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Welcome back to post friend High.
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Today is a very exciting day because
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I am here with Julianne. Huh. Julianne
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is an award winning dancer, singer, actress,
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entrepreneur, author from Gracing Our Screens
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on Dancing with the Stars,
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starring in Footloose, Rock of Ages,
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Safe Haven, and so many more things.
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Wow, you have truly done it all and
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we are currently sitting here in Julianne's
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Kinergy studio. How
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are you? How is the run for you?
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I mean it was great. I was
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with you, we were talking.
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We were talking about our bob haircuts, so
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that's all I care about.
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But we just thought Julian's bob haircut
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is literally perfect right now. And I
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love You've rocked every hairstyle,
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but I'm loving the short hair.
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Thank you. Yeah.
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You know what I always say that like hair is
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like my outward expression of what I'm going and
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like going through internally.
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What are you going through internally right now?
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Internally? Freedom?
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That's why it's as short as possible and
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sassy and free like that is.
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That's definitely that's the era.
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I love it.
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I love it too well.
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Our run was a short burst today. We was
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we ran approximately two la blocks,
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but it was just enough to get our
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post frum high going. And then we hit
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a few dance mooths, which was really fun.
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Yes, and I will tell you right now,
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I won't be able to sit still while we're sitting here.
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I will be in seven different positions
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by the time this podcast.
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We're on a yoga map. So you do it
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ever.
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Full downward dogget.
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No. I'm obsessed with Julian's energy. Like
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as soon as she got here, she was like doing this salsa
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move. It was amazing. It's like those guys that do jiu jitsu,
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where everywhere you go they're just like made a conversation.
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Moving and yeah, that's me. I'm just fully
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just and every conversation that
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it's perfect.
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Okay, talk to us about Kinergy. We're here in your
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studio. What is Kinergy? When
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did you start it? And how did this amazing
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studio come to be?
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So the first thing is,
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first, anywhere I have ever gone
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for the last fifteen years or seventeen
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now that I've been on Dancing with the Stars that long, the
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number one question I get asked from anyone
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around the world is when are
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they going to do dancing with Stars for the regular people.
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And I'm like, well, first of all, nobody is regular. Everybody
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is special and amazing, But why
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do you want to do dancing with Stars? I
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was like, is it because you want to do apasitoblay
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or like They're like no, no, no, I just I want to learn
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how to dance, like I used to dance when I was a
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kid and I haven't since. Or I
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feel like when I watch the celebrities,
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I just feel confident again, and like I
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also want to lose weight and get into that dancer body.
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So I was like, how do I how do I
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transfer the like ten weeks
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of transformation because
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it's a dance show, but it's really a transformation
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show, And so I was like, how do I take ten
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weeks and put it in like a forty five
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minute class? And So through
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everything that I've done in my life, it's all been
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through dance. It's through the lens of dance,
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it's through the lens of transformation. And
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I realized, like dance is
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also so healing, and so I
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kind of just took everything that I had gathered
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throughout my whole life dance, healing,
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transformation, and all of a
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sudden, I just like was like ding. This
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modality came to fruition and that's
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what k energy is. So it's a forty five
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minute class that when you first come
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in, you don't have to dance at all. It's supposed
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to not be intimidating. It's our whole
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mantras. It's not about perfection, it's about
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expression. So when you come in, you
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know, people are a little like nervous to
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start, and by the end, I mean they're
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laughing and crying and hugging and connecting.
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And that's the experience that you get
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on Dancing with the Stars. It becomes a family. And
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I think that's the essence people feel
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when they're watching the show is I
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get to transform my body, I get to learn how to
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dance, I feel confident, and I have this new
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family. That's why Dancing with the Stars just
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lasts as long as it has is because of that
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like key formula.
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So that's what kinergy is.
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But for the average person who just
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wants to connect to themselves,
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relate to people around them, and then just
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experience the world.
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I can definitely see that the fandom of Dancing
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with the Stars runs so deep and I
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feel like I have connected with Dancing
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with Stars with the Stars in a whole new way literally
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through TikTok Oh my god, and just seeing
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them post their lives, all the celebrities
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and the pros that are partnered up together post their
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lives and then really
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like a reality show almost Oh you these
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social media platforms and it's
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wild.
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Yeah, you should do Dancing with the Stars. M that
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would be amazing.
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That would be a true transformation after
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what we just witnessed on the running show. I
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love it. Yeah.
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Hey, but that's the whole point, right, Like even
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the dancers that go on the show, or the celebrities
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that go on the show that aren't necessarily
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the best quote unquote best, it's
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about the energy and the commitment that they
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put into it and the vulnerability that they share.
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That's what people fall in love with. That's who they want
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to root for.
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It's amazing. I mean, you've been dancing your whole life,
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Like to now have a studio class
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that resembles the work that, of course you've
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been doing with Dancing with the Stars for the past seventeen
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years, but also the work that you've been doing your entire
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life training. It is so
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amazing, and I'm sure as an athlete it's
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cool to be able to express yourself
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and the workouts that you love to do and now
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be able to give them to a broader range
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of people.
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That's the key, is like taking everything
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that I've learned in my life and
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being able to share that. I think
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I'm in that stage of my life now, which
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is like I definitely tried
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a bunch of different things, and it was about my own self
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expression, my own transformation. But
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now it's about how can I pass
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this on to other people and
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share the joys that it is
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brought to my life as well as even
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just in dance in general, like the
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next generation of dancers, you know, Like
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that's that's the thing that I'm the most excited about
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in this phase of life.
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Now. What is your relationship to fitness?
