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3:42

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Mark's version. Maybe we'll have time

3:49

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wedding, too very. different perspectives. Sure. Yeah,

4:01

I forgot to mention this on the

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part one. The weather was oh yeah.

4:06

When I was walking down I finally

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4:14

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4:21

weather. I've ever experienced. It was perfect.

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It was perfect. And I have to

4:25

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4:28

was planning this, I was like, Tanya,

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just pick a place. You can't control

4:32

the weather. It's going to be fine.

4:34

Just do it in LA. It's the

4:37

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4:39

in LA and March and sure enough

4:41

that day in Los Angeles was raining.

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Yeah. Was that planned? What if I

4:45

told you? No, this was accidental and

4:48

I... No, no, no, no, no. And

4:50

a blood moon and... And on my

4:52

period? Oh my God. It's like everything.

4:54

Did you know the National Butterfly Day?

4:56

When you were booked, you know? I

4:59

feel like you saw someone call you

5:01

a mastermind and now you're playing into

5:03

it. There's no way you knew. Wouldn't

5:05

you like to know? No, we didn't

5:07

pick the date because it was National

5:10

Butterfly Day Day. Everything honestly works out

5:12

to your benefit because we were obviously

5:14

planning on having a wedding on Saturday

5:16

as most people get married on Saturdays

5:19

And they ended up booking the garden,

5:21

which is where we wanted to have

5:23

our reception for like a corporate dinner

5:25

The Saturday that weekend, which we had

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already kind of like locked down that

5:30

weekend So Rob and I were like

5:32

so upset about it and I It

5:34

could not have worked out better because

5:36

I feel like having the weddings, the

5:38

actual ceremony and the reception on a

5:41

Friday and then having that next day

5:43

to still be with everybody and like

5:45

not have to like rush to the

5:47

airport and go home the next day

5:49

was like such a blessing. Yes. and

5:52

that it was National Butterfly Day, like

5:54

it, oh, I was like, this is

5:56

it, that's what it was meant to

5:58

be. It was totally meant to be.

6:00

I literally was saying, I told Haley,

6:03

I was like, we'll do a Friday

6:05

wedding. Because if we do a destination,

6:07

having people have the time to hang

6:09

out Saturday and then still have that

6:12

full day or Sunday to go back?

6:14

Because like the most people will do

6:16

like a brith it's a destination, they'll

6:18

do like a brunch on the Sunday,

6:20

like a brunch on the like a

6:23

brunch on the like a brunch, like

6:25

a brunch, like a brunch, like a

6:27

brunch, like a brunch, like a brunch,

6:29

Nobody wants to go. You're trying to

6:31

get to an airport. You're trying to

6:34

pack, but also like look cute for

6:36

this brunch for the bride. You know

6:38

what I mean? Like it's like there's

6:40

a lot going on. So like, I

6:42

don't know, it just totally worked out.

6:45

So after the ceremony, you went and

6:47

took photos. Yeah. And then quickly, quickly.

6:49

We all headed to the reception area,

6:51

which again, it was a tent of

6:54

twinkle lights. And all the tables were

6:56

set up and all the tables had

6:58

a theme. First of all, it makes

7:00

me so happy that you said that

7:02

it was like so beautiful because we

7:05

did it. Like, I don't want to

7:07

say low budget, but like we stripped

7:09

down so much of the like, we

7:11

were going to have so many crazy

7:13

flower installments like along the. along the

7:16

aisle and like, along the staircase of

7:18

the ceremony, and then we were gonna

7:20

have like crazy flowers on all the

7:22

tables, and then who knew flowers were

7:24

so expensive? And in Mexico, they're like

7:27

times 10 what they are, like here

7:29

for some reason. And so we were

7:31

like, we don't need all this, like

7:33

we don't need all these flowers. It's

7:35

so gorgeous the setting in and of

7:38

itself. So we got rid of all

7:40

of that stuff, we got rid of

7:42

all those extra flowers. And like it

7:44

still looked. stunning. It looked like you

7:47

spared no expense. Yeah, I know you

7:49

did that. Yeah, no, we didn't. We

7:51

were like, let's just do single bud

7:53

base flowers. And we did it for

7:55

the welcome, the welcome dinner too, because

7:58

you use less flowers. You just put

8:00

one in the base and it takes

8:02

up like more space. But yeah, we

8:04

like totally cut costs from the flowers.

8:06

like so much cost. Whoa. Yeah. Where

8:09

are we really sprung was the Twinkle

8:11

tent, but I feel like that's what

8:13

made it. It was worth every penny.

8:15

Yeah, the lighting. It was stunning. So

8:17

y'all come down the stairs, everyone cheers.

