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All right, everyone, welcome back to Post
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run High. Today's guest is Lindsay Davis.
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She's an award winning journalist, ABC News
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anchor, best selling author, mom,
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and so much more. I'm so excited to get
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in today's combo. Lindsay,
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how was the run for you?
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It was good. I mean, as I was telling you, I guess
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I'm just still congested because I was more breathy
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than I thought. I was like, Lindsay, you are
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not in shape. But it went so
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fast just having a conversation. I
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love to talk and run. There
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are very few other people who I meet that
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liked to do the same. I
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remember one time I was going
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for a run with my sister and
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I was like, Oh, this is going to be such a good bonding
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experience in my head. And we got there.
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We drove to the beach to run along the beach, and
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then she hoped in her AirPods
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and I was like, Oh, I guess we're not talking doing
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this run. So I just think that the conversation
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just goes. It just makes the run go so much faster.
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Lindsay and I just got back from running a mile through
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Brooklyn and it was so nice finding
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out that Lindsay is a runner and that often
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you prep for a show by going
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for a run.
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It's sometimes it's something I like to do by
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myself as well. I mean, there's so many benefits
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to it, but I do like to have that shared
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passion with other people. And as
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we were talking about before, we brought it on our
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show on ABC News Live Prime,
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and it's just a fun way to get to know
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people.
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Yeah, and we talked about this during the run, but let's
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talk about how you guys brought it onto ABC.
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Because I love the concept.
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So we decided maybe
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four years ago that it would be
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a great idea to just bring something that I
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was passionate about and incorporated
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into the show. And so we
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started thinking about running
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on the campaign trail and people
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who were literally running for
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office, that we could kind
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of have a little fun with that in a figurative
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and literal way and run
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with the candidates. And so
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the first one we did was Beto O'Rourke, who
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was running for governor of Texas
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at that time. Then we did Doctor
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Oz who was running for Senate in
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Pennsylvania. Ended up doing
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a number of people. It was interesting Nancy
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Mace at that time, who's a
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congresswoman in South Carolina.
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She had long COVID, so she said she
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couldn't run anymore, even though she was a runner. So
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then we kind of started expanding
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and let people kind of pick whatever
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exercise or activity they wanted to do.
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So we went paddleboarding with her and
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started you know, biking with different people,
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but we still got it race to November
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and just we were just moving forward
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in whatever way on the campaign trail.
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And I just loved the idea because
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quite often, in particular with politicians,
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you know, you have them all buttoned up
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and kind of sitting all quafft
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and you're just asking the basic same
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questions about you know, abortion or
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gun control or whatever it is. And
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this was just a way to kind of just get to know
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them as a person and really humanize
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them and just find relatable
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qualities because you
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know, running or walking or hiking it's
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something that everybody can do. And
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I think that it just, you know,
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it gives a signals to the viewer. There
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are ways that they're just like I am too.
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It's so true that movement fosters
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incredible conversation. So I love knowing
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that you guys have been incorporating that into your show,
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and it not only makes the guests feel
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human and look human, but I feel like it also
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for an interviewer. It helps you come up with
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ideas and maybe things that you would
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not have thought of if you weren't moving your bodies.
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There's something to it that I find really
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inspirational. Like I will
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think about again something that might be upcoming
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that we're going to be whether it's an inauguration
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or a or some big
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event, and I'll
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think, oh, wow, we should bring
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this up. We should talk about this aspect. And as
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I was mentioning too, just to kind of multitask.
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Quite often i'll listen to it audible, you know,
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an audiobook while I'm running
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to prepare for that next
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big event that I'm covering.
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I love knowing when staying active is a big part
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of somebody's life. So I want you to
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kind of back us up and tell.
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Us a little bit about yourself. Where did you grow
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up, What were you like as a kid.
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So I'm from South Jersey,
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Moore's town with an E. As I always say,
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not to be confused, because there's a Moors town in North
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Jersey. So I'm in a bedroom community of
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Philadelphia. Go Eagles, by
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the way. But I
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think I was very extroverted
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as a child. I used to dance
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like Michael Jackson routines during
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recess, and you know, entertain
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my family. I would pretend that I
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had a radio station for whatever
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we and I remember being in my grandparents'
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living room and I would like
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tell like silly jokes and laugh
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and be like ha ha, that was just a joke.
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You know.
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My family all kind
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of entertained this
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concept of me being this entertainer.
