had

17:32

been through that type. Those type

17:34

of fan interactions mean a lot

17:36

to me, especially women who have

17:38

been through like DV. Like I

17:40

just love hearing that they're no

17:43

longer dealing with that. Every

17:45

single fan interaction like that

17:48

is amazing for me. Yeah. What

17:50

about you? Yeah. Well,

17:52

I think just anybody who comes up and

17:55

You know really tells us like why

17:57

they follow us and if we've like

18:00

helps them in any way. For

18:02

sure. Yeah. Yeah,

18:04

I agree. And even Deja gets

18:06

those type of interactions as well, but

18:08

like just here. I love it

18:10

when people tell us about themselves. I

18:12

don't. I'm not not like it,

18:14

like when people are like, can we

18:16

get a photo and then run

18:18

away? Like I get it, but I

18:20

do truly like it when people

18:22

say, hey, I listened to basically besties

18:24

or, you know, they want to

18:27

have a conversation with us. They're

18:29

the type of interactions

18:31

I like that are like

18:34

real and conversational. That's

18:37

true. Yeah. What

18:39

do you dislike the most

18:41

about your job? Hmm.

18:44

Maybe like

18:46

how unsafe

18:49

it is,

18:51

I guess. Like

18:54

just in terms of it can literally all be

18:56

gone tomorrow. That's probably I

18:58

guess the thing I dislike

19:00

the most about it. Yeah, I

19:02

agree. It's very,

19:04

it feels very risky. Yeah,

19:07

it's just a little bit risky. Yeah,

19:09

it's just risky in all regards

19:11

of your life. I guess anything

19:13

that you share. Yeah, you just

19:15

have to be willing to deal

19:17

with anything that comes along with

19:20

it. And it's scary that you,

19:22

like what Tisha was saying, you

19:25

could all be gone tomorrow type

19:27

of thing. And I remember when

19:29

I was like at my peak

19:31

getting, you know, a heap of

19:33

brand deals and then. Got

19:35

a little bit canceled and

19:37

remember I had companies pulling out

19:40

of brand deals with me. That's

19:43

scary knowing that you know

19:45

if you slip up you

19:47

could lose your job or

19:50

whatever. But I

19:52

also it puts a lot

19:54

of pressure on yourself to be

19:56

able to you have to. Well

19:59

obviously a lot of people are different

20:01

but for me like I. don't want

20:03

to lose my job. That's how I

20:05

feed my family. So there's a lot

20:07

of pressure on me to be able

20:09

to create good content, make sure you

20:11

guys are enjoying it, that type of

20:13

thing. But

20:15

it is scary. Yeah. But

20:18

that's, I guess, the reason why

20:20

we created a backup plan. I

20:22

guess you could call it. You

20:25

know, I started Colada

20:27

I didn't go out and spend my

20:29

money on I mean at the

20:31

beginning I was definitely buying stupid shit

20:33

but Towards the middle of it.

20:35

I was like we need to actually

20:37

do something because if it does

20:39

Fail if I do you know have

20:41

brands not wanting to work with

20:43

me at least I still got my

20:46

baby Colada. Yeah, you know what

20:48

I mean true a lot of influences.

20:50

I don't think think of a

20:52

backup plan which is I get it

20:54

they're young and they want to

20:56

live their life and that's cool but

20:58

for me it was very important

21:00

for me to have that. That's true.

21:03

If you had to go on

21:05

a reality TV show, which one

21:07

would you choose and why? I

21:09

don't watch reality TV. Like

21:12

I've never watched a reality TV show start

21:14

to front so I don't really, I don't

21:16

even know what Big Brother is. Are you

21:18

joking? No, I'm not. I don't

21:20

know what they do. We've been

21:22

doing Big Brother vote out. Every Friday.

21:24

I don't know what big brother

21:27

is. Do you want me to explain

21:29

it to you? Well, you're gonna

21:31

get an explanation. So basically it's a

21:33

group of people that stay in

21:35

a house and they've got cameras everywhere

21:37

and they just watch them and

21:39

every week you have to vote someone

21:41

out until you're left with one

21:43

person and that's the winner. Okay, can

21:45

I do wipe out? What is

21:47

that the obstacle course? Oh, yeah. Yeah.

21:49

Yeah. That's all. Oh, what about

21:51

no master chef? Oh, that would be

21:54

fine. I would love to do

21:56

master chef on my kitchen rules. Yeah.

