0:00

This weekend, San Diego, Riverside,

0:02

next weekend, all the Florida

0:04

dates are selling well. Church announces

0:06

real quick. It is very likely

0:08

that Tampa, Orlando, and Jacksonville will

0:10

all sell out. They are all

0:13

selling very well. Very proud of

0:15

Florida. This is probably my

0:17

best showing in Florida overall. Three of

0:19

the four dates are doing well. Fort

0:21

Lauderdale was the one that I

0:23

thought would do poorly because South

0:25

Florida just don't show up like

0:27

North Florida. I got three cities.

0:30

in northern to central Florida

0:32

that are all doing well. Fort

0:34

Lauderdale is all of southern Florida

0:37

ain't doing nothing. But three

0:39

out of floor, if you're in Florida,

0:41

pull up. All right, God bless you.

0:43

Now we start the episode. And five,

0:46

four, three, two. One, whatever,

0:48

y'all, what, but

0:51

here's the theme.

0:53

I'm a camera on

0:55

stage. She's... But

0:57

she came down!

0:59

Branger, banger, banger!

1:01

Wow, wow, wow.

1:04

Bye. All 2020.

1:06

Welcome to the

1:08

first podcast of

1:10

the year, our

1:12

Lord and Savior.

1:14

2020. Five. My name

1:17

is Kevin Frederics. This is Angel.

1:19

Tanks Lee, Joshua Gonzales.

1:21

I'll just warn y'all a little bit.

1:23

Me and Josh are on the road.

1:26

It's been a grueling three days.

1:28

So if our energy is muted, we

1:30

are giving you the best that we

1:32

have. We have been in this city.

1:34

We are in for 1.5 hours. We

1:36

ran in, dropped our bags, washed our

1:39

hands, ate lunch, ran upstairs, ran

1:41

upstairs to shoot this. to

1:43

make sure y'all had a

1:45

podcast to listen to. So

1:47

charge it to our heads, not

1:49

to our hearts, if we're a

1:51

little muted. We put the docket

1:54

back of the picture on as

1:56

we do, and surprisingly enough,

1:58

the number one. It

2:00

wasn't surprising. I

2:03

couldn't believe it. And

2:05

y'all said, oh my. What

2:07

was it? It was on

2:09

my docket. By and large

2:11

was one Joshua

2:13

Robert Gonzales getting

2:16

engaged over Christmas

2:18

break. Without further

2:20

ado, Joshi, speak

2:23

uninterrupted for one complete

2:25

hour. I'm going to

2:28

meet myself. I'll do my

2:30

best not to interrupt so you

2:32

can get the story straight

2:34

from the horses now. Kevin

2:37

don't lie. You will interrupt

2:39

and it's okay, but y'all

2:41

still gonna get a whole

2:43

lot. I'm expecting at least.

2:45

See, I don't never let

2:48

nobody talk. See, here we

2:50

go. I was going to

2:52

say, I'm already expecting interruptions

2:54

around the clock. But yeah,

2:56

we got, Jimmy Carter. You're

3:01

stupid. He's like in there's the

3:03

end of it. There you go.

3:05

No, so I'll share with you

3:07

guys like the planning process and

3:09

how everything literally came up and

3:11

like went up until the very

3:14

last possible day before

3:16

travel. And then I'll open this

3:18

the floor up for a couple

3:20

Q&As. I know we were if this

3:23

if this whole conversation goes for the

3:25

hour that in no Q&As. But.

3:27

So I want to say

3:29

I planned, I started planning

3:32

this. I was having concepts

3:34

of an engagement, you

3:36

know, so I, around summertime, I

3:38

was like, I'm ready to

3:41

move forward with this. Around

3:43

summertime, I was like, yes,

3:45

it could or could not

3:47

have been inspired by

3:49

a friend's 20 year, anniversary,

3:51

I don't know. I don't know.

3:53

It may or may not have

3:55

happened that way, but I will

3:58

say about mid-September is when I reached

4:00

out to a friend of Imara and

4:02

I, who does jewelry. If you want

4:05

to check her out, her Instagram

4:07

name is divine individual

4:09

on Instagram. Her name

4:12

is Devina Coria from

4:14

Little Providence, Rhode Island.

4:16

I believe she's from

4:18

Providence, Rhode Island, she's from

4:21

Rhode Island for sure. So I

4:23

was like, hey, Devina. And I

4:25

already had an idea of what

4:27

Imara wanted. we didn't really go

4:30

ring shopping, but she always, you

4:32

know, drops a little hints would

4:34

send me like, hey, like, you

4:36

know, if this, you know, if the

4:38

time comes, this is something that I

4:40

would kind of like. So I sent

4:43

that to Devina. I said, this is

4:45

my budget. And Devina is like,

4:47

I think we can make that

4:49

work. And she was super excited

4:51

because Ymar also knows her. They

4:53

know each other, not very well,

4:55

but enough to add to the

4:57

story. However, but I wasn't

5:00

sure if I was going to

5:02

do it, the engagement, the

5:04

proposal, said event. I didn't

5:06

know if I was going to

5:08

do it in December or in

5:10

summer of 2025. And I

5:12

say that because we didn't really

5:15

know how our end of the

5:17

year was going to look

5:19

like schedule wise because of

5:21

a show renewal called churchy

5:24

that was in production and we

5:26

didn't know when it was going

5:28

to be shot until we

5:30

started shooting. Because I was trying

5:32

to figure out a time to

5:34

go, if I was going to do it

5:36

in New York, I needed that day

5:39

or at least some lead time of

5:41

when to have the ring done by

5:43

it. So I told the Vina probably

5:45

early September-ish, give

5:47

or take, because Churchill wasn't

5:49

guaranteed at that point.

5:51

So I'm checking in with and I think

5:54

around this time too I had told

5:56

angel and then I was checking in

5:58

with Kevin about the production

6:00

days for church because I was trying

6:02

to block out a few days that

6:04

we can go. Yamara's sister actually lives

6:06

in New York. She goes to grad school

6:09

at Pratt for architectural or design.

6:11

I always get it messed up with a

6:13

specific thing is, but it's a whole thing.

6:15

She's out Pratt. It's it's boogie. It's a

6:17

really nice. It's a really cool school for

6:19

her. She was very excited to go. So

6:22

that being said, we haven't gotten out

6:24

there to visit while she had been out

6:26

there. So I was trying to make it

6:28

work early December. that was she could

6:30

be there for said proposal event.

6:33

But once we figured out

6:35

the production time for churchy,

6:37

we weren't going to be

6:39

able to go until the 20th.

6:41

And at that point, Imara's

6:44

sister was already going to

6:46

be back home for the holidays.

6:48

But the reason why I

6:50

didn't get to tell her to

6:52

wait and not go home yet

6:54

was because I had not yet

6:56

talked to her father. asking for

6:58

her dainty beautiful hand

7:00

in marriage. And that was

7:02

something that was very important

7:04

to me. I know not

7:07

everybody might feel the same

7:09

in 2025 now, but that

7:11

was something that was very

7:13

important to me and I have

7:15

a relationship with their father too.

7:17

So I've never met him and

7:20

I wanted to have a

7:22

conversation with him. planning process

7:24

of what the proposal was going to be

7:26

for the event. I was trying to figure

7:28

out ways to do it in the way

7:31

that she would like it. When I was

7:33

looking up like proposal ideas in

7:35

New York, I wasn't finding really,

7:37

yes Kevin, thank you for raising

7:39

your hand. I just want to know were

7:41

you nervous when you talked to her dad?

7:43

I was after the conversation started.

7:46

I almost didn't want to let

7:48

myself get nervous to sign myself

7:50

out from doing it from doing

7:52

it. But the conversation with her

7:54

dad didn't happen until like the

7:57

first or maybe second week

7:59

of December. It was supposed

8:01

to happen in November, but

8:03

we didn't end up going down when

8:05

we were going to go down and

8:07

visit because Imara and I

8:10

both had crazy work schedules.