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Ah, that is a very good question.
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I mean, it's so funny the
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word fitness feels
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it feels like a thing.
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I think.
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For me, I'm just active.
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I think when I move my body,
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I feel better. When I am
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dancing, I feel better. When I work out, I feel
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better. But it doesn't matter what
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it is. I'm going to go snowboarding this weekend or go surfing.
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Like, just being connected to my
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body is probably
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the greatest gift that I
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think I learned at such an early age, and
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I always think of it it's like out of your head and into
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your body because we can get so focused
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on like all the things that
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we have to do. My whole mantra is
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like, get out of your head and into your body, because your body,
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it actually is your
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language, and if you allow your body
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to speak for you, like it doesn't lie.
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I don't know if you've ever felt this when you're
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like on the train right in New York and you're like, I can feel
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somebody looking at me, and you can feel it, you know, like
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your body doesn't lie.
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You feel things right.
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And when I think a lot of the times when
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you're not to your body, you're
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not sensing the world around you. You can kind
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of be locked into your head and
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trying to just like willpower
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things versus like really feel it.
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I completely relate to that with running too. I
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feel like so much of movement
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for me, and what we talk about a lot on this show
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is movement for me really is all about the
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feel good nature of it. And I agree, it's
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like I've been active since I was
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so young that working out
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in fitness is more about living
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just an active lifestyle.
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I think so too.
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I think one of the things that it's interesting
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I was listening to one
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of my mentors talk and then just like
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over the years, just like the research of like
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the science and how it's connected, I geek out
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on all of that. But like inflammation,
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so like, it doesn't matter how
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hard you work out to like lose
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the inflammation and stuff like that. If you're not emotionally
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connected or feeling like you're releasing that energy
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or crying or get you know, working
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on the other stuff, you're gonna be inflamed.
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Doesn't matter how hard you work out, you
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know.
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And that's and that's sort of like I
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think the testament to what you were just saying, which
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is like just being active for how it feels
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versus how it looks is all
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the is totally what the kinergy
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philosophy is.
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It's like, it's about how you feel.
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It's not about what you look like that's just
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the result and the plus and the cherry on
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top.
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But it's all about the connection to feeling
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first.
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I agree. Okay, let's back up a little
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bit, because you said a little bit about how
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you've been active your whole life. Tell us
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a little bit about your childhood. You grew
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up in Utah. You're one of five, which is
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wild. I mean, what is it like a
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growing up in a household with five kids.
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I was the observer. So you're
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the youngest too, right, Yeah, I'm the baby of five.
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And actually my mom had a miscarriage right
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before me, so I just learned this. I was like the rainbow
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baby. So I was like, oh,
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I feel so special.
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Also, your mom has to be a saint raising
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five kids, right, I.
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Mean, she's amazing. But yeah,
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I was just the observer.
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Like I watched my three older sisters
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and then my older other and I
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wanted to be just like them. I
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wanted to be included in everything that they were doing.
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And then I ended up moving out of
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my house when I was like nine,
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lived with Russian family first, and then at ten,
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my brother and I moved to London and we
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were there, so it was kind of an interesting
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thing. It was like I was really close
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with my family and then there was almost like
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this separation and even with my older sisters,
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like we kind of separated for a little while,
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and now that I'm an adult, I mean
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I've like reconnected with my sisters
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in like such a fun way, whereas like my
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brother and I have always been like this. But
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again, as an adult, I like got to like reconnect
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with my sisters. And they were quite a bit older
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than me too, so I think now
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at our age, it's like it's easier to connect
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now to.
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Yeah, there's nothing better than this sibling dynamic.
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When did you start dancing? And was it your siblings
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that were your early role models for dance, because
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of course Derek is also a dancer, but were your
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sister's dancers.
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So my oldest sister, Shari, she was
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she was a ballet dancer and was like so serious
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about it, and then we all just like went
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to her lessons because my mom would drive
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the big red van that was like known as
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big Red and we
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would, you know, like have Wendy's in
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the backseat, and like I was too
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young to take any of the classes, but I was
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watching and so I knew every
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like lyric to every song that they were singing.
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I knew every dance move, and I was just
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again an observer and I would just watch
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and so yeah, and then we would come home and they'd practice
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and I'd be like, watch, I can do it.
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Too, so cute.
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And when did you first start start taking
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dance classes? Like how was were you?
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I mean it was like the first the first
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class was like I ever took was in
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my neighbor's basement and
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like they had like a cute little ballet bar with like all
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the little girls. I think it was probably three and
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then I really started though, at like six seven
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years old. And it's one of those studios
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in Utah that's probably one of the most
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iconic studios. It's called Center Stage, and
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it's where probably eighty percent
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of the dancers that you see on Dancing with a Stofe came
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from.
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I was gonna say so. I interviewed with a couple
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people from Dancing with the Stars, Derek being
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one of them, and then also Ezra, and
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I did not know that so many of the
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pros and people on Dancing with the Stars
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come from Utah. And I'm like, what is
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in the water in Utah that's making all these
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incredible dancers.
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It's literally there is something in the water.
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I don't know, it's like the Mormon something.
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I don't know, but it's kind of funny too.
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My grandparents were ballroom dancers. My
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parents also met in college
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on the ballroom dance team, and then obviously
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we danced. And in Utah, it's
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weird. It's like ballroom dancing is like it's
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like the center of the United States
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to go and learn. I think BYU has a big
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program, but I always find it so fascinating
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that it's like the culture of like the Mormon
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culture, the LDS culture, and then like ballroom
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dancing feels like so wide,
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but it's like for some
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reason, it's like this big culture
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in Utah. So I remember when I came back from
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London, I was fifteen, and like, I
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would, you know, go back to this studio and teach
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and train some of the younger couples.
