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and more, premiering February 4th. Andrea
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Owen, thank you for coming back
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on the show three times times
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over the last five years. I
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think we're almost 900 episodes episodes and
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so you are one of of a handful
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that have come back three times
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and we appreciate you being a
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friend of the show you being a It's
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interesting. My name is Scott. This
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is Scott My I am talking
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with Scott Talks. I am talking with author, podcaster. a
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whole list of stuff a do list of
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stuff you stay busy. Yeah You stay busy. And
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what I was gonna say it's
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you're a global speaker you're a
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a certified coach helping how many people achieve. and
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resilience. You've taught hundreds of taught
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hundreds of hundreds of thousands of women
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tools we've taught a lot of people, a lot of
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people a lot of strategies and tools
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to empower themselves to live their live their
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most kick slide. And I feel like when
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you come on the show, we're getting
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these little windows into your life. Like
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real, not just like, oh, I'm going
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to be on a podcast, but you
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actually come on and say, hey, this
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is what's happening in my life right
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now, and that becomes the subject matter.
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And I think it's really cool. It's
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your whole brand, really, huh? Always has
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been. Yeah, it really has sort of
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by accident at first, and then it
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just kind of works. I'm just going
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to go with it going to go
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with it. Yeah, there's something to, you
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know, you and Laura had an amazing
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conversation if you guys are interested in
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hearing this. You came on, Laura, the
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show on Tuesday to talk about your
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second divorce at almost 50, right? And
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by the way, congratulations on 13 years
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of sobriety along with that. Thank you.
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And, uh, I will be 16 this
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week, actually, that we, we recorded, yeah,
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yeah. You said a couple of cool
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things. You said, I think part of
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spiritual growth is recognizing these challenges in
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life sooner and quicker as things you
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can get through. I think that that's
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something that sobriety that was one of
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my first big spiritual experiences is realizing
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that everything I thought was the worst
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thing that happened to me turned out
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to be the best thing. like what
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you're saying in your journey is that
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even though this thing in front of
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you might seem like the worst thing
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you have experience that says it might
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not be this might be the best
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thing that happened and as you end
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the long term I'm not even sure
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how long were you married in this
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this last marriage the second time almost
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15 years together 16 yeah that's a
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big chunk of your life to yeah
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sort of I don't I don't want
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to say good say goodbye to you
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because you never get to say goodbye
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to it but you're especially when you
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have children Yeah, it's going to change
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that life. So, do you think that
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it's harder? Now, Lauren, I've never gotten
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married. I don't know if that's like
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a trauma response to our first marriages,
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but it's worked really well for us
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to make a decision each day to
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be together. And do you think that
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it's harder to leave a marriage at
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this time in your life than a
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relationship? I mean, I know you get
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to work with a lot of people.
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Do you see that the sort of
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stigma, the idea of what a marriage
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is supposed to look like? gives
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it more weight and more intensity than
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people who have been in relationships for
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a long period of time. That's interesting
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question. And I love it. And I
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think that there's also, I imagine, I
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don't know, but I was, so my
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first marriage, because we started dating so
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young, we were together for 10 years
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before we got married. And there was,
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I faced a lot of pressure. I
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don't think that my... ex-boyfriend then-boyfriend faced
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the pressure that I did, but I
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faced a lot of pressure as to
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why we weren't married. You know, if
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you've been together so long, like, and
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I got kind of like side-eyed of
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like, what are you doing, Andrea, that
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you can't get this man to marry
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you. So I don't know if you
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to experience that at this age, but
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I think we did. When we first
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started, when we were first together, we
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got a lot of people who were
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like, like, like, aren't you married, or
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what do you married, or what do
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you married, or what do you married,
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or what do you, or what do
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you, or what do you call it,
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or what do you, or what do
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you, or what do you, or what
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do you, or what do you, or
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what do you, or what do you,
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or, or, or, or, or, or, or,
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or, or, or, or, or, or, or,
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or, or agreement between us that we
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would not be put in a box
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because other people it made them more
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comfortable then and then I think Laura
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was the one who pointed out that
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you know by being this in this
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relationship this way each day we made
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a choice we weren't under some cloak
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or contract that we were gonna you
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know be married and get through whatever
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we'll get through it on Thursday we'll
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get through it next month okay it's
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like one day at a time kind
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of thing and anyway I I I
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see a lot of people who respond
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the way who who get that response
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in the world like you like when
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are you gonna get married or the
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expectation and the idea yeah yeah I
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think it's it's new wants and depending
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on what age you are and things
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like that. And I also think that
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I never want to take away from
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anyone's experience in terms of like how
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quote unquote it is to leave either
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a long-term relationship versus a marriage. I
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think both are the same. However, when
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you get the federal government involved in
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your relationship, What I mean by that
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is like when you get married and
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you have assets and you have children
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and money and all of these things
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like it gets complicated so it's it's
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harder I think logistically but I don't
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think it's harder mentally or emotionally. Yeah
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it seems like sometimes the sort of
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federal aspect of if you will the
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administrative aspect of a marriage can overshadow
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the emotional then when it's all done
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the emotional finds its way to the
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table if you will. Good way of
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putting it up. Well, yeah, I guess
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