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We are back in the booth and I'm Sean Booth

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and thank you guys for tuning in . Wherever

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you're listening from , maybe you are from Hopkinsville

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, kentucky , that's north

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of Tennessee . If you're looking at a map , or maybe

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you're from Lake Charles If you're looking at a map , or maybe you're from

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Lake Charles , louisiana , that would be south of

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Tennessee , I believe Sam Cat or

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Yakima Washington

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, all the way out on that west coast

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towards the north . We

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are here , we are live . We

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are in Nashville , tennessee . We

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got Easton in the building and to left we've got fancy cat . Fancy cat

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, bougie cat . She's sitting here sipping on her gold Starbucks mug . It's

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like the same size as a Stanley

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, very sparkly and

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, yeah , very fancy .

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Welcome fancy cat thank

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you for having Such a pleasure to be here with

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my plastic , very

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mundane Starbucks

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tumbler . I bet that thing costs $40

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at least . No , god , no , it was

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like $15 .

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Easton , we're going to put you to work

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right away . Can you pull up Starbucks' website right

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now ? Probably $25

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. What ounce is that ? This

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is a 24-ounce . Okay , probably $25 .

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Right now and probably 25 . What ounce is that ?

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this is 24 ounce , okay , probably 25 bucks , I'm gonna say 40 , 42 . I bought

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it , so I know how much it costs , okay , all right .

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So I'm so glad that you're gonna explain it to me , that's good um

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.

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The first one that is available is

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on amazon . It's called

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a starbucks gold studded tumbler . 2022

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Fall Winter Holiday Bling Edition , 24

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ounce . On Amazon it's $69.99

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. Wow .

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Yeah , I didn't buy it there , I bought it at Starbucks .

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Quadruple the price yeah

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.

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That's a rip-off . Don't get that . You could go to the store and get

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them . They have them in silver and they had green

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pink . I

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just like gold , baby yeah .

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Well , you look great , your hair looks great today .

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Are you being serious ? I'm being serious . I like it . Oh , thank you . It's actually four

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days old and I was feeling

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the exact opposite .

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Really .

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Yeah , I was like , oh well , this is going to have

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to do for today . Couldn't bring myself to wash it .

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Looks great .

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Thank you . Yeah , I'm trying to just go for

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the more natural vibe , you know .

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I like the natural vibe , I've realized . I like the curly

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hair too .

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Yeah , it's here's . The thing , though , is that if I

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had curly hair , we'd be talking about something

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different , but I have some sort of like wavy

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curly . The problem is that I have

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absolutely no idea what it's going to do . It could

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be the best hair day of my life , or I could

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look like I stuck my finger in an electric

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socket .

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Well , it's kind of like your life you have absolutely

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no clue what it's going to do or where it's going to

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go .

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It's a pretty fun ride .

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Yeah , what do you got in that cup ?

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Water .

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All right , here we go , we are off

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.

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Am I on the stand ?

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You're on the stand right now , had a fun golf tournament

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and what Folds

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of Honor with our buddy , chuck Wicks , and I don't know if you saw my story

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, but he was cheating out there on the course and he was

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. There's like a live scoreboard and

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Chuck is not the best golfer and

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so you can update your scores and

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all of a sudden , chuck Wicks , his team is at like

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20 under through 14 . I'm

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like Chuck . I know

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this isn't true , but it was for

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the Fools of Honor .

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He cheated at a charity golf tournament .

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Correct , yeah , that's good , that's a good Footfalls of Honor . So he cheated at a charity golf

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tournament . He cheated at a charity golf tournament correct there .

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Okay , yeah , that's good , that's a good look .

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Yeah , he didn't end up winning , which is good

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, but I played in that tournament I don't know how many years

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now and it's impossible to win because

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I don't know if you've played in any golf tournaments

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which you haven't .

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I have not no .

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Yeah , is .

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I have worked golf tournaments and I've worked those

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things because I used to be a BevCart girl . Okay

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. So I'm not completely unfamiliar , I've just never been an

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athlete .

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Yeah , A scramble is

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. I've

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become a professional scramble golf player where you get a team of three people Okay , this one

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is four . So I was the quote unquote celebrity who joined the team . So every team's

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got a celebrity and I was with the Lucchese

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team which are fancy boots

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.

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Yeah , that's a . That's a nice team to be on .

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Yeah .

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Did you get me any boots ?

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I didn't even get boots , I would have you

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know . I was yeah , I was hoping to

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get some , but I didn't get any . Lucchese

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, if you're listening , uh

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, I'll just keep wearing my Tacovas until

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then . Yeah , they

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said it wasn't a rival though I asked them .

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I go , are takova's like your rival ? And they said no . I mean , I feel like when you're a luke

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casey , you don't have a rival .

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Yeah , luke casey they said takova has actually been

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good for them because it's brought more attention

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to the boot game oh , absolutely anything

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.

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What is it ? What's it saying ? Iron sharpens , iron

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, yeah iron sharpens iron yeah yeah

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, there we go .

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So , anyway , the sc . Uh . So the fun

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thing about it and that's why the tournaments are always

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set up this way you don't play your own ball

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the entire hole , which takes forever . So

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say me , you , easton

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, are on a team for a scramble . We

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would all drive the ball and then we would take the best

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drive and

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then we'd all hit that shot . Take that best shot makes it go a little quicker , quicker . You

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obviously score low , so it's just fun all the way around . But there's also , with

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charity events and these type of tournaments

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, they always do like crazy , like it's obviously

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to raise money , so it's like all right , if you pay

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, you know , five hundred dollars

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on this hole , then you can start

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on like five feet from the

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hole , or if you

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is that how chuck cheated ? that's how

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mostly everybody there it's like they always

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get like an insanely low

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number because they're the richest yes

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, it's like yeah hey , use

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the weapons that you got right right

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, that's the part I don't like . I'm like I wish we could just like

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do charity separate and do like

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just the golf separate , because it's always

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rex ryan . Do Ryan ? Do you know Rex Ryan ? Yes , yeah

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, he wins every year and

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well yeah

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exactly . His house is literally on

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Governor's Club , and if you've never been to Governor's Club

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in Tennessee , I'm trying to get a job there

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actually are you ? Yeah , yeah .

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I have a lot of downtime coming up and I've been contemplating

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what I am going to do and I

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just feel like I have to do something

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, like I'm not , I don't know

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. It's like do I focus on something that will maybe help

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my career ? Do I do something mindless , just

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to kind of like make money and keep a routine

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? And if you have any advice , let

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me know , but Governor's Club is something that came up .

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I love it .

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I mean , obviously they need bartenders and servers and

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BevGuard girls .

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They do . Yeah , yeah , that's a good course

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. It's a nice little community .

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But tell people who don't know what Governor's Club is .

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I mean it's probably the nicest houses in .

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Tennessee , for sure .

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But who lives in there . There

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are a lot of country singers . Think got a big old house there . I know a few other

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people who do . You know who ?