8:12

So Imara still works her

8:14

nine to five as an

8:16

influencer marketing. I don't know her exact

8:18

title, so I don't want to

8:20

mess it up. But she works

8:22

in marketing and... That job had been

8:24

busy getting all the stuff ready that

8:27

they're doing for 2025 and then her

8:29

bacon stuff has been booming. God

8:31

is good. Amen. So, weekends and stuff,

8:33

everything was just like clustered

8:36

up to where we weren't able to

8:38

go visit when we wanted to. So

8:40

that being said, the week kept

8:42

getting, I wasn't procrastin, I was

8:44

trying not to procrastinate. This kind

8:46

of happened to stumble into later

8:48

December and then we're like, oh,

8:50

it's almost time to go. But I

8:52

was nervous. after

9:04

she wanted to move forward with and I wanted to

9:06

move forward with and I think that's what kind of

9:08

structured the the

9:12

door

9:16

for

9:21

I will meet me doing said

9:23

proposal unless he did say something

9:26

that was like highly concerning and

9:28

then you know, but um, I will

9:30

say hearing his thoughts about it

9:33

or anticipating what thoughts were

9:35

going to come from it

9:37

were a little nerve-wracking. But that

9:39

was once I opened the door for

9:41

like the I wanted to hear your

9:44

thoughts. Okay. Um, thank you. But it

9:46

definitely felt good to have that

9:48

conversation with them because that's the

9:50

first time that he really like

9:52

opened up with me, like man-to-man

9:54

conversation with them, which

9:56

was fantastic. And once I got that,

9:59

so to back up. a week before that,

10:01

though, Kev, that we were shooting one

10:03

of the bonus episodes. Um, I want

10:05

to say it was like the 14th, I

10:07

think. It was one of those weekends

10:09

and I was telling Angel, I

10:11

was like, I don't know what I'm going

10:14

to be able to go down because

10:16

schedule schedule. We were pretty

10:18

much working up until then until

10:20

the break. And she was trying to

10:22

just literally get me to get

10:25

me go down. go down there and try like

10:27

that day but I only had an hour to

10:29

get home because we had a market that she

10:31

was doing for some Christmas marketing

10:33

that she did fantastic at

10:35

and basically sold out. That being said I

10:37

didn't really have a lot of wiggle room

10:40

then. God paved the way he provided the

10:42

way he provided an opportunity but even then

10:44

the day of so I was able to

10:46

kind of like finesse when I was going

10:48

to talk to Emar's that she was on

10:51

speaker phone with them and I kind of

10:53

jumped in because her little brother plays I

10:55

was going to be able to go

10:57

down there, see him, solo. So he

10:59

had told me a day for when

11:01

a baseball game was that I

11:03

can go down. I was like, cool.

11:05

So the day before comes, I was

11:08

like, text and was like, hey,

11:10

if I can get the information,

11:12

at least the field and the

11:14

time, I could figure the rest

11:16

out. Cool. I did you tomorrow.

11:18

Bet. Sounds good. Tomorrow comes. We're

11:20

down in Baldwin Hills. The game is

11:22

in Southgate. So I was like, easy

11:25

work. 30 minutes. And I told him,

11:27

I was like, yeah, I was going

11:29

to go catch her brother's game.

11:31

And she's like, oh, cool. I

11:33

think they really appreciate that. So I

11:35

was like, cool. Easy finesse to go in

11:38

without raising too many questions.

11:40

The day comes and the

11:42

day almost goes completely. I didn't

11:44

hear from him. I had a feeling

11:46

he got called into work that

11:48

day, but he did not. The game

11:50

started at 6. And I started going,

11:52

I hit him. but also wasn't blowing them

11:54

up because I wanted them to think like something

11:57

was wrong. So I hit him and I didn't I didn't hear

11:59

back and then I I get on the freeway

12:01

to go home, mind you, where

12:03

Ballin Hills is to where I

12:06

live with traffic at the time that

12:08

we're leaving, is like two hours

12:10

solid. So I get on the

12:12

freeway, get halfway home, he

12:14

drops a pin for where he's

12:16

at, and I'm just like, God,

12:19

why? So I was like, if I don't

12:21

do this now, I don't

12:23

think it's gonna happen before

12:25

we go. So I drive.

12:27

I'm an hour into the

12:30

drive. I drive another hour

12:32

and 15 back. Oh, man.

12:34

Granted, the game started

12:36

late. So, it worked out.

12:39

But I will say, though,

12:41

on that drive, and after

12:43

the conversations

12:45

when everything got

12:48

real. Because at that

12:50

point, Ring was paid

12:52

for. And stop it. Stop

12:54

it. Stop it. The ring was

12:57

paid for, but it didn't get

12:59

real until then, and it

13:01

didn't get even more real

13:03

that I wasn't anticipating until

13:05

later, closer to the day of.

13:07

But also, it's because I was trying

13:10

to juggle all these pieces of

13:12

planning. And at this point, too,

13:14

I had figured out where I

13:16

had wanted to do it. And that was

13:18

the whole thing in itself, because

13:20

I was talking to Angel about

13:22

it. I was talking to list

13:24

about it too. I was going back

13:27

and forth on the skating rink.

13:29

One, because, well, this is how

13:31

I found it too. I ended up

13:33

finding it on Tiktok, about like,

13:36

because she really loves the Rockefeller

13:38

Tree. It's like she saw the

13:40

post of where it got cut

13:42

down from and brought to New York.

13:44

Like she's, she sent me that and

13:46

I was like, okay, this will be

13:49

perfect. So when I saw that

13:51

people got, we're doing proposals there.

13:53

The first one that I saw was like

13:55

an English footballer. I was

13:57

like, okay, it's probably crazy.

14:00

crazy bread to try and do this. And

14:02

then I email just like a cold

14:04

email because they have like a

14:06

direct email for it. And

14:09

they sent me the quote, I was like,

14:11

okay, that's expensive, but it's not crazy enough to

14:13

where I don't feel like it's

14:15

worth it because

14:17

for me, I was like, how can I

14:19

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14:22

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16:58

and forth on the ice skating rink because I didn't

17:01

know if she would figure out skating or not. And

17:03

Angel was just like, you guys got to figure out

17:05

how to go get a lesson or something, but there

17:07

was literally no open days to

17:09

try and like, figure

17:11

this out at least, or figure out if she

17:13

was like comfortable enough on skates or not. But

17:16

also, not even to put it on her, I

17:18

was thinking like, dang, if I propose

17:20

on a skating rink, how am I

17:22

going to drop down on an E

17:24

and then get back up without falling?

17:26

I was like, not trying to talk

17:28

myself out of it, but I gave

17:30

myself enough reason, enough like reasons of reason

17:32

to fully think about it. Because

17:34

there was another spot, it's

17:37

called the Lott, New

17:40

York Plaza Plaza Plaza. It's right,

17:42

there's a courtyard like two blocks

17:44

away from there, but

17:47

that was coming up on like proposal ideas. So

17:50

the rink was kind of like, it

17:52

was between that, it was between those two. But

17:56

the courtyard would have been no money, you just show up

17:58

and hope it's not too busy. And

18:00

I'm glad I did it the way

18:02

that it worked out because that

18:04

was the busiest I've ever

18:06

seen, like the Rockefeller Center

18:09

around it. The blocks were

18:11

literally blocked off, like two

18:13

blocks around it. Just people

18:15

walking. You can't drive in

18:17

there. It was ridiculous. So. to

18:20

backtrack a little bit about before

18:22

us going to New York. Also,

18:24

any question so far from from

18:26

New York? No, no, this is

18:29

great. I like to hear it

18:31

just like this. Okay, no question.

18:33

Try not to jump around too

18:35

much, but the way my brain

18:37

works. You're doing amazing, sweetie. Okay,

18:40

thank you. If you leave out

18:42

something that I feel is important,

18:44

don't worry. Yeah, because I've ran

18:47

through this with Angel already.

18:49

So, So I talked to her

18:51

dad the following week. Oh, so

18:53

mind you, of course, Big Dreamer Joshi

18:55

at the same time. Let me

18:58

go to New York the Monday

19:00

before we go on our trip so

19:02

I can go shoot coal show

19:04

that he's doing a Madison Square

19:07

Garden. Like that wasn't gonna

19:09

add a whole three days of

19:11

travel stress to try and

19:13

get everything done and all

19:15

the other pieces. So that

19:17

happens that was Monday. 15th,

19:20

16th. I forgot when that

19:22

show was. And mind you,

19:24

we're supposed to be in

19:26

New York from the 21st

19:28

to the, to New Year's Eve.

