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is Let's Be Clear with
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Shannon Doherty. Hello
2:05
everybody! Let's be
2:07
clear family. I'm so excited to be
2:10
able to speak to all of you
2:12
My name is Amy Robach and for
2:14
those of you who don't know me
2:17
I have a podcast called Amy and
2:19
TJ I was formerly a Anaker and
2:21
a reporter on Good Morning America Perhaps
2:24
you might know me from there, but
2:26
it was through that job on Good
2:28
Morning America that I had the honor
2:31
and the privilege of meeting speaking with
2:33
and interviewing the late great Shannon
2:35
Doherty. It was 2020. It
2:38
was actually right before the
2:40
pandemic, right before all hell
2:42
broke loose in this country
2:44
in February of 2020. Wow,
2:46
that was five years ago.
2:48
I got to sit down
2:50
and speak with Shannon and
2:52
she decided that month that day
2:55
to let the world know what
2:57
she had been dealing with and
2:59
what she had known for
3:01
some time at that point.
3:03
that her cancer, that her
3:05
breast cancer had come back,
3:07
that it was stage
3:09
four metastatic breast
3:12
cancer and it was
3:14
gutting. It's the news that
3:16
no breast cancer patient
3:19
survivor. wants to hear. It's
3:21
the thing that we all fear. I,
3:23
for those of you who don't know,
3:26
am also a breast cancer survivor. I
3:28
had stage two breast cancer. It had
3:30
traveled to my live notes and I
3:32
was diagnosed through a work assignment on
3:34
Good Morning America. So it was a
3:37
full circle moment to be able to
3:39
speak with Shannon there on Good Morning
3:41
America. Seven years later, she and I
3:43
were diagnosed within a couple years of
3:45
each other with early stage breast cancer.
3:47
and so yes for her to have
3:49
to come back and tell the world
3:52
that her cancer had come back and
3:54
for a lot of cancers you can
3:56
come back and you can fight it
3:58
and you can beat it. But
4:01
those of us who have had
4:03
breast cancer know that when you
4:05
get the stage four metastatic diagnosis,
4:07
that it is a terminal one
4:09
right now. And there are drugs
4:11
and there are ways to fight
4:13
it to prolong your life and
4:15
to live longer and better, but
4:17
ultimately, right now, if you get
4:19
a stage four metastatic diagnosis, you
4:21
are dying. And so when Shannon
4:23
sat down with me to break
4:25
this news, it was heartbreaking and
4:27
it was personal. I like so
4:30
many of you grew up loving
4:32
Shannon Doherty, I think we were about
4:34
one or two years apart. I'm 52. I
4:36
think she might have been two years older
4:38
than me. So I was absolutely in
4:40
awe of her and just got to
4:43
see her from afar, got to interview
4:45
her in a group, but I didn't
4:47
get to meet her one-on-one. And sadly,
4:49
it wasn't until she came to good
4:51
morning America. on that February morning in
4:54
2020 that I actually got to sit
4:56
down with her and what we had
4:58
to talk about was the last thing
5:00
either one of us wanted to. But
5:02
she was so brave. You know, that is,
5:04
I don't know if people give women
5:07
who come forward, especially women in
5:09
the public eye, enough credit, for
5:11
coming forward. Because especially when
5:13
there's someone like Shannon Doherty
5:16
who was this bright, beautiful,
5:18
shining example of success and
5:20
health. to then say, I
5:22
have this right now incurable disease and
5:24
I am dying and I am scared
5:26
and I don't know what's next and
5:29
I don't know how hard it's going
5:31
to get and how dark it's going
5:33
to get. But I'm sharing this with
5:35
the world because I want other women
5:38
to not feel alone. I want to
5:40
promote and be an advocate for better
5:42
research so that we can find a
5:44
cure to this disease and I'm going
5:46
to put my name and I'm going
5:49
to put... all of this pain out
5:51
there to the world so that we
5:53
can all collectively embrace each other
5:55
and then work together to try and find
5:57
a cure. That is so brave. That is
5:59
So brave, I remember when
6:02
I first was diagnosed and
6:04
decided to go public with
6:06
my breast cancer diagnosis,
6:09
my surgeon said to me the
6:11
night before the surgery, are you
6:13
sure you want to go public
6:15
with this? Are you sure you want
6:17
to tell the world about your
6:19
diagnosis? And I said, yes,
6:22
but why are you asking me
6:24
like this? And Dr. Axelrod
6:26
said, are you prepared to
6:28
be pitied? I don't know that
6:30
you are. It's a big deal to have
6:32
people look at you and look at
6:34
you like they're almost attending your funeral
6:37
and that will happen to you. And
6:39
sure enough, it did. You get the
6:41
cancer nod and the cancer hugs and
6:44
the people look at you with pity.
