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the next few years. Elon Musk has
1:08
been in the news this week after
1:10
it was revealed that he fathered his
1:13
13th child with right-wing influ influencer Ashley
1:15
St. Clair. Musk, like many Silicon Valley
1:17
billionaires, has begun posting incessantly about the
1:20
need to have children speaking about declining
1:22
birth rates and railing against childlessness. It's
1:24
all part of a movement called pro-natalism,
1:27
which is gaining traction in elite Silicon
1:29
Valley circles. My guest today, Julia Black,
1:31
is a reporter at the information and
1:34
has covered this movement extensively. We're going
1:36
to talk about what pro-natalism is, how
1:38
it's affecting our political landscape, and why
1:40
all of these billionaires are trying to
1:43
have dozens of children. Julia, welcome to
1:45
power user. So good to see you.
1:47
So I wanted to talk to you
1:49
because I feel like you're the expert
1:51
on all of this crazy kind of
1:53
obsession that Silicon Valley has had lately
1:55
with having babies and families and I
1:57
guess the rise of what's called NATO.
1:59
Can you define what needleism or
2:02
pronatalism means? Pronatalism or needleism
2:04
is the idea that due
2:06
to declining birth rates, one
2:08
supports the idea of having
2:10
more and more children. And
2:12
in this particular incarnation that we're
2:15
seeing, and that we've seen many
2:17
times throughout history, actually, there's usually
2:19
a focus on a particular group
2:22
of people who should be having.
2:24
these extra children? When did Silicon
2:26
Valley people become so obsessed with this
2:28
idea? Like what first drew them into
2:31
this movement and when did that happen?
2:33
It certainly first came to my attention
2:35
in 2021, and I think that is
2:37
the first time you started to see
2:39
any of this stuff trickle out from
2:42
kind of behind the scenes. There is
2:44
actually evidence that Elon Musk, who is
2:46
the first person I discovered having an
2:48
interest in this, has had this interest
2:50
for years, like since the 2000s when
2:53
he was with his first wife, Justine.
2:55
Once he kind of came out of
2:57
the shadows, came out as a pronatalist,
2:59
it really started to catch on, and
3:02
now we're at the point. where it
3:04
seems like every other day I'm going
3:06
online and seeing some new tech founder,
3:08
CEO, type coming out as a pronatalist.
3:10
Just the other day, Palmer Lucky gave
3:13
an interview where he proudly identified as
3:15
a pronatalist. I saw that. Does he
3:17
have children? I didn't realize. I don't?
3:19
think he has children, but that's something
3:22
I should back check. But there are
3:24
many cases of people in Silicon Valley
3:26
who actually don't have children, but
3:28
still identify with this almost as
3:30
like a political belief. Okay, so
3:32
Elon kind of kicked off the
3:34
movement, but how did other people
3:36
get on board? And why is
3:38
this pronatalist kind of belief system
3:41
so enticing to Silicon Valley founders
3:43
and billionaires? Yeah. So again, I mentioned
3:45
that this is the kind of
3:47
thing that we've seen throughout history.
3:49
you see pronatalism emerge typically in
3:51
moments of kind of national crisis
3:54
and it often goes hand in
3:56
hand historically with the rise of
3:58
authoritarianism. So I I think it
4:00
is no coincidence that we're seeing
4:02
what many would call kind of
4:04
an American decline. There's a lot
4:06
of concern around the economy, around
4:08
immigration, and then there are actual
4:11
numbers behind this. The birth rates
4:13
in the US are historically low.
4:15
Birth rates in Europe and in
4:17
many other countries around the world
4:19
are historically low and below what
4:21
is called the replacement rate, which
4:23
is the number of children each
4:25
average woman needs to have. in order
4:27
to preserve the population at current levels.
