At the end of such a tough year, we're looking to find all the holiday joy where we can, and make fun for our kids -- but why do moms always seem to be the people behind the fun, and not part of the fun? Liz is joined by Margaret Ables, co-host of the fabulous What Fresh Hell parenting podcast to commiserate, and we're offering smart tips (eg stop trying to make things perfect!), sweet family stories, plenty of laughter, and a lot of compassion for moms feeling overwhelmed right now. Thanks to our sponsor Disney Villainous: Intro to Evil for creating a wonderful screen-free game that's actually fun for adults, right along with our tweens and teens. Check out the new Disney100 limited edition, which is a great gift for Disney super-fans!Follow Spawned: Apple, Spotify, AmazonJoin: Spawned Podcast FB CommunityFollow Cool Mom Picks: Instagram, Facebook, ThreadsFollow Liz Gumbinner: Instagram, Facebook, Substack, ThreadsFollow Margaret Ables and What Fresh Hell: Twitter, Facebook, Facebook Group, Adalyst MediaShownotes from today's episode: Cool Mom Pick Podcast PageSubscribe to get even more Cool Picks of the Week in your inbox once a week: coolmompicks.com/subscribe/Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices