Carly Pearce | Started from Dollywood, Now We’re Here (Touring the World)!

Carly Pearce | Started from Dollywood, Now We’re Here (Touring the World)!

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Carly Pearce | Started from Dollywood, Now We’re Here (Touring the World)!

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friends come back on the pot and

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today we have a three-peak guest, The

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One, the Only, Grammy-winning, CMA-Slaying, Country Queen,

1:32

my friend, Carly Pierce. She's been busy

1:34

selling out shows across the world and

1:36

dropping new music. Not a big deal.

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So we have so much to catch

1:40

up on and I'm excited for you

1:43

to hear our conversation. Let's talk about

1:45

your hummingbird world tour world tour like

1:47

do you say that sometimes you're like

1:49

I? Started from Dollywood now I'm here.

1:51

Now I'm on a world tour. Now

1:53

you're on a world tour like that's

1:55

selling out shows in the UK is

1:58

something that I'm like that's goals. We

2:00

just got back I was there for

2:02

the whole month of February yeah it

2:04

truly was some of my favorite shows

2:06

of my career really yes tell me

2:08

why the fans over there and You

2:10

know, you have these fans in America

2:12

as well, but they just aren't as

2:14

united, I guess, but the fans over

2:17

there, they just love album cuts, they

2:19

listen, they care about songwriting, they care

2:21

about like all these little things that

2:23

you've put together for an album, they

2:25

just get it. It's almost like you're

2:27

playing these big venues, but it feels

2:29

like the Blue Word Cafe in the

2:31

show. And that's like... who I am.

2:33

And so I just go over there

2:36

and I'm like, I think I'm moving

2:38

here. I love all of you. Can

2:40

I come with? Yes, let's go. It's

2:42

like my dream one day to either

2:44

live like some Just I want to

2:46

be one with the Europeans. Yes. They

2:48

get it. They do. They do every

2:50

way too. Like they're friendly, they care

2:52

about the environment, they care about other

2:55

people, they're healthy. Yes. Their food is

2:57

not full of shit. Even I had

2:59

McDonald's over there and I was like,

3:01

wow, this doesn't taste as good. And

3:03

then I was like, oh, probably because

3:05

it's not. You know, I think McDonald's

3:07

over there tastes better. You do? Yes.

3:09

Maybe it's not like it's just nasty

3:11

for me. Well, you're speaking to somebody

3:14

who literally my love language is McDonald's.

3:16

Like, I love McDonald's so much. I

3:18

used to go in the high school

3:20

that I went to in my small

3:22

town growing up. There was only one

3:24

McDonald's. I'd go there every single day

3:26

for lunch. Stop it. And they knew

3:28

it a McKaitlin was. Stop it. Stop

3:31

it. Oh, so good. And they knew.

3:33

I went every single day. It was

3:35

crazy. I'm like, that is not good

3:37

for you. But you like it better

3:39

over there. I like it better over

3:41

there. I mean, I definitely don't feel

3:43

as bad. I think maybe that's why.

3:45

Yeah. When I lived in Germany, I

3:47

ate McDonald's there a lot. And I

3:50

was always like, I felt like energized.

3:52

Totally like pasta, bread, like all the

3:54

things. And I just didn't feel about

3:56

their beer and wine are like legally

3:58

made with surf. ingredients like beer can

4:00

only have three certain ingredients in it

4:02

in Europe like hops barley and alcohol

4:04

they're just like a Guinness in Ireland

4:06

yes yeah all my band they had

4:09

quite a few really went out one

4:11

night in in Dublin oh and they

4:13

Guinness it up and I drank really

4:15

bad Praseko and had a oh shoot

4:17

oh that's I'm not I can't drink

4:19

beer I can in Europe in Europe

4:21

over there I can drink Guinness And

4:23

Guinness and Europe is really where it's

4:25

at. Dublin's like one of my favorite

4:28

places too. Okay, so World Tour, you're

4:30

just crushing it. I was going to

4:32

ask the difference about the fans, but

4:34

you kind of just talked about it

4:36

because I've talked to other country artists,

4:38

which is like recently too, and they

4:40

said that they really appreciate the music

4:42

over there. Yeah, and I don't know.

4:44

I mean, obviously we have a festival.

4:47

It's actually going on right now. I

4:49

played it last year called C to

4:51

C2C, the country to C, the country

4:53

to country festival, where a country festival,

4:55

where a country festival. So it's not

4:57

like it's a new thing that country

4:59

artists are going over there, but I

5:01

just feel like right now there is

5:04

just they are so excited about every

5:06

country artist coming over. Yeah, that's fun.

5:08

I feel like Canada is kind of

5:10

like that too. Canada is amazing to

5:12

play. Canadians really do love country music.

5:14

They do. Yeah, that's cool. Like what

5:16

is the most surreal moment of being

5:18

on a world tour? Was there something

5:20

that stood out where you're like? That

5:23

was a moment? I mean, they, it's

5:25

so funny, over there, they love to

5:27

give you really long, like, applause. Oh.

5:29

And sometimes they do standing innovations, like

5:31

in the movies. Yeah. So I'll play

5:33

like my most ballad ballad that I

5:35

can't play in America because at a

5:37

country festival, they're like, stop with the

5:39

ballad, more beer. Yeah. And they just

5:42

applaud several shows. It was like over

5:44

a minute where we couldn't. start talking

5:46

or playing because they just loved it.

5:48

The most validating feeling of all time?

5:50

I sent a voice text to my

5:52

manager and I was like, I swear

5:54

I'm completely sober. I feel the most

5:56

understood I've ever felt my life. over

5:58

here, I love it. Yeah, I was

6:01

just like, oh, I loved it. You

6:03

feel like your talent is like respected

6:05

and you feel seen. Yeah. I always

6:07

think that when I'm at a concert,

6:09

I look around always, I'm like, do

6:11

people even hear the lyrics? Are we

6:13

just like, I'll try to get drunk

6:15

and have a good time, which is

6:17

great too. Yeah. I like, because I

6:20

always, I love listening to people's lyrics.

6:22

And. I would like to go, actually

6:24

now that's all my bucket list. I

6:26

want to go to a country show

6:28

in Europe or the UK. You should.

