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What if one of the
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unlocks for living the good
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life lies in the simple
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act of giving? Welcome back,
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or welcome to The Finding
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Mastery podcast, where we dive
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into the minds of the
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world's greatest thinkers and doers.
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I'm your host, Dr. Michael
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Jervais, by trade and training
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a high-performance psychologist. And today's
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guest is a true icon
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of entrepreneurship, resilience, and generosity.
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Jean Paul DeGioia. a co-founder
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of not one, but two
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billion dollar brands, Petron Tequila
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and Paul Mitchell Hair Care
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products. Now, what you might
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not know is that before
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building billion dollar companies, JP
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was homeless, selling products door
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to door just to get
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by. His journey, it's a
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master class in grit and
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optimism and the power of
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perseverance. In this conversation, JP
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shares how his toughest moments
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shaped his mindset and his
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mindset. why giving back no
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matter how little you have
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can transform your life and
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why he believes wealth isn't
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about money. It's about gratitude,
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it's about impact. So get
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ready. JP has a deep
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spark. It's got a heart
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of gold. And let's
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jump right into this
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week's conversation with the
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legend, John Paul DeGioia.
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thrilled and honored to sit
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down with you. Your testament
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to what from the outside
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looks like a great life
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is something that I've wanted to
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talk with you for a long
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time. So let me not make
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any assumptions though. When you think
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of living a great life. Have
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you lived a great life? I have lived
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an unbelievable great life. I've had
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as most people know a lot of adversity
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in my life Okay, but I went to
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learn and I'm learning more as I get
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older and older and older that that's a
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good thing If I lived a life
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here in this body on this planet,
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okay, with no adversity, I wouldn't be
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growing at all. So I look at
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what I went through, and I look
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at the tough times that I learned
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from. It was like the greatest education.
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JP, what's the extent of your education
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at high school? But the bigger one
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was after high school just learning things
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and reading books about what life is
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really, really all about. And then of
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course, along the way, I happen to
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be really blessed and grace with a
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lot of good stuff coming my way.
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but I lived a blessed life on
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both sides, even through the adversity and
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obviously what I have right now. The
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world works and if you're a kind
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person, it works quicker for you. Okay,
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there's a lot at this. So if
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you don't mind, let's talk about some
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of the adversities. Sure. And I would
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love for you to mark the ones
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that have been most meaningful to you.
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You betcha. Well, let me start out
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at a very young age. We had
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absolutely nothing. Where did that be dad?
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And before I was two years old,
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he was gone. So was my mother,
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now this is the late 40s. Okay,
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we're into the 1940s now. There was
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my mother and my brother and I.
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That was it. No other sorts of
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income. We lived in a little dinky
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house, real little house in Echo Park.
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We didn't have anything, not even a
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TV set. We thought we were really
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really a special lady. She would give
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my brother and I, for example, once
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we'd come home, she'd have this little
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piece, oh, maybe it was like two,
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three ounces, max of fillet mignon. And
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she'd say, boys, we're all gonna have
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a bite of fillet mignon. It's a
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certain type of steak that all the
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rich people eat, right? We eat just
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like them. Oh, mom, that's great. And
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on those days, caviar, and let us
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taste it and say boys that's what
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the rich so we never knew we
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were without so when I got into
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school mainly where I grew up there
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in grammar school everyone was kind of
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same the same and then in high
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school we realized hey things were different.
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So it was really adversity, but we
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never knew it. So it never affected
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us. Going along the way a little
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bit further, when you run across other
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points of adversity, that really came at
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you was, for example, when I was
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in the United States Navy, I learned
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quite a bit. When I got out
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of the United States Navy, I was
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looking for a job to set the
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world on fire. And I ended up
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after several trying several jobs to work
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for P.F. Collier Encyclopedia. call your encyclopedia.
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When we were interviewed, we were told
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very few of you are going to
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make it. Those that are going to
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make it are those that realize you
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don't give up. If you knock on.
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50 doors and they're all politely or
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unpolitely closed in your face, okay? You
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have to be just as enthusiastic on
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door number 51 as you were the
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first 50 and that's a tough thing
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to do. Because every call you made
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was a cold call. There were no
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leads. You're in the afternoon pounding on
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doors. Finally were the young couples living
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with families going back at night and
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trying to get in there to Selman
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Sacklepius. Well, the university was, oh my
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God, this is what I'm up against,
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but I believe what they said. Out
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of everyone that was interviewed with me
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was maybe a dozen person, I was
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the only one left. When I went
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in the field, it was very difficult,
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but I believed what they said. Now,
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it wasn't, it wasn't 50 doors for
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me. It was more like over 100
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doors. that I finally got through a
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door and was able to give a
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presentation. But there was a lot of
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adversity there because you kept on getting
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rejection. However, it worked. And that always
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stayed with me. So later on, when
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I started Paul Mitchell with no money,
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we'll get in that a little bit
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later, I had that same philosophy that
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you can overcome these things. You just
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got to figure out ways around it
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and go, go, go. I mean, in
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my early 20s, I have a two
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and a half year old son and
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a wife. and a mother that didn't
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want to be a mother or a
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wife anymore. came home one day and
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there's a two and a half year
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old kid in our apartment with my
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clothes scattered around him and a note.
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Sorry, he'll be much better off, he'll
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be much better off with you than
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he is with me. I can't handle
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this anymore. Good luck. And she had
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cleaned out what little money we had
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out of our bank account. She planned
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all this weeks before, took the rent
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money, didn't pay the rent, didn't pay
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the rent, Two days after she did,
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we had nothing. She even took the
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one car. After that, it was no
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money, no house, they're kicking us out,
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the power's now being turned off, and
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I didn't have a job. The job
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I had wasn't paying me for another
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week. What the hell are you gonna
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do? Whoa, let's pause right here. That
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was adversity. at when you were young,
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when your dad left, has now reared
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its head again, except the dad didn't
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leave, the mom did, right? And so
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there's like a double entendre that's taking
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place with your two young kids at
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that age. But so let's work in
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reverse order across these three, because you
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just shared three adversities, but you dropped
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deep insights on how you navigated both.
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And I want to make sure we
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highlight those. Sure. In reverse order. I'm
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more interested in why, what you saw
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in a woman when you were dating,
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that you missed, that she could be
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the one, the type of one, that
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leaves two children and a caring man,
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I'm assuming you were a caring man,
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you know, with nothing. Like, what did
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you miss? Beautiful, first of all, question
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I asked. No one's ever asked me
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that question, but it's a good one.
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And the honest truth was, I was
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turning 20 years old and she was
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drop dead gorgeous. She was beautiful. Okay,
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so that's what you saw. Nothing else
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mattered. That's all I saw. She was
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beautiful. Didn't think of anything else. She
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was a beautiful lady. Okay. And so
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the character of the content was not
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as you would hope. Nope. And was
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she a drug user? Was she, did
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she have, looking back, did she have
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some sort of psychological disorder? Or was
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it just like. an impulsive way of
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living, like how do you make sense
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of what she did? Well, let us
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say that I think it was a
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bit of disorder her bringing up, which
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I didn't know about for some time,
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but if she would have told me
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how she was brought up, I still
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would have married her, she's the most
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beautiful girl, not realizing maybe people don't
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change that quick and they weren't ready
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for responsibility. And then the opposite side
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of the coin about her, what was
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it about you that she wanted to
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leave? What she said was she couldn't
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handle being around being a mom. And
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when I finally chatted with her years
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later, she showed it many, many years
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later. Anyways, when we finally did, she
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just said, I just couldn't handle it.
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It was, you know, going into the,
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it was the end of the 1960s,
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and it was, you know, it was,
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you know, it was the end of
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the 1960s, it was, you know, it
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was, you know, it was the end
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of the end of the, money. Now
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she never complained about it. However, I
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knew inside it really affected her. Maybe
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she thought I'd be making more money.
