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Hey again, I'm Kelly McEvers, and
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All right. Okay, here we go.
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Oh, I should go get my
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list, right? Yeah, go get your
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list. All right. After almost a
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year of waiting, the day had
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finally arrived. It was time to
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close out the bet on dad's
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10 predictions with $10,000 on the
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line. I mean, I have everything,
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but you can go get your
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list. So I can look at
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it and see if there's anything
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I can. Pretend happened. Well, at
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least so far we're sharing a
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reality. Dad and I sat across
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from each other at the same
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table we shared countless family dinners
1:09
growing up. He pulled out his
1:11
handwritten list and I had my
1:13
laptop open to a doc full
1:15
of questions and fact checks. I'm
1:17
just gonna go through the list
1:20
for your 10 predictions for the
1:22
year. We'll start with the easy
1:24
ones. There's four that can easily
1:26
be grouped together, and that is.
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Barack Obama will be convicted of
1:30
treason, Joe Biden will be convicted
1:33
of treason, Nancy Pelosi convicted of
1:35
treason, the Clinton's convicted of treason
1:37
and murder. I would group them
1:39
categorically. I ran through the list,
1:41
no convictions, no charges, not even
1:44
any investigations, literally no momentum of
1:46
any kind. Yes, I've fully hoped
1:48
that would take place and before
1:50
the end of 2024, but that
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has not taken place. If you're
1:54
keeping score at home, that's four
1:57
for me. All right, next one.
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You said Trump will be reinstated
2:01
without an election. Trump won real.
2:03
election. He was not reinstated without
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an election. That's five. Trump will
2:08
have all charges dropped. On May
2:10
30th, 2024, Trump was found guilty
2:12
and convicted on 34 felony charges
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in a New York hush money
2:16
trial. Yeah. That makes six. Moving
2:18
on, next one. Governor Hocal, the
2:21
governor of New York, would be
2:23
removed from office. Governor Hocal is
2:25
currently in office with no
2:27
charges being brought against her. She
2:30
will be up for re-election in
2:32
2026. That is correct. Seven. On
2:34
to the home stretch, Biden will
2:36
be removed from office, which, you
2:39
know, at the time of the
2:41
recording, he was still president. Biden's
2:43
still in the White House. You're
2:46
not rebutting that. Yeah, well, because
2:48
somebody pretending to be the Biden
2:50
is in the White House. Okay.
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And we're back to body doubles.
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But even still, he conceded the
2:57
point. So that's eight. Okay, then
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there's one prediction dad was close
3:02
on because Eric Adams, the mayor
3:05
of New York, could be removed.
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Just not in time. As it
3:09
stands right now, he's still the
3:11
mayor. Right. Tough break, but that
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makes nine. Okay, last one.
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Our country would come under
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martial law. As far as I
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know, that didn't happen. That
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did not happen. Okay, no,
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any rebuttals there. I'm very
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happy that that didn't happen.
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And that's 10. So it was
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clear, I was the winner. The
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whole deal was for you
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to convince me that you're
3:37
right. But you're O for 10,
3:39
so... Right. I'm O for 10. So
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it can only go up from
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here. That's one way to put
3:45
it. At long last, it
3:47
was finally time to hear
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dad say the magic words we
3:52
agreed to a year ago. I
3:54
want to have you say after
3:56
each one of these. is that
3:58
while dead. You were right,
4:01
and I was wrong. Same
4:03
goes for you then. And
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do you want me to
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say that ten times? I
4:09
don't need you to say
4:11
a ten times. Just give
4:13
me one good take. Okay,
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all right. So I'm going
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to say to you sincerely
4:19
and honestly and heartfelt that,
4:21
wow, Zach, I was wrong.
4:23
And you were correct. Thank
4:25
you. I wish I could
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tell you that dad changed
4:29
his mind, that the family
4:31
was able to heal. However.