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lives there . No , that's why I was asking you , I don't know yeah

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I've . I've only been there one time , yeah

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, and I didn't like participate in anything

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. I didn't go into any of the facilities .

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I was genuinely asking you like I don't know much about

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I know what the governor's club is , but I don't

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know yeah , I mean , it's just outrageous mansions

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, that line , the course . So like you're playing

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down the fourth hole and it's

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just like on both sides of the fairway are just

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outrageous houses , so which

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I don't know if I'd like that . It depends where your house

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is located , because I

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mean , balls are going everywhere that's fair

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.

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But what do you care ? You have that much money , you'll

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just replace it yeah , of course

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you care , though it doesn't matter .

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I mean , you got some little kids out there too yeah

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, that's fair . Safety , safety

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, yeah , first but anyways , we lost

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um scrambles the way to

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play and shut

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on your team like did you know ?

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just look at the employees . Yeah

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, okay yeah , so you

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mean to tell me that chuck was a celebrity for one team

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?

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yeah , leading them to cheating yes

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oh , good job , proud of you

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so it's also like you know

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, guys from n sync backstreet boys , which

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apparently I didn't know

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this . This might be t . I'm gonna

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get chris kropatrick on here . There's

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a little beef between the NSYNC and

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Backstreet Boys , like legit

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.

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I mean , I feel like this started around like

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97 .

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No , I know , but there's a couple of guys who don't like

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each other .

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I would imagine . I mean , how could you not think

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that they were like direct competitors

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?

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Yeah , but I mean .

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It was . You were either team NSYNC or you were team Backstreet Boy

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. Yeah , I don't know , you were not

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a small girl , teenage girl , during

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this time , like I was , but like that's

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the least surprising thing I've

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heard all day .

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Of course they have beef . I mean no

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, not of course it's

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yeah .

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I mean , course it's . Yeah , I mean , even years later too , you don't have beef with someone . That not necessarily

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that you wake up and you like actively , you know , act on it , but you don't get back to someone you're

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like fuck that guy yeah , I mean

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, I think it's just funny to see it in like

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real life .

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Did you ? Did you watch that documentary ?

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yeah , okay , what's the guy's name ? Dirty pop

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yeah , what's his name . I cannot

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remember his name . It's escaping me , but

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yes .

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But yes , is it Bruce or something Perlman

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?

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What ? Can you look it up ? Dirty Pop on Netflix .

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I think it's Perlman .

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Yeah , that sounds familiar , but I got to be honest with you , I've been watching

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a lot of TV lately , so I think my

9:16

brain is rotting a little bit , but

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Am I looking ? The main guy , the guy that was in charge

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of like starting in sync and backstreet boy , and then he was

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caught in like a money laundering

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scandal yes , stealing

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their money . Lou perlman , lou

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perlman , okay lou , I wanted to call him gus

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. I don't know why gus and lou whatever

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backstreet boys and in sync left

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him quite early on like a lot of the documentary

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kind of follows after those

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boy bands were created with like 98

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degrees and then a one direction

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wasn't , were they in there ? I don't think so , like

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a slew of boy bands that I had never heard of , to be honest

9:52

, but they apparently had very large , international

9:54

, successful careers , so I

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don't know . You should watch it , I mean I am a

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sucker for those kind of things . I love to see the behind the

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scenes of anything . But it

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wasn't as dark as some other documentaries that we've

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had pop out of the 90s , so but

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it's just . I I

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don't understand . Like anytime I watch a con

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artist or like a scheming that has to do with , like how

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they got away with millions of dollars

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. I'm like first of all , the balls on this guy

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. I feel

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guilty . If I like accidentally , I

10:22

don't even know like don't return my grocery cart

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. I can't imagine I know , Millions

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and you're just screwing people out of their money Like you

10:29

. Obviously , when it's documentary

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style , you get to see and hear the

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people that are directly affected , so it makes it so much

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worse . But it's just like how

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are people managing to pull that

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off ?

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It's , but they , they apparently don't

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they do for a while but

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, like you know , when the highs are high they're

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high . Oh my God , it's like the lifestyle that they're

10:50

living .

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It's kind of like , okay , well , if you live fast , it's like you got

10:52

more out of maybe 10 years and a

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lot of people get out of a lifetime .

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So same thing with like Bernie

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Madoff .

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Yes , that's insane as well . Insane

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, and then but all of these people

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are also part of it , like it's

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not just one person . It's one person

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who kind of starts the ball rolling , but

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think about all the people that have to

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either . I mean be lied

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to or turn a blind eye to , and I don't

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know . Money obviously does weird things to people .

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It's money and power . When you're at the top like that

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, money talks .

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I can't believe that it still happens . I mean , I know that sounds dumb to say , but it's just like

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we got cameras everywhere . Everything's traceable , all

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this stuff , and people are still trying to like rob banks

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I don't .

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Yeah , that's probably not as common

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anymore , but unless you're just

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an idiot , unless you're just an idiot , which most

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of them are .

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Yes , so but that's what I'm saying . Okay . So

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I guess what I'm saying is the comparison is like

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yeah , you're gonna try and rob a bank , you're an idiot . But people who

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like launder money and get away with it for decades

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and or you know whatever they're doing , illegal

11:54

, that's they're not an idiot

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.

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They're actually exceptionally smart because they're two steps

11:58

ahead of everyone else would you launder

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money and if you had

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say you could

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get $50 million in

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the next couple of years and you could enjoy

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that for 20

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years and then you get caught . So

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you get from now until 20 years .

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Okay , so I'd be I don't know dude 54?

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.

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But you have right now 20 years to enjoy

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the what I say 50 million dollars . I don't know

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. I think could you live a pretty good life for the next

12:29

20 years ?

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yeah , with 50 million like I'm out , I'll

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see you guys later yeah I think , especially

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because I don't have children , so I would just choose to

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ultimately not have children and just live an insane

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life . Probably

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wouldn't even make it the 20 years if I had $50

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million to be honest , but yeah

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, I guess I'd consider it . All right , yeah

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, if that makes me a bad person , okay

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.

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Because I think about that too . It's like so many

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people get caught and they're like older guys .

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I'm like they did it .

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They did it .

12:57

They already lived the fast life .

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Yeah , and

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they got to be the guy for years , years

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. Weird . But then you talk about being the guy . It's

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like jeffrey epstein , who everybody apparently

13:08

knew that everyone , everybody

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knew what he was doing , but it was just

13:12

all powerful people so he had like so

13:15

much blackmail dirt on everybody and

13:17

so nobody would do anything , and people

13:19

still don't do anything . I feel like it's like

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not at all . What happened to giselle

13:24

or what's her ?

13:25

name she's out , she's around .

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Yeah , she's chilling and like whatever happened to that , she

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was her right hand man like

13:31

setting everything up .

13:32

Yes , arguably

13:34

I don't want to say like more powerful , but

13:36

I feel like , especially in an environment

13:38

that is catering towards young

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girls , probably way more influential , that I mean

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again power , because they talk about in the documentaries , how all the politicians both

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towards young girls , probably way more influential

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.