6:30

Yeah. They just, they get it. They

6:32

get it. Yeah, I've, or at least

6:34

they get me. I love them. That's

6:37

amazing. Maybe when you share this episode,

6:39

I'll get me. That's amazing. Maybe when

6:41

you share this episode, I'll get a

6:43

bunch of European fans, and then I

6:45

can go do off the vine. They

6:47

would, they would be right of a

6:49

bit of a barrier. I don't, I

6:51

don't, I don't, I don't know. Who

6:53

knows? I love them. Yeah. If I

6:56

had somebody stand up and give me

6:58

applause for over a minute, I really

7:00

would feel seen. I was like, I

7:02

feel like I could do anything. I

7:04

was joking, I was like, am I

7:06

Kerry Underwood? I'm not sure. I know.

7:08

I would probably feel like that if

7:10

I was doing like a live podcast.

7:12

What's something about touring internationally that people

7:15

might not realize is actually really hard.

7:17

So we travel on a tour bus,

7:19

which is. Fine, and the tour buses

7:21

over there are fine. If you're tall,

7:23

you have to kind of bend down

7:25

because the ceiling is lower than America.

7:27

In the bus? Yes, so you would

7:29

think that's not that bad, but when

7:31

you're on it for a month. Yeah,

7:34

that's a lot. It's a little hard.

7:36

But you have to take, if you

7:38

go from like the UK to Ireland,

7:40

you take a ferry ride. So your

7:42

tour bus literally gets on, oh wow,

7:44

like a cruise ship pretty much. I

7:46

don't like that. So like the motion,

7:48

just like traveling like that is a

7:51

lot. Food can be different. You know,

7:53

I would get scared of like, oh,

7:55

is this gonna make my stomach hurt

7:57

for my show or, and the time

7:59

difference, just like you're living. in a

8:01

different way. several times. I go like

8:03

a few days for fun just to

8:05

get acclimated and then we start working.

8:07

Oh, that's nice. God, that's my dream.

8:10

I want to do a world tour.

8:12

You got to do it. I know

8:14

world tour just also makes you feel

8:16

like hearing underwood. Yeah, like saying world

8:18

tour and selling out. It was fun.

8:20

A world tour. I'm so proud of

8:22

you. Thanks. That's so freaking cool. What

8:24

is I know the tour bus is

8:26

difficult, but what's one thing you need

8:29

to have on. Wine and yes. Running

8:31

shoes. I love to run and I

8:33

feel like that's something I can do

8:35

anywhere I don't need to go to

8:37

a gym Yeah, you are a runner.

8:39

I know I forget you're one of

8:41

those I'm one of those weird people

8:43

I don't want to be No, I

8:45

want to be one of those weird

8:48

people. No, I want to be one

8:50

of those weird people. I just can't

8:52

I can't just put all my shoes

8:54

and run. I'm like that was lifting

8:56

weights Okay, see I I have to

8:58

lift weights. Somebody has to tell me

9:00

what to do or I'm not going

9:02

to do it. Same. Okay. Yeah. But

9:04

I don't love it like I love

9:07

running. Oh see and I love. See?

9:09

I walk out of lifting weights like

9:11

my testosterone is just jacked and I'm

9:13

like, I love it so much. Wait,

9:15

so when you go to Europe you

9:17

probably can't bring... Johnny and June. Johnny

9:19

and June stay with my parents. They

9:21

stay with game on Gampolm. Yeah, so

9:24

it's a little hard. They have, we

9:26

have like a whole country music family

9:28

down there. Yes, they have animals and

9:30

they keep them sometimes just because I

9:32

know certain dogs just because I know

9:34

certain dogs are really good at being

9:36

on the road. Johnny and June, they

9:38

like it for like a minute and

9:40

then they're good. They don't love it.

9:43

Well and it's nice to know they're

9:45

with like your family and they're with

9:47

like your family and they're like your

9:49

family and they're like your family and

9:51

they're like your family and they're like

9:53

your family and they're like. The Greek

9:55

theater. I want to play there. I

9:57

love a theater. That's like my thing.

9:59

But that's one that I haven't got

10:02

to play that I'd love. up too.

10:04

That would be really cool. Yeah, theaters

10:06

are, I mean, even just doing theaters

10:08

from the Dancing with the Stars tour.

10:10

I was like, God, it's just so,

10:12

I don't know what it is about

10:14

a theater. It feels more intimate, I

10:16

guess. And like old school and traditional.

10:18

Yeah. There's something about still being able

10:21

to connect with people. And I, I.

10:23

when you come to my show it's

10:25

not like you've been to them it's

10:27

not like fireworks and video walls and

10:29

all this stuff and I know that

10:31

was awesome for some people but for

10:33

me it's really about that connection yeah

10:35

for me to do that if it's

10:37

an arena or stadium I just like

10:40

the theater that's a good point actually

10:42

I think that really showcases your like

10:44

voice and your I just I've always

10:46

said this to you but like you're

10:48

such a historic voice is that what

10:50

I'm trying to say you really have

10:52

that Authentic country timeless. I didn't want

10:54

to say it, but I was like,

10:57

I think that's what she wants. That's

10:59

exactly the word that I was looking

11:01

for. You have a timeless voice, and

11:03

I feel like when people come to

11:05

your shows, it's like so impressive because

11:07

you're not distracted by everything. You're like

11:09

in it. My favorite shows to go

11:11

to are shows at like the Rhyman,

11:13

where it's just the artist and like

11:16

they're banned, and they're just... come and

11:18

watch me sing. Yeah, you're fun on

11:20

stage. I actually really enjoy your shows.

11:22

Thanks. Because you do, I feel like

11:24

you connect really well with a crowd.

11:26

I like it. Yeah. That's why I

11:28

like it. You can tell you like

11:30

it too, which is also very important.

11:32

Have you ever been to a show

11:35

where you can tell somebody who doesn't

11:37

want to be there? I don't think

11:39

I have. I've played shows I didn't

11:41

want to be there. Really? I'm sure

11:43

that you just got to turn it

11:45

on for you. I'm

11:47

not because my Advil finally kicked in,

11:49

but... I saw your story. Oh God,

11:51

the cramps, I'm like, why do I

11:54

have to suffer so bad every month?

11:56

It's so funny because I was June,

11:58

speaking of my... dogs has kennel cough

12:00

which I you know had that once

12:02

oh my god it sounds like she's

12:04

like dying it's like I said to

12:06

I have a couple girlfriends that I

12:08

saw this morning and I was like

12:10

how you guys have children like how

12:12

do you handle them being sick because

12:14

literally she would cough or sneeze and

12:16

I was like Oh, I know. Yeah.

