The Unsolved Murder of Kristin O’Connell

The Unsolved Murder of Kristin O’Connell

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itself. This is going to sense so random.

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But I remember in the dream someone was

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using PEMDAS to solve an equation. Oh my

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subtraction. Addition subtraction. Addition subtraction. Yes. And I

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I the first thought I had this morning

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now. And then I got really happy that

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I remembered it. And then I was like,

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that was the. weirdest set of events. One

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thing I was really good at in school

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was math weirdly. Yeah that's what I mean

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I was not great at math. I fucked

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moving on into the case of the day.

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The case of the day. I have an

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unsolved case today, which really infuriates me because

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there's kind of no reason that there should

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be unsolved. Yeah. So this is the unsolved

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murder of Kristen O'Connell. So let's get into

10:11

it. Kristen Marie O'Connell was born January 12th,

10:13

1965. She was one of two kids born

10:16

to Michael and Phyllis O'Connell, who raised her

10:18

and her brother Kyle in Burnsville, Minnesota. According

10:20

to Michael O'Connell, his daughter was a really

10:22

fun, really easygoing, outgoing child, but he said

10:25

she also had a very serious side. He

10:27

said she was somewhat religious and had put

10:29

a lot of thought into becoming a

10:31

nun, actually. Oh, wow. And you can find,

10:34

like, some evidence of Kristen's faith throughout her

10:36

early life. When her grandmother, who she was

10:38

really, really close with, died in 1975, 10-year-old

10:40

Kristen turned to her faith to help her

10:43

kind of cope with this loss. In a

10:45

letter written after her grandmother's death, she said,

10:47

she wrote, death is a subject pushed aside,

10:50

never talked about. I think it should be

10:52

talked about. It's a part of life. Some

10:54

people die fast, others die young, some old.

10:56

It all depends when God wants us with

10:59

him. Pretty fucking profound for a 10-year-old. It

11:01

is, and if that, like, it sounds like

11:03

it was like a comfort. Yeah, exactly. Now,

11:06

while Kristen would always take her faith pretty

11:08

seriously, she was also, in most respects, a

11:10

pretty typical Midwestern girl and a very ideal

11:12

daughter for her parents. Her mother Phyllis told

11:15

her reporter in 2023, we had a great

11:17

relationship, and she was the one all the

11:19

boys wanted to marry. Oh, I just think

11:22

is so sweet. Like a lot of girls

11:24

her age, and where she was from, she

11:26

had a deep love of horses, and she

11:28

worked part-time at a stable near Burnsville, and

11:31

she boarded her own horse there. She also

11:33

was remembered as being a very kind, very

11:35

open person. She trusted people without reservation. Her

11:38

aunt Barb said she was the type of

11:40

person that wanted to sit and chat about

11:42

anything and everything going on with her life.

11:44

She sounds just cool. Yeah, she just sounds

11:47

like a good person, like someone you- She's

11:49

beautiful too. She was gorge. Yeah. And just

11:51

someone you'd want to be friends with, you

11:54

know? Yeah, she just seems like a cool

11:56

chick. Yeah. So after graduating from high school,

11:58

Kristen was accepted to the University of Wisconsin-Stout,

12:00

where she majored in hotel and restaurant management.

12:03

Oh, which I feel like that'd be like

12:05

a pretty fucking fun career. And also, that's

12:07

really smart. Because that's not like, like, you,

12:10

you, you, you, you're really setting yourself, you,

12:12

you're really setting yourself, you, you're really setting

12:14

yourself, you, you're really setting yourself up, you're

12:16

really setting yourself up, you, you, you're really

12:19

setting yourself up, you, you're really setting yourself

12:21

up, you're really setting yourself up, a career.

12:23

Yeah, and also you have to be like

12:26

so organized. You have to be a level

12:28

of organization that I don't even think I

12:30

could ever acquire. Yeah, I can't even comprehend

12:32

it. And you also have to be a

12:35

real people person, like really good with people

12:37

and have a good demeanor, which it sounds

12:39

like she was kind of perfect for about.

12:42

Definitely. She sounds like she was like very

12:44

bubbly, you know? But in the spring of

12:46

her sophomore year, she took a vacation to,

12:48

I think it's Captiva Island, near Fort Myers,

12:51

Florida. And she was just celebrating spring break

12:53

with some of our friends, very typical. While

12:55

she was there, she met 18-year-old James Vermeer,

12:58

Jr., who was working on the island as

13:00

a waiter at the time. He had recently

13:02

graduated high school, where he'd grown up in

13:04

Ovid, New York, and he was planning to

13:07

go back home to Ovid in a few

13:09

months. So Kristen and James headed off immediately.