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I mean again power , because they talk about in the documentaries how all the

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politicians both sides of the aisle , they were all like

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on the aisle .

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Both sides of the aisle internationally .

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Yeah .

13:54

Not even just America .

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Yeah , like the Prince

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or King . What is it ? Prince Charles , Prince Charles

13:59

.

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I mean his name has been thrown around . I feel

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like in every time Epstein's

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name has been brought up , and I mean all of the American politicians

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and also just pop culture icons

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yeah , weird , anybody

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with money . Money's

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bad , money's a bad thing . Do

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you think money changes people ?

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Yes .

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Okay , so I think money just brings out who you

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are .

14:24

I saw . Well , it's funny to say , because I saw a

14:26

tiktok yesterday or today

14:29

dan brazilian right

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, he's the guy who is , has

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all this money , flies

14:37

around in jets and lives this

14:39

lavish lifestyle with 20

14:41

different girls all the time okay

14:43

and he admitted

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he was talking about how he used to not

14:48

have money and girls didn't

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want him and that's what he wanted

14:52

. And then he I

14:55

think he and the crazy thing is he like inherited

14:57

money from his family . Then he started playing poker

14:59

and if you just look at

15:01

his instagram , he's just known for

15:03

literally the most outrageous

15:06

videos , like he'll be sitting in a room

15:08

smoking , drinking

15:10

and there's like 20 naked chicks around him

15:12

. But he had anyways . He had said that he

15:15

wanted or . Everybody treats him

15:17

different when he had money and when

15:19

you can get girls . So I do

15:21

think it changes you , but to

15:23

your point .

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Yeah , I , I do , I mean , do I

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mean , I guess ? yes , sure , it changes a bit of you

15:28

, but I just feel like when you have money , you often

15:31

don't hear the word no , and if you , are

15:33

surrounded by yes , men , it's a slippery slope

15:35

and I think that it's

15:38

almost as if you're like just being unchaperoned

15:40

, like now you are the one calling the shots

15:43

and it's just like all of those decisions , like that

15:45

decision power was inside you . Now

15:47

you just have the freedom to do it . So

15:49

I just feel like , because there's a lot of rich

15:51

people out there who I'm sure good people not

15:54

every rich person is a bad person so it's like

15:56

no , I think those people were innately

15:58

that and now it's just highlighted because

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they have access to everything yeah , yeah , because

16:02

you look at probably the normal rich people

16:04

.

16:04

They probably lived

16:07

a normal life , worked hard and

16:10

their upbringing or whatever . They just

16:12

never really changed . And

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then you have people , yeah , who

16:17

just take advantage of that power .

16:19

But I think also , the

16:22

money is one thing , but I feel like some people

16:24

crave fame or they

16:26

crave attention , like this guy that you're talking about

16:28

craves the attention of a woman , like I

16:30

think it just depends on what is inside

16:32

you .

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Yeah .

16:33

It just spills out when you all of a sudden have

16:35

unlimited access . So

16:37

that guy was insecure about women not

16:40

being into him and now it's all his brand

16:42

is . So , it's just like

16:44

that was there , that was there the whole time .

16:47

And he you know um

16:50

, like that's a

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video .

16:56

Yeah , I mean , that's what I picture

16:58

.

16:59

Like everywhere he goes and I don't even know how

17:01

these girls they're probably getting paid .

17:02

Yeah , yeah , he just pays them to go travel with them and have fun goes , and I don't even know

17:04

how these girls , they're probably getting paid fat stacks yeah he

17:06

just pays them to go travel with them and have

17:08

fun I mean listen

17:11

, what if they're having ? What if that's the secret to life and we

17:13

just don't know ? It's just paying

17:17

for camaraderie .

17:18

I don't know , yeah it

17:21

doesn't look like they're having a bad time , I can tell you that .

17:23

No well , especially the girls . They probably just

17:25

made like six new best friends and

17:27

they made , however many thousands of dollars Right

17:29

, he's probably buying them whatever purse they want , you

17:31

know like .

17:32

Yeah , good for you , girl . Yeah , and then going

17:34

back home .

17:35

To their husband , to their husband , and using

17:38

that 100 grand , they just made for their children .

17:40

Yeah , I remember there was actually a girl that

17:42

, um she

17:44

I don't know if she slid into my

17:46

DMs this was years ago and

17:49

I was talking to her for a little

17:51

bit and then I she

17:53

like mentioned something about that and I was like looking at her page

17:55

and she was like saying that she was like

17:58

one of his

18:01

girlfriends or something .

18:02

How many are there ?

18:02

And I know , and I was like , oh , all right , Well , this

18:04

is uh cut it

18:06

off right there .

18:08

Yeah , I mean it was , it was uh was

18:10

she still currently on the roster or was this I ?

18:12

think she was still currently on the roster . Like

18:14

she just started to hit like she was in a relationship

18:18

, but to focus

18:20

on her maybe to focus on her

18:23

or to get married or to have kids or whatever

18:25

, and I was like , yeah , this is kind

18:27

of a little sticky situation here came

18:30

out unscathed .

18:31

Proud of you yeah , thank you , sam cat unscathed

18:33

you're welcome yeah

18:35

, but I do think money changes

18:38

people my

18:40

uncle just turned 97 , damn 97 , my 97

18:43

.

18:44

My grandma's 90s

18:46

Got to be 90 . Close to it .

18:48

My grandma just turned 89 yesterday .

18:50

Yeah , happy birthday . Yeah

18:52

, she's still going strong .

18:54

Yeah , she lives with my parents . She has like a mother-in-law

18:57

suite , so it's nice that when I go home

18:59

I get to see her

19:01

Just like right there , watching the game show

19:03

network , drinking her coffee , hanging out with her dog .

19:06

You know what and you think about 99 so long . But

19:08

then , in the grand scheme of life , once

19:10

get deep , that is so short . There

19:12

was a long time before you were born . There's

19:14

going to be a long time after you die .

19:16

And it never stops . I have been down

19:18

this rabbit hole since I mean

19:20

, I just turned 34 . And

19:23

I obviously

19:25

aging is a privilege . I

19:27

know that that's like my . I love

19:29

that I found my first gray hair and I was like kind

19:31

of excited . I know that sounds weird , but I was just like

19:33

I don't know . You hear about these

19:35

things your whole life and now I'm finally doing it . But it's just

19:38

I

19:40

go oscillate back and forth , exactly like

19:42

you're saying . I'm just like , oh

19:48

my God , I'm 34 . I feel like I should know more , I should be doing more , I should have a

19:50

family , I should be living on a farm , like I don't know , I should have been doing all these things . But

19:52

then I think like I'm only 34 , in the same breath , in the same

19:54

thought , and it's just a

19:56

weird chapter to enter

19:58

, because I feel like this is the first time . Okay

20:01

, your 20s , you think you're an adult , but like

20:03

if you're in your twenties and you're listening , you're

20:05

fine . Everybody's confused , everybody's figuring

20:07

it out , everybody's moving at a different pace . I

20:09

feel like it's so scattered . Things kind of

20:11

start to maybe even out a bit in

20:14

your early thirties , but even still , your early

20:16

thirties is the first chapter where I feel like people expect

20:18

you to know what's going on . So

20:20

there's still a grace period

20:22

, and now I feel like I've entered my mid

20:24

thirties and it's like , all right , you should not

20:27

that you should know what's going on , cause I feel like everybody

20:29

doesn't know what's going on . But when

20:32

I I hate when I'm in a situation and

20:34

I look around and I'm the adult , and

20:36

that happens more and more each year

20:38

, and I just feel like , oh , I don't want

20:40

to be the oldest one in the room , I don't want to be the

20:42

one that's in charge , but like because

20:44

you remember that person used to

20:46

think they're old . Yes . Yeah absolutely

20:49

, and it's like I don't

20:51

know , it's just a weird I just it's a weird

20:53

time in life and I feel like millennials

20:55

are really the first generation

20:58

that has . I'm not saying they're the first

21:00

generation to maybe delay getting married and having

21:02

children . Maybe generations before us did it , but

21:04

it wasn't as widely known . We didn't

21:06

have TikTok and Instagram and all these things that celebrate

21:08

choosing to be childless or choosing

21:10

to be single or choosing whatever you choose . So

21:14

I feel like it's just a little more of like an open

21:16

navigation , but it doesn't make it any less

21:18

weird .

21:19

Right . Yeah , I think recently

21:21

, in the last year or so , I've

21:25

gotten to the point where I can recognize

21:27

I'm not that young anymore , like

21:29

what you said . You said I'm still kind of like

21:31

you know , I feel like I got a lot of time

21:34

left , but also at the same time , like you're still

21:36

kind of going back and forth . I'm

21:41

like , no , I'm , I'm on the , not the other side , but I don't , do you think you're

21:43

midlife ?

21:44

uh , according to uh , no no , I

21:46

didn't say according to statistics . I said do you think

21:48

you're midlife ?

21:51

um , no , I

21:54

hope not . Um , but

21:57

if you want to go off the

21:59

statistics , do you know what the average lifespan

22:02

of a man is right now ?

22:03

62 years old that would be

22:05

really young . Well

22:07

, I thought you were going to give me a shocking statistic . That's

22:09

why .

22:10

Well , it is shocking to me 74.8

22:16

. And 2022

22:19

, the average life expectancy for

22:21

men in the United States was 74.8 . And 2022 the average

22:23

life expectancy for men in the united states was 74.8 , which is almost

22:25

six years less than the average

22:27

life expectancy for women , which

22:29

is 80.2 . All

22:32

right , so 74.8

22:36

divided

22:39

by two is

22:42

37.8 . And I just turned 38

22:44

. That's crazy . So I am statistically

22:48

in a midlife crisis

22:50

. So here we are . I

22:52

decided to have a baby in a midlife crisis . Life

22:55

expectancy in the US has

22:57

been declining in recent years 2019

23:00

, it was 78.8 , 2020

23:02

was 77 , 2021

23:04

was 73.2 and

23:07

then it went up to 74.8

23:09

. Wild

23:11

, how is that number not up

23:13

to ? Well , of course , I mean there's so many , but

23:16

you would think , as time goes

23:18

on and technology evolves , but

23:21

also people get greedy and put weird

23:23

shit in your food and everything

23:26

else in the universe to make money . Yeah

23:28

. And medicine . It's like you can . You don't even

23:30

know what to believe . You

23:33

know like is there a cure for cancer ? Do

23:36

we believe that ? How is

23:38

there not ? Is it due

23:41

to pot ?

23:41

I mean , let's get our tinfoil hats on , yeah

23:43

but here's the thing is that healthy patients aren't paying

23:45

patients oh , I know so

23:48

I don't know . I always keep that in the back

23:50

of my mind . I try not to be

23:52

a conspiracy theorist . I it feels

23:54

I mean I've talked about this before on here just like trying

23:57

to switch daily products that

23:59

I use to non-toxic and

24:02

and also just eating whole foods

24:04

. Now I was just reading something that you

24:06

know they have to list the ingredients on the back of whatever you're

24:09

eating and so they would

24:11

hide things that are like bad for you under different

24:13

, very confusing , almost like scientific

24:15

names . And so then people

24:17

caught on to that . They started educating the public

24:19

. Like hey , this word actually means

24:21

oil

24:24

. I don't know , you know what I mean . Like this means shards

24:27

of glass . Like some of the stuff is so ridiculous

24:29

that you're like there's no way this is in my food . And

24:32

so people started to catch on to that . So

24:34

now they have said they

24:36

have changed said name , like whatever

24:38

the chemical name is to something different

24:40

, to confuse consumers .

24:42

Again for us to start all over and then

24:44

kind of figure out what the ingredients are yeah , and

24:46

then it's like also you got to look at other

24:48

ingredients . That are the very tiny

24:51

little words at the bottom , not on the main

24:53

nutrition label it's

24:55

exhausting .

24:56

sometimes I feel so overwhelming , though , like I try not to

24:58

go down a rabbit hole on that , because I'm just like there's

25:01

only so much I can control . I don't want to

25:03

be , first of all , I don't want to be , the person

25:05

that almost

25:07

causes more harm , like the whole point

25:10

of this is to do good , to like treat my body

25:12

well , to live longer , like we're talking about . So

25:14

I think if you go too far in one direction

25:16

, though , then it's almost like counterproductive now

25:19

I'm so stressed about ingredients and natural

25:21

, clean , non-toxic that like I'm

25:23

mentally deteriorating

25:25

myself . And then not only that , but then the people around you

25:28

, you all you know that person , the person

25:30

who's like a strict vegan or a person who's a strict

25:32

something and like it has to be the only thing

25:34

that's about that , like it becomes their whole persona

25:36

. I don't want to be that girl . I

25:38

just want to like live with my chickens on a farm

25:40

and like dance out .

25:42

And sometimes that's the best

25:44

way . Look at your grandmother

25:47

. She wasn't a vegan . No

25:49

, she wasn't staying away from

25:52

having a good time .

25:53

I do love when they interview people like

25:55

in nursing homes , or have made it say past

25:58

a hundred .

25:58

What's the secret to life ? They're always precious and they're like what's the secret to life ? Secret

26:00

to life , yeah , they're always precious and they're like what do you regret

26:02

? Those are always sad .

26:05

I always feel like they say nothing . No , they're

26:07

like I have no regrets . Isn't that the cliche

26:09

answer ?

26:11

Everybody has regrets .

26:12

What's your biggest regret , Sean ?

26:14

Ooh , my biggest regret . Wow

26:16

, that's

26:19

deep .

26:19

Well , you brought it up . Everybody has regret

26:21

. Open

26:24

and honest in the booth with Sean

26:26

Booth . What is your

26:29

biggest ?

26:29

regret , regret , damn

26:34

. I

26:36

don't know . That's a good one , I

26:39

don't know .

26:40

That's a good one . I feel like every

26:42

regret that I've had has

26:44

ultimately worked

26:47

out . So it's just I know that sounds cheesy

26:49

, but

26:53

I think that's just how life works is that one thing doesn't go away that you predicted , or maybe

26:55

you did something that you regret and it's

26:58

like yeah , but if that wouldn't happen

27:00

, then this wouldn't happen , and it's like we've already moved't happen , then this wouldn't happen , and it's like we've already moved

27:02

past it and great things have

27:04

come from it .

27:04

So it's kind of hard to

27:07

right pick a regret like that

27:09

unless I mean , unless you've done something no

27:11

, like anything that's been like dumb or stupid . It's

27:13

like , oh , that's just life yeah everybody screws up

27:16

. It's not like . I think about that every day like , oh my god I wish

27:18

I didn't do that . I didn't do that .

27:19

Do you ever find yourself thinking like how could I have thought that

27:21

way ?

27:22

Yeah , For some stuff . I guess . I

27:24

mean , like I was trying to think of regret , like obviously I love

27:26

being a father so much and I'm , like you

27:29

know , after talking about the life expectancy

27:31

of a man and me being midway there

27:33

and being 38 and now just having a kid , do

27:36

I regret not having kids earlier ? And I'm like , no

27:38

, I don't , because then I wouldn't

27:40

have locks Right , and then also

27:43

I don't know if I'd be as good

27:45

of a father I think I would , but

27:47

I don't know if I would maybe

27:49

appreciate it as much

27:51

as I do now , as maybe somebody who's

27:53

younger and you know young twenties

27:56

and they get married , have a baby , and it's

27:58

just kind of like just happens , where I'm

28:00

like you know , I was in a spot I'm like I don't know if I'm going

28:02

to have kids . I always wanted to , but so

28:05

that's when you know you say

28:07

there's always kind of a

28:10

solution to your regret .

28:13

Yeah , I definitely , like

28:16

actually almost verbatim had

28:18

this conversation last night over dinner about

28:21

being older , quote unquote

28:23

older before finding

28:25

a husband or before finding children . I

28:27

think that , oh

28:31

my God , can you hear my stomach right now ? No , oh

28:33

my God , sorry , ok , um

28:44

, I think that since I have waited so long or maybe not on my own terms , but I will appreciate if it

28:46

ever does come true and if it ever does happen , I will appreciate

28:48

it so much more and so differently

28:50

than I would have had it worked

28:53

out when I was 24 , 25 , 27

28:55

, 28 , 30 , 31 . You know , I

28:57

think that I have

28:59

a different perspective on relationships . I

29:01

am a different person . I've had all

29:03

this time to pretty much do exactly what I want

29:05

live selfishly . So I feel like I

29:08

will never if it ever does work out

29:11

for me , I will never feel like man . I wish I would have

29:13

been able to do that before kids yeah

29:15

which I think is common . I think it's like okay

29:18

, but then you know , once the kids are out of the house , then then we'll

29:20

do this type of thing , and I've just really

29:22

been able to check a lot of boxes that maybe

29:25

people who had families earlier haven't

29:27

been able to now , granted , they've been

29:29

able to check all of these boxes that I haven't been

29:31

. So it is like a work of balance but , I

29:33

think my mindset is so different

29:35

and also just like emotional

29:38

maturity .

29:39

Yeah , that's a big one .

29:40

And , just like you know , sometimes I think back to some things . I'm like , oh

29:42

God , it makes me cringe . Of course , but it's also

29:45

, just like I can't blame

29:47

myself because I didn't know any better Right

29:49

, but it is . It is weird to

29:52

think like I mean , I don't know if you've seen the meme-

29:54

that's

30:00

just like no one on the planet I have less in common with than whoever was making my 2008

30:03

facebook statuses , and I feel that in my core I know . Yes , of course , some things

30:05

are the same yeah , I've always been , you

30:08

know yeah the idea of what I

30:10

am right but , like , the inner

30:12

workings are much , much , much different , weird

30:14

though you're like , who was that person ?

30:16

like what was that person thinking ? Because you were full-on

30:18

, you thought that that was the right thing

30:20

at the moment the actual

30:22

fuck , samantha so there is like , obviously

30:25

, you know it's like pick your poison . If , um

30:27

, you get married and have a family

30:30

at a younger age , then you have the argument

30:32

that you are able to enjoy

30:34

your later years of life . Sure , right . But

30:37

then there's the argument it's like well , you can also

30:39

enjoy your earlier years of being selfish

30:41

right which is what the position

30:43

I'm in . I don't look at my life

30:46

and being like I wish I'd done that

30:48

. It's like no , I've done so

30:51

much yeah , I'm like content

30:53

with that and having a kid now , where I'm

30:56

able to be less selfish and it's a

30:59

completely different mindset where I

31:01

think , if I had a kid at 24

31:03

, I am a person who has always

31:05

been I want

31:07

more , more , more , more , more , more

31:10

success , more of

31:12

this , more of that , more , more , more

31:14

. But now it's just like . No , I want more for

31:16

my son and that's

31:18

the more . And how

31:20

can I do that for him ?

31:22

yeah , it's still motivation

31:24

.

31:24

It's just for someone else yeah , which

31:27

is uh a

31:29

crazy weird feeling so

31:32

how are you going ?

31:33

I mean , I don't mean this to sound like how are you

31:35

going to explain yourself , but , um

31:37

, how are you going to explain your

31:40

life ? And I know and I

31:43

hear your stomach , oh my goodness , I'm

31:45

so sorry uh your stomach's trying

31:48

to explain it for you yeah , but how are you going

31:50

to explain , like reality tv and

31:52

what that was

31:54

? I mean , I think eventually , obviously , he'll

31:56

grow into being an adult and get it , but I

31:58

know that what is gonna ?

32:00

happen as a child I

32:02

know because I just like think about when is

32:04

he gonna realize that

32:06

his dad lived this crazy life and he's gonna have

32:08

access to a million

32:10

different articles and a lot

32:13

that aren't true and gossip uh

32:16

sites and it's like at

32:18

the his fingertips . You can just google

32:20

his dad's name and be like , oh shit yeah

32:23

that's weird . That's a weird feeling to

32:25

sit with , because I'm also . You

32:27

know . When you say , do you regret anything ? You

32:29

know I look at the bigger decisions

32:31

in my life that I've made . You

32:34

know I've gone back and forth with being

32:36

on that show . I don't regret that . Do

32:38

I regret proposing at

32:41

the end of it ? in the moment , I didn't regret

32:43

it yeah um , and

32:47

that led

32:49

me into a direction where I'm

32:51

at now . So it's like , yeah

32:53

, for a while I thought I regretted it , like I

32:56

knew I probably shouldn't have proposed in the moment , went

32:59

ahead and did it anyways . But a lot of good stuff

33:02

came from that . So

33:04

I probably would have had a completely

33:07

different life if I didn't Like there are parts

33:09

of that show where I thought about leaving , like

33:11

whether there was three guys left , four or five

33:13

, like that really thing about like packing up

33:16

my bags and just going home , which

33:18

then what would have happened with my life

33:20

? Would I have just gone back to

33:22

working for the

33:25

insurance company ? I wouldn't , cause they

33:27

fired me when I went on the show , but you know

33:29

, I'd go back to work at a nine to five or

33:31

, and it's just because I ended up , you

33:33

know with Caitlin that you

33:35

know I had all these other opportunities

33:38

come .

