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Caroline love it, welcome to post her on high.
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Thank you for having me.
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I'm so excited to be sitting down
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with you. I feel like this has been a long time
0:12
in the making and I'm just so excited.
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So Caroline and I are currently in Washington,
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d C. We just went for a walk around the
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White House grounds and now
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we are sitting here in the South Auditorium.
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How are you feeling.
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I'm feeling great. I am feeling excited
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to join you. I think what you do is amazing, it's
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different, it's cool, it's new, and
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happy to sit down with you.
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Well, you are juggling a lot,
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as I'm sure a lot of you guys know that are watching
0:48
or listening. Caroline is the
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Press Secretary of the United States, and
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I just have to add in that she is the youngest
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press secretary in history. You're
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also a new mom. Yeah. Show
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is centered around movement. What role
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does movement currently play in your life?
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Because I know you were an athlete growing up.
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I was an athlete growing up. I played
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sports my entire life. I went
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to college on an athletic scholarship to play
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softball, and working out and
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fitness has always been a big part of my life.
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Unfortunately, with the demands of this job
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and new motherhood, fitness
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and my personal time has
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been kind of put on the back burner. But any
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moment I can to get out and to move
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I do. Especially now, my new favorite
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exercise is taking long power
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walks with my baby and pushing him in the
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stroller. And he loves to go out on walks.
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He's so observant, he loves to look at
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the trees and the birds, and now being in the city,
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he loves it. So that's kind of the movement
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in my life right now is with my son and
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being outside and bringing him on long
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walks.
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You grew up in New Hampshire. Can you tell us
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a little bit about your upbringing and maybe what
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young Caroline was like.
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Yeah.
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Sure, So I grew up in a
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small tie town in
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New Hampshire, very rural, working
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class, blue collar. My family owned
2:05
small businesses in the town, an ice
2:07
cream shop and a chuck dealership, which
2:10
my dad and family still run,
2:12
and so it was just typical middle
2:14
class America upbringing in
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a great town and community. I
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have two older brothers, so we were always outside
2:20
playing and playing sports. And then I
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went to college in New Hampshire as well, and
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that's where I fell in love with politics. But
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growing up as a young girl, I always
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was enthralled with the news and would
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read the newspaper as a young child, wanted
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to watch TV and watch the news, which
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is not very typical for most young kids.
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And so I think it was my destiny
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to be working in this media
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and news world that I'm obviously now in.
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I mean, you definitely seem like you are made for
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it, and I'm excited for everybody today to
2:51
learn your story because it truly is so interesting
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and I feel like for women listening, it's very
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empowering and motivational. It's interesting
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knowing that you grew up in a family that you that wasn't
3:01
political, but you did always love
3:03
reading the news. Yes, do you think you
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always saw yourself going into politics
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or when you were younger in high school playing
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softball, playing sports, did you potentially
3:12
see yourself pursuing a different career.
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I saw myself pursuing a career in
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maybe broadcast journalism. In fact,
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my mom has home videos of my brothers and
3:20
me pretending to be sports broadcasters
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and pretending to work for ESPN
3:25
and sharing the news stories of the day
3:27
on our little old home video camera. I'm
3:29
like aging myself. But growing up in the nineties
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and early two thousands, right, you had the home video
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cameras, and so my mom still has
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those tapes. And I always, again
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loved reading the newspaper, and I had a
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curiosity about the world and the
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world around me. So when I was in high school
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and then college, I pursued opportunities
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writing for the school newspaper, starting
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a broadcasting club.
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Like I was just always always had a.
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Curiosity, an innate curiosity
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about the world and what was happening.
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I think what's so interesting about you two is not
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only are you the youngest press secretary
4:01
ever at twenty seven, but at twenty
4:03
five, you were the youngest nominee for congressional
4:05
office in major party history. So
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growing up, were you always one of those kids
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that was hypermotivated.
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Yes, I would say, And I grew up
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in a small business family that was
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entrepreneurial and worked really
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hard. I think that work ethic was just part
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of our household and think it led
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me to where I am now.
