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You, I'm Steve Green. Some stuff that

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they do not tell you in life, that

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or via us who have made many

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mistakes in it. Yes, and hopefully

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we can help you not make

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the same ones. Agreed. So today,

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indeed we are talking

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about relationship questions. People,

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look, people have a lot of problems

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in their relationships out there. Yeah.

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Okay. Yeah. And we are trying

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to be a guiding light to help

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you through and navigate those waters.

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Yeah. I wouldn't. I like to say. we're

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not experts at anything, but I feel

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like we're pretty good. Pretty good at

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it. Pretty good at it. At having

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a healthy relationship. And diagnosing when, okay,

2:09

maybe there's a problem here. How are

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we gonna fix it in a productive

2:13

way? As a team. I think we're

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very good at that. Yeah, I do.

2:17

I will pat ourselves on the back

2:20

about that. We're coming up on 12

2:22

years together. And I love this woman.

2:24

Yeah. Can't say it enough. Say it's

2:26

everyday. I'm obsessed with this absolute meat.

2:28

I love this woman. Excuse me. You

2:31

love yourself? Oh, this one. Yeah, shut

2:33

up. Don't call me that again, ever,

2:35

again. It's very embarrassing. It's very embarrassing

2:37

on our podcast. Okay, so check this

2:40

out. Caught a guy in my girlfriend's

2:42

bed last night. What? Yeah. Oh, God.

2:44

Yeah. All right. Not a hot start.

2:46

So last night me and my girl

2:48

forgot in a bit of an argument

2:51

that she had initiated and then after

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I just bit my tongue and apologized

2:55

to her. She completely ignored the apology

2:57

and went on about something else. The

2:59

argument was that I didn't feel comfortable

3:02

with her hanging out with this guy

3:04

in her room alone, especially after he

3:06

made some uncomfortable verbal advances to her.

3:08

She then later in the night told

3:11

me she understood and she wouldn't have

3:13

him in her room anymore. Oh, okay.

3:15

Yeah, that's what you initially said. Yeah,

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my bet. Okay. But then she went

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MIA for two hours. I got a

3:22

little curious and something deep inside me

3:24

kept telling me to go over to

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her house, like an echoing voice in

3:28

the back of my head saying, go,

3:30

go to her house. Intuition. So I

3:33

eventually went over to her house after

3:35

I got off my second job. And

3:37

as I pulled in, she texted saying

3:39

she's been reading a book. I text.

3:41

I walk into her room and right

3:44

away I see this guy we just

3:46

had the discussion about laid up in

3:48

her bed. She tried saying that his

3:50

ribs were broken and he needed help.

3:53

What? But she's not a nurse nor

3:55

a doctor. So I'm like, what the

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F? Why would your friends drop him

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off at your house? Right. Why not

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take him to the hospital? 100% You

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could have internal bleeding or something along

4:06

those lines. So I'm obviously upset and

4:08

losing my mind. He starts talking to

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me to me. And then I end

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up threatening him, but I didn't hurt

4:15

anyone. She kept saying he can't afford

4:17

the hospital, but I mean man, you're

4:19

gonna have to go to the hospital

4:21

over some broken ribs eventually LOL. So

4:24

this is all very suspicious from the

4:26

jump. Yeah. I can't believe he's even

4:28

like considering this. Yeah, and changing this.

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Uh-huh. What an idiot. Well, I think

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it's smart though to take like, yeah,

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to just logically attack it. To take

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you exactly. It's like, okay, let's see

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what you're saying. And like, like, let's

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pretend that's pretend that's true. Especially after

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she just told me she wouldn't have

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this guy in her room alone anymore.

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Yeah, and she was reading a book.

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She didn't text it. Yeah, totally. She

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lied about that. Exactly. Hey, I was

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taking care of my friend as ribs

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or her. Dead to rights. So bad.

4:59

So bad. Why would you lie about

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it? You're an idiot. Check. Yeah. She

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didn't texted me and said that she

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knows she effed up for not telling

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me, but she wasn't sorry for it.

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So I broke up with her right

5:12

then and there. Mine knew she has

5:14

a habit of lying to me about

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various things. Each time I have broken

5:19

up with her over something along those

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lines, she's called back to me begging

5:23

for me back and acting like she's

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changed. But at this point, I'm mentally

5:28

and emotionally exhausted and drained. I don't

5:30

even want to eat or go to

5:32

work. I've only been eating once a

5:34

day and the last month has caused

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me to go into deep depression over

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her. How do I move on and

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heal? This is because you're young because

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like it's a good lesson to learn

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early. Liars are just liars. They don't

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change. Definitely. I've dated two back-to-back liars

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that just lie and they just like

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I think they have like a problem.

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I think they have like a something

5:56

wrong in their brain that like they

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compulsively lie. And like, even warning the

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second one that I didn't want to date a

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liar and that if they wanted to lie to me that

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we should just not be together, he's still lied to me

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all the time and I'd catch him all the time and

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then, but it's just so hard. It's because they

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seem legit when they come back and they're like, I'm

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so sorry, like I own up told my lies and then

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they like say they're gonna change. They don't, they

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won't, I don't think they, I don't think they're

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capable, I don't think they're capable, they're

6:22

capable, I don't think they're capable, I

6:24

don't think they're capable, I don't think

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they're capable, I don't think they're capable,

6:29

And you'll move on and just

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be aware of liars. You have

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to stick up for yourself too. Yeah,

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you do. You have to draw a

6:37

line in the sand. Yeah. And you

6:39

cannot let them weasel their way

6:42

back in like they always, they're

6:44

really good at weasel. And

6:46

they're really good at weasel. And

6:48

they're really good at weasel. And

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they're really good. Exactly. Because they

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know what they can get away

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with. They've been lying. you know,

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see where your boundaries are and

6:59

they push them even further. And

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it's just not okay. And so

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the sooner that you can, you

7:05

know, learn to set your foot

7:07

down and stick with it, the

7:09

better. And I'm happy that happened

7:11

for you. It sucks that it

7:13

happened. It sucks that you have

7:15

feelings for her still. But like it's

7:17

really good to not have those people

7:20

in your life. Yeah, man. Yeah. That's a

7:22

yikes for me. A super yikes. You can't

7:24

catch somebody in your bed, in the bed

7:26

with your chick. Oh, he has broken

7:28

ribs. That's the weakest shit I've ever

7:30

heard of. Yeah. So you're just casually

7:32

hanging out with you. He has broken

7:34

ribs? Why were you reading the book? Why

7:37

did you tell me you're reading the book?

