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welcome to another episode of short

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and sweet. Sweet. Sweet, sweet. Today

2:11

we're doing best relationship advice. I've

2:13

had some bad advice too. Yes.

2:15

You talk about good and bad

2:17

advice that you and I have

2:20

both gotten. Yes. Oh, I just,

2:22

for some reason, like a lightning

2:24

rod moment, it just like, what

2:26

came to my brain, like, the

2:29

worst advice when you just said

2:31

that? Tell me. Well, and I

2:33

understand why it existed, and I'm

2:35

sure there's some value to it.

2:38

But remember when it used to

2:40

be, it probably still like, oh

2:42

my God, wait, I'm just, I

2:44

have a feeling you're just, I

2:47

have a feeling you're gonna. say

2:49

what I was thinking too, but

2:51

go. Oh, I don't know, now

2:53

there's pressure. No, just this like

2:55

hard to get, hard to get

2:58

at mass, like that you're meant

3:00

to be unavailable and that you're

3:02

meant to manufacture or somehow strategize

3:04

this unavailability to then create more

3:07

intrigue or like stir up the

3:09

wanting. I just feel like that

3:11

advice. really messed with my head

3:13

when I was dating. It's so

3:16

hard though because if you're the

3:18

only one, I feel like everyone

3:20

in their like teens, 20s, has

3:22

that advice or feels that way

3:25

and so then if you're the

3:27

only one not playing the game,

3:29

yes, then that like what does

3:31

that do? Like do you look

3:34

desperado? Like if someone waits like

3:36

five hours to write you back

3:38

and then you text back immediately,

3:40

are you desperate Dan? Oh, good

3:42

for you. You came up with

3:45

a different man's name. It's not

3:47

Desperate Bob. It's only... because the

3:49

saying is desperate Dan. Oh, where's

3:51

that saying? It's like, oh, wait,

3:54

now it's making me think that

3:56

like a desperate Dan. My brother's

3:58

name is Dan. Have we just

4:00

been teasing him about that? I

4:03

thought I was a worldwide thing.

4:05

I've never heard of a desperate

4:07

Dan. Oh, yeah, no, no, no.

4:09

It's a desperate Dan. It's a

4:12

car, a comic book character. Yeah,

4:14

it makes you for a second

4:16

there. I thought we had just

4:18

invented to make it to make

4:21

fun of. Yeah, you're then a

4:23

desperate dad and like you're the

4:25

and then they're like wow eager

4:27

Yeah, yeah, yes, I think I

4:29

probably was when I really liked

4:32

someone I probably What I definitely

4:34

wanted to answer right away You

4:36

want to yeah, of course you

4:38

want to you're so excited Yeah,

4:41

I think the worst piece of

4:43

advice I ever got was to

4:45

basically like in the early days

4:47

really keep up appearances like there

4:50

was no like Yeah, you can

4:52

meet up and like not be

4:54

all decked out makeup ways on

4:56

hair wise. Like I was a

4:59

full-on like Hollis and Tierra. Yeah,

5:01

you're a red carpet ready. I

5:03

was red carpet ready for, you

5:05

know, three months of dating. There

5:08

was not a like a, and

5:10

also I did the whole thing

5:12

in bridesmaids where I was gonna

5:14

say. Why? Roll out of bed,

5:16

sneak out of bed, make sure

5:19

that you look all the ways,

5:21

get back in bed, be like,

5:23

I just woke up. Yes, I

5:25

know. And screw that, that's ridiculous.

5:28

I was cute. I didn't feel

5:30

cute though. That part of life

5:32

has been erased from my memory

5:34

and just like, even the idea

5:37

of having. Like, how did we

5:39

ever get through any of it?

5:41

Those early days where you still

5:43

are wanting to make, like, just

5:46

the most precious impression, and never

5:48

have bad breath, or have to

5:50

poop, or... Yeah, fart. I remember

5:52

being on dates, this is so...

5:55

tragic. I've been being on dates

5:57

and feeling like I should order

5:59

the salad. I wasn't going to

6:01

order the steak and mashed potatoes.

6:03

Yeah. And also part of it

6:06

was because like in case later

6:08

on and you're like in your

6:10

underwear I didn't want to I

6:12

don't want to look full which

6:15

is so insane. Yeah. Also I just

6:17

remember the beginning of relationships quite.

