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look once, Mom. All right, from Kaylee.
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Hi, I'm back at Tanya Mark in
26:05
Easton. I'm a 33-year-old female, and I'm
26:07
so in love with my husband in
26:10
four years, who are such a wonderful
26:12
and happy stage in our lives, my
26:14
question about having such a wonderful and
26:16
happy stage in our lives, my question
26:18
about having kids. I've wanted to be
26:21
a mom since I was a little
26:23
girl, and I know my husband and
26:25
I completely. terrified. Their daughter has a
26:27
lot of behavioral issues. Their pediatrician says
26:29
it's normal. She throws tantrums constantly, daily,
26:32
sometimes multiple times a day. She screams,
26:34
hits, bites, cries, whenever she doesn't get
26:36
her way. She's not a good sleeper.
26:38
She needs constant attention. She can now
26:40
play independently. And originally, we thought it
26:43
was a terrible two, and she'd grow
26:45
out of it, but she turned four
26:47
in January, and she's still going strong.
26:49
On top of all that, my brother
26:52
and his wife are getting divorced. The
26:54
trouble started right after they had her.
26:56
And they've tried to work through it
26:58
in couple's therapy, but they're moving forward
27:00
with the divorce. Watching the whole thing
27:03
go down has us both scared to
27:05
death. We've also had a few friends
27:07
recently started having kids, and one couple
27:09
constantly expresses how much they hate being
27:11
parents and even say awful things about
27:14
their baby. Oh my God. When we
27:16
think about our life long term, we
27:18
know we want to be parents, but
27:20
we're so scared of losing sleep, losing
27:22
ourselves, losing each other in the process.
27:25
And if it's anything like my brother's
27:27
experience, I'm not sure my mental health
27:29
can survive it. So it's our fear
27:31
of sign that we shouldn't be having
27:34
kids. We just have faith and dive
27:36
in and hope for the best. I'm
27:38
so interested in having kids. We just
27:40
have faith and dive in and hope
27:42
for the besties. I'm also. Don, you're
27:45
just eyeing me through on the wide-eyed
27:47
the whole time. Kaylee, I think you're
27:49
going through something that so many people
27:51
go through. Like, I think you have
27:53
an idea of what you want in
27:56
your life, right? You want to get
27:58
married, you want to fall. in love
28:00
you want to find your person and
28:02
then you want to create babies and
28:04
have babies and be a mom and
28:07
be a parent and then the thing
28:09
is is that I think when our
28:11
parents were parents like my mom
28:13
never complained about being mom my mom
28:15
never made it seem hard or like
28:18
a burden and so I didn't know
28:20
of anything other than just like pure
28:22
bliss enjoy being a mom until social
28:25
media really social media like being and
28:27
also being an adult and like having
28:29
a reality of how much sacrifice and
28:32
like love goes into being a parent
28:34
and also hearing like it is people
28:36
say it's like the hardest thing you
28:38
do but like you have never experienced
28:40
a love like that and I think
28:43
that I think there's so much beauty
28:45
in getting to experience that and I
28:47
also think we have a little more
28:49
insight into the potential of challenges that
28:51
comes with being a parent more
28:54
than ever before. People talk about
28:56
it like way more openly than
28:58
ever. And you also, the thing is that
29:00
you don't know what you're going
29:02
to get when you become a
29:04
parent. And Mark's only, well, Tony
29:06
is a stepparent, but Mark's the
29:08
only parent in here who has,
29:10
you know, navigated having kids. But
29:12
I'm interested in, when she said, I'm
29:15
scared of losing sleep, losing ourselves and
29:17
losing each other in the process.
29:19
This is a wacky idea But
29:21
I feel like the first three years
29:23
is when it's like really intense.
29:25
This is what Robbie's, you know
29:27
Taught me is like that's when
29:30
it's like the first few years
29:32
when it's like a baby baby
29:34
That's when you're really losing like
29:36
the the the all of that
29:38
stuff There are so many kids that are
29:40
out there that need to be fostered
29:42
and adopted. If you guys know
29:44
that you want to have kids and
29:47
you want to have a family, but
29:49
maybe you don't want to lose sleep,
29:51
lose yourselves, and lose a thing, what
29:53
if you foster to adopt a child that's
29:55
like four and up? Well, that comes,
29:57
there's a lot that comes of
29:59
that too. emotionally I know I
30:01
know but she's saying she she
30:03
believes it in her heart that
30:05
she wants to be a parent
30:07
but she's scared of these certain
30:10
things that I feel like come
30:12
with like a baby baby so
30:14
maybe fostering to adopt is is
30:16
the way well I think there's
30:18
a lot of it's not nothing's
30:20
I mean having a baby no
30:22
matter how you do it is
30:24
like the most beautiful I think
30:26
like one of the most sacrificial
30:28
loving things you can do whether
30:30
it's you have the child biologically
30:32
or adopt or foster whatever the
30:34
reason but Mark, I guess the
30:37
thing is you as a parent,
30:39
you are going to lose sleep,
30:41
like that's inevitable. I think you're
30:43
going to lose all three of
30:45
those to some extent. Not completely,
30:47
but you are going to lose
30:49
sleep, you are going to lose
30:51
yourselves, you're going to lose each
30:53
other a little bit, but you're
30:55
going to lose each other a
30:57
little bit, but you're also bringing
30:59
in such an incredible joy into
31:01
your lives, except that it was
31:04
your calling when you were a
31:06
kid. But there is so much
31:08
positives, and I've talked on here
31:10
before, and extensively, there's a Mark
31:12
and Easton show from years ago,
31:14
where we talked about this a
31:16
lot, the issues we had with
31:18
my daughter and her anxiety, and
31:20
how I was completely ill-equipped to
31:22
deal with that, and how I
31:24
am not proud of how I
31:26
dealt with that, and how I'll
31:28
never forgive myself or how I
31:31
dealt with that. But even with
31:33
that stress and craziness that brought
31:35
into our lives, the joy of
31:37
having her... far outweighed any of
31:39
that. Like it's not even close,
31:41
it's not even a conversation. Maybe
31:43
I wouldn't have to go through
31:45
that, but then she's not in
31:47
our lives, like that's not even
31:49
a thought. It's the most glorious
31:51
thing. Being a parent is incredible,
31:53
and when you hold your child
31:55
for the first time, that's what
31:58
you're going to be flooded with.
32:00
And you're going to know that
32:02
you made the right decision, and
32:04
you know that it doesn't matter
32:06
what the future may hold. In
32:08
that moment and throughout it will
32:10
all be worth it from that
32:12
moment on and you'll know when
32:14
you hold her you'll know this
32:16
was worth it and I wouldn't
32:18
change a thing and I would
32:20
die for this child. That's what
32:22
I hear consistently and I also
32:25
I know it's totally different but
32:27
I do think it's different when
32:29
it's your child like when it's
32:31
your choice what? Looks like I
32:33
can cry. No I'm fine. I
32:35
think it's different when it's it's
32:37
yours and like you're comparing your
32:39
your... Brother in law brother who
32:41
yeah her brother you're comparing your
32:43
brother's situation and it sounds like
32:45
they're in the trenches But I'm
32:47
sure they wouldn't give up her
32:49
for anything like they probably are
32:52
like she's crazy and we're dealing
32:54
with a lot of behavioral stuff
32:56
But I we love her because
32:58
she is theirs and I think
33:00
that it's the same like it's
33:02
it's different, but it's like I
33:04
don't necessarily I love dogs, but
33:06
like what I do for Phoebe
33:08
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33:10
I love Sunny, but like what
33:12
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33:14
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33:16
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33:19
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33:21
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33:23
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33:25
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33:27
But I think it's like when
33:29
it's your child, like there's an
33:31
innate love that you have for
33:33
them that conquers all the challenges
33:35
and it doesn't mean that it
33:37
erases the challenges. In terms of
33:39
your relationship, you hear people, it
33:41
is hard to navigate those times
33:43
in your sleep list and you
33:46
have this new baby that you're
33:48
caring for and you're tired and
33:50
your like patients is limited, but
33:52
making time for each other to
33:54
make sure that you stay connected.
33:56
And it might be a few
33:58
hard years, but you come back
34:00
to each other and I assume
34:02
that it makes you stronger when
34:04
you come back to each other.
34:06
I also just feel like though,
34:08
I think that I think that
34:10
normalizing the conversation of like, it's
34:13
okay to not have kids as
34:15
well. For sure. Totally, but I
34:17
do think like there's a lot
34:19
of negativity around becoming. No, but
34:21
there's also a lot of negativity
34:23
around people who say they don't
34:25
want to have kids. But she
34:27
said she's always thought she would
34:29
be. Yeah, but maybe it changed.