7:39

Exactly. It's over. Good call breaking up.

7:41

Yeah. How to get over it? Work on

7:43

yourself? And just like think of how shitty

7:45

she's been to you. Yeah, this is not a person

7:48

every time you know what happens when you

7:50

go through breakups even if they were with

7:52

shady people Your brain Does the same thing

7:54

as when people die where like it wants to

7:56

grieve by like thinking of all the good times.

7:58

Yeah, because it feels better. But don't

8:01

do that. Think of all the bad

8:03

times. Think of how much they hurt

8:05

you and then, you know, promise yourself

8:07

to never put yourself in that position

8:09

again. Amen. Yeah. That you will not

8:11

settle for that. And good luck. We're

8:13

rooting for you, obviously. Yeah, good luck.

8:16

And good riddance. All right, next one.

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My boyfriend's 24 male. All right. Because

8:20

of my hair. Now he wants me

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back. Weird. So this might sound dumb.

8:24

It does. But my boyfriend of two

8:26

years, 24 male, broke up with me

8:28

because of my hair. Or at least

8:30

that was the final straw. Ever since

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I was a kid, I've always struggled

8:35

with super dry and frizy hair. And

8:37

at the time I was using a

8:39

new serum and styling it a little

8:41

bit different, which I thought looked good.

8:43

One day he asked me to go

8:45

see some movie with him. I forgot

8:48

exactly what movie it was, but it

8:50

was like a horror movie or movie

8:52

or whatever. a nice outfit together. I

8:54

did my full hair routine and makeup

8:56

routine. I put effort into making sure

8:58

I look good. So then tell me

9:00

why after the movie, when I'm getting

9:02

out of the car, he turns to

9:05

me and just casually says, you kind

9:07

of look like beetle juice right now.

9:09

I need like this one. And she's

9:11

like, like T.F. you mean I look

9:13

like beetle juice? And then he just

9:15

kept giggling. So I slammed the door

9:17

and walked away. I think he realized

9:20

he made a mistake because he facetime

9:22

me and said it was just a

9:24

joke about how my hair was similar

9:26

to Beatle Juice. And that my face

9:28

was really pretty. Like that makes it

9:30

any better. We got into a whole

9:32

fight about it and he ended things

9:34

over facetime. After the breakup I spiraled

9:37

for a while but finally decided to

9:39

fix my hair once and for all.

9:41

If not for him, then for me

9:43

all caps all caps. I tried everything

9:45

until I found something that finally told

9:47

me was actually was wrong with my

9:49

hair. Now I hear a soft and

9:52

healthier than it's ever been. This is

9:54

about four months ago, but I guess,

9:56

but guess who came calling back? My

9:58

ex saw me at a party and

10:00

he said, quote, I look like a

10:02

whole new person. Now he's texting me

10:04

begging for another chance. Honestly, I feel

10:06

conflicted. Do I take him back. Do

10:09

I take him back? Do I take

10:11

him back? I don't know. Maybe I

10:13

was overreacting the first time arguing over

10:15

such a small comment. But I'm glad

10:17

that this led. you know, to finding

10:19

the, what was, yeah, the fix. It's

10:21

good. Also, you're just young, like, I

10:24

feel like we all go through a,

10:26

a grow, an ugly, growing pains stage

10:28

where like we're trying different things and

10:30

maybe we think it works and then

10:32

we look back later and we're like,

10:34

oh, that definitely didn't work, you know.

10:36

I mean, I plucked the shit out

10:39

of my eyebrows, like, they would like,

10:41

you know, I would group in the

10:43

early 2000 and the early 2000 and,

10:45

you know, Huge regrets like to that

10:47

look back at pictures of like, you

10:49

know, my hair was dyed orange You

10:51

know things like you know, I don't

10:53

know things that you're just trying you're

10:56

just trying your ass off. Okay, like

10:58

and and you're not secure. You're not

11:00

secure with yourself yet So like people's

11:02

remarks go a long way. So I

11:04

had a guy break up with me

11:06

Maybe this is why you picked this

11:08

one. I don't know like I brought

11:11

it up last night, but like this

11:13

this when this guy broke up with

11:15

me he broke up with me through

11:17

his friend and he listed off like

11:19

every single thing that was wrong with

11:21

me and one of the things was

11:23

that like I had a mustache so

11:25

it was like hyper like I was

11:28

already kind of insecure about it but

11:30

I didn't know what to do like

11:32

I didn't know what to do about

11:34

it and then people were like oh

11:36

it's hardly noticeable you know so like

11:38

I always thought okay maybe it's just

11:40

in my head so for him to

11:43

like list that like Set me in

11:45

a tail spin he listed a lot

11:47

of other things I had trouble like

11:49

talking to people for a while after

11:51

that was I had like no self-esteem,

11:53

but I mean can I just say

11:55

I'm grateful to this guy because you

11:57

don't have a mustache? Yeah, it's true.

12:00

Well, okay, it also led me to

12:02

do stand-up because my first stand-up set

12:04

was like basically about this breakup.

12:06

But anyway, I narrowed my upper

12:08

lip and I, so narrow is like a

12:11

chemical that was popular back then,

12:13

but if you rub it, it

12:15

can give you a chemical burn.