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I don't know. Yeah, I mean, raising
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children is really hard. You know, and
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it's the most rewarding, wonderful thing. It
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can be the most rewarding, wonderful thing,
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but it's really a rich challenge where
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as much as I care about psychology
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and emotions and living a great life,
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it's hard for me too. And I've
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spent my whole life understanding. how to
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help other people become their very best.
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And I don't, there's no road map
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that's clear here. Yeah, there's no road
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that by the way, and that's why
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I'm on your podcast, because we research.
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I thought, sure, he's helping other people
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And is that something, where did that
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come from? I think my mom, because
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even though we grew up with adversity,
11:31
we never knew it, right? My mom
11:33
was always kind to everybody. and I
11:35
think the thing that really switched it
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also got me into philanthropy when finally
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I could afford my time and later
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on money was when I was about
11:44
six years old we lived in Echo
11:46
Park my mom would take us to
11:48
downtown LA on trolley cars we used
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to have trolley cars in those days
11:53
and she took us down to right
11:55
around it would be spring and seventh
11:57
street Spring and Maine, that area there.
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There was bullocks. There was May Company.
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There were all these really great department
12:03
stores. Ellie was different in those days.
12:06
And they had all these beautiful window
12:08
displays, trains going around in circles. And
12:10
my mother gave my brother, who was
12:12
about a year and a half older
12:14
than me, a dime. And said, boys,
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I want you to hang on this
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dime, half with your little fingers. put
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it in the bucket there, that red
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bucket with the guy ring in the
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bell. And we did. We came back
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to mom and said, mom, why do
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we give him a dime? That's two
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Coca-Cola's. That's what it was in the
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40s, right? Three candy bars. Why do
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we give a dime? And mom said,
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boys. That's the Salvation Army. We have
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food and we have a house to
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live in. There are people who have
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no food, no house to live in.
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They take care of them. This is
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all we could afford this year. But
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remember, boys, always give a little something.
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There is always somebody a little worse
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off than you are. That's what Mama
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said. I was 11, 12 years old
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and I had a morning paper out,
13:03
sort of my brother, with a Los
13:05
Angeles examiner, which was the newspaper of
13:07
the newspaper of the time. where it
13:09
was a weekend, it was a Friday.
13:11
And my mother said, boys, come here
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to the kitchen table, we had a
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little kitchen table, she says, take out
13:18
any money, have in your pocket, or
13:20
in your piggy banks, take it all
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out. Okay, we took all my money,
13:24
all her money, everything we had together.
13:27
We counted 27 cents. And let's forget
13:29
the story, she said, boys, we have
13:31
27 cents, but we have food in
13:33
the refrigerator, we're growing some vegetables in
13:35
the backyard. Our bills are being paid
13:38
in full. Oh, we're rich. And we
13:40
said to bring while we were bring
13:42
me into that moment. Yeah. What was
13:44
it like when you put? 27 cents
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on the table, and mom made that
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very clear declaration. This is all the
13:51
money we have. You didn't get scared?
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No, no, not at all. My was
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maybe a nickel. My brother's probably a
13:57
dime. She came up with the rest.
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We're scared at all because what my
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mom said hit home. We're the rich.
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We're like rich. So we were, you
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were rich in other ways. It goes
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on what someone's definition of rich and
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wealth is. If you were to ask
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me, what's the definition, and put in
14:15
as priority, I'd say number one priority
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would be happy in life, be happy.
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Number two would be healthy, because you
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got to be happy to be really
14:24
healthy. And number three comes everything else.
14:26
So let's do the keys to happiness
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right now. And this is your take
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on what makes... what sits underneath your
14:32
happiness. Because the viewer and the listener
14:34
wouldn't get what I'm getting right now
14:37
from you. They'll hear your tone and
14:39
see your inflection, but on camera, but
14:41
you have a vibrance. You have a
14:43
zest for life that would be a
14:45
10 out of 10 if there's such
14:48
a scale. And I do want to
14:50
talk about happiness, but there's something else
14:52
that you have that is felt by
14:54
me being six feet away from you.
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I'm calling it zest right now. There's
14:59
a spark about you. I do want
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to hit on both of those. I
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want to hit about happiness and I
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do eventually want to come back to
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the zest for life that you have.
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So what's underneath happiness? How do you
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generate happiness on a consistent basis? I'm
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very fortunate the way I grew up
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with the kind of mom I had.
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I was happy most all the time.
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When I got my first job at
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10 years old, the first paid job
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other than selling Christmas cards, right, I
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was happy just to have a job.
15:29
Like, wow, I have a job. Gave
15:31
the $30 a month to my mother,
15:34
but I have a job. Later on
15:36
in life, when more... So you're pointing
15:38
to gratitude as one of the core
15:40
foundations for happiness. Gratitude beyond any question
15:42
of doubt. Yeah. But as I got
15:44
older, there was more adversity there, there
15:47
was more challenges there, and then I
15:49
kind of lost that total freedom of
15:51
happiness you had when you were a
15:53
kid. But then along the way, I
15:55
learned how to overcome it. And the
15:58
first thing is, human beings carry around
16:00
on their shoulders, regret, jealousy, anger, I
16:02
don't like you, I hate you, is
16:04
carried on their shoulders. And you cannot
16:06
change yesterday's newspapers. You think about something
16:09
you don't like, a conversation comes up,
16:11
you go towards, oh I know, something
16:13
like there, there are a total ass.
16:15
You've got to get that off your
16:17
shoulders, and everybody has it. Or things
16:20
come up along the way. Now how
16:22
do you get off your shoulders? How
16:24
do you get it? Okay, it's quite
16:26
easy. When you know it shouldn't be
16:28
there, and you use common sense. You
16:30
can't change it. As soon as you
16:33
start carrying that around, which everybody does,
16:35
and you add on to it, all
16:37
of a sudden, you're not in the
16:39
future, you're not in present times, part
16:41
of you is behind you there, and
16:44
the spirit picks up all this stuff,
16:46
right? So the easy way to get
16:48
it off your shoulders is when it
16:50
pops up, each time it pops up,
16:52
just say. A lot of those challenges
16:55
were my past life. That's not me
16:57
anymore. And then immediately have anything. I
16:59
don't care what's happening in your life
17:01
right now. One positive thing. It could
17:03
be, I just had breakfast. I got
17:05
a full tank of gas. Just to
17:08
change your mind. It will come back
17:10
again. When it comes back, I can
17:12
do the same thing. That's my past
17:14
life. That's not me anymore. Go away,
17:16
go away. One at a time, it'll
17:19
happen. You'll find in your life something
17:21
coming up where I really hate that
17:23
person, and you'll catch yourself saying, I
17:25
don't like that person. Here's what they
17:27
did bad. And you'll say, wait, that's
17:30
the past. They can be a great
17:32
person now. I don't know. I forgive
17:34
them. Forgive everybody for any wrong you
17:36
did. Or they did. Either way, you
17:38
did it, they did forgive yourself, forgive
17:40
them, because you can't do anything about
17:43
it. And once, and you're suffering more
17:45
than they are, or more than you
17:47
were when you regretted it a long
17:49
time ago. What happened, happened? and realize
17:51
that everything, everything that happens to you,
17:54
everything that happens to somebody else, okay,
17:56
everything is a lesson learned. If you
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were on this planet with nothing happening,
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you're not going to learn any lessons,
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you're going to come back a lot
18:05
of times, okay? Come on, let's learn
18:07
another lesson there. But once you do
18:09
that, you're relieved, you feel like, oh.
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I feel great. You know, it's off
18:13
your shoulders. That is one great thing.