34:31
Totally, but I'm just saying I
34:33
also feel there's a lot of
34:35
negativity around becoming a mom and
34:37
I don't I think that it
34:40
should be also the positives should
34:42
be praised. And I also think
34:44
yeah, if you look at all
34:46
these things and you go, I
34:48
don't want it that bad. Like
34:50
being a mom isn't doesn't trump
34:52
these things that I'm scared that
34:54
I'm scared of. Yeah, it's okay
34:56
to also not want to have
34:58
kids. Like I've I've navigated these
35:00
feelings back and forth so much,
35:02
especially the past few years, because
35:04
unfortunately there is a time clock,
35:07
you know, the clock is ticking
35:09
biologically. But I think that there's
35:11
so much beauty in both decisions,
35:13
but I just want to, I
35:15
wouldn't not have kids based on
35:17
the negative experiences that others are
35:19
having. Yeah, you can't. And also
35:21
what I said is from a
35:23
dad's perspective a mother child bond
35:25
is that much more powerful. Yes,
35:27
yeah Just you wait None of
35:29
these concerns you have now will
35:31
exist when you're holding your baby
35:34
Wow They might I mean I've
35:36
talked to some people that you
35:38
know, it's I think postpartum is
35:40
gnarly. Well, that's true. That's a
35:42
whole other conversation. There's that's the
35:44
thing like I think that people
35:46
are finally talking about things post-partum
35:48
like anxiety and intrusive thoughts and
35:50
things that we never heard anyone
35:52
talk about so I think there's
35:54
I get the the hesitation around
35:56
just jumping into it now because
35:58
there's it's important to think about
36:01
things but it's also yeah home
36:03
loans are so gnarly yeah like
36:05
when I think about myself in
36:07
my luteal phase I'm like and
36:09
that's just my luteal phase wow
36:11
my wife had our oldest alley
36:13
without any drugs. Not intentionally. for
36:15
an epidural and it didn't take.
36:17
There was a trainee on staff
36:19
that night. Yeah. And then they
36:21
brought her into the delivery room
36:23
without any thing. So straight, raw
36:25
docked it. Damage was done down
36:28
below in the process. She had
36:30
broken blood vessels all around each
36:32
eye. Like she went through it.
36:34
And when she held Ali, the
36:36
first thing she said to me
36:38
was, it was all worth it.
36:40
And it's been 18 years, and
36:42
she would say the exact same
36:44
thing. So, yeah. And people keep
36:46
doing it. So you know that
36:48
there's, the love erases the pain
36:50
and the torture. Like, because people
36:52
go, I remember I've had, I
36:55
had a friend who was like,
36:57
I'll never do it again. The
36:59
pregnancy was horrible, the, you know,
37:01
everything about it. How'd another baby?
37:03
It's like your brain goes, wow,
37:05
there's something about it that people
37:07
go back for more. So there's
37:09
a testament to that. And it's
37:11
okay to choose a different path.
37:13
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37:15
we're rooting for you. It's beautiful.
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and say, I'm so grateful to Pilates
43:27
and running for helping me shed the
43:29
weight. No shade on Ozumpic or Monjaro.
43:31
But like I did this 100%. That
43:33
feels like a lot of information. Whatever.
43:36
What I'm saying is like, if there's
43:38
being. That's passive aggressive. No, but like
43:40
who. People might be, not just the
43:42
sister-in-law, other people might be assuming that
43:44
she's on Ozemphic. So it's like if
43:47
you're upset about this narrative that's being
43:49
spread, it's probably not just coming from
43:51
your sister-in-law because I think that society
43:53
nowadays, if people loses a lot of
43:56
people, if someone loses a lot of
43:58
weight, everyone's first thought is Ozemic Monjaro.
44:00
And so it's... I think going to
44:02
your sister-in-law, personally, I just wouldn't, I
44:05
don't want to have conversations with my
44:07
sister, Monjaro, all the things, and if
44:09
that's not the narrative that you want
44:11
out there, then correct the narrative yourself
44:14
and take it into your own hands
44:16
and post a picture and say proud
44:18
of this, I did it without any
44:20
medication, like, whatever, you want to say,
44:22
but you can control the narrative in
44:25
passing, I'm just going to go on.