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When your parents were running the ice cream
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stand and the truck dealership, did
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you pick up shifts.
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Oh yes, my first job in
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life was scooping ice cream, and
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my mom we hired a lot of my friends,
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so my girlfriends and I, who are still my best friends
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to this day, would all work together, long
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days, long shifts, scooping ice cream in the
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summer sun. But it was some of my best
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memories from life and a lot of fun.
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What would you say was your parents' parenting
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style?
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Discipline was a
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reality in the household, but also
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a lot of love and support
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and pushing us to be the best
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we could, but high expectations,
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right, Like my dad always had a say
5:04
in growing up. The parents go to work
5:06
and the kids go to school. We were not allowed
5:08
to miss school even if we didn't feel well.
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Like you get up and you go to school, and the parents
5:13
get up and go to work. So it was an
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amazing childhood. And I'm very blessed to have
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parents who are still together. They've been married more
5:20
than thirty five years, and you know, they
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had humble beginnings, but they've worked very hard
5:24
and they're very supportive of course
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to this day, of everything that I've done in my life thus
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far.
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I mean, they must be so proud of you.
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I think they are.
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Let's talk about you discovering your political
5:33
spark. I loved hearing that
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you really came into yourself in college,
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Like college was a very pivotal time in your life,
5:40
right. Yeah.
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So I went on a softball scholarship,
5:43
but quickly learned it was politics was
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the game that I was most interested in playing,
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and so I gave up the softball team after
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two seasons because I wanted to throw myself in
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as many academic opportunities as possible.
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I studied abroad in Italy, which was an
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amazing time of life. But I
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started the broadcasting club and I wrote
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for the school newspaper. I worked at the local
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news station in New Hampshire WMRTV
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and did weekend shifts working in the newsroom.
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And I just tried to seek out every opportunity.
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And then I applied for the White House internship as
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well, which led me to working for President
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Trump in his first term here about
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eight years ago or so, which is amazing
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to think how it's come full circle. But it
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was in college that I certainly learned I
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enjoyed politics and enjoyed
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debating, and enjoyed reading
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about different perspectives and really
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was fascinated by this entire political
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world.
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When do you feel like in college you really found
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your voice, Because I feel like the hardest thing about
6:38
being a college student is not only
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figuring out what you believe in, but then figuring
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out how to vocalize it. So let's
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talk about that coming of age for you.
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Yeah, and certainly as a Republican
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and as a young conservative on college campuses,
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you are in the minority. It's just the reality
6:54
of the age we live in, and
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so I feel as though it
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can be more difficult, especially for conservatives
7:02
like myself, to have that courage to voice your opinion
7:04
when you're in the minority. But I always
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just had the courage and felt very strongly
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about my views and opinions and wrote about
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them in the school newspaper, raised my hand in class
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and made it well known amongst the
7:15
class and my peers. You just have
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to have courage, And I've found that courage is
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contagious, and when you speak up and speak your
7:22
mind about how you feel, it often
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inspires others around you to do the same. And
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so I just did it.
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When you first started writing articles
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for the newspaper and you started the broadcast
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club on campus, you
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were writing some bold political pieces. I wrote
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one of them down. One of the titles of your articles
7:40
was why Donald Trump keeps on winning? Outside
7:43
of just that article, when you first published
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your first kind of opinion piece in
7:48
the school newspaper or maybe spoke about
7:50
it in the journals and in the broadcast club,
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were you nervous to press the submit button
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or were you excited to maybe get your ideas
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out there.
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I was excited and enthusiastic about
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it. I don't recall being nervous. Maybe I
8:02
was at the time, but I felt strongly about
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those opinions.
8:05
Did you ever cause a stare on campus? There were
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a few stories, Okay, give us story.
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There were a few controversies, and there
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were certainly professors that were very liberal
8:14
and did not agree with me or
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the opinions that I held, And I made that, you
8:18
know, quite known. It's not an easy thing to do,
8:20
as again a young conservative on campus, but I
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did it.
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How did your peers initially react,
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and maybe how did your teammates react?