13:11

And actually, even after Kristen went home to

13:14

meet a soda at the end of spring

13:16

break, they were keeping in touch through letters

13:18

and phone calls. Now, after months of this

13:20

kind of like long-distance relationship of sorts, they

13:23

weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, but it seemed like

13:25

it was like kind of heading down

13:27

that road. Kristen decided that she wanted to

13:29

visit James in New York to get to

13:32

know him better. Because they've been contacting each

13:34

other, like contacting each other through letters and

13:36

phone. She's like, like, like, like, let's like,

13:38

let's spend some time some time, the rank

13:41

like going up the steps of the relationship

13:43

letter. Yeah, exactly. Also, remember when people wrote

13:45

letters? I know. Crazy. That's like, it's so

13:48

cute. It is. It is really cute. Penn

13:50

Palace. I know. So, since she wanted to

13:52

get to know him better, she planned a

13:54

visit for mid-August just a few weeks before

13:57

she was going to go back to Wisconsin's

13:59

stout for her junior year. Initially, Kristen... Phyllis

14:01

was kind of apprehensive about her daughter visiting

14:04

a boy that she didn't really know too

14:06

well, several states away and unaccompanied. I get

14:08

it. In fact, according to Kristen's brother Kyle,

14:10

his parents actually were arguing about it for

14:13

a few days before Kristen actually did leave.

14:15

The dad Michael eventually convinced his wife that

14:17

quote, it was time to let Kristen be

14:20

a woman and make her own decisions. So

14:22

Phyllis obviously eventually agreed to let her

14:24

go reasoning that Kristen had always been

14:26

a really responsible girl She'd always been

14:29

very trustworthy so there was really no

14:31

reason not to let her go other

14:33

than her own apprehension Yeah, of course,

14:35

which what an impossible position Yeah,

14:38

and it's hard. I mean she's an

14:40

adult technically well you want to give

14:42

her the independence and the freedom to

14:44

make choices and you can't tether them to

14:46

you for the rest of their lives as

14:48

much as we want to as well and

14:50

I think as soon as your kids turn

14:52

like 17 18 19 that's a really hard

14:54

age oh I can't even fathom because it's

14:57

just like uncharted territory yeah your whole up

14:59

until then you have been able to tether

15:01

them to you pretty much and it's your

15:03

your word like you have to you know

15:05

you got to make the rules and it's

15:07

like at that point you do Feel it's like

15:09

it must be this weird feeling of like

15:11

well I have to kind of give them a little

15:14

freedom But I don't want to at the same

15:16

time like I want to just keep them and

15:18

it's like a loss of control and control is

15:20

not always a bad thing You know, it's true,

15:22

but she was so excited when she left

15:25

that day She came in kissed me and

15:27

said mom don't worry everything's fine. It'll be

15:29

fine So with her parents' consent now,

15:31

Kristen traveled from Minnesota to Boston,

15:33

where a family friend picked her

15:35

up and then drove her to

15:37

Syracuse, New York, where James Vermeers

15:39

and one of his friends picked her

15:41

up. So Kristen arrived in New York on

15:43

the night of Monday, August 12th, and her

15:46

plan was to stay until that Friday. So

15:48

not a super long time. Yeah. She was

15:50

really, really excited about this trip. Super excited

15:52

to see James, like I said, get to

15:55

know him better. Yeah. But her enthusiasm started

15:57

to wane almost as soon as she arrived

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18:31

simply safe. Initially, James told

18:33

Kristen that he that she was

18:35

going to stay at his parents house

18:37

where he also lived. So like

18:39

very normal situation there. But when

18:42

she arrived in Ovid, he told

18:44

her that the plans had changed

18:46

unexpectedly and that instead they were

18:48

going to be staying in a

18:51

trailer on his parents property. Nah.

18:53

So that would like freak me out a

18:55

little bit. And I think... She definitely... Sounds

18:57

like she was a little put off by

18:59

it. Yeah, I feel like that would make

19:01

your like flight or fight senses kind of

19:03

kicking a bit, you know? Yeah. So she

19:05

was like, okay, like sounds good and she

19:07

told her mom and the change of plans

19:09

was concerning for Phyllis who believed her daughter

19:11

would be staying in a home with adults

19:13

present. Yeah. But she was like, you're already

19:15

there and I already told you you could go,

19:18

I trust you and you know, you're still on

19:20

their property so you'll be safe. So you'll be

19:22

safe. And again. A hard position. And again,

19:24

not a lot she can do with her

19:26

daughters, technically and exactly. So it's unclear how

19:28

the two spent their day on Tuesday, but

19:30

by the next day, Kristen reportedly went swimming

19:33

with James and his friends, and then the

19:35

group went to a local bar slash restaurant

19:37

where they shot a game of pool. On the

19:39

way back to the trailer, James stopped at a

19:41

store to buy some sandwiches, get some beers, and

19:43

then the group of eight went back to James'