8:20

And then we already talked about Sophia

8:22

doing. Well, I have a little bit

8:24

of that too, but we should also

8:26

mention that Tanya and Robbie took the

8:29

time. to write a hand-written card to

8:31

every single person at the wedding. Every

8:33

single guest. I've never even heard of

8:35

such a thing. Never happened before. Like

8:37

that's incredible. It's so funny because like

8:40

we agreed like Robby and I were

8:42

like we really want the guest list

8:44

was like our biggest thing for the

8:46

wedding and so like everybody that's there

8:48

are people who have either been in

8:51

a part of our lives that we

8:53

want in our lives moving forward like

8:55

these were this was like this was

8:57

like our core and we were like,

8:59

how do we convey how important it

9:02

is and how special it is? Everybody

9:04

took the time and the effort to

9:06

like be out here for us. And

9:08

so we're like, let's write them all

9:10

like a note. And Robbie goes, are

9:13

you sure you don't want to do

9:15

it by like couple? Like write the

9:17

couple? And I'm like, no, each individual

9:19

gets their own letter. And he was

9:22

like, so happy that we did it

9:24

that way. He's like, I think it

9:26

was so much better. She was like,

9:28

I have never experienced such a thoughtful

9:30

gesture from like a bride and groom

9:33

or someone who's like putting on an

9:35

event like that for them to take

9:37

the time to write every single person.

9:39

She was like, I have never experienced

9:41

that in my life and everyone kept

9:44

talking like it was like constantly and

9:46

I think because. I knew you were

9:48

doing it. It didn't hit as hard.

9:50

Well, it hit as hard. But like

9:52

the more people were talking about it,

9:55

I realized like how insanely thoughtful and

9:57

just giving that was. One of my

9:59

favorite things was getting videos like people

10:01

were taking videos of other people like

10:04

reading their car. I opened mine and

10:06

it was like a paparazzi like 10

10:08

cameras. Yeah, but Mark was like weeping like

10:10

a baby. We could definitely post that video

10:12

on scrubbing in right? I'll send it to

10:14

Crystal. I don't love it. But that was

10:16

like one of my favorite things because we

10:18

were like what's something because we're not doing

10:20

a ceded dinner, what's something people can do.

10:22

while we're taking a couple photos before we

10:24

get there and we're like, oh, they can

10:26

read their letters. So like, oh, but I

10:29

was like, I want to see everybody's faces

10:31

when they do it. And so I was

10:33

really glad that like other people like caught

10:35

videos of people like reading them. So that was

10:37

really cool. We did enjoy that. And it was

10:39

incredible, truly. And I was, I remember I think

10:41

I even said on the podcast like you should, you

10:43

were saying all the things that you still needed

10:45

to do. And you still needed to do and

10:47

you still needed to do and you. And you.

10:50

And you. And you. And you. And you. And

10:52

you. Take that off your list. That is nice.

10:54

Take that off your list. One card and copy

10:56

it and put it in everyone. But it made

10:58

a difference. It was huge. Everyone talked

11:00

about it. Yeah, it took us, like,

11:02

and that was one of the last

11:04

things we did before we left for

11:06

Mexico because we had to wait to

11:08

get like the card stock that we

11:10

did them on. But it took us like two

11:12

to three full days. I mean, we didn't

11:15

like sit there at the table like 24

11:17

hours writing them. But like, yeah. Yeah.

11:19

Yeah, it was incredible.

11:21

So, first dance comes.

11:23

Y'all get announced.

11:25

Mrs. and Mr.

11:28

Gatigar. Yes. And they announced

11:30

Sophia. By the way, I

11:33

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11:35

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11:37

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11:39

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11:42

you, Mark. And Robbie was

11:44

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11:46

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11:48

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11:50

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11:52

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11:54

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11:57

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11:59

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12:01

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12:03

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12:05

should have if we wanted Mark to do it

12:08

we should have asked him like a month ago

12:10

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12:12

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12:14

was like you know what you're right these

12:16

these band members this is what they do

12:18

and we'll just like let them do it

12:21

I regret not having you do it again

12:23

I have no complaints about the

12:25

whole weekend so it's not a big deal

12:27

but I would have loved to listen I would

12:29

be honored. Because we could have sprung

12:31

it on me 30 seconds before you

12:34

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12:36

I would have been honored. So, because

12:38

we asked, we like floated the idea

12:40

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12:42

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12:44

got in my head about like a

12:46

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12:48

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12:51

guest. And then I was going to

12:53

ask you the night before at the

12:55

rehearsal, because I was like, I got

12:57

at least give him a day. Our wedding

12:59

planner Marjorie was like, so

13:01

it's not, it's going to

13:03

be the band member, right?

13:05

And I was like, well,

13:07

we can't do it now. It's

13:10

so last minute. We can't just

13:12

like go in there and ask

13:14

Mark. So anyways. Thank you

13:17

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13:19

It's okay. It worked out great.

13:21

Yeah. And he said my. Buttery

13:24

Buttery sister so he's

13:26

like and Tanya's buttery

13:28

sister Yeah, that's that's

13:31

her my buttery sister

13:33

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13:36

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13:38

the what I knew about the

13:41

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13:43

that she changed the lyrics.

13:45

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13:47

had come up with an

13:50

entire arrangement of

13:52

the song. Yeah. I didn't know that either.

13:54

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13:56

the song's four and a half minutes and

13:58

we didn't want to be like having her.

14:00

everybody stared us for four and a half

14:02

minutes. So we were like, can you

14:04

cut it to like two, two and

14:06

a half minutes? I didn't know she

14:08

was gonna do like a whole new

14:10

arrangement. Thank God we didn't have like

14:12

a choreographed dance. Because that would have

14:14

really thrown me off. I'm like. Because

14:16

she had her tell us with her.

14:18

Like she flew out her tell us.