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The next thing to do is whenever
18:18
you're in a conversation and people are
18:20
talking about gossip or negative things, say,
18:22
excuse me, but I'm on more of
18:24
a positive trend right now. But thank
18:26
you. I appreciate what you're saying. I
18:29
always acknowledge them. I appreciate what you're
18:31
saying, but I can't enter this conversation
18:33
and walk away. Do not hang around
18:35
negative arguments or negative feelings or negative
18:37
feelings. It's not you. a coach or
18:40
teammate or like somebody on a staff
18:42
that you're part of is like super
18:44
toxic you know like they complain a
18:46
lot. I say I don't know because
18:48
I don't hang out with that I
18:51
don't I leave like that's not I'm
18:53
not good enough to be able to
18:55
try to convince or change I don't
18:57
even know how to change anybody from
18:59
a from that way so I just
19:01
I basically just say hey listen this
19:04
is not for me And I'll exit
19:06
the conversation. Same type of thing. It's
19:08
interesting. We have words. My words are,
19:10
if I want to be polite, get
19:12
away was, you know what, Michael? I
19:15
could appreciate that, and I wish you
19:17
good luck with it. I've got a
19:19
split now. Yeah, that's cool. That's really
19:21
cool. Yeah. Good luck with it, buddy.
19:23
But you're doing a couple things here.
19:26
You're framing adversity, as like a necessary
19:28
and interesting part of life. I want
19:30
the smooth life. But I didn't know
19:32
it at the time. Okay. I didn't
19:34
know it at the time that it
19:36
was a lesson learned that later, years
19:39
later, it was like, wow, that was
19:41
so cool. The second piece that I
19:43
just want to highlight though is that
19:45
if you've gone through pain or somebody's
19:47
caused you, you know, You're just hurting
19:50
from an experience you had or from
19:52
someone. It doesn't sound like you are
19:54
suggesting, like make a declaration and forgive
19:56
them. You're saying when it comes up,
19:58
work with it piece by piece. You
20:01
know, just eloquently say when it comes
20:03
up, say that's not serving me right
20:05
now. That's old news. And then come
20:07
back to now, but don't just come
20:09
back to now neutral. Come back to
20:11
now and find something that is net
20:14
positive. Oh yeah. And if it still
20:16
happens at night, for example, when you
20:18
go to bed, it's going through your
20:20
head. All this misery is going through
20:22
your head. Remembering your problems of the
20:25
day, whatever. The way to get rid
20:27
of that is, before you go to
20:29
bed... Get a tablet. Write down everything
20:31
that goes to your mind because you
20:33
can't sleep because you're worried about it,
20:36
I can't pay this bill, I can't
20:38
do this, I can't do that. I
20:40
was there, I know, believe me, okay?
20:42
Do you do this? Write it down
20:44
on a piece of paper. Do you
20:46
do this on a regular basis? Not
20:49
anymore, but I did, especially when I
20:51
started companies on a regular basis. Not
20:53
anymore, but I did, especially when I
20:55
started companies with no piece of paper.
20:57
Because it's on the piece of paper.
21:00
Because it's on the piece of paper.
21:02
Maybe it was late at night. That's
21:04
not a problem. I would cross them
21:06
off and minimize what you're really thinking
21:08
about before you go to bed. I
21:11
don't know if you know this, but
21:13
according to research and psychology, that would
21:15
be considered a best practice in evidence-based
21:17
practice for working with anxiety. That would
21:19
be considered a best practice in evidence-based
21:21
practice for working with anxiety. Yeah. And
21:24
the evidence-based practice for working with anxiety.
21:26
Okay. Yeah. clear your mind, okay? And
21:28
this leads into what I wanted to
21:30
start to tell you about the down
21:32
and out, a child, no money, no
21:35
money for a while, okay, no car,
21:37
no nothing. And there we are. How
21:39
did I get out of that? This,
21:41
I really watch audience to know. How
21:43
old were you at this time? I
21:46
was 22 and a half years old.
21:48
And you was 23. And you're coming
21:50
from a place, little. But you said,
21:52
I wrote it down, I want to
21:54
set the world on fire. So that
21:57
is like a really important piece of
21:59
this, is that you're coming from a
22:01
place that I want to do something
22:03
with this time I have here. So,
22:05
okay. Walk us into. But at that
22:07
time, that wasn't the thought. You didn't
22:10
have that. Oh no, at that time,
22:12
it was this. No money, no food,
22:14
no transportation. And my mind went totally
22:16
blank because there's nothing there, right? Okay,
22:18
first thing is I need to get
22:21
money and I need to get a
22:23
car. So my thought was who's got
22:25
a car they're not using. And I
22:27
thought about my actual ex-wives. who deserted
22:29
me right her mother. She had this
22:32
old Cadillac with a blown water pump.
22:34
She never used. It was a 1950
22:36
Cadillac. I called her on the phone,
22:38
made it to a phone, put my
22:40
diamond, called her on the phone, and
22:42
said, if I could get you, can
22:45
I borrow this? You could have it.
22:47
She said, I never use it. Had
22:49
a blown water pump. So that was
22:51
transportation. Now I needed money. And as
22:53
I was driving to get the car,
22:56
there was all these Coke bottles and
22:58
seven up bottles. Lots! I picked up,
23:00
it was two cents for a little
23:02
one and five cents for a big
23:04
bottle. I just gathered them up, got
23:07
my son, stuck them in the car,
23:09
and just went around gathering them. In
23:11
my day, now this is the 1960s,
23:13
every drugstore, every liquor store, okay? Every
23:15
supermarket had to cash them in. There
23:17
was the money. So we were living
23:20
in the car, very little money, but
23:22
we made it. And then about, oh,
23:24
maybe two, three weeks later after living
23:26
in the car, ran across a friend
23:28
of mine from the Hell's Angels, good
23:31
buddy of mine, and Lee Meyer. He
23:33
said, JP, I have an extra room,
23:35
and I could get some of our
23:37
mommas to watch your kid while you're
23:39
working. Come on moving with me. And
23:42
that was a big help. So I'm
23:44
pointing to the scrappiness, the resourcefulness that
23:46
was your part of your part of
23:48
your origin story. and then relationships. When
23:50
you're down and out, you can't think
23:52
about how down and out you are
23:55
because you're already down and out. So
23:57
why are you thinking about how bad?
23:59
So you would just be sliding further.
24:01
Okay, priority money, priority a car, you
24:03
gotta do that. Yeah, right. Okay. And
24:06
then so now you had an average
24:08
for some money, then you found a
24:10
place to live. Right. And then how
24:12
do you get to JP or Paul
24:14
Mitchell? That was your first company or
24:17
Petron? No, my first one was Paul
24:19
Mitchell in 1980. Okay, right. This leads
24:21
to fate. So I'd love to tell
24:23
you the story very quickly. I worked
24:25
for Redkin Laboratories, the professional beauty industry.
24:28
I'm not a hairdresser, okay? I became
24:30
their national manager of two divisions of
24:32
the company by the time I was
24:34
with them only a year and a
24:36
year and a year and a half,
24:38
which was unheard of in that business,
24:41
okay? I'm with them five years. And
24:43
then they got into animal testing. Maybe
24:45
a room that's 12 by 12 with
24:47
all these little marms set monkeys in
24:49
there. So Marmon says, oh, no, no,
24:52
they never leave. They never leave? There's
24:54
a door with a one-foot window that
24:56
looks into the hall. How do they
24:58
see the outside? Well, they don't. Why
25:00
are we testing on them? Well, to
25:03
see how much shampoo they'll take before
25:05
their eyes go out. Well, to see
25:07
how much shampoo they'll take before their
25:09
eyes go out. I said, wait a
25:11
minute. We don't see how much shampoo
25:13
they'll take before they'll take before they'll
25:16
make us. Listen. your executive manager now
25:18
be part of the corporation. It makes
25:20
us look. I'm getting sick to my
25:22
son. Yeah, but it comes out good.
25:24
Yeah, we're the scientific approach, right? We
25:27
are the scientific approach. That's what I
25:29
got. I said, so I went back
25:31
two weeks later. I did the same
25:33
thing. They said, JP, you're everything's ahead,
25:35
you're wonderful. But you either stay on
25:38
the bandwagon because you're telling other people
25:40
about this in the company, right? the
25:42
job for you, okay? So of course
25:44
I left a company called Syntex, big
25:46
in the pharmaceutical industry, bought a company
25:48
called Firmadil. They were doing about $8
25:51
million a year. They heard I was
25:53
available, grabbed me, and they hired me
25:55
to train their management in sales to
25:57
the beauty industry, because that's the beauty
25:59
estate was in. The one year I
26:02
was with them, they went from $8
26:04
million to $12 million. Big jump, 50%
26:06
jump right away. I got fired after
26:08
one year. Why did they fire me?