4:29
So you know there is a demographic
4:32
reality here. that birth rates in many
4:34
countries are low. And so that is
4:36
spurring certain types of people to say,
4:38
we need to have more kids. But
4:41
again, it becomes tied in with these
4:43
ideas about, oh, we need to have
4:45
more kids to prevent the decline of
4:47
Western civilization as a buzzword they often
4:50
throw in there. Yeah. And to me,
4:52
it feels very like we need to
4:54
preserve the white race kind of coded
4:56
because these are the same people
4:58
that are also insisting that America
5:01
cracks down on immigration, right? Yeah,
5:03
exactly. So as I've kind of
5:05
been alluding to, there are certain
5:07
types of people who show more
5:09
of an interest in this. In
5:11
many cases, they are white people
5:13
who have expressed simultaneously
5:15
kind of an interest in
5:17
preserving the white nationalist identity.
5:20
I mean, isn't that just the
5:22
great replacement theory kind of? Yeah,
5:24
absolutely. I mean, people who are
5:27
into great replacement theory are 100%
5:29
pronatalists. correlation maybe, but also often
5:31
causation. Yeah, it's, I don't think
5:33
inherently being a pernatalist makes you
5:35
a white nationalist, but there's a
5:37
lot of overlap. With the rise
5:40
of pernatalism in Silicon Valley, has
5:42
any of this led to any
5:44
sort of more friendly parenting policies,
5:46
more parental leave, any kind of
5:48
push for tech companies to adopt
5:50
measures, I guess, that would help their
5:52
employees have more children? That is such
5:54
a good question, and I think something
5:56
that a lot of people are watching
5:58
that's for an admission. for to see
6:00
if there will be any actual helpful
6:03
policy that comes out of this for
6:05
would-be parents in the US. I mean
6:07
my husband and I happened to look
6:09
at daycare prices the other day as
6:11
we consider having kids and it's horrific.
6:13
I mean truly to the point where
6:16
it can change your decision one way
6:18
or another. Am I able to do
6:20
this or not? So there's tons of
6:22
parents or would-be parents who would love
6:24
some relief. Typically that is not...
6:26
part of the package for pronatalists.
6:28
I've spoken to a lot of
6:30
pronatalists who specifically point at Scandinavian
6:33
countries, European countries that do have
6:35
pro-social policies, that are good for
6:37
families, good for parents, and they
6:39
say well that didn't help there,
6:41
that didn't increase birth rates there,
6:43
so that's not worth exploring. I
6:45
think a lot of American parents
6:47
or would-be parents would disagree that
6:49
it is worth exploring. If you really want
6:51
people to have kids, you got to help
6:54
about and make it possible possible. There
6:56
was that tweet the other day, and
6:58
I'm trying to remember who posted it,
7:00
but you probably saw it was some
7:02
Silicon Valley guy. It was like this
7:04
idea that you can have kids, you
7:06
can afford it, your parents had it
7:08
ten times harder than you, think of
7:10
all the modern luxuries that we have
7:13
in life, and think of what people
7:15
had in the 1800s, that we have
7:17
in life, and think of what people
7:19
had in the 1800s. And I don't
7:21
think that the material conditions of children
7:23
were that great in the 1800s, so...