12:18

What did they say? Because I would

12:20

be, I don't know how. She literally

12:22

said, sit there and watch, make sure

12:24

they breathe. Yeah. So I was like,

12:26

okay, I'm doing that with my dog,

12:28

but. Oh my gosh, kennel cough. It

12:30

broke my heart when Pino had that.

12:32

I know. Cough knew so helpless. I

12:34

was so helpless. I know. But she's

12:37

still playing, and then she'll cough. I'm

12:39

like, I'm like. That's us. Everyone hates

12:41

us. They're like, whatever. Like, oh no,

12:43

you have cute dogs, dogs, cramps. I

12:45

do, I get it so bad though.

12:47

I really, I was like, when I

12:49

got home yesterday from walking the boys,

12:51

I had to grab onto the counter

12:53

and moan I was in so much

12:55

pain. Oh. Like, I actually was like,

12:57

oh, I wish I had my, the

12:59

camera in my house, I wish it

13:01

was facing me and caught that because.

13:03

I literally looked like I was going

13:05

into labor. I'm very lucky. I don't

13:07

have bad cramps. I never have, so

13:09

I'm like very thankful. I didn't until

13:11

later in my life because degenerative, I

13:13

don't know, uterus, what's going on? I

13:15

have like fibroids everywhere and I'm like,

13:17

coo, coo, coo, coo, great. Like now

13:20

the cramps come? I'm like, can't I

13:22

get a break? I think that's kind

13:24

of when I start to be like,

13:26

okay, I'm just a home body this

13:28

thing. Which is kind of interesting to

13:30

think about what I do for a

13:32

living. I think a lot of artists

13:34

are. Especially, you know, I've been doing

13:36

this almost 10 years and there's just

13:38

like this point now where like I

13:40

own a home and I just have

13:42

put a lot of my heart into

13:44

it, you get it. It's like, I

13:46

just, I love being here. There's something

13:48

about it that I really love. You've

13:50

made it your home? Yeah. And I

13:52

feel like people who do, we're so

13:54

lucky to get to be able to

13:56

travel all the time, but it really

13:58

makes you appreciate homes. Totally. So much

14:00

more, where people, I do feel like,

14:02

because were you always a home body,

14:05

like your life, or was it once

14:07

you started like traveling the world and

14:09

being like, I'm tired, I'm appreciating homework.

14:11

Yeah, I think so. It's that for

14:13

sure. I'm like, I love to go

14:15

to go to go to the grocery

14:17

store. I love to do laundry now.

14:19

That's like a normalcy to me. Like

14:21

walking down the street in my neighborhood

14:23

or whatever. I still laugh at your

14:25

fail fall and how you did that.

14:27

Uh-huh. And it was like boom. And

14:29

you just kept landing on your tailbone

14:31

That was one of my favorite videos

14:33

ever, but what is what has been

14:35

your like biggest tour fail so far

14:37

that Really literally let me set the

14:39

scene for you because it was an

14:41

unfortunate day for me. Okay, so we're

14:43

playing a festival or I'm sorry like

14:45

a fair in Iowa, yeah, which Iowa

14:48

fares they go hard like they actually

14:50

really love it. I've heard that yeah,

14:52

they are you you get to a

14:54

venue or you get to like a

14:56

field and you're like a field and

14:58

you're like Nobody's gonna be here and

15:00

then everybody shows are all there. I

15:02

was sick I had some kind of

15:04

like bronchitis thing. How the fuck do

15:06

you say bronchitis? Oh it Well, okay,

15:08

I take all this medication. No, and

15:10

I kind of over Medicaid I'm a

15:12

little bit of like a I don't

15:14

know what that is. What is that

15:16

called like? I do everything to an

15:18

extreme level. I'm like, I do a

15:20

lot of pills. I'm a little bit

15:22

of an extremist in everything. So like,

15:24

you know, when they're like, oh, you

15:26

should only take one puff of affron

15:28

every two hours. I'm like, like huffing

15:31

it, trying to be able to sing.

15:33

So I'm like taking affron, taking other

15:35

medications. So I get ready to. get

15:37

up on stage to sing and it

15:39

had been raining. Oh, and then I'm

15:41

like, you know when you're sick and

15:43

you're like sweating? So I'm sweating. I

15:45

don't want to sing. I have like

15:47

tons of extensions and fake eyelashes on

15:49

makeup and I feel like shit. Yeah.

15:51

And I'm all. like my third song

15:53

so we're we're in we're in like

15:55

the very beginning of a 90-minute show

15:57

oh gosh so I'm like and I'm

15:59

singing next girl and I walk down

16:01

the catwalk so I'm like really close

16:03

to these people yeah so I fall

16:05

and my base player said he saw

16:07

it happened and he was like oh

16:09

my god but I got back up

16:11

so fast and we all joke like

16:13

my lyrics and my lyrics and my

16:16

song are like I bet you probably

16:18

met him at a bar. So I

16:20

missed, met you probably met him. And

16:22

all of a sudden I just, I'm

16:24

getting up and I go, out of

16:26

bar. And I got just so defeated.

16:28

I was like, and I had this

16:30

moment after that, where I thought I

16:32

was going to start crying. I think

16:34

I did cry a little bit. And

16:36

I was like, oh, I'm so embarrassed.

16:38

Like, I want a rough stage. I

16:40

hate this. send the video and we

16:42

got that angle and my assistant Sydney

16:44

she sent she's like You need to

16:46

let me do this. You need to

16:48

let me make this video. And so

16:50

Sydney made it and it's to this

16:52

day I gained over a hundred thousand

16:54

followers Over that video, and it is

16:56

my most you know I make all

16:59

these like heartfelt moments No, no, it

17:01

was that and Gwen Stefani I know

17:03

her and she was like this is

17:05

amazing. Oh my god. That's oh, yeah,

17:07

because didn't you tour with Blake? Yes.