12:17

So I rubbed it a little

12:19

too hard and it did take

12:21

off my mustache, but it also

12:23

just like left pus scabs. Like

12:25

my whole, it was like an

12:27

open wound across my entire. you know,

12:29

upper lip, so embarrassing, like, I did

12:31

it to like get rid of this

12:33

mustache and now I have to go

12:35

to school with like, open wound pus

12:38

scabs on my fucking lip and I'm

12:40

freaking out, okay, and it sucks, but

12:42

now the hair didn't really grow back,

12:44

it grew back like extremely fine, like

12:47

even the little hairs that do grow

12:49

back, and I just pluck them out,

12:51

I don't even have feeling there anymore.

12:54

I'm glad I don't have a mustache

12:56

anymore, but yeah, that guy said a

12:58

lot of other things, like I'm not

13:00

girly enough. So I like tried to

13:03

get into girly things, like I tried

13:05

to like, you know, get high heels,

13:07

it was really hard to walk in,

13:09

I couldn't do it. I tried to

13:12

like, you know, invest in some makeup,

13:14

but I don't know, I tried a

13:16

lot of things, you know, but you're

13:18

just like, we didn't have Tik-talk telling

13:21

us like how to look pretty, like

13:23

how to- This girl, I'm saying that

13:25

one, guys are visual creatures, like

13:27

they are attracted to what

13:29

they're attracted to and like

13:32

visually and they can't help it. I

13:34

don't think that he broke up with

13:36

her because of the hair though. I

13:38

think he broke up with her because

13:40

she was... Making a big deal about his

13:43

job. Yeah, he made a joke. I think that's

13:45

really why the breakup happened I can't say

13:47

for sure But I really agree with you,

13:49

but I do think that's why she took that

13:51

thing to the um yeah because it was one

13:53

of her insecurities Yes, exactly which

13:55

led her to finally finding the solution

13:57

to change it. Yeah, okay, and then

13:59

Now that was like, Beetlejuice is a

14:02

big up. Yeah, exactly. And now she

14:04

had a little glow up, okay? And

14:06

he acknowledged that. And he's like, let's

14:08

give another shot. And she's like, oh,

14:11

he only likes me because my hair

14:13

changed. Well, it may be, or maybe

14:15

he always liked you. And that was

14:17

like a huge miscommunication. Yeah, I think

14:19

things seemed to have spiraled. And also,

14:22

I was just listening to this girl,

14:24

some video yesterday, about how we kind

14:26

of get in our own heads. because

14:28

we need to find love for ourselves.

14:31

And she was talking about how she

14:33

was very lonely and like wanted to

14:35

find love, right? And she always thought

14:37

that when a guy would break up

14:40

with her, it was because she was

14:42

too fat. And she wasn't even fat

14:44

or like, she just, you know, would

14:46

think that if she got skinnier, that

14:48

a guy would love her more. But

14:51

it was really just her not loving

14:53

herself and not like... Like, like, like,

14:55

you're, you're correlating something that probably isn't

14:57

the cause, you know. And so, she

15:00

did get into shape, and she did,

15:02

like, meet the liberal life, and then,

15:04

you know, they got married, and then

15:06

she got a little out of shape,

15:09

but she still loves herself because the

15:11

guy that she's with loves her for

15:13

who she is, you know. Exactly right

15:15

correlation versus causation We are smart people

15:17

we are smart human beings I mean,

15:20

but but we all I feel like

15:22

women especially go through that because the

15:24

world puts so much of an emphasis

15:26

on beauty in the women's space and

15:29

Also because guys are our visual people

15:31

so it seems to confirm that Even

15:33

though it's not true the things that

15:35

it's rewarding for a woman to be

15:38

when a guy finds them attractive if

15:40

they're trying to do something or get

15:42

somewhere The problem is the other way

15:44

around correct where like if something goes

15:46

wrong Well if like something goes wrong

15:49

like we broke broke up and now

15:51

I'm attributing it to like an external

15:53

feature like a physical feature and it

15:55

maybe probably wasn't even about that. Yeah,

15:58

you know, it's true No,

16:00

it always, look, I know about

16:02

how the male gaze, all that

16:04

stuff like that, but man, there's

16:06

a whole vertical right now called

16:08

Only Fans where chicks are making

16:10

billions of dollars a year, and

16:12

dudes could not do that. Yeah,

16:14

straight up. Right, I know, you

16:16

know, and both arguments, I, it's

16:18

hard with that one because I

16:20

agree, I get, I get, I

16:22

get both sides. This is what's

16:25

real. Yeah, this is reality. Men

16:27

are willing to pay, they're exploiting

16:29

that aspect of that. And then

16:31

are willing to pay, they're exploiting

16:33

that aspect of, it works. And

16:35

then men are getting that aspect

16:37

of men, and then men are

16:39

getting mad about it or like,

16:41

you know, crazy. I

16:43

mean a good for if they if

16:45

they are fine with doing that then

16:47

that's on that's on them you know

16:49

if it's as long as it's empowering

16:51

for them and for it amen as

16:54

long as they don't feel degraded doing

16:56

it love it yeah all right check

16:58

this one try this one on for

17:00

size me my husband 29 a female

17:02

29 my husband male 30 lied about

17:04

going to work out classes with his

17:06

co-worker how to approach I'm guessing the

17:08

co-worker was a girl. Here we go.

17:10

Husband said he's going to some new

17:12

martial arts classes alone. Turns out he's

17:14

going with his female co-worker, Lisa. I

17:16

went through his phone because I remember

17:18

a month or two ago, he mentioned

17:20

he might go to some classes with

17:22

her. Okay, that's a big red flag,

17:24

but okay. The class starts tonight. Okay.

17:26

I'm so hurt he lied and now

17:29

I fear the reason for his lie.

17:31

Do I confront him today before the

17:33

class or after a few classes have

17:35

gone by to see if I can

17:37

get more info on if something was

17:39

going on between them? Backstory, they seem

17:41

like close work friends, they vent about

17:43

their boss and both like tattoos and

17:45

martial arts. He told me I'd get

17:47

along with her a couple of times.