7:25
to get into vaccines and maybe we
7:27
should start by keeping kids healthy and
7:29
safe like what should we go back
7:31
to child labor laws being what they
7:34
were like there's a million things from
7:36
the past that have changed and Rightfully
7:38
so. A lot of people that have
7:40
been espousing this pro-natalist ideology are
7:42
also believers in effective altruism or
7:45
long-termism. Can you explain what these
7:47
things are and how do these
7:49
ideologies overlap? Long-termism is fundamentally the
7:52
idea that when we're considering morals
7:54
and ethics as human beings, we
7:56
need to consider many generations down
7:59
the way. So, you know, we
8:01
don't just owe it to our neighbors
8:03
to be good people. We owe it
8:05
to the people of the year, 3,000,
8:07
who are counting on us to be
8:09
good people. One way this gets tied
8:11
to prenatalism is this birth rate question,
8:13
these demographic questions about could society collapse
8:16
if we have fewer kids and then
8:18
there's no young people to take care
8:20
of old people and similar to the
8:22
way a lot of people were about
8:24
climate change. Some people worry that
8:26
demographic collapse is going to. destroy
8:28
the world. I don't think there's
8:31
like a ton of evidence to
8:33
support that theory, but that is
8:35
definitely one thing. I think another way
8:37
that this gets tied to effective
8:39
altruism is people who have spent
8:41
a lot of their careers working
8:43
with AI. have this fear that AI
8:45
is going to become all powerful,
8:47
kind of take over the world,
8:50
surpass humans. So these people start
8:52
getting really interested in something called
8:54
transhumanism, which is the idea that
8:56
we can start to biologically, genetically
8:58
alter the human race to kind
9:00
of keep up with AI, or
9:03
be able to hold our own
9:05
in a world dominated by AI.
9:07
So you start getting into all
9:09
sorts of crazy stuff about like
9:11
the ways that we can alter.
9:13
the reproductive process to not only
9:16
have more kids, but to have
9:18
better kids, which is where we
9:20
start verging into eugenics territory. Yeah,
9:22
so much of, I feel like
9:24
this pronatalism movement is tied in
9:26
with eugenics. Can you talk about that?
9:28
Eugenics is a funny word. I
9:30
have spoken with people who are
9:32
kind of in these movements in
9:34
this pronatalism world who will argue
9:36
eugenics is unfairly coded as a
9:38
negative thing. Whereas eugenics, all it
9:40
really means is improving the gene
9:42
pool of a species. And so
9:45
they say, like, what's wrong with
9:47
that? An example that they love
9:49
to use is, do you believe
9:51
that two siblings should be able
9:53
to have children together? And most
9:55
people would say no for a variety
9:57
of reasons, including that those
9:59
children and will be genetically
10:01
disadvantaged. So they say, okay,
10:03
so you're eugenicist. So that's
10:05
the kind of like level
10:07
of argument dealing with. But
10:09
yeah, it's, if you believe
10:11
that eugenics fundamentally is just
10:13
improving genetics of human beings,
10:16
there are a variety of
10:18
technologies currently coming to market,
10:20
beginning like the early stages
10:22
of coming to market that
10:24
are fundamentally doing eugenics. These
10:26
are products that are gonna
10:28
allow people to select among
10:30
embryos to pick the one that they
10:32
believe is genetically superior. But of
10:34
course, things like CRISPR, which is
10:36
actual gene editing, are right around
10:38
the corner. So to me, what's
10:40
really fascinating about this moment is
10:42
we have this convergence of like
10:44
political ideologies with extreme
10:48
new cutting edge technologies. So like
10:50
this is all happening so
10:52
fast and wacky ideas are for
10:54
the first time in history
10:56
like coming at a time when
10:58
they might actually be possible
11:01
to achieve with the technologies
11:04
that are coming downstream. I think it's
11:06
also interesting that most of Yilan's children
11:08
have been had through IVF. And obviously,
11:10
if you do IVF, you're not doing
11:12
eugenics, right? For a lot of people,
11:14
it's just how they're able to get
11:16
pregnant. A lot of people also do
11:18
the PGS testing, right? To make sure
11:20
that your embryo is viable. It's not
11:22
a far jump, as you said, to
11:24
see how a lot of these gene
11:26
editing therapies or things could be implemented.