19:30

Well, we were. So I get

19:33

back from the trip, I

19:35

go straight to set for

19:37

church. And it's Tuesday,

19:39

Wednesday comes. And I'm

19:41

like, at this point, I'd

19:44

already been talking with Davina.

19:46

And for me, I thought.

19:49

Angel moved the

19:51

circle, the circle, there

19:53

you go. For me, like

19:55

since I had started

19:58

the ring process. before, I

20:00

did not think, no, you're doing great, Angel. You

20:02

figured it out. For me, since I

20:04

started the ring process in September, I

20:09

thought that would be like the last

20:11

thing I would be worried about at that point. But

20:13

just from,

20:16

I guess, stuff bottlenecking during the holidays,

20:20

I did not, I hit the Vina on Wednesday

20:22

just like checking in on when the pickup

20:24

was gonna be. And then,

20:27

I don't

20:29

remember if it was Wednesday or Thursday when we

20:31

finally like, because I

20:33

started stressing about it, I was like, oh my

20:35

God, what if I don't have the ring for

20:37

it? And I think Marcus was there on set

20:39

Wednesday or Thursday. Oh, they

20:41

were there Thursday and Friday. Yeah,

20:44

they were there Thursday and Friday. This is the

20:46

19th and 20th. Mind you, we were flying

20:48

out on a red eye on the 20th. So

20:53

Thursday comes and like, I still haven't really heard

20:55

back and then, because I emailed her and

20:57

then I texted. was like, hey, do you mean

20:59

to like check in and blah, blah. And

21:02

then she

21:04

responded like

21:06

later on Thursday about

21:09

the pick. She was like, oh, I'll just

21:11

drop it off wherever you're at on Friday.

21:13

I was like, cool. This is where I'll

21:15

be all day, but I got to get

21:17

back so I can grab a Mara and then we're going to

21:19

the airport. She's like, cool.

21:21

So I had already told you Mara, was

21:23

like, that I had got it cleared with

21:25

Kev to leave early for Friday. So I didn't

21:27

have to rush around and be stuck in

21:29

traffic. So I was like, okay, bet. Because in

21:32

my head, I was like, cool. It'll be

21:34

like probably 12 or one of the latest where I'll have

21:36

everything and be able to head back. It

21:38

is three o 'clock and Divina's like, sorry, Josh.

21:40

I'm running late. I have it though. The

21:43

stone just got set on Wednesday. So

21:45

they had to like let whatever process happens

21:48

after. She

21:51

brings it to set. But mind you, at that

21:53

point, I was like, okay, like that was the one,

21:55

that was the moment when she sent me that

21:57

text. Like, okay, it's at least coming. I

22:00

felt like all the pieces were

22:02

at least aligned. So I was

22:04

coming down off of that stress

22:06

and then she delivered it

22:08

and she calls me and she's

22:10

like, hey, I'm here and I was

22:12

just like, I don't, I don't see

22:14

you, but she parked in the other

22:16

parking lot. So I ran

22:19

over there, grabbed the ring, said thank

22:21

you. We chopped it up a little

22:23

bit. She asked me if I was

22:25

nervous and I was like. I didn't,

22:27

I genuinely didn't feel nervous during

22:30

the week of it because of

22:32

everything else that I was trying

22:34

to juggle to make sure everything

22:36

was at least a rendition

22:39

of the plan that I was trying

22:41

to execute. So we get on the

22:43

flight. Oh no, no, no, no. Backtrack a

22:45

little bit. So I come back with

22:47

the, I come back with the ring and

22:49

that like, like I said, breadth of

22:51

fresh air for me. little context before

22:54

Angel and I were in Kevin

22:56

were talking about something and I

22:58

had asked Angel to look up a video

23:00

as like a reference to a joke

23:03

that I was trying to make and

23:05

mind you she was looking it up

23:07

and was about to share it and

23:09

Devina that's when Devina called me and

23:11

I just just completely like was in

23:13

the conversation and then just walked away

23:15

on the phone. So she was just

23:17

like so when I came back I

23:19

was basically like, I'd like shake

23:22

the little box. And mind you,

23:24

I was also scared because I saw

23:26

the box and she gave me like

23:28

one of the discrete ring boxes, the

23:30

ones that are like, they're little

23:33

rectangles. It's very small, it's

23:35

probably no bigger than, it's

23:37

smaller than a pack of like five, yeah,

23:40

it's probably that shape. So it's

23:42

flat. So my head when she handed

23:44

me the box, I was like, is just

23:46

like, and it had the. It was like a

23:48

white casing and then the ring box on the

23:50

inside, but it was flat. It wasn't like the

23:53

traditional ring box of what you would expect to

23:55

look like. So in my head, I was like, dang,

23:57

is the ring just dangling in there? Because like, I

23:59

was like. Okay. But, um, which is, I know

24:01

I gave you the discreet box, so it'd

24:03

be easier to travel with and keeping your pocket.

24:05

I was like, perfect. Um,

24:09

so after that, I pretty much went

24:11

home after I showed. Who

24:14

did I show? I showed you, Angel,

24:16

Kev and Quinn. Quinn

24:18

Walters was there. And also I'll, I'll share a

24:20

funny thing about Quinn after two, um,

24:23

or two things. I

24:25

can share one of them first. I'm trying to keep

24:27

all the timeline. So I had, I

24:30

wasn't telling everybody that, um, I was going to

24:32

propose just if they came up in conversation

24:34

because people were talking about like the, the break

24:36

and all that. Um, and

24:38

I was talking to Marcus about it. And

24:41

then, uh, Quinn had came up

24:43

and mind you, Quinn is

24:45

talent this day. Right. So she's

24:47

in full hair makeup wardrobe. I

24:49

tell her in between takes

24:51

and she starts crying. And

24:53

like, it makeup looks at me and

24:55

I'm like, bro, I'm sorry. Like, like

24:57

not streams, but enough to like cut

24:59

through. Right. So I'm over here. I'm

25:02

trying to get her a napkin and

25:04

then, uh, I tell her how going

25:06

to do it. She starts crying again. Well,

25:11

this was Thursday

25:13

Friday though. Um,

25:15

when I showed all four of us, I

25:18

believe all four of us. She starts

25:20

tearing up again, but, um, but,

25:24

uh, that's part one for

25:26

Quinn. So then

25:28

we, I get home and I

25:30

literally like have, uh, I

25:35

have like a moment with myself of like,

25:37

I'm in the garage and I'm trying to

25:39

think I'm like, okay, so if I put

25:41

this in my backpack now, it's not coming

25:43

out until like showtime. So

25:45

I was trying to figure out ways to remind

25:47

you, um, at the same time, my

25:50

friend who helped me with the

25:52

photos and video shall salugo

25:54

our own. Oh yeah, there

25:56

it is. So

25:59

that was a little. box. Yeah, text me.

26:01

Angel, so Angel took the photo, she's just

26:03

like, I want to take a photo of

26:05

you because when you come back, you're going

26:07

to be an engaged man. So that's me.

26:10

That's at church. So at this point, Lugo was

26:12

like on the way home. He's like, hey,

26:14

is it possible for you to bring a

26:16

camera and a couple and I think an

26:18

extra lens or two camera bodies, one for

26:20

video, one for video, because his

26:22

wife had helped him out too with the

26:25

coverage. So I was like,

26:27

I can, but I also, I'm

26:29

not gonna read my hard case

26:31

because she's gonna be like,

26:33

this is not a work, like why

26:35

are you bringing a hard case?

