Best Bits with Abby: The Adult Chores They Hate & How They’re Spending Valentine’s Day

Best Bits with Abby: The Adult Chores They Hate & How They’re Spending Valentine’s Day

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Best Bits with Abby: The Adult Chores They Hate & How They’re Spending Valentine’s Day

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0:00

The Best Bits of the Week with morgane

0:03

Part one behind a scene with a

0:05

member of the show. What's

0:09

Up Everybody?

0:10

Happy Weekend and other best Bits is here

0:12

and this weekend I'm joined by Abby.

0:14

Abby he feeling I am tired

0:17

today? Yeah, I'm running on

0:19

three hours of sleep. I'm not even kidding you know what

0:22

is happening.

0:22

We are going to dive into why you're not sleeping

0:25

I'm sitting here with vertigo or crushing it. Oh

0:27

yeah, We're really doing great this week. Yelling It

0:29

twenty twenty four is coming in strong. But starting

0:31

off before we dive into some talking

0:34

about things the best bits this week, So Bobby

0:36

and Eddie recall the story that they.

0:40

Well when they were with Toby Keith.

0:41

So we're going to start best Bits with Toby

0:43

Keith and we're going to end with Toby Keith because it

0:45

was a.

0:46

Really big loss for country music.

0:48

So the number seven segment this week

0:50

is Bobby and Eddie talking about performing

0:52

Red Solo Cup with Toby Keith several

0:55

years ago. The Raging Idiots opened up for him and he brought

0:57

him back out on stage and the story is really funny.

1:00

So that's happening and then we've

1:02

got a listener who called in to share

1:04

our twenty twenty three game statistics,

1:07

which every year is like a roast on me, and

1:10

I don't shure.

1:11

It is like even I had a higher

1:13

percentage, I'm like because I didn't play that

1:15

many games.

1:16

Yeah, yeah, and I'm very well where

1:18

I'm not good at games, So like every year, I just

1:20

prepare myself that I'm I'm taking.

1:22

The l Yeah that's a little rough

1:24

every time.

1:25

And Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani

1:28

were not in studio, but they were on Zoom

1:30

with us, and it was so awesome, Like Gwyn

1:32

is just so beautiful she is, I

1:35

yeah, it was fun to see her with Gwyn with

1:37

Blake. Also, sorry if my words get messed up

1:39

this weekending, I am not doing great,

1:42

but she kept I watched

1:44

the video back and she just kept like adoring

1:46

Blake Shelton throughout the whole time and it was so cute.

1:48

Really yeah, oh that's goals. Yeah,

1:50

there are goals.

1:51

So they came on to talk about their new collaboration, which

1:53

was awesome, and then Lunchbox went to the

1:55

streets to ask strangers

1:58

if it's Eddie versus the.

1:59

New batch who are they choosing?

2:02

And we got the results of that, which I do

2:04

think it was a little bit skewed because I don't

2:06

think he actually went to all age groups.

2:08

I think he went specifically to

2:10

one age ye group based on the.

2:13

People talking there's that maybe

2:15

because he couldn't find anybody else.

2:17

Probably he probably don't look very hard

2:19

though either.

2:20

And then Lunchbox, speaking of him, wanted to

2:23

be sent to Las Vegas for the Big Game

2:26

and listen,

2:29

the show did everything they possibly could to send him to the

2:31

Big Game, and somehow or another,

2:33

it still didn't quite work out. And you're gonna

2:36

hear how this all happened. You're gonna be really frustrated

2:38

with Lunchbox, I am, because he had some great opportunities.

2:41

And then that they are single

2:44

song happened. Now you're not going to get to hear the

2:46

actual full version of it because of copyright

2:48

reasons, but you can go watch it on our Instagram page.

2:51

But you will hear us like trying to figure

2:53

it out. Also, don't appreciate

2:55

the lyrics written for myself. I'm not sure

2:57

if you feel the same.

2:58

Yes, I'm upset, I've

3:00

become obsessed. Yeah, and apparently I only date

3:02

losers.

3:03

You know, it's truth, though

3:06

it is a little true. I think they have some truth

3:08

to them. But I have dated good guys.

3:11

I just haven't full on dated great guys.

3:13

Well that's gonna change in twenty twenty four,

3:16

let's go, Yeah it is.

3:17

And then we did coming in at the number one spot

3:19

is our our Toby Keith tribute. Now I can't

3:21

put the entire hour and a half part in here,

3:23

but this is a moment where Bobby was sharing

3:26

some stories. Jaco and called in to share his

3:28

story, and even John Daily texted

3:30

Bobby. So just really heartwarming

3:33

things that they had to say about Toby Keith and

3:35

their experiences with him.

3:36

Because again, if.

3:37

You haven't missed it or haven't been kind

3:39

of on the internet, this week, we did lose Toby

3:41

Keith, and that's just a really hard loss

3:43

for all of country music. So but

3:46

now it's time to talk about some fun things, all

3:48

right.

3:48

So obviously the big game this weekend.

3:51

Who's gonna win forty nine Ers or

3:53

the Chiefs? How are you feeling who is gonna win? Like?

3:55

I feel like the Chiefs always win.

3:58

Yeah, I'm not like rooting for them I hope family's rooting

4:00

for them. Really, yeah, I'm kind of rooting against

4:02

them.

4:03

Why you're literally from Kansas?

4:05

What are you doing? That's a Missouri, that's Missouri.

4:07

Okay, it's Kansas City. Okay.