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And then, interestingly, I
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don't know, maybe in late middle school
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or then getting into high school, I
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kind of became introverted. I started
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to just be a little shy,
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and I think I still
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am. I mean, I'm the kind of person
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who at a party where I don't know many
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people, I'm not gonna go up and
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introduce myself. And it's something
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that I think surprises people
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because I have this very public
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persona at work, but
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I actually am really kind of
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a quiet homebody. I
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love running, obviously, but I
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love a good book as well, and watching
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movies, and really, because
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I'm so I think on the go with my
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job and career and regularly
6:03
on a plane. I love just kind
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of the quiet times at
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home with family. I
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would say during high school and everything, I ended
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up being kind of a nerd. I
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was playing computer games at home on
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a Friday or Saturday night, always
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had a good group of friends.
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I just for whatever reason, I wasn't
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the you know, the one out at the life
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of the party or anything, but just all
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of a sudden just kind of became a little more
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introverted.
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I find that with a lot of people.
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Often you go through kind of high school
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and your adolescence, and it's oftentimes people
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stray away from kind of some of the things
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that make them them sure, and
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it's cool to know that you did end up coming back
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to that.
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It's full circle in a different way.
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You know. You think you learned that you like being
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more to yourself in your personal life, but you
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do like being extroverted with work.
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My mom always tells the story about how
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I would, you know, entertain and pretend I
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had my little radio show. It is
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interesting saying that, you know, somehow
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there was kind of a seed. I guess that was planted
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early on of the concept
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of how I wanted to present
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information to people, and
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that now I'm you know, doing
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this for a living and loving it.
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What do you think your younger self would think of you
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now?
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I think my younger self would be surprised
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that it all worked out in the
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end. Again, just
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because I kind of went through
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that period where I think I kind of like shrunk
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a little bit, like I just wasn't like the
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big personality and
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I can't even think of, you know, what it
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was that caused that. But yeah,
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I was very into sports. I
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think it wasn't until I
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maybe was thirty that I ran more
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than three miles ever, you know, at
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one time. And really what happened. I lived
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in Indianapolis. I was working at Indianapolis
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affiliate there and the
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station hosted the Mini
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Marathon, which I believe at the time,
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I don't know that it still holds this title, but
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it was the largest half marathon in America,
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and the draw was that you got to
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run around the Indianapolis
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Motor Speedway. They would always encourage
8:14
us at the station to participate,
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and I lived along this running
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trail called the Monon Trail, and I would
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just be sitting there, you know, eating my chips on
8:23
the couch and seeing people running
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by and biking by and rollerblading by.
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After a while, I started kind of preparing
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and training along the mona
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On Trail and ever since
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that, I started running that every
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year. And then, as I
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was saying to you while we were running,
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how I met my husband was because my cousin had
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asked him, you know, what are you looking for in a woman, and
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he simply said one thing, the very
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high bar of she has to like to run, and
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that was it. Even though I
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have some other qualities I think I can
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bring to the relationship.
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It's amazing the people that you meet through
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running. Let's back up. I want to know how
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you got into journalism and what it was about
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journalism, you know, outside of love
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and entertaining people as a younger
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kid, what was it about journalism that you
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were interested in?
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So I went to University of Virginia. At the
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time, they didn't have a communications major, but
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I wanted to be a psychologist. I figured
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out I think, you know, you had to declare,
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I think by your second semester what you
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wanted to major in. And at
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eighteen years old or however old
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I was at the time, I was just like
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panicked, you know, I needed to decide, and I had
9:34
already gone through in my mind several
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concepts. Initially, I always thought I wanted to be a
9:39
lawyer, and then I felt like, if
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I'm in a courtroom, there's always
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gonna be winning and losing, and I'm super competitive,
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and I thought that just wouldn't be very hell ultimately
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for my psyche of just like winning
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and losing all the time for my career. And
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then I decided I really liked talking to
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people. I like listening. I think sometimes
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I go because I I write children's books also, and sometimes
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I go to schools and read, and like
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twice I've been asked by some of the students
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there, the young kids, what's my superpower,
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which is like a okay,
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that's a good question to think about. And
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what I've decided it's empathy. I
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think I'm able to imagine,
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you know, walking a mile in someone else's
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shoes. And so I decided,
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really I was going to be a psychologist. And then
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I studied abroad in London that second semester
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my third year, and it was the first time
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I was able to just take other classes
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outside of psychology. I
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had had a Spanish exchange student from high
10:38
school for whatever reason, I ended up
10:41
in the apartment by myself watching
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last Notesia was watching the news in Spanish.