26:37

So my backpack is at

26:39

capacity at that point. Super

26:42

heavy, super packed, but I

26:44

was trying to like bring what

26:46

I needed and figure out

26:48

how I was gonna get it to

26:50

him. So we go to the airport,

26:52

we fly in. And mind

26:54

you, I don't think I

26:56

got nervous. I had a

26:59

little bit of nervousness when

27:01

I was in New York

27:03

that Monday because I was

27:05

like, oh snap, this is

27:07

where this is where it's gonna

27:10

happen. Because I saw all

27:12

the Christmas stuff and I

27:14

started thinking about like our

27:16

first trip when we were

27:18

together. And that's when I

27:20

was like, who? And at

27:22

this point though, so we're

27:24

getting, so this is when

27:27

I didn't really flag anything

27:29

for Emar though. I thought I

27:31

had, I thought she had like her

27:33

nose kind of sniffing around a little

27:35

bit the week of because she had

27:37

asked about nails, which she doesn't

27:40

do her nails or get her

27:42

nails done too often. She'll usually

27:44

do them herself because she makes

27:46

a lot so she doesn't really

27:48

do like jealous much anymore,

27:51

but she loves a friendship, like, a

27:53

different color of the tip for the

27:55

season. So she had asked me because initially she

27:57

was just like going to do something

27:59

like Christmas. for the festivities,

28:01

but she had asked me the week

28:04

of, she's like, hey, what do

28:06

you think about like a French

28:08

tip red or just a classic

28:10

French tip? And mind you,

28:12

since this was towards the

28:15

end of December, I was like,

28:17

oh, you should just get a

28:19

classic French tip. And mind you,

28:21

since this was towards the

28:23

end of December, I was like,

28:26

oh, you should just get a

28:28

classic French tip. However,

28:30

I feel like the nail situation

28:33

or the nail question, that's

28:35

what, that's what flagged something

28:37

for me that she might be

28:40

on to me and Angel's just

28:42

like, you gotta get her off,

28:44

you gotta get the sent off

28:46

you. So, the, she's like, you

28:49

should hype up the, our show

28:51

in London because that's the same

28:53

week of her birthday too. Because

28:56

that was my backup plan was

28:58

to do it then. Also

29:00

what helped solidify the

29:03

Christmas plan or the plan

29:05

for New York was, I was

29:07

telling Liz like her love for

29:10

Christmas and Christmas in

29:12

New York and this was like,

29:14

at least for like the period,

29:16

the time of year, she's like,

29:18

if you could do it there

29:21

and it kind of ties into

29:23

like, that was our first kind

29:25

of trip together too. She's

29:27

like for the full story, I

29:29

think she did it in Christmas.

29:32

So she also lists also for

29:34

the two cents on that. Big list,

29:36

not the little. What was I

29:38

saying before that? Oh. You got to

29:41

throw off, you see it, London. Okay.

29:43

So I took Angel's advice and

29:45

I kind of hyped up like, oh,

29:47

I really think you should go

29:49

on this London trip. Especially your

29:52

birthday, like, we'll make it special, right? And literally,

29:54

like, I'm on my computer editing, and I kind

29:56

of see her look at me, like, the corner of

29:58

my eye kind of, like, when you... mean? So, um,

30:00

and I only brought that up because we

30:03

brought it. We brought it up. We

30:05

went over to Angel's house after and,

30:07

uh, we shared that. So I didn't

30:09

want to leave that out. So the morning

30:11

of we fly in and this is

30:13

when I'm starting to be like, it's, if

30:15

it wasn't 20 degrees out, I would

30:17

have been sweating. Like, my hands would

30:20

have been clamped. I mean, they were,

30:22

I don't know if they were climbing,

30:24

but it was super dry, super dry,

30:26

super cold. We happened to go to

30:28

go to New York. It had snowed

30:30

the night of us flying

30:32

us, us flying in and

30:35

it snowed the day we were

30:37

flying out. Which was cool,

30:39

because I'd never really been

30:42

in New York when snow

30:44

had been around. What

30:46

does London mean? London,

30:49

sorry, the London show.

30:51

Oh, I'm locked in, locked in,

30:53

I haven't looked over. Look

30:55

in, walk in. Not now. Okay,

30:58

so. That's when I started getting

31:00

nervous. It took us, the whole lift

31:02

situation was brutal getting out of

31:04

JFK, but it wasn't that busy.

31:06

It just was so hard to

31:09

call a car and they moved

31:11

stuff around. Just adding like

31:13

context. So my brain was there

31:15

and my phone was dying. So we get

31:17

to the hotel and I'm just like,

31:19

I hope the rooms are ready. Story

31:21

of the lives are flying in on

31:23

a red eye. I was like, even if it's

31:26

not, we'll go grab a bite. Just

31:28

kill some time rooms was ready.

31:30

We drop drop the bags off.

31:32

We walk to Essex Market.

31:34

We stay in lower east side And

31:37

then try to figure out what

31:39

to eat right? Trying to figure

31:41

out what to eat. I'm just

31:43

I'm good with the bagel at

31:45

this point. I just need something

31:47

on my stomach This girl It's

31:49

like it's like a it's like

31:52

a mini Redding market Redding

31:54

terminal. Sorry Essex

31:56

Market is like a mini

31:58

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32:01

some bakery spots and donut

32:03

spots, bagel shop, whatever you

32:05

want, you can find someone in

32:07

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32:09

you want a pupusa. So mind you,

32:11

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32:13

the last time we were in New

32:16

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32:18

gluten. So she was very excited

32:20

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32:22

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32:24

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39:35

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39:50

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39:54

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like to check the box off I was like

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for the first day we just do Dude something light

40:00

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40:02

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40:04

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40:06

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40:08

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40:11

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40:15

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40:22

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40:24

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40:26

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all the croissant filled me up Like I

40:39

can't even really but at this point like I'm

40:41

like I'm like getting fidgety. I'm like starting

40:43

to move around Food's not food. Food's not food

40:45

right now again. So, uh, she's taking her

40:47

time. Just taking it all in, you know So

40:49

I'm just like I'm looking at the clock

40:52

because at this point. I think it's like 11 or 12 Oh,

40:55

no, this might have been closer to 12 or one Because

40:57

the ice skating session was from 350

41:00

to 450 and the proposal was

41:02

at 450 to 455 And they give

41:04

you five minutes so they can

41:06

still clean the ice for five minutes

41:09

Before the next session comes in so basically

41:11

the um Let

41:14

me get there so we get

41:16

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41:18

go up and I'd

41:20

been telling her about this cologne that I wanted which

41:23

wasn't alive and the

41:25

store was on Was

41:28

like in soho which was like a 20 minute walk and

41:30

I knew she's gonna be taking time to get ready So

41:32

I was like, oh, I'm gonna go on a

41:34

walk and take some photos and see if they

41:36

have that Cologne in stock Mind you

41:38

I have my backpack on right so for her

41:40

she's like and I said photo walk So

41:43

I was like camera gear photo walk easy check.

41:45

That was the only flag that came up

41:47

for her. She said But I

41:49

want to take my backpack so I can leave the

41:51

camera gear in the front walk out go for

41:53

the walk come back so

41:58

Drop the camera gear off at the

42:00

front, went for the walk, spent way too

42:03

much money on that cologne. But for

42:05

me, I was like, you know what,

42:07

it's a justified purchase, it smells really

42:09

good, and I need the battery in

42:11

my back because I need to be

42:13

able to be fixated on something at

42:15

least for the next two hours. Mind

42:17

you, it was so cold outside on this

42:20

walk, I put there, I was like, why

42:22

not just Uber? Why did I walk? But

42:24

also, it was good for me to

42:26

walk, because like, like, like, I wasn't

42:28

pacing, So we get back, well I

42:30

get the, I get the cologne, we get

42:32

back and it's probably like 20,

42:34

30 minutes before we, well, no,

42:37

no, probably about an hour before

42:39

we're supposed to leave. So we're running

42:41

late and mind you, at this point,

42:43

I'm just thinking like, I didn't know

42:45

when the cutoff was to get there

42:47

if there was like, because the way

42:49

they bring in sessions, they scan

42:51

the tickets, they're bringing in the

42:53

people just waiting in line for

42:55

the next session. Mind you, I

42:58

didn't know I had like a hard ticket

43:00

either. So I'm looking through the email

43:02

because they sent me like three different

43:04

ones, but I don't want to pull

43:06

any of these up and be like,

43:08

hey, this is when your engagement thing

43:10

is, this is when your proposal thing

43:13

is. So they had sent me a, a QR

43:15

code in one of those emails that I had

43:17

to like scroll and figure out on

43:19

the walkup. At this point too though, I'm

43:21

like on the walkover. So it

43:23

took us a while to get up

43:25

there. busy was because of how far

43:27

the streets are blocked off around Rockflow

43:30

Center. At this point, I'm

43:32

trying to like divert my

43:34

energy or like occupy it. I'll

43:37

try to occupy it. So I have

43:39

my little camera out of a

43:41

little log camera and I

43:43

just started blogging everything.