6:46
And it's a strange thing to experience
6:48
if you haven't before. It's one thing
6:50
to have an early stage diagnosis like
6:53
she and I both did in the
6:55
beginning. It's another thing altogether when you're
6:57
telling the world that you have an
7:00
incurable disease and that you're dying. And
7:02
that takes a whole other level of
7:04
bravery that I just want to commend
7:06
Shannon for doing because when you tell
7:09
your story, when one person tells their
7:11
story, it affects everyone around you. All the
7:13
women in your life tend to go and make
7:15
those mammogram appointments or to make that
7:17
doctor's appointment to keep those appointments that
7:19
they hadn't before because they're suddenly realizing
7:22
how vulnerable we all are as human
7:24
beings and that if we don't have
7:26
our health we don't have anything so
7:28
every person listening to this podcast no
7:30
matter what it is you may be
7:33
dealing with whether it's loss or a
7:35
disease or some sort of issue when
7:37
you share it with one person it
7:39
affects everyone around you because There is
7:41
a collective learning and understanding and
7:43
growing that comes from it. So
7:46
when you're someone like Shannon Doherty
7:48
and you take your Tremendous and enormous
7:50
platform and you tell the world
7:53
what you're dealing with the impact
7:55
of that is immense. And so I
7:57
just when I was sitting there talking with
7:59
her and and interviewing her, I was
8:01
in awe of her because I have
8:03
thought, and I think a lot of
8:06
women who have early stage breast cancer
8:08
have thought about what they would do
8:10
and how they would handle a stage
8:13
four metastatic diagnosis. Anyone who has had
8:15
breast cancer lives with that threat, lives
8:17
with that fear of it returning, of
8:20
it being stage four metastatic. And we
8:22
live our lives differently because of it.
8:24
We spend our time differently because of
8:27
it, but there's a lot of fear
8:29
and a lot of mental work that
8:31
has to be done along with the
8:34
physical when you're dealing with the breast
8:36
cancer diagnosis and specifically a stage for
8:38
metastatic diagnosis. I have had two dear
8:41
friends, one has already passed and one
8:43
is... rounding just rounded her seventh year
8:45
as a as a metastatic breast cancer
8:48
patient and that is frankly remarkable and
8:50
I am in all of her each
8:52
and every day it's people like Shannon
8:55
it's people like my friend Morgan and
8:57
my dear My dear friend Olivia who
8:59
I lost we all lost last November
9:02
they are the women who I think
9:04
of every day when I have little
9:06
things that happen where I am upset
9:09
or I feel frustrated by I think
9:11
about those women and I say I
9:13
got this. This is a very small
9:15
problem. This is just a situation that
9:18
needs to be addressed. It's not actually
9:20
a real problem. It just puts full
9:22
perspective into your life. And I just
9:25
want to share with all of you
9:27
in this podcast what I learned from
9:29
Shannon, from women like Shannon, and from
9:32
my own personal diagnosis. I don't know
9:34
how many people know my story who
9:36
are listening to this, but I was
9:39
40 years old and at the time
9:41
the recommendations by all the different agencies
9:43
that tell women how often they should
9:46
get tests and when they should get
9:48
tests. Even the American Cancer Society at
9:50
that point had said. women could wait
9:53
until they were 45 and then the
9:55
the main group that determines when women
9:57
should get mammograms or at least advises
10:00
women they should get mammograms said it
10:02
was 50. So when Good Morning America
10:04
asked me when I just turned 40
10:07
if I would go have a mammogram
10:09
in a mammavan in front of a
10:11
live national audience for Good Morning America
10:14
on October 1st which is breast cancer
10:16
awareness month to raise awareness about the
10:18
importance of early detection, I said no.