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And that was like Whitney and Lindsay and
12:05
Jenna, and now they're like these beautiful
12:08
mothers like on the show and like
12:10
crushing life and it's just it's
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pretty cool to see, like you
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sometimes forget the life that you've
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lived and I think back sometimes I'm
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like wow, like I have been doing this since
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I was like coming out of the womb, you know, like this
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has been the through line of my
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life.
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No, you've been doing it for so long, and I
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mean, it's so wild to think too that at ten years
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old you were moving to London to really pursue
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it to another degree. And
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I'm curious, what is it about London and the school
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that you went to that is
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so good for dance.
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So what's interesting is how
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I said, like Utah was sort of the capital of the
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United States for dancing, London is
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sort of the capital of the world for ballroom
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dancing. We had dance coaches that used to
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come to our studio in Utah and at the
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time, they were like, why don't you come and train
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over here for a few months and do the biggest competition
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in the world, which is Blackpool.
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But in the center of it is this.
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Like gold encrusted
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ballroom and it is just like the
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weirdest place to
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like the seaside resort town with
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like this beautiful ballroom, and like
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people from all over the world come to
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it. And it was just such a vivid
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memory for me. But we were
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supposed to stay for three months. I ended up saying
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for five years. My brother stayed for almost
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ten. And yeah,
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it's I think maybe just because it's like centrally
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located, like all the Europeans
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would come in and fly in, and that competition
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was there. But it wasn't actually
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the school that I went to for ballroom
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dancing. It was the coaches that I lived with. And then
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of course we had to go to school, so we went to a
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performing arts school there too. That's where we were
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singing and acting and doing all other
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styles of dance as well.
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Did Derek go out before you?
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He went out for like three months before me. I
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was.
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I was in Florida with a Russian family
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dancing. I mean that's the part I didn't
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know about what's happening. Okay,
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go from Utah, so Florida to London.
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Yeah, what is your family thinking? During this time?
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They knew that there was a lot of talent there.
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I think that like when you also
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see other people, like our coaches,
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being like, there's massive talent here. We know
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how to nurture this and grow
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it. I think they saw that as well as
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you know, they were going through a divorce and
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I think, I mean, I've been through
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a divorce and I know that when you're in that
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state, like you can barely take
14:26
care of yourself, let alone all these kids. And I'm not
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saying that was the case for them, but like there
14:30
was an opportunity, there was an opening where
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they could take care of what they needed to while
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their kids were having this unbelievable,
14:37
once in a lifetime experience. And so
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so yeah, so, but I know it was really
14:43
challenging for them. I mean, they missed
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us so much, but then they saw what was
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happening and we wanted to stay.
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And you got to have this incredible experience
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at such a young age. And I feel like it's also
14:54
your parents were, like, you know what, they're really
14:56
good at this. So if London's
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the place, if Florida's the place, then they have to
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go do their thing. And if you had stayed
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in Utah, do you think you would have had the career
15:04
that you have had today.
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It's hard to say, because I feel like, you
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know, everything is designed, like
15:10
there's like the invisible thread, right, Like everything's
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kind of like magically happening for you.
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Not that I am like my life is predestined,
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but I kind of feel that way a little bit,
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like I know my energy and I
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know whatever I would have done in my
15:26
career I would have
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done it to like the highest standard, because
15:30
that's just innately who I am. I also
15:32
love like interior design, and you
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can tell when you come to my house because I hold
15:38
everything that I do to a high
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standard of like being fully
15:42
expressed, you know.
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And I think that you're a performer.
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I am a performer.
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I'm an artist.
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I'm like, I just want to like, I love
15:49
beautiful things and creating
15:53
beautiful experiences. And I
15:55
actually remember I did this like exercise
15:57
where I had to write a hundred things
15:59
that me happy. It's harder than you think, by
16:01
the way, but you kind of say the same
16:04
things and then you clump
16:06
them into groups and chunks and stuff, and then you
16:08
whittle it down. And then by the time you whittle it down, you
16:10
think, oh, there's like a theme
16:12
here, and it's creating beautiful experiences
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for others is the thing that makes me the happiest.
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And that can be in any form.
16:20
It can be a dinner party with people
16:22
coming over, or it could be teaching
16:24
somebody to dance. It could be having somebody here
16:26
in energy, or it could be you
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know, I don't know, doing
16:30
a movie, and like creating beautiful experiences
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for people, and I love that.
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What I think is so cool about getting to know you is
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you live maybe the busiest
16:51
life out of anybody that I've ever met.
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And I even said this to before. I'm like, I've known
16:56
you as a dancer and an actress,
16:58
but you also are an entrepreneur, You're an
17:00
author, You've got all these other business she's
17:02
got a wine company. We're not going to talk about it. Like
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you do so much. And you're
17:07
also so present
17:09
in your life, and I feel like you take so much
17:12
time to like self reflect and
17:14
do activities like that where you can kind of
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work on yourself and get to know yourself. And
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I think that's so amazing.
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That's thank you.
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I appreciate you saying that because
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I think, at the end of the day, like don't we all
17:25
just want to be seen?
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So thank you for seeing me. No.
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Absolutely, have you always been like
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that, like when you were in your early twenties, was it ever like,
17:33
oh my god, I'm doing so much.
17:35
A couple of things I remember, like when
17:37
I look back my childhood, I
17:39
remember being like twelve, and I
17:41
remember these like kids
17:44
in my school would like come up to me for
17:46
like relationship advice, I'm like, I don't
17:48
know, but for some reason
17:51
I was able to like have a conversation with
17:53
them and then they could share that. I was always
17:55
fascinated by human behavior
17:57
and psychology and like the
18:00
why behind everything. So
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looking back and like, oh, there were signals
18:05
and signs.
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I think you're empathetic and you like connecting with
18:08
people. Do yeah, you.
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Really do, and like putting
18:11
yourself in somebody's shoes. Then you know
18:13
you're not projecting your own stuff onto them.
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But anyway, in my twenties, I
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think it was really interesting because
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I also look back at my twenties and I'm like,
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wow, the stars were aligned.
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I don't take that for granted. I worked really
18:27
really hard as a kid and sacrificed a lot. But
18:30
from like eighteen, when I moved out to
18:32
LA with two thousand dollars, I
18:35
got a lucky break being on Dancing
18:37
with the Stars, and from that I won my first
18:39
two seasons. I released an album and
18:42
had a number one album and like got
18:44
to do movies, and like, I don't take for granted
18:46
the momentum that was happening, Like it
18:49
was kind of just going.
18:51
I never felt busy.
18:52
I never felt like overworked because
18:55
it was it was aligned, you know, like I
18:58
it was just it was energy creating more
19:00
energy. When I was twenty five, I kind
19:02
of went more into self reflection
19:04
and I realized that a lot of
19:07
what I was doing was isolated and
19:09
proving myself. That was like underneath
19:11
it. I didn't realize that a lot of
19:13
my dreams were being
19:15
manifested through being like watch me,
19:18
you know. And then once I kind of realized
19:20
that, I kind of like started going
19:22
inwards. So like twenty five was when I started
19:24
like my inward journey, and then
19:28
that was all cognitive like having
19:30
more awareness. And then probably around
19:32
like twenty nine thirty is
19:34
when I really started like a deep healing.
19:36
And when that happened, it
19:39
was like a whole unraveling of my
19:41
life. But what I ended
19:43
up finding was that again,
19:46
everything that I've done that has led me
19:48
here through my career, whether it be dancing,
19:50
singing, acting, entrepreneurship,
19:52
whatever it is, it's kind of
19:55
planted seeds for me to be
19:57
like, wow, like I have so much experience.
20:00
I have life experience in all
20:02
of these different industries and
20:04
how to connect and
20:06
what people
20:08
in every one of these industries as well as
20:10
like people who watch want
20:13
to feel and so now
20:15
because I've kind of done it for everyone else, I'm
20:18
in this stage where I'm like, what is it that
20:20
I want to create? And
20:23
I'm realizing more and more it's less about
20:26
me and it's more about like, how can
20:28
I share what I've learned with others and
20:32
amplify other.
20:32
People's stories and.
20:35
Also use it like through the body, because
20:37
I believe so much in the body, like you do,
20:40
you know, like when you can feel the
20:43
effects of what like the body does,
20:46
the freedom that you can feel, I mean,
20:49
I guess maybe that's the whole thing.
20:50
I just want everybody to feel free. That's like my
20:53
mission in life.
20:53
Just I want to make you feel free and happy,
20:56
and however that is expressed, go
20:59
for it. I think the body is a huge way
21:01
to like access it. So yeah,
21:03
so I think the self reflection has kind
21:06
of come from It's
21:08
a journey. Like I don't know if I
21:10
was always like that, but I feel
21:12
like I'm right on time.
21:13
Yeah you are. And it's so cool knowing
21:15
too that when in your
21:18
late teens early twenties, when you were doing
21:20
all this amazing stuff winning the first two seasons
21:22
and Dancing with the Stars. Because I think the one
21:25
fascinating thing too that I saw is
21:27
that when you were first offered the role
21:29
as a pro on Dancing with the Stars, you turned
21:31
it down. What
21:34
was going through your mind when you turned down Dancing
21:36
with the Stars.
21:37
I think because I had spent my whole
21:39
you know, childhood and teens competing
21:41
in ballroom and Latin dancing. I was a little burnt
21:44
out because again it was like competitive,
21:46
and I think I lost a little bit of the like
21:48
reason I love to do it. And
21:51
when I moved to LA, I really wanted to
21:53
act and sing and I wanted to be taking
21:56
seriously and give the same amount
21:58
of time and effort that I put into my day dancing
22:00
into working on my craft to being an actor
22:02
and a singer. And so I was like, I don't
22:04
want to be on a reality show because I
22:06
feel like there's a connotation to that
22:08
that like, I mean, it's so different
22:11
now, but at the time, I was like, oh, reality
22:13
show. But it was a competition show.
22:16
So I was like, there is skill, there is talent
22:18
here. So I was like, you know what I'm
22:20
going to do. I'm going to sign this contract,
22:23
but I'm going to get out of my contract early.
22:26
That's how like headstrong I was.
22:29
And I did, and I ended up
22:31
doing the show for two and a half years, which
22:33
was five seasons, and then I left and did
22:35
music and films for
22:38
five years, and then I came back as a judge
22:40
for two and a half years, which was five seasons.
22:43
And then I left for five years and
22:45
started companies and got married and had like sort
22:47
of different priorities. And now I'm
22:49
back as a host, and I hope that I'm
22:52
not here for two and a half years. I hope I'm here for a lot
22:54
longer, because again, what I was saying
22:56
before, it was like I was trying so many
22:58
different things, trying to figure out
23:00
what life was, and now I'm
23:02
like this, this is the greatest
23:05
I don't even want to call it a job, like this is the greatest
23:08
opportunity to do what I love again,
23:10
amplify other dancers, share
23:13
people's stories, and like get to be
23:15
part of this family that has literally
23:18
given me so much. I'm so grateful
23:20
for the show.
23:21
One of the amazing things too about Dancing with the
23:23
Stars, based on what you just said, is they've given
23:25
you the freedom since you were young, Yeah,
23:27
to do things that you've always wanted to do,
23:30
like have these incredible roles in movies
23:33
like Footloose and starring
23:35
in Burdlesque with Christina Aguilera
23:37
and share. It's so cool that they let you
23:39
kind of have those moments, and then they've always been
23:41
like when you're ready, come back.
23:43
Totally totally.
23:44
I feel so so grateful because that's
23:46
not always the case. And there's been other projects
23:49
that I've done and things that have been good
23:51
experiences, but nothing like the
23:54
family that has been built
23:57
and created over the last almost twenty
23:59
years being on this show.
24:01
So it's it's been amazing.
24:03
But again, it kind of goes back,
24:05
and this is kind of the narrative that I'd love to
24:07
like share about dance in general, is
24:09
just that, you know, I think as
24:11
a young dancer, there's almost this
24:14
hidden narrative
24:16
that dance being a dancer is
24:18
not enough. It's almost
24:20
like it's the third tier supporting
24:23
act and dance.
24:26
So I always felt like, oh, I needed to be
24:29
an actor to have the level
24:31
of respect or the level of like
24:34
I've made it. Whereas now
24:37
again, as I've gone through all of this exploration
24:41
dance is the most beautiful thing and
24:43
should absolutely be at the forefront
24:45
and have And I think a lot of
24:47
dancers feel this way because you
24:50
know, it's so hard to earn a
24:52
living as a dancer, and then if
24:54
you are a dancer, there's a shelf life
24:56
and you're usually supporting the artist.
24:58
But I think what Dancing with the Stars has done,
25:01
or my brother and I doing our tours, or
25:04
we started ovation, which is about helping
25:06
like the next generation of dancers grow
25:09
into like a new pathway. But it's like
25:12
this is hopefully to show that dancers
25:15
are artistic athletes and deserve a seat
25:17
at the table and you can have a
25:19
real career. And I
25:22
want to hopefully add more more
25:24
opportunity, not me personally, but just amplify
25:27
dance in a way to add more
25:29
opportunity for dancers to be seen
25:31
and to be at the forefront. And again, I have to
25:33
give so much credit to Dancing with the Stars because
25:35
they have been that platform for
25:38
so many people. And now TikTok is happening
25:40
and people are dancing, But like, what's
25:42
the next thing that's going to allow dance to really
25:45
be at the forefront like all these other
25:47
beautiful sports and entertainment,
25:50
and that's like my mission now.
25:52
Oh I love that. Do you think
25:54
when you were in London and you were attending a performing
25:57
art school and you were, you know, taking acting
25:59
classes and singing classes, do you
26:01
think it was in that school
26:04
that you almost put dance in
26:06
your mind as a third tier.
26:08
I don't know. I think I think it was culturally.
26:10
It is a thing in me.
26:11
I think it's a thing in the industry.
26:13
I think it was always sort of like that
26:15
was like sort of we're in support
26:17
of we are we are the background dancers,
26:20
backing dancers, you know, like and
26:22
I remember like we changed the word from
26:24
background dancer to company dancer
26:27
because it was and just the association,
26:29
just the language that was used was
26:32
very much like we're behind.
26:35
And so I really try
26:37
to be impeccable with
26:39
like my language as well to like continue
26:41
to elevate dance.
26:43
Because you've done so many things and were in so many different
26:45
hats within the industry, and you've done it really.
26:48
To the top level.
26:49
Right, What when somebody would
26:51
ask you, you know, what do you do for a living? What would you say?
26:53
Would you say, I'm a dancer.
26:55
I love that you're asking me
26:57
this question, like I need to know, because
27:00
similarly, this was a whole psychological
27:02
break for me which I finally had this massive
27:05
breakthrough. It was like I would
27:07
try to say, well, I do this, and
27:09
I do that, and I do this. I think I even said it to you on the
27:11
run. I was like, yeah, I do this and I do that.
27:13
What do I do?
27:14
But owning the fact that I'm a dancer
27:18
like that was a big deal for me, and
27:21
that that is enough. Being
27:23
a dancer is enough, and in fact, it's
27:25
even more than enough. In fact,
27:28
dancing is healing, Dancing is medicine.
27:30
Dance gives joy to others. Dance
27:33
is a universal language. Dance connects
27:35
people. Dance allows you to like
27:38
celebrate life. It allows you to express
27:41
yourself. I mean, dances dances
27:43
life. I mean, it doesn't
27:46
matter how well you do it. It's not about
27:48
right or wrong. Dance is just moving your body
27:50
and feeling free. And so, yeah,
27:54
I'm a dancer.
27:55
She is a dancer. Guys. No, it's
27:57
amazing and it's also so cool too, Like you've
27:59
been to do so many incredible acting roles
28:02
where I feel like you've been able to combine all
28:04
the things that you love. What was it like starring
28:07
in burlesque? And what was it like starring
28:09
in footloose? Like was that a dream come true for you?
28:11
Because you're able to combine all of these
28:13
things?