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However. Are you really prefacing
4:35
that? Yes, because however, just
4:37
because this has not happened
4:39
in 2024, doesn't make any
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of these less valid or
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less real. I guarantee you,
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you will see by the
4:47
end of 2025, that all
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10 of these have legs,
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and I still am 100%
4:53
positive with all these, are
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true. So
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your explanation for why these things
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did not yet come to pass
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is that you just got the
5:05
timeline wrong? Yes. Unfortunately, but unsurprisingly,
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dad turned to the failed prophecy
5:10
playbook. He blamed it on the
5:12
timeline. We were right back where
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we started. You still believe what
5:17
you believe, and I still believe
5:19
that that's false. Correct. Dad's not
5:21
changing. It's not the outcome I
5:24
was hoping for, but here we
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are. So, now what? What happens
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to Kira? What happens to mom?
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And where does that leave me?
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The bet was over, but we
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still needed to assess the damage,
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and see if dad was willing
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to take any steps towards repair.
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let's back up a second, because
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just days before I sat down
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with dad to settle the bet,
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things with the family had hit
7:59
an all-time low. Right before... flying
8:01
home for Christmas, I had arranged
8:03
a call with my mom and
8:05
sister. I was hoping they could
8:07
come up with something I could
8:09
convey to dad in our final
8:11
conversation. Concrete steps he could take
8:13
to show he was trying. But
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minutes before our call, my sister
8:17
sent a text. She gave me
8:19
permission to read this, by the
8:21
way. Last night, I realized to
8:23
a new degree, how angry and
8:25
hurt I am, and I'm not
8:27
in the space to participate. I
8:30
made my ass two years ago
8:32
for him to accept me and
8:34
love me and he has seemed
8:36
very disinterested in doing so. Please
8:38
continue today without me. Kira was
8:40
out. Still, mom suggested we check
8:42
in. Turns out she had a
8:44
pretty big update of her own.
8:46
Hi. Hey, how are you? What...
8:48
Going on in the last 12
8:50
hours? She began to fill me
8:52
in. The night before, she and
8:54
dad were talking about his beliefs
8:56
around kira and conspiracies and religion
8:58
and if he was open to
9:00
reconsidering. He's not going to change
9:02
his religious viewpoints. He's not going
9:04
to change. And then I just
9:06
said it. Then I just don't
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see I don't see a path
9:10
where this marriage can continue. I
9:12
don't see a path for me.
9:14
And what did he say? He
9:16
sort of didn't really respond. After
9:20
40 years of marriage, mom
9:22
was done. They had agreed
9:25
to separate and for my
9:27
dad to move out. I
9:29
mean, I'm embarrassed to say
9:31
that situation with Kira wasn't
9:33
the one that knocked it
9:35
over. But I realized as
9:37
that. He's beyond. redemption at
9:39
this point. To be honest,
9:42
I was surprised at how
9:44
quickly all this happened. Not
9:46
very long ago we talked
9:48
and you were sort of...
9:50
like, oh, I can't wait
9:52
for January 1st, so he'll
9:54
be proven wrong, and then
9:56
we can kind of like
9:59
move on. Move on. And
10:01
here we are 12 days
10:03
before New Year's, and it's
10:05
like totally sputtered out. Yeah.
10:07
I was proud of mom
10:09
for holding her ground. Soon
10:11
she could be unburdened by
10:13
all this, free to retire
10:16
and move on. And also,
10:18
she gave me some relief
10:20
of my own. It's been
10:22
a long time coming. We
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were headed in this direction
10:26
long before you. At least
10:28
it wouldn't be my reporting
10:30
that did us in. So
10:33
days later, it was just
10:35
down to me and dad.