4:10

See, I'm a Broncos fan, and I'm

4:14

you're a hater of your own state. No,

4:17

I'm not, you are. I just can't jump on the bandwagon

4:19

because then people will be like, oh, you're a bandwagon fan. Okay,

4:21

but why are you hating against them? They're not playing your

4:24

team. I don't know, just so

4:26

I can see somebody else win. I feel like Chiefs always

4:28

win, isn't it getting? You know, it's such a typical

4:31

Jayhawk of you to say that. Okay, kay

4:33

State or let's go Okay, you guys, listen.

4:36

You guys always always hate about the

4:38

other teams, like you don't want anybody else to win, You just

4:40

want yourselves to win.

4:41

Not true, not true. I root

4:44

for k State if they're playing like Missouri.

4:47

Okay, Okay, Abby, Well

4:50

I'm room for the Chiefs.

4:51

I guess Abby's over there taking the forty nine ers for whatever

4:53

reason?

4:54

Do you have any big plans? Are you doing anything? Yeah?

4:56

So my friend is having a super Bowl party

4:58

at her house, and she in

5:01

the text it's like shots will be poured. I'm

5:03

like, okay, this could get this could get crazy.

5:05

I could like this. You're just gonna get wild and

5:07

crazy, I guess. So. Yeah, and then watch the super

5:09

Bowl. Oh my gosh, is your is your boyfriend?

5:14

Let me just reset it. Well,

5:17

do you have any big plans? Yeah? So my friend

5:19

is having a super Bowl party at her house.

5:22

Gosh, dang it, Abby Lee

5:25

Anderson you hey,

5:29

Kevin, I tried hate me? All

5:32

right, So do you have any big plans for the game.

5:34

Yeah, So my friend's having a party at her house and

5:36

the text says shots will be poured,

5:39

drinks will be flowing.

5:40

Okay, is that like a reason? Clearly

5:43

you're not celebrating the Chiefs trying to play.

5:45

So no, I'm not. And I'm watching the

5:47

halftime performance by ushers. See

5:50

it was the longest it's ever gonna be for a performance.

5:52

What what do you mean? How long?

5:54

Like he he will have the longest NFL performance.

5:57

I don't know how long that means, but I just know it's the longest

5:59

one ever.

6:00

I'm all about them, It's sure,

6:02

Yeah, do you think he'll have any guests, like surprise.

6:04

Guess you know,

6:06

I don't know. Yeah, I mean he doesn't

6:09

need to, No, he really doesn't. But what

6:11

it would be really cool if Alicia Keys came out

6:13

from aboo. Oh that could

6:16

be a thing. Yeah, but that's a

6:18

lot. I don't know if she would. Yeah, so that is a

6:20

lot. Okay, So I'm excited getting drunk for

6:22

the Supermo So yeah.

6:25

Eating that's the best part, right, the food. Oh yeah,

6:27

And you know, normally I have a big party

6:30

for the game, and this year I'm not, probably

6:32

because I have vertigo and I came and think about the day

6:34

one right now, but I'm

6:36

like hoping it would be gone by then. But no,

6:39

it's been here all week.

6:40

I know. I'm hopeful, and if it does, then

6:42

I will go to some bars with some

6:44

friends. But if not, then

6:46

I'm just gonna order like my three favorite advertisers

6:49

in town from like all Russians, because there ain't no chance

6:51

I'm getting up to cook. I'm just gonna

6:53

order those, and then that'll be my my solo

6:56

big game party at the house. Yeah, that'll

6:58

be fun. I've never gone to a are really,

7:01

I haven't.

7:01

Either, because I feel like it's more fun

7:03

to go to people's houses for it. Mm

7:05

hmm. But I don't know. We'll see, we'll see how I'm feeling.

7:08

I know, fingers crossed because I feel

7:10

for you. Every time you walk behind me, You're

7:12

holding onto the wall and I'm like, oh my gosh, I feel

7:14

so bad. Yeah, it's also why if I sound

7:17

a little off this weekend.

7:18

The words are hard to They're always hard,

7:20

but like particularly this weekend, Yeah, pretty hard,

7:23

you know.

7:23

Also, you and I both saw Cody Johnson. We

7:25

did have a bridge stone for that show. That was

7:28

amazing. Oh my gosh.

7:30

Okay, so from Brooks and Dunn

7:32

coming out to Randy

7:34

Houser coming out and then his daughter's

7:37

singing a song with him.

7:38

Okay, can I tell you I left before they came out,

7:40

and I was so sad. Okay,

7:43

oh my god, I'll be honest with you.

7:44

We did leave right before his encore, Like

7:46

we had walked out and we were planning to go to like

7:49

the after party and then and

7:51

then I got a text from somebody who works for

7:53

another radio station and Britt

7:56

Michael's shout out, we're on the.

7:59

He was like, yeah, he's gonna sing with his daughters.

8:01

He's like, crap, And I literally looked at my

8:03

girlfriend.

8:04

That was something. I was like, we have to go back down. I don't know what it is, but

8:06

we have to go back down. Oh my gosh, what did they

8:08

sing? They sang a song.

8:10

I don't know the song, but they sang it from

8:12

apparently they like watching like old Western

8:14

movies together him and his girls, and

8:16

it was a song from one of those old Western.

8:19

Movies that is so cute.

8:21

And they sounded so good, like they're little

8:23

like that, I mean little as in like they're under ten,

8:26

right and they're teeny tiny

8:28

and they sound it's so cute like with him

8:30

and they were all harmonizing.

