What if the person you think you are is an outdated idea?

In this episode, we explore how habits form—not from logic, but from history. From childhood rules to adult rituals, your behaviours aren’t just choices. They’re echoes.

We look at behavioural debt: how the past continues to extract payments from your present and what you can do about it.

We look expansively at different ways we pick up all these habits and identities, and then use 5 ideas from psychology and philosophy to fix them.There’s a monk shedding illusions, a writer who redefined his identity, and a cycling team that changed everything with 1% improvements. These aren’t just stories. They’re invitations—to become intentional, to design rituals that serve who you want to be, not who you used to be.

Takeaways:

Reframe your identity as something you craft, not inherit

Use “identity microshifts” to pay off your behavioural debt

Hack your own Fresh Start Effect—even on a random Tuesday

Learn how to become yourself through subtraction instead of adding more things

If you’ve ever felt like your habits were someone else’s or like your current actions no longer serve who you are, this episode will make a lot of sense to you.

The real work isn’t in learning more—it’s in unlearning what no longer fits.

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Chapters:00:00 What makes you, you?02:52 Memory and the self04:20 British Accents and lessons of children05:58 Attachment and behaviour07:58 Small Actions Compound09:36 Advert - Magic Mind09:38 Opening our minds11:01 Every story has a villain14:24 Path Dependence: The Continuity Trap16:21 Self Schema Theory: The Stories We Tell Ourselves17:52 Neuroplasticity - Hebb's Law and rewiring brain connections19:56 Friedrich Nietzsche and becoming who you are21:27 Psychological Rebirth: The Fresh Start Effect23:20 Conclusion - Paying of behavioural debt24:36 Feedback25:07 Send OffLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices