If I Could Do It All Over Again – Part 1

If I Could Do It All Over Again – Part 1

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As you know I love

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to teach the word. I'm

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so honored that God

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has allowed me to

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teach his word. You

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know, I'm gonna read you a

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scripture and then I'm just gonna

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show you a little example

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I believe that many of you

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God has called you to do something

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and You've kind of know it,

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but you get so wrapped up

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and all the stuff that you're

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doing doing doing that you just

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forget about it and I think

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Some of you had a dream, you've

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lost your dream, it was taking too

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long, you gave up on it, whatever,

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you had a vision. And you don't

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all have a vision to do something

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like what I'm doing, but I don't

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care if it's a dream to clean

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your closet out. You need to have,

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you need to be going somewhere. You

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need to be making some kind

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of progress in your life and

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having something that you look forward

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to. not meant to just

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stagnate and do the same

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day, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday,

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Wednesday, Wednesday, Monday,

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Tuesday, Thursday, Thursday,

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and gripe and murmur and

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complain. We need to have

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vision and purpose for our

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lives. Amen. And so, Genesis

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15, 1 through 6, says, after these

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things, the word of the Lord

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came to Abraham in a

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vision, saying, fear not Abraham,

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I am your shield. your

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abundant compensation, and

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your reward shall be exceedingly

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great." And Abraham said, Lord,

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what can you give me since

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I'm going on from the world

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childless? And he who shall be the

2:43

owner and the heir of my

2:45

house is this steward elisier of

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Damascus. He had no error, and

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he was going to have to

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leave everything he had to, a servant

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who worked for him. And

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Abraham continued, you've given me

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no child. And a servant

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born in my house is my

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heir. And behold, the word

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of the Lord came to him

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saying, let me stop here and

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say, yes, God does speak to

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you. I don't know why people,

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I don't know, if you talk

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to God, it's prayer, but if

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he talks to you, you're crazy.

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And I mean, all through the

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Bible, from beginning to the

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end, God spoke to his

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people. And we are no

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different. God shows us things

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and he tells us things. And

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the word of the Lord came

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to him saying, this man shall

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not be your heir, but he

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who shall come from your own

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body shall be your heir. Now,

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I want to tell you that it

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didn't happen right away. Matter

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of fact, it didn't happen

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for a long time. And you know,

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when we... Wait and we wait and we

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wait and we wait and we wait. I mean

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if you're waiting. Well, part of

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the reason why God brought

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you here is for me

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to remind you not to

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give up. Amen. And I

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love this part, and I

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think this is what God's

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done with you this weekend.

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He brought him outside his

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tent into the starlight. So

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I've got my tent here.

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And this tent represents... Your

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life, your house, your neighborhood,

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your job, and some of

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you have been in it

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so long, you've forgotten the

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vision and the dream that

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God gave you. And Abraham

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believed God, that's all God

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wants you to do, is

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just trust him, just believe

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him. No matter how impossible

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it seems, just keep saying

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God I believe you. And

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he brought him outside, and

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he said, look at the

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stars. He brought him outside

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of his tent, and I

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love that. It's like he'd

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been in there so long,

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he'd lost his vision. And

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God brought him out and

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said, get your mind off

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all that stuff and remember

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what I said to you.

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And I think that's what

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God is saying to many

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of you tonight. You've

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had your nose stuck

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in just the ordinary

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for so long That

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it's time to remember

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the extraordinary thing Come

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on that God wants

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to do in your

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life. Amen Come on

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make more noise than

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that for Jesus Okay,

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well I've been in

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ministry 45 years The

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first five years, all

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I did was teach

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a... a couple

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of home Bible studies and

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I was faithful to 25

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people who sat in my

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living room floor for five

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years. And those first five

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years were testing ground for

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me and God was testing

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my faithfulness. I didn't make

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any money for it. I

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eventually quit my job so

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I could study just to

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do that and I had

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this dream of doing what

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I'm doing what I'm doing.

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But it certainly didn't seem

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then like it was going

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to happen when I looked

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at those same 25 people

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every week And I just

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want to tell you if

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you want to see God

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do extraordinary things in your

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life You're going to have

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to be patient Because one

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thing God is not is

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in a hurry Most of

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you have figured that out

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by now, right? And

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God will test you. And sometimes

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it'll look like there's no way

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that what he spoke to you

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is going to come to pass.

