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to Daily Wisdom Walking the Path with
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the Buddha. Today is our group learning
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program and I'm going to be guiding
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you in a breathing mindfulness meditation session.
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Afterwards I'm going to open up to
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any and all questions that you might
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have related to the path to enlightenment
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as taught by the Buddha. You're going
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to be able to ask your questions
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through Facebook, YouTube or in Zoom. So
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welcome to all of you pleased to
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see you here whether you're joining for
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the first time you're joining regularly. to
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ease us into the meditation. This
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is going to help the mind
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to be able to ease into
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the meditation by bringing some awareness
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to the mind and awareness to
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the breath. Once we're in the
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meditation, I'm going to be providing
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you some guidance during the actual
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meditation. Then we're going to be
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providing you some guidance during the
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actual meditation. Then we're going to
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have a period of time where
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we're all meditating or standing positions.
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those work really well for online
1:55
learning. And if you'd like to
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join in with these chants, if
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you know them, you're more than
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welcome. I'll be back with. some
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guidance
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after
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the
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chanting.
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e Kewakta,
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Kewakta, Tamu,
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Namang, Samami.
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Super-tipano,
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Immakiwakto-Sawakto-Sawak-Sawak-Sawakasang-o,
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Sawakasang-o,
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Sank- Kewa'a-wa-wa-u-wa-wa-a-tou-tase-a-tas-a-nap-moor-a-sap-moor-sap-a-moor-sap-a-tou-tou-s-mass-ap-poot-a-sap-poota-sap-tassap-a-
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Akhavato,
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Aratu, Asamasaputasam,
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Iteepisu.
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Samaasamoto.
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We chacharang
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Samuno. Sakato,
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Rokawito,
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Kawitho.
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Ano,
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Peroporo,
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Pohito.
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Ano,
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Peroporisa.
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Damasati.
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With
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the
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lower
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body
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and
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hands
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and
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arms
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with the lower body and hands and
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arms comfortable. Just
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close the eyes and
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start reading in through
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the nose and out
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through the nose. Here
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you're just looking
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to establish the
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breath. A nice natural
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steady consistent
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breath. Not forced
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or controlled just a
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gradual inhale through
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the nose. experiencing
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the full breath. And
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then whenever you're
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ready, exhale
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out through the nose.
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Breathing in... Your
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breath may not match
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up with the guidance
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that I'm providing, and
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that's okay. This is
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your practice. I'm just
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here for guidance. You
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can use this voice
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as a reminder that
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whenever you get to
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the next inhale, breathing
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gradually through the nose,
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developing a nice, natural,
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steady, consistent breath. And
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then, whenever you're ready,
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Exhale out through
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the nose,
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experiencing
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the full
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breath. Breathing
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in. And
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out. Breathing
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in. With
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the breath well established,
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start fixating the mind
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on the breath. Either
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the sound of the
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breath coming into the
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nose, or the sensation
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of air moving over
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the skin into the
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nose. The breath is
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the present moment. Fixate
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the mind on the breath,
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the present moment.
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in and
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out
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with
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the
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mind
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figure
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on the breath whenever you
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notice that it moves off
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the breath cut that off
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let it go and come
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back to the breath the
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present moment no need to
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observe the thought label it
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judge it analyze it or
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even try to figure out
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where it's coming from whenever
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you notice that the mind
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is moved off the breath
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cut that off let it
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go and come
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back to
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the breath,
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the
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present
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moment.
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Breathing in.
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And out.
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I'm going to be
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quiet now and let
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you do this work
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of focusing on the
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breath, cutting off and
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letting go any time
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the mind moves off
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the breath. You have
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nowhere to go. There's
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nothing to do. No
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one needs you right
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now. This is your
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time to focus. on
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the breath,
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breathing in.
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So, my, my,
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my, my, and
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my, my, and
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my, my, my,
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and my, my,
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my, and my,
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Seyami. Savakato,
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emakavatamom,
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damang,
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amamasami.
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Supertipanu,
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mamasamimin.