26:10
The reason they fired me was they
26:13
wanted me to hang out with them
26:15
on weekends and go to canasta, play
26:17
canasta with them, and they happen to
26:19
be Jewish, no disrespect, okay, and go
26:21
to temple. Well, I'm not Jewish, trying
26:23
to go to temple. So over the
26:26
weekends, I was at Griffith Park at
26:28
Lovins, with, you know, groving bands, man.
26:30
My little kid with me there, you
26:32
know, the merry-go-round, that was my life.
26:34
Anyways, anyways, after one, after one year,
26:37
a day, a day, a day, a
26:39
day, a day, a day, a day,
26:41
a day, a day, a day, a
26:43
day, a year, a day, a day,
26:45
a day, a day, a day, a
26:48
day, a day, I said, but my
26:50
job, look, I mean, everybody says, no,
26:52
we're doing that, not you, you just
26:54
happen to be here. I think you
26:56
should go. I mean, he was really
26:59
mean. I said, okay, I'm gone. I
27:01
immediately, so I'm fired there, right? I
27:03
immediately went to work for the Institute
27:05
of Trichology, try and tripled their sales.
27:07
They weren't big cells, little ones, but
27:09
I tripled their cells in one year.
27:12
They came up and said, JP, we
27:14
have we have to let you, I
27:16
just grew your business tremendously. You were
27:18
only paying me $3,000 a month. This
27:20
is the 1970s, right? Three thousand, three
27:23
thousand a month, because I agreed on
27:25
it, but 6% of any new sales
27:27
that were created. They said, well, that's
27:29
what got you. You made more money
27:31
than the owners of the company. I
27:34
see, yeah, but your company is bigger.
27:36
How about you give me 10% of
27:38
the company? I'll pay you for it
27:40
over time because they don't have that
27:42
kind of that kind of money. Paul
27:44
Mitchell, but I'm going to end this
27:47
story before I go in the Paul
27:49
Mitchell story. I started Paul Mitchell. Two
27:51
years later, all of a sudden, something,
27:53
a grand revelation came to my head.
27:55
Oh my God, this is fate. Finding
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Okay, but at the time, did you
31:04
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31:06
this adversity like, damn it, I'm fired
31:08
again, why me? Or was the framing,
31:10
okay, you know, like things are going
31:12
to work out, let's just keep kind
31:15
of plugging along. How did you frame
31:17
it at the time? At the time,
31:19
each time, it was the same thing.
31:21
That's okay. If we're not happy here.
31:23
I'm not going to be happy anymore,
31:25
okay? I'll find another job really easy.
31:28
I put the word out. And because
31:30
I did really get what I did,
31:32
I had a reputation already. So I
31:34
pick up the phone and I get
31:36
a hold of this guy. With syntax,
31:39
they found out about me not being
31:41
with record and they came to me.
31:43
What was your craft? My craft was
31:45
being able to treat people with kindness
31:47
and show them how to think positively
31:50
and take the most negative comment you
31:52
could ever have and turn it around.
31:54
One little example I'll give you. If
31:56
I wanted to try and sell you,
31:58
let's take sell it, an idea, your
32:00
wife, husband, business person, idea, and for
32:03
a very good reason they say no,
32:05
I'm overstocked or I don't even want
32:07
to hear it. How in the world
32:09
do you turn all that into positive?
32:11
Sometimes it's just with a few words.
32:14
One, you're not going to argue with
32:16
them, you're wrong, I'm right, because everyone's
32:18
going to defend themselves. So what do
32:20
you do? You make them right first.
32:22
So what I do? And it's so
32:25
simple. And it's honest. You could say,
32:27
you know, I can appreciate that. I
32:29
could see why you think that way.
32:31
I don't blame you. I think the
32:33
same way. You'll think the same way.
32:36
And then I go back into what
32:38
I wanted to say, would you look
32:40
at it a little bit differently? Okay,
32:42
but you're right, 100% right. And sometimes
32:44
I get you over the hump or
32:46
also teaching people when to keep your
32:49
mouth shut, especially when the other person's
32:51
talking, don't say a word. Many times,
32:53
let's say it's with your wife or
32:55
good friend, you know, you have a
32:57
good friend, they just want to be
33:00
heard. When you're done, hearing me, hearing
33:02
me go, okay, okay, thank you, thank
33:04
you, and that's the end of it.
33:06
And that's the end of it. And
33:08
that's the end of it. So I
33:11
just know there's something better out there.
33:13
I love this because when I asked
33:15
about your craft, you didn't say sales.
33:17
You said helping people work through to
33:19
get to a yes is basically what
33:21
I hear you saying. And not giving
33:24
up. My craft is not giving up.
33:26
Well, to me, yeah, that's interesting. And
33:28
teaching others. Don't give up on a
33:30
conversation. Just make it nice. Make it
33:32
nice. And the way you do that
33:35
is by seeing the person. And at
33:37
the same time, you're holding your ambition,
33:39
your goal in a... a sanctity sure
33:41
and you're holding them in a sanctity
33:43
and you're navigating between those two eloquently
33:46
right yeah okay so it but the
33:48
industry is really at this point sales
33:50
sales right right right and putting together
33:52
your own marketing and enough people to
33:54
put your own formulation together so you
33:56
do need some outside help to okay
33:59
and then how do you bridge master
34:01
your mastery of craft and a sense
34:03
of mastery of self How do you
34:05
square those two ideas? That's the real
34:07
hard part, because the more good books
34:10
I read on this, the more great
34:12
things like your podcast that people might
34:14
listen to, you pick up one more
34:16
little thing you're not doing right now,
34:18
and you incorporate into your everyday life.
34:21
I used to get passages or things
34:23
I wanted to change. One of the
34:25
big ones was, try and be the
34:27
observer without judgment. If you could be
34:29
in every situation, the observer, but don't
34:31
judge it, good or bad, just do
34:34
that. It just releases just so much
34:36
in you, but I highly recommend people
34:38
read books. You learn so much by
34:40
reading good books. Positive books. Is mindfulness
34:42
one of your practices, because I hear
34:45
you speaking about meditation slash mindfulness, but
34:47
I don't know if you have a
34:49
practice of doing it. My meditation takes
34:51
about five minutes. That's it. I wake
34:53
up in the morning, I do what
34:56
most people do, go to the bathroom,
34:58
you know, maybe try and drink some
35:00
more water before I go right back
35:02
in bed. And I try and stay
35:04
there for about five minutes and just
35:07
clear my mind. Just kind of stay
35:09
like this and clear my mind. And
35:11
if something comes in my mind, I
35:13
just say, no, no, no. And I
35:15
look at a blank. piece of white
35:17
paper in front of me of my
35:20
eyes closed, or I open my eyes
35:22
and say, okay, I'm in the room,
35:24
that's the ceiling, that's the door, I
35:26
try and get to real present time
35:28
for about five minutes. I don't think
35:31
about my day or anything, then I
35:33
get up and I incorporate my business
35:35
into my usual day, so becomes part
35:37
of my lifestyle, not a job. I
35:39
stopped working when I started Paul Mitch.
35:42
living in my car with the 700
35:44
bucks. I stopped working. I was happy.
35:46
When you love what you do, you're
35:48
not working anymore. So I'm working there
35:50
in the industry. Now I'm a consultant.
35:52
I'm fired by three companies, so I
35:55
tried to consulting. If you could afford
35:57
to pay me, and I was reasonable,
35:59
okay, I told you everything you needed
36:01
to know quick. Three months, everything you
36:03
wanted to know, I would tell you.