14:21

So. Oh yeah. She took it very

14:23

seriously. Like she was in rehearsals. Like

14:25

she had a. I'm taking photos in

14:27

my room. She was on with her

14:29

vocal courts like coach warming up like

14:31

before like she was like she I

14:33

don't know if you notice like she

14:35

barely drank and spoke the night before

14:37

because she was like saving her voice

14:39

Which now makes sense because I

14:41

was like this is she's doing

14:43

a lot for just singing in

14:45

the song but when I heard

14:48

when it started. Oh my gosh

14:50

I know it was like an

14:52

angel came down from heaven. Am

14:54

I crazy? Under the twinkly lights,

14:56

it was like, we were all

14:58

ascended. Yeah. And then she like

15:01

changed the lyrics. And she made

15:03

it all about the Mayborn, which

15:05

is where we got engaged. Red

15:07

is the color that made my

15:09

stars burst. Brown were the color

15:11

of your eyes. Is that black

15:14

liquor marked? Yeah, like she changed

15:16

all the lyrics. And then the

15:18

final lyric. Final lyric is right

15:20

here. Oh. So

15:24

good. It's so crazy. I've

15:27

never seen our first dance

15:29

do that. I just caught

15:32

off guard hell of a

15:34

shit. Like this now, I'm

15:37

like covering shows. Can I

15:39

play the the intro of

15:42

it? Yeah, do you have

15:44

it? Yeah, I just have

15:47

that's all I have is

15:49

just that clip because I

15:52

wanted to like just be

15:54

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15:57

someone's filming the whole thing.

16:07

I guess she ended it the

16:09

same way, huh? That was the

16:11

beginning. Oh. I didn't realize that

16:13

she wrapped it all around. Like

16:15

there was like, I felt like

16:17

very like, I felt like coming

16:19

down from like this. Sophia here,

16:21

I'm like, sounds good for you

16:23

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16:26

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16:28

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16:30

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16:32

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16:34

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16:36

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16:38

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16:40

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16:42

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16:44

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16:46

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16:49

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16:51

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16:53

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All right, we are back. So

23:39

the reception, you had the

23:41

first dance. Then you did

23:44

the dance with your dad.

23:46

People wanted to know what's

23:48

long you danced. We did

23:50

Van Morrison days like

23:52

this. Love. Days like this. Yeah.

23:55

And I found out like two

23:57

days before we left for

23:59

Mexico. I picked the wrong

24:02

song on X. No. I'm like, how

24:04

many days Van Moore's songs are there? They

24:06

had two songs that days like this and

24:08

these are the days. Yes, and these are

24:10

the days is the more like beautiful one.

24:12

I totally messed that up. I was like,

24:14

oh hell. You have to give the band

24:17

like a three week. It's like three weeks

24:19

that you have to tell them the songs

24:21

that they could learn them. So it was

24:23

like two days before we left from Mexico.

24:25

So it's like, there's no way I can

24:27

change it now. song

32:05

and I'm like I have to go right now

32:07

I like ran down the stairs I

32:09

was like I saw the danceboard

32:11

parted yeah that was really fun

32:13

yeah that was really fun yeah

32:15

right before we started the podcast

32:18

I was recording American Top 40

32:20

with Ryan and we played is

32:22

it over now and Tony looked

32:24

over and was giving like a

32:26

yeah it's like a Breakup song. Yeah,

32:29

it had like no business being played

32:31

at the reception, but I was like

32:33

it was one of my favorite moments

32:35

of the night. It was so fun.

32:37

And then we ended the, we ended

32:40

the reception with, I don't know the name

32:42

of the, I don't know the name of the, I

32:44

don't know the name of the dance,

32:46

but it's a Persian tradition where they

32:48

throw like white rose petals at

32:50

the bride and groom and groom

32:52

and groomed. Oh yeah, yeah. He played a

32:54

song for your dad, a

32:57

traditional Serbian folk song. And

32:59

he was extremely emotional about

33:01

that. Sobbing. I've never seen

33:04

him cry like that. Like

33:06

hands in his face. Sobbing.

33:08

The video is like really

33:10

emotional. Who you sent it to me?

33:12

I thought you showed it to me.

33:14

Oh, I have so many videos on

33:16

my phone. It's like crazy. Okay, so

33:18

apparently he thought I said no to

33:20

that song or like no to playing

33:22

it or something. Oh, so he

33:24

was surprised. He thought I, yeah, I

33:27

was surprised. And I was like, yes,

33:29

it was a surprise. Did that surprise?

33:31

Because I saw it on like the

33:33

rundown or something. Yes, like on the

33:35

wedding schedule. Yes, I put it like

33:37

those are that we put the horror,

33:40

the Persian song with the flowers and

33:42

then I put this song that was

33:44

my dad's favorite. That was my

33:46

dad's favorite. broke down. You

33:48

got a reaction. Yeah, you got

33:50

a good DJ where you can,

33:52

you know, seamlessly blend into a

33:54

Serbian folk song out of, I

33:56

don't know, Mr. Brightside. Yeah, a

33:59

little bad bunny. Yeah, literally you're

34:01

so right. But that was

34:03

pretty, that was pretty emotional.