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Supertipano,
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emakawa,
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Sawakasangkasangkoh,
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Sangkangamamamya,
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Napurhasa,
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Kewattu, Aratu,
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Sama, Kavatu,
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Aratu, Sama,
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Samputasa, Pah-hah-hah-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-h-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-h-huh-huh-h-huh-h-h-huh-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h
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Aitipi, P,
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Su, Makawa,
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Aara hang,
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Samamo, Oto,
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Weecha, Charranang,
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Samono, Sakato,
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Weecha, Charanang,
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Samono, O,
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Sakato, Rokaw,
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Weito, Anu,
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teropo,
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porisa,
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namazati,
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satatawa,
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manuosanang,
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poto,
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potho,
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pakawa,
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pakawati,
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Okay, if you guys would like to slowly
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make your way out of meditation. Once again,
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welcome to all of you guys in
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our class today. Nice to see everyone
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here. If you would like to ask
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any and all questions that you like
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related to the Paphto Enlightenment, you're welcome
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to do that. You could put that
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into Facebook, YouTube, or Zoom in the
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comment section, or you can raise your
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hand and zoom and ask any and
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all questions that you like. Okay, it looks
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like Leo has a question. Go ahead, sir.
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Hello. Just wanted
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to ask, what do
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you exactly mean? I
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just would like to,
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yeah, I just wanted
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to ask, what do
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you exactly mean
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by renunciation? The
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intention of
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renunciation. Yeah, it's
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letting golf. the mind's
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false belief in the perception
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of true reality. Or what
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I would like more to
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understand is what we mean
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with misperception. Is
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it just about the misperception
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that we are causing our
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own quave attachments or is
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it about all perceptions like
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having perceptions of
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decent bears? Yeah. Yeah, so as
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an individual is born and they
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go through life, their mind is
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conditioned or they pick up certain
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perceptions. What a perception is... a
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view or opinion about how the world
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seems to be, that may or may
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not actually be true. So in the
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unenlight of mind, there are several misperceptions
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that the mind has. One of the
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biggest misperceptions that it has is that
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other people are causing you to be
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angry or frustrated or irritated or annoyed.
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That's one of the biggest ones that
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the unenlight of mind has and what
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keeps it stuck in this constant cycle
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of... experiencing discontented us over and over
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and being reborn over and over. So
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it's the lack of wisdom that's causing
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that in that misperception or the misperceptions
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that are in the mind. are what's
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causing that. And in order to get
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to enlightenment, one of the first things
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that the Buddha teaches you is you
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need to have the intention of renunciation,
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where you're willing to let go of
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your false beliefs, your misperceptions, all of
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this that's in the mind that is
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just not serving you well at all
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because the mind is lacking this wisdom
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and now it can't see true reality.
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So therefore it continues to stay stuck.
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So the mind needs to cultivate
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the intention or thinking or thinking
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or thought of being... willing to
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let go of this conditioning of
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the mind, of these misperceptions, these
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false beliefs, these false opinions, because
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otherwise if you don't let those
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go, you'll never be able to
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cultivate wisdom to be able to
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actually move the mind to enlightenment.
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But then the other part of
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intention of renunciation is to have
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the intention or thinking or thought
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of letting go of your unwholesomeness
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because there's certain unwholesome things that
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you're currently doing that you need to
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be willing to let go of. And
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if you didn't start off the path
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to enlightenment with right intention, which is
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the second step on the aful path
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with the intention of letting these things
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go, then you would never be able
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to get to enlightenment because the mind's
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holding on to these things. Essentially the
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mind is closed and disinterested in thinking
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about... or doing or considering anything else
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than what's currently within one's own mind
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and with a close mind, you'll
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never actually be able to take
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in the wisdom that you need
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to be able to cultivate the
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mind and actually see true
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reality and get to enlighten it.
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We have some examples for on
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openness. Yeah, no, I think I
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know it. It's like like Google
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and stuff like this, right? Yeah,
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these kind of wrongs and things.
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Wrongs. Yeah, action, livelihood, all
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these things. And false beliefs,
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beliefs, in words. mutualism, so
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on of course. You could
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think of a belief or a false
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belief and a misperception as somewhat
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similar. A belief is something that
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you're just believing in, that you
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haven't had any truth or validation.
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You just think that this thing
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is true. A misperception is a
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viewer opinion that you've adopted. that
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you think is true. So they're
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very similar. You can think of
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them in similar ways, but oftentimes
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when we're describing something, we don't
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just use one word, we don't
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just say false beliefs, and we
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don't just say misperceptions because People
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could potentially interpret that in different
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ways. So whenever you're describing something
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like intention of renunciation or any
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of these other teachings, it's helpful
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to use two or three, sometimes
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the Buddha uses four or five
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six words to describe the exact
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same thing so that that way
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you can see it from all
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different angles and there's no
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opportunity for misunderstanding. It's
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the same with choices and decisions, right?