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Always with positivity, you know, I never
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had any bad encounters
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or anything like that.
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You went on to intern for Trump during
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his first term. How did
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you get the internship.
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I literally applied on White House
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doc of and filled out the application.
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It was very long and lengthy. I frankly
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did not expect I would have been chosen.
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I was studying in Rome,
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Italy, when I received the email
9:03
from the White House saying I was accepted
9:05
into the program for that following summer.
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I'll never forget, you know, receiving that email
9:10
and what a surprise it was. And of course
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I enthusiastically said yes and moved
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to Washington several weeks later and took
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the internship, you know, with my best
9:19
foot forward and showed up early and stayed
9:21
late. And then it led to
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a full time job. So I finished my
9:26
senior year of school and then moved back to Washington
9:29
and was here as a full time employee.
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It's amazing. Do you remember walking into
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the White House on your first day of that internship.
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I do.
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I do remember exactly where I
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was. I remember the red blazer that I wore. I
9:40
recently gave it up because she was so old
9:43
and tired. But I do remember
9:45
that first day and feeling like,
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Wow, this is amazing that I'm you know, working
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at the White House.
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What was it about President Trump? That you were so
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inspired by in those early years. Was there a
9:54
message of his that you really resonated with that
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you were like, I want to work for him.
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Yeah, the America First message,
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which continues to be his core principle
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to this very day, and that
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resonated with me again growing
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up in a middle class family who worked
10:09
very hard. There's a saying called the Forgotten
10:11
men and Women, which I think is very real in our country.
10:14
A lot of people feel left behind by
10:16
the political establishment. And President
10:18
Trump was the first politician in a very
10:20
long time to really speak to the heart of
10:22
those men and women, many of whom I
10:25
grew up with. And that was my worldview and
10:27
perspective, and his message really resonated
10:29
with me from initially his twenty sixteen
10:31
campaign, as you pointed out, for my OpEd at
10:33
that time, which led me to want to work
10:35
here.
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And you went from interning at the White House and then,
10:38
as you said, getting offered a full time job when
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you were working under the former White House
10:42
Press Secretary, Kaylee, did you ever
10:45
think to yourself, this is a job I could see myself
10:47
doing.
10:48
Gosh, I'm sure I did.
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I was just in the moment in that job trying to do
10:53
my best and support her in the role, and
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it was really imperative
10:58
for me to have that experience. Look looking back now
11:00
in hindsight, how critical it was to
11:02
come in here in this term on the first
11:04
day being the press secretary, understanding
11:07
how the office works and what the staff should
11:09
look like. That institutional knowledge that
11:12
I came in with was so critical, and I'm very grateful
11:14
for that experience.
11:15
It is so important to have that foundational
11:18
kind of background. And it's fun now knowing,
11:20
I'm sure with some of the people that you work with, kind
11:22
of looking at them and being like, this could be you one day, so
11:24
like, soak it all in right, right for sure? What
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do you think is one thing that you learned from Kaylee's
11:29
time and your time working with Kaylee?
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Yeah, preparation is key. She
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prepared a lot. I know.
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I've spoken to many of my predecessors in this role
11:36
who told me preparation is everything,
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and it absolutely is. I mean, on briefing
11:41
days, every day, I'm here very
11:43
early, reading the news, absorbing
11:45
it from every newspaper. Literally,
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I read the physical newspaper, I read
11:50
obviously whatever is popping online, and
11:52
then watching all of the cable networks to get
11:54
a full understanding of what the news
11:56
cycle is for the day. And then sometimes
11:59
I feel like an internal investigative
12:01
reporter. I go to all the policy
12:03
experts in the building and the President himself
12:05
to understand his feeling on it, what
12:08
the administration is saying, what are we doing
12:10
about the particular news of the day,
12:12
and how I can put my best foot forward to message
12:14
it on behalf of this building.
12:16
Do you feel like as a press secretary like most
12:18
of your day to day is spent
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learning and understanding what's going on and
12:24
figuring out the right ways toward things
12:26
when you're in the briefing room.