34:05

I was like, whoa. Yeah,

34:07

it was beautiful. Yeah. The

34:09

whole thing, it was so

34:11

fun because everyone was on

34:13

the dance floor. Even if

34:15

they were on the dance

34:17

floor, they were like in

34:19

the lawn dancing in the

34:21

back. Like you just saw

34:23

people in like little sections

34:25

dancing. Yeah. And by the

34:27

way, in case anyone's wondering,

34:29

Ryan was there for the

34:31

entire... I mean, I left

34:33

a little earlier than it

34:35

was over, but he was

34:37

there and he was dancing.

34:40

Yeah. He was dancing with

34:42

Robbie's aunts and stuff. Mom.

34:44

Yes, he was really in

34:46

it. In it. Yep. The

34:48

DJ played, give me everything

34:50

by Pitville, and Ryan gets

34:52

mentioned in that song, and

34:54

I was really hoping, Mark

34:56

and I were like, get

34:58

to the second version of

35:00

it. Yeah. Yeah. And then

35:02

the reception ended with Robbie

35:04

giving a speech like saying

35:06

thank you to everyone and

35:08

it was so emotional again.

35:10

Like we all thought we

35:12

had gotten through the crying

35:14

and then Robbie gets the

35:16

mic again to say thank

35:18

you to everybody and is

35:20

just like so humble and

35:22

gracious and grateful thinking everybody

35:24

and he. The boys are

35:26

up there with Tanya and

35:29

it was just, I was

35:31

like, round of applause for

35:33

just the most beautiful weekend

35:35

top to bottom. Yeah, that

35:37

speech was emotional. Very emotional.

35:39

Yeah, he was very weepy.

35:41

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40:17

about the reception, which was the

40:20

bouquetos. Yeah, I wasn't going to

40:22

do the bouquetos, and then people

40:24

were like, oh, yeah, I was

40:26

so drunk. I was like, yay,

40:28

that's it. How many shots do

40:30

you think you had, by the

40:32

way? A lot. Yeah. You didn't

40:34

even finish the one I gave

40:37

you. Yeah, no. So here, my

40:39

thing is I never take a

40:41

full shot. I take half, and

40:43

then I like pass it off,

40:45

but it took a lot of

40:47

halves. I took a lot of

40:49

hat. I wasn't like, I didn't

40:51

get sick at all. I was

40:54

never like sick from being drunk.

40:56

So I think it was like

40:58

the perfect amount of drunk. But

41:00

I did the bouquetos and like

41:02

90% of my wedding were married

41:04

people. And so I, there was

41:06

a small pool of single ladies

41:08

on the dance floor. I throw

41:11

my bouquet out. It just goes

41:13

over everybody. Everyone just watches it

41:15

go over their heads. And I'm

41:17

like, can someone at least just

41:19

like throw up a hand for

41:21

this? Like come on. So then

41:23

I go back and I do

41:26

it again. Toss them okay. And

41:28

it literally lands like perfectly in

41:30

Paulina's hands. Like no one even,

41:32

no one made an effort. But

41:34

they didn't need to. No, because

41:36

it was like divine intervention. A

41:38

magnet. Yeah. A moth to a

41:40

flame. The first one was hit

41:43

me in the head, like I

41:45

was turned around trying to get

41:47

Haley and Uni on the out

41:49

for the bouquet toss. And you

41:51

didn't know, so you shocked it.

41:53

And I just see it land

41:55

on the floor behind me and

41:57

I'm like, what? Yeah, I was

42:00

like. thing. Nobody wants to touch

42:02

this bouquet. But it went straight

42:04

to Paulina, so it did go

42:06

straight to Paulina. So we shall

42:08

see. TBC. TBC. So yeah, we,

42:10

the reception ends and they, I like

42:12

11, it ended at like 11,

42:14

right? Yeah, yeah. And Robbie had mentioned

42:17

wanting everyone to go jump in the

42:19

ocean. Yeah. I'm sad, he didn't get

42:21

that moment, honestly. You know what though,

42:24

I personally don't think he cared because

42:26

When we were there the few days

42:28

early and it was like hot and

42:31

sunny and we got in the water,

42:33

it was very cold. Oh, okay. He didn't

42:35

seem sad. I was just sad that he

42:37

didn't have his like moment. So then I

42:39

was like, why don't we just like do

42:41

it in the hot tub? Like everybody would go

42:43

jump in the hot tub and he's like, not

42:45

really the same like effect. The pool was

42:47

so warm. I wish we would have done

42:50

the pool. I wish he had his moment

42:52

because that's all he wanted. Yeah, but it

42:54

was, the water was so cold and I

42:56

was thinking about how drunk everyone was and

42:58

getting in the ocean. I'm like, this is

43:00

dangerous. Yeah, the tide, tide, the tide is

43:02

high. So we go to the restaurant and

43:04

they keep the restaurant open for us. They

43:06

start sending in, it's like chicken fingers and

43:09

french fries in case of Diaz and we

43:11

are just like. Ravenness. I

43:13

was ravenous. I don't think

43:15

I ate more chicken fingers

43:17

in my life. Tony was

43:19

eating chicken fingers, dipped in

43:21

ranch, dipped in ketchup. Oh,

43:24

chicken hands. Yeah. Yeah, shit a

43:26

full hand. Yeah. And so we

43:28

raged there until I think it

43:30

was like one something when we

43:32

all walked back to your room.