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It seems for me is somehow the
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same word almost. Exactly, it's exactly the
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same word. But see, as life changes,
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as impermanence changes, as a Buddha arises,
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they teach their teachings and they put
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them out there in the world, they
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get preserved, you know, countless people have
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learned them, they die, and now there's
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going to be this long period of
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time where people are trying to look
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at a Buddha's work and what they
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taught to be able to get to
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enlightenment. and they need to be able
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to account for the changing world, that
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people are going to change their language
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and change the way that they speak
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about things. So by using two, three,
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four, five different words to talk about
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the same thing, then... the Buddhist teachings
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are better preserved for future generations to
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then be able to get to enlightenment
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rather than just use one word because
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if that word changes in the way
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that it's being used in modern language
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then boom people don't know how to
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get to enlightenment anymore so if
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we can account for imperminence
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by using multiple words that
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are pointing to the same
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thing because the definition of
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words change over time due
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to imperminence. Okay,
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and the misperception topic
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I think is also interesting
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because I think often I
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don't know, I don't realize
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when I have a perception,
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why the perception from this
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person might think this or
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that because of his way of
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acting would be a false
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perception, right? Yeah, let's talk
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for a moment about a
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perception. Any time you form
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an opinion, or a view within
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your mind that isn't
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based in independent
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verification, that is a perception.
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You're perceiving something to be
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the case. You don't know
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that it's true. You just
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are perceiving it to be
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that way. You don't have
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evidence to prove that. So
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that is a perception. When
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it's a misperception, it means
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that your assumption essentially
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is untrue. So you could have
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a perception that ultimately ends
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up being true, but you
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could also form a perception
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that is ultimately untrue. And
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oftentimes our perceptions are untrue. And
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that's the reason why the Buddha
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teaches you not to cling to
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a perception is because in order
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to get to enlightenment, you need
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to make 100% wise decisions for
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a consistent long-term period. Multiple years.
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So you're going to spend multiple
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years to get up and running
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where you understand the eight full
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path and the natural law of
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gamma, then you're going to need
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to spend multiple years making decisions
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through that natural law so that
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you can clean up all your
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gamma and only be producing wholesome.
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results in all through making wise
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decisions. So if you're forming any
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kind of perception and you're making
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a decision based on a
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perception, then there's the potential
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that that's an unwise decision and
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now it's going to produce unwholesome
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results. So you get really good
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at doing what the Buddha shares.
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He says that by the time
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you get to the first stage
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of enlightenment, you will not be
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able to make a decision. without
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having essentially confirmed the truth before you
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actually make a decision. There's nothing that
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you can just rely on that you're
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going to need to confirm things and
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know that it's true before you'll make
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a decision. Because see when there's craving
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in the mind, you'll want to hurry
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up and make a bunch of decisions
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in order to get to your pleasant
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feelings, your conditioned pleasant feelings. But as
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you're starting to pull back your cravings
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and your central desire, you understand more
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and more that it's about making wise
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decisions and not just about making a
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decision, it's about making a wise
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decision. So you will be willing
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to slow down your decision-making process,
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even if it takes multiple hours,
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days, or weeks before you need
41:33
to make a decision, you'd be
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willing to wait that amount of
41:37
time because you understand that making
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an unwise decision. quickly is super
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unwise because it's just going to
41:43
lead to an wholesome results and
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because you're not chasing pleasant feelings
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anymore you'd be willing to wait
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the amount of time that you need
41:52
to wait in order to ensure that all
41:54
the evidence has come together before you
41:56
actually make a decision. And so is
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it good to... Let go of
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one perceptions all perceptions. Yeah, you
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should inform you should inform any
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perceptions that you cling to You
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can have a thought or idea
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you could have a certain view
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about the world But you're not
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going to make any decisions about
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that Until you see the truth
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that you've either confirmed your perception
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or you realize that your perception
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is untrue and you move on
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and you no longer have that
42:26
perception anymore But there's...