17:49

I've never met her in person so

17:51

I'm not sure what their dynamic is

17:53

really like. They send each other memes

17:55

on instas sometimes. She's attractive. I don't

17:57

know how I'd feel about him going

17:59

to these classes with her. Yes you

18:01

do. Yes you do. I'm definitely not

18:03

comfortable now that he's lied. Wait, what

18:06

was the lie? He said he was going

18:08

alone? Yep. Oh. Turns out he's

18:10

going with Lisa. With Lisa. Well,

18:12

like I would be suspected

18:15

why he lied about that. Yeah, it's

18:17

weird. But I don't like that

18:19

she went through his phone. Yeah. But

18:21

she caught him. Okay, so you

18:23

already have trust issues with him.

18:25

Yeah. Yeah, she clearly does. Is it

18:27

a husband? Because like, yeah,

18:30

I mean, I would just confront him.

18:32

Like, don't try to get more info.

18:34

Like, if he's gonna do things to

18:36

cover up his tracks better next time

18:38

because you're confronting him, then you need

18:40

to, like, be aware of that. And

18:42

maybe, like, maybe this just isn't a

18:45

healthy relationship. What do you think about this?

18:47

So the top response says, tell him,

18:49

you've, tell him you've decided that you'd love to take

18:51

that class with him and see what his reaction is.

18:53

Mmm, that's a good one. That's pretty interesting. Yeah, I

18:55

like that. Because you would kind of, you could tell

18:58

his intentions right away. Yeah, then you can see the

19:00

dynamic too. Well, no, if he's immediately like, oh, why would you

19:02

take the class with me? Then it's like something suss going on maybe, right? Maybe.

19:04

Where are you just be direct? I think be direct is just always the way

19:06

to go. I know. I would like that to be, because you know if it's

19:08

like, what if it's like a whole if it's like a whole, it's like a

19:10

whole miscommunication, like a whole miscommunication, like a whole

19:12

miscommunication, like a whole miscommunication, like a whole miscommunication,

19:14

like a whole miscommunication, like a whole miscommunication, like

19:16

a whole miscommunication, like, like, like, like, like, like,

19:18

like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like,

19:20

like, like, like, like, like, like, like But like

19:22

I think the reason she doesn't want to be

19:24

direct because she has to admit that she

19:26

went through this phone. Good point. So like a

19:29

way around that is to say like let me

19:31

go to the class. Yeah I think I

19:33

don't know if I would say this guy's

19:35

a scumbag or anything like that. Like it

19:37

could be just a miscommunication thing. Yeah. Like

19:40

maybe he wasn't going to take the class with

19:42

her and then it turns out yeah exactly

19:44

like that's what I was thinking like I

19:46

like to give benefit of the doubt yeah

19:48

especially if there's a reasonable explanation

19:50

then it's just a reason why

19:52

it's like my husband that I like we've built

19:55

trust you know right you would think I

19:57

would give a benefit of the doubt for sure

19:59

yeah but you know I don't know people's relationships

20:01

are different if he's been caught doing

20:03

shady shit in the past then that

20:05

adds a little flavor to it Yeah,

20:07

yeah, I don't know I I think

20:09

that I think I would be just

20:11

direct to I don't I don't know

20:13

I'm too old for the games agreed

20:16

there was a time where I you

20:18

know was in a relationship where like

20:20

we were just talking about liars like

20:22

and I went through the phone because

20:24

I was being gaslit and I was

20:26

like I know I feel crazy and

20:28

like I just was reaching for something

20:30

to tell me I'm not crazy and

20:32

I found it yeah and I'm glad

20:34

I found it and I don't regret

20:37

going through that person's phone because even

20:39

though I don't agree with it moving

20:41

forward I promised I would never date

20:43

someone where I felt the need to

20:45

go through their phone again and and

20:47

I haven't credit to me. I've never

20:49

gone through Steve's phone, ever. I've never

20:51

even felt inclination to go through his

20:53

phone. You should sometime, it's pretty entertaining.

20:56

I've gone to like look at, when

20:58

he's like, oh, can you get my

21:00

phone, look up blah blah blah or

21:02

whatever, like maybe once or so. And

21:04

it's so boring in there. It's like

21:06

fucking crypto and like cat pictures. It's

21:08

like so boring. I have a lot

21:10

of kids who are cats. Yeah. outlets

21:12

but ultimately I think you can just

21:14

tell when you when your partner's attention

21:17

is going towards something else and they're

21:19

not like loving you the same like

21:21

you said intuition is really important yeah

21:23

so like trusting your gut if if

21:25

you were doing something behind my back

21:27

you know kudos to you because I

21:29

feel loved the same right now like

21:31

I don't I don't feel like there's

21:33

been any attention taken away from me

21:35

hell yeah I did and also whoever

21:38

finds definitely be a downgrade so agreed

21:40

so Not even worried. I'm not even

21:42

out there looking because I know it'd

21:44

be a downgrade. But if I thought

21:46

it would be an upgrade, I'd be

21:48

all over it. I'd be googling all

21:50

over. Just out of curiosity, who would

21:52

you point to as an upgrade? Like

21:54

what kind of picture? Sydney Sweeney. We're

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22:58

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23:01

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23:14

what I look like. I know girls

23:16

always get really upset about that. Yeah.

23:18

Well I'd be mad too if it

23:21

was someone that looked similar because I'd

23:23

be like oh she's a better version

23:25

of me. Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah.

23:27

What's worth. Yeah you can't win. You

23:29

can't win. But like I'll never have

23:32

big boobs. I'll never have blue eyes.

23:34

Maybe you could drink more milk. Maybe

23:36

you should go, fuck off and find

23:38

that person. If you can't tell, we're

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23:43

Welcome back. Relationships going great still. It's

23:45

me, Nikilimo, not Sydney Sweeney. To the

23:47

disappointment going great still. It's me, Nikilimo,

23:49

not Sydney Sweeney. To the disappointment, not

23:52

Sydney Sweeney, Sweeney. To the disappointment, she's

23:54

smarter. No I'm good with how smart

23:56

you are. Thank you. I'm very happy

23:58

about it. Thanks. So you think I'm

24:00

done. I like when you're done, but not always.