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Definitely, my day is being
12:30
a sponge and absorbing as
12:32
much knowledge and information as I can.
12:35
And the new cycle changes not just every
12:37
day, but every hour. There are new stories
12:39
popping and breaking, and we are the White
12:42
House. We have to respond to everything
12:44
across the country, and so it's
12:46
a lot to absorb and it's
12:48
a new challenge every day.
12:50
You never know what the next day we'll bring.
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It's an exciting job in that way, and you're
12:54
showing that you can thrive in chaos, absolutely
12:56
right. It's like there's always so much
12:58
going on, new things happening everything they I agree.
13:00
So I'm curious about this because you went from
13:03
working under Kayley to then running
13:05
your congressional campaign where you had to
13:07
become your own voice. Right,
13:10
What was it like going from being on
13:12
the communications team to then being
13:15
your own voice? Like? Was that a pivot for you?
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Did you feel like it was a big leap?
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Yeah, And in many ways it was almost
13:21
more difficult being my own
13:23
voice because when you are a candidate
13:26
yourself or your name is on the ballot, you
13:28
have to make decisions about what
13:30
you want to say. What do your stakeholders
13:33
want you to say, what does your family believe, what
13:35
do your constituents want in need? What
13:37
does the media expect that you're going to say?
13:39
And so there's a lot of different perspectives
13:41
you have to take into account, then make a decision,
13:44
and then message it. Whereas now as
13:46
the spokesperson for the president, he's the decision
13:48
maker and I'm just here to effectuate
13:50
that message and to drive it home.
13:53
And so in many ways, it's actually
13:55
easier to be a spokesperson for someone
13:57
else than for yourself. And I've found that be
14:00
a quite interesting trajectory, if you
14:02
will, from going from running for Congress
14:04
myself to now working on behalf
14:06
of another individual.
14:08
But I do feel like doing both gives you confidence
14:12
in a way that somebody that hasn't had that experience
14:15
speaking for themselves, like yeah, wouldn't have.
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It was critical experience and I'm so glad I
14:20
did it, and I learned so much about myself
14:22
and politics as well, and I
14:25
don't regret the experience at all. In many
14:27
ways, I'm grateful that I lost the election
14:29
because it shut that door, but it opened
14:32
this one. And you know, I probably
14:34
wouldn't be sitting here if not for that
14:36
election and the way it turned.
14:38
Out, right, I mean, it is so true, like when one door closes
14:40
in another door or bins. During that time, I'm
14:42
sure it was your first time dealing with press,
14:44
right and people having positive and negative
14:47
views on you, So it's kind of an opportunity
14:49
to thicken your skin before you're on this now
14:51
massive stage at the White House.
14:53
Yes, you gotta just learn
14:56
how to block it out and not
14:58
care what people think or say you.
15:00
You're always going to have someone who dislikes you no matter
15:02
what you do, So I think just staying authentic
15:04
to yourself and staying grounded
15:07
is so important and I definitely learned
15:09
that firsthand on the campaign.
15:11
Trail as a press secretary or even you know, when
15:13
you were in the running. How did your inner circle
15:15
change? How do you decide
15:17
who is kind of a safe space for
15:19
you? Does it become much smaller?
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In many ways, I've always had a
15:24
smaller close circle, if you will.
15:26
My best friends are still my best friends from high
15:28
school. I have very close
15:31
friends and confidance here at the White House,
15:33
my colleagues, and we're very blessed to
15:35
have an amazing team. Many of us worked
15:37
on the president's campaign together, so
15:40
when he won, we all came in and so
15:42
we have close relationships and bonds, which
15:44
is very important and also quite rare in
15:46
this city to have colleagues who you
15:48
truly like and want to be with every day. And I'm very
15:50
grateful to have that here at the White House. But of
15:52
course, now my whole life has changed
15:55
being a wife and a mother, and so my
15:57
family is my rock and who
16:00
I spend the most of my time with
16:02
as life progresses. That's
16:04
the change of life. And it's a beautiful season right
16:06
now.