10:37
I had spent months picturing
10:39
what confronting him would look
10:41
like, but none of those
10:43
scenarios had included me being
10:45
the only one left on
10:47
good terms with him. After
10:49
going through each prediction together,
10:52
I knew it was finally
10:54
time to press him. I
10:56
just see sort of an
10:58
unwillingness to... For
11:01
you to be wrong Wrong about
11:03
10 things I'm gonna admit I
11:05
was wrong about the timeline on
11:08
all 10 things I've been wrong.
11:10
Yeah, you prefaced it. I've been
11:12
not not that you're wrong about
11:15
them You're just wrong about the
11:17
timeline. Yeah, but that's still a
11:19
type of wrong sure, but it's
11:22
a half measure. It's a way
11:24
for you to be right Yeah,
11:26
because I still believe the majority
11:29
of these things are legitimate. Yeah.
11:31
Despite dad signaling all year, he
11:33
wasn't going to change his mind.
11:36
It was still disappointing to see
11:38
it unfold. All of these beliefs,
11:40
it feels like you're really holding
11:43
on to them, and I'm not
11:45
sure why. Because I know they're
11:47
true. Why am I going to
11:50
ban in truth? Why would I
11:52
believe a lie? Why would I
11:54
give that up? And it's not
11:57
an arrogant thing. It's... It's a
11:59
knowing in my in my soul
12:01
and in my spirit. So yeah,
12:04
I mean, yeah, I can't abandon
12:06
the truth. As I watched him
12:08
dig in and double down, I
12:11
couldn't help but imagine his future.
12:13
The unvetted information he'd taken, the
12:15
precious metals and survivalist gear he'd
12:18
spend more money on. The people
12:20
he'd surround himself with as he
12:22
drifted further away from the family.
12:25
One of the things I've thought
12:27
a lot about during this process
12:29
is like, is your dead. And...
12:32
what happened to him and in
12:34
the face of so many people
12:36
around him including yourself saying hey
12:39
you're going down the wrong road
12:41
like don't do this please listen
12:43
and he wouldn't he wouldn't hear
12:46
it from anyone okay and it
12:48
cost him his life i see
12:50
a lot of parallels with what's
12:53
happening right now interesting you know
12:55
i don't think you're at risk
12:57
of physical danger
13:00
so much? Yeah. I
13:02
think you're at risk
13:04
of a lot of
13:06
other things. Like what?
13:09
Financial ruin? I think
13:11
you're at risk of
13:13
being ostracized and like
13:15
completely left out of
13:18
this family dynamic. That
13:20
would break my heart,
13:22
but I think you're
13:24
at risk reputation. You're
13:27
at risk reputation. How
13:29
so? I think the people
13:31
in your community, you know,
13:34
our friends and family, I
13:36
don't think they're, they believe
13:38
what you believe. And I
13:40
do think that's going to
13:42
continue to impact you negatively.
13:44
The majority do not, but
13:46
I don't talk to them
13:48
about it. I don't talk
13:50
to, talk, talk to Marty
13:52
about this kind of stuff.
13:54
You do talk to Marty
13:56
about this kind of stuff.
13:58
You do talk to Marty
14:00
about it. I've interviewed Marty
14:02
about it. Very very small,
14:04
very small. I've talked to
14:06
Marty, I talked to Chuck,
14:08
I talked to Paul, I
14:10
talked to John. None of
14:12
them are really on board
14:14
with these beliefs. That's not
14:16
true. Paul said he's not
14:18
on board at all and
14:20
that it's been really difficult.
14:22
Chuck, obviously not on board
14:24
at all. Marty, confused, you
14:26
know, says I'm just curious
14:28
how he got to this
14:30
place, but... I feel like
14:32
the closest friends in your
14:34
life, your family, you know,
14:36
the people around you are
14:38
telling you, hey, you're going
14:40
the wrong way, you're not
14:42
listening. Actually, none of them
14:45
are saying that to me.
14:47
None of them? None of
14:49
them? None of them. Okay.