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It was almost like that Charlie Brown mom
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moment of like want, want, want, and just
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like in that moment, I said,
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that's what I want to do. And
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from that time on, once I got back
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to UVA, just
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started now researching, Okay,
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what steps do I have to take, because I
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didn't want to leave that college to find a communications
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program to start all over again. So
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I just still graduated with my psychology
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degree, and then I went to grad school. So I
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came here and went to NYU and then got Because
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it's different now fortunately for students
11:20
at the time, in order to get an internship
11:22
you had to get it for college credit.
11:24
You couldn't even offer to work for free,
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you know, for a station. So basically
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I went to NYU just so I could
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get an internship and did end
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up interning a WNBC, and
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I just think it was so helpful just to
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get a foot in the door and just understand,
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you know, how the newsroom works. And
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ever since then just was off to
11:45
the races. And I really I don't regret,
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you know, the psychology major, because
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I think that it helps me relate to
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people and just kind of meet them where they are.
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And you know, on our show ABC News Life Prime,
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we talked to authors,
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entertainers, politicians,
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and everybody is kind of coming in at
12:05
a different tone level and
12:07
a different you know, background,
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obviously, and I just think with that
12:13
background that I have, it just helps
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me be a little more relatable.
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And I feel like having that psychology
12:20
degree, you learn certain things and
12:22
mannerisms about people, and it helps you
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figure out how to interact with kind of anybody.
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And I also love knowing that you have that very
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empathetic side of you, which is so important
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in interviewing.
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Quite often I will
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go into an interview and I
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think the best question or the best
12:39
interaction is nothing I planned
12:41
ahead of time. It's just something
12:44
I responded to based on
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listening. So now that what I will
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say, Because initially I was saying like I was
12:50
apologizing to my parents because I was like, oh
12:53
my gosh, you know, you basically have to pay this
12:55
fifty thousand dollars fornyu so I can go work
12:57
for free and get this internship. But
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what that master's degree afforded
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me was that I could teach college classes.
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And so when I was in Indianapolis there
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was a Franklin College, I started teaching this writing
13:09
for Journalism class, and I've
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ended up loving being able
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to teach college students
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and just when they get it, you
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know, when they grasp There was just nothing
13:20
more rewarding for me just
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to and just to see their excitement
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and their enthusiasm, and it's just I'm
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so blessed really that I
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was able to go through this journey
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in the way that I did, because
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I think it's it's all just kind of come full
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circle.
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Absolutely, and it's amazing to be able to go
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back and teach students
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what you wish you had known when.
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You were there, exactly.
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When you first started interning at
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these networks, it's a very
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competitive industry. What was your first
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job when you did start working.
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So I was in Syracuse. I was working at
14:04
the CBS affiliate there and
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it was basically like a paid internship.
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I would go out and get mos like which
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was man on the street. So I would, you know, for
14:16
whoever was anchoring and they weren't
14:18
really leaving the building. I would go out and
14:20
ask the people, like, what do you think about this? New
14:22
law that's coming to New York. Hillary
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Clinton was running for Senate for the first
14:27
time, so I did an interview
14:29
with her at the time.
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Was that your biggest interview?
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That was my biggest interview in New York
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for sure.
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Ah. So I just have to say man on the street style
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interviewing, which is what I started with as well,
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builds confidence and improv skills
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like no other.
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I agree, And you know what I've learned
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again maybe that little psychology
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background, I am pretty good,
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Like I can ninety percent of the time tell
14:52
who's going just their body language, who's
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gonna stop for you and
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actually answer your question before
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they were like they opened up their mouth like I'm
15:02
kind of like, you know, I'll be working with a photographer
15:04
and they would say, you know what about this guy? And
15:06
I was like, no, there's no way he's gonna talk to us.
15:08
And at a certain point you just want to be really
15:11
sensitive to time and making
15:13
sure you can get you know, come back with those like four
15:16
different soundbites. So I think I have a good
15:18
I'm very perceptive in that way. Who's
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actually going to talk
15:22
to you and give you maybe like a decent answer.
15:25
Some people will surprise you for sure. I
15:27
remember a bunch of people were sick
15:29
for Columbus Day that year, and
15:32
so they just needed me to go out
15:34
and do an interview. It was my first
15:36
time on air. I was super
15:38
nervous. I had no idea what I was doing.