11:28
To sort of play devil's advocate, why
11:31
do you think the pro -natalyst movement
11:33
is dangerous? Like, isn't it great to
11:35
encourage people to have more children and
11:37
families in America? Yeah, I
11:39
mean, listen, I try to keep
11:41
a fairly open mind. Over
11:43
the summer, I wrote a story
11:45
about a company called Orchid
11:47
that is doing this pre -implantation
11:49
genetic testing. And I spoke with
11:51
parents who have something called
11:53
the broccogene mutation, which will make
11:55
their kids horrifically more likely
11:57
to die of prostate cancer, ovarian
11:59
cancer. cancer. I completely understand why
12:01
a parent would look at their
12:03
personal family history and say I would
12:05
do everything I can to protect my
12:07
child from this. The trouble is
12:09
with so many of these things is, you know,
12:11
it's a slippery slope. So is
12:13
picking one embryo over the other
12:15
a problem when one of those
12:18
is more likely to die of
12:20
a really horrific disease? Probably
12:22
not. But what happens when you
12:24
start picking the one with the
12:26
preferable eye color? What happens when
12:28
companies, which they have started doing,
12:30
start promising to detect IQ in
12:32
an embryo? Should you be able
12:34
to pick for that? I think
12:36
that the questions get progressively slipperier.
12:38
And then certainly the direction things
12:40
are going in our society. You
12:43
know, I don't know if
12:45
you've seen Gadica, the film, but
12:47
for anyone who hasn't seen
12:49
it, the plot is basically, you
12:51
know, a futuristic society in
12:53
which everyone can do this kind
12:56
of gene editing and make
12:58
designer babies. And so there's this
13:00
poor unlucky schmuck who gets
13:02
born with a heart condition
13:04
because his parents were too
13:06
selfish to make sure that
13:08
he was born completely healthy
13:10
and perfect. And so he
13:12
is ostracized from this society.
13:15
Like, is that a society
13:17
we want to live in
13:19
where people are actually actively
13:21
disenfranchised based on how they're
13:23
born? Especially as we watch
13:25
this moment unfold in American
13:27
governance, where like it
13:29
seems that Elon and his Doge
13:31
team are on a mission to
13:33
turn everything into this like completely
13:35
data -based stratified society where certain people
13:37
are advantaged based on their data,
13:39
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13:41
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14:18
I mean already the amount of data
14:20
that they have on us is terrifying
14:22
and I was thinking of RFK's confirmation
14:24
hearing just recently when Bernie Sanders asks
14:27
RFK Jr. if he thinks health care
14:29
is a human right. He doesn't, surprise
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surprise, the Make America Healthy movement, again
14:33
movement does not believe in universal health
14:36
care and he gave the reason of
14:38
like, well what if somebody's for 30
14:40
years. Basically, they don't deserve health
14:42
care. And I thought that was
14:45
wild. It's this implication that you
14:47
are to blame for your own
14:49
health problems. And look, of course,
14:51
like, okay, maybe smoking is more
14:53
of a choice, but certain other
14:55
people are exposed to environmental toxins
14:57
or they have a job where
15:00
they're exposed to environmental toxins, or
15:02
they have a job where they're
15:04
exposed to COVID, or they have
15:06
a job where they're exposed to
15:08
COVID, It went from like this
15:10
2020 idea of like perfect the vulnerable,
15:12
like make sure everyone is healthy to
15:15
now like people like well, just let
15:17
the people that are sick die already. Why
15:19
can't they die quicker? Totally, which is the
15:21
other side of eugenics, you know, like there's,
15:23
I'm trying to remember how they put
15:25
it, but it's basically like... positive eugenics
15:28
I think, where you're selecting for the
15:30
best of the best, but then there's
15:32
negative eugenics which is what the Nazis
15:35
did where you're trying to eliminate certain
15:37
parts of the gene pool that you
15:39
have deemed the worst. So yeah I
15:41
think the risks inherent in all this
15:44
are pretty obvious and and terrifying. Are
15:46
any of these Silicon Valley executives investing
15:48
in things like artificial looms or other
15:51
sort of reproductive technologies that could free
15:53
women? I feel like when they talk
15:55
about you know pushing pronatalism, whatever.