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If I don't know, if the
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perception is true or false, I just
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like, I cannot confirm it. If
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you can't confirm it and there's no
42:37
way to independently verify it, then
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you would just know that, hey, I
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can't confirm that, so I'm not
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even going to keep that in my
42:46
mind because I don't have any
42:48
evidence that that is actually true
42:50
at all. I think it's often the
42:52
case, right? If someone, maybe, if I
42:54
have the perception that someone is angry
42:56
at me, but maybe he isn't angry
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at me, or I could also just
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let a girl, right? She's angry at
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me, right? So asking questions is
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one of the best ways to
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ensure you're not clinging to a
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perception? Because by asking questions, you'll
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know the truth, right? You can
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ask them, are you mad at me, and
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they're going to say... Yeah, I'm really mad.
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Now you know the truth. Or they're going
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to say, no, I'm not mad. Right? And
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now you'll know the truth about that. Or
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if they say, no, I'm not mad at
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you. Right? Now you know the truth, even
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though they say, no, you can see it
43:31
all over their face. So in this situation,
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you're not clinging to a perception? Instead,
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you've formed a perception,
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but now you're investigating
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that to determine whether
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your perception is true
43:45
or false. And that's
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what someone who's on
43:49
the path to enlightenment
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will do, because they're
43:54
not interested in making
43:56
decisions based on a
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misperception. Yeah, what I also
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realize in the past weeks,
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I would say my meditation
44:05
practice, I didn't really
44:07
did it well, I did it
44:09
once a day, I would say,
44:12
sometimes twice, but so it was
44:14
really light up and down, but
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at least once a day. But
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I also realize that my concentration
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is sometimes really bad. Also
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meditation. Also right now, when
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you told me some things,
44:28
I sometimes. didn't have the
44:30
concentration and didn't
44:32
listen to everything. You have
44:34
an idea of what is the reason
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for that? There's not so much
44:38
change. I just moved to Leipzig to
44:41
the city, but it's not that
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I have a lot of stress or
44:45
stuff like that. Is it because of
44:47
the one-time adaptation I did every day? It's
44:50
too less or is it? Whenever the
44:52
mind is not performing optimally?
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It's always because of the pollutions
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of the mind. It's always because
44:59
of craving anger and ignorance or
45:01
the unknowing of true reality. It's
45:04
always because of those ten fetters.
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Now, if you were noticing you
45:08
had more concentration at a previous
45:10
time, and now you've slacked off
45:12
in your meditation, yeah. you know
45:14
there's more craving circulating in your
45:16
mind so with more craving in
45:18
your mind you're gonna have less
45:20
concentration so also when you're changing
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things like right now you said
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you change you move to a
45:26
new location your cravings are going
45:28
to get triggered in those kinds
45:30
of situations because you're experiencing this
45:32
change and now with those cravings
45:35
circulating in your mind there's going to
45:37
be less concentration in those situations too.
45:39
So it's always because of the pollution
45:41
of mine and if you've changed and
45:43
modified your practice to be meditating less
45:46
you know that's really unwise but you
45:48
know obviously that happens from time to
45:50
time when you're making changes to your
45:52
life but you just need to be
45:54
really consistent with your meditation because that's
45:56
what's going to produce the
45:59
best benefits. Whether we can pinpoint
46:01
it to exactly your meditation or
46:03
not, I'd say yes, that's an
46:05
ideal reason why, but ultimately the
46:07
underlying reason is because of the
46:10
craving. Less meditation means there's more
46:12
craving in the mine. So that's
46:14
the real reason why you're having
46:16
lack of concentration is because there's
46:19
more craving desire attachment circulating in
46:21
the mine, because you're not knocking
46:23
it down with the meditation. The
46:25
meditation is the tool or technique
46:28
that's solving. the underlying cause, which
46:30
is the craving. Yeah, because I
46:32
don't see so many cravings in
46:34
my mind, but... Oh, there's a
46:36
good thing. They're there. That's part...
46:39
I don't know that I have
46:41
a lot of cravings, but I
46:43
don't see more cravings. What I
46:45
wanted to say is I don't
46:47
see more cravings than a few
46:49
weeks before when I failed more
46:51
concentrated. But I think I just
46:53
don't catch them. I don't see them,
46:55
and I didn't had so much put
46:58
so much. effort in the last
47:00
weeks into the teachings. So that's
47:02
maybe, that's the reason why I
47:04
didn't pay so much attention
47:06
to the gravies. So that could
47:08
be. Imagine it like this Leo.