43:34

Yeah. It was sad. I didn't

43:36

want to end. I know. We

43:38

dropped y'all off. Said. You're

43:40

on your own. husband and wife.

43:43

Everything when I tell you it

43:45

like exceeded all expectations like and

43:47

I honestly I know it took me

43:49

a long time to like decide on the

43:51

venue but I feel like the hotel that

43:54

we chose was so perfect for the

43:56

vibe that we wanted. Yes. Do you

43:58

know what I mean? Like every. that

44:00

we did everything felt so us.

44:02

Beautiful, but like a sense of

44:04

chill. You know what I mean?

44:06

Everything wrapped up into one. Yeah,

44:08

I think everyone said that it

44:10

was just, the location was perfect,

44:12

the guest list was perfect, the

44:14

food was great, everything was just

44:16

ideal, the weather was perfect. Did

44:18

you guys have the dessert? No,

44:20

I did. The chocolate hazelnut? Oh,

44:22

yeah, I had both of them.

44:24

They were delicious. Right? So good.

44:26

So good. I was like dreaming

44:28

about that, like two weeks before

44:30

the wedding. I can't wait. Can't

44:32

wait to eat it again. Oh,

44:34

man. It was so good. We

44:36

did not have a cake. We

44:38

did not do a cake cutting.

44:40

Yeah, people were asking about the

44:42

cake. No cake? No cake. When

44:44

you taste a delicious hazelnut chocolate

44:46

bar like that. an adultie to

44:48

let you banana, whatever the hell

44:50

that was. When you taste that

44:52

and then they say you can

44:54

have that or a cake, you

44:56

take that. Yeah, yeah, I get

44:58

that. Yeah, yeah. A lot of

45:00

people also had questions about Robbie's

45:02

facial hair because we were all

45:04

under the impression that four or

45:07

five, whatever you chose was going

45:09

to be, welcome party and then

45:11

wedding day. Yeah, he reversed it.

45:13

Oh, he did, I think it

45:15

was day four for the welcome

45:17

party and then he shaved it.

45:19

down to like a day one

45:21

for the wedding. How did you

45:23

feel about that? Oh, I let

45:25

him do his thing. I prefer

45:27

him a little hairier, but I

45:29

also respect the fact that he

45:31

wanted to be a little more

45:33

trim on the wedding day. It's

45:35

really a lot of pressure because

45:37

those pictures are going to live

45:39

for the rest of your lives.

45:41

Yeah. So we have 23 years

45:43

married. We have a big picture

45:45

in the playroom. It's not like

45:47

you're going to see it forever.

45:49

Yeah. So I deferred. Oh, because

45:51

I, okay, so now I feel

45:53

better because he made that decision.

45:55

But you had always thought that

45:57

you were choosing what you wanted,

45:59

which was going to be like

46:01

four or five day. Yeah, but

46:03

I got that at the welcome

46:05

party. Right, right. So like I

46:07

got mine, he got his, you

46:09

know? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Marriage. Compromise.

46:11

Compromise. You've already mastered marriage. Yes,

46:13

thank you, thank you. Oh, people

46:15

were asking about me finding my

46:17

dress and how I chose my

46:19

dress. Oh. So. Nobody even knows

46:21

this, but Becca had butterflies in

46:23

her dress. Oh. Yeah, there was

46:25

like a really faint print that

46:27

had butterflies. And I didn't know

46:29

when I ordered it. So. I

46:31

ordered two dresses and I just

46:33

send them to Tanya like I'm

46:35

going to bring both of these

46:37

but do you have a preference?

46:39

And she zoomed in and there

46:41

was a butterfly on like my

46:43

shoulder. She didn't even plan it.

46:45

And she goes, did you know

46:48

there's butterflies on this dress? And

46:50

I was like, no I didn't

46:52

know. And she goes, did you

46:54

know there's butterflies on this dress?

46:56

And I was like, no, I

46:58

didn't know. And she goes, like,

47:00

it has to complimented each other.

47:02

It was great. No notes. Literally

47:04

no notes. My hair and makeup,

47:06

teams said they do weddings all

47:08

the time and they're like, I've

47:10

never experienced a bridal party like

47:12

yours. They were on it, they

47:14

were attentive, they were like, those

47:16

are my girls. That's right. So

47:18

the next day was the pool

47:20

party at the hotel and y'all

47:22

rented out all the cabanas and

47:24

basically the whole adults only pool

47:26

was ours for the day. that

47:28

were not involved in the wedding.

47:30

Didn't notice. Didn't notice them? Yeah,

47:32

honestly. I was just like, didn't

47:34

see them last night. No. Didn't

47:36

get to meet them. Maybe they

47:38

weren't even part of the wedding.

47:40

We had coconuts with our logo

47:42

printed on them too. How did

47:44

y'all do that? That was just

47:46

incredible. We spent the whole last

47:48

night chisling. But you know what's

47:50

interesting? I didn't realize. within the

47:52

planning. I didn't know everybody was

47:54

going to go so hard on

47:56

Friday. I thought Saturday was going

47:58

to be like a little bit

48:00

more like intense. I thought I

48:02

was like a kind of like

48:04

a raging pool party. Oh, interesting.

48:06

And it wasn't. But it was

48:08

like so perfect. It was perfect.