14:51
Yeah, nobody, none of the
14:53
people you've mentioned have told
14:55
me that I'm gone in
14:57
the wrong direction. The only
14:59
people who've said that are
15:01
you. and mom. So if
15:03
all those people told you,
15:05
would you hear them? I
15:07
would listen to them. I
15:09
probably wouldn't change, but I
15:11
take it into consideration. So...
15:13
You don't think that sounds
15:15
like your dad? That aspect
15:17
of it, yeah. But my
15:19
dad... My dad had trouble
15:21
living in reality. I don't
15:23
have a trouble living in
15:25
reality. I would argue that
15:27
you do. At this point
15:29
in the conversation, I began
15:31
to struggle. I could feel
15:33
my patience wearing down. I
15:35
started to press it more.
15:37
I mean, look at the
15:39
state of our family right
15:41
now. And I think we've
15:43
gotten to this place in
15:45
large part because of your
15:47
beliefs. Well, yeah, you can
15:49
point the finger at me
15:51
and say, it's because of
15:53
your beliefs. That's partially true,
15:56
but it's simultaneously because of
15:58
your the three of your
16:00
beliefs, right? I am understand
16:02
your beliefs, but I don't
16:04
believe that way. I'm not
16:06
going to pretend I believe
16:08
that way, and I know
16:10
you guys don't want me
16:12
just to pretend. You want
16:14
me to embrace it and
16:16
live it and think it
16:18
and breathe it the same
16:20
way you do. I can't
16:22
do that. Therefore, it creates
16:24
a wedge, right? Yeah. But
16:26
it doesn't have to. And
16:28
I think. The
16:31
post-covid years have really
16:33
magnified and polarized people.
16:35
Yeah, but I would
16:37
say that's when you
16:39
got radicalized. I don't
16:41
think ultimately mom, Kira,
16:43
and I have changed
16:45
a lot ideologically since
16:47
that time. I don't
16:49
think you're in the
16:51
same place. I think
16:53
that's what's changed and
16:55
we're reacting to that
16:57
change. I can agree
16:59
with that. I see
17:01
that. I have made
17:03
more significant changes in
17:05
the past four years
17:07
in terms of my
17:09
own spiritual awareness and
17:12
spiritual growth. Yeah. So,
17:14
and that certainly, I
17:16
know, feels and looks
17:18
very radical. Let's talk
17:20
about mom for a
17:22
second. Oh, I think,
17:24
I think your mom.
17:26
I don't know what
17:28
I think about her
17:30
anymore. I mean, I
17:32
don't think negative about
17:34
her other than she's
17:36
less and confused. I
17:38
mean, I guess she
17:40
would say that about
17:42
you. Probably, and a
17:44
lot worse. I continue
17:46
to love your mom,
17:48
but this is the
17:50
irony. She sits in
17:52
judgment of me, and
17:54
therefore judges me unworthy
17:56
of... being her
17:58
partner and and husband anymore,
18:01
so she wants to walk
18:03
away and terminate the relationship
18:06
and move on. I mean,
18:08
short of pretending to be
18:11
somebody who I'm not, I
18:13
don't see a solution. Yeah.
18:15
I agree. So I think
18:18
it would take you changing
18:20
and it doesn't seem like
18:23
you're... really opens in doing
18:25
that. Yeah. Or simultaneously, it
18:28
would take the three of
18:30
you changing. Yeah. Right? Yeah,
18:33
but I... I just don't
18:35
see a compelling cell. It
18:38
doesn't seem like you're right.
18:40
I could see dad straining,
18:43
searching for any solution that
18:45
didn't involve him being wrong.
18:48
So he started bargaining. I
18:50
could never talk to you
18:53
about this again, have great
18:55
times with you, great conversations,
18:58
and pretend I didn't believe
19:00
any of this anymore. So
19:03
just suppressing it, yeah. Is
19:05
the solution, you think? No,
19:07
I don't think it's the
19:10
solution, but that's what I
19:12
feel pressured to do when
19:15
I have these kind of
19:17
conversations with you. I mean,
19:20
look. I think this year
19:22
has been difficult, especially recently.