6:19

I actually genuinely wasn't very hungry. Like

6:21

I was all, I was full of,

6:24

I was full of love, or full

6:26

of infatuation, I don't know, but I

6:28

was always like, I didn't, I was

6:31

not hungry. I was like, I'll just

6:33

have a tiny little tomato. Oh no,

6:35

I wanted, I wanted the mac and

6:37

cheese with the, with all the trimmings,

6:40

yeah. But I wasn't gonna do it,

6:42

which is insane, because by the way,

6:44

who cares if in underwear, you look

6:46

like, you've had a full meal, that

6:49

full meal, that's life, that's

6:51

life now. Definitely is though

6:53

I like now. Definitely. I'm

6:56

like, hold a tomato.

6:58

A bucket of wings

7:00

and then a bikini.

7:02

We're good. Fine with

7:05

that. Thank God. Okay,

7:07

best piece of a

7:09

relationship advice. I had someone,

7:11

I was bad in my

7:13

early 20s with name calling

7:16

and I, in, you know,

7:18

fights with my boyfriend.

7:20

I mean, not like, but I would

7:22

call asshole, you know, like I

7:24

would like go for, I would

7:26

do some low blows in my

7:28

20s, you know, and I realized

7:30

someone said to me like, the second

7:33

you lose respect for each

7:35

other and do that, like

7:37

there's really no coming back,

7:39

some most of the time,

7:41

and I realized that was

7:43

true. And so when I got

7:45

into relationship with. I want

7:47

probably Matt, but maybe

7:50

even the boyfriend before

7:52

Matt, I started to really

7:54

watch myself. I know I'm much

7:56

way better at that. You're

7:59

a real fire. Cracker, aren't you?

8:01

I, yeah, yeah. I had to

8:03

tone it down. You were at

8:05

like a 12? I was at

8:08

a 13. And I bought it

8:10

down. I really wanted you at

8:12

like an eight. Even an eight.

8:14

It was a little feisty. I

8:17

had to really put some water

8:19

on it. I remember being fey.

8:21

I remember some feisty times. Well,

8:23

you ever like you listen, you

8:25

fucking. Did you ever like do

8:28

those in fights? Yeah, it's not

8:30

a good thing. It's not a

8:32

good thing. I was, it took

8:34

a lot to get me there,

8:37

but then it was like, you

8:39

kind of wished I'd gone there

8:41

earlier, because then it might not

8:43

be so big. Yeah, yeah. So

8:45

like, I shoulda said. really love

8:48

this so much or hey can

8:50

you cut that out when I

8:52

was at like the at the

8:54

eight yeah but I waited till

8:57

I got pushed to the 13

8:59

I think I waited till like

9:01

29 yeah and then I was

9:03

like hold my first you mother

9:05

yeah and it like the other

9:08

person would be like everything then

9:10

it was so oversized that like

9:12

the other person would be like

9:14

wow yeah That's good advice. That's

9:17

good advice. The caller crew also

9:19

has some advice. Had some advice.

9:21

Yeah, yeah, yeah. We didn't ask

9:23

for the bad advice. Wait, so

9:25

I wait. One more thing to

9:28

add to this. Only because I

9:30

think that it's like it's something

9:32

that's, um, either you will easily

9:34

guess about me or you won't.

9:37

I in middle school, you had

9:39

to take debate in seventh grade.

9:41

When you take debate, proper debate,

9:43

you have to argue, you don't

9:45

know what side you're going to

9:48

argue. So every year, like the

9:50

debate, whatever they are, the conferences,

9:52

they have a topic, and you

9:54

research them, and then you do

9:57

debate, and you have to take

9:59

a position. I remember that really

10:01

cut my teeth. And I became

10:03

really expert at, and I loved

10:05

it. Loved it. Arguing. And by

10:08

the way, both sides. Oh, you

10:10

could have been a lawyer. Yeah, yeah,

10:12

yeah. I think I would have made

10:14

a good lawyer. Yeah, I just, I

10:16

loved the, I loved the logic

10:18

of it. I loved, I actually

10:20

also really loved walking my talk

10:22

here. I loved trying to see

10:24

it from someone else's point of

10:27

you. Right, I found it incredibly

10:29

hard to argue some of the

10:31

things that I did because they

10:33

were not my opinion, my

10:35

personal opinion, but having to

10:37

argue them was a really, really

10:39

good exercise and it made me

10:41

understand the other side a lot

10:43

more. I remember one of the

10:45

first jobs I ever, the real

10:47

jobs I ever had was for

10:49

David Kelly, who's just one of

10:51

the most genius wordsmiths of all time.