24:02

OK. All right, check this one out. All right, let's

24:05

check it out. Check it out. Like I'm checking out

24:07

Sinis Sweeney. All right, here we go. Oh my God.

24:09

How do I? It's better not be real. Because you

24:11

said your whole thing before was Scarlet Johansson.

24:13

Which is really in line with the

24:15

tight. I'm actually just looking up a picture

24:18

of Sinis Sweeney right now. Why. I'm making

24:20

making anything. I'm making all of it up with it

24:22

up with my own of it up with my own

24:24

of it up with my head. My hall

24:26

pass before was, was, um... Hellimier, but

24:28

that was a joke, but you

24:30

said your Hollywood crush before was

24:33

Scarlet Johansson. It was, yeah, back

24:35

in the day. Okay, well. But, uh. That,

24:37

it's very in a line with Sydney

24:39

Sweeney, Esk. The, Sydney Sweeney

24:42

thing was a bit. Well. You asked

24:44

me, I just improv, uh, I see.

24:46

So, yeah. Anyway, we're fighting. We do

24:48

have a bit on JK about Cindy

24:50

Sweeney though. Do you? Yeah, because Bart

24:52

thinks she's not attractive and all the

24:54

rest of us. Like what are you talking

24:57

about? Yeah. That's pretty funny. Okay, how

24:59

do I 27 female get over my

25:01

ex 29 male cheating on me and

25:03

being fine? You don't. I thought you might

25:05

say that. Yeah. Okay. Hi. My ex who I

25:07

was with for almost four years

25:09

cheated on me in December 2023.

25:11

I didn't find out until March.

25:13

and he officially moved out in

25:15

May 2024. Since then I met an

25:17

amazing guy, 28 male, who I really

25:19

like, have an amazing support group. And

25:21

from the outside, it seems like I'm in

25:24

a much better place, deep down.

25:26

I'm still so sad, hurt, and

25:28

just overall, quote, ruined from my

25:30

ex-cheting on me. He met someone else

25:32

and is fine. I think the hardest

25:34

part is about a month ago, he

25:36

literally emailed me because he's blocked on

25:38

everything else, a video of him having

25:41

sex with his new girlfriend. It's like,

25:43

wow, you cheated on me after being

25:45

with me for four years. I'm finally

25:47

moving on and then you send me this. That's

25:49

so weird. That's a weird move. What the fuck?

25:51

It felt like he cheated on me and then doubled

25:53

down on it to let me know he made the

25:55

right call. I just don't know how to be happy

25:57

with my life, even though I know my ex was awful.

26:00

for some reason still miss him. That's

26:02

so weird. Oh boy. That's so disturbing.

26:04

That's a weird move. That's so gross

26:06

and weird. Oh my gosh, I can't

26:08

even like... I wonder if she knows.

26:10

How does that like make her... miss

26:12

him though like whatever he's doing it

26:14

works I know apparently because like he

26:17

knows it if I got sent that

26:19

I'd be like you're disgusting and I'm

26:21

so glad I don't even know what

26:23

I saw on you like basically I'd

26:25

be like that's psychotic behavior and I'm

26:27

so glad that I dodged a bullet

26:29

on that one thousand percent I will

26:32

say that when the rug gets pulled

26:34

out from underneath you like that when

26:36

something ends suddenly I think I've read

26:38

before that when you break up it

26:40

takes at least half the time that

26:42

you were together to fully get over

26:44

them that makes sense so if they

26:46

were together for longer than two years

26:49

then even though it's been a year

26:51

that's about half the time that they

26:53

were together so it would take up

26:55

to this point to get over him

26:57

or to move not get over him

26:59

but move past like what happened or

27:01

you find out that your ex was

27:04

talking mad about you your whole relationship

27:06

yeah and then you can move on

27:08

pretty quick I guess but no I'm

27:10

not saying that you are hung up

27:12

on her, but I think that those

27:14

issues like when we were projecting on

27:16

each other for the first year, you

27:18

know what I mean? That was directly

27:21

because of the relationships we just got

27:23

out of. Yes. And what I'm saying

27:25

is I was blessed that I found

27:27

that out and that helped me move

27:29

on like, you didn't miss her. No

27:31

way. But the repercussions like the way

27:33

that it affects you, I think stays

27:36

around for that duration. I still was

27:38

affected self-esteem wise and like certain triggers

27:40

would like make me feel unloved because

27:42

of like that relationship for a couple

27:44

years, you know, or like a year

27:46

and a half into ours. Yeah, so

27:48

we were together for two years. Yeah,

27:50

so I would say that even though

27:53

it wasn't like I was hung up

27:55

on him, the things that he did

27:57

to like had like the kind of

27:59

trauma. Yeah, if I wasn't, I was

28:01

actively healing them too, like I was

28:03

going to therapy. So it was like,

28:05

you know, I could, I think that

28:08

you have to be working on yourself

28:10

too. So like that's what I would

28:12

say to this op too is that

28:14

to work on yourself. But I do

28:16

think that it's natural. For a good

28:18

amount of time after because you because

28:20

you take a hit on yourself esteem

28:23

like why wasn't I good enough? You

28:25

know like why? Like what if I'm

28:27

not good enough for the next person?

28:29

You know what if eventually the person

28:31

I'm with now that I'm so happy

28:33

with Like cheats on me because I'm

28:35

not good enough like you know you

28:37

get in your head about that stuff.

28:40

So I can understand that The sending

28:42

a sex tape and then like missing

28:44

him after that I don't not understand

28:46

that at all. That guy's wild. That

28:48

is insane. And whatever he's doing, he

28:50

knows that it messes with her and

28:52

he relishes that it seems. I would

28:55

throw up. It's a twisted person. Hell

28:57

of a move. Okay, check this one.

28:59

Insane. Insane move. What would you do

29:01

if your ex did that? Truthfully. I

29:03

feel bad for them. I'd feel bad

29:05

too. I really would. Oh, I would

29:07

also let the person in the video

29:09

know that that's the number one thing.