43:46

Talking to the camera, I was

43:48

like, yeah, today we're going to

43:50

be doing this, this, this, this,

43:52

and this. So all my energy is going

43:54

to that. So I'm trying to like

43:57

just keep my brain busy. And then

43:59

we get to. the line, we get checked

44:01

in, and then they, so everybody

44:03

there knows, they just, what they ask

44:05

for you is they text you like

44:08

the day before, then the morning of

44:10

when you land, they're like, hey, send

44:12

us a photo of what you guys

44:14

are wearing, so we can identify you

44:17

guys a lot easier after you guys

44:19

get checked in as well, once you

44:21

guys are on the ice. Because what

44:23

they do is they know who's supposed

44:25

to stay on and who isn't. they

44:28

cycle everybody off. And then

44:30

it's just, it's just you two out there.

44:32

So I thought it was gonna be that

44:34

clean and that easy. It was not. And

44:36

we will get to there. It was not.

44:39

So we get there. So we get there

44:41

and I didn't know that the first

44:43

buffer was the person standing and then

44:45

they give you to, they, they hand

44:47

you over the supervisor. So the person

44:49

scanning, scan my QR code. And mind

44:52

you, it had like the total price

44:54

of everything on the bottom two, so

44:56

I couldn't like. I couldn't

44:58

show the entire ticket to Amara. I

45:00

just had like the QR code and

45:02

then, so I skid, the first latest

45:05

game, she's like, oh, I think you guys

45:07

are past the cutoff window, I'm

45:09

gonna have to call like, I'm gonna

45:11

have to call my manager over. And

45:13

for me, I'm just like, I didn't

45:15

know about a cutoff window. And

45:17

also, call the manager over because

45:19

this isn't gonna be the reason

45:21

why this doesn't happen after everything.

45:23

So, but that was the handoff

45:26

to at least. get the process

45:28

of us being checked in properly

45:30

for everybody being notified. Because at

45:32

this point, I'd send the photo like in

45:35

the Uber over. I was texting them. I was

45:37

like, hey, she's still getting ready. So I'll

45:39

send you a photo when we get to

45:41

that point. Send the photo. The manager comes

45:43

over. I was like, I wasn't sure there

45:45

was a cutoff time. I showed her like,

45:47

I was like scrolling to the bottom. I

45:49

was like, hey, she's like, oh, it's fine.

45:52

She gives us a separate sticker. She gives

45:54

us a separate sticker. but you can't really notice

45:56

that because there's like two different colors unless

45:58

like you really paid attention to it. So

46:00

we get checked in at this

46:02

point. It's like 330 No, no,

46:05

no. It's like 415 to 430

46:07

and mind you the moment

46:09

supposed to start at 450.

46:11

So we were late and at

46:13

this point I'm just like I

46:15

just want to get in and

46:17

We get our skates We get

46:20

our skates and I'm just trying

46:22

to get us out on the

46:24

ice right so like they have a

46:26

buckers and all we have is

46:29

like that we're gonna leave in

46:31

the locker was like, shoes.

46:33

And anymore, it's like, and

46:35

some of them work, some

46:37

of them don't. But for

46:39

me, I'm like, it's just

46:41

shoes, it's her boots, and

46:44

then whatever shoes that I

46:46

got for the trip. And she's

46:48

like, trying to find one that

46:51

worked. She's like, no, none of

46:53

these are working. I was like,

46:55

girl, I don't know if I

46:58

told you this, but I'm sorry.

47:00

But we finally find when

47:02

it works. And she's like

47:04

asking people, she's like, does

47:06

that one work, is that

47:08

one empty? I'm just like,

47:10

girl, please, please. But mine

47:13

too deep, like, it's 15

47:15

yards from the lockers and

47:17

where you put the skates on

47:19

rubber mats, you walk out and

47:21

you're on the ice ring. So we

47:23

get on the ice. I'm trying to

47:25

get her to get like a feel

47:28

for it because I skated. I took

47:30

like a couple skating lessons just

47:32

because there was like an ice

47:34

rink in Oxnard that got built

47:37

and I was like super

47:39

curious about it when I was

47:41

a kid. So I had like

47:43

a familiarity with with skating, but

47:45

I wouldn't say like I'm super

47:47

comfortable on skates because

47:49

it's been probably at least 15

47:52

years since I've tried to do

47:54

it. It is, if you never

47:56

like been skating, it

47:58

is so slippery. Because you

48:00

compare it to rollerblading, but

48:03

rollerblading, there's at least like

48:05

friction of the wheels and the ground.

48:07

It's, I mean, you could still slip

48:10

and fall. But Eimar got the hang

48:12

of it really quick. But Eimar got

48:14

the hang of it really quick. But

48:16

I was trying to kill time

48:18

because we had still like had 15

48:20

to 20 minutes before the moment. And

48:23

at this point, too, the thing that

48:25

was playing to my favor was

48:27

that we had got there from

48:29

350 to 450. because I know

48:31

she doesn't love skating that much,

48:34

even if she did figure

48:36

it out, to be like, oh yeah,

48:38

let's stay here for the

48:40

full hour. Because for us,

48:43

we'll go have fun and be

48:45

like, okay, let's go eat.

48:47

But, so she had got, I mean,

48:49

we were big holding the

48:51

rails for two laps, right?

48:54

We're talking to the people,

48:56

and whatnot. kids that were like

48:59

under three feet had like these

49:01

penguins. I kind of wanted one

49:03

of those just for, you know, peace

49:05

of mind because I don't want to

49:07

fall. But they said we were too big for

49:09

those. Oh God. Okay, Kevin, you didn't

49:11

raise your hand. Um, so, uh, so

49:13

a couple laps ago, we take some

49:15

photos and then she kind of, and then

49:17

this is when I started getting frustrated

49:20

with her because I'm trying to time

49:22

us being at the back in the

49:24

back in the back in the back

49:26

in the middle. when they call people

49:28

off so we can just stall and

49:30

that was me sorry so we can

49:32

just stall and focus so we

49:35

can stall and just be back there

49:37

at least when the time comes so

49:39

we don't have to go out and

49:41

cover more tracks to because for me

49:43

I'm trying to think about like we're

49:46

not going to be able to move

49:48

around quick if they start

49:50

cycling people off but she's starting

49:53

to just skate like she's just Starting

49:55

to go faster and I'm trying to

49:57

like get her to slow down around

49:59

the area every single time, but she's

50:01

like, well, she's doing another lap. So

50:03

I was like, all right, let's do

50:05

another lap. I wish there was a

50:07

video of me trying to get her to

50:09

just like, like we stopped, we took

50:11

photos. There was this one dude who

50:14

literally was like Olympic training in there

50:16

in mind. There was a bunch of

50:18

kids and stuff just learning how

50:20

to ice skate. This dude had like the

50:23

super tight zip up on with the

50:25

straight pants. He brought his own skates

50:27

to the Rockefeller Center man. Just wait,

50:29

just wait or come at the hours

50:32

and nobody comes. But he was there for

50:34

like a couple of sessions. But he's

50:36

like, and I bring him up because

50:38

your mom was like, I want to

50:40

be able to do that. She low-key

50:42

found like a new hobby that she's

50:44

interested in because of this thing. She was

50:47

getting the hang of it. She was all

50:49

smiles having fun for me. I'm just like,

50:51

girl, just please take your time. Don't fall

50:54

because I know what's your fall. I know

50:56

what's your fall. So we, mind you,

50:58

it's only been like 10 minutes.

51:01

This has been the longest

51:03

20 minutes of my 31

51:05

years of life. She didn't

51:07

put 32, God will it. But

51:09

my mom text us, she's

51:12

like, oh, she's like face time

51:14

when you guys are out the

51:16

tree. And I'm like, Esther, why

51:18

would you say that? Because she

51:20

brought it up because that's what

51:23

we did last time we were

51:25

there. But my mom knows what's about

51:27

to happen. I'm just like, why would you

51:29

trigger her to want to call you before?

51:32

Or why would you like flag that? So

51:34

that was something else I was thinking about.