48:10

It was like I had a

48:12

couple of drinks at this one

48:14

of the bar. Yeah, like people

48:16

were in the pool. People were

48:18

like in cabanas with like their

48:20

immediate friends. People were laying out

48:22

like it was very like chill.

48:24

Mingly. Mingly. Mingly. Yeah. Mm. Mingly

48:26

messy. People would like leave to

48:29

go go get a spa treatment

48:31

and come back. Like it was

48:33

like chill. And I think everyone

48:35

loved it. I feel like it

48:37

was a perfect finale, finale event.

48:39

Okay, as guests, because I feel

48:41

like you see everything so different,

48:43

like as a bride. What was

48:45

all of your favorite parts of

48:47

the whole weekend? the whole week.

48:49

My favorite part of the whole

48:51

weekend was at the reception and

48:53

we were dancing and I was

48:55

kind of on the outskirts of

48:57

the dance floor and just kind

48:59

of you know I don't want

49:01

to be the guy that's just

49:03

sitting there the whole time but

49:05

I'm not necessarily going to be

49:07

the center of the dance floor

49:09

either so I just kind of

49:11

doing the and then it was

49:13

Mr. Bright's side and that that

49:15

arc of songs right there that

49:17

was the high point of probably

49:19

my year up to this point

49:21

it was just the greatest. You

49:23

didn't leave the dance floor. After

49:25

that I kind of didn't. No

49:27

you were just in there. I

49:29

kind of established my place on

49:31

it. Yeah yeah yeah yeah and

49:33

then everyone was recording me and

49:35

sending videos of me and laughing

49:37

at me but it was still

49:39

a really great time. I don't

49:41

think people were laughing at you.

49:43

Scrubbing in because they love when

49:45

you dance. Are you sure okay?

49:47

I got so many I got

49:49

so many requests to film y'all

49:51

dancing. Well, that's Okay, I just

49:53

don't know what the motivation is

49:55

there. You know what I'm saying?

49:57

But like Ryan was making fun

49:59

like Ryan was joking. Yeah was

50:01

laughing. Oh really? I think so.

50:03

I got a video of you

50:05

dancing APT and I watched that

50:07

video 10,000 times because like you

50:09

like give Robbie this like big

50:12

hug and a high five and

50:14

there's just so much joy. Oh

50:16

it's all joy. It's so it's

50:18

so infectious to watch. I just

50:20

like that night I was just

50:22

falling asleep watching the video. I

50:24

feel like everybody was like I

50:26

feel like Robbie and I dance

50:28

with everybody at the wedding. Somehow

50:30

the whole weekend was joy and

50:32

love yeah, that's what it felt

50:34

like and this and this is

50:36

a more more personal note It

50:38

just felt like by overwhelming feeling

50:40

that weekend especially at the reception

50:42

was I'm gonna get emotional You

50:44

make a lot of decisions in

50:46

life to get to where you

50:48

end up and that's how I

50:50

felt I've made a lot of

50:52

right decisions that I'm here at

50:54

this spot with these people Nice

50:57

It's so funny I was thinking about

50:59

this the other day like it didn't

51:01

I didn't feel like it was like

51:03

oh I'm here with people I work

51:06

with you know like it was like

51:08

I if everyone felt like family there

51:10

it was so yeah it was there's

51:12

so much love it's so much love

51:15

it's so much love it's so hard

51:17

to pick a favorite part of that

51:19

weekend like my guy but see I

51:21

couldn't wait to see you walk down

51:24

the aisle. And when I saw you,

51:26

it was, I was thinking about everything

51:28

you've been through, everything you've wanted, and

51:30

then seen like in 3D physical space,

51:33

like I was just, it was everything.

51:35

Everything I you know that I dreamed

51:37

of that everyone listening is dreamed of

51:39

it was it was like watching a

51:42

princess It was so great. I love

51:44

seeing you walk down when I first

51:46

saw you and your dad walked down

51:48

the aisle It's like this is this

51:51

is the moment And and seeing you

51:53

up there with Rob and all the

51:55

times you almost kissed. The ceremony I

51:57

think was what I kept replaying in

52:00

my head. I love that so much.