10:21
I just, I'm an authentic person and
10:23
I just, I told my producers at
10:25
Good Morning America, I had no intention
10:28
of getting a mammogram and I was
10:30
planning on waiting 10 years before I
10:32
had my first mammogram and so I
10:34
didn't want to go on national television
10:37
and tell other women to get a
10:39
mammogram if I myself was not going
10:41
to get one. That was just a
10:44
non-starter for me. And they asked me
10:46
to speak to Robin Roberts, who is
10:48
also a breast cancer thriver. She doesn't
10:51
even like the word survivor. She's a
10:53
thriver. And they said, will you please
10:55
talk to Robin for you? Make it
10:58
an absolute no. I said, sure. So
11:00
I walked into Robin's dressing room and
11:02
I said, hey, Robin, I'm not the
11:05
gal. I'm not the one who should
11:07
go into the mamma van next week.
11:09
I have no connection to the disease.
11:12
My mom is one of nine, my
11:14
dad is one of six. At that
11:16
time, I had all of my grandparents
11:19
still alive, all of my aunts, all
11:21
of my cousins, no one. And I
11:23
don't even know how many cousins I
11:26
have at this point, but no one
11:28
has breast cancer in my family. So
11:30
I just felt like I had no
11:33
personal connection to the disease, and I
11:35
certainly didn't think that I needed a
11:37
mammogram. And Robin said to me, she
11:40
laughed and said, you're exactly the person
11:42
who should walk into that happen to
11:44
you. And she said, I'm sure you're
11:47
fine. But it's that mentality that causes
11:49
women not to make those appointments and
11:51
not to keep those appointments. And so
11:53
let me just say this to you.
11:56
Robin said, if you walk into that
11:58
mamavan. and you get
12:00
that mammogram on live national television and
12:03
you show the world, you show the
12:05
women watching that it's not that painful,
12:07
that it's not that hard, you will
12:09
save a life. One woman will make
12:11
her appointment who wouldn't have otherwise and
12:13
she will find her breast cancer and
12:15
she will thank you for saving her
12:17
life. That was a really, really compelling
12:20
argument and I did a 180 in that
12:22
moment. I remember feeling emotion. It
12:24
felt like a watershed moment and
12:26
I said to Robin, we were
12:29
in her dressing room, I said,
12:31
I cannot believe I'm saying this,
12:33
I'm gonna do a 180 here and
12:35
I'll do it. I'll do it. I
12:37
can't beat that argument. I'll
12:39
say yes. And so because I
12:42
was nudged by Robin and my
12:44
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12:46
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15:37
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15:40
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15:42
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15:48
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16:01
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16:06
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16:10
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16:13
lucky enough to be able to lean
16:15
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16:17
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16:19
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16:22
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16:24
the people I talked to convinced me
16:26
to have a double misectomy. And That
16:28
is a scary surgery. It is it
16:31
is an amputation. It is not something
16:33
to take lightly and it is life-changing
16:35
and the every day I am in
16:37
the shower I Don't have feeling in
16:40
my breasts every day. I take a
16:42
shower I know that I'm a breast
16:44
cancer survivor because it just the best
16:46
way I can describe it is if
16:49
you've had Novocaine to get a cavity
16:51
filled how it feels weird and you
16:53
get that's how my breasts feel that's
16:55
how they will always feel And that's
16:58
a lot better than they felt in
17:00
the months after the double mastectomy. So
17:02
my point being, I am not advocating
17:04
double mastectomies here because they are a
17:07
very serious surgery that require very serious
17:09
consideration. However, my surgeon really didn't think
17:11
I should get a double mastectomy. She
17:13
didn't think I needed one. And the
17:16
night before the surgery, she also went
17:18
that phone call, she also said to
17:20
me, are you sure you don't want
17:22
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17:25
I'm sure. I'm sure. When I woke
17:27
up from the surgery, there she was,
17:29
my surgeon standing over me, and she
17:31
said to me, okay, you were right,
17:34
but I was good. And she told
17:36
me that when they did the double
17:38
mastectomy, she took her finger and just
17:40
felt the lining of my chest wall.