8:33

It was okay, they're gonna

8:35

be like a trio, probably the Johnson

8:38

trio. Yeah, Like they were so

8:40

good. But then obviously like

8:42

Brooks and Dunk coming out was really cool though too. That was

8:44

insane. Yeah, wait, who else came out? Because

8:46

I missed somebody else too, Randy House, Yes, I missed

8:49

him. Why did you leave early? What you did leave?

8:51

Like halfway through? No, it was the very last

8:53

song I left after Till You Can't. I thought that was

8:55

the last one. Oh yeah, Randy came on after

8:58

that. Oh my gosh, okay, and I listen.

9:00

So at the after party, I did see Cody, and I gotta

9:03

tell him, like, oh, congratulations. I told his kids

9:05

that they did great, and they were like, who's this lady? But

9:09

Cody didn't know, but his kids were definitely like, why is

9:11

she saying that to us? But I saw Randy

9:14

and i'd actually watched the movie on Netflix

9:16

with him in it, The Hill, you know that's

9:18

on there. I have not seen it.

9:19

So it's like a true story about this kid playing

9:21

baseball who, like I guess, had

9:23

to grow up having like.

9:27

Not chains, but he had like uh mccan't.

9:31

I don't even know what they're called, but he had these things on his

9:33

legs basically because he couldn't walk straight.

9:35

Oh. I started to watch it, okay with the

9:37

guy from parent Trap. Yeah his name.

9:40

Nah, you were on the were trying

9:42

a flight with him. Yeah, that was hold

9:45

on. Now, I'm only looking at Parrot Trap

9:47

because it's the only thing in my head. Sorry, it's

9:49

quite. John's quite, yes, and we were on a fight

9:51

with him.

9:52

Okay, but yeah, he's in it, and

9:54

Randy Hawser's in it, and so I saw Randy

9:56

Hawser at the after party. I was like, Randy, I saw

9:59

your movie, and he was I was like, wait wait because I forgot

10:01

he hit a few and I was like the one the Baseball

10:03

movie that just came out on Netflix.

10:05

And he was like, oh yeah.

10:06

I was like, listen, you got some acting chops

10:08

on you, Like this is pretty awesome, and

10:10

he's like thanks.

10:11

But I can't tell if I insulted him by saying like, you

10:13

have acting chops on you, like maybe that he

10:15

didn't like your shock that he

10:17

did. Yeah, You're like, I didn't know this about

10:20

you. Do you feel would you be insulted by that? If I'm like,

10:22

you got acting chops? No, I don't think so okay,

10:24

because I really hope I didn't. That was a little drunk at

10:28

least. I mean if you would have been like, I had no idea

10:30

that this was a thing. No, you just fund like

10:32

you got some. So I don't think that is okay. You

10:35

had some to drink, there, had I

10:37

had a lot of things to drink it, Cody Johnson, I

10:39

got some double drinks, did you? Yeah? So

10:41

I was having the time of my life. Okay, you

10:43

know you're over here leaving halfway

10:45

through. I know that was a fail on my part.

10:47

He was so good though, right, Like did you love that

10:49

concert? Yes? Okay? I mean all the lights

10:52

lit up because I was like behind the stage, so I

10:54

saw like what he saw, which was really crazy

10:57

because there was like a three Have you ever sat behind the stage

10:59

for a show before? Oh? Okay, and

11:01

it was usually a good experience. Yes, it was actually

11:03

awesome because he kept coming back and walking

11:05

up and like looking at the crowd behind him,

11:07

which is really cool because he could ignore

11:09

you.

11:10

He did give some Garth Brooks energy.

11:12

I felt like during that show, Yes,

11:14

oh for sure. And the whole state,

11:16

Like the whole arena was sold out, like normally they only

11:19

do like three fours, right,

11:21

No, the entire arena from top

11:24

to bottom, all the way around was sold

11:26

out.

11:26

Yes, And I was looking around when the lights

11:28

were up. There was not an empty seat. Usually

11:30

you see like a couple, and I was like, I don't see an empty

11:32

seat. Oh, and they were full for Justin Moore, Like

11:35

when Justin Moore went on, they were full, really,

11:37

you know what I mean? Like, did you know, okay,

11:39

listen, what did you go to Were

11:41

you there for like ten songs? I got

11:43

there just in time for him? Oh my good, perfect

11:45

amount. And then you left before he did anything?

11:48

Uh huh? Okay, yep, hey, I saw Brooks

11:50

and Tons so that was that was epic. That was cool.

11:52

But still, did you pay for those

11:54

tickets? No? Okay? I did

11:56

not. Okay. I was like, if you paid for those and you like

11:59

showed up for like an hour, like that

12:01

feels rough. See that's why I feel a little better, okay

12:04

about that.

12:05

Well, you did go to Asheville recently. I want

12:07

to hear about that trip. Oh my gosh, it was

12:09

awesome. It was super quick.

12:10

So we had to go, you know, after work on Friday,

12:13

and then we came back Sunday morning. But

12:15

we went to the Biltmore, which is awesome.

12:19

Is that like that giant mansion. Yes, it's

12:21

a huge mansion. What like,

12:23

what is the purpose of it?

12:25

So this guy, George Vanderbilt

12:27

is the one that had a Vanderbilt University.

12:29

Also, there

12:32

are so many Vanderbilts. I was trying to read the

12:34

history and I was getting really overwhelmed because they're all

12:36

rich and they could be actually

12:38

be related.

12:39

I don't know, but He just like built

12:41

it as just kind of like his own little

12:43

city. Basically. Wow.

