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Welcome to the
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Alox.com podcast. The
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place where future billionaires
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come to get
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inspired. You know, you
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don't go from broke
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to billionaire in one straight swoop.
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There are layers to this, and
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the first one being upper middle
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class status. In other words, being
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in the top 20 to 30%
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of the population. Think of this
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list as checkpoints, things you achieve
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as you move in the right
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direction. So here are 15 signs
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that you are in the upper
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middle class, and you know, interestingly
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enough, they're not all about money.
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Number one, you have another source of
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income other than your main one, but
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you would struggle to live off of
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it. Now most people work for money,
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but the rich make their money work
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for them. This is pretty well known
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by this point. So what if you're
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in the upper middle class? Well, you're
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somewhere in between. You do still rely
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on your main source of income, your
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job, but you probably have money invested,
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which brings you some income. It might
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be in property that you're renting out,
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you own stocks that pay dividends, you
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post content to make money from ads,
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you have something that brings in additional
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revenue. It's not enough to fully rely
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on it, but you're familiar with the
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process. And this is what sets you
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apart from the rest. You know what
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it takes because you already did. it.
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You made something out of nothing which
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might be small right now but you
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know you can scale up. Number two,
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you're probably highly educated from
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a good university. Maybe. Now
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traditionally the upper middle class
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has been associated with high
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levels of education. There's a
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good chance you're a lawyer,
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doctor, a dentist, an architect,
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an engineer or an executive
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for a corporation. These jobs
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require... formal education and lots of
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it. A university degree and maybe even
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postgraduate studies too. And if you don't
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have a formal degree then you have
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real-life education from years it took you
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to make your business successful. The point
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is you invested quite a lot of
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time and resources into your personal education
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and it's gotten you this far. You
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can tell the difference between who really
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knows what they're talking about compared to
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who's there for the Instagram pick and
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the social cloud. Number three, you like
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what you do and you take pride
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in it. A lot of people spend
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their week waiting for the weekend. Because
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that's when their life is any kind
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of meaning. But you probably don't have
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this problem because you're highly qualified. And
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that means you're probably motivated by what
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you do, even passionate about it. And
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you enjoy it. An architect will be
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passionate about buildings from the design side
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and the math side too. And the
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owner of a local business will be
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passionate about the business they've built up.
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There is a strong correlation between life
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and happiness and being engaged in activities
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that match your abilities and challenge you
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appropriately. And this gives you a competitive
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advantage because you actually like what you're
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doing. Number four, you're mobile. You've moved
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around more than others. A lot of
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people grow up in one place. They
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find a job there, they get married
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and settle down there, all in the
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same location. That's because it's the easiest
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option. But you don't exactly take the
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easiest path either, do you? You embrace
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challenges, and one of the challenges that
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you're bound to benefit from is changing
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location. This could include moving far away
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to study at the best university you
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could get into, and when you're asked
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to do a transfer at work, possibly
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to a different country, you jump at
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that opportunity. Why? Well, because you know
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what it will bring to you professionally
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and also what you'll learn about the
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world outside of the bubble you grew
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up in. And having more knowledge of
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the world will broaden your... horizons. And
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you know this leads us perfectly to
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the next item on our list. Number
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five you have a high amount of
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cultural capital. Now this might be a
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new term to you, but it's a
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concept everybody is aware of at some
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level. So cultural capital means your broader
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knowledge of the world, knowledge that you
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can apply to your work, your social
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interactions, and your free time pursuits. This
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knowledge makes you stand out from the
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crowd, but not just that, it makes
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you socially more mobile too. It could
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include what you know about arts and
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literature, and how you talk or dress
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in a way that makes you come
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across as sophisticated without being pretentious or
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fake rich. It could include your well-honed
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communication skills, you're articulate, you get your
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point across, and people like to hear
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you talk. Number six, you can
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identify and appreciate quality and utility.
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People are often obsessed with branded
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goods. They spend so much of
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their lives buying things they don't
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need to impress people they don't
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like, with money they don't even
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have. A lot of people fall
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for this trap. But not you.
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You learn to appreciate what quality
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actually is. Long-lasting utility. All of
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your things have purpose. There's a
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good reason they're there. They keep
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you creative, productive, and authentic. Number
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seven, you don't buy things on
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credit. Now this relates to our
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last point too. A lot of
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people want to have things they
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just can't afford. It makes them
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feel more secure and gives them
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the illusion that they belong to
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the social group they aspire to,
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when in reality they can't quite
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reach. And so they go into
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debt making a payoff between the
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illusion of wealth and months or
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years of installments to pay it
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off in the future. Now if
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you're upper middle class this probably
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isn't true for you. You see
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credit as a financial instrument to
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increase your wealth. Number eight, you
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go on holiday to expensive locations
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but you... shop around a bit
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for deals. So nowadays, more than
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any other time in history, people
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have a wider number of holiday
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destinations to choose from that are
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within their budget. But there are
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a few desirable spots that are
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out of reach for most people's
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pockets. And while a lot of
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people can afford to visit other
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continents once in a while, it's
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strictly once in a while. And
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dream destinations like Bali, Thailand, or
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Mexico are probably a rare, even
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once in a lifetime treat. For
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the upper middle class, these dream
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locations are... more accessible and may
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feature on your list of regular
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getaways rather than one-off dream holidays.