17:43
And I had had, by the way,
17:45
an MRI, a sonogram, you know, and
17:47
the... mammogram and all of those tests
17:49
only showed one malignant mass. When she
17:52
felt the lining of my chest wall
17:54
she found another mass. They tested it
17:56
on the site and found out that
17:58
it too was malignant. So she found
18:01
a second malignant tumor only because I
18:03
had the double mastectomy and I just
18:05
always want to tell that story because
18:07
you never know you have to trust
18:10
really the research you've done and at
18:12
the end of the day it was
18:14
my gut. My gut just told me
18:16
that I wanted to get a double
18:19
mastectomy. And it proved to be the
18:21
best choice of, the best course of
18:23
action when they did all of the
18:25
testing on all of my breast tissue
18:28
from both breasts, my left breast, also
18:30
was completely pre-cancerous. And so it too,
18:32
they believe, would have ultimately developed into
18:34
breast cancer. So having the double, the
18:37
bilateral mastectomy, was absolutely the right decision
18:39
for me. And it was confirmed with
18:41
the surgical result. So I always, always
18:43
want to tell that story. The other
18:46
decision you have to make. is what
18:48
happens afterwards. I went, I actually would,
18:50
I had to have chemo. You get
18:52
an ACCA score, it tells you your
18:55
chance of recurrence and the threat of
18:57
having a comeback metastatic mine was much
18:59
higher than they wanted it to be,
19:01
and just all the lab work that
19:04
they did on my breast issue, my
19:06
oncologist said you don't have a choice,
19:08
you have to have chemo. So I
19:10
went through six months of chemo, and
19:13
then when you're done with that, and
19:15
you have your reconstructive surgery, now you
19:17
have drug therapy. And this is a
19:19
point I want to talk about because
19:22
Shannon and I had this discussion, Shannon
19:24
Doherty and I, when she came in
19:26
and sat down with me, at that
19:28
point, I believe I was on year
19:31
six of tomoxifin. So tomoxifin is a
19:33
drug that is offered to women who
19:35
have ER positive breast cancer. So it's
19:37
hormoneally fueled. And so the tomoxifin, I'm
19:40
not again a medical scientist, but the
19:42
best way in layman's term I can
19:44
describe it the way I understand that
19:46
it works is it suppresses. your estrogen.
19:49
It suppresses those hormones that feed cancer
19:51
cells. And I remember my oncologist telling
19:53
me, you have to get chemo. But
19:55
even more importantly, you have to take
19:58
to Moximan. And it had just, they
20:00
had said five years was the gold
20:02
standard and they had just raised it
20:04
to 10 years. They want women to
20:07
be on this drug for 10 years.
20:09
So I'm 40 and now I'm going
20:11
into forced menopause and all of the
20:13
things that come with that, the hot
20:16
flashes, the joint pain, the dry skin,
20:18
the just there are so many negative
20:20
side effects that come from it. But
20:22
at the time, you know, my daughters
20:25
were, I had two little girls who
20:27
were seven. and 10 at the time
20:29
when I was diagnosed. And my oncologist
20:31
told me right away you are out
20:34
of the baby-making business. And I had
20:36
been trying to have another child, actually,
20:38
the whole year before. So she said,
20:40
thank God, you didn't get pregnant. And
20:43
that really shook me. And to be
20:45
told, you're out of the baby-making business,
20:47
I was lucky enough to have already
20:49
had two children. Shannon did not, she
20:52
was not in that same situation. And
20:54
so when she was then presented presented
20:56
with these same options with these same
20:58
options, She opted not to have the
21:01
Tamoxone. She wanted to keep her options
21:03
open. And that's a very fair personal
21:05
decision that every woman has to make.
