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Subject he needs to get a life and stop

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ruining mine. Dear Stephen

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Shirley, I'm married and my husband has

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gotten clingy since our daughter went off

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to college. He's clinging with me and

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her. She's about three hours away, and

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he went to every one of her school's football

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games. And the killer part is he

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went to the rival college, so it had to be

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weird for him. He would check into his

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hotel room and have a whole itinerary

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plan for them. She was not having it

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and it ended up breaking his heart. By the

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third game. I had to go with him

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so he would look so pitiful chasing after

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her alone. Now that it's her

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second semester, He's latched

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onto me. I

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have hobbies and things that I like to

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do, and I don't want him

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with me. I made candles with my

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girlfriends a few weeks ago, and he went

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and snuck in a little bottle of tequila

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and said without it, the class would have

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been boring. He wasn't even invited.

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I can't watch TV alone in our bedroom

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because he comes and hops in the bed asking

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me questions about my reality shows

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while I am trying to watch them.

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I can't get a snack without.

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Him asking me to make him one two and

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suggesting we go sit on the back patio

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and talk. I'm all talked out

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and I'm romanced out with him. It's

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too much sex and too much of him

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right now. He played baseball in college,

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so I suggested he go coach a little

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league, but he said he would rather spend

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time with me and our

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daughter. How do I get him into golf

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or another sport that takes a long long time to learn.

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I'm sick of being with him all

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the time. Now he's starting

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to repeat gossip he hears me and my girls

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talk about, because he's always

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in my face. How do I encourage

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my husband to get a life and stop ruining

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mine. Wow, this

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is different. Usually

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wives are complaining about not getting

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enough time, but you're mad because you

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get too much attention. He's too

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clingy, you say, I'm not discounting

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your feelings or anything like that.

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They are valid to you.

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For sure, I'm sure, but there

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are far worse things in life

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than your husband wanting to spend time with

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you. First, I gotta ask you this,

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do you even like him?

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Do you want to be with him? Because this sounded

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a whole lot like you don't. You don't

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like him and you don't want him around.

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Do you care about this man at

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all?

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Because if you do, you need to learn how to

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turn what you think is a negative

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into a p You got to enjoy this attention,

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appreciating, appreciated it

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because he could turn

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to someone who will give him the attention

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and give him what he needs. You know that, and

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it doesn't have to be cheating. Even what

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if he does take up golf and starts playing

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all day every day and you never see him.

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You'll be complaining about that too.

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So I think before this gets out of hand,

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your resentment that is toward him, you

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need to have a real talk with your husband about how

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you guys should spend your time together moving

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forward.

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Steve, I don't think she likes him at all.

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Well, this letter right here is really

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kind of cut and dry. I

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think what I would like to do is a

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reenactment so you can see, because

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what this man done is he

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done got on everybody nerves.

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He got on everybody

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nerves in this don't knowbody

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care about him. Look,

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you know you can like somebody and

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be sick of them because

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some people it's just too much, it's extra.

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Then this man right here is just latching

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on to his daughter.

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To you, you.

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Can't go nowhere, You and that trying to watch

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TV. He pop up and jump up in the

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bends, Tart, I ask you a question about it. You

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try to go to the candle making things with

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your husband, bought a battle of tequila set

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up in there. Ain't made a candle just over there

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talking about it. What if y'all ain't got either in tequila

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favor.

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All this here? So what I need to do is We're

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gonna do a.

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Live enactment when we come back, and

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I'm gonna use Carla and Shirley,

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And what I want you ladies to do is

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constantly tell me stuff that you're

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gonna do as the wife just I

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don't care, go closery, store, wherever you are,

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and constantly, and I'm gonna show you

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how he interjects himself

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into all all your activities,

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plans, everything, if

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you include the child, I'm

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going to that too, And through

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this reenactment, maybe I can

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show the lady what she already.

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Knows is how aggravating

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he could be.

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And I will also provide for

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you what her response should

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be to him interjecting

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himself. That's the best way to help

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you out.

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Think.

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So when we come back, I'm gonna show.

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You on a variety of things

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that women could do on activities

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him interjecting himself, and then

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what your response should be

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to him once he does that,

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because that's the only thing right here, because

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somebody gots to tell

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him, because

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he don't know, somebody

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has to tell him.

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Baby stop it.

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That's as simple as that, baby

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stop it.

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Starting not to care about you any

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money?

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Dang, she doesn't. She doesn't

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sound like she cares about him at all.

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We don't, won't that.

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Why?

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Why next

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time you're watching the soap opera and he pop

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up in the bed.

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Just start snoring.

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But you were just up a minute ago.

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Don't matter.

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I'm talking about don't even close your eyes,

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just with your eyes.

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All right, here we go.

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We'll have part two of your response and this reenactment

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coming up at twenty three minutes after

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the hour of today's Strawberry

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Letters. Subject he needs to get a life and

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stop ruining mine. We'll get back

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into it right after this. You're

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the subject is he needs to get a life

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and stop ruining.

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Mine, okay this whole thing is about

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this lady who wrote in here has a husband that's

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real needy and, clinging and

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he was with his daughter the whole, time and

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then she went off to college a

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couple hours. Away he goes to

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every single football, game checks

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into the, hotel and plans in

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notinerary for this college, girl

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and she not having. It so the wife

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decide instead of him going down there looking like

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a food chasing after, her she would start

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going to try to create a.