17:09

Oh my god. That's so funny. That's

17:11

so funny. But I like wanted I

17:13

like wanted to cry I like want

17:15

to cry after because I'm like, I

17:17

feel sorry for myself. I was like,

17:19

oh, that was embarrassing. It was so

17:21

embarrassing. And like, I was so close

17:23

to people at that point. I wasn't

17:25

like back off the stage. I was

17:27

like on the cat walking. I'm like,

17:29

at a bar. Now I want to

17:31

see, because I've only seen the edited

17:33

one of you following us. I'll show

17:35

you. It's bad. Oh, that must be

17:37

so hard to not feel well and

17:39

do a full performance. Yeah, yeah, I

17:42

mean, you know, if you're on your

17:44

deathbed, you can't do it. I would

17:46

be like, hey guys, I'm sorry about

17:48

this, I'm out. I was like sweating,

17:50

I'm like, okay, it's fine. Like, do

17:52

you tell them while you're out there,

17:54

you're like, I've got the flu, I'm

17:56

not well? Yes. Because if an artist

17:58

did that, I would be like, I

18:00

would like stand up, they were clap,

18:02

but yeah, okay. Yeah, I mean, I

18:04

mean, you know, if you know, if

18:06

you know, if you know, if you

18:08

know, if you're on your deathbed, if

18:10

you're on your deathbed, you're on your

18:12

deathbed, you're on your deathbed, you're on

18:14

your deathbed, you're on your deathbed, you're

18:16

on your deathbed, you're on your deathbed,

18:18

you're on your deathbed, you're on your

18:20

deathbed, you're on your deathbed, you're on

18:22

your I see artists like Kelsey had

18:24

like a stomach bug and yes I

18:27

was like I'm out if I'm puking

18:29

I'm not coming out totally I'm not

18:31

gonna put a trash can side stage

18:33

like I can't she's like a warrior

18:35

no way I'm like I'm good oh

18:37

no way I'm like a crime in

18:39

the fetal position yeah I'm like a

18:41

flu I'm like I just tell them

18:43

yeah I told him and it was

18:45

awesome Yeah, I would respect an artist

18:47

so hard if they're other with the

18:49

flu and I paid to be there

18:51

and you didn't cancel But I also

18:53

I always feel so bad for artists

18:55

when they have to cancel Because they're

18:57

like I wouldn't do this unless I

18:59

had to yeah, people get mad. I'm

19:01

like you can't control Oh yeah, they

19:03

get mad. They get mad over everything.

19:05

You know, you could like sneeze wrong

19:07

and they're like, I didn't like that.

19:10

I don't like that sneeze very much.

19:12

If you can do it differently next

19:14

time, that would be right. Wait, do

19:16

you read reviews from your, you do?

19:18

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19:20

I thought you were going to say

19:22

mean comments, and I was going to

19:24

ask that too. I did, I do,

19:26

yes. I like to read them to

19:28

see what parts, I kind of use

19:30

it as like studying, like a review

19:32

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I've I laughed so hard when I saw

22:01

that, because I was like, I know those looks

22:03

from you, and I feel like I have the

22:05

same looks, and you get it in your eyes

22:07

when we talk about certain things, and that's mean

22:10

people. Yes. You've looks, can kill. Yes. But I

22:12

was laughing, so I'm like, I know Carly's looks

22:14

so well. Well, you know what's funny is, I

22:16

got the idea from that song, kind of about

22:18

the way people say that I, you know, like,

22:21

because the whole song is like if looks could

22:23

kill meaning like the guy that you used to

22:25

be with the way he's looking at another girl

22:27

oh so it's like it's like taking on a

22:30

different yeah it's like taking on that different meaning

22:32

but I got it because of that's funny yeah

22:34

oh that's a good yeah because who hasn't experienced

22:36

that it's hard even if you're like I don't

22:38

even like you and I still like yeah but

22:41

now you like her so maybe I do like

22:43

her so maybe I do like you like you

22:45

like her so maybe I do like you like

22:47

you like her so maybe I do like you

22:50

like her so maybe I do like you like

22:52

you like her so maybe I do like you

22:54

like her so maybe I do like you like

22:56

you like you like you like her so maybe

22:58

I do like you like her so maybe I

23:01

do like you like her so maybe I do

23:03

like you like you like her so maybe I

23:05

like you like you like you like you like

23:07

you like her so maybe I like you like

23:10

her so maybe I do like you like you

23:12

like you like her so maybe I You're like,

23:14

wait, and I fucked up. But that's, yeah, I

23:16

saw you tease it online. And you said it

23:18

was for anyone who's had a hard time watching

23:21

someone move on, which everyone can relate to, like

23:23

I said. But what would you say to someone

23:25

listening who is going through that right now? Just,

23:27

I really do believe that if somebody leaves your

23:30

life, there's a reason for it. And I know

23:32

that is the most cliche thing in the whole

23:34

world, but I feel like they just weren't. yours

23:36

to keep. Well I like cliche because it's always

23:38

a simple thought but means so much. Yeah. You

23:41

know like they aren't supposed to be in your

23:43

life period. Totally and like I mean that song

23:45

I I've had that happen to me not that

23:47

long ago and you know I still look at

23:50

this person and who they're with now and it

23:52

sucks yeah but it's still you have to believe

23:54

that's what is meant for them yeah and you're

23:56

gonna find yours. Yeah and plus Instagram. We only

23:58

put the highlights up you and I know that

24:01

I'm like You know what I do is like

24:03

I'll have a glass or two of wine probably

24:05

two if I'm doing this and I'll just post

24:07

something or like repost something or like something or

24:10

comment on something and then the next morning I'm

24:12

like oh yeah I did do it I love

24:14

it but sometimes being a little petty I like

24:16

a little petty only if only if they deserve

24:18

a little pettiness yeah sometimes they do like oh

24:21

actually let me play this audio because this I

24:23

was like I'm like petty I've been petty for

24:25

you I

24:32

just want to say all the

24:34

things I want to say so

24:36

bad. And I cannot, I cannot,

24:38

because I'm too nice, but holy.

24:40

It literally makes me so frustrated

24:42

that I cried. That's why I'm

24:44

crying. I'm like, that's me. That

24:46

is a conversation that I have,

24:48

my managers here. I will call

24:50

him. Yeah. And we have that

24:52

whole dialogue at him. It's not

24:54

with him, at him. Yep. And

24:56

then I'm like, okay. I got

24:58

it out. Yeah. Oh, sometimes it's

25:00

all you need. Yeah, I agree.

25:02

But I'm with you. I feel

25:04

that's so hard. Yeah, I'm like,

25:06

I'm, this is where I see

25:08

growth in myself because I used

25:10

to actually go and like, I

25:12

put something on my story just

25:14

to be like, see everybody look,

25:16

I can tell you this and

25:18

you did it for me? I

25:20

did do it for you. That

25:22

was, that was legendary. That was

25:24

like back in, can we talk

25:26

about it? Sure. Sure. We won't

25:28

even say it. The man, the

25:30

man, just call him the man.