21:07
But Shannon decided not to have Tamoxifin.
21:10
I decided to have Tamoxifin. No one
21:12
will ever know if one decision led
21:14
to the next outcome. But I know
21:16
that Shannon at the end regretted not
21:19
taking the Tamoxifin. And I remember when
21:21
she told me that she wasn't on
21:23
Tamoxin. She decided not to take the
21:25
timoxifin. I just thought I'm off on
21:28
my throat because my friend Olivia, who
21:30
I just mentioned earlier in the beginning
21:32
of this podcast, who passed last November,
21:34
she and I were diagnosed, again, like
21:37
she had an ER positive cancer, she
21:39
was also stage two, it had traveled
21:41
to her lymph nodes like me. She
21:43
also opted. She started on the timoxifin,
21:46
she is a professional dancer, she is
21:48
a professional dancer, she said her joints
21:50
hurt too much, and so she stopped
21:52
taking it. And when her cancer came
21:55
back four years later, four years later.
21:57
stage four metastatic. She said to me,
21:59
God, I wish I had stayed
22:01
on that too much. So it's
22:04
just, it's not fair. No one
22:06
knows. Olivia and Shannon could have
22:08
stayed on to moxifin and been
22:10
on to moxifin and they still
22:13
may have had the same outcome.
22:15
But it's just worth mentioning that
22:17
it's just, I remember feeling and
22:19
I still feel to this day
22:22
that when you are a breast
22:24
cancer patient, suddenly all of these
22:26
decisions. are handed to you. And
22:28
people can tell you what they
22:31
think, and they can tell you
22:33
what the best advice they believe
22:35
is, but ultimately you go with
22:37
your gut, you go with your
22:40
heart, and you make the choice.
22:42
But that's a scary thing, because
22:44
no one really knows what one
22:46
decision leads to, and you just
22:48
have to make the best decision
22:51
in the moment. I know that's
22:53
what Shannon did. That was the
22:55
best decision for her and her
22:57
life in that moment and what
23:00
she wanted, and it was the
23:02
best decision for Olivia. in her
23:04
life. I do know that I've
23:06
made a lot of changes over
23:09
the years. Since I've been diagnosed
23:11
with breast cancer, health choices, I
23:13
started running. I've always been a
23:15
runner, but I upped my game.
23:18
It took me a couple years.
23:20
I just don't want anyone to
23:22
think somehow I got cancer and
23:24
then became a superwoman. Nah. I
23:27
was... At that point, I... I
23:29
was writing a book, and I
23:31
did write a book, if anyone,
23:33
like to pick it up. It
23:36
was, my book is called Better,
23:38
and it was about how my
23:40
life has gotten better through this
23:42
diagnosis. It doesn't mean it was
23:45
easier, it doesn't mean it was
23:47
less challenging, but I was able
23:49
to make better decisions. And so
23:51
many of my decisions, even my
23:54
last decision to leave my last
23:56
marriage, was absolutely influenced. by my
23:58
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24:00
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24:03
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24:07
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24:09
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24:23
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24:25
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24:27
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24:30
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24:32
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I would tell? Would I go public?
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And you know what? I don't know the
27:31
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27:34
would go public until I had to. I
27:36
don't know if I would want to be
27:38
the face of that the way I
27:40
was, even with early stage breast cancer.
27:42
And so again, I just give
27:45
so much credit to Shannon for
27:47
allowing us on that journey with her
27:49
so that we could be with
27:51
her, but also learn from her
27:53
and hopefully keep Chen. fighting and
27:56
being champions for her in the
27:58
cause and the cure. And that's
28:00
where my focus is right
28:03
now because I do try
28:05
to balance my life in a
28:07
much different way. You know
28:09
what I do? And I encourage
28:11
everyone to do this.