12:45

So it's like this is stay is it on? This like multiple

12:48

acres of lands? Yes, thousands. It

12:50

is gigantic. How did it turn into like a

12:53

place people actually go visit? I really

12:55

don't know. See, here's the thing, so you can

12:58

go in and listen to the audio guy. And

13:00

we didn't really do that because we didn't have much time. So

13:03

like I do want to go back and like listen more to the

13:05

history and everything. We just kind of went in quick.

13:07

We were only in there an hour, just to like see the

13:09

beauty of it. Yeah, because people are messaging me and they're

13:11

like, oh, it's gonna take you all day to be in there, and I was like, well,

13:13

we only have like a full Saturday, so but

13:16

it rained that entire day. But

13:18

then we just walked around Ashville. The food is so

13:20

amazing there, like you do too.

13:22

I feel like they have a lot of breweries. We didn't do that many

13:24

breweries really, Okay, you

13:27

just did a lot of food, yeah, uh huh. And there's

13:29

like an arcade to walk around, like

13:31

an actual like game arcade or like it's called

13:34

the arcade like everything is there

13:36

is very historic, Like the architecture is

13:39

so pretty and you just walk around their stores

13:41

inside and like old

13:43

elevators, like it's just really cool. Okay, we

13:45

have one of those in Nashville. Okay, that's what

13:47

it reminds me of. Ok Yeah, I mean that one's a lot nicer

13:50

because this one obviously Hasville.

13:55

This one at one point, I'm sure it was very

13:57

nice, but you know, yeah, Okay,

14:00

so that's fun. Yeah, where was your favorite place that

14:02

you ate at? Oh my gosh, it was called Pisano

14:05

pas A. Is it Italian? It

14:08

had a whole mixture. I mean I think it was mostly

14:10

but it was just like American cuisine,

14:13

but like some a very Italian

14:15

name. It does some of the best food

14:17

I've ever had, not kidding. And I'm not even like a foodie,

14:20

but I like, on that trip, I was actually a foodie.

14:23

It was really fun. You know, it was funny on the listener

14:25

Q and A. I didn't.

14:26

I didn't put it down for the listener Q and A, but one

14:28

of because you and I have such

14:30

a funny topic.

14:30

About fry butts. Yes, has your

14:33

boyfriends and you eat fries? Oh my gosh,

14:35

so, yeah, he has, and I kind

14:39

of like distract him when I'm putting it down

14:42

themself. I don't think you don't think he's figured

14:44

out your fry butt and like weird thing, how you do?

14:46

Because we've gotten fries a lot and you

14:49

think of that as no idea. No, I just like

14:51

make sure I'm like distracting him, like I'm just like

14:53

yeah, and he's like looking at me,

14:55

or he's looking at the TV and the night.

14:58

You don't think this whole time he hasn't noticed something

15:00

strange about fries.

15:02

I honestly don't think so. Or he has and he's

15:04

just not putting it out to you. I need to ask him. You

15:06

totally do, because I'm still like really self

15:08

conscious about it. He's not gonna care to observe

15:11

it at all. He's picked up on it, and he just hasn't told

15:13

you yes. And I think a couple of times

15:15

I've eaten them when I don't want to because I

15:17

don't want it. I'm

15:19

not ready for that. I'm not ready to look

15:22

down to it. You have to be yourself.

15:24

How long have you guys been dating now, like three

15:26

months?

15:26

Yeah, you need to be yourself at this point I

15:28

should have been yourself off through the first day.

15:30

Like the first day, I get it, you're putting on a little bit of

15:32

a show. I got after that first day, Abby,

15:35

I know, I think I'm gonna have it of hiding it in front

15:37

of people, But when I'm by myself,

15:39

so funny it is. It's not like in

15:42

a bad way. It's just quirky. Yeah, I

15:45

don't know. Guys love quirky girls, that's

15:47

true, But I just feel like it's kind of gross at a restaurant

15:50

when you think about it, Well.

15:51

It's probably because we've given it the name fry, but so that probably

15:53

doesn't help.

15:54

Yeah, if I saw your plate

15:56

full of I would be really grossed out. Actually,

15:59

don't you think what does she have against the end

16:01

of these fries? I'm gonna

16:03

ask him if he's noticed. Yeah, I'm gonna

16:05

need you to report back next best bits.

16:08

He would say something though, like he's the tact what

16:11

is that is not not true?

16:14

Listen, if I've learned anything about guys, they don't bring

16:16

anything up unless you talk about it. Actually,

16:18

you know what's really crazy and different about

16:20

him is he does He's always the first one to bring

16:22

things up, like with feelings and everything, and I'm

16:25

like, whoa, this is weird.

16:27

Like I know what he's thinking. He's not, because

16:29

a lot of guys, yes, you're just like I don't know what they're thinking,

16:31

Like I don't where are they going with this? Why

16:33

are they being this way? But he just like brings it right

16:36

there. He sounds like a healthy man. He is. I

16:38

am going to ask you about him on Q and A. Okay,

16:40

okay, yeah, So it was a little teaser to

16:42

the Q and A.

16:44

We're gonna take a quick break though, and we're gonna come back and

16:46

talk about being adults in some purchases

16:49

we regret.

16:50

Oh yeah, we'll be right back. You

16:56

know what kind of sucks? What being an

16:58

adult? Oh? Yeah, okay, like just

17:00

in general, you know, like they don't they don't

17:02

really prepare you for that. When you're a kid, they

17:04

don't. You're excited and then you wake up and you're

17:07

like, okay, this sucks. Yeah, everything's

17:09

a lie.