19:45

trailer to hang out. And it was that

19:47

afternoon that Kristen received a second

19:50

piece of unwanted and unexpected and

19:52

unexpected news. For several months, she and

19:54

James had been corresponding, like I said,

19:56

with, you know, phone calls and letters,

19:58

and, you know, he had even invited her

20:00

to come visit him, giving the impression

20:03

that he had some kind of

20:05

romantic interest in her, obviously. But

20:07

according to Michael O'Connell, Kristen's

20:09

dad, while James was talking with Kristen, he

20:12

also had been dating a girl in New

20:14

York. Oh, so he's an asshole. Yeah, and

20:16

he, quote, planned to tell Kristen about it

20:18

when she arrived in Ovid. So you invited this

20:20

girl to another state so you could tell her

20:22

that you're dating someone else? It's like, why are

20:25

you allowing her to come to, like, there's obviously

20:27

nothing's going to happen between the two of you,

20:29

or like that's how you're making it seem.

20:31

That's a dick move. And nothing should happen

20:33

because you have a girlfriend. And obviously Kristen's

20:35

a very respectable girl, so she's like, fuck

20:37

you, nothing is going to happen. But you

20:40

let her get all the way out

20:42

there? No, that makes literally no sense.

20:44

That you have her travel to another

20:46

state so you can tell her that

20:49

you have a girlfriend. And she went

20:51

from Minnesota to Boston and then from

20:53

Boston to New York. Like this was

20:55

a lot of... But you could have

20:57

told her in a letter. Yeah. What's

21:00

wrong? Or a phone call. Yeah. This

21:02

was so much effort put into this

21:04

trip for you to just kind of

21:06

like crush her there. Yeah. So it

21:09

appears that James did finally tell Kristen

21:11

about his straight up girlfriend at some

21:13

point on the afternoon or the evening

21:15

of Tuesday August 14th after they got

21:17

back to the trailer. Also how'd your

21:19

girlfriend feel about that that you invited

21:21

a girl two states like states away

21:23

to come see you who you've been corresponding

21:26

with? Like I'm sorry that's weird as fuck.

21:28

It is weird. And also like were you

21:30

telling your girlfriend or your friend's gonna say

21:32

something to her like what is going on

21:34

here? It's a very strange situation. So upon

21:37

learning about James's relationship, Kristen called her mom

21:39

in Minnesota and told her the trip really

21:41

wasn't going as well as she hoped it

21:43

was, hoped it would, and she was going

21:45

to cut it short and actually come home

21:48

the next day. Oh, I just wonder, like

21:50

everything in my soul is like I just

21:52

want you to come home. Yeah. Same. So

21:54

according to Phyllis, Kristen quote sounded upset but

21:56

wouldn't say if anything was wrong. She was

21:59

just like she... was upset and she

22:01

was like oh my god and Phyllis

22:03

was probably wanting to just like reach

22:05

over and grab her and it sounds

22:07

like you know like it could have

22:09

been very much so like you know

22:12

like she's having a hard time because

22:14

she's an adult and she can't stop

22:16

her from going but you wonder if

22:18

she's that had some kind of maternal

22:20

instinct there and then like everybody else

22:22

made her second-guess that kind of thing

22:25

yeah you know or in she know

22:27

even she might have just second-guess to

22:29

be like Let them do what they

22:31

want. It's like, no, sometimes in this

22:33

world, you can't just... Yeah. You have

22:36

to trust her. You know what I

22:38

mean? The world just tells people like

22:40

this, like, oh, you're just being crazy.

22:42

You're just being overprotective. And it's like,

22:44

no, she's... Sometimes you just know. Yeah.