28:14
You don't have to
28:16
have gone through anything
28:18
too significant yet to choose
28:20
this. I choose fun. I choose
28:22
laughter. I wake up. Most
28:24
mornings and literally say to myself, how
28:26
am I going to have fun today?
28:29
It doesn't have to be silly or
28:31
inane or something. It's just, it's a
28:33
choice about how you go through life
28:36
and what your attitude is. And yes,
28:38
I have bad days where I am
28:40
not in the mood to have fun,
28:42
but I do prioritize fun in a
28:45
way that I hadn't before. I
28:47
prioritize enjoyment of life. And that's
28:49
why we're here. I believe that's
28:51
why we're here to love. each
28:54
other to love ourselves and
28:56
to learn. And that can
28:58
all happen with joy.
29:00
And that is the biggest
29:03
lesson I learned. And I
29:05
know that I know that this
29:07
is such a sad topic
29:09
and a painful topic.
29:11
And I think for that
29:14
reason, a lot of people
29:16
shy away from it. They
29:18
shy away from from talking
29:21
about it. And sometimes from even
29:23
making appointments. I have heard from
29:25
women who say they have not
29:27
made their mammogram appointments, that they
29:29
have not even made doctor appointments
29:31
because they don't want to know
29:33
that ignorance is bliss, that it's
29:35
better to not have the test
29:37
and not be worried about it.
29:39
And that to me, I understand.
29:41
I was that person. I would
29:43
have waited until I was 50
29:45
to have that mammogram. And I
29:47
honestly do not believe that I
29:49
would be here talking to you today.
29:52
if I hadn't been pushed literally
29:54
into that mam-a-man. And so
29:56
for anyone who was listening
29:58
and if you you're a
30:00
man listening, tell this to the women
30:03
you love in your life. Ignorance
30:05
is not bliss when it comes
30:07
to cancer. The earlier we find
30:09
cancer, the better chance we have of
30:11
surviving it. Period. End of story.
30:13
And so my daughters, the recommendation
30:15
is for them to have a
30:18
mammogram 10 years before their mom
30:20
was first diagnosed. So at 30,
30:22
my daughters are going to have
30:24
their baseline mammogram. And I had
30:26
a slow growing cancer. So I
30:28
absolutely. got breast cancer in my
30:31
late 30s. And that's a very,
30:33
very, very scary thing. And that
30:35
should not be happening. And so
30:37
I changed my diet. I changed
30:39
my lifestyle. I changed my attitude. Those
30:41
are the three things that I had
30:44
control of. I don't have control of
30:46
anything else. So yes, I run marathons.
30:48
I've upped my game, like I work
30:50
out at least five days a week.
30:52
I watch what I eat. I've lessened
30:54
my drinking and I've lessened my stress
30:57
level. I really think that's an important
30:59
part of this to make sure that
31:01
we take care of our mental health
31:03
along with our physical health because I
31:05
do think those two are connected and
31:08
especially when it comes to cancer we
31:10
can all do better at just relaxing
31:12
and creating a real perspective in our lives.
31:14
This is going to matter in in five
31:16
minutes. This is going to matter in five
31:19
years and really put that to the test
31:21
when we try to recognize how
31:23
we're reacting to life into
31:25
problems. And I do believe that
31:28
every woman should get a
31:30
mammogram by the age of 40.
31:32
And I do believe that you
31:34
should be able to have access
31:36
to not just a mammogram because
31:38
you have dense breast tissue issues
31:40
for a lot of women, so
31:42
we need ultrasound opportunities, 3D mammograms,
31:44
and All of the tests available
31:47
to us, I just I'm imploring
31:49
you who are listening to make
31:51
your appointments and take advantage of
31:53
these life-saving tests that we have.
31:55
Now mammograms are not perfect. And there
31:57
is no perfect test, but they're the
31:59
best. test we have, and they
32:01
certainly have saved countless lives. This
32:04
is the truth. Wherever in the
32:06
world mammography has been introduced, the
32:08
death rates from cancer have dropped,
32:10
period. Now it's, again, there are
32:13
women who have had cancers that
32:15
have gone undiagnosed or undetected by
32:17
mammograms. So again, they are not
32:20
foolproof, but they are the best.