51:36

So we, and we get close, like one

51:38

of the times that we stopped in the

51:40

middle, and I was like, oh, she called

51:42

your mom, and I'm just like, not now,

51:45

because I don't know what she's going to

51:47

give me when I turned the phone, or when

51:49

I, when I, when I, when I face timer. I

51:52

text my mom really quick before we

51:55

call her. I was like, we are

51:57

just saying hi, just saying hi. And

51:59

my mom. mom answered the phone real

52:01

quick and she didn't want to

52:04

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52:06

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52:08

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54:22

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54:24

she's like. And

54:29

Ymar is talking and I'm like, hey, we're

54:31

just saying hi. And then my mom's just

54:33

like, you know, like, I don't think she

54:35

can hear us. I was like, yeah, she

54:37

probably can't. All right, mom, I'm going to

54:40

call you later. Click. So at this point,

54:42

it's still like maybe a couple

54:44

minutes till they start announcing they're

54:46

going to start clearing people off

54:48

so they can clean the eyes. I

54:50

didn't know they did that like three times.

54:52

And those felt like the longest last

54:54

five minutes. Finally, they say, okay, everybody's

54:57

got to come off the ice. And

54:59

he mar's real follower McGee. I'm real

55:01

follower too, but she is like, because

55:03

the way that the, the, the, there were two workers

55:06

that they were trying to clear

55:08

people off, they were like almost

55:10

yelling people because people were like

55:12

saying there with the ice starting

55:14

to clear, they're trying to get

55:16

their selfies in. They're like, no

55:18

photos, everybody off, please, you had

55:20

an hour. And he mar is just like, like, oh

55:22

my God, oh my God. And I was

55:25

like, let's get a couple more

55:27

photos. She's like, they're telling us

55:29

we gotta go. I was like, no,

55:31

I was like, we're fine, trust me.

55:33

So then she just starts inching closer

55:36

to the middle. I was like, tomorrow,

55:38

let's come on, let's grab a

55:40

couple more photos. And then this

55:42

one couple was right next to

55:44

us in the middle and asked the

55:46

dude working, like, hey, can you get

55:48

a photo of us? He's like, oh,

55:50

no. And Emar is like almost

55:53

beeline into the exit and I'm

55:55

trying to go slow. And I'm trying

55:57

to like think of because she had

55:59

her. She had like a little bag

56:02

with her that was tucked under her

56:04

jacket. And as soon as she tucked

56:06

under her jacket, I was kind of

56:08

mad at the workers when we got

56:10

on the ice because they had her

56:12

tuck her little bag underneath her coat

56:14

that she was wearing. And I was also

56:16

thinking about like, how am I going

56:19

to get that moved over for the

56:21

photo? So I was thinking of ways

56:23

to stall her. I was like, hey,

56:25

can I get the hand sanitizer? out

56:27

of the back, I was like, I

56:30

was touching the rails, it's really

56:32

freaking me out right now. She's

56:34

like, yeah, yeah, when we get

56:36

back inside, I was like, I

56:39

was like, no, it's like, I

56:41

feel like my hands are itching

56:43

right now. So, and at this

56:45

point, she's still like at the exit,

56:48

right? Because there's two gates,

56:50

like one corner, and that's

56:52

the way to go in

56:54

and out. Because he looks at

56:56

me and I'm like, bro, at this

56:58

point, I'm like, I'm out of ideas

57:01

of like, how to, but for me, I

57:03

was like, if you get off this

57:05

ice, I'm going to be really mad.

57:07

But she got really close and

57:09

the guy was kind of like, because

57:11

I told her, I was like, if I asked

57:14

this guy, if we can go take

57:16

one more photo, are you going

57:18

to do it? And she was kind

57:20

of just blocked out at this point.

57:22

The guy was like, oh, no, you

57:24

guys should definitely go take another photo.

57:27

Like, you guys are good if you

57:29

guys want to go take an oath.

57:31

And she was kind of like, what?

57:33

She was so confused. Because she

57:35

was so confused. Because this is

57:37

the same dude. There's just yelling

57:39

out the couple of, like, get

57:41

off the eyes on more photos. So that

57:44

whole part could have been handled.

57:46

So that whole part could have

57:48

been handled. So that whole part

57:50

could have been handled. So I slowly

57:52

kind of enter out to try to get

57:55

one photo. And then at this point

57:57

too, I was just waiting because you

57:59

send in. the song that you

58:01

want to play. So I played

58:03

Essence by Whisked and Thames because

58:06

that was like one of the

58:08

first songs that we, that was

58:11

actually, that was a song that

58:13

was like popping off when we

58:15

became like officially together. So she,

58:18

that had always been like a,

58:20

the other song that I was

58:22

gonna pick to. or pick between,

58:25

I was going back and forth

58:27

was, um, oh yeah. Just want

58:30

to set the mood, Joshi. Um,

58:32

thing on my blanket. Oh yeah,

58:34

yeah. So the other song I

58:37

was going to pick was The

58:39

Girl is Mine by Michael Jackson.

58:42

The reason why I didn't, so

58:44

that's probably one of her favorite

58:46

Michael Jackson songs of all time.

58:49

The reason why I did it,

58:51

hot take, I don't like Paul

58:53

McCartney on that song. I'm like,

58:56

when he comes in, he takes

58:58

over the whole song. He comes

59:01

in way too early. So I

59:03

knew, I knew essence would have

59:05

been safe. So, uh, once I,

59:08

once we kind of got her

59:10

inching out further into the ice

59:12

to try and take one more

59:15

photo, she was so confused, but

59:17

I was like almost pulling her

59:20

at this point. then the song

59:22

started playing. I was like, thank

59:24

you God. Because I felt like

59:27

I'd been waiting an hour and

59:29

a half for that song to

59:31

start. Because when that song started,

59:34

she looked at me and she

59:36

was like, what are you doing?

59:39

She's like, what's happening? She was,

59:41

I had never seen her genuinely

59:43

surprised before. So the entire Q4

59:46

of planning this is what it

59:48

felt like every day almost. That's

59:50

surprise for her made everything worth

59:53

it worth it for me. Because

59:55

like I was like, oh, you

59:58

really didn't know, but she was

1:00:00

also like, she was, I don't

1:00:02

want to say she was like in

1:00:04

her, like just kind of stuck

1:00:06

in her place. But I was

1:00:09

trying to get her back to the

1:00:11

middle. I was like, come here. And

1:00:13

that was like, I was like, I

1:00:15

was like, girl, you know what's

1:00:18

about to happen? Just please

1:00:20

come with me. At this point,

1:00:22

I'm just like, please let's

1:00:24

just, I just want to

1:00:26

at least get to that

1:00:28

moment. We were skating off and

1:00:30

I could tell she was like

1:00:32

in shock and surprise But

1:00:34

the words that will stick

1:00:37

with me forever in every

1:00:39

generation God willing that I

1:00:41

live to see after me She said

1:00:43

oh you did your big one with

1:00:45

this and I was like yes

1:00:48

That's it. That's it. That made

1:00:50

everything else worth that every

1:00:52

dollar spent But man that

1:00:54

was a lot I say, I

1:00:57

told her that, because she

1:00:59

had wanted Lugo to be

1:01:01

a part of something in our

1:01:03

relationship for photos

1:01:06

at least, because he does

1:01:08

really, really good photography,

1:01:10

wedding stuff, video, all

1:01:13

the good stuff, East Coast,

1:01:15

hire him, where's Lugo? So

1:01:17

we had dinner at 715. This

1:01:20

was like literally 5

1:01:22

o'clock. So we had walked around after and

1:01:24

we took more, that's the photos that I

1:01:26

shared. We took all those photos, just kind

1:01:28

of walking around Rockfiller Center

1:01:30

that was so packed, I'd never want to

1:01:32

go back there in that specific week

1:01:34

of Christmas ever again, because that was the

1:01:37

busiest I feel like I've ever seen New

1:01:39

York. And also that's another reason why I

1:01:41

don't love going up there, just because of

1:01:43

how like, I feel like it's just super,

1:01:45

it's just super genested all the time.

1:01:48

So, we do the photos, it takes us forever

1:01:50

to try and get the reservation. for

1:01:52

dinner. We're late. And we

1:01:54

end up not being able

1:01:57

to get our table a

1:01:59

beauty. I was like,

1:02:01

listen, this is, I

1:02:03

was annoyed. And, it's

1:02:05

like I'm missing a

1:02:08

part. Oh, okay, so

1:02:10

at this point too,

1:02:12

I had told every,

1:02:15

the people that I

1:02:17

have told immediate, right,

1:02:19

Angel, Kev, Mel Greg,

1:02:21

Liss. I'm

1:02:24

trying to think, and then maybe

1:02:26

like one friend group back home,

1:02:28

at least like when it was

1:02:30

going to be happening because of

1:02:32

how timely everything was. They were

1:02:34

expecting, they were expecting some kind

1:02:36

of photo, but we didn't get

1:02:38

to take like a quick selfie

1:02:40

just because of everything happened and

1:02:42

we immediately took photos after that.