22:46

So... The group continued hanging out until

22:49

late into the evening. Remember they're all

22:51

hanging out at James's trailer. And around

22:53

11 p.m. James said he was going

22:55

to go pick up a pizza and

22:57

he left. And Kristen announced to the

23:00

rest of the group that she was

23:02

going to go out for a walk

23:04

like shortly after he left. According to

23:06

17 year old David Chamberlain who was

23:08

at the trailer that night, neither Kristen

23:10

nor James seemed upset. There was no

23:13

fights or arguments that broke out at

23:15

the party. He said she just went

23:17

out for a walk and didn't for

23:19

a walk and didn't come back and

23:21

didn't come back and didn't come back

23:23

and didn't come back and didn't come

23:26

back and didn't come back. So back

23:28

home in Burnsville, Kristen actually often took

23:30

late night walks by herself. Her and

23:32

her family lived on a subdivision, so

23:34

it was like a little safer to

23:37

go for a late night walk. So

23:39

she mostly, most likely didn't think twice

23:41

about going for a walk to clear

23:43

her head out here. But when Kristen

23:45

still hadn't returned after two hours, the

23:47

group at the party started to get

23:50

concerned. So they set on on foot

23:52

to look around the area for her.

23:54

And when she still hadn't been found

23:56

by the following afternoon, James called the

23:58

state police to report her missing. I'm

24:01

sorry, what? So she goes out for

24:03

a walk at around like a little

24:05

after 11 p.m. She doesn't return by

24:07

1 a.m. They go out and look

24:09

for her and they don't find her

24:11

and then presumably everybody just goes to

24:14

sleep and wakes up the next afternoon

24:16

and then calls the police. That's weird.

24:18

That is weird. That's weird. I'm not...

24:20

I'm not pointing fingers at anybody. That's

24:22

just weird. Objectively, that's fucking weird. Yeah.

24:25

Like if my... if I'm at a

24:27

party and it's not even like my

24:29

friend it's just like somebody at the

24:31

party and I hear that they're missing

24:33

and we go look for them and

24:35

don't find them when we don't find

24:38

them that's when we call the police

24:40

yeah we say okay we gotta call

24:42

the cops now because right and there

24:44

was plenty of people there that like

24:46

at least one of them should have

24:48

been like hey I think we should

24:51

call the police and followed through without

24:53

such a for sure for sure weird

24:55

yeah So after receiving the very late

24:57

report that Kristen O'Connell had gone missing,

24:59

a search team of about 90 police

25:02

officers and firefighters from four towns set

25:04

out from the Vermeer's house to look

25:06

for Kristen. About 90 minutes later, the

25:08

team found Kristen's body. She was not

25:10

alive. They found her body about 300

25:12

yards into a cornfield along Route 139,

25:15

which is a rural road about a

25:17

quarter mile from the trailer where she'd

25:19

last been seen. Ovid Fire Chief Robert

25:21

Favre said, I know that's what you

25:23

go on searches to find, but this

25:26

is an awful way to end it.

25:28

Usually when you go out on these

25:30

things, you find out the person you're

25:32

looking for is hundreds of miles away,

25:34

but you never know till you find

25:36

it. That's awful. Yeah. When she was

25:39

discovered, Kristen was fully nude. Her throat

25:41

had been slashed and she had also

25:43

been stabbed several times in the chest.

25:45

Oh my God! The scene had the

25:47

hallmarks of a sexual assault, but it

25:49

would quickly be determined that she had

25:52

not been raped. Oh wow. Major Richard

25:54

Tonsey told reporters, the apparent intentions may

25:56

have been a sexual attack, but it

25:58

may not have taken place, eventually ending

26:00

instead with murder. A few days later,

26:03

the medical examiner would label Kristen's death,

26:05

obviously a murder, a homicide, and there

26:07

was evidence that she had, quote, put

26:09

up a tremendous fight for her life.

26:11

And it was also determined that at

26:13

that time she had no drugs and

26:16

no alcohol in her system. So she

26:18

was fully sober. A cursory search of

26:20

the scene didn't really turn up as

26:22

much as far as evidence and there

26:24

was no sign of a murder weapon

26:27

anywhere in the area. Investigators took soil

26:29

samples, blood samples, and what little physical

26:31

evidence they could find and sent it

26:33

to a state lab in Binghampton for

26:35

testing. In the meantime, the press and

26:37

public became very concerned that there was

26:40

now a killer amongst them. A few

26:42

months earlier in May, convicted murderer Hugh

26:44

Column and Bernard Welch had escaped from

26:46

a Chicago correctional facility and were believed

26:48

to have fled to the northeast. So...

26:51

That was very concerning for people. They

26:53

were like, oh shit, did these two

26:55

have something to do with it? Welch

26:57

was arrested in Philadelphia in early August,

26:59

but at the time of Kristen's murder,

27:01

Colom was still on the loose. And

27:04

Tonzi told reporters, we've got an idea

27:06

that the murderer could have been in

27:08

the area and we've got a murder.