28:13
Yeah, I think like again those
28:16
like early films that I did, And
28:18
again that's why, like I had to change
28:20
my relationship with dance because dance gave
28:22
me everything. And I see other dancers
28:25
today that are like, I'm so much
28:27
more look at what else I can do, And I'm like,
28:29
oh, man, if they only just like owned being
28:32
a dancer the way that I didn't
28:34
just fully grasp it when I was younger,
28:36
Like, they could actually do everything
28:39
that they want to do. They can act, sing, they can
28:41
do all these things. But they're going to own
28:43
it and more
28:45
opportunities going to come. And I
28:47
think that's the biggest thing that I've learned is
28:50
I tried so many things, but I always
28:52
came back to dance.
28:53
But I was resisting just owning it.
28:55
Building a personal brand is the hardest thing you
28:57
can possibly do. You don't want a pigeonhole
28:59
your and you don't want the world to
29:01
be like, oh, this is what you are when it's like, well,
29:04
I can actually do all of these other things
29:06
as well, you know, And it's cool knowing that
29:08
you love interior design and you love hosting
29:10
dinner parties, and like, there's so many more things that you
29:12
love to do. But sometimes within
29:15
a career it's okay to just be niche
29:17
and do this thing that you love, you know what I mean?
29:20
Oh No, I was having at this conversation with
29:22
one of my actor friends. He's him
29:24
and his wife are like my best friends, and he
29:27
is a massive actor. He
29:30
is an incredible entrepreneur
29:32
and he's been a producer as well, and
29:36
he was just like, I need to get rid of my
29:38
production company because I'm so busy.
29:41
But the feeling of that I
29:43
need to be having seventeen
29:45
jobs is so real in
29:48
life right now because we're all
29:50
like, we're all entrepreneurs and it's amazing and we can
29:52
create our own life and careers. But
29:55
it's like, if you only do one thing,
29:57
why does that not feel like it's enough? And
30:01
it's like, I mean, I'm preaching
30:03
to the l No, I feel this all the time,
30:05
you know, But it's like and then it's the comparison
30:08
thing, Oh, well, this person's doing this and this and
30:10
this and this, but like, oh,
30:12
just being a dancer or you
30:15
know, is enough.
30:16
How do you deal with comparison and say,
30:18
okay, like I don't need to be looking at this right
30:20
now. I'm comfortable as I am.
30:22
I mean, first of all, I'm gonna botch this
30:24
saying, but comparison is the thief of joy,
30:26
you know, And I think that, like when
30:29
I continue to remind myself that
30:31
easy phrase, then
30:34
it reminds me that,
30:37
like I want joy in my life, I
30:39
don't need to.
30:40
I've competed my whole life.
30:41
I mean that was literally my entire
30:43
life was to compete and
30:45
to win, even in performing
30:48
and being an artist, Like you're still competing
30:50
to get the job, to be the actor that
30:52
gets you know, chosen, or that's
30:55
the other thing, Like I want
30:57
to be chosen. And I kind of rephrase,
30:59
I'm like, wait, wait, wait, I get to choose.
31:02
I get to choose, I get to choose
31:04
how I show up. I get to choose if I'm comparing myself
31:07
or not, or I get to choose what I put my
31:09
energy towards. And actually
31:11
this person over here that did beautiful
31:14
work that actually inspired me versus
31:17
makes me fearful that I can't do
31:19
it.
31:30
Was there ever a role and maybe you'd be comfortable
31:32
sharing what it is that you auditioned
31:35
for that you were like, I'm dead right for this
31:37
role, and then maybe you didn't get it, and
31:39
what was your kind of mindset around that? How
31:41
do you deal with rejection?
31:42
It was It was very heartbreaking
31:45
because and it was probably the first time I
31:47
felt like true failure from
31:49
something that I didn't self sabotage,
31:52
like I've trust me, I've
31:55
had a lot of failures, but but that was
31:57
on me because I pivoted, you know, this
32:00
one. I felt like I
32:02
did everything that I could. I
32:04
knew I was right for this part. I had,
32:07
you know, even the creative team that were around
32:09
this project really believed in me and wanted
32:11
this for me as well, and the
32:14
studio just they were like, we won't
32:16
hire her and so, and
32:18
like everybody fought for me to have this role,
32:21
and I fought really hard. I worked on it so hard
32:23
with an acting coach, and I knew
32:25
I crushed it, and to not
32:28
be chosen for something that I knew it
32:30
was.
32:31
That was really devastating.
32:32
But at the same time, I
32:34
think failure is a big part
32:37
of And I don't mean to
32:39
say this in like the cliche thing like
32:41
failure is good, but I mean
32:43
it like I had had
32:45
so many wins and
32:49
and I had had so much like goodness
32:52
that it felt like a big
32:54
blow that like I didn't win this,
32:56
Like it's like Glinda and Wicked.
32:59
She's like, I didn't get my way. Something's
33:01
really wrong.
33:03
By the way, you are so glod enough, like
33:06
I am so alpha Barrat now she is so glined.
33:08
I love it, but it was very that but
33:10
it was so important for me. It's so
33:13
important to learn how to fail and
33:15
to still have like belief
33:18
in yourself and to not be
33:22
not be a victim in the moment and to
33:24
like take it and be like, you know what, I'm
33:27
not going to take this personally. I
33:29
am going to just say whatever
33:32
was in the cards was not for me. And
33:35
and in fact, the person that did get it I
33:37
am a huge fan of and
33:39
like she crushed it and deserved
33:42
to have that role. And it was
33:44
interesting because they found her after I had
33:46
auditioned, so it wasn't like we
33:48
were even competing. But I'm a huge
33:50
fan of her. And what happened
33:53
from it and I heard this like I
33:55
don't know where I heard it from, but like if you
33:57
believe in God or universe, whatever you believe in, but
34:00
like rejection as God's protection. So it's
34:02
like I would listen
34:04
to that also and be like, you know what, who
34:07
knows what would have happened if
34:09
that were on the case, And I will never know, but
34:12
I have faith that it was putting me
34:14
in the right position. I have faith that
34:16
maybe even feeling that rejection and feeling
34:19
that failure was what I needed
34:22
in order to show my resilience,
34:24
to show that I am capable
34:27
of failing. But let me fail fast and
34:29
get back on track.
