15 Signs You're in the Upper Middle Class

15 Signs You're in the Upper Middle Class

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15 Signs You're in the Upper Middle Class

15 Signs You're in the Upper Middle Class

15 Signs You're in the Upper Middle Class

15 Signs You're in the Upper Middle Class

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0:06

Welcome to the

0:09

Alox.com podcast. The

0:11

place where future billionaires

0:14

come to get

0:17

inspired. You know, you

0:19

don't go from broke

0:21

to billionaire in one straight swoop.

0:24

There are layers to this, and

0:26

the first one being upper middle

0:28

class status. In other words, being

0:30

in the top 20 to 30%

0:32

of the population. Think of this

0:35

list as checkpoints, things you achieve

0:37

as you move in the right

0:39

direction. So here are 15 signs

0:41

that you are in the upper

0:43

middle class, and you know, interestingly

0:46

enough, they're not all about money.

0:48

Number one, you have another source of

0:50

income other than your main one, but

0:52

you would struggle to live off of

0:55

it. Now most people work for money,

0:57

but the rich make their money work

0:59

for them. This is pretty well known

1:01

by this point. So what if you're

1:03

in the upper middle class? Well, you're

1:05

somewhere in between. You do still rely

1:08

on your main source of income, your

1:10

job, but you probably have money invested,

1:12

which brings you some income. It might

1:14

be in property that you're renting out,

1:16

you own stocks that pay dividends, you

1:19

post content to make money from ads,

1:21

you have something that brings in additional

1:23

revenue. It's not enough to fully rely

1:25

on it, but you're familiar with the

1:27

process. And this is what sets you

1:29

apart from the rest. You know what

1:31

it takes because you already did. it.

1:34

You made something out of nothing which

1:36

might be small right now but you

1:38

know you can scale up. Number two,

1:40

you're probably highly educated from

1:42

a good university. Maybe. Now

1:44

traditionally the upper middle class

1:47

has been associated with high

1:49

levels of education. There's a

1:51

good chance you're a lawyer,

1:53

doctor, a dentist, an architect,

1:55

an engineer or an executive

1:57

for a corporation. These jobs

1:59

require... formal education and lots of

2:01

it. A university degree and maybe even

2:04

postgraduate studies too. And if you don't

2:06

have a formal degree then you have

2:08

real-life education from years it took you

2:11

to make your business successful. The point

2:13

is you invested quite a lot of

2:15

time and resources into your personal education

2:18

and it's gotten you this far. You

2:20

can tell the difference between who really

2:22

knows what they're talking about compared to

2:24

who's there for the Instagram pick and

2:27

the social cloud. Number three, you like

2:29

what you do and you take pride

2:31

in it. A lot of people spend

2:34

their week waiting for the weekend. Because

2:36

that's when their life is any kind

2:38

of meaning. But you probably don't have

2:41

this problem because you're highly qualified. And

2:43

that means you're probably motivated by what

2:45

you do, even passionate about it. And

2:48

you enjoy it. An architect will be

2:50

passionate about buildings from the design side

2:52

and the math side too. And the

2:55

owner of a local business will be

2:57

passionate about the business they've built up.

2:59

There is a strong correlation between life

3:02

and happiness and being engaged in activities

3:04

that match your abilities and challenge you

3:06

appropriately. And this gives you a competitive

3:08

advantage because you actually like what you're

3:11

doing. Number four, you're mobile. You've moved

3:13

around more than others. A lot of

3:15

people grow up in one place. They

3:18

find a job there, they get married

3:20

and settle down there, all in the

3:22

same location. That's because it's the easiest

3:25

option. But you don't exactly take the

3:27

easiest path either, do you? You embrace

3:29

challenges, and one of the challenges that

3:32

you're bound to benefit from is changing

3:34

location. This could include moving far away

3:36

to study at the best university you

3:39

could get into, and when you're asked

3:41

to do a transfer at work, possibly

3:43

to a different country, you jump at

3:46

that opportunity. Why? Well, because you know

3:48

what it will bring to you professionally

3:50

and also what you'll learn about the

3:52

world outside of the bubble you grew

3:55

up in. And having more knowledge of

3:57

the world will broaden your... horizons. And

3:59

you know this leads us perfectly to

4:02

the next item on our list. Number

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five you have a high amount of