33:38

Right .

33:42

And then what I've opened the gym and like so many different things , and then I would , I

33:44

wouldn't have met dre there and wouldn't have logs and

33:46

just I don't know the regret

33:48

thing . I don't think I'll ever regret anything unless

33:50

it's like something really

33:53

bad that you could have had control over yes

33:56

right and there's and there's

33:58

not a lot . But there's learning

34:00

opportunities for everything

34:02

.

34:02

Yeah .

34:04

And that's how you grow , you

34:06

regret things . You're like , oh shit , I got to do that differently

34:08

next time . But I don't know

34:10

. Long answer short . The

34:12

reality thing is going to be tough

34:14

for Lox , but I'm going to be open and honest

34:17

about it with him . I want to be able

34:19

to talk with him more

34:21

and communicate with him as

34:23

much as possible about his

34:25

feelings do you ?

34:27

will you approach the subject or will you wait for

34:29

him to come to you ?

34:30

no , I'll approach it . I'll probably

34:32

get ahead of that one like before

34:34

he goes to school , I mean

34:36

. But also I'm like in when he goes to school

34:39

, and what ? When do we think this will come about

34:41

? Like 10 years from now , when he's 10 ?

34:45

I yeah , I have no idea how it will present

34:47

itself , but I just feel like it will not even be

34:49

from kids . Organically

34:52

, it will be a kid's mom exactly says

34:54

something they're like my mom said that your dad

34:56

did that yeah , and locks is gonna be like

34:58

what ? Yeah , exactly

35:00

he's like I promise my dad's not cool , like

35:02

you know . Yeah , yeah , like any other oh

35:04

, yeah , it's , it's

35:06

weird .

35:07

Yeah , I don't know . That's how I think it will happen too

35:09

, my mom said that she met your dad better

35:11

like yeah , it's that is a weird yeah

35:13

, it's just like how like santa claus

35:15

is found out between kids . My mom said that

35:17

santa claus wasn't weird or real . Then

35:20

they come home and like shit and in this instance

35:23

he's gonna be like hey , my

35:25

mom said that your dad was running butt naked

35:27

down the fairway on live tv , or

35:30

got really drunk on live tv , or

35:33

you know it's gonna be like uh , yeah , or

35:36

was sounds like him , but I'm not sure yeah

35:38

, or it's like you

35:40

know . He was in a spot in the airport with this

35:42

girl . Like weird stuff

35:45

.

35:45

But then again , I feel like , will

35:48

they even know that much ? I feel like

35:50

it will be very vague . So then Lox will be like my dad

35:52

. What ?

35:52

Yeah , I'm just hoping , like by the time that

35:54

, like 10 years , like hopefully all that

35:56

Google history is just deleted , right , that's how that

35:59

works .

35:59

Yeah , I think it's just every decade . They

36:01

delete all of the history .

36:04

Yeah , so we're good . I don't know how

36:06

would you feel about that .

36:08

About what . Like

36:12

if that was your , if you were in my situation , I mean

36:14

, I feel like the same exact thing that you said I'd

36:19

be super honest and answer any questions they had . I feel like I would get out

36:21

ahead of it and

36:23

let them know to an extent , though , because I feel

36:25

like why rock the boat

36:28

if it's not rocking type of thing ? So like

36:30

if , in 10 years from now , maybe

36:32

it won't be relevant conversation or maybe

36:34

nobody will realize that . I don't know , but

36:36

I feel like the pace that social media

36:38

is going and has continued like

36:41

that's just a naive thing to think . I think

36:43

, if anything , everything will

36:45

be even more accessible somehow

36:47

in 10 years .

36:48

I know that's what I try

36:50

and figure out too . Like my social media now , I

36:52

love posting family

36:55

things and videos and pictures

36:57

of locks , and a large reason

37:00

why I do that is so he can look back one

37:02

day and be like that's

37:04

cool .

37:05

It's like a baby book . It's like a baby book

37:07

.

37:07

Yeah , but it's like you know , the other night

37:09

was so special . Walking out on the soccer field

37:12

for Nashville MLS

37:14

team with him was so

37:17

cool . He's never gonna remember it but he's gonna

37:19

have really cool photos and videos . You know that so cool . He's never going to remember it

37:21

, but he's going to have really cool photos and videos . Yeah . You know that's

37:23

cool . So things like that I want to save

37:26

and I wonder if he's going to

37:28

be able to scroll back in

37:30

10 , 12 years from now . I mean , he

37:32

could be listening to this podcast

37:34

episode 10 years from now . He might be listening

37:36

right now . What's up ?

37:37

Lox , go and clean your room years

37:40

from now , he might be listening right now what's up , go and clean your room like that's terrifying

37:42

to think about .

37:43

How long are podcasts gonna be around ? Is there gonna be spotify ? Is there gonna be ?

37:45

yeah all that stuff there's got to be a

37:47

variation of it , but I think that things will change , just

37:49

like they have over the last 10 years . But

37:52

then again , I can't go down that wormhole because we've

37:55

already questioned our existence and how long we're gonna

37:57

live . Now we gotta question what's question ? What's going to happen within

37:59

those years ?

38:00

But it's so weird , right ? Because think about your

38:02

parents . I can think

38:04

of maybe like two or three photos

38:06

that I've seen of my dad and my

38:08

mom together when they were younger . That's

38:11

it no videos , no podcast

38:14

, no YouTube videos , no articles

38:16

, nothing , no social media

38:19

. They didn't have that . So we're kind of like the first generation

38:22

to have to deal with that with our kids

38:24

.

38:26

Yeah , I can't wait till the first generation

38:29

of grandmas are just out there like rapping , ludicrous

38:31

. It's just like what's up .

38:34

Yeah .

38:34

I love that idea . We've never experienced

38:37

that .

38:37

Yeah , so you don't have

38:39

any regrets either , then we've never experienced

38:41

that .

38:42

Yeah , so you don't have any regrets either , then no , my biggest

38:44

regret until again the same

38:46

thing . Like everything worked out so like

38:48

why would I question it ? But my biggest

38:50

regret was not moving to nashville sooner you

38:53

know , so you moved it .

38:54

But again , if you moved sooner , exactly

38:56

I know .