29:12

100%. First of all, do they know

29:14

that they did that video? Number two,

29:16

do they know that they sent it

29:18

to me? Yeah. Both crazy things. I

29:20

would not acknowledge the X. I would

29:22

go straight to try to find the

29:24

person that was in the video and

29:27

like tell them that happened. Yeah, that's

29:29

probably number one. Because I think that

29:31

whatever the X is doing, he's trying

29:33

to get attention. He's trying to get

29:35

under her skin. He's trying to like

29:37

get in her head. I wouldn't give

29:39

him the benefit of that. I would

29:41

also reach out to the person in

29:44

the video, the other person in the

29:46

video. And I would just say like,

29:48

like, like, like, Hey, like hey, just

29:50

want to let you know this exists.

29:52

It was sent to me. I wonder

29:54

who else they sent it to. I'm

29:56

sorry, you know, like that kind of.

29:59

Yeah. And then if they're like, ha

30:01

ha good, we got you good, I'd

30:03

be like, wow, you guys are nuts

30:05

over there, brother. You guys are a

30:07

fucking nuts. Okay, check this one out. I

30:09

thought this one. What's that? Go for it.

30:12

Well, I was just thinking about how

30:14

like. Wouldn't it be weird

30:16

if like both of our toxic

30:18

exes got together and then

30:20

they did that did happen?

30:22

Actually just talked about that. It's

30:24

so funny. It's so weird. I

30:26

think that's so weird. One of

30:29

the saddest weirdest weirdest things ever

30:31

seen. And then tagging us while

30:33

we're in Vegas. That was so

30:35

weird. That was so weird. And

30:37

then tagging us while we're in

30:39

Vegas. That was so weird. And we

30:42

haven't talked to you on purpose.

30:44

Weird, S, H, I, T. Yeah,

30:46

legit. Anyway, that dude's weird, though.

30:48

Anyway, yeah, here we go. Okay,

30:51

this one, you know, if you got

30:53

kids around or whatever, maybe

30:55

isn't the best one. Here,

30:57

Muffs. There you go. All right. How

30:59

do I 23 female get over his

31:01

25 male size? Ooh. Yeah. I've no

31:03

one to talk to about this.

31:06

And frankly, I'm ashamed of

31:08

myself. So here I am. at least

31:10

and started dating my boyfriend. We haven't

31:12

done the deed yet, but yesterday we

31:15

were making out, I ended up giving him

31:17

a BJ. The problem is his size. I mean,

31:19

it's the smallest I have seen. I could

31:21

fit the whole thing in my mouth when it's

31:23

fully hard. It's easy to say that size

31:25

shouldn't matter and that there are different

31:28

things we could do to quote compensate,

31:30

although sex toys aren't available in our

31:32

country. I'm just wondering what if

31:34

size actually does matter? Yeah, that's

31:37

tough. I actually really like him,

31:39

although we haven't been dating long,

31:41

but we've known each other for

31:43

five years now, and I can

31:45

see myself marrying this guy. I

31:47

just get in my own head

31:49

about this one specific thing. I

31:51

also feel terrible about the way

31:53

that I feel any experience or

31:55

advice on this would be

31:57

appreciated. That's extremely tough. Right.

31:59

I've thought about that before, like

32:01

what if I really like, and then

32:04

like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm the

32:06

love, but then like, it just doesn't

32:08

do it for me. Yeah. But I

32:11

actually do think that. There's a certain

32:13

chemistry that we have so there's compatibility

32:15

and chemistry in a relationship Yeah, sometimes

32:18

you only have chemistry and not compatibility

32:20

and that's when things are unhealthy and

32:22

dangerous and toxic and all this stuff

32:25

Sometimes you have compatibility and no chemistry

32:27

and that's when things are boring and

32:29

you feel like cheating on your partner

32:32

or like you're fantasizing about other to

32:34

have both is ideal in the relationship

32:36

Okay, and I do think that if

32:38

there's chemistry it And I can't say

32:41

for certain, because I've never been in

32:43

this position, but I think that it

32:45

wouldn't matter. I think that you would

32:48

be pleasured by it if there was

32:50

enough chemistry, because even just like a

32:52

touch. You know, sometimes like, like when

32:55

you touch me, like we hug or

32:57

whatever, there's so much more. energy magnetic

32:59

there's like yeah electricity yeah there's like

33:02

electricity whereas like 12 years in by

33:04

the way shot out yeah and and

33:06

that means something you know that's not

33:09

that's not nothing you know it's not

33:11

like oh I can will myself to

33:13

have that we just have chemistry yeah

33:15

and then we have compatibility yep I

33:18

think that if we had if someone

33:20

touched me and it was electric like

33:22

that for you know and I was

33:25

really into them and I was in

33:27

love with them and then they had

33:29

a small pain I don't think it

33:32

would matter honestly I think that it

33:34

would be fine yeah I think that

33:36

there's that any sensation at all because

33:39

it's so much more sensitive that it'd

33:41

be fine I think that you're not

33:43

going to know till you try yeah

33:45

I think you got to try it

33:48

and I got to be honest if

33:50

there isn't anything like if it if

33:52

you don't feel pleasure from it I

33:55

don't be the one you want to

33:57

marry. Right. Because it probably means you're

33:59

super compatible and there's no chemistry. Yeah.

34:02

And it's going to suck. Yeah. Do

34:04

you want to go years without having

34:06

doing the deed? Like, and like people

34:09

say that sucks shouldn't be that important,

34:11

but actually it is. It is. It's

34:13

very important. You could tell, like, if

34:16

we haven't done in a while, like,

34:18

there's like a difference in that, it's

34:20

so bitchy. Chemistry that we have like,

34:22

like, like, I feel disconnected from that.

34:25

constantly bitcheted me. Yeah. I'm like snapping

34:27

and then I'm apologizing but I'm like

34:29

but I know why I'm snapping because

34:32

it's just because of that. Yep. But

34:34

yeah so like I remember man a

34:36

couple years ago I hurt my back

34:39

but I was picking up these pillows

34:41

outside the latest patio for sure. Oh

34:43

my god it was the worst thing.