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And those are times when against

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all odds you need to say,

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God, I trust you. I don't

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understand this. It hurts, it doesn't

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feel good, it doesn't make any

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sense, but I trust you. Now

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I didn't know how to do

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that back when I was going

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through this. And so all my

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suffering you get to benefit from

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because now I can tell you

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the right way to do it

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Even though I didn't know the

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right way to do it I

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had to learn it the hard

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way I didn't have anybody to

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tell me people asked me sometimes

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who mentored you and I know

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it The holy spirit I didn't

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have a me to preach to

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people every day on TBN and

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day star and all these places

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around the world matter of fact

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when I started doing this very

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many women. who did, and especially

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not anything on any kind of

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a large scale. But now thank

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God, women are finding out that

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they've got quite a bit going

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on if they'll just let God

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use them. Amen. And I want

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to tell you something, and I

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want you to please believe this.

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Now some of you may be

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called to a pulpit ministry, but...

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That is not that is by

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far not the most important thing

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that you could be called to

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do More people are going to

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be one one on one That

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are ever going to be one

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From a place like this and

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what is so important to me

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is that I can get you

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to understand how important you are

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Quit gawking at people like

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me and saying, I wish

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I had a ministry like

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you. You know what? You

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probably don't. Because I want

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to tell you, this is

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a very little tiny part

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of what I have to

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do to stand here and

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do this. And so, if

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God makes you do it,

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do it. But if not,

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be happy to minister to

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your neighbor. Amen. And

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you've all got a pulpit.

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Every single one of you

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have got a pulpit. It

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may be your backyard fence.

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It may be your desk

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at work. It may be

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why you're checking out at

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the grocery counter. And you

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don't always have to preach

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to people. Matter of fact,

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sometimes it's better to live

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it instead of talking and

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not living it. Amen.

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Everybody thinks witnessing is getting

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somebody in a corner and

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preaching the gospel to them,

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but you witness more with

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your wife than you ever

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will probably with your mouth.

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Amen. So tonight I want

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to talk to you about

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if I could go back

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and do it all over

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again, what would I change?

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First of all, you can't

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do that. The

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main thing that you can

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do from your mistakes is

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learn from them. And then

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part of the privilege I

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have is I've been able

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to use the mistakes that

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I've made then to help

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other people hopefully not make

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them, but most people go

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ahead and make them anyway

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because we're kind of dumb

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and we just got to

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figure it out for ourselves.

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Amen. I've been

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through some stuff. So first of

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all, the first thing I would

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not do if I could do

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it over again is I wouldn't

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marry the first guy that I

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married, which was not Dave. I

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left home when I was 18.

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My father had been sexually abusing

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me for as long as I

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could remember. I was probably somewhere

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around... 12 to 15 years. It's

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all I ever remember so I

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don't know if I was three

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four five or six, but I

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know I was very very little

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and My mother knew it She

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let fear rule her life. That's

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why I hate fear so much

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and her fear Kept her from

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doing anything to protect me and

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It just destroyed her life ruined

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her life so I left home

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As soon as I graduated from

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high school, I left home. And

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I was 18 in June and

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graduated that same time. So I

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was 18 years old. I left

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home and I thought that I

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had got away from my problem.

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I didn't realize that I

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took it with me and

12:09

my soul. See, you can

12:11

look perfectly fine on the

12:13

outside and be an absolute

12:15

total mess on the inside.

12:18

And that's really what most

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of us are. We smile

12:22

at each other in church

12:24

and say praise the Lord

12:26

and thank you Jesus. Glory

12:28

to God and how are

12:30

you? I'm fine. Thank you

12:33

Jesus and we're not fine

12:35

And one of the things

12:38

we need to do

12:40

is get honest with

12:42

each other Have some

12:44

honest sincere talks with

12:46

people you can trust

12:49

and say I need

12:51

help I need help

12:53

from God I We need

12:55

to stop blaming everybody else

12:57

for the messes in our

13:00

life and take responsibility.

13:02

But I'll get to that in a

13:04

few minutes. Now, I married

13:06

the first guy that asked me

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because I was desperate.

13:11

I thought nobody would ever

13:13

want me because I'd been

13:15

sexually abused, and so... This

13:17

guy was handsome. He

13:20

was good-looking. I thought

13:22

it was a bargain. I

13:24

knew, not listen to

13:27

me, I knew, I

13:30

was making

13:32

a mistake.