16:07
It is so nice having that family
16:10
as your backbone, right and you know, the thing that you
16:12
get to go home to, definitely grounding
16:14
you throughout every everything thing. Yeah, okay, So
16:16
you went from your congressional campaign trail to
16:18
then being the lead of Trump's communication
16:21
team for his twenty twenty four campaign. Did
16:23
that feel like an actual progression for you? And
16:25
how did you end up kind of getting that that
16:27
role.
16:28
So I was the national press secretary on
16:30
the campaign, and I was hired
16:32
initially by actually who's now
16:35
my current boss, Taylor Buttowitch. He's our
16:37
deputy chief of staff here at the White House, and he's
16:39
amazing and a good friend, and he
16:41
hired me to start helping
16:43
the president's campaign effort.
16:46
And it was an incredible experience
16:49
and amazing traveling around the country, going
16:51
to rallies and speaking on behalf
16:53
of the president through amazing times
16:56
and also some very dark times.
16:58
I was with him in a courthouse and he was
17:00
reeled against. I was with him through
17:03
some trials and tribulations and a lot of adversity,
17:05
but the President prevailed.
17:07
And now here we are.
17:08
And you were doing it while pregnant, which is the wildest
17:10
thing to me. What
17:21
was the most pivotal moment for
17:23
you where you felt like you really had to step
17:25
up into your role.
17:26
There were so many moments, but definitely
17:30
after the first assassination
17:32
attempt on the President's life in Butler,
17:34
Pennsylvania, which was just a life
17:37
changing moment, a historic moment.
17:39
The whole world watched the former president
17:42
and at that time, possibly the future
17:44
president almost lose his life by millimeter.
17:47
And I had just given birth to my
17:49
child actually a few days prior when
17:52
I watched it on television, and
17:54
that was a moment where I realized, this
17:56
is history.
17:58
This is a.
17:59
Crazy pivotal time
18:01
in our nation's history, and
18:04
when you see something like
18:06
that for someone you work for, and it impacted
18:09
my colleagues and the whole campaign and
18:11
the whole country of course was shook by that
18:13
image of the president standing up,
18:16
blood dripping down his face, saying fight, fight,
18:18
fight. No matter how you feel about Donald Trump,
18:20
that is an iconic, historic,
18:23
solemn moment in our nation's history. And
18:25
that was very impactful, I think for
18:27
all of us on the campaign, and it kind
18:30
of made us all pull ourselves up from our
18:32
bootstraps and want to work even
18:34
harder and fight even harder to win, and
18:36
it really created a camaraderie amongst
18:39
the campaign about what we were up against
18:41
and how critical it was to win
18:43
the election.
18:44
How soon after giving
18:46
birth did you go back to work?
18:49
Several days?
18:50
Which I wasn't expecting, but in light
18:52
of what had happened to the president, I almost
18:54
felt a responsibility to go
18:56
back to work and back on television. So
18:59
I had a student set up in my home
19:01
so I was able to easily go downstairs
19:03
and do a quick TV hit and then of course attend
19:06
to my child, and then went back to the
19:08
office as soon as I could, and brought my
19:10
baby to the office with me. He was always
19:12
with me throughout the entire duration
19:15
of the campaign and just
19:18
made it work.
19:19
Talk about a moment in time for your son
19:21
as well. Right, spending his first days
19:23
on the campaign trail at the White House,
19:25
I mean, and he has.
19:26
No idea what's going on. He's just happy to
19:29
be with his mom and daddy.
19:30
Right.
19:31
Someday, I hope he'll look back at all of these photos
19:33
of him and his mom and
19:35
he'll be very proud.
19:36
What's so cool about you and about that story
19:38
and your July twenty twenty four is that
19:41
you really are showing women that you can
19:43
have a rigorous job and
19:45
you can also be a great mom. You know when you can do
19:48
both, And I think it's so important for people to be able
19:50
to see for you during that time,
19:52
like how did you manage?
19:55
I know you're bringing your baby to work, but that
19:57
can be incredibly challenging, right when sometime the
20:00
work almost has to take priority
20:03
in a way, especially when it's like you're doing a service
20:05
for the United States.