15:41
I wrote a script that was maybe like five minutes
15:43
long, and you know, really it needed
15:45
to be a minute and a half, but
15:48
that was my It was just very fortuitous
15:51
because everybody was six. So it was like they
15:53
turned around, like lindsay, you're going out
15:55
and doing this, kid, And shortly
15:57
after that they allowed me
15:59
to come back. I can and you know, keep doing it
16:02
pretty regularly after that.
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And I know there was another big moment like that in
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your career. You went from correspondent
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to being an anchor in twenty twenty. What
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was the learning curve like going from
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correspondent to anchor? And you can tell me
16:15
if I'm getting the terminology wrong, Oh.
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No, you're right, I'm right one hundred percent.
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As I had was always like working my way
16:23
up the ladder and getting to bigger
16:25
market. So I started out in Syracuse,
16:28
then I was in Flint, Michigan. Then I went
16:30
to Indianapolis. So during my time
16:32
in Indianapolis, and I ended up being there for about five
16:34
years, I went from
16:37
the weekday morning reporter to
16:40
weekend anchor. Well I was still then, I was doing
16:42
both. I think then I became like night beat reporter
16:44
and I did that three days week and then I anchored
16:46
two days a week. So I kind of had that skill
16:49
set of being able to anchor
16:51
and report. I didn't
16:53
have aspirations of being an anchor.
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I really just love storytelling. I
16:58
like talking to people. I like telling their stories.
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Just kind of fell into
17:04
the opportunity to anchor it. And even though I always
17:06
had loved it when I was in local news
17:08
and being able to do both.
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What do you think is the difference between reporting
17:12
and being an anchor.
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I feel when you're actually out
17:16
on the street and going to the
17:19
bridge collapse, the plane crash,
17:21
whatever it is, you're you
17:23
know, actually gathering the different
17:26
elements for the story. You're
17:28
talking to people, you're seeing the visuals,
17:30
and you're focused on just that one
17:33
story for the day. When you
17:35
are anchoring, you're more
17:38
removed quite often, and you're telling
17:41
all of the major headlines of the day
17:44
and you're tossing to different
17:46
people who are out in the field or
17:48
on the scene at a different location. So
17:51
you kind of become a jack
17:53
of all trades and know a little
17:55
bit about a lot Versus when
17:57
you're actually the correspondent or reporter, you
18:00
know that story in and out.
18:02
You have your sources and contacts,
18:05
and you're keeping up with them and
18:07
really staying on top of any
18:09
developments with that particular
18:11
story. As an anchor, what
18:14
I'm there, it's kind of my job
18:16
is to tell you what's
18:19
happening in the world today. Are
18:22
you safe with regard to you
18:24
know, war or COVID
18:27
or stocks, you know what, all
18:29
the different aspects
18:30
of any given day's
18:34
news.
18:34
It's amazing the range of topics
18:36
that you guys have to cover on a daily basis.
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Is there a briefing that you go through before
18:41
going on air?
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So every day for Prime we have a
18:45
twelve o'clock Senior's call. Really
18:47
it's not too long, maybe fifteen twenty minutes, and
18:49
we're just kind of discussing the
18:52
obvious headlines of the day, the
18:54
things that we want to flesh out a little bit
18:56
more and give a
18:58
little more nuance and give a little extra time
19:00
too. And then some
19:02
of the more what I would call fringe
19:05
stories. So some of the stories,
19:07
because we have the luxury of time,
19:09
we're able to kind of add in
19:12
some stories that you may otherwise
19:15
not have heard of. And we
19:17
do something called prime focus every day where
19:20
it's an extended story. It might be that
19:22
where we really focus on
19:25
something in great detail
19:28
that you likely will not see
19:30
anywhere else. And that's what I think is
19:33
so unique about our show. And to go
19:35
back to your point of, you know, being
19:37
an anchor versus a correspondent,
19:40
the nice thing about our show for me
19:43
is I'm able to still do both. So even
19:46
you know, yesterday I was in Illinois.
19:48
We were doing a story a jailhouse interview
19:50
with someone who claims
19:53
that he is innocent and is wrongfully
19:55
convicted. So I'm able to kind of get
19:57
off the desk every once in a while and still
20:00
have those direct connections
20:02
and do The reason why I got into this
20:05
was the storytelling. And so it's
20:08
really again, I'm kind of living
20:11
a dream in that quite often you're
20:13
one or the other and I
20:15
and I am able to do both.