13:34

It was just

13:36

a little,

13:38

knowing, but I

13:41

was afraid

13:43

and I was

13:46

desperate, so

13:48

I did it

13:50

anyway. And

13:53

I just want to tell

13:55

you, don't do that. Don't

13:58

be so desperate. that

14:02

you do something dumb It's

14:04

going to end up causing

14:06

you problems for years

14:09

and years and years

14:11

Abraham was waiting

14:13

for God to give him a

14:15

son and God told him it

14:18

would be a son from

14:20

his own body Not he

14:22

wasn't gonna have the baby,

14:24

but from his own body

14:27

and they got tired of

14:29

waiting so They got a

14:32

fleshly plan on how

14:34

they're going to get

14:36

God's will. We never do

14:39

that, do we? Bright idea.

14:41

I know what God wants

14:43

me to do. And so

14:45

Sarah said, take my

14:48

handmaiden as a secondary

14:51

wife. Now you got to be

14:53

dumb if you give

14:55

your husband another wife.

14:59

But just to be

15:01

fair culturally that was

15:03

not that far outside

15:06

of normal then and

15:08

I Frank you can't imagine

15:10

how that worked, but anyway,

15:13

you know, it's like you

15:15

can have him and I'll

15:18

get him tomorrow now, you

15:20

know, you know, that wouldn't

15:23

work too good. I

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don't think and He

15:27

got her pregnant and

15:29

they had Ishmael now.

15:32

Here's what I want to

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tell you 13 years later

15:36

I think it was they

15:38

had Isaac I don't know

15:40

how many years I

15:42

may be wrong about that

15:44

but long a time later

15:46

and If you get messed

15:49

up with Ishmael, it's going

15:51

to take a lot longer

15:54

to get Isaac Now you gotta you

15:56

know get in the spirit with me

15:58

here a little bit what I'm saying

16:00

is if you go off

16:02

and do your own thing

16:04

then it's going to take

16:06

longer to get the thing

16:08

that God had in mind

16:10

for you and so you

16:12

may get tired of waiting

16:14

but if you get tired

16:16

of waiting and go off

16:18

and do your own thing

16:20

you're just going to make

16:22

yourself wait longer and the

16:24

enemy will always Dangle-ish

16:28

male in your face

16:30

while you're waiting for

16:32

Isaac. I remember I

16:34

was in California and

16:36

I wanted to do,

16:38

I wanted to preach

16:40

like I get to

16:42

now so bad I

16:44

couldn't hardly stand it.

16:46

And everything I did

16:48

was little, little, little,

16:50

little. And I didn't

16:52

have any little dreams.

16:55

I'm not a person

16:57

that likes living. I

17:00

like everything big, you

17:02

know? If you're gonna

17:04

do it, do it.

17:06

If you're gonna wear

17:09

it, let it sparkle.

17:11

Make it shine. And,

17:13

uh... I like a

17:15

big bathroom. I like...

17:18

I want space. And,

17:20

uh... I was

17:22

in California, I had gotten

17:24

a speaking engagement, which I

17:27

was so thrilled to have,

17:29

and I was laying across

17:31

my bed one day and

17:34

praying about a situation that

17:36

had come up because a

17:38

man had came to Dave

17:41

and I, and he was,

17:43

I guess you'd call him

17:45

an agent, and he said,

17:48

you're really... Good at what

17:50

you're doing and if you'll

17:52

I'd like to take you

17:55

on as a client and

17:57

be your agent and I

17:59

can I can get you

18:02

speaking engagements I can get

18:04

you here and I can

18:06

get you there and I

18:09

can do this and that

18:11

and something else. Well, that

18:13

was my issue now. And

18:16

you don't know how bad

18:18

I wanted to say yes.

18:20

But as I laid across

18:23

that bed that afternoon, I

18:25

knew I'm deep in here.

18:30

I'll do what

18:32

needs to be

18:34

done. I'll get

18:36

you invited to

18:39

places. I'll open

18:41

the doors for

18:43

you. Don't do

18:45

this. And I'm

18:47

so glad I

18:49

didn't. Because I

18:52

might have missed

18:54

what God has

18:56

for my life.