20:06
It's an incredible challenge and it's something
20:08
I still face to this very day, having
20:11
to deal with that balance of
20:14
wanting to be the best you can in your job
20:16
and being the best mother that you possibly
20:18
can as well. And it takes a lot
20:20
of sacrifice and a lot of prioritization
20:23
of time and sometimes means
20:25
saying no to commitments because you have to be
20:27
home for bedtime and that's okay,
20:30
And having a good support system is so incredibly
20:33
important. It's certainly a challenge,
20:35
and again I'm not perfect at it. It's
20:37
something I'm dealing with every day.
20:39
But you do make it look so easy. So
20:41
I'm curious, Like, I mean, your outfit, you
20:43
always look great the outfits are incredible,
20:45
seriously, like you do, you'll hear making
20:47
it look so effortless. I had one of my family
20:49
friends was like, ask her how she never looks tired,
20:52
And I was like, I don't know if I should ask her that because
20:54
she's definitely tired, right, and she's gonna
20:56
say, I'm very, very tired after work, Like
20:58
is what does your day look like? Are you able to turn
21:01
off? Ever?
21:02
I try to at night, you know, I
21:04
go home and immediately go into mom
21:06
mode and we do bedtime as a family,
21:09
eat dinner as a family, bathtime,
21:11
book reading, and you know, put the
21:14
baby down, and then I try to
21:16
take time after that for myself
21:18
to you know, do what I need to do to
21:20
get a good night's sleep. And I do
21:22
try to prioritize sleep because
21:24
it's critical to focus
21:27
and getting up and ready and then wake
21:30
up early and the next day begins.
21:32
Right, and also like be a mom, but also squeeze
21:34
in time to be with your husband. I know, what does date
21:36
night look like? As the Press Secretary of the United
21:39
States, Yeah, they're.
21:40
Few and far between.
21:41
Yeah, we recently had one at the Kennedy
21:44
Center and we went to a show we went to dinner after
21:46
and it was amazing. But date
21:48
nights often are including our baby. Right
21:50
now, we just love being together as a family,
21:52
the three of us. It's our safe place,
21:55
our happy place, and so we spend
21:57
a lot of time with the three of us
21:59
at home, going out for walks and going
22:01
out to dinner as well.
22:02
That makes so much sense. I feel like those are the moments
22:04
you look forward to the most, especially as a new
22:06
mom.
22:06
Yes, and just savor every
22:09
second.
22:09
As we've said multiple times during this interview, you are
22:11
the youngest Press secretary in US history.
22:14
It's so wild that you are not only
22:16
doing one of the hardest jobs, but you
22:18
are also making history while doing it.
22:21
What does that mean to you? Like when people say
22:23
that to you, what feeling does it evoke?
22:25
You know, when you're in the moment in
22:27
something, it's I think it's a little bit
22:30
hard to digest. So I'm
22:32
not so sure that I have to be honest.
22:34
I'm just trying to do my best every day,
22:36
putting my best foot forward and
22:39
executing on the job that I have. And
22:41
it's a great responsibility. I'm certainly
22:43
aware of that, and I take it very seriously,
22:46
and so we just keep working hard
22:48
and keep chugging.
22:49
Do you remember getting the call from
22:51
the President to be his press
22:53
secretary?
22:54
Of course, where were you?
22:55
What's the story.
22:56
I was in our home in New Hampshire and
22:58
we had a phone conversation, and you
23:01
know, he had told me in that conversation,
23:03
you're going to be my you know, my White House spokesperson.
23:06
I'm sure of it. Let's make it happen.
23:08
This was about a week after the election, and
23:10
so I obviously said
23:12
thank you and yes, called my family to let
23:15
them know, and then a statement went out a
23:17
few hours later, and in that moment,
23:19
it was definitely life changing.
23:21
For sure. Everybody sees your podium moments,
23:23
but what is something behind the scenes that
23:26
you wish you could show people.
23:27
It's a good question.