34:30
Was there another opportunity that kind of
34:32
came up in synergy that you then got
34:34
and you were like, Oh, this is what I was supposed to be
34:36
doing or was it a growth period for you?
34:39
I don't know. I'm not sure exactly.
34:41
I mean, I don't have one of those like cool stories
34:43
that's like I was about to quit the industry and
34:45
then you know, I got the cause.
34:48
I got situations where like I'm supposed
34:50
to do an interview and then like you know, something
34:52
falls through and then it's like, oh,
34:54
I'm so upset, Like I was so excited, but
34:56
then an hour later, something
34:59
else.
34:59
Pops up totally and and you know
35:01
what, maybe at the time I was so far in it that
35:03
I couldn't really see what that thing
35:06
was. But I will say that after
35:09
that, I ended up doing
35:11
a project with Dolly Parton, and
35:14
as I'm sitting here thinking about that, I'm
35:16
like, you know, I am such a relationship
35:19
person and to have had
35:21
that experience connecting with an icon
35:23
and a legend that has not only created
35:26
incredible art, but her just
35:28
who she is as a human being. And
35:31
I got to spend time with her and she got to give
35:33
me beautiful advice that I'll never
35:35
forget.
35:36
Wait, what advice did Dolly Parton give you? I
35:38
need to know. I'm obsessed with her. And what was
35:40
the project you guys worked on? Yeah,
35:43
we can just everybody
35:45
of her is like laughing.
35:47
But but you know what, maybe that's what it was, and
35:49
like and I will I will hold on to
35:51
that experience with Dolly Parton forever.
35:55
And I'm a relationship person, So maybe that was
35:57
the reason. But I remember telling
35:59
her all of the things that I love to
36:01
do, and I was like, I want to do this, and I want to do that and
36:04
all these different things, and she goes, you
36:06
know, Julian, you sound a lot like me, and
36:08
I see a lot of similarities. And she goes, just
36:10
remember to stay the artist, and
36:14
she goes, I wanted
36:16
a theme park. Do you think I knew how to build
36:18
a theme park? No, but I
36:21
hired people who did and they
36:23
were smarter than me. But in turn, I'm smarter
36:25
than them because I hired them. And so what
36:28
I took from that was I
36:30
didn't have to do everything. If
36:32
I'm an artist, Let me be an artist. I'm not
36:34
trying to do operations in this and marketing and
36:37
like it's so overwhelming. Like,
36:39
let me do the thing that I am gifted
36:42
at and hire the people that are
36:44
gifted at their job and
36:47
as they become you know, your
36:49
team and your family, like you're
36:51
creating magic together and anything
36:53
is possible when you're trying to do it
36:56
all by yourself. I mean, that just
36:58
is suffering right there. And
37:00
yet like she is, she
37:02
has been able to stay Dolly
37:05
part in the Dreamer and look
37:07
at everything that she's done and like and
37:09
her heart and her light and all of that,
37:12
like she she knows what she will and
37:14
will not compromise, and what she will
37:16
and won't tolerate, and yet she
37:19
is who she is. And so I just remember thinking
37:21
that because I felt very much like, ah,
37:23
I'm doing all these things and I'm just like grinding.
37:27
She's like, stay the artist. You are an artist.
37:30
No, It's so true, And oh my gosh, getting like work
37:32
ethic advice from somebody like Dolly Parton is
37:34
so iconic. And yeah, it is so
37:37
important to make sure, especially when
37:39
you're building a team and building your business and your
37:41
empire and you know you're trying to be a leader
37:43
and do all these things, like you have to bring team
37:45
members in because it is way too much,
37:47
especially when you're doing.
37:48
So hard, boring and isolating to do it
37:51
by yourself. Like there are so many talented,
37:53
beautiful people that I want to create
37:55
and collaborate with, and like there's
37:58
I mean, I'm a true believer were in Like
38:01
collaboration is key and like you get the
38:03
most magic out of that.
38:04
I mean, like my ideas are not the best ideas.
38:07
On the topic of collaboration. When you're a
38:09
pro on Dancing with the Stars, you are collaborating
38:11
with a celebrity. Who is a celebrity
38:13
that has surprised you the most that's
38:15
been on the show. Maybe that was your partner or
38:18
as you were hosting or judging you witnessed.
38:21
I mean, I'm just maybe just because
38:23
it's so fresh in my mind,
38:26
but I was really excited about
38:28
Joey.
38:29
I was about to make you do a three to two to one and say at
38:31
the same time, honestly three
38:34
Joey truly.
38:37
I mean, what I loved so much
38:39
about him is that he is a
38:42
normal guy who like yet
38:46
like you can try anything and is good
38:48
at kind of anything.
38:49
I'm guys, I'm not like this was okay?
38:52
Were you in context here? Really quickly, when
38:54
we were filming the running interview, Jeremy, my
38:57
fiance, was we were doing the dance part
38:59
and he was like, hat is like good
39:01
at at anything except not dance?