21:58

Yeah. That would only reality

22:00

show I would do. I can't

22:02

do survival. Celebrity get me out of

22:04

here. No, maths. No, what you

22:06

invited on maths. No, I was invited

22:08

on. I've been invited on a

22:10

lot of shows. No, you were invited

22:12

by maths. No, love Island. Oh,

22:14

love Island and the bachelor. Oh,

22:16

and celebrity get me out of here. Yeah.

22:19

And I feel like there's one

22:21

more, but I turned them

22:24

all down. Yeah. No, reality

22:26

shows not a buy. Unless

22:28

it's our own, that would be kind of fun. But

22:31

no, no, it's too

22:33

dangerous. The great thing about

22:36

being vloggers is you

22:38

get to control the narrative.

22:41

Whereas when you're on a reality

22:43

TV show, you're Someone could make

22:45

you out to look like a

22:48

total cow. Yeah, and everyone hates

22:50

you. Yeah, it's not the

22:52

vibe. just don't really like how they,

22:54

like I get it, you need to

22:56

have, you know, certain people to be

22:58

like the bitch or the funny one,

23:00

but I don't like how producers put, I've

23:03

just heard too many horror

23:05

stories. Yeah, and I agree. So,

23:07

well, my friend. Cause

23:09

I was invited on a reality TV

23:11

show and I messaged my friend

23:14

Jazz who lives in New Zealand. Oh,

23:16

it that one? And it was

23:18

me. No, I got invited as well.

23:21

And I messaged her and I was

23:23

like, should we go on it?

23:25

And she's like, don't do it. Cause she had

23:27

a bad experience. And I was like, well,

23:29

that's enough for me to say no, like

23:31

hell no. But

23:34

yeah. So what one would you go

23:36

on then? None.

23:40

You have to choose one. I have

23:42

to choose one? I

23:45

was going to say. No,

23:47

I won't say that. My

23:50

strange addiction. What the hell

23:52

is that? I don't know. It's just people with

23:54

like addictions. I don't have an addiction. One of them

23:56

like eats like the mattress. What

23:58

about that kid swap one? or where

24:00

the nanny comes in and like... Oh

24:02

my gosh, hell no. That's like my

24:04

biggest fear. No, and then they snap

24:06

some sense into Deja. I'll do that

24:08

one. Super nanny

24:11

or something. Super nanny, yeah. Let's

24:13

do that one. And I'll

24:15

just be sitting in the corner being like, yeah,

24:17

listen to her, mate. Yeah,

24:19

that's what I would do.

24:22

Interesting. What's the most

24:24

outrageous thing someone has said

24:26

about you in the comments section?

24:29

To be honest, I could literally

24:31

say anything and I can guarantee that somebody

24:33

said it and also there's so many

24:35

outrageous things that people have said. I

24:38

don't really know because I don't really dwell

24:40

on comments like. I've learned

24:42

how to deal with it. Yeah,

24:45

you know, one of the

24:47

most outrageous things that was commented

24:49

recently was me, Jackson

24:51

and Deja did a dance

24:53

on the collado page and

24:55

someone commented is that Deja's

24:57

dad. And

25:01

Jackson was like, yeah, a white

25:03

guy and an Asian girl made

25:05

a black baby. Yeah,

25:09

I mean, some of

25:11

the comments are just laughable.

25:14

I just, I hate negative

25:16

comments and I love that

25:18

TikTok has a feature to

25:21

Um that automatically hides the

25:23

comments and sometimes I go

25:25

into that because there's like

25:27

a little button that says

25:29

review comments and you click

25:31

on it and all the

25:33

negative comments pop up right

25:35

hot tip for anyone who

25:37

wants to get people banned

25:39

if you report those comments

25:41

they automatically get a strike

25:43

like Yeah, it's actually really good

25:45

because you know how you sometimes report a

25:47

comment and they're like not approved. I

25:50

report comments all the just

25:52

delete but rarely. No, reporting

25:54

is so much more satisfying because they

25:56

get a strike. So start

25:58

doing that. Um, anyways,

26:00

um, sometimes I'll get

26:03

a really outrageously rude comment and

26:05

I approve it. So that

26:07

people can see how crazy some

26:09

people sometimes I approve them

26:11

because I'm just like it's funny

26:13

it is funny so yeah

26:15

I mean the outrageous ones I

26:17

feel a. I saw Kat

26:19

Clark walking in a shopping center

26:21

and she looks like such

26:23

a bitch unlike. Okay,

26:25

I have RBF, I'm sorry. Do

26:28

you want me to smile every

26:30

second of the day? Yeah, you

26:32

saw me from 500 meters away,

26:34

like what? Yeah, like calm down,

26:36

I'm not a puppet. I

26:38

don't have to smile every five seconds. If

26:40

you come up to me and say hello,

26:42

obviously I'm gonna smile and interact with you,

26:45

but if you're looking at me like I'm

26:47

a freak, then maybe that explains my RBF.

26:49

You know what I mean? So

26:52

yeah, those comments really Piss

26:55

me off like oh, I saw her and

26:57

she looks like oh, yeah all people be like

26:59

I went to school with her and I'm

27:01

like Who the fuck are you? Literally

27:03

in my life Literally

27:05

those aren't a lot. They're

27:07

so crazy So yeah,

27:09

they're the annoying ones What's

27:11

your biggest pet peeve

27:13

about each of your family

27:15

members? It should be

27:17

interesting Get it out Tisha. All right.

27:19

Well dad will start off with

27:21

dad My biggest pet peeve

27:24

about dad. Wait, what is a

27:26

pet peeve? It's like something that

27:28

annoys you about that person. Oh,

27:30

I know what he's just very

27:32

Reactive you're like, hey, can you

27:34

go do this? And he's like,

27:36

yeah, let's do it like very

27:38

like full -on and very intense 100

27:40

% like has to get it

27:42

done like it's there's no chill

27:44

It's like bro. It can wait

27:46

till tomorrow. was just asking you

27:48

a simple question. Yeah It's very

27:50

annoying and like very It's intense

27:52

like sometimes it can be very like sometimes

27:54

I'll like slightly mention something to me and

27:56

then later that night he'll send me like

27:58

17 documents to sign and he's like I've

28:00

set this up for you. I'm like why?

28:05

Something that annoys me about Deja is

28:07

she's very messy. She leaves

28:09

everything everywhere. She has no regard for anybody

28:12

else. Oh my god. When she comes over

28:14

to my house and the next day I

28:16

have to take the day off to clean. Do

28:19

you use stuff everywhere? Tisha, I have

28:21

to get the cleaner in twice a week.

28:23

The next day, her room is messy. And

28:26

I'm like, how? How did you?

28:28

I saw your floor 24 hours ago

28:30

and now gone. Where is it?

28:32

It's just like, frustrating as

28:34

hell. And then last

28:36

night, I came

28:38

home from work,

28:40

6 .30 PM, exhausted, don't

28:43

want to... Clean the house or whatever days

28:45

just left a gym bag on the table. So

28:48

I start cooking dinner and I call her

28:50

down. She's annoyed already that I've called her down.

28:52

She's like, what do you want? I'm like,

28:54

stay down here and start cleaning girl. So I

28:56

tell her to put a load of washing

28:58

on. She's like, how do I turn it on?

29:01

What do I do? Like I had

29:03

to step her through everything. And I'm like, you're

29:05

14 years old and you still don't know

29:07

how to do a load of washing. So

29:10

annoying. my god. And

29:12

I'm the only person to blame, but

29:14

it's still annoying. But

29:16

yeah, that's the same as me for Deja. But

29:19

what about me? What's your pet peeve about me? I

29:21

hate how you chew gum. This

29:23

is how mom chews gum. Mouth

29:27

open, clacking. And

29:29

then if I tell her to stop, she'll

29:31

do it louder on purpose. So

29:33

yeah. Okay. Well, do you know what

29:36

my pet peeve is about? What? When

29:38

we're at work working and you've been at work for two

29:40

hours and you're like, I got to go. I'm like, where are

29:42

you going? I got to go mop my floors. Yeah.

29:44

Well, that happened yesterday. By

29:47

the way, she left work early

29:49

to go mop her floors.

29:51

Yes. And do you think I

29:53

don't want to be at home mopping

29:55

my floors? This is why your house is

29:57

dirty and mine is clean because I'm

29:59

staying at work and getting that coin because

30:01

I have an agenda. I have a

30:04

calendar that I have to stick by. And

30:06

you have mobbing floors in your calendar?

30:08

Yes. Oh, I'm embarrassed. Okay, mom. Like seriously.

30:10

Okay. These things need to

30:13

be prioritized. If I didn't,

30:15

if I just stay and also I stayed at

30:17

work for long yesterday and I also had to

30:19

go back because my meat was defrosting and I

30:21

had to put it in the fridge. Wow.

30:23

Okay. There's a double meaning

30:25

behind everything. Okay. Alrighty

30:31

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