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podcast. So we've gotten

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a hold of Bailey, and she's agreed to

2:53

come on the air with us. So Bailey,

2:55

do you remember going out with Lance? Yeah,

2:58

I did. Well, he told us you guys

3:00

went out for dinner, had a great date,

3:02

but he said he hadn't heard from you

3:04

since, and asked us to give you a

3:07

call on his behalf. Well, the reason why

3:09

there was a second date is because he's

3:11

rude and gross, what do he do? Well,

3:14

I don't really want to comment on that.

3:16

but I just don't want to go out

3:18

with him again and it's so inappropriate. He

3:20

was just broke. Okay. The reason we called

3:23

is he said you guys had a great

3:25

date and he had a different perspective on

3:27

the date and he's actually on the other

3:29

line. Would it be okay if we brought

3:32

him on the other line just to clear

3:34

the air or something? Well I don't really

3:36

want to talk to him but I would

3:38

be interested in hearing what he has to

3:41

say about what he said to me. Okay,

3:43

well maybe he wants to apologize or something.

3:45

I don't know. Okay, but you don't want

3:47

to talk to him, but we will bring

3:50

him up on the air to see what

3:52

he has to say. And you're cool with

3:54

that? Yes, that's fine. Lance, are you there?

3:56

Yeah. So Bailey did not want to talk

3:59

to you, but she did say... would be

4:01

welcome to hear if you had any comments

4:03

about your behavior that evening.

4:05

My behavior. To quote her, as

4:08

you heard, she said that you were

4:10

rude and gross. Okay, I literally have

4:12

no idea what she's talking about. You

4:14

don't know what she's referring to? You

4:17

can't think back on the date? I

4:19

mean, I can, but I don't recall

4:21

anything being rude or gross. Well, you

4:23

made a very rude comment to me,

4:26

Lance, Lance, about my butt when we

4:28

were leaving. Are you referring to

4:30

by comment about your dress? Oh,

4:32

of course. Now you remember. Yes. Okay,

4:34

let me explain this real quick.

4:36

Just from frame of reference, Bailey

4:38

was wearing a long dress, but

4:40

it had a see-through lace that

4:43

started at her thigh. So when

4:45

she was leaving, she dropped her

4:47

phone and she bent over to

4:49

pick it up and the see-through

4:51

part kind of rowed up and

4:53

she basically flashed the entire restaurant

4:55

without knowing it. So I just

4:57

mentioned that the dress was a

4:59

little more transparent than she might

5:01

have realized. No, you did not explain

5:03

it like that, Lance. You did not explain

5:06

it like that. You made a really rude

5:08

comment that I'm not going to repeat because

5:10

it was gross. I didn't. I simply

5:13

explained that the dress was more transparent

5:15

than you probably would have thought and

5:17

didn't know if you wanted to go

5:19

around flashing everybody. That's not the way

5:22

you put it. It was really inappropriate

5:24

and just gross and like... creepy and

5:26

it's just yucky. Okay, well how did

5:28

I how did I say it? I'm not going

5:30

to say what you said in front

5:32

of other people. It was gross. I

5:35

don't know how you forget saying something

5:37

like that unless you say it all

5:39

the time. I promise you I was

5:41

trying to be a perfect gentleman and

5:43

let you know that you probably weren't

5:45

being perceived the way you thought you

5:47

were. Well I don't think I conduct

5:50

myself ever in a way that would

5:52

warrant anything like what you said. Graspen

5:54

what I'm trying to tell you like when

5:57

you bent over like I saw some guys

5:59

look around over And you could clearly

6:01

see a whole lot going on

6:03

underneath there when you bent over.

6:05

Your dress was very see -through if

6:07

I can be completely transparent. Okay,

6:10

but that's not how you put it.

6:12

If there are other men looking at

6:15

me, you don't have to be groovy

6:17

and say something gross. This was supposed

6:19

to be a date and it was

6:21

going fine until you decided to do

6:23

that and it just, no. Okay. Well,

6:25

I don't know how to put it.

6:27

I was trying to let you know

6:29

something, but... Should we use the hold

6:31

feature here? No, no. What's

6:33

the hold feature? Never mind. It's fine.

6:35

We're just, well... We wanted to see Bailey

6:38

if maybe, you know, you could give

6:40

him a second opportunity. He was trying to

6:42

help you? No, I don't think I

6:44

will. It was just unpleasant and just really

6:46

uncomfortable and I don't want to do

6:48

this again. Well, that's why we're here. Lance

6:50

asked us to give you a call

6:52

on his behalf. You've expressed that you're not

6:54

interested in going out a second time

6:57

with him, so we thank you for your

6:59

time. You're a good sport to come

7:01

on the earth. Let's do appreciate your time.

7:03

Thank you. Lance, we understand what you

7:05

were trying to do, but it wasn't perceived

7:07

that way. Maybe an apology from how

7:09

she perceived your comment? No,

7:11

I mean, I don't think I

7:13

have anything to apologize for. Like,

7:16

she was blasting people and I

7:18

was trying to help her out,

7:20

but she apparently took that the

7:22

wrong way. Maybe she likes doing

7:24

that. I don't know. She doesn't

7:26

like doing that. No, nobody does.

7:28

It's kind of hard to judge

7:30

this when we don't know the

7:32

actual comment. We don't know the

7:34

tone. Yeah, yeah, exactly. And not

7:36

knowing that, but just their reaction

7:38

to it. I'm on kind of

7:40

team Bailey on this because she

7:43

was obviously offended and Lance, who

7:45

claims to be a gentleman, could

7:47

have easily read the room a

7:49

little bit and said obviously when

7:51

I was trying to help, it

7:53

didn't go over well and do

7:55

something we call the apology. I

7:57

wonder what he said. I

8:00

wonder if it was something rude that

8:02

he said. It sounds like it was.

8:04

It sounds very broy. I mean, you know,

8:06

the way that she kind of explained

8:08

it, like she didn't even want

8:10

to say it on the air,

8:12

so I think that it was

8:14

something that was inappropriate to say over

8:16

the radio. You know, I would imagine

8:19

if that happened to either of us.

8:21

If there was a situation like that

8:23

in public. I don't know. I think I

8:25

would react. You would probably run and be

8:27

like, oh my God. Like let me cover

8:30

you up or I it's okay if that

8:32

happened to you is this is different if

8:34

you're on a first date and you don't

8:36

know each other very well I would choose

8:38

my words very carefully like hey that dress

8:40

when you yeah the gauze part that's like

8:42

the lower part when you've been over it

8:44

shows a little more than you thought yeah

8:46

and try to explain it. It sounds like

8:48

he didn't do that. Yeah. And now I

8:50

may make, if I was, if it was

8:52

you and I, I may make a joke

8:55

because you and I know each other, we're

8:57

comfortable with each other, we joke around all

8:59

the time. Right. That's a totally different

9:01

situation. Yeah. Gosh, it's just hard

9:03

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