15:57
So much of it is also
15:59
about the. subjugation of women and the
16:02
sort of relegating women to their role
16:04
as mothers, keeping them at home with
16:06
all of their babies, but is there
16:09
any chance that they could be developing
16:11
technologies that would actually make things more
16:13
equal? There's a number of technologies currently
16:15
under development. Artificial Williams is one of
16:18
those. It's still one of the more
16:20
far out unrealistic ones presently, but there
16:22
are companies working on it and there
16:24
are investors whose names we would all
16:27
recognize. And certainly some of these I
16:29
think you could make the argument
16:31
could be good for women. There's
16:33
one company I actually am really
16:35
interested in called Gamito that is
16:38
developing solutions to make IVF a
16:40
more painless process. It's basically shortening
16:42
that time. If your freezing eggs
16:44
are doing IVF you need to
16:46
shoot yourself up with hormones and
16:48
it's a pretty uncomfortable process. And
16:51
so they've developed technology to develop
16:53
those ovarian cells outside of that
16:55
process so that. women or you
16:57
know don't have to shoot themselves up
16:59
with these drugs for quite as many days.
17:01
I think it's down from like seven
17:04
to ten days down to like three
17:06
or something. There's a lot of these
17:08
technologies that I think a lot of
17:11
women would love to see. Again, unfortunately
17:13
I think what we're seeing is this
17:15
convergence of the technologies coming from one
17:18
side. and the political ideologies coming from
17:20
another side and they're going to hit
17:22
at the exact same time. And so,
17:25
you know, does JD Vance care much
17:27
about making women's lives more productive or
17:29
comfortable? I'm not convinced. Talk more about
17:32
that, because why is the pro-natalist movement
17:34
so tied in with the far right?
17:36
Yeah, I think it goes back to
17:38
what we were talking about before. There's
17:41
a lot of reasons for... white
17:43
Christian nationalists to feel
17:45
particularly persecuted in this
17:47
moment and to see this as their
17:49
chance to fight back by having more
17:51
kids by becoming a more once again
17:53
even more dominant in our culture. One
17:55
of my biggest worries is that in
17:57
a few years women are going to
17:59
see or. Status and
18:01
Society backslide quite a bit. I think it's
18:04
inevitable that some of this language that we're
18:06
now seeing from the campaign trail to now
18:08
inside the White House. You see it on
18:10
Elon Musk's Twitter. He's for years now actually
18:13
tweeted stuff like a woman's most important job
18:15
as a mother. I do think it's a
18:17
matter of time before that trickles down into
18:19
our reality. I think it's a matter of
18:22
time before women in the workplace start to
18:24
feel those pressures. So yes, I know that
18:26
this is going back, he said like, like,
18:28
oh, to be a devil's a devil's advocate.
18:30
Couldn't this be good for women? I
18:33
doubt it. Exactly. I want to
18:35
talk about one sort of famous
18:37
pronatalist family. I feel like they're
18:39
the main ones that get profiled
18:41
all the time and I think
18:43
you've profiled them, which is the
18:45
Collins family. This is a couple
18:47
who I think they live in
18:49
Pennsylvania. They have a bunch of
18:51
kids. They've sort of become the
18:53
face of the pronatalist movement. Why
18:55
do you think there's such a
18:57
fascination with this one family in
18:59
particular? This is years ago. It
19:01
seems like the same story comes
19:03
out every six months or so.