17:09

So I want to know, like the adult

17:12

chore like that you consider a chore that you

17:14

really hate doing it. And I'm gonna tell you why, because

17:17

I really don't like taking showers. It

17:21

quite literally, I dislike

17:24

them so much that I will put them

17:26

off to the very last second if I can, really,

17:28

or I'll be like I can ticularly a body

17:30

shower.

17:30

What I really hates everything showers? Oh man, oh

17:33

the worst. They're like two hours. Yeah, like I

17:35

can handle like my body wash or whatever,

17:37

but like not everything shower. I

17:39

hate it. And maybe I'm not a good woman

17:42

because I know women love their everything

17:44

showers. I hate them, like

17:46

I really don't want to do them, and if I could

17:49

smell good and not do them, I would. They're

17:51

not relaxing to you, though, like when you get in your sheets

17:53

at night and you're like, oh my gosh, I'm so smooth

17:56

and clean. You know, Yes, that's the best

17:58

feeling. I feel great after, but the

18:00

process of doing it and the anticipation

18:03

of doing it sucks, and I really

18:05

despise it. Like genuinely, if you gave

18:08

me a way to smell good, look good, feel good

18:10

without taking a shower, I would, okay,

18:12

just like I mean to snap your fingers, yeah, like

18:14

I'm there, Yes, I mean it is a lot

18:16

you. I basically sometimes plan

18:19

my work weeks after over that because I'm

18:21

like, if I have a busy day tomorrow, Like

18:23

I can't fit in everything shower.

18:25

That's my point. Like there's like here's

18:28

the thing.

18:28

There's like body body shower, and

18:30

then there's like middle shower, where like I have to take a full

18:32

body shower, but I'm not doing the whole process, and then

18:35

there's everything shower, and that even

18:37

that middle one I hate.

18:38

Like I will try and do body shower all

18:41

day long, and then if

18:43

I really have to, I'll do the middle one. But then

18:45

if I really really have to do, I do the everything. Like

18:48

if I could do the everything one like once a month, that'd be

18:50

cool, that would be awesome. Yes, no, I'm

18:52

kind of the same way. I don't have time for

18:54

it, honestly. No, you know, it's time

18:57

to sit. But you know I do like crying in the shower.

18:59

Oh yeah, that's the best, Like just like sitting

19:01

like I'm in a music video and the water is washing

19:03

over me and I just cry. You just let her. I

19:05

don't even know why I'm crying, but I'm just like this feels good.

19:08

Yeah, what is it about that? I don't know.

19:10

Maybe because nobody sees you're sitting

19:12

in there, and it's also nobody can even picture

19:15

it because like the water.

19:17

You know, you're crying. That

19:20

feels good. You cry a lot in the shower, not

19:23

a lot of thing. Sometimes.

19:24

Yeah, it's just like if I have like a moment, that's

19:26

when I'll want to take a shower. Is if I'm really emotional

19:29

for whatever reason, I'll just go sit in the shower and

19:31

then I'll have the like the motivation to take

19:33

it. Because my hair's already wet, I can't do anything about it.

19:35

That's true. You know, Wait, how are showers with vertigo?

19:38

I do want to know this. Oh, I'm

19:40

gonna admit I have not taken a shower this week.

19:43

I have not.

19:44

You don't like wash cloth? Oh, I haven't.

19:46

Like I've just been powering on the But I

19:49

also haven't literally done anything besides go

19:51

to work. Like I haven't been able to work

19:53

out or do any Like I haven't taken Remy on walks.

19:55

Poor thing hates me right now. Like I

19:58

have not been in the outside world besides

20:00

going to work, even on the couch and work.

20:02

Yeah, so I might smell a little bit like a couch

20:05

potato, but you know everybody

20:07

loves potatoes. I didn't, I mean, I didn't notice

20:09

you look fresh, and thankfully to me, I put

20:11

a.

20:11

Lot of dry shampoo in my hair. There

20:13

you go, and I'm surviving. So yeah,

20:15

I honestly haven't teen a shower yet. Well

20:18

maybe by the time this airs, I will have taken one. Like Friday

20:20

night, I just like going into work. That's only

20:23

I when I this week, abby, when I've gone

20:25

home, I've fallen asleep for like five hours

20:28

and then I wake up to do the work that I have to do again for the

20:30

next day, and.

20:31

Then like I'll repeat, yeah, like I

20:33

am a little pos right now. No.

20:35

I feel like that's dangerous though, because you're closing

20:37

your eyes and like moving around like you

20:40

would like fall Like that's not worth,

20:42

that's not safe.

20:43

You know.

20:43

The one time I did wake up in the morning, I forgot that

20:45

I had that was going on. And you know how you like

20:47

wake up and you like rub your eyes, like oh, good

20:49

morning, and you rub your eyes. I

20:52

rubbed my eyes. I fell over in the back.

20:54

No, oh my god, in the one

20:56

second that I rubbed my eyes and I

20:58

was like, forgot I had that for

21:01

a second. I hope I never have this.

21:03

I've only had it. Nobody ever has it drunk laying

21:05

in bed. Yeah, and you know you're gonna

21:07

be hungover because everything's spinning like this is not good.

21:09

Those are the.

21:10

Worst where you're like bracing on the wall on the floor

21:12

at the same time, trying to find like any sort

21:14

of balance and.

21:15

Your eye your eyes are closed, but you can

21:17

feel your eyeballs just like going every

21:20

direction. That's how I feel all the time. That's

21:22

terrible. Yeah, I wouldn't worst like wish

21:24

this on my worst enemy. It's horrible.

21:27

But speaking of you said you're running

21:29

on no sleep lately, what's going on? Oh my gosh,

21:31

so like the end of the week is just everything

21:34

is always due and like I do

21:36

the Sunday sampler, I do, like you, uh,

21:40

we have deadlines. You're like, yeah,

21:43

you made it. Tell like like you like a bank

21:46

robber, like a like hit

21:48

man. My assignments are due on Friday,

21:51

like yeah, like audio

21:53

and stuff for Bobby to record. I got you music for

21:55

the weekend. I

21:58

do it. Yeah, it's funny. I was thinking that because I texted

22:00

you that and I was like, I have so much to

22:02

do tomorrow, and I was like, Okay, that probably sounded

22:04

weird, like I'm in class. But anyway, so

22:07

I'm just trying to catch up with everything, getting audio

22:09

and like things that Bobby needs to read. And so

22:11

I did not fall asleep. I got three hours asleep

22:14

last night. Basically every night this week,

22:16

like four hours. It's really

22:18

bad. You need to go to bed.

22:21

What are you doing with your day when you get home from Literally

22:23

I work, okay, So I I come

22:26

to work, I leave about noon

22:28

one, I go work

22:30

more. And then I've been helping with

22:33

the podcast network. I'm doing a few other podcasts

22:35

on there, so I'm producer for those.

22:37

So I edit that audio and like upload

22:39

it online. So it's just like if I'm not here,

22:41

I'm doing that job or and then eating

22:44

and then trying to at least do something that

22:46

gets my mind off of anything for like an hour. I try

22:48

to give myself like an hour a day. Okay,

22:51

but it's not, no,

22:54

it's not. I don't even have time for a shower.

22:57

I feel that and everything you're seeing that, you

22:59

know, because it's like the hair. It takes

23:01

a while. My hair's frizzy if I don't

23:03

style it. So US Kansas girls have frizzy

23:06

hair. We do.

23:07

So yeah, I'm just like running low and I'm

23:09

like I just need to. I don't know if it's like balance.

23:12

Okay, so this weekend, are you going to be like sleeping?

23:14

Yeah? Oh, I'm sleeping in. I cannot wait. No, boyfriend

23:16

t I'm just sleeping. I mean, no, I won't be with him,

23:18

but I'm sleeping in. Is he give me he's

23:20

gonna be sleeping into No, he doesn't

23:22

sleep in stupid like, and I don't

23:25

wake up. So I'm like, I stay in bed. I could

23:27

stay in bed till like eleven. He gets half an

23:29

eight, Like, what have you been doing three hours?

23:31

You feel that? Listen?

23:33

If I didn't have an alarm clock or anything to do,

23:35

I could sleep until like three pm if nobody bothered

23:37

me.

23:38

Thank you. Okay, that's awesome because

23:40

I feel like people are like adults. They're

23:42

always like, oh wait till you start waking up at six am

23:44

without an alarm clock. I'm like, I don't know if that's gonna happen.

23:47

No, but like here's the thing is like if if something does

23:49

wake me up, I just fall back and sleep. Yeah.

23:52

I'm like okay, cool bye, and

23:55

like leave me alone. Right, Okay, See that's

23:57

good. I get you because some people

23:59

they can't come back to sleep once I wake up, Like,

24:01

nope, Yeah, we've got prioritized

24:04

sleep as adults. You know, Okay,

24:06

the weekends a catch up time, but you better be sleeping.

24:09

Technically, I don't think sleep actually catches up.

24:11

So you really need to be getting to sleep every night. Yeah,

24:14

you need foret like a timer.

24:16

So like eight o'clock, it's like, okay, you gotta

24:18

be done wherever you're done, You're done eight o'clock.

24:20

That's when I'm beginning. What what

24:23

Okay, well, yeah, you can't do that. You

24:25

can't begin at eight o'clock. I

24:28

know. There's just so much I have to do. There's just not enough

24:30

time, you know. I feel like it's just

24:32

a little season. It'll pass, that's

24:34

fair once I always have those busy seasons. Yeah,

24:37

okay, we sched make sure you get a little

24:39

bit more sleep. Yeah, you're not gonna be able to

24:41

function to do all these things that you need to do. I know,

24:43

No, that is true. Yeah, I run on coffee, Like

24:45

right now, I'm hyped up on Oh when you're gonna

24:47

be run down at some point and you're gonna be sick. I

24:50

know. We don't want that. No, get your

24:52

sleep. Okay, maybe stop bringing so much coffee.

24:55

Yeah, it's better, also doesn't help you. Nope, one

24:57

a day day Abby.

25:01

Okay.

25:02

I want to talk about what purchase you regret making,

25:04

because listen, I had brought to the show

25:07

how I want to buy like an Apple watch and a diceon

25:09

hair rap both I'm still very looking at and people

25:11

have given me so many suggestions.

25:12

Huh.

25:13

I still haven't pulled the trigger because like last

25:16

year, I bought a Nintendo Switch.

25:18

I was so excited about it because the game Boy

25:20

games were going on it and I loved the game

25:22

board games, like you know when we were a kid and

25:24

we played the bad Boy all the time. I was like, dang, I played

25:26

that thing all the time. So I bought

25:29

this Nintendo Switch thinking I'm gonna play

25:31

this a lot.