27:10

But he clearly stated that Colom was

27:12

not a suspect. Which is interesting. That

27:14

is interesting. A few months later, they

27:17

actually did arrest Colombe after he robbed

27:19

a bank in Mississippi. So he was

27:21

definitively ruled out as a suspect at

27:23

that point. So after Kristen's body was

27:25

removed from the field and all the

27:28

evidence was gathered, Tonsi and the other

27:30

state police investigators started interviewing witnesses and

27:32

just conducting like door-to-door canvases, basically. Everybody

27:34

at the party was quickly ruled out

27:36

as a suspect. Tonsi told reporters everybody

27:38

at that party came from well-to-do families

27:41

in this community. They are respected in

27:43

this area. Okay. Good to know. While

27:45

being from a wealthy family is hardly

27:47

evidence of innocence, because as we know,

27:49

wealthy people kill people too, and people

27:52

from wealthy families kill people too, quite

27:54

frequently actually. The group had been together

27:56

all evening, and with the exception of

27:58

James going out for pizza shortly before

28:00

Kristen left on the walk, none of

28:02

them had left the trailer other than

28:05

to go look for her. Okay. And

28:07

the medical examiner did place the time

28:09

of death somewhere between midnight and 1.30

28:11

a.m. and that was after James had

28:13

already gotten back to the party. Okay.

28:15

So there's that. Yeah. And this time

28:18

of death is was also supported by

28:20

what neighbors described as a quote unquote

28:22

horrific scream heard in the direction of

28:24

the cornfield between 1215 and 1230 a.

28:26

Now here's my call the police. Call

28:29

the police. police when you hear a

28:31

blood curtling scream in a cornfield, okay?

28:33

Well, and also if neighbors of this

28:35

family heard the scream, why didn't the

28:37

group? Why didn't the group, why didn't

28:39

the group on the, in the trailer?

28:42

valid. That's a valid question. Any sense

28:44

to me? Yeah, that's a valid question.

28:46

Did they hear the scream and then

28:48

that's when they went out looking out

28:50

looking, and then that's when they went

28:53

out looking for her for hours. Hmm.

28:55

Hmm. It's just weird. It's just all

28:57

that they got ruled out. They got

28:59

ruled out as suspects, but. But there's

29:01

just still some lingering questions. Yeah, and

29:03

it also happened quickly in my opinion.

29:06

Yeah. So even though they had been

29:08

ruled out as suspects in her murder,

29:10

it remains unclear why Kristen left the

29:12

party near midnight to go for a

29:14

walk in an area very unfamiliar to

29:17

her. Well, I think that's the thing.

29:19

It's like we're not pointing fingers and

29:21

anyone. It's just like there's some unanswered

29:23

questions that it doesn't seem like. had

29:25

enough attention. Yeah, exactly. That could be

29:27

missing pieces to a puzzle that may

29:30

not include them being part of it.

29:32

Yeah. It's just like, why weren't all

29:34

the pieces put together? Yeah, and also

29:36

just like, in retrospect, don't let somebody

29:38

go for a walk alone when they're

29:40

not familiar with this area. Yeah, that's

29:43

I'm not understanding. It's just sad that

29:45

she didn't have a friend. Yeah, that

29:47

makes me sad. And the one person

29:49

who was supposed to be her friend

29:51

had like kind of turned this trip

29:54

into a trip into a trip into

29:56

shitty, very shitty for, very shitty for

29:58

her. State Police Investigator Jeffrey Arnold said

30:00

in 2009 she did not do drugs.

30:02

It was not a drinker She may

30:04

have been uncomfortable at the party because

30:07

alcohol was involved and decided to take

30:09

a walk. Yeah, that makes sense. Others

30:11

suggested that, you know, Kristen was probably

30:13

upset that James had just told her

30:15

about his girlfriend and she maybe wanted

30:18

to go clear her head. And then

30:20

other people say, you know, maybe she

30:22

just wanted to get some air. She

30:24

didn't plan to be gone long. And

30:26

also, she was barefoot when she left

30:28

the party, which suggests that she didn't

30:31

plan to be gone for very long.

30:33

Yeah. Interesting, right? Very interesting. So whatever

30:35

reason for leaving the party, investigator soon

30:37

learned that Kristen might not have been

30:39

alone for the duration of her walk.

30:41

Despite being a rural Route 139 was

30:44

commonly used by locals as a shortcut

30:46

across town, and it also tended to

30:48

be busy with traffic going to the

30:50

Seneca Army Depot and the Golden Buck,

30:52

which is a popular restaurant and bar

30:55

and ovid. Sergeant Thomas Warren said, a

30:57

couple of passing motorists have told us

30:59

they saw people in two cars talking

31:01

to Kristen along the road at about

31:03

1145 p.m. Other witnesses reported seeing a

31:05

late 70s, greener blue sedan on Route

31:08

139, right around the time of the

31:10

murder, with one or possibly two male

31:12

occupants. And some of the witnesses told

31:14

police they believed the occupants may have

31:16

been trying to lure Kristen into the

31:19

car. Oh no. I mean, that's scary.