39:03
And I'm like, Okay. The reason he was saying
39:05
this is because and golfers are going to love
39:07
this right now. I was telling Julianne before we started
39:09
filming, I don't want to sidetrack you. I
39:11
was playing with one of the really the
39:13
best golfers in the world. Crazy to say,
39:16
John raw the other day. It was my first time
39:18
ever holding a golf club. I called it a golf
39:20
poll when I grabbed it, and he was like, it's
39:22
a club and anyways,
39:24
then he was like this is going to be a disaster. And
39:26
then he was like, I'm really not a good teacher. It's
39:29
just it's all about the interview. I'll fake
39:31
it. We don't really have to play. I
39:34
hit every single ball, which if you
39:36
know golf, it's actually really hard to hit the
39:38
ball. And it was every
39:41
it was like, we're going to make the funniest cut out of it because
39:44
I did so well. I
39:46
made it in in seven hits, whatever that means,
39:48
and he made it in five and every single
39:50
shot. He was like what is going on?
39:53
He's like, you're just joking with me this whole
39:55
time.
39:56
Yeah, you're pro. We had so many people watching
39:58
us. I was sweating so much on Oh anyways,
40:01
but and then I got to the second hole
40:03
and it was such beginner's luck because
40:05
then I started indenting the course. I
40:07
don't know if I'll put that into the video. I
40:09
kind of want to make myself look like a rock star because
40:12
why not. But anyways,
40:14
I'm not good at everything. Okay, I love it.
40:16
Yeah, well I relate
40:18
a little bit because like it's
40:21
so funny. My brother too, like he'll try
40:23
anything.
40:24
I at everything.
40:25
He's pretty good at everything except for surfing, and
40:27
I love that. And I and
40:30
I'm good at surfing and snowboarding,
40:32
and he's like he's like he's great
40:34
at wake surfing, like wake surfing,
40:37
but like in the natural elements.
40:39
He's like, huh.
40:40
We also call him Grandpa Huff because he's scared
40:42
of everything.
40:44
And so that.
40:45
Is so bad asking you that you're a good surfer and
40:47
snowboarder.
40:48
I love those again. Body yeah,
40:50
and like anything I can do with my body I'm good at.
40:52
And why company,
40:54
Well that's true.
40:56
So so snow
40:58
League. I actually they did like a
41:00
whole new snow league or it's a brand
41:02
new league that he created. And I was
41:04
like, you know what, I should do a
41:07
series kind of like what you just
41:09
did with the golfer. But I was like I
41:11
was talking to some people on the chairlift and
41:14
it was like I get deep very fast, clearly
41:16
hello everyone, and.
41:19
My god, not the chairlift.
41:20
And I was like, oh my god, chairlift
41:22
therapy, like we need to have like like is
41:25
the Top Show, dancing with the Show on the
41:27
chairlift, like it
41:29
was amazing, so anyway, but I was like, but it's
41:31
great because you're in your body, you're doing something
41:34
athletic. You're putting yourself in a position
41:36
to fail, but you try it
41:38
anyway. And I think when people
41:40
are in vulnerable moments, you get
41:42
out of your head into your body, like so much
41:44
as possible.
41:46
It's like five minute countdown, how much Caul
41:48
Julian get out of this person on me on
41:50
the anyways?
41:51
Okay, I gotta like I
41:54
was gonna like change position.
41:56
We have talked about so much. So
41:59
much is going on right now we are in this room.
42:01
Okay, as
42:05
we wrapped it up, knowing what you know, now,
42:08
what would you say to your younger self?
42:10
Oh, first
42:13
of all, I would just I'd grabber
42:15
and I just like make her hug me.
42:19
Forceful parent. Okay, we're just kidding. No,
42:23
I would.
42:23
I would grab her and I would just like
42:26
hold her and just say.
42:29
See, I know Radcliffe will not be your boyfriend, but
42:31
maybe someday.
42:32
Exactly how did you know that?
42:34
That was in my mind?
42:35
That was exactly what.
42:36
I was gonna say.
42:38
Sorry, continue, but
42:40
I did see him recently while
42:43
he was on Broadway, and
42:45
he knew the story because.
42:47
I've told it a hundred times. He's
42:50
like, I'm so sorry.
42:50
I never got the Beanie baby
42:53
sidebars.
42:54
So you guys don't know what we're talking about, just like look
42:56
it up, just google it.
42:58
Okay, Younger, I'd
43:00
hugger and I would just say that
43:03
obviously you are enough. Being
43:05
a dancer is enough, but
43:08
also you're going to create so
43:10
much in your life.
43:12
Enjoy the ride.
43:13
Yeah, all right, well, Julianne, thank
43:15
you so much for being on the show
43:17
with us today.
43:18
Thank you.
43:19
Final shout outs. What do you have coming up? What's
43:21
next for you? And what should we be on the lookout
43:23
for.
43:24
I don't know, just follow along, I
43:26
mean all on the social media and all
43:28
that, you know, but obviously coming back
43:30
to Dancing with the Stars and hosting this next
43:33
season, but lots lots
43:35
of things that kind of to wrap up
43:37
what we've been talking about, which is like owning
43:40
more of like being a dancer, and you
43:43
know, just anything kind of through the lens
43:45
of dance. Just look out anything
43:48
dance related. I'll be sneaking up and
43:50
popping up everywhere.
43:52
If you want to have a potential bump in with Julia.
43:54
Yeah, kind of.
43:55
Come to Kindred to k Energy, come take
43:57
a class.
43:58
Also, DM me if you want to dance ants, let's
44:00
like do some collaborations because I love collaborations.
44:03
So yeah, all right, thanks.
44:04
Well that's a rap and you're the best. Thank
44:06
you so much, Chank you
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