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Buffer then he's ruining her.

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Life, also she can't go to candle

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making without him, going she can't watch

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A tv show in the, bed she

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can't have no activities with his girl without

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him, going and he's ruining

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her. Life she wants me to tell

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him to get a hobby like. Golf that'll take up

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a lot of. Time but first things,

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first let's

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deal with all of the situations

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that he keeps interjecting himself. In

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i'm gonna show you how he doesn't and what your response

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would. Be So shirley And carlin will

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alternate giving me scenarios

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of what they're going to, do And i'm the.

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Husband ladies, Begin, yeah

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go go, First, carlo go, Ahead,

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okay uh, huh, Girl,

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Yeah i'm on the.

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Phone so you want to get, together you wanna go to happy,

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hour you want to go get some

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drinks and then we can hang.

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Out and, hey, babe, baby

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what what is the? Baby so

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you're going to half?

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Hour?

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Yes what you?

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Want you going to the one down, There Bennegas

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BECAUSE i know.

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We haven't we haven't decided. Yet but why

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do you need to? Know?

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Baby Because i'm Because i'm going

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to.

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Do it's just the. Girls it's just

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a, girl no.

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SCHOOL i ain't got to say nothing to. Y'all i'm gonna

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just be over there in the corner.

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Watching that's, say we're trying to do girl.

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Talk we got express on. Martinis, yeah,

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yeah.

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SEE i don't even want to be in that girl talk unless

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you say something about the. Dude THEN

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i jump in so you can have a

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male perspective to.

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It before we do all of, That i'm just going

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down to the. KITCHEN i got it tidy up

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a little. BIT i had made sandwiches.

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Early, Well i'm gonna go down there and eat

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one of them sandwiches you.

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MADE i was just going to tidy

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up a, bit just the kit just clean it.

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Up, yeah, well whatever you, Wasted

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i'm gonna eat. That you, know before you tied, Up

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i'm gonna go and eat that. Too you

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got some like letters and stuff laid. Around So

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i'm going down And i'm gonna go and eat that.

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Too and then you know how we.

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Do after we make, sandwiches we go for a little

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walk to help our food.

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Digest, YEAH i don't mind that.

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Walk i'm gonna go to the.

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Walk, NO i was just gonna go by myself.

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Though, No, BABY i don't want

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nothing happen to you out.

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There it's crazy out,

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There, paul That paul

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be crazy down. THERE i saw two dudes down

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there. Yesterday Trent day was over there acting

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like they were playing. BASKETBALL i, said, no they.

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Ain't let me get down here and watch

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my wife WHEN i, WALKED i

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don't want your head.

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Clear i'm gonna feel. It sound,

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Crazy, Yeah i'm gonna feel it all.

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Right i'm in my.

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Bedroom i'm so. Excited you're my

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remote speaking to my. Remote

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Real housewives Of. Atlanta

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let me see what's going on with? Baby,

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yeah, GIRL.

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I LOVE i love these. Shows? Right who

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is these?

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Women it's The Real housewives

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Of? Atlanta CAN i CAN i just have? This

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let me have a corrupt you when you're watching

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the, game.

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Is that the one with on?

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It?

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She she has been on there for a. While but,

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yeah she was on.

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That oh that's, why that's why you ain't

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watching.

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It Huh, no that's not

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WHY i need to see what happened With kenya Because.

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Kenya is not.

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On DID i tell YOU i Saw

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ninie up At lennard's? Mom

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she don't KNOW i watched the, show SO i ain't

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say nothing to.

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Him out Called

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sinners With MICHAEL.

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B jordan's see.

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That you know how we Love MICHAEL. B. Jordan's

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let's go out that movie

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he plays with? Twins, yeah.

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TWINS i don't know nothing

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about. That but ain't the movie Name?

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Sinners, yeah that's

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that's WHAT i. Am So i'm gonna go who

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Did?

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Ryan?

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Who Ryan? Coogler he did

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That Black?

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Panther yeah oh

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yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah

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yeah yeah good yeah yeah,

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yeah but don't nobody know? Him

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that was? Black but

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he Passed and SO i ain't watched it since

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he, passed cause it just looked a little

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crazy to. Me you, know he, know

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he, gone and then he.

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Up there about

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what is he talking?

12:12

About where are some of your? Boys baby

12:15

smoking? Cigar go to cigar?

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Ball watch the?

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Game basketball? Playoffs

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oh, no, no.

12:21

BABY i decided to stop smoking cigar

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BECAUSE i got to be here to be with you

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and the.

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Daughter and about.

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That stop going to see her every

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single. Weekend she's in, college she

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has a.

12:31

Life let her be with our.

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Friends she's thinking about pledge and

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let her be great.

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THERE i went to, College that's

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WHY i need to be there SO i could tell

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her what they.

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Doing but she's coming back this

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weekend for spring break and we have.

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A whole thing. Planning we're going to the. Spot

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we're going to get her nails. Done girls.

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Dark.

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YEAH i was just looking

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at my feet the other. DAY

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i, SAID i

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be dog. GONE i gotta

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go down here and do something with

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the. Feet have you seen take

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take one of my socks, Off look

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and tell ME i don't need to be down.

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There maybe not with.

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Us it's a girl's, day, no

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but.

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Y'all can have a girl's. DAY i heard as a man

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down, there do him.

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