20:17
In the setting that you were in yesterday, what
20:20
is your approach to getting him to open
20:22
up.
20:22
You know, I don't tend to bring
20:24
notes, So I think
20:27
that when people see like
20:29
the notepad and like the pen and
20:32
oh no, but that that's.
20:34
No, that's on my
20:36
runs. I don't bring notes.
20:37
I just think, especially in
20:39
a scenario like that where
20:42
you want to disarm,
20:47
I like to look at it as
20:49
a conversation and not an interview. And
20:52
so I'm approaching it like,
20:55
let's just talk, I will say
20:58
quite often, which I really see as a complement.
21:00
People will say, oh wow, I
21:02
just felt like we were just having a conversation
21:04
that was so easy. I was so nervous
21:06
about this, and that was painless.
21:09
And so I do think that there is an
21:12
aspect of people when they sit down and they're like, oh,
21:14
I'm gonna get interviewed and I'm gonna get grilled, and
21:16
they see like the long list of questions, where
21:18
people become a little more tense
21:21
and don't give you their
21:24
most authentic answer. So I
21:26
just look at it like a conversation. And again,
21:28
mostly I'm following up, mostly
21:31
because I kind of feel like I come in so
21:34
prepared and I've researched. If you've written
21:37
a book, I've read it. If you've started
21:39
a movie, I've watched it, so a
21:41
lot of it can just be really organic and
21:43
just whatever my inherent
21:45
curiosity is, I'm gonna
21:48
then ask you about it. And quite often just
21:50
in the conversation, people will say
21:52
things that actually become bullet point reminders
21:54
for me, like, oh, yeah, that's right, we
21:56
mentioned whatever aspect
21:59
that they just said, and then I'll it
22:01
becomes a reminder for me that, yes, I wanted to ask
22:03
about.
22:04
That twenty twenty four presidential debate
22:06
between President Trump and Vice President
22:08
Harris.
22:09
What does preparation look like.
22:11
For that kind of a stage when you've got sixty
22:13
seven million people watching.
22:15
It's the most preparation
22:18
that I ever do
22:20
in life. When I did my
22:23
first debate in twenty
22:26
nineteen, which
22:28
was a Democratic a
22:31
primary, I
22:33
was the most nervous I've ever
22:35
been in my life, bar none.
22:38
I remember talking to my
22:40
best friend and I was just like, it's
22:43
months away, and when I think about it, I'm having
22:45
heart palpitations. You know, like, what do I
22:47
do? I think? Like anything? You
22:50
know, once you face
22:52
the fear and you do it one time and
22:55
you decide, oh I did
22:57
that and I lived. You
22:59
know, I lived through it just gets
23:01
so much easier. So I think that even
23:03
though the stakes were higher, arguably
23:06
for the debate that we did in
23:09
twenty twenty four, because
23:11
I already had done it a few times at
23:13
that point, it
23:15
just didn't feel as nerve wracking
23:18
because I just felt, Okay, I've
23:20
done this, I understand how
23:23
it works. Going into twenty into
23:25
twenty twenty four, it was a little
23:28
easier to anticipate just
23:30
because I had done it a few times before. I was able
23:32
to, you know, work a little smarter
23:35
rather than harder in learning as
23:38
much as I did.
23:39
I feel like, at the end of the day, modering a debate
23:41
like that really is a service to the American people.
23:43
So it's like you have to go in more
23:46
prepared than you ever had within
23:57
the craze of world news and debates, which
23:59
can sometimes be very negative. I
24:02
love knowing that you've tapped into a
24:04
different side of storytelling through writing
24:06
children's books.
24:07
By the way, guys, all of these books are so thoughtful.
24:10
Oh thank you, so can you kind of walk us
24:12
through some of your books and where the inspo comes
24:14
from.
