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this week's after-pod,
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unscripted. I don't know why
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there's still a delay with my
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internet now. Sometimes it's just... It
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just was two seconds, it was
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like one second, and it usually,
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it's been, it's been very good
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since you've been embossed. Yeah, yeah,
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it's been way better. The days,
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the days of Brooklyn. Hard. Hard.
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Yeah. I'm, I'm, I'm fucking, now
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I'm down for the count. You
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know, it's crazy, Fran, is
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that I really, despite us. going
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through what we're going through post-election
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and like the fear and the
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kind of you know reckoning that's
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happening and yeah whatever the thing
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that I will say is I have
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never been more clear mine I have
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never been more resolute about oh no
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I don't fuck with you you know
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what I mean? Delant that's everybody I
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just I said to a friend I
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was like oh your husband was gonna
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vote for Trump and just and or
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didn't vote and this is like a
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lovely friend and I was like And
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she was like, yeah, blah, blah, blah, blah,
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blah. And I was like, you know what?
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Here's the thing. I don't, I can't
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excuse that. I can't excuse you,
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you're not talking to your in-laws about
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it. I love you, I love you,
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but I think that is a cop-out
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and that's like counterintuitive to who...
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Yeah, and I don't want
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to be in community with you. I,
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yeah, I mean, listen, it is happening,
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it's, it's really why the leop, it's
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really why the leop, You know, it's a
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phrase that's been around for a while
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and what's wild, no pen intended, is
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I've been doing the song for over
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a year, but like after the election,
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it... grew and multiplied because so many people
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started being like I'm done I'm done
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and like I genuinely don't care what
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happens to you and you know not
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wanting to wish ill on people but
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the fuck around and find out of
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it where it's like you did this
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thing and now there's going to be
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consequences and you cannot come crying to
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me about the consequences because one we're
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all going to deal with them but
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you knew what was on the line
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and you chose to do whatever it
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is that you did positive or negative
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and now you're going to deal with
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the consequence. and to your point
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about feeling really clear,
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similarly, I feel like, bitch, this is
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my time, I'm just gonna do
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whatever I need to do. I feel
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the same. I think a lot of
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black people feel that way, honestly. Like
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when the numbers came down, it was
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like, we tried to save y'all, fuck
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y'all, I'm not doing this anymore. Don't
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ask me to do shit. It's like
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a clear, like you were clearly
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saying you hate black people, you hate
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black women. Like there's, I don't want,
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I don't, there's, there's no
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question for me about that. Black
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people. So we got to hold each other
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on. So we have work to do to
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be have the bandwidth. Let me pour into
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me. Let me pour into my community so
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that we can withstand it, you know. Yeah,
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I know it's so true. I know
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you're not like super active on TikTok,
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but there's been a movement of black
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women being like, this is a really
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funny video that was breaking down the
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demographics and they were like, okay. So
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now with some shit goes down, you
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need to call these white women. or
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these Latino women, or these other. We
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will not be answering any calls about
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anything. And what was really interesting was,
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it was tongue in cheek, but it
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also got backlash. There were tons of
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people that were very upset about it.
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And it's like, do you see how
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ironic it is that when black women
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say, we are done being the fucking
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mules to every single person? And then
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we asked you to do one motherfucking
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thing, one thing, and you can't even
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do it. And so now it's like.
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Yeah, I'm good. I have to focus
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on myself. I have to focus on
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myself. Yeah. And you know,
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the Democratic Party, I'm telling
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you, y'all, they're going to
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be booty hurt because black
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women vote in the Democratic
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Party, like they don't understand.
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Like they're going to be
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booty hurt because black women
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vote in the Democratic Party
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like they don't understand. Like
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they're going to be but hurt.
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And you know, look, midterms,
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get the shit together. Get the
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shit together. Midterms are two years
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from now. Like, you know, you
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have time. Yeah. It's gonna come
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and go in a flash. Yeah, for
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real. So, you know, other than that,
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bro. I haven't been sleeping. I'm
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just like, my brain, I can't
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turn my brain off. You know, I
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have the same, a similar thing. I
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have it in the morning. I have
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it in the morning. But I've been
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taking me a little sleep coming. I
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should have done that last night. That's
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a sleep coming and it gets
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me out. Let me tell you. No,
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I should do that. I should do
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that. I mean on the plus side,
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like my sleep is being disrupted by
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like creative energy, but like genuinely I
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feel. Like with the success of the
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merch, it is really exciting, but
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it's so overwhelming. And I'm taking,
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I'm taking meetings this week to
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try and hire someone. My therapist
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has been telling me to do this
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forever. I've been, you know, looking for
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stuff, looking for people, but I have
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to get really serious now. So I've
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set these actual calls because I can't
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do it all. I can't, I can't,
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I just, I physically can't. And I'm
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kind of nervous about it about it,
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but. Excited? I'm nervous because
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of the control, loss of control.
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Yeah. Yeah. Girl, the union has
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to say it. I was like,
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it wasn't even a question, it
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was a statement. You know, I'm
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a control freak. I want to
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get it right. Ready? Like, I
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see you, I feel you, you
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know. Yeah, same. I was, I'm
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directing a show in the fall.
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And I was thinking about like
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having a student director. And I
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was like, okay, great, I may
7:45
have a student that'd be an
7:47
opportunity for them to see my director's
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side or whatever and then learn. Then
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I was like, oh, God, no, I
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need. It'll be a task in like,
7:55
Wusa, and I have no Wusa. I
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have no Wisa. I'm like, no. just
8:00
do I literally will have a whole
8:02
plan for you and I'm like just
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do that and stay away from it.