34:46

Well because He was expecting it to

34:48

be head figure. I was expecting it

34:50

to be lighter. But the pillows had

34:52

been rained on. And so they were

34:55

all soaked in rain and they were

34:57

all like little weights now. And when

34:59

I went to pick it up, it

35:02

was so nonchalant. And I just picked

35:04

it up and I just picked it

35:06

up and it was, oh shit, there's

35:09

weight to it in my back. Just

35:11

like had a little kink in it

35:13

for like four months. Yeah. I got

35:16

needs, man. Yeah, you got needs, dude.

35:18

Then actually, I changed my computer chair

35:20

and that helped a lot. Yeah, I

35:23

bet. Yeah, it did. Also just like,

35:25

not initially, but movement in general after

35:27

the initial. Yeah, I think that movement

35:29

would help, though. Like, Defo, you know,

35:32

Defo. But you know, it's not like

35:34

the end of the world. I know

35:36

we have chemistry no matter what, but

35:39

it just, yeah, it's just like, it's

35:41

sex to be very attracted to be

35:43

very attracted to your partner. I don't

35:46

know. When I was super, first year

35:48

poker, WSOP, that was on me. That

35:50

was on me. That was on you.

35:53

That was on me. Yep. You were

35:55

constantly. Yeah, it was a new thing

35:57

and it was very intense and stressful.

36:00

That is true. All right, check this one

36:02

out. Okay. I thought this one was

36:04

really interesting. My, I'm 20 female, my boyfriend,

36:06

19 male is obsessed with my boobs

36:09

and won't leave them alone. Advice. I,

36:11

20 female, have been with my boyfriend

36:13

for three and a half years. We

36:15

definitely have had our ups and downs.

36:17

Oh, did she say the boyfriend once? Boyfriend

36:19

is 19. Oh, okay. Well, there you

36:21

know. Yeah. We've had our ups and

36:23

downs and quite a bit of problems. One of

36:25

the biggest being he is insanely obsessed with

36:27

my bobs and my body in general. It just

36:30

makes me uncomfortable. There are definitely

36:32

times where I don't mind. But if I do

36:34

mind, he acts weird, gets on his phone, gets

36:36

quiet. He will also say things like, you don't love

36:38

me. He says it's a joke, but then he acts

36:40

weird, so I start to think. He always wants

36:43

to touch them, lay on them,

36:45

and then, kiss, etceter, etceter. It's

36:47

been like this since probably a

36:49

year and a half into our

36:51

relationship. We've had numerous talks about

36:53

this. I tell him he's doing something. I

36:55

tell him, and I tell him as

36:57

he's doing this to stop. He'll

36:59

listen when I stop, but then

37:02

about 10 minutes later he's trying

37:04

something again. I really love him. I

37:06

don't know where to go from here. What

37:08

do you love about him? I don't

37:11

get it like, it seems like

37:13

this guy is just like objectifying.

37:15

Yep, and he makes me feel bad about saying

37:17

no, so I just don't know if this is

37:19

normal or if I'm overreacting. Why do you

37:21

love him? I just need to know why.

37:24

I just need to know like, what's the

37:26

deeper part that she's attracted to? Because it

37:28

just doesn't seem like it has any substance. He

37:30

also has no game. Right. I gotta say, the

37:32

biggest problem here is the guy has no game.

37:34

Are you a toddler? Yeah, it's just, ugh. And

37:36

the whole you don't love me thing is... Wow,

37:38

I'm just not attracted to anything that

37:41

this that is being described here.

37:43

Yeah, this guy's whack attack that would drive

37:45

me insane if oh, that would drive me

37:47

insane like you you're not he's not seeing

37:50

you as a person. No Yeah, that one's pretty

37:52

simple. Yeah, he's just like doing stupid

37:54

stuff. Yeah, he's night. He's immature. She's

37:57

23. He's 19. It's just gonna be

37:59

too much of a maturity gap. Yep

38:01

this one's going to be pretty obvious

38:03

but I think I think it could

38:05

be an interesting. Raker. Yeah exactly. 35

38:08

female right talking here my boyfriend 40

38:10

male said he will never marry me

38:12

how do I proceed? Break up. Break

38:14

up. Break up. Yeah, honestly, we don't

38:16

even need to give in this one.

38:18

Just break up. If marriage is what

38:21

you want and they're telling you straight

38:23

up, they don't have to read all

38:25

this, right? Nope. It's like just break

38:27

up. Yeah. You don't have to read

38:29

all this, right? Nope. It's like just

38:32

break up? Yeah. You know what I

38:34

mean? Respect yourself. Values have to be

38:36

the same. No. Okay, this one's kind

38:38

of wild. Okay. I 38 female and

38:40

seven months pregnant and my 38 male

38:42

husband wants a divorce. Don't know where

38:45

it starts or here goes. Husband 39

38:47

and I, 38 female have been married

38:49

five years together for eight years. Our

38:51

entire relationship was built on a lie.

38:53

Oh. As he was dating someone else

38:55

at the same time as me. Ooh,

38:58

that's a big one. I found out

39:00

only after we were married. Turns he's

39:02

cheated on... on and off for most

39:04

of the relationship up until supposedly two

39:06

years ago. Oh my god. He has

39:09

a sex addiction and if he's not

39:11

getting sex from me or someone else,

39:13

he is masturbating one to four times

39:15

a day. He sought out therapy for

39:17

all of it and claims he would

39:19

never cheat again and I had been

39:22

working on trusting and I have been

39:24

working on trusting again. I thought things

39:26

were going well. He was excited when

39:28

we were trying to get pregnant and

39:30

happy when he found out we were

39:32

having a baby boy up until about

39:35

a month ago. I thought we were

39:37

good. All of a sudden he said

39:39

he wanted a divorce and there was

39:41

no talking. It was like his mind

39:43

was made up. He told me he

39:45

never wanted the child and wished that

39:48

I terminated it when I still could.

39:50

What? Last time he threw around divorce

39:52

was after he cheated two years ago

39:54

and was quick to do so then.