19:05
To any journalist watching this, we're
19:07
done. They've said their piece. I
19:09
don't think we need to hear
19:11
from them again. So I think
19:13
the lead to my story was
19:15
Malcolm surrounded by his kids who
19:17
are screaming and fighting each other
19:19
and shouting at me. almost like
19:21
foaming at the mouth talking to
19:24
me about how his if his
19:26
kids he wants to have at least
19:28
eight kids and if they have at
19:30
least eight kids and if they have
19:32
at least eight kids they have at
19:35
least eight kids within X number of
19:37
generations his bloodline will rule the universe
19:39
like this is really like straight out
19:41
of sci-fi stuff. So you know
19:43
I think with any of these
19:45
ideas you want to find a
19:48
face for them and they are
19:50
very readable. Their their story is
19:52
very enticing. They are larger than
19:54
life characters. They have everything planned
19:56
out down to their outfits. They
19:59
did a total. makeover of the
20:01
two of them a number of years
20:03
ago where they decided which glasses they
20:05
were going to each wear and you
20:07
know to be the most media friendly
20:09
and most eye-catching. So they know exactly what
20:11
they're doing and to a certain extent
20:13
the media has walked into this trap
20:15
over and over. Like I said I think
20:17
it was worth doing once I don't
20:19
think that we need the same story
20:21
every six months. I feel like it's interesting
20:24
because they've just become kind of like
20:26
the unofficial spokespeople of this movement and
20:28
They're quite unsettling, like you said. It's
20:30
a weird, like if I was to
20:32
choose the spokespeople for these movement, I
20:34
guess I would choose someone like a
20:36
little bit more trad and less like
20:38
read it seeming. Like they have like
20:40
read it forum energy. I don't know
20:42
how to describe it. Yeah, well, it
20:44
depends who's choosing the spokesperson and in
20:46
this case I guess it's the media.
20:48
And so, you know, it wasn't on
20:50
my agenda to set out and find
20:52
the best representatives. to profile. I was,
20:54
I picked the most extreme, so they
20:56
are the most extreme. Yeah, I think
20:59
while the Collinses have been sort
21:01
of attracting tons of media attention,
21:03
we've also seen the rise of
21:05
things like the Tradwife movement and
21:07
these other massive influencers that espouse
21:09
a lot of sort of similar
21:11
pronatalist ideas, but without specifically, I
21:13
guess, mentioning the ideology or talking
21:15
about it, how tied in are
21:17
people like that with this broader
21:19
movement or is that sort of
21:21
an adjacent similar movement? I think
21:24
it's adjacent and similar. It's kind
21:26
of like I was talking about
21:28
like the convergence of the
21:30
technology with this political moment
21:32
with this economic moment like
21:34
the world is so crazy right now
21:37
so many different factors are moving at
21:39
once but they all seem to be
21:41
moving in a particular direction and
21:43
that is towards what kind of boils down
21:46
to a return to an old America for
21:48
better or for much worse? Okay, so all
21:50
these Silicon Valley billionaires want to have lots
21:52
of babies. They're encouraging people to have lots
21:54
of babies. You know, they're fathering tons of
21:57
kids through IVF with God knows how many
21:59
women. Why should... people pay attention to
22:01
this, why does this even matter? For
22:03
the same reason that we should care,
22:05
frankly, about anything you on Musk does
22:07
at this point, because he's currently the
22:09
most powerful person in the world. He
22:12
is currently not only playing the massive
22:14
role in our economy and our technological
22:16
development that he has for years, but
22:18
he is calling the shots for our
22:20
government. This is where I talk to
22:22
my friends and... They kind of raised
22:24
their eyebrows at me and said, really,
22:26
is that going to happen? But yeah,
22:28
I really do think that we are
22:31
going to start to see the trickle-down
22:33
effects of this kind of stuff that's
22:35
happening amongst the Silicon Valley elite, two
22:37
women in the United States, and possibly around
22:39
the world. But I really do have a
22:41
concern that women's place and society
22:44
is going to change in the next
22:46
few years. How do you see those
22:48
trickle-down effects manifesting? I think a lot
22:50
of it will be sort of subtle
22:53
cultural changes. He has already transformed the
22:55
conversation by buying Twitter. A lot of
22:57
people rolled their eyes at that when
23:00
it first happened and said, like, why
23:02
would he possibly want to own this
23:04
company? And to me, it was fairly
23:07
obvious that he wanted to change the
23:09
conversation and he's done that. There have
23:11
been... talks about him possibly buying
23:13
TikTok lately. It doesn't look like
23:16
it's going to happen, but why
23:18
would he be interested in that?