52:02

I mean, well, I agree. I think

52:04

the whole, the whole weekend I could

52:06

find something in every moment, but I

52:09

think that right when Sophia started singing

52:11

and I have it on video, Robbie,

52:13

like did this motion where he like

52:15

hugged you like three times. And it

52:17

was this moment of like, like we

52:20

got here, you know, like we did

52:22

it. And it was like watching y'all

52:24

have this like joyful moment that we

52:26

have been also waiting for with you,

52:29

you know, like this journey has been

52:31

all of us collectively like the listeners,

52:33

like all of it felt like it

52:35

came to this like moment. And it

52:38

was like the twinkle lights and Sophia's

52:40

voice and the song that has had

52:42

so much significance on national butterfly. With

52:44

like y'all's favorite people. And it was

52:47

just like I felt Robbie like have

52:49

this moment. And I guess the other

52:51

thing was like, I knew I know

52:53

how much you love Robbie loves you,

52:56

but something about Robbie like it felt

52:58

like y'all were so locked in on

53:00

like. We did this together and like

53:02

we got here together and we planned

53:05

it together and like. I think that

53:07

like obviously you guys have seen like

53:09

my side of the journey and like

53:11

my side of everything but like he's

53:14

been through hell and back and I

53:16

think for his family it was like

53:18

the same feeling on his end. Do

53:20

you know what I mean? He's gone

53:23

through so much and he finally gets

53:25

his happily ever after and so it

53:27

was like what you guys were feeling

53:29

on my side I think his family

53:32

was also feeling on his side for

53:34

him. So it's like all of all

53:36

of it. And that's what we were

53:38

saying. I was talking to so many

53:41

people and I was like the way

53:43

I kept describing the feeling all weekend

53:45

with everybody was like this joy for

53:47

you guys. It's also like, it was

53:50

such a testament of like the people

53:52

that y'all are because, you know, they

53:54

say like, if you show someone your

53:56

friends and like the people in their

53:59

life, it's a telling part of who

54:01

you are. And I was thinking about

54:03

how much joy and celebration and like

54:05

happiness there was in that room for

54:08

y'all. And that's because of y'all, like

54:10

you put that towards everybody. Like y'all

54:12

have. Make sure to make every single

54:14

person that you all encounter feel special

54:17

even at your own wedding you wrote

54:19

cards for everyone like you made sure

54:21

to dance with everyone you address everyone

54:23

and it was just like I Hope

54:26

that y'all felt that back so much

54:28

because that's what the energy felt like

54:30

the whole weekend at least for me.

54:32

We did. We totally we both were

54:35

just like we couldn't get over and

54:37

then like but like you know like

54:39

you're in it and you're the bride

54:41

and groom you're like of course you're

54:44

having fun we're like yeah is everybody

54:46

else having fun like we're like it

54:48

seems like they are but like you

54:50

know what I mean like you just

54:53

can't tell everyone gets a survey in

54:55

the room at the end right at

54:57

zero to five and they're like one

54:59

no um who is the guess that

55:02

surprised you the most or like maybe

55:04

that you love the most that you

55:06

didn't know not like it ask me

55:08

somebody that you didn't We sat on

55:11

the welcome party, we sat with some

55:13

of Robbie's childhood, or one of Robbie's

55:15

childhood friends. We sat with Seth, we

55:17

hung out with him and his wife

55:20

the whole weekend, and they were so

55:22

cool. And we had such a good

55:24

time with them. And something Seth said

55:26

that I really liked is, I was

55:29

like, oh, you know, what was it

55:31

like, what's it like being here and

55:33

seeing Robbie in this like phase of

55:35

life? And he's like, I have never

55:38

in our entire lives seen him as

55:40

happy as he was with Tanya. Like,

55:42

and he was so excited. Because I

55:44

was still a welcome party. He's like,

55:47

I'm so excited for tomorrow because of

55:49

that. And I was like, okay, cool,

55:51

this guy, this is the real deal.

55:53

Yeah, they were, they were, they were

55:56

rad. We hung out with them a

55:58

lot. Okay, fun. That's good. I talked

56:00

to your mom and dad more than

56:02

I talked to anybody I think.

56:05

Okay so my mom and my dad.

56:07

I get the gold star. I had

56:09

a lovely chat with both of them

56:12

and they were both they were with

56:14

very um I don't know we just

56:16

had a really great connection just talking

56:18

about you and all you've been through

56:21

in your radio career and the

56:23

last 15 years and it was really

56:25

nice to get to know them better.

56:28

First of all, that was

56:30

my first time spending time

56:32

with them more, like, David

56:34

and his family. David is so

56:36

awesome. And Nona was, I

56:38

mean, I knew already, I've

56:40

spent more time with Nona,

56:42

I feel, and talked to her,

56:44

but, um, known as parents, specifically

56:47

her dad, cookie. Every time we

56:50

ran into them with Haley, they

56:52

were so curious about her

56:54

and us. and asked so many questions

56:56

and I was just like wow

56:58

like they are you know it's

57:00

just getting to know more of

57:03

Robby's side of the family and

57:05

then that was even like his

57:07

extended family was really cool but

57:09

every single person that I got to meet

57:11

and talk to I was like I get it

57:13

wow yeah I love that yeah but it was

57:15

so fun getting to see people like

57:17

Jerome and like people that I just

57:19

get to see here and there every

57:21

now and then yeah that it was just

57:23

so fun to get to see them celebrating

57:26

all it was so fun it was the best

57:28

ever it literally was the best weekend

57:30

of our lives like top to bottom all

57:32

right real quickly if you have your wedding

57:34

bingo card get it out now here's what

57:37

we got put it you can mark these

57:39

off as we go cake smash in the

57:41

face no someone other than bride wearing

57:43

white yes yes The bookie is tossing,

57:45

got caught, yes. Robbie crying, Tony crying,

57:47

Mark crying, East and crying, Baca crying,

57:49

all yeses. Someone gives a toast to

57:51

his not scheduled to do so, no.

57:54

No. Someone trips on Tanya's dress. No,

57:56

I don't think your dad tripped on

57:58

your dress. Not definitely on my. Wardrobe malfunction,

58:00

not that I'm aware of. Sunny

58:03

poops during the ceremony, no. Nope.

58:05

Someone vomit's at the reception. I

58:07

mean there was vomiting after

58:09

the welcome party. No one, we don't

58:11

really need to rehash that and I'm sure

58:13

it wasn't just me. I'm saying yes though,

58:15

I'm saying give yourself a credit

58:17

for vomiting. Somebody ignores black tie

58:20

and dresses too casually, yes. Definitely.