31:21

That she's just walking by herself. in

31:23

the dark yeah barefoot yeah like that's

31:25

in an unknown area yeah several witnesses

31:27

reported seeing the car with two men

31:29

inside but others told investigators they saw

31:32

quote two young white males walking behind

31:34

O'Connell shortly before police believed she was

31:36

killed oh that's so scary so there

31:38

might have been two people in that

31:40

car and then later people said they

31:43

saw two people walking behind her oh

31:45

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six months of investigation, police became decidedly

48:39

less optimistic in their prospects of catching

48:42

the killer. Senior investigator Robert Fainor said

48:44

in February of 1986, we've got very,

48:46

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48:49

evidence is almost nothing. We've got no

48:51

fingerprints, no suspects, no identification, no leads,

48:53

and no witnesses. Damn. By that point,

48:56

investigators had traveled to six different states

48:58

to interview potential witnesses and review similar

49:00

cases even, but after doing so. they

49:03

were still no closer to cracking the

49:05

case. Wow, this is brutal. And it

49:07

really isn't a lack of effort, it

49:10

seems. Yeah, it seems like they were

49:12

really trying. Right. In the months and

49:14

now years that followed Kristen's death, the

49:17

investigation lost steam, of course. But throughout

49:19

that period, her parents, Phyllis and Michael

49:21

O'Connell, kept their own investigation going of

49:24

their daughter's murder in hopes of finding

49:26

the killer. Yeah. Almost immediately upon learning

49:28

of Kristen's death, they hired a private

49:31

investigator, but the result of that investigator's

49:33

report has not been made public. In

49:35

August of 1986, a year after Kristen's

49:38

murder, Phyllis and Michael actually traveled to

49:40

Ovid in the hope that their presence

49:42

might inspire somebody to come forward. On

49:45

a visit to the crime scene, Phyllis

49:47

told a reporter, you always hope that

49:49

you can see something nobody else has

49:52

noticed. Of course. I can't imagine being

49:54

like in that position. They must have

49:56

been so frustrated. Yeah, still be so

49:59

frustrated. And just the... like desperate for

50:01

anything. To the O'Connell's, the lack of

50:03

progress in the case was unfathomable, which

50:06

obviously Michael said, it might not have

50:08

been a person who lives in Ovid,

50:10

but someone who lives 20 or even

50:13

100 miles away, but knew the area

50:15

around here. It's just very hard for

50:17

us to grasp the concept of this

50:20

being a random thing. Yeah. Of course.

50:22

Investigators did acknowledge that it was possible

50:24

that Kristen was the victim of a

50:27

serial killer and they insisted that they

50:29

were checking similar crimes reported around the

50:31

country, but still, they weren't getting anything.

50:34

Jesus, really? I know. So the following

50:36

August 1987, the O'Connells were back in

50:38

Ovid on the second anniversary now of

50:41

Kristen's murder, and this time they were

50:43

in the company of two psychics that

50:45

they hired back home in Burnsville. I

50:48

don't believe them. I don't either. At

50:50

that, two years of unanswered questions, I

50:52

would be. going to psychics myself. Michael

50:54

told a reporter the information they have

50:57

supplied us with thus far has provided

50:59

a couple of very strong leads and

51:01

we hope this will be resolved in

51:04

a short period of time. Oh man,

51:06

the hope. I know. The psychics agreed

51:08

with Michael O'Connell sentiment though. One of

51:11

them said the feelings and psychic impressions

51:13

in this area are as strong as

51:15

they were two years ago. My impression

51:18

is that there are people who have

51:20

substantial knowledge of this murder. I mean...

51:22

I don't think that was like... You

51:25

know how I feel about psychics at

51:27

crime scenes? I think that's a little,

51:29

uh... I could also say that. That's

51:32

the thing. Yeah, it's like, okay, that

51:34

wasn't... I don't know if that was

51:36

a prediction so much as a commentary

51:39

on the case. It's just something that

51:41

is common knowledge. Yeah. Yeah. But the

51:43

psychics who came to Ovid with the

51:46

O'Connell's may have given them hope that

51:48

their daughter's murder would be solved, but

51:50

as we know we're And this is

51:53

awful. In 1993, tragedy struck again when

51:55

Michael O'Connell died unexpectedly at the age

51:57

of 51. Oh, super young. Super young.