36:06
About what? But anything, sales, marketing, how
36:08
to train your people, how to be
36:10
it. If you didn't have a lot
36:12
of money, I was kind of running
36:14
your company for you, and two, three
36:17
weeks behind and even getting paid. So
36:19
I thought to, with my dear friend,
36:21
Paul, Paul Mitchell, Paul Mitchell, Paul Mitchell,
36:23
who was a great, Paul Mitchell, who
36:25
was a great, who was a great,
36:27
who was a coming together. You are
36:30
a great hairdresser and he was he
36:32
was like one of the top instructing
36:34
hairdressers in the nation people would pay
36:36
money to go to his seminar C
36:38
he started the crimpers and Wash and
36:41
wear hair in the United States from
36:43
Vidal Sassoon Unbelievably good guys and I
36:45
said I know the business part and
36:47
I've got the people do formulation we
36:49
need now this is 1979 1980. $500,000,
36:52
I could start a company that cheap
36:54
because I knew how to do it,
36:56
right? I had the money set up
36:58
through a friend of mine, Mr. David
37:00
Oldhouse, who is with Citibank. Someone in
37:02
Europe wanted to donate the money. He
37:05
said, great, he could have 40% of
37:07
the business, Paul and I each take
37:09
30, right? We were all set. I
37:11
quit everything I was doing, so I
37:13
went down the hill to get the
37:16
money. Nothing was there at the Bank
37:18
of America Universal City. Dick Holt house
37:20
found me later on in the day.
37:22
He said, JP, I've got the worst
37:24
news for you, okay? But it just
37:27
happened. He said, he changed his mind,
37:29
he didn't send it in this morning,
37:31
and he got me through a friend
37:33
who found me, right? And I said,
37:35
why? Inflation in the United States in
37:37
1980 and 81 was 12 and a
37:40
half percent. Not way more than it
37:42
is today. Unemployment. was 10.5%. Loans, if
37:44
you could get a loan, the cheapest
37:46
rate was 7%. percent interest if you
37:48
get a loan and we waited in
37:51
line for gasoline. Now you and no
37:53
money. Now you talk about a time
37:55
to start a business down and out.
37:57
What was the first thought in mind?
37:59
Okay this guy ordered 200,000 bottles from
38:02
this guy 100,000 silk screen them and
38:04
this guy 100,000 to fill them right?
38:06
What the hell am I going to
38:08
do? I've got to get lower inventories
38:10
and figure out a way to get
38:13
it made right away. Call the silk
38:15
screener and called the bottle guy and
38:17
said... And they all knew that this
38:19
would be a big business, right? So
38:21
who are your business partners at this
38:23
point? Paul Mitchell, period. Just the two
38:26
of you, and there's no money coming
38:28
in. No, zero. There's an idea. Nobody,
38:30
no, nothing, right? Yeah, okay, got it,
38:32
yeah. So first thing I did was
38:34
I had to lower what I had
38:37
to get, right? So the first thing
38:39
I did was. called up the bottle
38:41
man and asked for a trial sample
38:43
run of only 10,000 bottles. So he
38:45
wouldn't get freaked out. He goes, oh,
38:48
of course, a mammation asked for sample
38:50
run before. I immediately called the silk
38:52
screener, a sample run of tens coming,
38:54
I mean, of 10,000, and I called
38:56
the filler, a sample run. Every one
38:58
of them had 30 day billing for
39:01
me before anything went wrong. Hey, we
39:03
got the money. I came up. Here's
39:05
my, here. From the time I delivered
39:07
it, the pay 30 days, 30 days,
39:09
right? Okay. What I owed the money,
39:12
right? I needed the money then. From
39:14
the time I pulled the trigger and
39:16
said, bottles, ship it to the screener,
39:18
it took two weeks for the first
39:20
run to be full. Shampoo one, shampoo
39:23
two and a leave in the condition,
39:25
right? Two weeks. I had two weeks
39:27
before the first one was due. I
39:29
filled my car full of... our products
39:31
and drove right up into a boulevard
39:33
in Studio City with School of Sloan
39:36
and knocked like encyclopedias, okay, door to
39:38
door selling my product, right? I had
39:40
challenges. One, no distributor, no advertising money,
39:42
and nothing to really sell. I knew
39:44
it had a lot of adversity. your
39:47
new, no advertising dollars, no team, whatever.
39:49
So I went out and it took
39:51
me a week to get 12 salons
39:53
to buy my product anywhere from $27
39:55
to $130, okay, per order. But they
39:58
left it blank on top. And I'm
40:00
pretty good at selling, but no, you
40:02
never heard of us before. I had
40:04
to really convince these people. So it
40:06
took me that long and I probably
40:08
made it. What did blank on top
40:11
mean? In the words, the check. wasn't
40:13
filled out of my name. They filled
40:15
out the check. So please leave it
40:17
open and just put the amount in.
40:19
And it wasn't big heavy dollars. So
40:22
of course they did that. I now
40:24
had 12 checks in my pocket, okay?
40:26
And 12 orders that were signed. I
40:28
went to the biggest, and also I
40:30
knew I need it money now. I
40:33
could not wait 45 days. 45 days
40:35
is how the beauty industry professional pays
40:37
their bills. I needed it now. So
40:39
I added on to the wholesale price.
40:41
Five percent. I went and saw the
40:44
first distributor and I asked him, I
40:46
showed him our products. Nice man, Jim
40:48
Henrietta. He said, you're a nice man.
40:50
Pretty products. He says, but I'm the
40:52
biggest distributor. I'll be building your brand
40:54
for you. You have no advertising budget.
40:57
You're honest. Nubby, but you and a
40:59
hairdress doesn't know anything about business, okay?
41:01
You know, thank you, but there's not
41:03
enough for you to take on your
41:05
line. I said, Sir, can I give
41:08
you take on your take on your
41:10
take on your take on your take
41:12
on your take on your line. So
41:14
I pulled out of my pocket 12
41:16
checks and put them right in front
41:19
of them and I said, There's your
41:21
first 12 customers. I've already sold them
41:23
for you. Sign your name to those
41:25
checks there. They're yours. Here's the orders.
41:27
And I will show up. We were
41:29
really hard up. If you will only
41:32
buy $2,000 worth of our products, that's
41:34
all. Again, we were really hard up,
41:36
right? I'll give you all of LA
41:38
County and Orange County exclusively. We just
41:40
need money. He laughed his head off
41:43
and said, okay, but you better be
41:45
here tomorrow and be here every single
41:47
day working with the sales. Okay? Until
41:49
it's gone. Okay? What you do. I
41:51
said, sure, well, I said, but there's
41:54
one more thing I got to ask
41:56
you. I said, when I deliver the
41:58
products when they're delivered, can you please
42:00
pay me?" He laughed and he said
42:02
told it at our 25th anniversary which
42:04
was 20 years ago or 45 years
42:07
now. Anyways, he said, so this JP
42:09
walks out of my office, I'm laughing,
42:11
best presentation I've ever had. Within three
42:13
minutes my warehouse guy's calling me for
42:16
one of my warehouse around back. He
42:18
says some guys are loading stuff on
42:20
our back counter on the shipping dock
42:22
and wants to check for 2000. laughed
42:25
his head off right, signed the cheque
42:27
back, given he could barely keep his breath
42:29
laughing, said, you better be here, right? And
42:31
that's how I got some money and how
42:33
he started the company. So you didn't use
42:36
that as cash flow. I thought you were
42:38
selling to the individuals the 12 salons for
42:40
cash flow so you could pay for the
42:42
first 10,000. You were using it as leverage.
42:45
for distribution. To pay the darn bill up.
42:47
I lived up $2.50 a day. I had
42:49
a few hundred dollars in my pocket when
42:51
I went down the hill, but I need
42:54
a little more. My partner flew and
42:56
he's a little older than me, wanted
42:58
some cash. No money came in. So
43:00
I said, Paul, how much can you afford?
43:02
He's just 350 bucks. I said, Paul, I
43:04
have about $250, but I needed to live
43:07
off of. So I went to see my
43:09
mother. I was too proud. This was a
43:11
mistake I made in life. I should have
43:13
said, Mom, I'm down and out. I started
43:15
a new company. Can I have my
43:17
old bed back? And well, you feed
43:19
me. She was said, of course. I
43:21
was too proud. I said, Mom, can
43:23
I borrow $350 from you? You're making
43:26
good money. Why? I said, Mom, I'll
43:28
pay it back. I'm starting another company.