25:32

The man, the boy, the boy,

25:34

the boy that bamboozled you. When

25:36

he bamboozled you, I was like

25:38

so fired up for you. Remember

25:40

and I was at dinner, I

25:42

was at dinner, I was with

25:44

dinner with you and I was

25:46

like, he did this and this

25:48

and this and you were like,

25:50

oh, did he? And I was

25:52

like, yeah. I was so mad

25:54

because I'm like oh you sweet

25:56

little innocent soul to you like

25:58

had waited for the right one

26:00

and like then he does that

26:02

too and I was just like

26:04

this guy can go absolutely himself

26:06

and my favorite issue said nothing

26:08

it was all in the song

26:10

that you posted and we're sitting

26:12

there and I was like yeah

26:14

yeah and then it was like

26:17

boo everywhere and I was like

26:19

My girl. Gotta have a girl's

26:21

back. You really do. You do.

26:23

And we have had each other's

26:25

do some weird shit. I've I've

26:27

left a few comments when they

26:29

needed to be left on such

26:31

people. My favorite is that is

26:33

just like the subtleness of something

26:35

or the not so subtleness of

26:37

something like just straight up clown.

26:39

Yeah. Call a clown a

26:41

clown, you know what I mean? I'll

26:43

do it. Call a clown a clown.

26:45

He called himself a clown. He did.

26:47

Wait, okay, stage coach, big deal. So

26:49

excited. I want to come. Oh my

26:51

gosh, you should be. Why are you

26:53

not going? Stage coach gives me so

26:55

much anxiety. Fair, fair. I mean, I

26:57

don't want to go as like a.

26:59

That's why I don't have to go

27:01

as a person in the crowd is

27:03

coming out with me. Okay, maybe I'll

27:05

come. It's in April, right? What is

27:07

the vibe going to be like? Is

27:09

it you're on the main stage this

27:11

time? That's freaking huge. But do you

27:13

have any like surprises planned or like

27:15

do you know what's happening yet? I

27:17

mean, it's April. Have you yeah, you

27:19

like know what's going on? I get

27:21

to do something that I was very

27:23

honored that they asked me to do

27:25

you understand. I get to play on

27:27

a bill with like some of my

27:29

favorite artists like I Brothers Osborne are

27:31

some of my favorite guys. Yeah, I

27:33

love Zach Bryan's music. Yeah, Lana Del

27:35

Ray Sierra Farrell. She's like an incredible

27:37

American artist. She just like won every

27:39

Grammy she was up for. Really? She's

27:41

like a blue grassy like it's just

27:43

my kind of thing. Yeah, so I'm

27:45

really excited. Yeah, so I'm really excited

27:47

a couple of like Help me. Yeah,

27:49

you don't have to be. You don't

27:51

have to be with the one of

27:53

these. crowd. Come on. We went to

27:55

the People's Choice Country Awards together and

27:57

we had a blast. Honestly I am

27:59

so happy you talked to me into

28:02

going because I had the best night.

28:04

It was so fun. That's what I'm

28:06

telling you. That's why stagecoach will be

28:08

the same thing. I actually had so

28:10

much fun and then I get mad

28:12

at myself because I'm like why would

28:14

I get in my head about something?

28:16

No. Also CMA Awards your performance with

28:18

Chris. I mean, I think he's one

28:20

of the greatest voices that will ever

28:22

live in the history of life. Wow.

28:24

And you got to... It was crazy.

28:26

And he's the sweetest, he and his

28:28

wife Morgan, they're the nicest people in

28:30

the whole world. I've heard that they're

28:32

so nice. That's so... I mean, it's

28:34

just like, do you ever pinch yourself?

28:36

Because I know how you are, because

28:38

you're like, okay, but what's next? And

28:40

like, you're an achiever, you're, you're an

28:42

like, like, like, like, like, you're, like,

28:44

like, like, you're, like, you're, like, you're,

28:46

you're, you're, you're, you're, I've won a

28:48

grammy, like do you ever just sit

28:50

there and be like meep? You know

28:52

what's really funny of like I would

28:54

I would really say having a song

28:56

with Chris Stapleton might be one of

28:58

the greatest career highlights for me. Like

29:00

above a lot of the other things

29:02

like Granal Opry member, Grammy, female vocalist

29:04

and Chris Stapleton like those are the

29:06

things to me that I literally like

29:08

I cannot believe that that. I mean

29:10

that is straight up chills. Even though

29:12

just like those are your top four

29:14

things in life I'm like that's such

29:16

a dream. Yeah well it's good to

29:18

like like you said it's so easy

29:20

to just be like what's next onto

29:22

the next what else but what else

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30:25

very excited about it. I wrote Walker

30:27

Hayes. He is, you want to talk

30:29

about one of the nicest people in

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the world. Angel. Just an actual authentic

30:33

angel who just, we sat there for

30:35

four and a half hours and like

30:37

we walked out of there being like,

30:39

well that was therapy. He's awesome. Oh,

30:41

it was so great. But I'm like,

30:43

it was a dream for me to

30:45

just be sitting in a room with

30:47

him. Like, he's a really good writer.

30:49

He's a very good writer. And I

30:51

was like, this is so cool. Do

30:53

you have a dream, duet? I mean,

30:55

you've already done the dream? Do you

30:57

have another dream, duet? Where you're like,

30:59

like, anyone out there in the world

31:01

who you're like, I would die. Reimagine

31:03

slow dancing in a burning room is

31:05

a great song ever it's one of

31:07

like the hottest songs ever and I

31:09

would just love I just listened to

31:11

it like two nights ago while I

31:13

was cooking. It's so good. Sometimes I

31:15

just toss on John Mayer when I'm

31:17

cooking. Same. Yeah, continuum. That's the album.

31:20

Yep. It's so good. Oh, that would

31:22

be a really good collab. Yeah. Huh.

31:24

John if you're out there. John. I

31:26

know you're country in Western music. Honestly.

31:28

Honestly, I think he's in my wordle.