10:54

I've gotten to work for some pretty

10:56

great wordsmiths. I know. And you know

10:58

the show it was a it was a law

11:00

show and I remember starting an episode

11:02

and there would be a case and

11:04

I would almost instantly know exactly which

11:06

side of the case that I you know agreed

11:09

with or I was aligned with and his writing

11:11

was so good that by the end of it

11:13

I would have or by the middle of it I

11:15

would have switched sides and by the end of

11:17

it I would have switched back to where I

11:19

started but it was just he was so good

11:21

at it. So I think that stuff's really

11:24

exciting and fun. proving

11:26

people wrong is what I'm

11:28

trying to say. Yeah, I

11:30

love that too. Who doesn't

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14:37

we're going to go through

14:39

your best relationship advice

14:41

and share it with

14:43

everybody. Cheryl said communication

14:45

is key, but understanding one

14:48

another is even more important.

14:50

Love it. Yeah, but I don't

14:53

always understand. Sometimes

14:55

I mean like I can I can perspective

14:57

take but I but I sometimes do go

15:00

I don't really understand Like I don't understand

15:02

what it's like to be you in this

15:04

moment and feel the way you do I

15:06

can respect it, but I might not

15:08

always understand it I think maybe that's

15:10

what's just getting it Because I agree

15:13

with you too. Yeah Siena said the best

15:15

relationship advice I've received is to put

15:17

down all of my issues on paper

15:19

odds are they are built differently than

15:21

what you built them in your head to

15:23

be Hmm, that's cool. Interesting. I

15:26

like that. Date your spouse.

15:28

Agree. Yes, Jennifer. Yes, I

15:30

like to be wooed. So it was

15:32

Matt. You like a little wooing.

15:34

Lacey said, those who don't put

15:36

effort in for you aren't worth

15:39

your effort into them. I agree

15:41

with that. Let them. Hannah, my

15:43

mom always told me to bring

15:45

a newer guy I am seeing

15:47

to a sports event, watch a

15:50

big game, and see if he

15:52

reacts crazy. Oh, that's a good

15:54

one. Yeah. Chico said the best

15:56

way to get over someone is

15:58

to get under. or someone else.

16:01

She goes, I don't agree. I

16:03

don't agree. Oh, do you? Uh,

16:05

I'm having to really think back.

16:08

I think it can be a

16:10

distraction, but no, does it long

16:12

term? I think sometimes it can

16:15

make you miss the other person.

16:17

Oh, especially if the one that,

16:19

the new one, yeah. It can

16:22

make you, if there, if there,

16:24

you know, you're like, oh, it

16:26

was gross. You often even for

16:29

the little things recognizing efforts makes

16:31

a huge difference. Oh, I agree

16:34

with that. Oh, my God. It

16:36

goes a it goes a long

16:38

way. Yep. Julieanna said resolve the

16:41

argument before you both go to

16:43

bed. That's one that people talk

16:45

about. I've not always been successful.

16:48

No, sometimes I'm too heated. I

16:50

know I need to go to

16:52

bed. And it's just not going

16:55

to go anywhere. And I don't

16:57

need to be there until two

16:59

o'clock in the morning. Yeah. Yeah.

17:02

Emily, the best relationship advice I've

17:04

ever received is that a cheater

17:06

will always be a cheater. I

17:09

don't agree. Hmm. Controversy all. I

17:11

say this as someone who's cheated

17:14

in my 20s. I definitely, you

17:16

know, was not always the best

17:18

girlfriend. And, uh, I just, so

17:21

I disagree. I've been with my

17:23

husband for a long time, you

17:25

guys, and I've been very faithful.

17:28

Yeah, baby. I don't know. When

17:30

you're young, you do stupid stuff.

17:32

I think if you're a habitual

17:35

cheater, I think if you're cheating

17:37

in every relationship, then the likelihood

17:39

is that, I don't know if

17:42

you can turn it around. I

17:44

also think that some people feel

17:46

comfortable, like maybe not even necessarily

17:49

relationship specific, but you know, those

17:51

people that just always cut corners,

17:54

they always just sort of fudge

17:56

the truth a little. Yes, why?

17:58

Yes. And I... I think that

18:01

that's like shares some space with

18:03

cheating. I agree. There's a

18:06

comfortability doing things that are

18:08

not totally honest. Yeah. And

18:10

I do think that that's something

18:12

that if you, listen, I think

18:14

if you don't do your work. Yeah.

18:16

Then that could be something that

18:19

lasts for quite a while. Agreed.