47:10
You're standing on top of a
47:13
garbage heap and you can see
47:15
the couple of pieces of garbage
47:17
that are under your feet, but
47:19
you can't see all the other
47:21
garbage underneath of your feet. So
47:23
it's there. but you just haven't
47:25
peeled away the layer of garbage
47:27
to be able to see all
47:29
the other layers underneath of it.
47:31
And this is where training of
47:33
the mine is coming in. So
47:35
if you are not meditating, you're
47:37
allowing the garbage to accumulate. Whereas
47:39
if you're meditating, you're knocking down
47:42
and clearing out the garbage, and
47:44
that's why the mind can be
47:46
more focused and more concentrated. Also,
47:48
with less meditation, there's going to
47:50
be less mindfulness or awareness of
47:52
mine, so you're not going to
47:54
be able to see your cravings in
47:56
that situation too, because there's
47:58
less mindfulness. to make clear,
48:01
I really know that I have
48:03
a lot of problems, I still
48:05
see them often, but yeah,
48:08
I just couldn't find
48:10
the connection between
48:12
this concentration, but
48:15
yeah, I see, thank you. Well,
48:17
I also wanted to ask
48:19
you again, I think I
48:21
asked before, but why was
48:23
it so helpful or why
48:26
can it be so helpful?
48:28
to develop the mind with something
48:30
doing loving kindness and ill will.
48:32
As long as you have anger
48:34
hatred and ill will. As long
48:36
as you have anger hatred and
48:39
ill will in your mind, you're
48:41
going to function through that from
48:43
time to time. And that means
48:45
your intention speech and actions are
48:47
going to become unskillful. And when
48:49
you're putting out those unskillful intention
48:51
speech and actions, it's going to
48:54
produce harm and then harm is
48:56
going to come back to you.
48:58
transforming your mind with loving kindness
49:00
meditation is the second best thing you
49:02
could ever do because it's knocking down
49:04
the anger and that means you're going
49:06
to be more skillful and you'll be
49:09
able to have improved moral conduct where
49:11
you're not causing harm and you
49:13
can be more skillful in your
49:15
daily interactions which means there's less
49:17
and less harm coming back to
49:19
you because you're causing less and
49:21
less harm. What I
49:23
wanted to ask is why
49:25
it can be good to
49:27
embrace people or envelope people
49:29
with, and you said that
49:31
you did it with honey
49:33
or with a toe or something
49:35
like that. You mean the
49:38
visualization, visualization, right? Yeah,
49:40
there was visualization. So this
49:42
just helps the mind kind
49:44
of rewire to be able
49:46
to... envision this during your
49:49
meditation so that when you
49:51
go out into the world
49:53
and you interact with those
49:55
people, your mind is better
49:57
wired to have loving kindness.
50:00
for this individual. And the
50:02
Buddha talks about this in
50:04
his teachings, he talks about
50:06
enveloping the all-encompassing world with
50:08
loving kindness. So that's what
50:10
you would like to do,
50:12
is that your mind is
50:14
just permeating with loving kindness
50:16
when you go out into the
50:18
world and interact with people. You're
50:21
going to need that. And I
50:23
can do it with everything, right?
50:25
I can develop the person with
50:27
a room or the box. up to
50:29
you. Up to you.
50:31
You know, I used like
50:34
molasses if you know what
50:36
molasses is. That's what
50:38
I thought about like this
50:41
real thick, you know, syrupy
50:43
material. That's what I
50:45
used. That's what I
50:48
would recommend. But what
50:50
you ultimately do is
50:52
up to you. Okay. Yeah,
50:55
the last one. I would
50:57
like to ask. Sure. I
50:59
do not often think
51:01
about what I realize
51:04
is that I interact
51:06
with people or
51:08
throughout the day I do
51:11
not often think
51:13
about right speech because
51:15
I forget to think
51:18
about right speech because
51:21
I forget to think about
51:23
it for conversation. Because you
51:25
said it's good to do
51:28
it in the morning for
51:30
example if you wait or
51:32
if you go into the
51:35
day to list the five factors
51:37
of where it's spoken speech in
51:39
mind. Or if before I go
51:41
to a person to talk with
51:43
them I can do the five
51:46
factors of where it's spoken speech
51:48
in the mind before that. I
51:50
didn't I didn't thought about these
51:53
last weeks. But sometimes I
51:55
have the feeling that
51:57
I already automatically... somehow
52:00
do this. Is this normal or would
52:02
you say try to remember it and
52:04
do it before you go in
52:07
a conversation or yeah just would
52:09
like to understand or would you
52:11
think about that? Yeah when you
52:13
memorize something like the five factors
52:16
of well-spoken speech then you'll actually
52:18
be able to practice it. If
52:20
you haven't memorized them you're not
52:22
going to be able to practice them.