58:22

Garter toft and caught, no. Speech

58:24

longer than five minutes, yes. Ryan

58:26

asks if anyone objects, no. He

58:29

did not say kiss a family,

58:31

did not say tea rad, he

58:33

did not say buy you a

58:35

drink. Group dance, I say yes,

58:38

because of the Beyonce, Texas hold

58:40

him. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. There was

58:42

no chachaw slide though, I'll tell you

58:44

that. Sing along on the dance

58:46

floor, many. Yeah. Bridesmaid mentions

58:48

Tanya's dating history in her speech.

58:51

Yes. Yes. And someone reads from

58:53

first Corinthians. Yes. Call that one.

58:55

So there you go. I hope

58:57

you got bingo. Wow. It feels

58:59

like a lot of bingos on

59:02

that card. Yeah. They probably got

59:04

a probably a high number of

59:06

bingos had. Yeah. They should get

59:08

Tanya merch. T&R merch. Yeah. Yeah.

59:10

I have to go through all

59:12

that. The amount of just like

59:14

unpacking and like. The aftermath? Like,

59:17

what do I do with my wedding dress

59:19

now? Well, that's a good question. I

59:21

think Amy still has hers. Allison has

59:23

hers. I think I'm gonna make it into

59:25

a mini. Cute? That you can, like,

59:27

wear casually? No, I'd wear it, like, on

59:29

our anniversary or something. You don't

59:32

think you could just do your reception dress,

59:34

if you wanted to do a mini? What

59:36

am I going to do with this wedding

59:38

dress forever? Save it? Yeah, you save it.

59:40

You save it. Maybe your daughter would like it

59:43

one day. I'm not putting pressure on my unborn

59:45

child. There's no pressure though. It's not pressure. If

59:47

my mom had a dress that I loved and

59:49

she kept it for me, I would be so

59:52

honored. And what if it was like blue and

59:54

had like... Then I'd be like, I thank you

59:56

so much for saving this, but maybe I can

59:58

take a piece of it. sew it onto

1:00:01

minor, but like, it could be

1:00:03

such a special thing. It's stunning.

1:00:05

Why would you instantly make it

1:00:08

a mini drive? I wasn't gonna

1:00:10

make it a mini, but I

1:00:12

was thinking about making it like

1:00:15

something that no, like like taking

1:00:17

off the train and like, like

1:00:19

making it not like long. I'm

1:00:22

just saying, I would preserve it.

1:00:24

I would preserve it. At least

1:00:26

for a year. Be honest that

1:00:29

hers was sitting in her closet

1:00:31

for nine years and she donated

1:00:34

it. Scrobert getting married, you want

1:00:36

to tell you the winning dress?

1:00:38

We'll have a little contest. Wouldn't

1:00:41

tell you the bad idea. I'm

1:00:43

going to take out, because my

1:00:45

Something Blue at the bottom was

1:00:48

like a note that Robbie, when

1:00:50

he asked me to be his

1:00:52

girlfriend, he got a written on

1:00:55

blue fabric or like blue ink

1:00:57

fabric. Blue ink fabric. And then

1:01:00

we stitch it into the bottom

1:01:02

of my dress. That was my

1:01:04

something blue. But I could take

1:01:07

that piece out and like keeping

1:01:09

your dress. I'm anti, just like,

1:01:11

it's gonna cost so much money

1:01:14

to clean and preserve, because you

1:01:16

have to put it in this

1:01:18

like, preserve, it's like thousands of

1:01:21

dollars. I'm like for to sit

1:01:23

in my closet. I mean, yeah,

1:01:26

maybe I achieved out on it,

1:01:28

but it was like, I paid

1:01:30

like $300 to have it preserved.

1:01:33

Yeah. They put it in like

1:01:35

some special thing, and I think

1:01:37

it's at least like $1,000. Nowadays,

1:01:40

if you do it the right

1:01:42

way. Post-covan, everything, everything's doubled. Well,

1:01:44

let's just think on it before

1:01:47

we start taking to it with

1:01:49

some scissors Not going to be

1:01:52

like cutting it myself. Yeah, and

1:01:54

maybe some people have great ideas

1:01:56

of what they did Yeah, yeah,

1:01:59

yeah, yeah Any any news on

1:02:01

when you're posting photos for the

1:02:03

for the people? Hopefully tomorrow or

1:02:06

by the end of today. Okay.

1:02:08

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Stay tuned it

1:02:10

was I can get into that

1:02:13

later I'm That's all for now.

1:02:15

I feel like we answered everything.

1:02:18

Do we miss anything? No. I

1:02:20

don't think so. Mark what by

1:02:22

this. Well, if you have questions,

1:02:25

you know, let us know. We'll

1:02:27

try to answer them. All right.

1:02:29

Well, we will be back on

1:02:32

Thursday with Dylan Ephron. He is

1:02:34

so baby girl, the definition of

1:02:36

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1:02:39

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1:02:41

make that clear. So we'll be

1:02:44

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1:02:46

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1:02:53

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1:02:55

you're going to change it. I

1:02:58

have to do... Oh, people are

1:03:00

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1:03:02

it. I have to do... I

1:03:05

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1:03:07

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1:03:10

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