Alright, fellas—imagine this. You fire up your favorite game, dive into a new world, and boom—there they are: the NPCs. The shopkeeper trying to sell you some overpriced gear, the quest giver spitting out the same old scripted lines, the random townsfolk just cluttering up the place, and the linemen who won’t let you play. You go through the motions, grab what you need, and keep moving—because, honestly, they’re just background noise in your story.

But here’s the kicker: a lot of guys are treating their real lives the same way. Treating people—friends, coworkers, even potential partners—like NPCs instead of real, complex individuals.

Think about it—ever had a day where you barely notice the people around you? The barista handing you your coffee, the guy working the front desk at your gym, the coworkers you don’t bother to truly engage with? Your wife and kids? Yeah, that one stings a bit. It’s like they’re just there to play a role—nothing more, nothing less. It’s as if their only purpose is to serve you, not as people with their own stories, struggles, and goals. And here’s the thing—many guys fall into this without even realizing it.

But here’s the hard truth—treating people like NPCs? It has real consequences. It isolates you. If all you see are tools or background characters, you miss out on the chance for real, meaningful relationships. Sure, you might be crushing it in your career, fitness, or side hustles—but are you actually connecting with anyone? The more you treat people like they’re just filling a role in your life, the harder it becomes to build real bonds.

On this episode, we’re diving into why the NPC mindset happens, how it messes with your relationships, and most importantly—how to break out of it. We’ll explore how to shift from a “What can I get from this person?” mentality to a “How can I connect with this person?” mindset. It might seem small, but that switch? It changes everything.