44:27
on her side and say she probably
44:29
wasn't doing it ill will. It seems
44:31
like she's done this before though, a
44:34
little. I don't know. If she is
44:36
bitchy and she is like that, then
44:38
confronting her is not gonna help the
44:40
situation. Yeah, see, I think the opposite,
44:43
because I think if you ask a
44:45
direct question, but you're not accusatory towards
44:47
her of just like, hey, did someone
44:49
tell you that I was on a
44:52
zimpic? I'm not, like I've done it
44:54
all naturally. I've done it, like I've
44:56
done it, like I've done it, like
44:58
I've done it, like I've done it,
45:01
like, like, like, like, like, like, like,
45:03
like, like, like, like, like, like, like,
45:05
like, like, like, like, like, like, like,
45:07
like, like, like, like, like, like, like,
45:09
like, like, like, like, like, like, And
45:12
maybe not, but I just think if
45:14
someone called me out on that, I'd
45:16
be like... You would not do that.
45:18
I think I would. As someone who
45:21
does not like confrontation, you would not
45:23
do that. I've been getting better about
45:25
my confrontation. Should the husband talk to
45:27
his brother? No, because what are they
45:30
gonna... No. Because what are they gonna...
45:32
No. Hey bro, my wife's not on
45:34
a zymphic. Tell your wife, stop talking
45:36
about my wife. And then he'd be
45:39
like, okay, and then you'd probably forget
45:41
to tell her. Okay, I'll let her
45:43
know tonight, bro. Yeah, and then tonight
45:45
comes and goes and he never says
45:47
anything. No, I forgot that word. Hey,
45:50
did you know that Sherry's on a
45:52
zymph? No, no, she's on a zymph.
45:54
And again, you go at it and
45:56
not accusatory way just like to let
45:59
her know that she's running her mouth.
46:01
Or you can go Tani's approach and
46:03
just post and say like, take control
46:05
of your own narrative. So grateful for
46:08
all the Pilates and running and no
46:10
Ozimpic or semi-glutite or monjaro. Yeah, no
46:12
or no medicine, no science. This is.
46:14
all natural. Whatever you want to say.
46:17
The bottom line is you look great.
46:19
The thing is, the thing is, people
46:21
are talking because you're having results. Yes.
46:23
And you know how you're doing it.
46:25
And regardless of if they're, regardless of
46:28
how you did or what you did,
46:30
if you feel great about yourself, that's
46:32
the important thing that you need to
46:34
focus on. If your sister-in-law is someone
46:37
who runs her mouth, then let her
46:39
run her mouth. Like if she's gonna
46:41
be that way, let her be that
46:43
way. Let them. I love take people
46:46
as they are. Take people as they
46:48
are. She's a blabbermouth. Having it not
46:50
bother you is a pretty good defense.
46:52
Just saying. Yeah, but also calling someone
46:55
out on their BS is a good.
46:57
Don't let people, don't let people talk
46:59
about you without having a conversation. All
47:01
right, do me a favorite. Do not
47:04
look at the next page. Because there's
47:06
a quiz for you guys. I already
47:08
heard of the Ozzy one. Yeah, I
47:10
saw it. I'm supposed to quiz you
47:12
on these and you already looked at
47:15
it. I didn't look at it, so
47:17
you can quiz me. Okay. Tony, do
47:19
you in Australian accent? Yeah, I read,
47:21
I read the prep when Sam sent
47:24
it. You want to do it? I
47:26
wouldn't either. Good day, Becca, Mrs. Yadagar.
47:28
Mark and Easton. My name is Sam
47:30
and I want to congratulate Tanya on
47:33
a recent nuptial, so thrilled for you.
47:35
Like many others, I love hearing the
47:37
origin stories, so here is mine. I
47:39
found scrubbing end during the longest, loneliest
47:42
lockdown days where Melbourne Australia had 112
47:44
days straight of lockdown, stay-at-home orders due
47:46
to the pandemic. Between Grace's anatomy and
47:48
the days of scrubbing in, somehow I
47:50
got by. I stumbled across the pod
47:53
and then listened to the back catalog
47:55
and was hooked listening to every episode
47:57
from then until now, and have now
47:59
begun re-listening to fill in between waiting
48:02
for new episodes to drop. Wow, Sam,
48:04
that's great. My favorites are always the
48:06
chit-chat between Becky, Tanya, Mark, and Easton.