1:02:44

And then I was trying to

1:02:46

get over to the, there wasn't

1:02:48

really a place for us to

1:02:50

like take a. a quick photo

1:02:52

to send around. So we're waiting

1:02:54

for our table that never became

1:02:56

at Mutian Essex. And I told

1:02:58

you, I was like, hey, there's

1:03:00

a couple people waiting for this.

1:03:03

And this has been like two

1:03:05

hours after the fact at this

1:03:07

point. So we take a quick

1:03:09

photo. I think, I don't know

1:03:11

if I showed the people that

1:03:13

one. Let me try and pull

1:03:15

it up. Uh-oh. Exclusive, exclusive. B-u-u-u-u-u.

1:03:17

But this is literally just us.

1:03:19

having a drink, and finally like,

1:03:21

and that was the thing too,

1:03:23

during this whole time, I was

1:03:25

like, I can't wait to be

1:03:27

able to talk to her about

1:03:29

all this. Is this, I mean,

1:03:31

we're literally best friends. So it's

1:03:33

like, we talked to each other

1:03:35

about everything, and this was weighing

1:03:37

so much on me the entire

1:03:39

process to where I was like,

1:03:41

I can't look at the debrief

1:03:43

about all this. So cute to

1:03:45

be like, I want to propose.

1:03:47

But that was the thing, because

1:03:49

I was like, I can't, there's

1:03:51

not one thing that I could

1:03:54

talk to you about this stressful

1:03:56

period of my life until the

1:03:58

fact happens. But I felt like

1:04:00

it took us like two days

1:04:02

of me being able to like

1:04:04

fully debrief of all the other

1:04:06

moments that I could remember as they

1:04:08

were coming. And then, God bless Quinn's

1:04:10

heart, right? She was also on the

1:04:13

list of people that I was supposed

1:04:15

to send a photo to. She deems me,

1:04:17

because I forgot I didn't have her

1:04:19

number, but she was like eagerly waiting

1:04:22

for something, right? And God bless the

1:04:24

tight circle that I have, because this

1:04:26

how I know the photos didn't go

1:04:28

around. Because I knew that

1:04:30

Quinn was left out of the loop

1:04:33

and yeah, what? What photos? Exactly. Um,

1:04:35

I say word. But, uh, so Quinn goes,

1:04:37

she'd be asked me, she's like,

1:04:40

Josh, please, I am dying. This

1:04:42

is, this is probably, this is

1:04:44

probably the 23rd, like the 23rd

1:04:46

or Christmas Eve, like, we didn't

1:04:49

post anything I think until either

1:04:51

Christmas day or the day after.

1:04:53

Which was really cool, like to

1:04:56

be able to just experiences,

1:04:58

like, like, We've

1:05:00

always been like semi private with

1:05:02

our relationship, but being able to

1:05:04

just like enjoy that time Without

1:05:06

like our phones always being on our

1:05:08

phone like Talking to everybody or

1:05:10

getting phone calls from everybody like we

1:05:13

told our immediate and stuff. Oh, we

1:05:15

were dying. We oh, yeah, you guys

1:05:17

say something to me immediately was fantastic.

1:05:19

Me and Melissa were in Atlanta. This

1:05:22

so I knew I was like I literally almost

1:05:24

cried You're done now we're talking Okay,

1:05:26

I was like, I put myself on

1:05:28

mute to help me help myself. Before

1:05:30

you get it off, the last thing,

1:05:32

the last thing was that I forgot

1:05:34

about Quinn and I apologize Quinn if

1:05:36

you're watching this, but she'll be fine.

1:05:39

Go ahead. Go ahead. Go ahead. Go

1:05:41

ahead. Kevin. Because I want to talk

1:05:43

to you. Me and Melissa was in

1:05:45

Atlanta like, okay. It's three o'clock our

1:05:47

time. It's six o'clock in New

1:05:49

York, and Melissa's like. Oh no, she

1:05:51

said that and I was like, oh

1:05:53

we're in the same time zone as

1:05:56

him. That means we have to wait

1:05:58

like three more hours. one time being

1:06:00

in Atlanta was like L.A. is always

1:06:03

good because things are happening. If you're

1:06:05

in New York, we're like, we're gonna

1:06:07

find about three o'clock. You should send

1:06:10

a picture. Having to wait until literally

1:06:12

three more hours was the absolute worst.

1:06:14

Go ahead, Angel. Let me tell you,

1:06:16

I think on that day, hold on.

1:06:19

Because I was so you proposed on

1:06:21

the 21st, right? 21st at three, at

1:06:23

450-50-ish. give or take when that song

1:06:26

actually happened. I want y'all to go

1:06:28

to our Here's the Thing chat. I

1:06:30

purposefully texted y'all on the 21st in

1:06:32

the morning just to remind you in

1:06:35

your head that I send it to.

1:06:37

Yes, and I need to know. I

1:06:39

put, did we ever decide what we're

1:06:42

supposed to be shooting? I didn't care

1:06:44

about when we were shooting. I just

1:06:46

needed to get back into your mind

1:06:48

as a person that you needed to

1:06:51

contact once. Absolutely. Absolutely. It's like, oh

1:06:53

my God. I don't want to text

1:06:55

Josh from the side. I don't want

1:06:58

it to ring any alarms. I said,

1:07:00

you know what, let me just go

1:07:02

into the here's the thing chat and

1:07:04

ask the question that I don't really

1:07:07

care about. But the part that y'all

1:07:09

are not getting that I just love.

1:07:11

is that, well, first of all, Ryan,

1:07:14

Josh was really like, when he was

1:07:16

getting, when he was getting ready to

1:07:18

leave, I said, oh my God, I

1:07:20

cannot wait until after you do and

1:07:23

we find out. And he was like,

1:07:25

oh, he said, you're gonna be refreshing

1:07:27

your IG? I said, excuse me. I

1:07:30

gotta get a text message that this

1:07:32

didn't happen. Oh, we all gonna have

1:07:34

problems. But the other thing is that

1:07:36

when Emar came over here, when Josh

1:07:39

and Emar came over and I got

1:07:41

to hear her part of the story,

1:07:43

what was hilarious is that she really

1:07:46

was taking that ice skating seriously. She

1:07:48

said, the man, the professional, he was

1:07:50

so inspiring, he was like doing all

1:07:52

these things and I was like, I

1:07:55

wanted to, meanwhile I'm thinking Josh is

1:07:57

about to blow all of his food

1:07:59

out of his ass. and you are

1:08:02

over here trying to be a damn

1:08:04

Olympian. He is over here trying to

1:08:06

figure out how to pull off this

1:08:08

beautiful engagement. And you really like that

1:08:11

angel? Because it's just so funny

1:08:13

to think of how far apart

1:08:15

their brains were. In that moment, Josh

1:08:18

got bubble guts and she's

1:08:20

like, I was losing my mind. I

1:08:22

really like skating. You know what, I'm

1:08:24

going to do this a lot more

1:08:26

often. You know that part on Dumb

1:08:29

and Dumber where he's trying to get

1:08:31

the black girl's number and his foot

1:08:33

catches on fire and she's like, you

1:08:35

know, three fours, you know, just give

1:08:37

me the number. That's the other thing

1:08:40

that was so sweet. She said, as

1:08:42

it began to happen, but when the

1:08:44

music started, she said all of a

1:08:46

sudden, her heart rate went up. It

1:08:48

was like her body responded to the

1:08:50

moment. before her brain did and I

1:08:52

said oh my gosh she said my

1:08:55

heart is beating fast for some reason

1:08:57

something is getting ready to happen. Yeah she

1:08:59

kept saying like my heart is being so

1:09:01

fast and at that point I was like

1:09:03

it long they don't palpitate we're good. How

1:09:05

did you get her to turn around and

1:09:07

like when you went down? What do you

1:09:09

mean like were you like just getting were

1:09:11

she looking at you when you went down?

1:09:13

So the song started we're still by the

1:09:15

exit and I'm trying to enter it closer

1:09:17

to at least some part of not just

1:09:19

the exit. Because at this point,

1:09:21

I was like, bro, start the song.