4:06

cultural capital. Now this might be a

4:09

new term to you, but it's a

4:11

concept everybody is aware of at some

4:13

level. So cultural capital means your broader

4:16

knowledge of the world, knowledge that you

4:18

can apply to your work, your social

4:20

interactions, and your free time pursuits. This

4:23

knowledge makes you stand out from the

4:25

crowd, but not just that, it makes

4:27

you socially more mobile too. It could

4:30

include what you know about arts and

4:32

literature, and how you talk or dress

4:34

in a way that makes you come

4:36

across as sophisticated without being pretentious or

4:39

fake rich. It could include your well-honed

4:41

communication skills, you're articulate, you get your

4:43

point across, and people like to hear

4:46

you talk. Number six, you can

4:48

identify and appreciate quality and utility.

4:50

People are often obsessed with branded

4:52

goods. They spend so much of

4:54

their lives buying things they don't

4:56

need to impress people they don't

4:58

like, with money they don't even

5:00

have. A lot of people fall

5:02

for this trap. But not you.

5:04

You learn to appreciate what quality

5:06

actually is. Long-lasting utility. All of

5:08

your things have purpose. There's a

5:10

good reason they're there. They keep

5:12

you creative, productive, and authentic. Number

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seven, you don't buy things on

5:16

credit. Now this relates to our

5:18

last point too. A lot of

5:20

people want to have things they

5:22

just can't afford. It makes them

5:24

feel more secure and gives them

5:26

the illusion that they belong to

5:28

the social group they aspire to,

5:30

when in reality they can't quite

5:32

reach. And so they go into

5:34

debt making a payoff between the

5:36

illusion of wealth and months or

5:38

years of installments to pay it

5:40

off in the future. Now if

5:42

you're upper middle class this probably

5:44

isn't true for you. You see

5:46

credit as a financial instrument to

5:48

increase your wealth. Number eight, you

5:50

go on holiday to expensive locations

5:52

but you... shop around a bit

5:54

for deals. So nowadays, more than

5:56

any other time in history, people

5:58

have a wider number of holiday

6:00

destinations to choose from that are

6:02

within their budget. But there are

6:04

a few desirable spots that are

6:06

out of reach for most people's

6:08

pockets. And while a lot of

6:10

people can afford to visit other

6:12

continents once in a while, it's

6:14

strictly once in a while. And

6:17

dream destinations like Bali, Thailand, or

6:19

Mexico are probably a rare, even

6:21

once in a lifetime treat. For

6:23

the upper middle class, these dream

6:25

locations are... more accessible and may

6:27

feature on your list of regular

6:29

getaways rather than one-off dream holidays.

6:31

And when you go there, being

6:33

the culture vulture that you are,

6:35

you're likely to interact with the

6:37

locals. You'll try the local food,

6:39

you'll learn about it, all the

6:41

while increasing your cultural capital even

6:43

further. Number nine. You've got a

6:45

network of influential friends and acquaintances.

6:47

You're the average of the five

6:49

people you spend most of your

6:51

time with. And as a member

6:53

of the upper middle class, you

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mix with quality people. People who

6:57

are equally educated, sophisticated, and have

6:59

prominent positions in society. These are

7:01

the people that you mix with

7:03

naturally. You meet them through work,

7:05

at social events, maybe even on

7:07

the golf course. You gravitate toward

7:09

each other, and as a result,

7:11

you're well connected. You've heard the

7:13

expression, it's not what you know,

7:15

it's who you know. Well, the

7:17

upper middle class knows a lot

7:19

of things and have a lot

7:21

of connections too. And the people

7:23

you know, lawyers, executives of companies,

7:25

local business owners, these are the

7:27

kinds of people who can make

7:29

things happen when you need them

7:31

to. Number 10. You've got a

7:33

good understanding of how money works.