31:30

He's in my wordle group chat. He's

31:32

in my wordle group chat. He's not

31:34

in mine. I don't know how I

31:36

got in this world group chat. There's

31:38

like the most random people in it,

31:40

but it was... because like my friend

31:42

is a photographer for somebody really big

31:44

and then we all started wordle and

31:46

then they kept adding a couple people

31:48

and then one of my friends was

31:50

like I think John Mayors in that

31:52

group chat I'm like what the fuck

31:54

I'll be like hey John they're like

31:56

hey John like hey John hey John

31:58

my would like hey John like hey

32:00

John my friend Carly would like to

32:02

write a song with you what if

32:04

you just said hey John in the

32:06

world chat like it's nothing about you're

32:08

and you're just like hey John you're

32:10

here I want to know more about

32:12

you working at Dollywood when you were

32:14

16. Because when you took that job,

32:16

were you thinking like this could be

32:18

a step in the right direction for

32:20

my career? Like what was the thought

32:22

process? I know, I feel like people

32:24

don't really ask me about, they're just

32:26

like, you moved and worked at Dollywood.

32:28

I'm like, yes. But my brain at

32:30

15, I was a freshman in high

32:32

school. I lived very close to Cincinnati.

32:34

So I saw a lot of like,

32:36

like, you know, the activities in Cincinnati.

32:38

shows at Dollywood. Oh, you had an

32:40

audition? Yeah. Wait, what were you doing

32:42

there? You were like working the mayor

32:44

to go around or something? No, I

32:46

literally saw it in the newspaper when

32:48

I was living in Kentucky that they

32:50

were holding auditions in Cincinnati for Dollywood,

32:52

for the shows at Dollywood. I was

32:54

like, Mom, let me go. And my

32:56

mom was like, you're in school. You're

32:58

like starting high school because I just

33:01

finished, I was at the end of

33:03

my freshman year. Yeah. Went audition. I

33:05

was 15, you had to be 16.

33:07

We convinced them that I was going

33:09

to be 16 by the time that

33:11

the show started. I got my license,

33:13

my mom pulled me out of school,

33:15

I enrolled in a homeschooling program online,

33:17

and my mom and I moved. when

33:19

I was 16 to a one bedroom,

33:21

one bathroom, grizzly bear decorated apartment with

33:23

a jacuzzi tub in the bedroom. I

33:25

love obsessed with the story. Isn't it?

33:27

But you think about that now? Like

33:29

I think all these years later, the

33:31

sacrifice, my parents are still married. That's

33:33

so cool. My mom's like, see you

33:35

soon, husband, see you soon life. Like

33:37

I'm gonna go take my dog. to

33:39

do this. Your mom, your mom's an

33:41

angel. My mom is incredible and my

33:43

dad too. But I mean like my

33:45

mom, she just like hung out and

33:47

pigeon forge. But yes I thought oh

33:49

this is so much better for my

33:51

career because I knew I wanted to

33:53

get to Nashville but I didn't want

33:55

to be in school I was good

33:57

at school too but I was just

33:59

like I want to sing. And it

34:01

was the best thing I ever did.

34:03

That is I love. like singers stories

34:05

I feel like everyone's got such a

34:07

cool story like the fact that you

34:09

moved to a one-bedroom grizzly bear decorated

34:11

apartment with a jacuzzi and what in

34:13

the bedroom in the bedroom with your

34:15

mom yeah to work at Dollywood while

34:17

you're turning 16 and like that was

34:19

the start of and then you get

34:21

to like you've sang with Dolly or

34:23

did she mean I sang with her

34:25

this last January got to sing with

34:27

her and then she invited me to

34:29

be a member of the Granal Opera.

34:31

Yes, that's what it was. Oh my,

34:33

what a full circle. And they tricked

34:35

me. Moment. They tricked me by having

34:37

me come to the Dolly headquarters because

34:40

she's got a headquarters. She's so bad-ass.

34:42

But they said I was doing a

34:44

commercial for Dollywood. And so I was

34:46

like, well that's awesome. So I go

34:48

and I'm and I hear little high

34:50

heels come down the hall and I

34:52

thought they were surprising me and she

34:54

was going to do the Dolly Wood

34:56

commercial with me and then she invited

34:58

me to become literally the highest honor

35:00

of my life. Truly. Oh my gosh.

35:02

That's freaking cool. She's awesome. She's awesome.

35:04

Yeah. I want to see Dolly without

35:06

makeup so bad but I don't. I'm

35:08

like that's just Dolly. Do you know

35:10

that I did a rehearsal. Do you

35:12

know that I did a rehearsal? Cute.

35:14

She has a line called Doggy Parton

35:16

of Clothes. Oh, I didn't know that.

35:18

June has the Dolly wig, of course.

35:20

She looks like a little Dolly. When

35:22

I went into those rehearsals, I mean,

35:24

she is dressed. I was dressed like,

35:26

I got out of a workout. Like,

35:28

hey, high heels, perfect. I mean, she

35:30

is so dialed in at every moment.

35:32

Like, she is just beautiful. I asked

35:34

her, I said, how do you wear

35:36

those shoes? And she said, and she

35:38

said that they're actually, like, like, like,

35:40

like, like, like, like, like, like, like,

35:42

like, like, like, like, like, like, like,

35:44

like, like, like, like, like, like, like,

35:46

like, like, like, like, like, like, like,

35:48

like, like, like, like, like, like, like,

35:50

like, like, like, like, like, like, like,

35:52

like, like, like, like, like, But I

35:54

hugged her and when I left I

35:56

ran to my assistant and when I

35:58

got home and I said smell me

36:00

I smell like her like I literally

36:02

smelled like a fairy godmother like exactly

36:04

how you want her to smell it

36:06

was all over me and I like

36:08

didn't want to wash my shirt I

36:10

get that yeah I was like that's

36:12

what happened when I met Paul run

36:14

really oh my god you just did

36:16

well never showering again I'm obsessed with

36:18

it did he smell good yes I

36:21

don't know what my obsession is. I

36:23

think a lot of people actually have

36:25

a crush on him, but mine's like

36:27

kind of creepy next level. The fact

36:29

that I like touched him, okay, that's

36:31

embarrassing. I'm just like, I'm like such

36:33

a fan of Paul Rudd and I

36:35

don't really get nervous around people and

36:37

with him I was like just an

36:39

absolute embarrassing mess, but I feel like

36:41

that's, I get that feeling of like

36:43

I want to stay smelling like them.