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Yeah it's hard I mean it's also
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just the thing of to your kind of
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point about if you do take on
8:13
another person to help you direct or
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student director which I think would be
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very cool there's also the thing of
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like you have to train that person
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like you're not just letting them go
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off and have free reign and that's
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the part that's like making me anxious
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it's like I have to be like
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I like to do it like this
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it's like I'm taking on another job
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in anticipation of leaving that job yeah and
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that is has me like am I ready
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for this? But it is also
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exciting. It's so exciting and
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I think also like for both of
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us but more for you because we're
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talking about you and I made it
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about me for a minute. But I
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think it's it's a good exercise in
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not only can you not do it
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all but like Give someone an opportunity.
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Give a time. Give it like
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train them. I love that. Yeah, I'm
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gonna play right now and the playwright
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was saying like he had a really
9:07
hard time for a while letting actors
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just be actors and not like imposing
9:11
his own thoughts on what they were
9:14
doing and it's in it's a really
9:16
great exercise and like your part is
9:18
done. You know, just say, and you
9:20
can always, you're, I mean, if I
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know you bet, you're going to have
9:25
notes, or you'll have emails. Oh, I
9:27
always have, I always have notes. No,
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you're right, you're right. It is, it
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is good. And I will say, this
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has been a very exciting transitional period
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for me. I've been making moves in
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every level, like the work that I'm
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doing, who I'm working with, the
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kinds of work that I want to
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do. I've said no to a lot
9:47
of stuff and that was kind
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of scary. There was like a uncertainty moment
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of did I make a huge mistake
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by saying no to certain things when
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I don't have anything else coming in.
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And so I'm trying to like. hold
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on to that optimism and be like,
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now look, I made this choice a
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few weeks ago, not knowing where I
10:06
would be this week. So maybe whatever
10:08
choice I make this week is setting
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me up for what's to come. the
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following week. It's always setting you
10:15
up. We've talked about this in
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the pop before. It's always
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making rules. Yeah, but is it
10:21
a setup? Set up, like, what is
10:24
this rigged? Just so cynical. Class, this
10:26
is what age does to you. This
10:28
is what age does to you.
10:30
This is what age does to
10:32
you. Sinical agenda. Sinical agenda. I
10:35
know, but I like that it's a
10:37
safe space with you and I can make
10:39
that joke. Don't say that. And I'm like.
10:41
No, I'm joking. I do this a
10:43
lot with like my self-deprecating humor in
10:45
my depression and people invariably are like,
10:48
oh, and I'm like, no, I don't
10:50
do that. It gets really serious and
10:52
you're like, I'm just joking. I love,
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okay. I love when I can say
10:56
it and someone laughs and I go,
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oh, you get me, you get my humor.
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It's either sex or depression, ready? Yeah,
11:03
you just realize, like, if you're in
11:05
the right room, related. I went to
11:07
a Friends Going Away party last night,
11:09
like, one of my tennis friends, and
11:11
I haven't played tennis in like a
11:13
year with that group. I was like a year? Wow. Yeah,
11:15
it has been. I've just been so busy. Like it started with
11:17
the strike. I was like picking all day. And I was like,
11:19
and I was cutting back on money. I was like, I'm don't,
11:21
I'm not working right now. I can't spend $40 on a tennis
11:23
class. I was going three days a week at one point. And
11:25
I was like, I just can't do this. I'd pull it back
11:27
on my gym, you know, because like the walking combined with like
11:29
the work, like the work, like the work, like the work, like
11:31
the work, like the work, like the work, I've been, I've been,
11:33
I've been, I've been, I've been, I've been, I've been, I've been,
11:36
I've been, I've been, I've been, I've been, I've been, I've been,
11:38
I've been, I've been, I've been, I've been, I've been, I've been,
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And the funniest thing, Delon, so like at tennis,
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like I would always just like make jokes because
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like that's who I am. And they're all like,
11:46
Fran, Francisco, we all still say all of your
11:48
jokes because I would do the score. So I
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would keep track of scores when we would play
11:53
all these games and based on the score, I
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would have a joke. So if the score was
11:57
9-11, I would say never forget. If the score
12:00
was. 7-Eleven I would say home of
12:02
the Slurpee if the score was
12:04
2020 I would say RIP Barbara
12:06
Walters and so like they were
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all but I didn't remember this
12:10
salon it was so funny and
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then one girl goes oh and
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then there's also 2019 the year
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Francisco got divorced and I was like
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oh and cut hard-cut why was I no
12:20
but like I was making the I made
12:22
that joke obviously but like the
12:25
fact that I have not been there
12:27
for a year And they're all telling
12:29
that joke and people are like,
12:31
who got divorced? They're all like,
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you don't know. It's tennis lore.
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Tennis lore. You're part of tennis
12:38
lore. What's crazy though, too, is
12:41
that that just shows you how
12:43
much riz you have. I'm not
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just saying riz. You're with college
12:48
students, aren't you? I am. Well,
12:50
God, yes. What was the other
12:52
thing that someone said? What else
12:55
did they teach you? They go, the one
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is eaten out, that eight, that eight,
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like the, and the little finger, finger,
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it's actually the middle finger in the
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thumb, the middle finger clip, clap,
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yeah, that eight, but the one
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that I can't get over is
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no crumbs, no crumbs. Mm-hmm. Devoured.
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Devoured. The whole plate, clean. Licked,
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clean. I would say like those
13:17
are, I like those kinds of
13:19
jokes where like it's a play
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on something and you just keep
13:24
playing with the analogy. Yeah,
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like when I always say
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the basement's flooded and then
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I'm like, rip up the
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carpet. We probably got mold
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