39:56

But we worked through things. I love

39:59

him despite our past and just wanted

40:01

this to work for the sake of

40:03

us and this baby. What do you

40:05

think if we stay together? What would

40:07

you do? No. Oof. Don't say together.

40:09

Yeah, this one's, you're gonna be single

40:12

mom. No, it's gonna be so rough

40:14

for that child. I mean, it's gonna

40:16

be rough either way, but like, at

40:18

least with this one, he doesn't have

40:20

an example of an unhealthy relationship. Exactly.

40:22

Sex edition is no joke and it's

40:25

the one that gets made fun of

40:27

like it's like more shameful to like

40:29

say you have a sex addiction than

40:31

an alcohol like or like yeah or

40:33

whatever and like going to the meetings

40:36

for that can be a little bit

40:38

more shameful than just because the stigma

40:40

is around it but it because of

40:42

the rise of pornography and how easily

40:44

accessible it is it's actually way more

40:46

common than What's what it's given credit

40:49

for? Like so many people have sex

40:51

addictions and there's different Unhealthy coping mechanisms

40:53

cheating being like one of them obviously,

40:55

but like I mean, do you really

40:57

want to like be worried what your

40:59

partner is doing like all the time

41:02

and that they can flip on a

41:04

dime like that? Like while you're pregnant.

41:06

There's no trust. No, there's absolutely no

41:08

trust because then what does something happens

41:10

like you got to go? home for

41:12

like a little while, visit your parents

41:15

or whatever, you're just always going to

41:17

be thinking about what they're doing. And

41:19

no matter what they tell you on

41:21

the phone that they're doing, you're not

41:23

necessarily going to believe all of it.

41:26

Exactly, because that's what addicts do, like,

41:28

whether they're addicted to drugs or sex

41:30

or whatever, they're going to say, whatever

41:32

they've got to do to get it,

41:34

that's what they're going to do. So

41:36

yeah, I think it's better to get

41:39

out. Please don't say, please don't say,

41:41

it sucks, it sucks, I'm sorry. It

41:43

really sucks. Yeah, the rise in... It's

41:45

way easier to say than to do.

41:47

The accessibility of the pronos is like

41:49

a huge issue that we as a

41:52

society have yet to grapple with. Of

41:54

the what? Of the pronos. What's pronos?

41:56

Like porno? Oh. Yeah. Like our society

41:58

just hasn't. Yeah, has not grappled with

42:00

it yet. No, because it's taboo, so like

42:03

people don't talk about it. Yeah. So it's like hard

42:05

to deal with an issue that you can't even talk

42:07

about. Exactly. So, yeah, I mean, it's just not a

42:09

person that you want to keep in your life, and

42:11

I'm sorry that you're dealing with this. Yeah. But

42:13

like, I know in your head, it's like, okay, but then

42:16

I'm gonna have to be a single parent, and

42:18

that's like so scary and that's like so

42:20

scary and lonely, like so scary and lonely, and

42:22

lonely, and like, and like, like, like, like, like,

42:24

like, way better to go this route.

42:26

To be disrespected, cheated on,

42:29

everything else. And feeling like you have

42:31

to beg this person to stay with you.

42:33

No things. Like, just run, far away.

42:35

Yeah. You'll find, because you're pertinent.

42:38

Find support. You'll find, a

42:40

support group, just find some, a friend,

42:42

like, go talk to your friends, like,

42:45

just spend a lot of other time

42:47

with people that love you. Yes. Surround

42:49

yourself with people that love you. Yeah.

42:51

And let them bug you. That always

42:53

helps I think yeah people like hey

42:56

let's go somewhere and you're like I don't

42:58

want to you should go just go yeah

43:00

just listen to them and go yeah I

43:02

agree with that well that's all the

43:04

time we have for today kids all right

43:07

well I have you enjoyed that maybe it

43:09

was helpful to some of you out there

43:11

that are struggling with similar things

43:13

exactly I'm gonna have to go

43:15

talk to Sydney Sweeney's agents about

43:18

about maybe in an introduction

43:20

yeah Maybe just

43:22

like dialing down her career

43:24

a little bit so my

43:27

husband isn't so tempted by

43:29

her Imagine I can't I

43:31

also like the idea that

43:33

Sydney Sweeney would be throwing

43:35

herself at me. Yeah. I don't

43:38

have like someone off the

43:40

top of my head What about

43:42

Glenn Powell? I guess glosslings

43:45

Ryan Gaskins. Yeah, yeah, but

43:47

not really I know I know you know

43:50

Yeah, I'd be way more afraid of Eminem

43:52

than anybody. That's true. Eminem, I'd be, I'd be...

43:54

But he's grandpa now. I know, but I'd still be

43:56

shitting bricks about it. Like actually gonna be

43:58

grandpa. I'd be shitting. If you were in

44:00

a room alone with Eminem, I'd be... I'd

44:03

be so scared. I would have a whole

44:05

roll of bounty paper towels next to me.

44:07

I'd be sweating my forehead so hard. You

44:09

wouldn't have to worry because I don't think

44:11

he'd want to get with a girl that

44:13

just shad herself. Yeah, good point. That's a

44:15

very good point. Literally, I would die. I

44:17

would shit myself. I've melted to a puddle.

44:19

I have no cool. I know. I'm not

44:21

cool at all. You're not cool at all.

44:23

You're not a cool person at all. Even

44:25

people I'm like mildly a fan of, I

44:28

still have to go up to them, tell

44:30

them I'm a fan. I know you're nuts.

44:32

I just like people to know that I'm

44:34

a fan. You're such a casual, I love

44:36

it. I know, because in my mind I'm

44:38

like, well, we're never going to be peers.

44:40

I might as well tell you I'm a

44:42

fan. Yeah. Love it. Love it. Love it.

44:44

Then sometimes we do end up being peers

44:46

and I'm like, sorry, I said I was

44:48

a fan Exactly, it's the best thing I've

44:50

been blessed that most of people and friends

44:52

with I didn't know what they did before

44:55

Yeah, yeah, I don't know anything about them.

44:57

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