36:45

Yes. I had you feel like Dolly

36:47

would have a specific smell too. I'm

36:49

telling you, it's like, it's what you

36:51

would imagine, but you, I can't explain

36:53

it to you, but it's what you

36:55

would imagine. She really is. Yeah, before

36:57

I let you go, I don't know

36:59

how you stay grounded with such a

37:01

busy schedule. Like, what do you do

37:03

on your days off at home? Is

37:05

it just spending time with your dogs,

37:07

having a glass of holy shit, your

37:09

wine? I know we have. I just

37:11

went into it and I was like,

37:13

I'll make a label with like my

37:15

favorite wine. I thought that was so

37:17

cool because I know your love for

37:19

wine, it's the same as my love

37:21

for wine. Yes. And you went to

37:23

do something on social media and you

37:25

were like going to get your own

37:27

bottle of wine at a store and

37:29

you're like, this is the coolest, one

37:31

of the coolest things I've ever done.

37:33

I'm like, I get that feeling so

37:35

much. And for you, it's like you

37:37

went and created and created these wines.

37:39

For me, like you went and created

37:41

these wines, like, like, like, like, like,

37:43

like, like, like, like, like, like, like,

37:45

like, like, like, like, like, like, like,

37:47

like, like, like, like, like, like, like,

37:49

like, all the time and I love

37:51

that it's like a twist top and

37:53

I love that it's like an it's

37:55

a really good bottle of wine I've

37:57

I never wanted to do something you

38:00

know I became kind of like the

38:02

winowing country music with hide the wine

38:04

yeah But I've waited to not partner

38:06

with a wine that I didn't love.

38:08

Totally. And this was the dream for

38:10

me. So I'm, yeah, I love it.

38:12

It's, I already had a bottle a

38:14

bit. Yes. Like, you gave me a

38:16

bottle. I can't remember, was it when

38:18

we went for sushi? Yes. Yes. Yeah,

38:20

you gave you a bottle. And I

38:22

was like, God, it's so good too.

38:24

Is that part of like, for me,

38:26

like, I love having a day off

38:28

spending it with my dogs. Yes. Being

38:30

in my sweats all day. Maybe getting

38:32

a therapy session and doing some kind

38:34

of like vision boarding or something and

38:36

a glass of wine. Like that is

38:38

like my happy day. Yep. What is

38:40

your happy day? I love having my

38:42

dogs. Yeah. Sweats are definitely involved. Yes.

38:44

I have really, I live in a

38:46

cul-de-sac with, I went to your neighbor's

38:48

house by accident and said to your

38:50

house member, yes, oh my gosh, you

38:52

do. From the CMA words with my

38:54

nips out, I was like, hey is

38:56

Carly home? She lives there, I'm like,

38:58

I've been here before, why are my

39:00

here? What am I doing? You're like,

39:02

I'm dressed for an event. I feel

39:04

like it's been such a blessing. Some

39:06

of my best girlfriends live in the

39:08

cul-de-sac now. So I feel like just

39:10

being with them, having girls night, with

39:12

my dogs, in sweats, like... with good

39:14

food. I mean, and like a workout

39:16

somewhere in there, that's like, I'm a

39:18

very at my core, simple girl. And

39:20

I have the same friends, like my

39:22

band and the people that work with

39:24

me, we've been friends since the beginning.

39:26

Yeah, that's great. And so I think

39:28

that keeps me grounded. And I don't

39:30

even think of myself as being famous,

39:32

but like, I don't like like that.

39:34

I get that. I don't think I

39:36

think of just, I think of just,

39:38

this sounds so cliche too cliche too,

39:41

but I too, but I do think

39:43

of it as like, God blessed me

39:45

to be able to do this on

39:47

a level like this, which is such

39:49

a gift, but I'm still the same

39:51

person 100% you well God blessed you

39:53

and you worked really hard. I did

39:55

work really hard. You did the grind.

39:57

I did. I definitely did the grind,

39:59

but I just don't feel differently. Yeah

40:01

I get that I feel like kind

40:03

of the same from coming off TV

40:05

like I think a lot of people

40:07

it was so funny people would message

40:09

me that I worked with for years

40:11

and they'd be like I don't know

40:13

if you remember me but and I'm

40:15

like just because I went on a

40:17

TV show doesn't mean I am a

40:19

different person I don't remember people I

40:21

don't remember where I came from totally

40:23

and If anything, I think it grounded

40:25

me more because I saw people go

40:27

off the deep end in other ways.

40:29

Yep. And I'm like, it's really important

40:31

to me to stay grounded. Yes. And

40:33

I feel like you're the same. And

40:35

you've been open about growth, healing, everything

40:37

in between. I feel like you write

40:39

about it too. Yeah. But what is

40:41

something that you've learned about yourself in

40:43

the last year? I think you can

40:45

relate to this. I'm about to be

40:47

35. I'm okay by myself, which I

40:49

think is setting me up for like

40:51

the best season of my life. And

40:53

I've not been to that place ever.

40:55

I believe that, and I see that

40:57

in you as well, because I saw

40:59

something actually this morning when I was

41:01

doom scrolling. I saw someone saying that

41:03

they, when you've done like the work

41:05

and you've done healing and you've been

41:07

through hard times and you have gotten

41:09

through whatever that you've gotten through, you've

41:11

gotten through, Like other people start getting

41:13

exposed for the work they haven't done

41:15

and it kind of sets your standards

41:17

higher for what you know you're worthy

41:20

of and what happiness looks like for

41:22

you. Yeah. And it makes you okay

41:24

with being alone because you don't want

41:26

to settle. And you don't want to

41:28

be in situations that you don't want

41:30

to be in or that make you

41:32

feel anything like you want to be

41:34

around people who make you feel involved

41:36

and who make you feel like yourself

41:38

and you want to be in relationships

41:40

that bring out the best in you're

41:42

okay alone. Yeah, and you get to

41:44

this place, I know for me, where

41:46

it's like being in the wrong relationship

41:48

actually is so much worse than being

41:50

by yourself, but being able to get

41:52

to that place is pretty hard. I

41:54

don't know, I just think being able

41:56

to celebrate yourself as a whole and

41:58

not only find happiness with somebody else.

42:00

I'm clearly reading a book right now

42:02

about this, but I mean, truly, how

42:04

to be single and happy is what

42:06

it's called. And literally it opens it

42:08

up and it's like talking about a

42:10

girl who's 34 and she's in therapy

42:12

and she's like, but wait, I don't

42:14

have this, this, this, this, and it's

42:16

like. teaching you about and I think

42:18

you can read it even in a

42:20

relationship like yeah yeah yeah how to

42:22

be whole with just you yeah and

42:24

I feel that such an important lesson

42:26

I I feel like 35 27 and

42:28

35 to me feel very pivotal for

42:30

27 being you start to be like

42:32

hey I want to get to know

42:34

who I am what am I doing

42:36

and 35 being like Oh, I've cracked

42:38

open a whole new layer of myself

42:40

and self-acceptance. And then that's why people

42:42

say 40. You're like, fuck it. Because

42:44

you've just, over and over, learning life

42:46

lessons and finding out who you are

42:48

and caring less about what others think

42:50

and what they're doing. And so many,

42:52

you know, we're all only feeling like

42:54

we have to be in a certain

42:56

places because of society. Yes. It's not

42:59

like we actually have to be. I'm

43:01

turning 40 this year and I'm turning.