19:25
But I also think you
19:27
and I have gotten closer
19:30
than we've ever been. I
19:32
agree. And that's why I
19:35
say, for me, that's worth
19:37
every dollar. Yeah, it's not
19:40
that it's not worth it.
19:42
It's just, well. I don't
19:45
know. I don't know that
19:47
it is worth. I don't
19:50
think these beliefs are worth
19:52
it. I think you're losing
19:55
a lot for them. I
19:57
disagree. I think you and
19:59
I are like ultimately... where
20:02
I do feel like we
20:04
are getting along really well,
20:07
I do feel conflicted because
20:09
as that's happening, you and
20:12
mom are getting separated in
20:14
Cure's Not Home for Christmas.
20:17
And those are all because
20:19
of your beliefs. Simultaneously, I
20:22
would say to you that
20:24
all three of you are
20:27
judging me very harshly. And
20:31
that's what's causing the
20:33
rift. I can accept
20:35
you and love you
20:37
and have my beliefs
20:39
and accept your beliefs.
20:42
You can't accept my
20:44
beliefs without judging me.
20:46
You don't think you're
20:48
judging Kira? Not at
20:50
all. I love my
20:53
daughter. I love Kera.
20:55
I love Kera. I
20:57
know that you do.
20:59
I would never. I
21:01
would never decide on
21:04
my daughter. I would
21:06
literally reject her sexuality.
21:08
I reject her identifying
21:10
herself as lesbian or
21:13
queer or whatever. Why?
21:15
Because I don't believe
21:17
that's a legitimate label.
21:19
and I refuse to
21:21
see my daughter only
21:24
through that lens. But
21:26
I think Kira does
21:28
feel rejected. She does
21:30
not feel fully accepted
21:32
by you. Yeah, I
21:35
get that. I get
21:37
that and I don't
21:39
know how to convince
21:41
her otherwise, but I
21:43
will continue to try.
21:46
It's not about rejection.
21:48
See, that's how you
21:50
guys label it, but
21:52
it's not rejection. It's
21:55
about... looking at it
21:57
from a spiritual viewpoint
21:59
where this is not
22:01
what God wants for
22:03
her, right? And because
22:06
I identify more with
22:08
God, I take the
22:10
same... path. What is
22:12
your plan with Kira?
22:14
To continue to reach
22:17
out to her and
22:19
continue to reassure her
22:21
that I love her
22:23
and want to spend
22:25
time with her and
22:28
I don't I don't
22:30
sit in judgment of
22:32
her and I don't
22:34
look down on her
22:37
and I don't think
22:39
anything negative about her.
22:41
As the conversation wound
22:43
down I let go
22:45
of any notion I
22:48
could convince him of
22:50
anything he didn't already
22:52
believe. I was finally
22:54
ready to stop struggling
22:56
and just accept the
22:59
truth. I couldn't help
23:01
him. Maybe someone else
23:03
could. If I arranged
23:05
for someone to speak
23:07
with you about this
23:10
stuff who sort of
23:12
specializes in this stuff,
23:14
would you be open
23:16
to something like that?
23:19
Sure. Yeah, you actually
23:21
would? Yeah. Okay. I
23:23
really appreciate. Oh, man.
23:25
It's been, it's been
23:27
a hard year, man.
23:30
This is, yeah. The
23:32
conversations we've had all
23:34
year, like I've, I
23:36
feel closer to you
23:38
than I ever have
23:41
and I'm, I'm really
23:43
sad about the state
23:45
of this family. Yeah.
23:47
But I do appreciate
23:50
your, your openness to.
23:52
I don't know. I
23:54
mean. You never ducked,
23:56
you never ducked a
23:58
hard question. No
24:02
need to. Where
24:05
do you think
24:07
we'll be next
24:10
Christmas? I don't
24:12
know. I have
24:15
no idea. I
24:18
have no idea,
24:20
man. I can't
24:23
even think that
24:25
far ahead. Yeah.