23:28
I think our incredibly
23:30
cordial relationships with the media.
23:33
It's hostile sometimes and
23:36
we make it known when we disagree with their reporting
23:38
or when there are inaccuracies, and we
23:40
I think we should to hold the media accountable
23:43
and make sure that they're accurately representing the
23:45
administration and pushing the truth out there.
23:48
But we also have good working relationships
23:51
with them. We try to work with them in good faith, and we
23:53
expect them to do the same. And so I
23:55
think, you know, people who see
23:57
the briefings may not understand that the media
23:59
are like our colleagues. We work with them on a day
24:02
to day basis to shape stories on behalf
24:04
of the president.
24:04
When people are just viewing the briefings, they're like everybody's
24:07
fighting, everybody's screaming. But at the same time, yet
24:09
it's like you're just people. You're all here at the White
24:11
House in DC to do your job
24:13
exactly. So I've interviewed Dana Prino
24:16
and one of the things that we were talking about
24:18
was advice that she's gotten
24:21
and received from past Press
24:23
secretary. So I'm curious for you, like, what
24:25
is the best advice you received
24:28
before stepping into the role.
24:29
Some of the best advice I received was from Dana,
24:32
who's one of my predecessors and
24:34
has become a mentor and she's just an
24:36
amazing, lovely person. And
24:39
she said, there's no shortcut
24:41
for preparation. And we talked a lot about preparation
24:44
before I stepped into the role and what it looked
24:46
like for her. And I've emulated some of those strategies
24:49
in terms of reading everything, and
24:51
having meetings with policy staff
24:53
and having meetings with my team
24:56
to really get a full graphs on the news
24:58
cycle before I take the podium.
25:00
Outside of preparation for upcoming
25:02
press secretaries or people that you know will
25:04
be in the role after you. What
25:07
is something that you would say to them?
25:08
Oh, gosh, ask me that question
25:11
in four years. I don't know yet.
25:13
I'm still in the thick of it, still learning
25:15
and try to do my best. But I think again,
25:17
the best advice I can give is, you've got to be
25:19
on top of the news cycle and have a close relationship
25:22
with the president or the principle that you're
25:24
speaking on behalf. You have to get inside their head
25:26
and understand their thinking in order to most
25:28
accurately articulate what they want
25:30
you to say and what the administration in the White
25:32
House believe. You got to really know
25:35
the person you're speaking on behalf of. You have to really
25:37
understand how they think and feel.
25:39
What is your relationship with President Trump?
25:41
Look like?
25:41
It's great.
25:42
He's a great boss to work for. He's
25:45
fun, he's hilarious, one of the funniest
25:47
people I've ever met. He's a great sense of humor
25:50
and He's incredibly kind and
25:52
he's a great listener, and I'm
25:55
very honored to work for him.
25:56
I feel like one story that I heard that I
25:58
loved was after the first attempt
26:01
at assassination, didn't he call you and
26:03
instead of asking, instead of talking about
26:05
what had just happened to you, he called you and was.
26:08
Yes, yeah.
26:08
He like, how was your baby?
26:09
Yeah yeah.
26:11
Around that time after the assassination
26:13
attempt and dr it was the mist of the Republican
26:15
Convention, so he was incredibly busy.
26:18
I had obviously just had my son, and
26:20
he and the first lady called to make
26:22
sure I was okay and to talk about the baby.
26:25
And he was incredibly kind and gracious and
26:27
continues to be to this day. And something
26:30
most people may not realize about the President,
26:32
as he has not just hired me as a young working
26:34
mom, but there are tons of working
26:37
moms and dads in the West Wing and
26:39
at the White House, and he empowers us
26:42
to do both. And I think that's quite
26:44
admirable for the President of the United States
26:46
to encourage working families so much.
26:48
Final question for you is knowing what you
26:50
know now? What is something that you would tell your
26:52
younger self oh boy.
26:54
Just keep going, just keep working.
26:57
I love it well. Thank you so much, Caroline.
26:59
This was seri amazing.
27:00
Yes, thank you for having me.
27:09
M hmm
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