43:30
Okay, new company, you should be on
43:32
your own anyways. Go ahead. Never told
43:34
her. She didn't know until a special
43:36
was done on me with, oh my
43:38
God, the guy who did lifestyles of
43:40
the rich and famous, Robin Leach, right?
43:42
Yes, that's right. She didn't know how down
43:45
an I was, and I was, and she cried.
43:47
Why, why, why, why, why, why, why, why, we're
43:49
gonna do it, we're gonna make it. Here's what
43:51
happened at 700 bucks. Paul had 350,
43:53
I had 350. Before anything had happened,
43:55
I had to go to the artists
43:57
that did the artwork on our three
43:59
products. turned into the silk screener. We
44:01
told him the truth. He says, I'll
44:04
never get the thousand dollars you owe
44:06
me for the artwork. I'll take the
44:08
seven hundred. But that's all we have.
44:10
I'm sorry, I'll never get the other
44:12
three hundred anyways. So there we were.
44:14
Paul had enough money to get back
44:17
to Hawaii, cut hair over there, and
44:19
I had a... Find out a way
44:21
to live off 99 cents for breakfast
44:23
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44:25
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44:28
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46:32
There's two ways I want to pivot
46:34
the conversation. One is you are renowned
46:36
for how long people work in your
46:38
company. Okay, so I do want to
46:41
understand what you're doing in the culture.
46:43
as a leader to create a team
46:45
that is enduring. I also, I also
46:47
want to ask you a question about,
46:49
you were young and scrappy and full
46:52
of like, I need to make something
46:54
happen. Like you were, now you're, you're
46:56
the wise man. I think you're 80,
46:58
80, 80, 80. A couple months, 81.
47:00
Almost 81. Do you think you could
47:02
do it again, you know, 45 years
47:05
later? Like, I want to go both
47:07
of those directions. Maybe you could pick
47:09
up which direction you want to go.
47:11
How you created the culture and speak
47:13
right to the leaders of companies about
47:16
what you do to keep great talent.
47:18
Let me combine kind of the two
47:20
together. Okay. Yeah. When I started Patron
47:22
in 1989, myself and my partner at
47:24
the time, okay, knew nothing about the
47:26
alcohol business. Zero. We had to learn.
47:29
industry. And this is this is like
47:31
1988. This is 1989. 89. I think
47:33
people forget that Patron has only been
47:35
around since 1989. Yeah, exactly. That's it.
47:37
Yeah, it feels like it was there
47:40
forever. We didn't buy it. We started
47:42
it. The name and everything. We got
47:44
a whole live. So when we started
47:46
Patron and we were lucky to get
47:48
the name, right? When we started Patron
47:50
with small units, we brought it to
47:53
the United States and nobody... would touch
47:55
it. We went to every distributor. They
47:57
said it's the best tequila in the
47:59
world, but you want $37.95 a bottle.
48:01
The average tequila in those days was
48:04
about $5 a bottle. They said it's
48:06
the best guys, but no one's going
48:08
to pay that kind of money. So
48:10
we ended up going with a wine
48:12
distributor where we talked him into it.
48:14
I would personally show up and do
48:17
his sales meeting for him, rah rah
48:19
rah, you know. So we started. After
48:21
one year we dropped him, he only
48:23
sold a thousand cases. That was it.
48:25
Because he said, guys, it's just too
48:28
expensive. We went with Jim Beam, giant
48:30
distributor. He took a piece, and then
48:32
we went to all of his distributors
48:34
who took a piece, right? After about
48:36
a year and a half, Jim Beam
48:38
came to us and said, guys, I
48:41
know you're disappointed. We're only selling 12,000
48:43
bottles a year, but we're going to
48:45
tell you the truth. but too expensive.
48:47
Lower the price will happen. We didn't
48:49
believe when we dropped him and we
48:52
took on Seagram's. Seagram's took it to
48:54
70,000 cases a year. We knew we
48:56
could do better by that point. We
48:58
took him to court and bought him
49:00
with cash. out of their agreement with
49:02
us. We bought him out of their
49:05
agreement, right? We took over. For the
49:07
brand that was never supposed to do
49:09
more than 20,000 cases a year, when
49:11
I sold Patron over six years ago,
49:13
which went for the highest amount ever
49:16
paid for any spirits company, we were
49:18
doing just with Patron Silvers alone, about
49:20
3,500,000 cases, all-time record. Just for silver.
49:22
So how do we- treat people. How
49:24
do I get people to stay a
49:26
long time? It's just doing what I
49:29
wish happened to me. much adversity in
49:31
my life. I could remember the times
49:33
when I had one dollar for lunch
49:35
and now I'm in my late 20s.
49:37
I had one book for lunch, right?
49:40
You don't get much for a dollar.
49:42
So my first thought was I'm going
49:44
to treat people the way I'm treated.
49:46
But expect out of people what I
49:48
expect out of myself. So I had
49:50
no money at Paul Mitchell hire anybody.
49:53
Six months later, I had just enough
49:55
to hire for very little Shirley Wong.
49:57
She now answered the phone, shift the
49:59
order, she did 10 different things, because
50:01
I could do 10 different things, and
50:04
I could do what I did best,
50:06
because Shirley was doing the rest. And
50:08
she did a great job with us.
50:10
So what I did was as soon
50:12
as I could afford it, was if
50:14
you were working for me, okay, you
50:17
got free lunch every day. dollar and
50:19
not have lunch. So I don't care
50:21
whether you're wealthy, whether you're not wealthy,
50:23
whether you have a sandwich bag, everyone
50:25
that works for me is going to
50:28
have free lunch and eventually you pick
50:30
off a menu, what do you want?
50:32
We still have that today. And I
50:34
can remember when people say do it
50:36
because I said so. I'm the boss.
50:38
And boy, that doesn't sound right. So
50:41
I made sure that when I talked
50:43
to my people, I talked to them
50:45
as if they are my partner and
50:47
I love them and they love me
50:49
and I treat people that way. So
50:52
I would say kindness in thinking of
50:54
the other person along the way. And
50:56
sometimes you've got to put good feeling
50:58
and peace in front of profit. It's
51:00
amazing. I mean, as I'm listening, it
51:02
feels like there's such tight alignment between
51:05
your principles and your words and your
51:07
actions. that wherever you go you are
51:09
you right and kindness gratitude building you
51:11
know whether it's building people or building
51:13
companies is all part of how you've
51:16
designed your life oh yeah and it
51:18
by the way and I did try
51:20
to be other people before and it
51:22
was terrible is a total failure it's
51:24
what are some important habits that you
51:26
have to help you what are some
51:29
important habits that you have to help
51:31
you This zest, the spark for life.
51:33
And one of them you did share,
51:35
which is like, let's call it five
51:37
minutes of meditation in bed. What are
51:40
some other important habits that you've developed
51:42
over time? One is drink a lot
51:44
of water and do it before three
51:46
in the afternoon or you're up all
51:48
night going to the bathroom. Okay, a
51:50
lot of water, you know. And try
51:53
and reach, half your weight. in ounces,
51:55
like I weigh 170 pounds, that'd be
51:57
85 pounds, 85 ounces a lot for
51:59
me to drink, but I'll get to
52:01
50 or 60 ounces and I start
52:04
in the morning. So that's one to
52:06
hydrate yourself. Other things that I will
52:08
catch myself occasionally judging somebody, but when
52:10
I catch it I immediately stop. I
52:12
just stop period, but I do catch
52:14
myself. trying to pick up a sentence
52:17
because I'm so excited before the other
52:19
person is done, so I'll catch myself.
52:21
You know, so these are things along
52:23
the way that help me be better
52:25
because even though it's seldom that I
52:28
catch myself today because I'm really learning
52:30
a lot, you know, and I feel
52:32
good about it. Every time it does,
52:34
I get an uplift. And being kind
52:36
of people is the best thing. How
52:38
do you start being kind of people?