1:09:23

Like, there's, you can't see these people

1:09:25

over here anyway. But the problem

1:09:28

was that was all bottleneck because

1:09:30

people are waiting to get on for

1:09:32

the next session. But, so if this

1:09:34

is the skating rink, this is the

1:09:36

exit, she's like, we're like hereish and

1:09:39

I'm trying to get to like hereish.

1:09:41

So I started playing when we were

1:09:43

like around here and then that's how

1:09:46

I was able to bring her over. He

1:09:48

said that people started. cheering

1:09:50

when he went there was

1:09:53

there was one group

1:09:55

of black girls that

1:09:57

did everything we needed.

1:10:00

everything can either go. You can

1:10:02

see every time. They don't have

1:10:04

to know you. Yelling. Congratulations. My

1:10:06

women are going to know the

1:10:08

moment. They don't have to know

1:10:10

the person. They're going to know

1:10:12

the moment. And you know, Joshua's

1:10:14

series, Angel, because he didn't have

1:10:16

no hat on. When he goes

1:10:18

full hair, full, full guns, all

1:10:20

his hair? I had it. I

1:10:22

was going to go full hair,

1:10:25

but I would have been dead

1:10:27

on that. on that. She would

1:10:29

have been very, very serious. She

1:10:31

said she blacked out. I said,

1:10:33

do you remember what Josh said?

1:10:35

She said, I heard the first

1:10:37

part. I don't remember anything else.

1:10:39

She said, I don't remember there

1:10:41

being people there. I don't remember

1:10:43

any of them. Oh, Josh. Oh,

1:10:45

Josh. And that was everything. Because

1:10:47

for me, I was like, there's

1:10:49

no way to get an intimate

1:10:51

moment in New York without doing

1:10:53

something like this in that setting.

1:10:57

It just makes me so happy.

1:10:59

You know, I still go back

1:11:02

to when I first met him,

1:11:04

Mara. I said, oh, this is

1:11:06

a badty. She's a badty, okay?

1:11:09

And she's very, she's very sweet,

1:11:11

but she also got a little

1:11:13

bite to her, which I, that's

1:11:15

what I enjoy the most. Is

1:11:18

the little, the little, girl, sorry.

1:11:20

Sorry, my dog ran up in

1:11:22

here. I just so happy for

1:11:25

you. We're just so godly proud.

1:11:27

Can't wait for the little babies

1:11:29

to come whenever they do no

1:11:31

rush whenever you all decide. Oh,

1:11:34

just so happy. Thank you guys

1:11:36

for the abundance in love and

1:11:38

congrats in Felizi. That is that

1:11:41

you have showered upon both of

1:11:43

us. I also realized that that

1:11:45

was the most liked photo I've

1:11:47

ever got in my life and

1:11:50

you guys just don't give a

1:11:52

damn by anything else that I

1:11:54

post, which is fine. Which is

1:11:57

completely funny. They're like, who is

1:11:59

Jay? call? Where is he married?

1:12:01

You know what I mean? So

1:12:03

for that, I was like, yeah,

1:12:05

15,000 for us. But I always

1:12:07

expect nothing less, which I'm very

1:12:10

grateful for, that you guys, one

1:12:12

of the, I think most humbling

1:12:14

comments that I read, and

1:12:16

it wasn't as one, were

1:12:18

y'all saying how happy you guys

1:12:20

were for a couple that you

1:12:22

guys don't even know in real

1:12:24

life, but you know us from this.

1:12:27

You know what I mean? So for

1:12:29

that like, like, Like I said, that

1:12:31

was very humbling. And

1:12:33

I'm going to drink some

1:12:36

drink before my eyes start

1:12:38

getting... Oh, feel your feeling,

1:12:40

Josh. And when I meet her

1:12:42

people at work, it's on site.

1:12:45

Because Josh has said this. They

1:12:47

were over there putting it in

1:12:49

her head that it was

1:12:51

going to happen in New

1:12:53

York. And they're like, they're

1:12:56

like, he's going to propose

1:12:58

in New York. And when I

1:13:00

heard that I was like, I'm pulling

1:13:02

up, I'm going to pull up to

1:13:04

the office because the issue, the problem,

1:13:06

the problem now is there all going

1:13:09

to be the, I told you, I told

1:13:11

you, they all knew it, apparently. But

1:13:13

she was like, no, no, no, no, I'm pretty

1:13:15

sure it's happening in London

1:13:18

this summer. No, I'm pretty sure.

1:13:20

I was like, that's right. I'm so

1:13:22

glad you put that in her mind.

1:13:24

Listen, listen, I know what people,

1:13:26

we be like. I see what happened.

1:13:29

I know it was coming. I

1:13:31

was like, I don't, I can't

1:13:33

hold water, so I was just

1:13:36

like, he surely can't, thank

1:13:38

God he didn't see my,

1:13:40

you ain't seen her in a

1:13:43

little bit. Because I'm not,

1:13:45

yes, Kevin would have been

1:13:47

like, hey! Hello, hi, everything

1:13:50

is normal to you right

1:13:52

now, but maybe you're

1:13:54

in New York. If y'all do

1:13:56

some times, you better tie me

1:13:58

up and keep. me out of

1:14:01

the loop because I was dry

1:14:03

scratch and then I was wet

1:14:05

snit. He did it. He did

1:14:07

it. Sir, who? What are you

1:14:09

talking about? He did it. Oh

1:14:11

man. That's really how we found

1:14:14

out male and Greg were pregnant

1:14:16

with the second baby and me

1:14:18

and Marcus didn't have to pretend

1:14:20

like we don't know. What you

1:14:22

normally say? And then, so with

1:14:24

Mel and Greg having this, having

1:14:26

the new baby, da da da.

1:14:29

And we were all like. That's

1:14:31

why Mel didn't even tell me

1:14:33

for me for a long time.

1:14:35

You were just like, we were

1:14:37

going somewhere and she wasn't drinking.

1:14:39

I was like, you're not drinking.

1:14:42

She was like, yeah, I'm trying

1:14:44

to lose some weight for Hawaii.

1:14:46

And I was like, okay. My

1:14:48

mind is just accepts. And then

1:14:50

it might have been another two

1:14:52

months, two months before. Yeah. Yeah.

1:14:54

Yeah. Yeah. No. She said when

1:14:57

they told us. Oh, Lord. And

1:14:59

if I was right, I've been

1:15:01

like now. See, that was I

1:15:03

didn't know I was telling anything.

1:15:05

It was the work people. Oh,

1:15:07

Josh, this is so exciting. We

1:15:10

cannot wait. I love weddings. I

1:15:12

absolutely love them. So glad. Can't

1:15:14

wait to be there. Thank you.

1:15:16

All right. Me. Me. I've got

1:15:18

a show. Uh, we're not bringing

1:15:20

him on to hash it out.

1:15:23

That's all you get. You get

1:15:25

Josh's point of view. We're not

1:15:27

going to come over and go

1:15:29

over it again. Um, and don't

1:15:31

be starting to ask. When's the

1:15:33

wedding when you're having babies, you

1:15:35

find out the rest of the

1:15:38

stuff when you find out the

1:15:40

rest of the stuff. Period. You

1:15:42

hear me? We're happy for this

1:15:44

moment. This woman and this is

1:15:46

all in $5 million dollars on

1:15:48

his lady and we's proud. Washington

1:15:51

tell you he charted the Delta

1:15:53

737. Yes, it is. If who

1:15:55

went to a private island after

1:15:57

the engagement I said money coin

1:15:59

coin Money. All

1:16:01

right, we'll see y'all likely.

1:16:04

That's what I want to

1:16:06

know. Yeah, maybe Saturday

1:16:08

because we got a show

1:16:10

in San Diego, so I

1:16:12

just need to see what

1:16:14

time we leave. Probably

1:16:17

Saturday morning, we'll

1:16:19

talk about the

1:16:21

other stuff. Saturday.

1:16:23

I bless you

1:16:25

all. Thank you.

1:16:27

Here's another one.

1:16:29

Here's another thing

1:16:31

for you. Here's

1:16:34

another thing for

1:16:36

you. Here's another

1:16:38

thing for you.

1:16:40

Here's another thing

1:16:42

for you. Here's

1:16:44

another thing for

1:16:46

you. Here's another

1:16:48

thing for you.