23:20
Because he can change the conversation.
23:23
Well, he's controlling the information environment,
23:25
right? Exactly, exactly. So in very
23:27
powerful ways, he is reshaping... American
23:30
culture as we speak. And again,
23:32
now he's turned his sights to
23:34
government. There have been early hints
23:36
of policy changes that might come
23:39
down the line, certain benefits that
23:41
might be extended to families who
23:43
have more kids. I think that
23:45
protections for women in the workplace are
23:47
going to be reduced. I mean, the
23:49
attacks on DEA. Those are going to
23:52
hurt women. I wrote a story in
23:54
the fall for the information about... Women
23:56
in tech were sounding the alarm about
23:58
their place in... the tech workplace.
24:00
They are already, even before
24:03
the presidential election, even before
24:05
Elon Musk rose to so much power.
24:07
I think a lot of women in
24:09
tech were already feeling the downstream effects
24:11
of this. I remember speaking with women
24:13
years ago when I first reported the
24:15
story of Chevron Zellis having Elon's twins
24:17
secretly. I spoke with a lot of
24:20
women who knew her in the past
24:22
in the tech industry and who felt
24:24
just devastated by this news, who felt
24:26
like... what does this say about us?
24:28
What does this tell you about how
24:30
men in our workplaces perceive us that
24:32
we're just, you know, vessels for their
24:34
children, we're not their colleagues, we're not
24:37
their respected staff? So yeah, I think
24:39
it's going to be like a thousand
24:41
cuts for women. in our economy, in
24:43
our society. I think for young women,
24:45
they're really feeling it. I know Taylor,
24:48
you've reported on this a lot, on
24:50
the Rise of the Pro podcaster, on
24:52
the rise of misogyny in college environments,
24:55
on the way that men feel comfortable
24:57
speaking to women in a way that
24:59
they didn't for years there, and will
25:01
feel comfortable pressuring women into marriages that
25:04
they don't want to be in, having kids
25:06
that they didn't plan to have. There's going
25:08
to be an attack on reproductive rights. So
25:10
it's really a huge question, how is this
25:12
actually going to trickle down to women in
25:14
a million ways? We're already saying, yeah, I
25:16
mean, so much of it, I think it's
25:18
just tied to the restriction of reproductive rights,
25:20
right? If your goal is, and you believe,
25:22
sort of the most important thing is for
25:24
women to have as many children as possible,
25:26
you're going to make it harder for them
25:28
to have birth control, for them to have
25:30
planned pregnancies, right? Like you're going to make
25:32
it. a harder for them. And it's such
25:34
a weird thing, because I think at the
25:37
same time that all of this is happening,
25:39
there's so many women. I mean, I feel
25:41
like you and I probably know a lot
25:43
of women around the same age, where it's
25:46
like they actually desperately want to have kids,
25:48
but they can't afford it. It's so hard.
25:50
The economy is already sort of stacked against
25:52
them. And we know that if a woman
25:55
has a kid, and she's already in a
25:57
precarious financial situation, she's going to be even
25:59
more over her own life and career
26:02
and etc. Absolutely. It's the one
26:04
place that I actually do see
26:06
a lot of bipartisan support. I
26:08
guess I've been spending a lot
26:10
of time with like right of
26:12
center think tanks recently who are
26:14
very pronatalist and this for them
26:16
is one issue where they often
26:18
find common ground with more left-wing
26:20
thinkers. Basically there's this whole thing
26:22
called like the abundance agenda which
26:24
is trying to tie kind of
26:26
right side ideologies about promoting economic
26:28
dynamism with more left-wing stuff about
26:30
providing just more resources for individuals
26:32
in the US. So. That might
26:34
be a stretch, but yeah, I
26:36
feel like it's a stretch because
26:38
I will say one of the
26:40
things that both parties seem aligned
26:42
on is cutting our social safety
26:44
net, right? We saw record cuts
26:46
the social safety net under Biden
26:48
and Trump has rolled it back
26:50
even further. It seems like neither
26:52
political party wants to give people
26:54
any sort of widespread support. It's
26:57
also interesting though, I mean, I
26:59
interviewed Candace Owens recently about her,
27:01
the launch of her women's media
27:03
company. This is a woman who...