52:41
The first three living souls you see.
52:43
Just go three. When you wake up,
52:45
when you wake up. door man, first
52:47
three people, make it a point just
52:49
to smile and say good morning, that's
52:52
all you got to do, good morning,
52:54
you'll find yourself doing to the third,
52:56
fourth, fifth, and tenth person, good morning,
52:58
just good morning, that's all, the three,
53:00
just go for three, don't go for
53:02
three, don't go for a million because
53:05
it'll catch on, you'll go to four
53:07
next time, you'll say hi, nice to
53:09
see you, it just changes your attitude,
53:11
you feel like right now. people say,
53:13
JP, what are you going to retire?
53:16
You know, you're going to retire decades
53:18
ago. I said, retire? Are you kidding?
53:20
I stopped working when I lived in
53:22
my car. I love what I'm doing
53:24
it today. It's like, I love what
53:26
I'm doing here. Coming out or do
53:29
a podcast for someone, that's going to
53:31
affect millions of people. What is one
53:33
of my goals in life now to
53:35
affect multi? and over a billion people
53:37
to have better lives. That's my goal
53:40
now in life, no matter how long
53:42
it takes. You have made something that
53:44
is aspirationally available to people, you know,
53:46
like these very simple practices. You've done
53:48
it so enthusiastically and so clearly in
53:50
this conversation that it feels like on
53:53
the other side, I'm going, yeah, of
53:55
course. Oh, that's so simple. You've built
53:57
really successful companies. And you have. Such
53:59
a positive outlook you are a leader
54:01
of leaders. What guidance would you give
54:04
the leader of our free country? I
54:06
would say Do everything you can with
54:08
kindness. If you got to put somebody
54:10
down, do it in a jokingly matter,
54:12
but throw something kind in there. That's
54:14
number one. Okay? Number two, in leading
54:17
our country, give the other guy a
54:19
chance to talk and do look at
54:21
both sides of everything. And when you
54:23
do something, let the world know about
54:25
it. How do you deal with loss?
54:28
How do you deal with loss? that
54:30
I really felt was when my brother
54:32
died at a very young age. I
54:34
was 27 years old in Topanga Canyon.
54:36
He was getting his motorcycle and he
54:38
extended the front end and went around
54:41
a corner too fast when flying off
54:43
into a wall and unfortunately killed him.
54:45
And he was just one of the
54:47
best. friends, one could ever have been
54:49
my friend, my brother. When we were
54:52
in foster care, because my mother was
54:54
sick from age five to nine and
54:56
a half, my brother was there protecting
54:58
me, doing whatever he could, and that
55:00
was just a huge loss. I lost
55:02
my best friend, not just my brother.
55:05
That I really felt in my heart
55:07
for a while. And how do you
55:09
give guidance to people that are in
55:11
the thro of loss or grief right
55:13
now? Well, as I learn more about
55:16
we the people, and I started to
55:18
learn that, we are not the body.
55:20
We are the entity, we are the
55:22
life form in that body. That's what
55:24
we are, okay? And one could believe
55:26
whatever they want to believe, which is
55:29
wonderful, that's our own beliefs. But my
55:31
full belief now with conviction is we
55:33
are not... the body, we're being in
55:35
a body, and we learn as time
55:37
goes on, and we cannot change yesterday's
55:40
newspaper. When we leave the body, we're
55:42
at a place that's very, very big
55:44
and very, very spiritual. My mother died
55:46
twice, and once in her late 90s,
55:48
and told me about the afterlife experience,
55:50
and my mother was impossible of lying.
55:53
She just could not lie. My mom
55:55
could not lie. Okay, she was one
55:57
of those people, right? But she died,
55:59
and she saw the whole the whole
56:01
thing. her and they had the paddles
56:04
there right were losing her and then
56:06
saw her flat line and she was
56:08
out of her body on the ceiling
56:10
watching and then when they popped her
56:12
like that she went right back into
56:14
the body she says boys it was
56:17
a matter of seconds but I knew
56:19
everything it was so peaceful it was
56:21
so peaceful I don't even want to
56:23
go back in there again she says
56:25
nothing to be afraid of she says
56:28
but I guess I just didn't have
56:30
the ticket that I needed on that
56:32
train I had to go back again
56:34
I went back to a ballroom dancing
56:36
well into her 90 her 90s So
56:38
how do you spend your time now?
56:41
You've got a castle in Scotland. You've
56:43
got a place here in LA You've
56:45
got a beautiful home in Texas like
56:47
how do you spend your time? Well
56:49
for one when I made that call
56:51
it a big score and I sold
56:54
patron. And you know, I could do
56:56
things that could be exciting. So I
56:58
got in the hospitality business. These places
57:00
like in the Costa Rica, Barbuda, the
57:02
castle, whatever, are developments, you know, like
57:05
all inclusive, private club, just first class
57:07
all the way, where we could hire
57:09
the local people at the same time
57:11
and take care of them. I'll give
57:13
you one example, motivate me and Barbuda,
57:15
beautiful island, nine miles of beach, 97%
57:18
unemployed. They were subsidized and selling their
57:20
sand to get enough money to be
57:22
able to exist on and still subsidize
57:24
them in Antigua, their sister island, right?
57:26
And so I bought this beautiful beach,
57:29
gorgeous property there. Rutherford I buy it,
57:31
the tornado, the hurricane comes through and
57:33
wipes the whole island out, people and
57:35
all. So I was able to send
57:37
one of the Sea Shepherd. boats down
57:39
there that I bought the Sea Shepherds
57:42
to pick up the people and bring
57:44
them to Antigua. So they have better
57:46
shelter there. Island was ruined, right? Why
57:48
did I do this? I'm going to
57:50
bring back every sand dune, I've got
57:53
the money, I'm going to bring back
57:55
the coral. The coral was disappearing. I'm
57:57
going to bring the people, I'm going
57:59
to bring the turtles back, and the
58:01
people are all going to have jobs
58:03
now, and I'm going to create something
58:06
like that. That's exactly what I did.
58:08
It took care of the ocean, it
58:10
took care of the environment, and it
58:12
took care of people. directly for our
58:14
project and anybody else that wants a
58:17
job with us could get a job
58:19
with us doing something. We were able
58:21
to employ them and then I was
58:23
able to sell to them why they
58:25
should be their own entrepreneurs. I'll give
58:27
you Abishir. Abishir is taller than I
58:30
am and his hair comes right down
58:32
his ankles and they're pure dreadlocks. Love
58:34
you bro. Just a cool dude, right?
58:36
Anyways, and he was in jail for
58:38
a while for marijuana possession, stupid stuff.
58:41
He now has his own business with
58:43
13 employees taking care of our golf
58:45
course, and we are his only customers,
58:47
but he's the boss, and now 14
58:49
people work. So we encourage that. Well,
58:51
what's the end result? Everybody's happy there.
58:54
They love the heck out of you.
58:56
They want to do everything first class
58:58
and feel special now. They have extra
59:00
money to buy clothes with telephonesos. Rebuilds.
59:02
Rebuild your house. a garden, ourselves a
59:05
garden at the same time, with organic
59:07
food to eat. And we're rebuilding the
59:09
coral now for the world. And I
59:11
started with Dr. Deborah Broson, and we
59:13
put up a lap together, and we
59:15
are growing coral in the water. We
59:18
put together a man-made reef, and we
59:20
put together a man-made reef, and we
59:22
put together a man-made reef, and we
59:24
put together a man-made reef, the world
59:26
ocean conference. Now they're coming to these
59:29
really cool things. and give. Okay, I
59:31
got a couple quick hits for you.
59:33
Okay, so just kind of like one
59:35
or two word answers on these. It
59:37
all comes down to... Being kind to
59:39
people. Living the good life is marked
59:42
by... Being happy. Success is... Success unshared
59:44
is happiness. Success, though more important, is
59:46
not where you are now in life.