24:29
I have one final question
24:32
for you. Okay. How are
24:34
you gonna pay me? Check.
24:36
Should we go to the
24:38
bank? Should I get one
24:41
of those giant golf checks?
24:43
I figured you'd probably want
24:45
small unmarked bills. Yeah. Non-sequential.
24:47
Yes. So did you bring
24:50
a suitcase? I have a
24:52
gym bag. Okay. We'll fill
24:54
that puppy up. Let's do
24:57
it. All right,
24:59
let's get a
25:02
hug. As we
25:04
stood there hugging,
25:07
I just broke
25:09
down. I'm sorry.
25:12
I'm sorry. I
25:28
don't know what comes next, where we
25:30
go from here. It felt like things
25:32
fell apart so quickly, but also so
25:34
slowly over many years. The cracks became
25:37
holes, and in the end, we didn't
25:39
make it. I think in many ways,
25:41
I'm the one who got off the
25:44
easiest. I'm still in good standing with
25:46
everyone, which makes me feel a mixture
25:48
of relief and guilt, maybe a splash
25:50
of gratitude. And for those of you
25:53
who keep asking, yes, I took the
25:55
money, absolutely. We're walking to the Rose
25:57
Bowl. Yeah. How do you feel? But
26:00
on New... year's day, the day my
26:02
dad officially lost the bet. I'm pumped
26:04
up! I took him to go see
26:06
Ohio State, our favorite football team playing
26:09
the Rose Bowl. What do you think
26:11
the score is going to be? And
26:13
paid for everything. I think it's going
26:16
to be 31 to 22 bucks. Okay.
26:18
Yet another prediction my father got wrong
26:20
by the way. But they did win,
26:22
go buck ice. The
26:33
day was a reminder of
26:35
how good things could be,
26:38
and at the same time
26:40
of everything we couldn't be.
26:42
Not anymore. As I watched
26:44
the clock run down, I
26:46
knew the moment the game
26:48
was over, so was our
26:50
shared reality. This series would
26:52
not have been possible without
26:55
my father mother and sister
26:57
Kira. I cannot say enough
26:59
about your openness and bravery
27:01
and I'm so thankful for
27:03
your love and support throughout
27:05
this project. It means the
27:07
world to me. This series
27:09
was produced and sound design
27:12
by Ariana Garabli and Dan
27:14
Gherma. The two of you
27:16
were incredible to work with
27:18
and you both have my
27:20
back every step of the
27:22
way. You guys are amazing.
27:24
Luis Trias edited this series
27:26
and Luis, I just want
27:28
to say... Thank you for
27:31
all of your dedication and
27:33
believing in this story from
27:35
the very beginning. Music includes
27:37
original scoring by my guy
27:39
Peter Leonard. Gilly Moon and
27:41
Robert Rodriguez mastered this series,
27:43
fact-checking by Greta Pittinger. Special
27:45
thanks to Sarah Wyman for
27:48
production support. Leonna Simstrom is
27:50
our supervising senior producer. Katie
27:52
Simon is our supervising senior
27:54
editor. Katie, thank you for
27:56
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27:58
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28:01
our executive producer. NPR's senior vice
28:03
president for podcasting is Colin Campbell.
28:05
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28:08
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28:10
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28:12
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28:15
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28:17
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28:19
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28:22
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28:24
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28:26
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28:28
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28:31
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28:33
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28:35
to Nishat Kerwa from Box Media,
28:38
Simon Adler, and Tessa Stewart who helped
28:40
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28:42
to the people in my life. Joshua
28:44
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28:46
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28:48
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28:50
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28:52
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28:54
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28:57
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29:51
Zach. Just wanted to check in with
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29:57
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29:59
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30:01
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