38:57

So it did all work out . Obviously I

39:00

achieved or I have , I'm still

39:02

achieving , I'm in the middle of doing , uh

39:04

, things that I only dreamed about like 10 years ago

39:06

. But I think my regret ties

39:09

to the fact that I was waiting for a boy . Yeah

39:11

, I was waiting for him . I was waiting for him

39:13

to be ready . I was waiting . I just felt like I

39:16

was there for I before I came to nashville

39:18

out of college . I spent five years

39:20

before I moved here and I would have liked

39:22

it to have been like three . Now

39:24

, in the grand scheme of life , did those two years really make

39:26

or break me ? No , because ultimately

39:29

I made it work . But I do look

39:31

back on that and I just I think that's

39:33

why I'm so sensitive when

39:36

it comes to dating now of feeling like someone's wasting

39:38

my time Right , I'm like , which

39:40

is hyper sensitive to that . I'm like , hey

39:42

, let me know , just

39:44

let me know , it isn't going to work Big girl and

39:47

like we got it , I got it I , and I think that

39:49

also comes with , like the emotional maturity of

39:51

it , right I ? I

39:54

understand that I'm not everybody's like

39:56

cup of tea , but I feel like if

39:58

you're wasting my time , I'm wasting your

40:00

time . What are we accomplishing ? We're only doing

40:02

a disservice Now don't swing

40:04

too far in another direction . Sammy . How about you calm

40:06

down and give them a chance , feel

40:09

it out . Don't be so like almost anxious

40:11

about it . I kind of get ahead of myself . So

40:13

I feel like that's the only

40:15

regret that I can come

40:17

up with but , even still . I don't really

40:20

regret it , that's so cliche

40:23

, but I think

40:25

that , similarly to

40:27

how I was saying that if I were to ever find a husband

40:29

, my appreciation would be different , I

40:31

think that since I feel like I hit

40:34

my stride professionally

40:36

I wouldn't even say

40:38

later , because I don't think that people hit their stride

40:40

professionally in their 20s very often but I

40:42

just feel like I

40:45

found a , an

40:47

industry that really accepts me for who I

40:49

am and I feel like I can thrive in a lot of different

40:51

departments within it . And that was

40:54

not my first stop out

40:56

of college trying to find jobs , like I felt like other

40:58

people , even if they didn't get a job

41:00

in their major , which nobody really

41:02

does , that I just felt

41:04

like everyone around me was really making

41:07

strides in work and

41:09

like enjoying what they were doing or getting

41:12

promotions , making way more money than

41:14

me , and I felt behind

41:16

in that , where now I feel like , but

41:19

if I wasn't ready , maybe

41:22

I wouldn't have been at the right place

41:24

at the right time , met the right people , said the right thing

41:26

, proved myself the way I did because I

41:28

wouldn't have been ready to yeah I wouldn't have

41:30

known any better . I would have been like too

41:34

bubbly and looking for the party , not realizing

41:36

that , like someone has to plan said

41:38

party . You want to be that girl .

41:39

You want to be the girl that goes home , yeah I

41:41

know , I don't know

41:43

, it's weird , yeah it's like the butterfly

41:46

effect .

41:46

You ever seen that movie , oh ?

41:47

yeah , oh yeah , I do . There's

41:50

part of me that regrets drinking so much . Yeah

41:52

, yeah . But then also I'm like man

41:55

. I had some really good times , but also

41:57

and it's always something I struggled

41:59

with because I'm I've always been kind

42:02

of health conscious and like very much

42:04

, uh you

42:06

know , into my physical abilities and playing

42:08

sports . So even though I'd party my ass

42:10

off , I'd always like think in my head that I was

42:13

working so hard that it would kind

42:15

of . But also me and my buddies talk about

42:17

now we're like man . Imagine if we didn't drink

42:19

as much or smoke as much when we were in college

42:21

and partied as much , like we just played

42:24

soccer , worked

42:26

out and partied .

42:28

But you didn't know any better you didn't .

42:30

But looking back , you like you had that short time

42:32

of your life to be at like your peak physical

42:34

ability yes , like , imagine , if

42:36

you actually like dialed in your

42:38

nutrition I would love to go back

42:40

and be a junior olympic gymnast

42:43

with a 34 year old brain yeah

42:45

, exactly . So that's about everything like yeah

42:47

about food nutrition

42:49

.

42:49

I mean just everything I thought about calorie

42:51

intake and all this shit

42:54

makes me nauseous . Now , do

42:57

I think that it was a collaborative effort between coaches

43:00

and society and everyone ? Yeah

43:02

, yes , but like , can

43:04

you imagine if you went back and you're a college athlete , but but

43:06

with the brain you have now ? Oh , I know , oh

43:09

.

43:09

Yeah , yeah , and it's- .

43:11

Even for just like a week .

43:13

Even things as far as like handling pressure

43:15

. Yes , like I remember like in

43:17

high school sports or college . It's like you

43:19

would get nervous or you

43:22

would think that if you fucked up here

43:24

it was the end of the world .

43:38

It's like no , it's like the amount of pressure that I'd be able to handle now and not let it get to me . Yeah , it's so much more

43:40

different . And pressure and also like uh , I mean , I know again it sounds cliche , but just like knowing yourself

43:42

, like knowing how , what makes me feel better , what makes me feel worse , what

43:44

makes me feel faster , quicker , whatever

43:46

it may be . Yeah , I know those things so

43:48

much better now than when I was in college yeah

43:50

, of course that's so infuriating

43:52

. I know they say like what is it ?

43:54

yeah , you're so young your brain is

43:56

so underdeveloped . So , yeah

43:58

, I think drinking because that was like every

44:00

weekend , sure , 20s , sure

44:03

every weekend moving nashville , every

44:05

weekend we're partying and

44:07

that's . You know . I'm

44:10

like damn , how much damage did I do to my body

44:13

in that ? And

44:15

like , again , I've always been very conscious of

44:17

it and I've always felt like I was better than most

44:20

of my friends and was able to turn it off and

44:22

then , you know , dial it in during the week

44:24

. But I don't know , I'm

44:26

like you know , I've been sober now for almost two years

44:28

and that's

44:30

one thing I don't regret you

44:32

know I got it out of my quote unquote system

44:35

, but that

44:37

could be that would lean more towards regret

44:39

is spending that much time drinking

44:42

, even when I'm traveling , going

44:44

to places and going to cool

44:46

spots , and maybe not taking

44:48

it all in as much . Yeah

44:50

. But

44:53

then I'm like you know , you

44:55

have great times .

44:57

Yes , it makes for a good story , good memories

44:59

, yeah .

45:00

Yeah , that you remember .

45:01

Right , but I

45:04

get that , yeah . Introspective

45:08

today .

45:09

Very introspective .

45:11

What are you doing for Labor Day ?

45:16

Just being a dad . Dre's out of town this weekend

45:19

. She's on a bachelorette party and

45:22

her mom's in town helping

45:25

out . She's been here for a week or two , which is great

45:27

, so just really watching

45:30

locks it's like crunch time

45:32

for the new gym right now . So we got a million

45:34

things going on there and

45:37

a couple celebrations

45:40

parties this weekend . Yeah

45:44

, a little bit everything . What about you ?