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And when you go there, being
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the culture vulture that you are,
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you're likely to interact with the
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locals. You'll try the local food,
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you'll learn about it, all the
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while increasing your cultural capital even
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further. Number nine. You've got a
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network of influential friends and acquaintances.
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You're the average of the five
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people you spend most of your
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time with. And as a member
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of the upper middle class, you
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mix with quality people. People who
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are equally educated, sophisticated, and have
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prominent positions in society. These are
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the people that you mix with
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naturally. You meet them through work,
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at social events, maybe even on
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the golf course. You gravitate toward
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each other, and as a result,
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you're well connected. You've heard the
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expression, it's not what you know,
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it's who you know. Well, the
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upper middle class knows a lot
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of things and have a lot
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of connections too. And the people
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you know, lawyers, executives of companies,
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local business owners, these are the
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kinds of people who can make
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things happen when you need them
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to. Number 10. You've got a
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good understanding of how money works.
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You understand that every 10 years
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your money is worth around 25%
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less. And you know how that
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happens. You're well aware that your
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government isn't going to be able
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to cover state pensions in any
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meaningful way in the future. You
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know when and how to use
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banks. These are just a few
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of the things. you're well aware
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you on the inside. Number 11.
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You've got a financial advisor, although
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you probably call them more than
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they call you. You're good with
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money, but you're not necessarily an
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expert in the field. But what
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you do know is when you
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need an expert's help, especially with
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something as important as money. Most
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people in the middle class don't
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have a financial advisor because they
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don't have enough investments to warrant
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having one. But like the truly
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rich, you do have one. The
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only difference is the truly richer
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at the top of every financial
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advisor's list of people to call.
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You're not their top priority, so
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you call them more often than
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they call you, but you know
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they'll still come through for you
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and make good on your investments.
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Number 12. You've got a healthy
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lifestyle. You make smart choices. These
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choices have gotten you to where
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you are. And you make the
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same kind of smart choices about
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food, exercise, and anything else that
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affects your health. You're less likely
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to smoke or binge on junk
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food. You probably have a membership
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at a gym or other sports
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club. And of course, private health
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care. You know that to perform
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your best. You need... to be
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healthy, so naturally you prioritize your
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health. Number 13. You are privately
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educated, and if you moved into this
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group, your children probably will be. Now
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of course, the top 20% of earners
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want their children to stay in
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that bracket. So you'll want to
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give them whatever opportunities you can
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to do this. And paying for
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private school is one of the
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best ways. Now we mention that
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most of the upper middle class
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need to be highly educated to
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do the jobs they do. And
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that's reflected in the fact that
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you value education and you'll spend
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a significant portion of your money on
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it as a result. Number 14.
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Your children can afford the unpaid
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internships. Now your kids won't be born with
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a silver spoon in their hand, but
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they'll probably afford some time to figure
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out who they are and what they
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want to do in life without the
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pressure of the immediate future. They can
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spend a summer making no money but
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learning a lot. They'll probably join team
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sports because you know that getting along
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with people is a massive competitive advantage
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later in life. They'll probably afford to
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try as many things as possible because
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you've got them covered. And number
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15, you're comfortable with who you are
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and where you are. You're happy with
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where you are and you don't have
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anxiety about it. You don't overanalyze it.
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And you don't need to give yourself
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a label to increase your perceived worse.
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You know you have enough and you
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know you also have all it takes
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to level up, if that's what you
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desire. Being content with where you are
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doesn't mean you always have plans for
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more and bigger achievements in life, but
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it does mean you don't need to
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pretend to be something that you're not,
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or obsess about where you are on
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the social ladder. You have a sense of
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well-being with who you are. And of course,
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for those of you who always stick
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is you are valuable to society. No,
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usually there are two types of people that
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end up in the upper middle class. Those
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who can build things and... those who can
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fix things. since since most people can't
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be bothered to do either of those
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things, there's always room at the
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top for those who do. those who do.
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top of that, knowing how to build
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or fix things is also a is
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for achieving financial freedom. If there's
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one big takeaway from this video, it
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big takeaway As long as you learn
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how to create, long as how to build,
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how to improve, and how to
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make the lives of those around you
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slightly better, around you slightly better, the reward you.
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you. We'll see you you next time, next
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time, then. Take care, my friend. care, my
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with us and taking another step
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