59:48
How far did you come to get
59:50
there? Quick story. You could always... Canada,
59:53
right? Quick story. In high school, I
59:55
always had a job. I worked for
59:57
stewards cleaners. One day I come from
59:59
high school down to stewards to brush
1:00:01
a blanket sweep of floors. Stewart comes
1:00:03
up to me. He paid me a
1:00:06
dollar and a quarter of an hour
1:00:08
because it was the law. He was
1:00:10
so tight, this guy, or he would
1:00:12
give me 50 cents if he had
1:00:14
to, right? He said, Johnny, I gotta
1:00:17
talk to you. They call me Johnny
1:00:19
in those days. I said, oh shit,
1:00:21
that's going on right. Anyway, she says,
1:00:23
last night, after you were gone, I
1:00:25
worked late. I went up to my
1:00:27
mezzanine and took my watch off to
1:00:30
lay on the, we had those old-time
1:00:32
concept there. He says, I dropped on
1:00:34
the floor, I picked it up and.
1:00:36
cot was exposed, there was no dust
1:00:38
under it. So I moved the cot.
1:00:41
There was no dust behind it. And
1:00:43
I looked behind a couple of things.
1:00:45
There was no dust. You moved everything
1:00:47
when you swept. I said, well, yes,
1:00:49
Stuart, I liked my job. My mom
1:00:51
told me as I was a kid
1:00:54
how to clanks. We cleaned the house
1:00:56
for my mom, right? My brother and
1:00:58
I just... I'm doing the job you're
1:01:00
paying me for. He goes, you're doing
1:01:02
the job as if I'm watching you
1:01:05
every minute. I've never seen anybody like
1:01:07
that. He says, I'm going to give
1:01:09
you a raise. He raised me to
1:01:11
$1.50 an hour. I was probably the...
1:01:13
I just paid kid in high school
1:01:15
where I went to high school anyways
1:01:18
right for $1.50 an hour. I was
1:01:20
successful. I was the most successful janitor
1:01:22
in the world. Success is happiness and
1:01:24
how far you go from where you
1:01:26
started and what do you do when
1:01:29
no one else is around? How successful
1:01:31
are you being yourself? That's success. There's
1:01:33
some of the happiest people in the
1:01:35
world and what they're doing and they're
1:01:37
happy at it and they grew in
1:01:39
it to do it the very very
1:01:42
very best. Money is... Money is a
1:01:44
vehicle to do good things with and
1:01:46
if you have financial success unless you
1:01:48
share it it's failure. And I do
1:01:50
that a lot, you know, it's really,
1:01:53
really good. If you could sit with
1:01:55
one true master, master of craft, master
1:01:57
of self, who would it be, and
1:01:59
what one question would you want to
1:02:01
ask them? Who would I love to
1:02:03
be with? If I could get back
1:02:06
to the original creator who did all
1:02:08
this, you know, five billion, ten, fifteen
1:02:10
billion years ago, oh, I would just
1:02:12
love to be there and say thank
1:02:14
you. That's what you say, thank you.
1:02:17
No question, just thank you. You are
1:02:19
the tall flagpole that people are able
1:02:21
to look to to say, okay, he's
1:02:23
on it, he really understands it. What
1:02:25
insights would you pass on to them?
1:02:27
Are there two bits of advice, three
1:02:30
bits of us, something that is really
1:02:32
important that you want to make sure
1:02:34
they understand? Yeah. Number one is this,
1:02:36
make sure your service or your product,
1:02:38
in case not a physical product, is
1:02:41
the best it could be, do not
1:02:43
go into the selling business. go into
1:02:45
the reorder business. Because if it's as
1:02:47
good as they could possibly be, and
1:02:49
people love it, they're gonna wanna reorder
1:02:51
it, or tell their friends if it's
1:02:54
a service. Because most people put it
1:02:56
into, how do we sell it, marketing
1:02:58
material, this, this, this, this, and then
1:03:00
like take the cosmetic industry. Many things
1:03:02
in my industry are good for three
1:03:05
to five years, so you gotta replace,
1:03:07
replace it, okay? Because of the quality,
1:03:09
my first three products 45 years ago,
1:03:11
shampoo one, shampoo two, the conditioner, scoping
1:03:13
lotion, are still some of our bestsellers
1:03:15
45 years later. So your service must
1:03:18
be the best. They could tell others
1:03:20
about it. The product must be the
1:03:22
best so they could reorder. The second
1:03:24
thing is. Be prepared for failure. If
1:03:26
you're prepared for rejection is the word,
1:03:29
like I was, and they prepared me
1:03:31
when I sold encyclopedias door to door.
1:03:33
Keep on knocking me just as enthusiastic
1:03:35
on door number 51 as you were
1:03:37
on the first door, right? And I
1:03:39
did it, door 100, God knows what,
1:03:42
right? In other words, if you know
1:03:44
you're gonna be rejected, you're not gonna
1:03:46
fall out right away. You're not gonna
1:03:48
immediately disappear with it, okay? There's one
1:03:50
last question I have for you. is
1:03:53
there's an idea in the business world
1:03:55
that to be really successful, you need
1:03:57
to be cutthroat. Is that true? Bullshit.
1:03:59
Yeah. That's not the word. Yes. I'm
1:04:01
kind. Yeah. My cutthroat. You're not. No,
1:04:03
I'm not. If anything, my downfall is
1:04:06
sometimes people. So you're just too nice.
1:04:08
JP. And I've lost some money. I've
1:04:10
invested in some investments or business in
1:04:12
the past. Isn't shape. You're just so
1:04:14
nice. You just so, once I got
1:04:17
all this money. I had a home
1:04:19
office. Now I have the best attorneys,
1:04:21
the best accountants. They do it all,
1:04:23
right? But they do it with kindness.
1:04:25
I even taught them like recently there
1:04:27
was someone that did something not so
1:04:30
good. So I said when you write
1:04:32
them letters, make it nice. Just you
1:04:34
know, thank you for all the help
1:04:36
you've given us. Put something nice, not
1:04:38
a, you really screwed up, my God,
1:04:41
I think you did this wrong. Always
1:04:43
end it nice. Go in nice and
1:04:45
end it nice. So that is still
1:04:47
my same feeling there. But instead of
1:04:49
someone saying to me, you're just too
1:04:51
nice, they're strong as caffeine. But they
1:04:54
can be not so strong, but in
1:04:56
a very nice way. JP, your legend.
1:04:58
Thank you so much for today. Michael,
1:05:00
this has been a real pleasure speaking
1:05:02
with you. I'll come on your podcast
1:05:05
any time you want. I love this.
1:05:07
Thank you so much. You're very well
1:05:09
concerned. That
1:05:11
was amazing. I loved that conversation. It
1:05:13
was so rich. It was so good.
1:05:16
What did you think, Emma? He is
1:05:18
awesome. What a journey he's been on
1:05:20
his entire life. What a treat we
1:05:23
get to learn from. Literally, the best
1:05:25
in the world. So who do we
1:05:27
have next? Next up, we've got Sasha
1:05:29
De Julian. She was great. Oh, you
1:05:32
like that one too? Yes. She is
1:05:34
insanely talented and also just really lovely.
1:05:36
For those of you who may not
1:05:39
know, Sasha. She's one of the most
1:05:41
accomplished climbers climbers in the most accomplished
1:05:43
climbers in the world. She made history
1:05:45
as the first American woman to win
1:05:48
a World Cup title and was the
1:05:50
first woman to climb a 514D, which,
1:05:52
trust me, and the climbing speed, I'm
1:05:55
not a climber, but I know these
1:05:57
people, it's as hard as it gets.
1:05:59
Sasha opens up about pushing through the
1:06:01
toughest moment, battling self-doubt, how she found
1:06:04
strength after life changing barriers in a
1:06:06
male... nominated sport to redefining success on
1:06:08
her own terms. Sasha's story is one
1:06:11
of resilience of raw honesty. Tune in
1:06:13
for this really powerful conversation. All right,
1:06:15
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