32:22
test we have. And that is
32:24
what I'm asking each and every
32:26
woman listening here today to take
32:29
advantage of because it saved my
32:31
life. And I have been when
32:33
I first started speaking publicly about
32:35
my breast cancer, I was taken
32:38
to task by some people, especially those
32:40
in the metastatic community who want there
32:42
to be less of a focus on
32:45
early detection and more of a focus
32:47
on raising funds to find a cure.
32:49
And I fully fully fully agree that
32:52
both need to get equal time and
32:54
equal press that isn't the case right
32:56
now. But they have said to me,
32:58
hey, you know. You can't say that
33:00
a mammogram saved your life, and technically
33:02
they're right. I can't prove that a
33:05
mammogram saved my life, but I can
33:07
tell you that it gave me the
33:09
best chance at surviving this insidious disease.
33:12
It gave me the best chance of
33:14
dying from something else other than breast
33:16
cancer, and that cannot be refuted. So
33:18
I just make that argument to anyone,
33:21
and I'm acknowledging that more needs to
33:23
be done. in terms of research,
33:25
so that we have more tests
33:27
and more ways of detecting cancer.
33:30
I am a huge advocate of
33:32
raising funds. Someone once told me
33:34
there is a cure for cancer.
33:36
It's called cash. And so I
33:39
implore everyone, if you have a
33:41
charity that you love, for me it's
33:43
DCRF, Breast Cancer Research Foundation. They do
33:45
more, they're actually a huge reason why
33:47
tamoxatin even exists. That drug that I
33:50
think is of course life-saving or at
33:52
least I credit in part to saving
33:54
my life or keeping me in the
33:56
health that I'm in today, that all
33:59
came from research. and any organization
34:01
that funds research that gets
34:03
these scientists working together to
34:05
collaborate to find a cure,
34:07
I am there for it.
34:09
So we can all do
34:12
our part mentally, physically,
34:14
and maybe even financially. But
34:16
let's think about what we can
34:18
do to honor Shannon's memory, to
34:21
honor the women who are fighting
34:23
right now and the women who
34:26
don't even know they're about to.
34:28
receive that diagnosis and it happens
34:30
every day in this country and
34:33
more often than it should but
34:35
I just I want everyone I
34:37
want to end on a on
34:40
a positive note because there are
34:42
beautiful things that come out of
34:45
dealing with something so scary
34:47
and so awful and and the
34:49
number one most important thing
34:51
I learned is how to live that you
34:54
you can you can be living but
34:56
not really and Shannon Shannon,
34:58
I'm going to leave you
35:00
with my favorite thing
35:02
and I talk about
35:05
this a lot. Shannon
35:07
showed me the most amazing
35:09
cartoon that she said
35:11
she looked at almost
35:14
every day and I'll leave
35:16
you with this. It is
35:18
Snoopy and it is Charlie
35:21
Brown and Charlie Brown
35:24
says yellow Snoopy. And
35:26
Snoopy says, you got it
35:28
wrong. We don't only live
35:30
once. We only die once.
35:32
We live every day. And that
35:35
is what I think of every
35:37
day. And I think of
35:39
Shannon often, because she's the
35:41
one who showed me that
35:43
beautiful way to turn yellow
35:45
around. Yeah. We only die
35:47
once. We live every day. I
35:50
want to thank everyone for listening to
35:52
this episode of Let's Be Clear and
35:54
I want to thank the producers for
35:56
giving me the opportunity to share my
35:58
experience with Shannon, my experience. with breast
36:00
cancer and I hope that
36:02
my story connected with some
36:04
of you in a meaningful
36:07
way. And I also just
36:09
want to let everyone know
36:11
if you didn't know, please
36:13
check out Amy and TJ.
36:15
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36:17
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36:19
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36:21
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36:23
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36:25
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36:28
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36:42
hope you all have a
36:44
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