Welcome to Resilient Kids, Thriving at Home and in the Classroom!

In this episode, host Davina Lyons dives into the often overlooked but critical skill of listening—not just hearing words but genuinely connecting. This episode is for you if you're a parent, teacher, or anyone aiming to improve relationships with children and teens.

What You'll Learn in This Episode

The Role of Listening in Communication:

• Why listening is foundational for meaningful relationships.
• How listening fosters trust and respect in kids and teens.

Barriers to Effective Listening:

• Common distractions that prevent us from truly hearing.
• Why do we often listen to respond rather than understand?

Practical Tips for Better Listening:

• How to create a space where kids feel heard.
• Active listening techniques are to be practiced at home or in the classroom.

Real-Life Scenarios:

• Examples of how listening can de-escalate conflicts.
• Stories of transformation when kids feel genuinely understood.

Key Takeaways

• Listening to connect is more than silence; it’s about engagement, empathy, and intention.
• Kids thrive in environments where they feel safe to express themselves without judgment.
• Practicing active listening strengthens bonds and builds resilience in both kids and adults.

Quick Wins

• The 5-Second Pause Rule: Wait 5 seconds before responding to a child’s statement to ensure they’ve finished their thought.
• Paraphrase and Validate: Repeat back what they’ve said in your own words to show understanding.
• Body Language Counts: Maintain eye contact, nod, and lean in to show you’re present.

Next Steps

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✨ Host: Davina Lyons

📧 Email: info@davinalyons.com

📱 IG: @Rising.Resilience1

Thank you for listening! Remember, communication is a two-way street; every conversation is an opportunity to connect. See you next time! 💙