25:31

I have played it. I played it maybe a week that

25:34

I got it, like I bought it.

25:35

I played it that whole week, no way, And now

25:37

it just sits there in front of the TV staring at me.

25:40

You bought me, you don't play me? Yeah, why

25:42

don't you play it?

25:43

Like?

25:43

No, what happened? I don't

25:45

know. I think I just got bored playing by myself. I don't have

25:48

so that's not one that you can go with other gamers

25:50

online.

25:51

I'm sure I could, but I'm definitely not

25:53

that advanced a gaming you know, Like

25:56

I don't know that I'm.

25:57

Invested that much. Yeah, I wouldn't

25:59

want to do that either, Like you suck yellow

26:03

children, Yes, they're intense. See so

26:06

now it just sits there.

26:06

So this is why I'm afraid to make big purchases.

26:09

Yeah, because I buy things and then

26:11

I'm.

26:11

Like, why did I buy that?

26:12

Kind of like the roller blades that I bought two years ago

26:14

when I spent five minutes on them broke

26:16

my tailbone and they have not been touched since.

26:18

No, really they haven't. No, and

26:21

you probably don't plan on using them? No,

26:23

not unless I find some flat service to go on and

26:25

like go in circles with

26:27

like, uh mattresses all around

26:29

me? Yes, stupid. Oh

26:32

well that's funny, you say Apple Watch because guess what

26:34

I got one, used it for a week. Guess where

26:37

it is in my drawer. I haven't used this seriously,

26:40

honestly, maybe

26:43

is that an option? But I'm

26:45

like, why don't I use it? Because I'm sure it's nice. I

26:48

think like the misconception or whatever

26:50

in my head was that I was going to get all these like emails

26:52

and texts, and I was just I

26:54

want to be able to get away from my phone when I want to.

26:57

Yeah, but you don't have to set up notifications on your phone

26:59

or on your watch.

27:00

Well, I was gonna use it as notification so i'd stay

27:03

off my phone more because

27:05

if I always get on my phone to check to make

27:07

sure it works, something isn't coming up.

27:09

And so if I see it's like personal, then I can just

27:11

kind of look at and be like okay, I'll get to.

27:13

It versus always a matically

27:15

like automatically picking up my phone.

27:17

That's makes sense. Yeah, but you're now you're

27:19

telling me the reverse, you

27:22

know, that's just what happened

27:24

to me. Yeah, but I'm like, I've only used it a

27:26

week. How long have you had it for? When

27:28

did you get it? Over a year? Yeah?

27:32

This is stupid. It is. And I had a fit

27:34

bit and I liked that, but still

27:36

don't use that. I got a fit bit like

27:38

years ago or not years ago, like two

27:41

years, and I wore it for like six months.

27:44

Hit and I was like, no, how I'm done. So it's

27:46

gonna be similar, except if you want, you

27:50

know, it to be more like a phone, like you can call people

27:52

on it and stuff like that.

27:54

It would be really nice right now while I have vertigo, because

27:56

like, I really hate looking at my phone.

27:59

But I feel, isn't it hard to see on that little screen?

28:01

My eyes are bad. It was hard for me to see the little

28:04

abbey. It's really you're showing your age a little

28:06

bit. I'm pretty sure my mom's Apple watch. The

28:08

thought is like it's only one big word,

28:10

like you know, when you look at the thing

28:13

at the eye doctor, it was the big k at.

28:15

The top or whatever the m e whatever

28:18

it is. I'm pretty sure that's like what my

28:21

my mom's looks like. Oh my gosh,

28:23

not that quite that big, but like it's pretty

28:25

big lights every time I look up, I'm like, dude, so

28:27

everybody can read it on your wrist. You're at the gym

28:30

and people are like reading your phone. Okay,

28:33

well, how many purchases you regret for?

28:36

Well that was one. But then also, okay,

28:38

so I bought white Claw, a non alcoholic

28:40

Oh you tried it? No, okay, So I just

28:43

saw it in the store, and I was like, oh my gosh, I have to try

28:45

this because I was trying to do dry January

28:47

and I know you did you sixceeed? No, absolutely

28:49

no, Yeah, I lasted twelve days, hey

28:52

saying really yeah, okay, so we must have

28:54

been on the same like I think it was a Friday listen,

28:57

mine was a Saturday. So you beat me, you

28:59

beat me. I losing Dry January?

29:01

Yeah, mine was because they went on a second date with Cowboy

29:04

and the bartender gave us free tequila shot.

29:06

So I was like, I can't turn down a

29:08

freezequila shot. Yes, you

29:10

know yea. Mine was an open bar when

29:12

we went to a show like it was, you know how

29:15

like sometimes labels they do like a little pre get

29:17

together and they were like open bar for an hour,

29:20

and I was like, oh my gosh, I can't turn this down every

29:22

time. Free alcohol as an adult is like that

29:25

is the money. Yes, it doesn't happen

29:28

so expensive, but when it does, yeah

29:31

it is, you want to take advantage of it. Uh huh. So

29:33

that was it. Well anyway, So I

29:36

thought that would be a good idea to drink white Claw during

29:38

dry January, the non alcoholic,

29:40

but it just came in the store like last

29:42

week. So I bought it seventeen dollars

29:45

for a twelve pack that's which is the exact

29:47

same price glorified water. Yes, okay,

29:50

it actually has like more flavor and

29:52

it tastes like it needs alcohol, Like it tastes

29:54

stronger, like there even is alcohol. It's

29:57

weird. It tastes more like a white claw than an

29:59

actual white claw with alcohol. Yeah, that sounds

30:01

disturbing.