43:03

I'm like, I don't even know anymore,

43:05

but I'm like, whatever happens is gonna

43:07

be on the right timeline for me.

43:09

It's right. Yeah. And like, the wrong

43:11

timeline is forcing something that isn't meant

43:13

to be. And yes. Yeah. Last thing,

43:15

but my favorite thing, confessions. Okay. Something

43:17

embarrassing that you would like to share

43:19

today. Now's your chance. Unless you don't

43:21

have anything, but I feel like you

43:23

do. I'm a runner. Yeah, this is

43:25

a big one. I was literally sitting

43:27

here contemplating looking at spade and sparrows

43:29

going, do I want to let this

43:31

out into the world? Yes, you do.

43:33

Do you know where I'm going with

43:35

this? I'm excited. I was on a

43:37

run once. Oh, no. And it has

43:39

changed the way that I run. Oh.

43:41

We got to have coffee now before

43:43

we run so we can do our

43:45

business. Got it. Yes. Yeah. There. Understood.

43:47

I was on a run. I was.

43:49

about two and a half miles away

43:51

from my house. Oh no. And I

43:53

got a poop pain. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Yeah.

43:55

And I was like, oh no, I'm

43:57

far. I'm far. And you know, like,

43:59

when your desire or your need to

44:01

go to the bathroom becomes that like

44:03

diarrhea feeling? Yes. Where it's the... Okay,

44:05

okay, I made it through that contraction,

44:07

okay? Yes. I would run. when those

44:09

weren't happening and then I'd speedwalk and

44:11

I made it to my street like

44:13

literally the start of my driveway and

44:15

I put my pants. Oh no! I'm

44:17

talking not a chart. Oh fully! Well

44:19

at least you're in your house. I

44:21

made it to my house and I

44:23

for some reason immediately called my best

44:25

friend like my childhood best friend I

44:27

was like I just shit myself on

44:29

her run and she was like hello?

44:31

So literally don't run! figure that out

44:33

before you go on a run far

44:35

away because yeah sometimes I mean it

44:37

was bad oh god that okay thank

44:40

you for sharing that because you know

44:42

when I told you yesterday I was

44:44

holding the yeah counters yes you know

44:46

when you have you you don't suffer

44:48

from cramps but the cramps that I

44:50

get make me have to shit my

44:52

pants yes and that is what was

44:54

happening when I grabbed and money I

44:56

was going through what felt like a

44:58

contraction like you said also trying to

45:00

squeeze it in yes and cramps on

45:02

top and I remember just I literally

45:04

held it and was like no and

45:06

I was like like shaking I had

45:08

cold sweat like when I finally made

45:10

it to my house I was like

45:12

am I am I am I sick

45:14

and then it was like no I

45:16

just held in poop for like two

45:18

miles I'm impressed that you made it

45:20

home but you had to my driveway

45:22

oh full shit had to just throw

45:24

it out No, I hope I have

45:26

always wondered if someone saw it in

45:28

the neighborhood. It's been a few years,

45:30

but I'm like, yeah, I shut my

45:32

pants on a run. You know what?

45:34

You are owning it now. You're owning

45:36

your truth. And I bet so many

45:38

runners can relate. to this. Do you

45:40

understand why I had to really, I

45:42

was like, am I going to do

45:44

it? But you know what? You got

45:46

to do it. You got to do

45:48

it. You got to do it. Thoughts

45:50

and prayers to the running community with

45:52

shitting their pants. I feel like there's

45:54

a lot of you out there. Yeah,

45:56

do not trust a fart on a

45:58

run either. Lord, help me. Oh my

46:00

God. I honestly feel that, like when

46:02

you were talking about the contractions, I

46:04

was like, now I have to tell

46:06

you that that that that that's what

46:08

that's what that was yesterday for me,

46:10

that was yesterday for me, that was

46:12

yesterday for me, that was yesterday for

46:14

me, for me, for me, for me,

46:16

for me, with, with, with, with the

46:19

ramping, with the ramping, with, with the

46:21

ramping, with the ramping, with, with the

46:23

ramping, with, with, with, with, with the

46:25

ramping, with, with, with, with, with, with,

46:27

with Yes, yes, and I was like

46:29

shaking like, you know that dumb and

46:31

dumber scene when he literally like lets

46:33

it all go on the toilet? Like

46:35

that's what it was when I got

46:37

to the bathroom. I was like, that

46:39

was me at the driveway. I didn't

46:41

get to make it to the toilet.

46:43

I'm sorry about that. I'm so sorry,

46:45

but thank you for sharing your confession.

46:47

And I can't wait to crack. Can

46:49

I have it? Yes. I was like,

46:51

oh shit, I just like, thank you

46:53

for the gift. What if I was

46:55

like, OK, thank you so much. Bye.

46:57

I'm going to send you with a

46:59

bottle of wine. Yes, please. I've never

47:01

met two people who like wine more

47:03

than you and I. Never. Remember the

47:05

last time we hung out. Also, um,

47:07

when we were at the people's choice,

47:09

remember? Yes. We were drinking, drinking wine

47:11

and cheering for, who was it that

47:13

we stood up for that nobody else

47:15

was standing up for? And we were

47:17

like, guys. War and treaty. When they

47:19

did their Amen performance and we were

47:21

dying, yeah, they're so good. Yeah, I

47:23

feel like there was somebody else too,

47:25

like an underdog or something. No, no,

47:27

no. Was it like a big? Yeah,

47:29

it was a little, it was, I

47:31

think it was, I think it was

47:33

Brad Paisley. I think it was Brad

47:35

Paisley. I think it was Brad Paisley.

47:37

I. It was Brad Paisley. There might

47:39

have been too much wine clearly for

47:41

me. I'm like, I don't remember. Well,

47:43

I gotta leave for Pilates. I have

47:45

to be there in 14 minutes. Go.

47:47

She's like, gotta go. You're gonna need

47:49

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