48:08
You don't know it, but you've all
48:11
been there through some challenging days. The
48:13
lockdown COVID. days but from the end
48:15
of a relationship, the end of a
48:17
teaching career through mental burnout, relocating and
48:20
moving back in with my parents in
48:22
my 40s to start over again. Through
48:24
reinventions and reinvestments, I appreciate you all
48:26
alongside me through this crazy roller coaster
48:28
life. I love you all, keep up
48:31
the awesome work. Your authenticity, humor, softness,
48:33
friendship, and laughter is so infectious. Finally,
48:35
good on you, you're all a bunch
48:37
of rippers. And I hope to hear
48:40
in a future episode, then Mrs. Yadigar
48:42
has a bun in the oven, aka
48:44
preggers. I thought we could play a
48:46
fun game called Do You Know This
48:49
Australian slang? Love you all from Sam
48:51
all the way from Sam all the
48:53
way from the way from the land
48:55
down the land down the land down
48:58
the land down under the land down
49:00
under. them already. All right, Becca, what
49:02
is a Barbie? No, okay, I'm gonna
49:04
take over. Oh, the skewer? What's a
49:07
body? Is that a grill? Yes, very
49:09
good. What's a Mozie? I think maybe
49:11
just MOSI. MOSI. MOSI? MOSI-Z-Z-I-E-MOSI. A B?
49:13
No, slightly higher pitched. Oh, mosquito. Yes.
49:15
What about a muckas? McDonald's. Yes. What
49:18
about a dunnay? Am I doing a
49:20
good Australian accent? What was that one?
49:22
I doubt it. Can you do that
49:24
for Mark? Dunnay. Mark. Do you nn
49:27
and y. Dunnay. Dunnay. Dunnay. I would
49:29
never have guessed this in a million
49:31
years. Did you go to the Dunnay?
49:34
The dentist you should go
49:37
to the Denny before we
49:39
go on our trip. You
49:41
should go to the Denny
49:43
the store the shot them
49:46
all toilet. It's a long
49:48
car, right? Oh He's such
49:50
a bludger loser Close Duce
49:52
bag teeter? She's close enough
49:54
lazy person Okay. Oh, I
49:57
spill it. I spit the
49:59
dummy. Scottish? What's happening? Spit
50:01
the dummy. Spit the dummy?
50:03
Yeah. Someone spit the dummy.
50:06
Someone fell. Someone fell. Someone
50:08
fell. Someone? No. Drop the
50:10
bar. Robbie left his socks
50:12
on the floor and tiny
50:15
spit the dummy. Oh, she
50:17
freaked out. Got upset. She
50:19
got upset. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
50:21
Yeah. Let's go to Todd
50:24
Todd. I've heard this next
50:26
one faddinkum Yeah, it's okay.
50:28
It's not false, but it's
50:30
fadinkum It's not false, but
50:33
it's fadinkum It's not false.
50:35
It's true. Yes. Oh Wow
50:37
really let her a horse,
50:39
but uh Crickey Krikey. Shoot
50:42
like dang Oh my, like,
50:44
oh my god. Yeah, crazy,
50:46
crazy. Crazy. Um, dogs. Shoes?
50:48
No. Uh, talks? Well, you
50:51
go to the beach, make
50:53
sure you take your dogs.
50:55
Oh, your footpops. Your towels,
50:57
your bag, your swimsuit. Yes.
51:00
You swimsuit, yeah. That's nice,
51:02
Sam. Thank you for that.
51:04
That's so fun, great. Great
51:06
work, Tanya and Mark. I've
51:09
never been able to master
51:11
Australia. That's a really hard
51:13
one. It's a really hard
51:15
one. When I was there,
51:18
we went there for a
51:20
honeymoon, by the way, Sam.
51:22
Oh my gosh, wow. And
51:24
I had it down pretty
51:26
good when we were there,
51:29
but it's gone now. Sorry.
51:31
You should return. I should.
51:33
That's it. That's it. We're
51:35
going to go down under.
51:38
Love you all. It's like
51:40
British. Good day now. Goodbye
51:42
then. Yeah, Australian almost sounds
51:44
like a really thick southern
51:47
accent like there's a draw
51:49
or something to it that
51:51
got that great nar. I
51:53
love nor. I always say
51:56
nor Nor. Haley always goes
51:58
like I feel like you
52:00
could have like that you'd
52:03
have a good Australian
52:05
accident. I'm like all I can say
52:07
is more. And I don't even
52:09
know if I do that well.
52:11
But that's all for now. We
52:13
hope you have a wonderful
52:15
weekend. Enjoy the spring
52:17
weekend. Yes. Mid-April.
52:19
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