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Welcome back to another episode of Bossing Up. I'm Taryn and today we're diving

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into a topic that I believe is fundamental,

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to not only our own growth but the growth of the world around us and loving ourselves and others.

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In a world that can sometimes feel divided or even downright competitive,

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I think it's important to ask ourselves why are we so often set up to see each

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other's competition why do we sometimes want to see each other fail instead

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of succeed the importance of self-love,

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i believe everything starts with self-love when

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you genuine genuinely love yourself your quirks

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your flaws your uniqueness it sets

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the foundation for how you interact with everyone

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else self-love isn't about

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being selfish or arrogant it's about

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accepting yourself knowing your worth and

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treating yourself with respect now we

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truly embrace who we are we're less likely to feel insecure threatened or envious

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of other's success right instead we begin to see others as inspirations not competitors.

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We don't need others to lose

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for us to feel validated we've already got that validation within ourselves

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now let's take this concept a step further imagine if we could all see each

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other as allies rather than competitors.

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What if instead of waiting for someone to stumble, we'd shared them on and help them along the way?

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So, in an ideal world, we would all want each other to succeed, right?

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This is my dream. This is my biggest question.

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If I had to ask a question to say, like, I had to put it this way.

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Music.

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If you had a question that you could ask whoever one question you got to ask my question would be.

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Why does why do we want to see others fail and that's how I feel about this world is that,

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it's it pains me because I watch and I feel others wanting,

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each other to fail instead of succeed,

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instead of cheering each other on and wanting each other to grow and to win

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And that's why I created this podcast today,

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because I want to share my insight into loving each other and wanting...

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So, if we want a society that thrives, a community that innovates,

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and a future that's brighter, then we need each other.

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No one does it alone. Not even the biggest names or the most successful people in history. We can't do it alone.

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We need to support each other. We create a space where everyone is allowed to

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be the best version of themselves. And that right there is a powerful thing.

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So why is it that in reality some people seem to actually root for others to fail?

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Why do some people feel that they can only rise if others fall?

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Often that mentality comes from

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insecurity or lack of self-love if

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others feel like they're lacking or they're

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not good enough they may try to bring others down

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to make themselves feel better now this is where the problem lies it's a coping

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mechanism a defense but it's also a weak foundation No one ever built anything

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meaningful by tearing others down.

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Imagine... Music.

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Other and encourage

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one another we could create a civilization that's

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more advanced and coherent a world that just works better now imagine a world

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where everyone lifted each other up where we could all lean on each other learn

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from one another and grow together.

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That's a world where people are empowered, not defeated, where dreams are realized

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because there's a community rallying behind them.

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That's the kind of world I want to live in. How about you?

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It's true that we don't want to

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change everyone's mindset and we

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can't but we can change our

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own we can start today by cheering on others and showing up for people and remembering

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that their success is not our failure their success is a win for all of us so So.

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If there's one takeaway from today's episode,

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I want it to be this. Love yourself deeply, first and foremost. Then extend that love outwards.

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Support others and cheer them on.

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And try and create a world where we all thrive together.

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It all starts with one person and that's you one

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shift in perspective one decision to lift others up instead of pulling them

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down if we each take responsibility for creating that positive energy imagine what we could achieve,

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thank you for tuning in today, if you enjoyed this episode please share it with someone that could use a little inspiration,

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remember how powerful you are you are enough and you're part of something bigger,

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until next time keep bossing up and let's make this world a better place for all of us.

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