52:00

He never obviously learned who was responsible

52:02

for his daughter's death. Damn. Yeah. So

52:04

now for years Kristen O'Connell's case was

52:07

shelved as investigators shifted their attention to

52:09

new and more pressing matters. But then

52:11

in early 1996, a hair sample found

52:14

on Kristen's body led investigators to a

52:16

man named Gary Harris. He was a

52:18

former Ovid resident who was 15 at

52:21

the time of the murder. Okay. According

52:23

to Seneca County District Attorney Donna Caffe,

52:25

Harris was quote, seen in the area

52:28

where O'Connell was staying on the night

52:30

of her murder. Huh. At the time

52:32

of the murder, the Harris were only

52:35

identifiable as belonging to a black male,

52:37

but Harris came to the attention of

52:39

investigators after he was arrested for an

52:42

armed robbery in New York in 1996.

52:44

Okay. Unfortunately, though, a month after announcing

52:46

Harris as a suspect, the lab results

52:49

came back as inconclusive on the hair

52:51

sample. Ugh. And investigators were forced to

52:53

rule Harris out as a suspect. Although

52:56

nearly 15 years would pass before the

52:58

O'Connell case was back in the news,

53:00

the testing of the hair sample in

53:03

1996 was a strong indication that forensic

53:05

evidence could very well be the thing

53:07

that solved Kristen's murder. And I still

53:10

believe it could be. Oh man. By

53:12

the time the case was back in

53:14

the headlines, 25 years had passed and

53:17

in that time, like we know, scientific

53:19

and technological advances had made it possible

53:21

to solve cold cases with the evidence

53:24

that had just been sitting on... shelves

53:26

for decades. Yeah, absolutely. I've seen it

53:28

happen so many times. Look at the

53:31

Golden State killer. Yeah. In Kristen's case,

53:33

like I said, blood samples and skin

53:35

fragments had been collected from her body

53:38

that could lead to her killer. But

53:40

as it turned out, things wouldn't be

53:42

quite as easy as submitting the samples

53:45

for DNA testing. Why? In August 2009,

53:47

New York State Police had received approval

53:49

of funds for up to $40,000 in

53:52

order to hire a Dutch forensic lab

53:54

known for their pioneering work and touch

53:56

DNA. Let's go. And that's a type

53:59

of analysis that can identify an individual

54:01

from a smallest. But the problem was

54:03

that the New York State Health Department

54:06

refused to allow investigators to contract with

54:08

the Amsterdam-based company because they weren't certified

54:10

in New York. Come on. In his

54:13

statement to the press, District Attorney Richard

54:15

Swinehart told reporters, we feel this is

54:17

our last best effort to solve this

54:20

case. We are very frustrated with the

54:22

bureaucracy of the Department of Health and

54:24

that they won't take a world-leading lab

54:26

where the lab people have testified in

54:29

other states in our country as experts

54:31

on homicide cases and won't let them

54:33

at least examine the evidence while they're

54:36

being certified. Yeah, that's New York, get

54:38

it fucking together. That's weird. That's suspicious.

54:40

That's real fucking suspicious. Yeah. Why the

54:43

fuck? Why? Why? Yeah. Are you kidding

54:45

me? That doesn't make any sense. That's

54:47

infuriating. It doesn't make any sense. It

54:50

doesn't make any sense. Kristen's family was

54:52

equally frustrated with the state's decision to

54:54

deny the testing until the lab applied

54:57

for and received certification in New York.

54:59

Kristen's brother Kyle O'Connor said they're railroading

55:01

for their own purposes. There could be

55:04

no other reason. Yeah, why the fuck

55:06

would you stop that? And he said

55:08

they're, and this is a quote from

55:11

him, they're covering something up. They haven't

55:13

come up with a good viable reason

55:15

why they should not be allowed. And

55:18

it's wild to me that they're like,

55:20

you know you look shady. So if

55:22

you're not covering something up, guess what?

55:25

You look like you're covering something up.

55:27

You look shady. So it's like you

55:29

should probably move this forward so that

55:32

you can stop everybody from thinking you

55:34

did something fucked up. Yeah, exactly. Because

55:36

right now, I think you did something

55:39

fucked up. Well, the family was again

55:41

disappointed in 2010 when they learned that

55:43

a forensic scientist who had been named

55:46

in an evidence falsification case possibly handled

55:48

evidence in Kristen's case. Shut the fuck

55:50

up. This scientist is said to have

55:53

falsified data in multiple cases and then

55:55

went on to falsify records to cover

55:57

up that fake data. I

56:00

am speechless. Which like, why? Like why?