52:25
You need to memorize the five factors
52:27
of well spoken speech and know them
52:29
cold, like be able to explain them
52:32
very easily. Once you get them internalized
52:34
enough, you can actually go out and
52:36
practice them to a certain degree, but
52:39
you really would like to have them
52:41
memorized. it's good that you seem like
52:43
you've internalized them to a certain degree
52:46
and you're practicing them, but you would
52:48
need to know them very clearly and
52:50
remember them in order as well.
52:52
That's really important. Okay, so it's
52:55
not that I'm in the
52:57
conversation and then I think while I'm
52:59
going to say I'm talking to someone,
53:01
oh did I? was talking about a time,
53:03
what I said is true and so
53:05
on, I don't do this internally. Would
53:08
it be helpful to do that or
53:10
would it be good for a practitioner
53:12
to do that? So when I have
53:14
a conversation, I have a conversation and
53:16
I don't think about the five
53:18
different steps in this situation. What
53:21
the Buddha teaches you is that
53:23
before you do any kind of
53:25
action, like a... bodily action or verbal
53:27
action or mental action, you should think
53:30
about is it going to cause harm
53:32
to others, to me or both? and
53:34
then do that before, during, and after,
53:36
you do any particular action. And the
53:38
way that you're going to know whether
53:40
your speech is harmful is something like
53:42
the five factors or well-spoken speech. So
53:44
oftentimes what you do as you're really
53:47
working the path really closely is you
53:49
kind of minimize your conversations with the
53:51
people around you, and you kind of
53:53
slow your conversations down so that you
53:55
can think through what you're going to
53:57
say more clearly before you actually say
53:59
it. you're kind of being aware to
54:02
make sure that you're speaking, for example,
54:04
the truth, gentle, beneficial, with a mind
54:06
of loving kindness because you've already chosen
54:09
to talk, so the proper time is
54:11
already... met. So you just pay attention
54:13
to making sure you're speaking the truth,
54:16
gentle, beneficial, and with a mind of
54:18
loving kindness. So you would like to
54:20
be able to keep that present in
54:22
your mind all the time and eventually
54:25
you'll get to the point where you
54:27
won't have to think about it anymore
54:29
because you'll just be practicing it all
54:32
the time. But you'll still going to
54:34
need to remember it so that
54:36
you can know it really cold.
54:38
Okay. Okay. You're welcome Leo. All
54:40
right. Well, I don't see any
54:42
other questions anywhere else. So I'll
54:44
just end by thanking all of
54:46
you guys for joining. Thank you
54:48
for your interest in learning and
54:50
practicing the teachings of the Buddha.
54:52
This Saturday is the Polykannon in
54:54
English Study Group on Sunday. it's
54:56
going to be chapter 17 of
54:58
our book Developing a Life Practice,
55:01
the path that leads to enlightenment.
55:03
This chapter is titled Eliminating Fears
55:05
Are You Really Scared? So I'm
55:07
going to help students to understand
55:09
how to eliminate your actual fears.
55:11
And then next Wednesday I'll be
55:13
doing loving kindness meditation with students
55:15
as part of the group learning
55:18
program. And I'm actually going to
55:20
be traveling tomorrow morning to the
55:22
USA, to California. I'm going to
55:24
be there for two weeks. I'm
55:26
going to be teaching there. for
55:29
that entire time, but there's a
55:31
course there for five days, so
55:33
anybody would like to attend that.
55:35
You're more than welcome. You'll
55:37
see all the details on
55:40
our website. So thank you
55:42
all for joining, and perhaps
55:44
we'll see you guys in
55:46
a future class. Be well
55:49
and take care. Samwadika. To
55:51
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56:00
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56:02
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