24:14
Thinking about my son as he was,
24:17
you know, two or three, and wanting
24:19
to watch mom on the news, and I
24:21
just felt like, oh, this is this is
24:23
too heavy, you know, for a
24:25
little mind to have to watch. So I
24:28
felt this was something that I could share with him
24:30
that would be the good news,
24:32
you know, the positive news. And
24:36
so I knew when I shortly
24:38
after he was born that I wanted to write
24:41
children's books. And I just carried it with
24:43
me for a few years because
24:45
I didn't know how to do it. I
24:47
didn't know where to even begin, and I didn't
24:50
know what I wanted to write about. And
24:52
one day when he was like two or
24:54
three, and I was driving, and he
24:56
was in a backseat of the car, and he asked, Mommy,
24:59
does God open up the flowers? And
25:01
I just thought, what a suite
25:04
and at the same time introspective
25:06
question. And
25:09
I, in that moment, was like, I'm
25:11
going to try and answer that question in a
25:13
book that's I think that's my idea. And
25:17
unbeknownst to him, he really has been
25:20
my inspiration for each
25:22
of the books that I've written, you
25:24
know. At one point he said he came home from
25:27
preschool and he said, how come Santino has
25:29
two grandmas and two grandpas and I just have one
25:31
of each and he didn't
25:34
remember his paternal grandmother.
25:36
His paternal grandfather had already passed before
25:38
he was born. And so I ended
25:40
up writing this book, How High is Heaven, about
25:43
this little boy who's trying to go
25:46
to heaven to meet his grandparents. Because when
25:48
we had had this conversation, because he said, I
25:51
want to go see them, and I said,
25:53
you know, you'll see them one day, you know,
25:55
they're in heaven. And he would
25:57
start asking them questions about what is heaven.
26:00
And fast forward maybe two or three months, and we
26:02
were on a plane and he was looking out
26:04
the window and he was like, I don't see them, and this was out
26:06
of nowhere. I said, you don't see who? And he was
26:08
like, I don't see Grandma Pee. And
26:12
so he inspired
26:14
me, you know, to to
26:17
write about, you know, kids
26:19
who are losing and unfortunately
26:22
it was really during COVID
26:24
when so many people were losing
26:27
loved ones and and
26:29
just trying to explain death I think is a
26:32
really complicated topic obviously for
26:34
a young person, but it's it's necessary
26:37
to have those conversations and just
26:39
you know the world that he was
26:42
growing up with the police protest,
26:45
it was right you know, after George Floyd
26:48
was killed and COVID
26:51
was happening, and there was
26:53
just a lot of tumult. That
26:55
he was about five years old and was just asking
26:58
me questions that were really
27:01
hard questions, and so I would take
27:03
his questions and really use it
27:05
as material for, you
27:08
know, trying to write a book to explain
27:10
some some some hard truths.
27:12
I guess in a in a very palatable
27:15
and appropriate way for a young mind.
27:17
I love it, and I especially
27:19
we love women obviously on this podcast,
27:22
and I especially love Girls of the World
27:24
World. Yes, it's empowering.
27:26
It's cute.
27:27
It shows women that they can do anything, especially
27:29
little girls.
27:30
So even with that one, it's funny
27:32
because I have a boy. But he
27:34
inadvertently again inspired that book
27:37
because I remember one morning I
27:39
was he loves waffles. So I said
27:41
to him, like, why don't you just come in here and you can
27:43
learn how to make the waffles. And he was
27:45
like, Mom, that's for girls.
27:48
And I said, what, No, it's not cooking.
27:50
It's not for girls. And I said, what are you going
27:52
to do when you grow up and you're not living
27:54
with mom anymore? He said, my wife is
27:56
going to cook And so I just
27:58
thought that's it's so interesting
28:01
that he has assigned gender
28:03
roles already. And I think at the
28:05
time he was like seven years old, I
28:08
really wanted to empower
28:11
girls, even for him, you
28:14
know. I mean, I think that it's that males
28:16
have a role in understanding
28:19
early on that women
28:21
are equals and women
28:25
need to understand that so and you know, both
28:27
sexes. I think it's so important, and I think
28:29
that it's important to plant these seeds early
28:32
and not have to change
28:35
minds as adults, but really
28:38
inform young people as
28:41
early as possible.
28:42
What is something from your career, maybe one
28:44
thing, one lesson that you want your
28:46
son to grow up having
28:48
learned. You know.
28:49
I think it really goes back to girls
28:52
of the world. I think that I just want
28:55
him to realize
28:58
that a woman is an equal
29:00
partner. It's funny to me that he even
29:03
had this assumption that women are the
29:05
ones who are at home cooking because
29:08
other than waffles on a Saturday morning,
29:10
I'm not really.
29:11
Maybe it's just like motherly energy though, you
29:14
know what, girls can do anything.
29:18
That's right, and we can moderate political
29:20
debates.