27:05
sat on the phone for 20
27:07
minutes saying that she didn't believe
27:09
in paid maternity leave and yet
27:11
is hugely, I would say, pro-natalist
27:13
in the sense that she believes
27:15
women's greatest achievement in life is
27:17
having kids, women need to have
27:19
as many kids as possible, it's
27:21
the only thing that she believes
27:23
truly fulfils a woman, etc., etc.
27:25
etc. So I just, I don't
27:27
know, it's interesting how so many
27:29
of these sort of reactionaries, it
27:31
seems like they want to trap
27:33
women in this position and women
27:35
are increasingly not given the choice.
27:37
you know, as to whether or
27:39
not they want to stay home
27:41
with the children or are forced
27:43
to. I have fun making predictions
27:45
about what will happen in tech,
27:47
what will happen in this country,
27:49
in politics, and unfortunately my current
27:51
prediction is let's check back in
27:54
three years and see how many
27:56
women are in the workforce compared
27:58
to today. I think that number
28:00
will get down. people talk about
28:02
settling down, having as many kids
28:04
as possible too, I feel like
28:06
there's a bunch of right-wingers and
28:08
tech people that are also very
28:10
focused on dating apps and optimizing
28:12
matchmaking and dating. There was that
28:14
super right-wing guy Justin something or
28:16
other right-wing influencer who I
28:18
think got fired from his teaching
28:20
job actually for saying super bigoted stuff,
28:23
but he believed in sort of matching
28:25
people based on their genetic profile or
28:27
certain traits. Is anyone in Silicon
28:29
Valley focused on the dating question and
28:32
sort of helping people partner up so
28:34
that they can have all of
28:36
these children? Absolutely. As you said, this
28:38
has been kind of in the water
28:41
for a while. I've seen hints of
28:43
this where people post on X
28:45
about... dating and even when I
28:47
first met Samona Malcolm Collins they sent
28:49
me a dating matchmaking form because they
28:51
identified me as an eligible patchorette who
28:54
might be able to reproduce with a
28:56
compatible partner and have 13 children. I
28:58
did not fill it out in the
29:01
end. There is actually someone who has
29:03
gone so far as to implement this
29:05
in his company. You will be shocked
29:07
to learn he is a Tiel fellow,
29:10
meaning funded by Peter Tiel originally, and
29:12
he has a company called Nucleus Genomics
29:14
which recently introduced... dating service called nucleus
29:17
dating I believe. I think it's
29:19
somewhat tongue-in-cheek but also fully exists
29:21
and this is basically a straight
29:23
out of gatka dating matchmaking service
29:26
that compares your genetic compatibility with
29:28
a partner so that you don't
29:30
have to get so far down
29:32
the line and then realize right
29:35
before you have kids, right before
29:37
you're supposed to start IBM, which
29:39
of course everyone in Silicon Valley
29:41
now does for these reasons. And
29:44
you don't have to get that
29:46
far without realizing that, oh no, you
29:48
both have a certain genetic mutation that
29:50
runs in your family or, you know, your kid
29:52
won't be as tall as you want or
29:54
have as high an IQ as you want.
29:57
So we are quite literally entering sci-fi territory
29:59
territory territory. than I ever predicted we would.
30:01
Well Julia thank you so much for joining
30:03
me today. Thank you so much this is
30:05
fun. That's all for this week's episode. You
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