7:35

You understand that every 10 years

7:37

your money is worth around 25%

7:39

less. And you know how that

7:41

happens. You're well aware that your

7:43

government isn't going to be able

7:45

to cover state pensions in any

7:47

meaningful way in the future. You

7:49

know when and how to use

7:51

banks. These are just a few

7:53

of the things. you're well aware

7:55

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7:57

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You've got a financial advisor, although

8:54

you probably call them more than

8:56

they call you. You're good with

8:58

money, but you're not necessarily an

9:00

expert in the field. But what

9:02

you do know is when you

9:04

need an expert's help, especially with

9:06

something as important as money. Most

9:08

people in the middle class don't

9:10

have a financial advisor because they

9:12

don't have enough investments to warrant

9:14

having one. But like the truly

9:16

rich, you do have one. The

9:18

only difference is the truly richer

9:20

at the top of every financial

9:22

advisor's list of people to call.

9:24

You're not their top priority, so

9:26

you call them more often than

9:28

they call you, but you know

9:30

they'll still come through for you

9:32

and make good on your investments.

9:34

Number 12. You've got a healthy

9:36

lifestyle. You make smart choices. These

9:38

choices have gotten you to where

9:40

you are. And you make the

9:42

same kind of smart choices about

9:44

food, exercise, and anything else that

9:46

affects your health. You're less likely

9:48

to smoke or binge on junk

9:50

food. You probably have a membership

9:52

at a gym or other sports

9:54

club. And of course, private health

9:56

care. You know that to perform

9:58

your best. You need... to be

10:00

healthy, so naturally you prioritize your

10:02

health. Number 13. You are privately

10:04

educated, and if you moved into this

10:07

group, your children probably will be. Now

10:09

of course, the top 20% of earners

10:11

want their children to stay in

10:13

that bracket. So you'll want to

10:15

give them whatever opportunities you can

10:17

to do this. And paying for

10:19

private school is one of the

10:21

best ways. Now we mention that

10:23

most of the upper middle class

10:25

need to be highly educated to

10:27

do the jobs they do. And

10:29

that's reflected in the fact that

10:31

you value education and you'll spend

10:34

a significant portion of your money on

10:36

it as a result. Number 14.

10:38

Your children can afford the unpaid

10:40

internships. Now your kids won't be born with

10:42

a silver spoon in their hand, but

10:45

they'll probably afford some time to figure

10:47

out who they are and what they

10:49

want to do in life without the

10:51

pressure of the immediate future. They can

10:53

spend a summer making no money but

10:55

learning a lot. They'll probably join team

10:57

sports because you know that getting along

10:59

with people is a massive competitive advantage

11:01

later in life. They'll probably afford to

11:03

try as many things as possible because

11:05

you've got them covered. And number

11:07

15, you're comfortable with who you are

11:10

and where you are. You're happy with

11:12

where you are and you don't have

11:14

anxiety about it. You don't overanalyze it.

11:16

And you don't need to give yourself

11:19

a label to increase your perceived worse.

11:21

You know you have enough and you

11:23

know you also have all it takes

11:25

to level up, if that's what you

11:27

desire. Being content with where you are

11:30

doesn't mean you always have plans for

11:32

more and bigger achievements in life, but

11:34

it does mean you don't need to

11:37

pretend to be something that you're not,

11:39

or obsess about where you are on

11:41

the social ladder. You have a sense of

11:43

well-being with who you are. And of course,

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is you are valuable to society. No,

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usually there are two types of people that

11:56

end up in the upper middle class. Those

11:58

who can build things and... those who can

12:00

fix things. since since most people can't

12:02

be bothered to do either of those

12:05

things, there's always room at the

12:07

top for those who do. those who do.

12:09

top of that, knowing how to build

12:11

or fix things is also a is

12:13

for achieving financial freedom. If there's

12:15

one big takeaway from this video, it

12:17

big takeaway As long as you learn

12:20

how to create, long as how to build,

12:22

how to improve, and how to

12:24

make the lives of those around you

12:26

slightly better, around you slightly better, the reward you.

12:28

you. We'll see you you next time, next

12:30

time, then. Take care, my friend. care, my

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with us and taking another step

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toward improving the way you look at

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