18:21

Yep. Raleigh said if you have to

18:23

beg for their attention, they aren't the

18:25

one. Oh, no. We're not begging you

18:28

guys. No way. No way. Laney

18:30

said, my bestie once

18:32

said relationships are like a

18:34

fart. If you're to, if you've

18:36

to force it, it's probably

18:39

shit. Gets me every two. I can't

18:41

be a part of this. I'm a

18:43

suffr, I wish you'd read that

18:46

one actually, Jess. We know how

18:48

you feel about farts. I love

18:50

that. I think it's simple, I

18:53

think that's simple, and I agree.

18:55

Can't force anything. Amelia

18:58

says no message is a

19:00

message. I agree. Bridget, don't

19:02

let friends or families'

19:05

opinions influence you.

19:08

Bridget, I... I've had some

19:10

friends that have had

19:12

some blinders on, and

19:14

it gets tricky because you

19:17

want to help. First off,

19:19

you know what? Friends, unless

19:22

they want advice, don't

19:24

give it. Because I have given

19:26

unsolicited advice before my past. And

19:28

you don't know if that boyfriend

19:30

or girlfriend is renting or they

19:32

are, they're buying, you know, so

19:34

you gotta be, you gotta be

19:36

mindful. Yeah, you do. And you know, yeah, yeah,

19:38

it's a tricky situation. Although sometimes

19:41

your friends, the truth is sometimes

19:43

your friends and families see things

19:45

that you don't see. And that's

19:47

the truth. Laura says, do you like

19:49

him or the idea of him? This has

19:51

helped me so many times. Oh, that's a

19:53

good one. That's a good one. Yeah, it's

19:55

like, do you like him in real life

19:57

or do you like him on paper? Yeah.

20:00

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Larissa, maintain

20:02

your individuality and keep the romance

20:04

alive. I think it's a death

20:06

trap when you become, that person

20:08

becomes your identity. I've seen it

20:10

happen. Jess, you've seen this happen.

20:12

People, for sure. And that person's

20:14

like, suddenly you're like, where'd my

20:16

friend go? Yeah. Sucks. Yep. Okay.

20:18

Michelle, this is a very specific

20:20

one, very specific one. If there

20:22

were two steaks on a plate,

20:24

would he take the better one

20:26

or give it to you? That's

20:28

really, I like that. It's kind

20:30

of like, you know, it reminds

20:32

me of, and I said this

20:34

to Matt this morning, and I

20:37

said this to Matt this morning,

20:39

because he made two cups of

20:41

coffee, he knows, and he gave

20:43

it to me, and then he

20:45

took the sip of the other

20:47

one, and he goes, wait, this

20:49

one's better, you can give her.

20:51

the window seat. He gives her

20:53

the aisle seat and she keeps

20:55

getting her arm bumped by the

20:57

cart that goes by. Do you

20:59

remember this? She talks about like

21:01

how if you get, yes, he

21:03

takes a better seat. That's so

21:05

sweet. I'm still on sweet mat.

21:07

Yeah, he does cue things like

21:09

that. He gives me the better

21:11

cup of coffee and I said,

21:13

no, baby, you keep that cup.

21:15

Because I love him big. Okay,

21:17

Tatum. Oh, I like this one.

21:19

If you wouldn't let your daughters

21:21

go through it, don't let yourself.

21:24

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

21:26

yeah. I feel like you've given

21:28

me that advice sometimes in a

21:30

different way where you're like, yeah,

21:32

about baby jest. I know we've

21:34

talked about baby jest. Yes, yes,

21:36

yes, yes. I love that. I

21:38

think we should end on that

21:40

one. I like caretaking of our

21:42

little selves, of our smaller selves.

21:44

Yeah, because you might not have

21:46

a daughter yet. You might be

21:48

near 20s. Yeah, but just pretend

21:50

like you did. Pretend like you're

21:52

your own daughter. Pretend like you

21:54

matter more than anyone in the

21:56

world and that you want to

21:58

protect and take care of yourself.

22:00

Well, we got out, we've talked

22:02

about being the cheerleader. for yourself.

22:04

You need to be your number

22:06

one fan for you. Yep. You

22:08

gotta do it. Sure do. I

22:10

love this. It helps if you

22:13

have other fans too, but yes.

22:15

Yeah, of course. Of course, but

22:17

sometimes, yeah. Yeah, of course. Of

22:19

course, but sometimes, yeah. Yeah, I

22:21

love it. You guys, I love

22:23

all of these. I'm gonna take

22:25

some of these. Best relationship advice.

22:27

Well, I think I'm gonna also,

22:29

now I'm gonna also, I love

22:31

when we do these do these

22:33

and then I hear these and

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