56:03

Why? Why? You are fucking with people's

56:05

lives. Like just do your job. Phyllis

56:07

said, I mean my god, this is

56:09

an important job they're doing. Yeah. And

56:12

how could they allow this and not

56:14

be supervised properly? It's just beyond me.

56:16

Yeah. But what I will tell you

56:18

is that there's a petition we are

56:21

going to share on socials and in

56:23

the show notes and it surrounds all

56:25

of the DNA testing and Christine's case

56:28

and it goes into more detail about

56:30

the issues that the family has faced

56:32

trying to get the DNA tested. Okay.

56:34

And importantly, most importantly, is asking the

56:37

New York State Health Commissioner to approve

56:39

that lab. Let's go, motherfucker. I'm going

56:41

to share it and we are all

56:43

going to sign this. What are you

56:46

doing? Come on. Like come on. This

56:48

literal DNA. Like what are you doing?

56:50

And it's degrading the more it sits.

56:52

Exactly. And it's like you're just waiting

56:55

for it to degrade? That's it. Well,

56:57

that's exactly it. What the book? Also

56:59

this specific lab? Like, they're pioneers in

57:01

this. They are exactly. Like, they know

57:04

what they're doing with this. So it's

57:06

weird that you're not allowing them to

57:08

even look at it while they're getting

57:10

certain. And like, like, like, like, like,

57:13

like, like, not even really giving a

57:15

valid reason. No. It's shady. And if

57:17

you don't look shady, let them test

57:20

it. Yes, you don't want to look

57:22

shady, then let them do it. Despite

57:24

the best efforts of the O'Connell family

57:26

though, investigators even, and several high-profile politicians

57:29

actually, it appears that the skin fragments

57:31

discovered on Kristen's body still have not

57:33

been submitted for DNA testing. That's shameful

57:35

as fuck. Yeah, that is shameful. Many

57:38

many, like even politicians have been calling

57:40

on the New York State Health Department

57:42

being like, just allow this, just sign

57:44

off on it. Can't let up on

57:47

that. But now, 40 years after her

57:49

daughter's death. O'Connell worries that her daughter's

57:51

case will never be solved because of

57:53

this. Oh, we can't let that happen.

57:56

And soon she worries that there will

57:58

be nobody left to advocate for Kristen.

58:00

In 2023, she said, I promised Kristen

58:03

till the day I die I will

58:05

be after who killed her. And after

58:07

four decades her message remains the same

58:09

as it did the day she learned

58:12

her daughter was murdered. She said don't

58:14

keep secrets, don't keep something like this

58:16

going because maybe the next person might

58:18

be your daughter and you will know

58:21

the kind of pain it is to

58:23

lose a daughter and especially through murder.

58:25

That just like destroys my soul. Everyone

58:27

go sign that petition. I'm gonna, we're

58:30

gonna put it in the show notes

58:32

and we'll share it on socials as

58:34

well. It's a long link, so if

58:36

I read it here, it'll get lost.

58:39

So I'll put it in here, it'll

58:41

get lost. So I'll put it in

58:43

socials and again on the show notes.

58:46

Yep, so it'll be right at the

58:48

bottom of this episode in the show

58:50

notes, you'll be able to see it

58:52

and link, because... I wish I had

58:55

that shit everywhere. I want this. I

58:57

want them to have to move on

58:59

this. I want them to have to

59:01

move on this and I want Phyllis

59:04

at least to be able to. I

59:06

want Phyllis to see the movement. Right.

59:08

And not have to live every day

59:10

worrying that she's going to pass away

59:13

someday without knowing what happened to her

59:15

daughter. And that this DNA is sitting

59:17

there who has the technology. To at

59:19

least try to do this. Right. Right.

59:22

Just give it a shot. What the

59:24

fuck are we doing? Stopping murders from

59:26

being solved through red tape. Fuck that.

59:29

Yeah, it shouldn't even be a thing.

59:31

Fuck that. It shouldn't be a thing.

59:33

So definitely sign that petition and also

59:35

anybody with information about this case because

59:38

somebody out there knows something. Yeah. Any

59:40

information, anybody with any information is asked

59:42

to contact the New York State Police

59:44

and that number is 585-984125. I want

59:47

this case to be solved. I want

59:49

them to submit that DNA. I want...

59:51

that to at least be put into

59:53

motion. Yeah, it's gone. Nobody's saying that

59:56

it's like that 100% it's gonna work,

59:58

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died without knowing what happened here. Her

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