18:59

And I just want you

19:01

to be so careful because

19:03

the Bible says in the

19:05

last days there's going to

19:07

be great deception. Great deception

19:09

coming on the earth. And

19:12

that means that you can't

19:14

listen to how you feel

19:16

and you can't listen to

19:18

your own carnal mind. You've

19:20

got to really go to

19:22

the word and listen for

19:24

that still small voice of

19:26

God. And many times it

19:29

doesn't come in words, it's

19:31

just, you just know, it's

19:33

just, I just wish God

19:35

would shout sometimes. But he

19:37

whispers. And you got to

19:39

pay attention to those whispers.

19:41

And I don't know why

19:43

he doesn't just come and

19:45

sit on my bed and

19:48

say joys do this, joys

19:50

do that. I don't know

19:52

why he makes it so

19:54

hard sometimes to, but he

19:56

wants us to press into

19:58

him. And he

20:00

wants us to take the time

20:03

for some things like this. Not

20:05

just because of what I'm going

20:07

to say, but just the fellowship

20:09

you're going to have with other

20:12

people, the worship, just getting away,

20:14

getting outside your tent and getting

20:16

your vision fresh again. And some

20:19

of you, if you did come

20:21

by yourself, man, two days in

20:23

a hotel room by yourself could

20:25

be the greatest thing that ever

20:28

happened to you. Amen. Listen

20:31

for that still small voice and

20:33

don't do dumb things. Because isn't

20:35

that we learn everything when we're

20:38

just being stupid? And we think

20:40

we're so smart. We think we,

20:42

you know, are doing just the

20:44

right thing and we're just doing

20:46

the dumbest stuff and then, you

20:49

know, God comes along, gets us

20:51

out of it and then on

20:53

top of that, uses it works

20:55

it out for good in our

20:58

lives. So I married this guy

21:00

and... We were married five years

21:02

and probably in those five years

21:04

we maybe lived together six months

21:06

and He had more problems than

21:09

me if that was possible and

21:11

he was a con man smooth

21:13

talker good-looking Lazy didn't want to

21:15

work He was a used car

21:18

salesman and they just not that

21:20

there's anything wrong with that. I'm

21:22

not trying to be rude to

21:24

anybody, but he just like to

21:26

hang out on the car lot

21:29

and pretend to be a big

21:31

shot and never made much money

21:33

and what he did I never

21:35

saw any of it and I

21:37

mean I woke up one night

21:40

and he was trying to get

21:42

my wedding ring off my finger

21:44

so he could sell it you

21:46

know and I cannot even tell

21:49

you how many times the guy

21:51

just disappeared in those five years

21:53

he would Leave to go somewhere

21:55

and he wouldn't come back for

21:57

four months or five months and

22:00

then he I mean, he abandoned

22:02

me in California one time and

22:04

he, 18 years old, and he

22:06

took me to Albuquerque, New Mexico,

22:09

and back then they would

22:11

pay people to drive cars

22:13

to other places if somebody

22:15

wanted to buy a certain

22:17

car in another state, they'd

22:19

pay somebody if the car

22:21

was here to drive it

22:23

there. Well, that was what he

22:25

did, to make money, and writing

22:28

some... payroll checks

22:30

that weren't mine and cash

22:32

in them and He sold my

22:34

car and we took off, you

22:36

know for this great life and

22:39

Before by the way God

22:41

made me go pay that

22:43

money back to them eventually

22:45

and that was quite interesting

22:47

You know I go in

22:49

15 years later I'm a

22:52

Christian and I stole some

22:54

money from you one time

22:57

God told me if I'm going

22:59

to give it back to you.

23:01

And I'm not telling you, you

23:04

know, you don't have to do

23:06

what I did, but you

23:08

know, when God does tell

23:10

you to do something, you

23:12

better do it. And that's

23:14

part of the problem we

23:16

have today is people are

23:19

doing what they please instead

23:21

of doing what God tells

23:23

them to do. Are

23:26

you following your dreams? When God

23:28

calls you to do something, it's

23:30

important to step out in faith

23:33

and trust that he will support

23:35

you. Faith is one of those

23:37

words that is commonly used, but

23:39

not always easy to understand. So

23:41

what is faith? Faith is a

23:43

complete trust and confidence in something

23:46

or somewhat. As Christians, faith goes

23:48

so much deeper. Our confidence and

23:50

trust are secure in God and

23:52

his promises. But you might say,

23:54

I don't feel God or I

23:57

don't see anything he's doing. We

23:59

get it. That's what faith means.