29:21
Yes, I think
29:23
also I want him to
29:25
know that he can do anything
29:27
that he wants to. You know, I think that early
29:30
on my parents instilled in me
29:32
and my I have an older sister that
29:36
the world is ourn't oyster and the
29:39
sky is not the limit. And I
29:42
think I was either smart enough
29:44
or silly enough to believe them,
29:47
And so I want to instill
29:49
that same concept
29:51
in my son. That you know, there's
29:53
a famous quote, whether you think you can or
29:56
you can't do something, you're right. And
29:58
I think so often we limit
30:00
ourselves. We put parameters and closed
30:03
doors and
30:06
believe that, you know, our options
30:08
are limited. I just want
30:10
him to grow up believing that he
30:13
can do it if he thinks
30:15
about it and just wants it
30:18
that and desires it, that he can
30:20
do it.
30:20
As somebody that wants to get into the world
30:22
of broadcast journalism and become a great
30:24
storyteller on my own, What
30:27
is one piece of advice you have for me?
30:29
Whatever you do. You know, there's a quote that says,
30:31
you know, if you want to write books, it's write like a
30:33
reader, right, And so you start
30:35
to whatever you're consuming,
30:38
you start to get an appreciation for what
30:40
works, what is effective,
30:44
what draws you in. So I
30:46
would say, watch the news if
30:48
you want to be on the
30:50
news or you know, that's if you want to be an anchor,
30:52
if you want to be a reporter, study the
30:55
people. Find your favorite
30:57
anchor, find your favorite correspondent. What
31:00
makes them your favorite? I mean, the thing is
31:02
we are invited guests
31:05
into people's homes, and what
31:07
makes that person stand
31:09
out that you want to you trust them enough to
31:11
invite them into your living room every day. And
31:14
so that's my number one piece of advice. Whatever
31:16
it is you want to do, find who
31:18
you think is the best person
31:21
to do it. And that's not to say
31:23
that you become or emulate that person,
31:26
but I think you just get a sense of style
31:29
and effective and what works, and
31:32
you know, and in an aspirational way, you
31:34
know, what is that person doing that? What
31:36
are some of those takeaways
31:39
that I can use to incorporate
31:41
into my own style, into my own
31:44
voice. And I think that
31:46
that's something that I wish if I
31:48
could go back, I really would
31:50
have paid attention at
31:53
an early age, you know, twelve
31:55
thirteen, fourteen, to really pay
31:58
attention to because ultimately,
32:00
storyteller telling, I think is a formula. I think
32:02
there's a style. I think there is a sensibility
32:05
that you over time learn
32:07
and I, you know, just happened was like
32:09
kind of in my early twenties when I was learning
32:11
it, I wish I had learned it a decade earlier.
32:14
I was asking somebody the other day,
32:16
a mentor of mine, you know, is there a
32:18
class you can take to get really good at
32:20
interviewing? And she was like, well, of
32:22
course there's programs in schools and universities,
32:25
but honestly, you learn.
32:26
By doing and by watching.
32:28
Exactly what you're saying, Lindsey, what do you
32:30
have coming up that you're super excited about
32:32
that you want everyone to know about that's listening
32:35
or watching.
32:36
So I'm looking
32:38
forward to and I don't have a date yet. I imagine
32:40
it'll be in April, but we've with
32:44
Jamie Snow, who I was just mentioning. I went and
32:46
interviewed him in a prison
32:48
in Illinois. He
32:51
says that he's innocent and that he claims
32:53
that he's been wrongfully convicted for
32:56
more in excess of twenty five years for
32:58
a murder that he says he did not commit.
33:02
We went and interviewed all
33:04
from Georgetown University students. Jason
33:06
Flomm, of course, author John
33:09
Grisham and then went and interviewed
33:12
Jamie Snow his two daughters who are
33:14
now grown, and so
33:17
really all aspects and this is something I
33:19
having to have a personal interest in criminal
33:21
justice and injustice. We've
33:24
done three prior to
33:26
Jamie Snow jailhouse interviews, all
33:29
three of them ended up being
33:32
released from prison. You
33:34
know. We were doing all just kind of a
33:36
series on wrongful convictions. So
33:40
I'm really eager to share that with
33:42
viewers. Hopefully that'll be on ABCNIWS
33:45
Life Prime at some point in April.
33:46
That's going to be fascinating. I am so excited
33:48
to watch. Thank you so much Lindsey for sitting
33:50
down with me today, and thank you to everybody
33:53
watching and listening.
33:54
Post Run High. Thank you hum
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