45:46

I got a little bit of work and a lot of relaxation . Yeah , I've

45:48

kind of hinted towards uh , now that we're making it through august , I am , yeah , a little bit of

45:50

everything . What about you ? I got a little bit of work and a lot of relaxation . Yeah , I've

45:53

kind of hinted towards . Now that we're making it through August , I am going to slow

45:55

down a lot off the road , which I'm very excited

45:57

for , but I'm also weirdly anxious about . Like

46:00

I said , I'm trying to find a job or something to do in

46:02

my free time , but just

46:05

got one show quick

46:07

one day . And then I'm going to start because

46:10

, also , I am a basic white girl

46:12

. I know you make fun of me all the time , but I don't care because .

46:14

I love being basic .

46:16

Emphasis on the basic . I'm trying to be tender . No

46:18

, I'm just kidding . And

46:20

September means

46:22

it's Gilmore Girls season , so

46:25

I'm going to start that from episode one , season

46:27

one . I love watching it in the fall , so I'm going to start that from episode one , season one . I

46:31

love watching it in the fall Crisp

46:35

air and nice pumpkin candles and baking and leaves and I just love it . I'm ready . It's

46:37

going to probably be 99 degrees , so I'm going

46:39

to just turn my AC down and keep the window shut .

46:41

Pretend yeah , it's supposed to be over 100

46:43

today . Do you ever think about just

46:46

doing your own work ? What

46:48

?

46:48

do you mean ?

46:49

Being an entrepreneur making your own business . What

46:51

would I do ? You tell me Exactly no

46:53

.

46:54

I don't .

46:54

There's nothing . You see Like my brain's always like , ooh

46:56

, I don't like . There's nothing you see when you're on the road

46:58

or during your job where you're

47:00

like I could maybe do that

47:03

or do this . There's nothing you'd want to start

47:05

If

47:09

somebody gave you said hey , sam .

47:10

Kat , I got a million dollars for you to start your own business right now . No , nothing , not right

47:12

now . Ask me in six years

47:14

.

47:15

Why six years ?

47:16

Because I have a five-year plan .

47:18

Oh , get out of here with a five-year plan .

47:20

Okay , I have a five-year outline of

47:22

what I would like , the direction I

47:24

would like to go , things that I would like to achieve

47:26

.

47:26

Million dollars isn't available for you in five years . I

47:28

got a million dollars right now . What

47:31

do you want to start ? There's nothing

47:33

.

47:34

I want to build a home with chickens and

47:36

a garden and be a homemaker .

47:38

But then you , you're not going to be making any

47:40

money .

47:41

You asked me what I wanted to do with the million dollars to

47:43

be an entrepreneur . A homemaker

47:45

is an entrepreneur . Your home is your business

47:48

I'd like to invest in that you're

47:50

not bringing in income how

47:53

many stay-at-home moms are bringing in income

47:55

from their homes right now ?

47:56

well , they have millions there's . There's a big piece

47:59

of that that you're missing you

48:02

asked me .

48:02

We're living in in la la land right now

48:05

I'm I'm meeting you halfway , so

48:07

you're saying I don't .

48:08

What I'm saying is nothing .

48:09

I would like to invest a million dollars in for

48:12

my own business . I have nothing . I

48:14

have no interest in being an entrepreneur

48:16

.

48:16

I have no , you're just saying that you had anxiety , like figuring

48:18

out what you want to do and get it like no

48:21

, no , I just , I really love a routine yeah

48:23

even if it's the most chaotic routine you've ever seen

48:25

.

48:26

I understand like . I love the . I love the balance of like I would

48:29

never , well , never , say never but I would not

48:31

enjoy a nine to five right now , this chapter in

48:33

my life . I love that . My job is all over

48:35

the place and I'm traveling the world . I'm seeing

48:37

different people , I'm

48:43

literally in a different state every day . But when I look at my calendar , I have a routine of how I'm

48:45

going to kind of taper out my week to accommodate the extensive travel

48:47

Coming up . I don't have the extensive

48:49

travel , so when I'm off the road I

48:52

don't have work , so when I'm at

48:54

home I'm working on house projects , coming

48:56

and doing this podcast with you , making

48:58

sure that I'm seeing everyone's children , making sure that

49:00

I'm seeing all of my friends , making sure that I'm

49:02

working out , buying the right foods , like all

49:04

those boring things and establishing

49:06

some sort of a routine , and

49:08

I'm not going to have the travel to build that routine

49:11

around . So it's kind of like Ooh , there's

49:13

a gap in my schedule . I

49:15

should fill this . That doesn't mean that I want to start

49:17

my own freaking business . It's

49:22

like a couple months in the holidays Like I could use some relaxation . I don't sleep

49:24

much . All right , entrepreneur

49:27

, I'm going to invest in my sleeping . That's what I'm

49:29

gonna use your million dollars for , all right there

49:31

we go . Sam cask gonna

49:33

start do you think that everybody wants to be an entrepreneur

49:35

?

49:35

no , I don't , I , I know that I , I

49:37

just didn't . I was just questioning , if you

49:40

did I have no interest in that I was

49:42

having this conversation yesterday , where nashville

49:45

is such an entrepreneur city

49:47

. It's like people come here , start

49:49

their own thing or try to make it and work

49:51

for themselves , and it's got to be one of the biggest

49:54

cities for doing that . So I was just curious if you've

49:56

had any thoughts or had any

49:58

ideas or something where you're like I want to do

50:00

that If you saw a need for it

50:02

.

50:03

I have an affinity to being number

50:05

two . Okay , I

50:07

would love to be the vice president of someone

50:09

, like if I shared a vision with someone , whatever

50:12

that may be . And that's the thing is that , like I don't have a specific

50:14

goal , I don't have a specific

50:16

dream . Like I want to be a gym owner

50:18

, I don't know . Like I enjoy the

50:21

media and the traveling and I love

50:23

country music and I love Nashville and I love all of those

50:25

things , but I'm open to a lot . But

50:27

if I linked up with someone who had a dream and they're

50:29

just like I need a right-hand man to help me

50:31

with the logistics and the planning to make

50:34

my dream come true , that's

50:36

what I like . I don't know that I I

50:39

thrive in like You're gonna be , like I thrive

50:41

in helping other people , because that sounds douchey , but like

50:43

I really do like helping

50:46

other people , I

50:49

like not being the one in charge , I like being the one . That's like helping the person in charge

50:51

yeah , make the decisions . Being that confidant was

50:53

just like you know , we are in a tough space

50:56

. What do you think I should do ? That

50:58

is something that would speak more to me leaps

51:00

and bounds , more than being an entrepreneur myself .

51:03

All right . Well , there you have it .

51:05

Is that weird ?

51:06

Nope , oh Is that weird Nope . Oh , okay , You're weird though

51:08

.

51:09

Yeah , but I like that . Yeah , it's working

51:11

well for me so far .

51:12

We think so we like it . Well

51:14

, everybody stay weird out there . We

51:18

appreciate you tuning in . You can find us anywhere

51:20

you listen to podcasts on YouTube . We'll

51:22

be back next week . Team

51:25

on three .