24:01

And let's be real, it isn't

24:03

always easy. Joyce's book, Unless Your

24:05

Faith, is Today's Offer, and it's

24:08

going to help you increase your

24:10

faith. It's filled with beautifully illustrated

24:12

scriptures, because faith comes as we

24:14

hear the word of God. Joyce

24:17

also shares three practical ways to

24:19

put your faith into action. Today's

24:21

offer, Unless Your Faith, also comes

24:23

with battlefield of the mind, New

24:25

Testament. which contains Joyce's commentary. Both

24:28

of these resources are available to

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you for your gift of $30

24:32

or more. Call us today at

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1,800, 331, 8,000 or visit us

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online at joycemyre.org. Most of the

24:39

time if you're going to live

24:41

by faith, if you want to

24:43

really find out what God can

24:45

do for you, you are going

24:48

to have to so to speak,

24:50

take a chance. Living by faith

24:52

means you'll often have to take

24:54

step one before you know what

24:56

the next step is. Living by

24:59

faith requires you to take risks

25:01

because God's plan for you are

25:03

always bigger than what you could

25:05

ever accomplish or even imagine on

25:08

your own. Faith is your fuel.

25:10

As you read, unleash your faith.

25:12

You will be fed by the

25:14

beautifully illustrated scriptures. In it, Joyce

25:16

will help you to understand the

25:19

power of faith that God has

25:21

put in your spirit and how

25:23

to release it. And remember, your

25:25

financial gift will not only provide

25:27

the help you need through this

25:30

resource, but it will also help

25:32

reach the lost, beat the hungry,

25:34

and help women and girls find

25:36

freedom all around the world. Your

25:39

gift today makes it all possible.

25:41

Put your faith into action. Learn

25:43

how with today's offer unleash your

25:45

faith along with battlefield of the

25:47

mind new testament with commentary by

25:50

Joyce You know we talked

25:52

to you about partnership with

25:54

Joyce Meyer Ministries all the

25:56

time because we love to

25:58

because it is such a

26:00

beautiful thing We tell you

26:02

about how you can share

26:04

Christ all over the world

26:06

through humanitarian aid through things

26:08

like what is happening right

26:10

now teaching young women a

26:12

skill to keep them out

26:14

of human trafficking Feeding the

26:16

hungry providing medical care and

26:18

Presenting the truth of God's

26:20

word through Joyce's teaching self

26:22

with God partnership does all

26:25

that But just let me

26:27

tell you between you and

26:29

me as friends, okay friend?

26:31

If you want more joy

26:33

in your life, if you

26:35

want more purpose, if you

26:37

want to do something that

26:39

will bring a huge smile

26:41

to your face and many

26:43

others, then partnership is the

26:45

thing for you. We see

26:47

it all over the world

26:49

and I have personally received

26:51

so much joy from it.

26:53

So I invite you once

26:55

again. to pray and consider

26:57

becoming a partner with Joyce

26:59

Meyer Ministries. It means giving

27:01

on a regular basis to

27:03

present the gospel and provide

27:06

for these humanitarian aid outreaches

27:08

everywhere through hand of hope.

27:10

It means doing your best,

27:12

doing what you can, and

27:14

then you are right here

27:16

with us. everywhere we go

27:18

making a huge impact. Go

27:20

to our website right now

27:22

Joyce meyer.org to find out

27:24

more information and how you

27:26

can begin an amazing journey

27:28

in your own life. Everybody

27:30

want to say hi to

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our friends? Joyce Meyer's Talk

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It Out podcast. Join Joyce.

27:36

Aaron Cluelly and me, Ginger

27:38

Stockey, along with some amazing

27:40

friends. As we honestly share

27:42

the hard stuff, laugh through

27:45

those unpredictable moments and learn

27:47

to apply what God says

27:49

about it all. Sometimes you

27:51

just need to talk about

27:53

life with your girlfriends. So

27:55

we have a spot saved

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on the pink couch just

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for you. Watch or listen

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to new episodes every Tuesday

28:03

wherever you get your podcasts.

28:06

We hope you enjoy today's

28:08

program. We are so grateful

28:10

to our Joyce Meyer Ministries partners

28:13

who make this and all

28:15

we do possible, including sharing

28:17

God's word and offering help

28:20

to people in need all over.

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