30:01

Yeah, the flavors are good, but I don't

30:04

see the point, Like, what if the flavors

30:06

are.

30:06

Good but it doesn't taste good, I'm confused. No, it

30:08

is. It is good. It's just a stronger flavor,

30:10

like you know how white clothes kind of subtle.

30:13

Yeah, it's very subtle. It's not too much

30:15

and like too sweet tasting. But

30:18

this tastes just like really sweet. And they

30:20

try to advertise it as refreshing and like

30:22

with electrolytes, and there's not many in it for

30:24

it to be priced at the same for

30:26

seventeen dollars. Yes, so

30:30

so would you buy it again?

30:32

No?

30:32

No, I mean if they lower the price, mayvy just

30:35

because it's kind of it's just one do you pay for it? Let's

30:37

see for twelve cans ten

30:41

ten bucks. Yeah, oh that's still kind of a lot. That's

30:43

almost a dollar per can. Well, how much is like

30:45

a pack of water? Exactly three dollars?

30:48

It's like three dollars for water? Sure,

30:50

Actually a pack of water is now almost ten dollars?

30:53

Is it? Everything? Like a fancy water? I haven't

30:55

bought it. I haven't bought that in a while though, so I don't know. Yeah,

30:57

but it's like Lacroix. I don't even know what that costs,

31:00

but it's basically but

31:02

basically lacroix. Yeah, glorified water.

31:04

It is okay, so yeah, but it was interesting

31:07

to try because I've always wanted to so so big

31:09

regret Yeah kind of, I mean not really

31:11

regret, but abby

31:14

because it was only seventeen dollars.

31:16

It wasn't an Apple Watch, that's true.

31:19

You know a Nintendo switch, that Nintendo

31:22

switch. Yeah, yeah, regrets.

31:23

But I did buy the the robot

31:26

vacuum and I do have a little robot, both

31:28

of which I have not regretted. Oh they

31:31

are fascinating really Yeah, and my

31:33

robot vacuum is called Tony Shark.

31:35

Wait a minute, it's a shark it's a shark.

31:38

But do you know what it's saying after Yeah, Tony shark,

31:40

Tony's dark stark. I

31:43

know I've mixed you up. So

31:45

I like to Hazel likes to compete against

31:48

it, my cat Hazel, and so

31:50

I like to say the Avengers are competing. Yes,

31:53

does she get on it? Not yet.

31:55

I keep waiting for her too, like ride it around.

31:57

Yeah, that's hilarious. No, she she hides

31:59

from it, and she pounces and then she runs like

32:01

it's a toy. She probably thinks it's her toy. No, she like

32:04

thinks it's like an enemy, enemy

32:06

combatant. Fun.

32:08

That's entertaining to watch it is, for sure.

32:11

Okay, all right, well we have some

32:13

Uh well, I have a dating update. We're gonna talk

32:15

about Valentine's weekend, so we'll

32:17

be right back. All

32:21

right, Abby, I have a big breakthrough

32:24

in my dating life.

32:25

What a good one? A

32:27

breakthrough is good? Kind of a joke. I just deleted

32:29

the dating apps again, you

32:31

did, guys.

32:34

I was like, listen, I go through these waves where I'm

32:37

like, I'm never going to meet people in person because I try and meet

32:39

people in person doesn't happen. Then I get on the

32:41

dating apps, I'm like, go full throttle

32:43

for a while, and I'm like, yeah, meeting people.

32:45

Cool, and then I'm like, Okay, this is

32:47

sucking the energy for my life. Okay, I'm

32:50

to delete again. That's where I'm at. Yeah,

32:52

I felt that all the time. I mean all the time.

32:54

But which one were you on? Hinge, hingejam Bumble?

32:56

Okay? Yeah, those are like the best ones. Hinge

32:59

is the best for me. See,

33:01

I I have realized

33:04

guys just like don't want to start conversations,

33:07

and I think that's why I always had more success with Bumble.

33:09

It's because, like I started it, so at least I'm like

33:12

showing that I'm interested. But like, why

33:14

wouldn't guys understand that when you match with them,

33:16

it means you're interested. I do not understand.

33:18

My friend just moved to North Carolina from Nashville

33:21

and she just got on dating apps for the first time

33:23

in her life. She's in her thirties, and I was like, oh my gosh,

33:25

oh, like, I'm like a veteran, I'm a pro for

33:28

these. She welcome to the wild

33:30

West. Yes, And she's so confused,

33:32

like she's like, is this normal that guys don't

33:35

like initiate anything or respond. I was like,

33:37

h yeah, pretty normal.

33:40

It's unfortunate and it's really hard because like

33:42

I really am looking for somebody who wants to take

33:44

initiative, Like you know me,

33:46

Abby, I am a very

33:49

independent I don't need

33:51

help.

33:51

I want help, but I don't like asking for it.

33:54

It's my own problem, I got it.

33:56

But like I need somebody

33:58

who's wanting to take the initiative on their own and I don't

34:00

have to teach them how to take initiative. Yeah, I don't think

34:02

initiative should be taught, right that they

34:04

want to get to know you enough and want

34:07

to put in the effort, want to put in the work, want to plan dates.

34:11

I want to do all of that too, but like I want you to

34:13

be able to do it. Also, what's

34:16

like is that just gone?

34:18

Like do you guys think that now? It just it's

34:20

whoever anything goes

34:22

like yeah, I don't know.

34:25

Well, And a lot of them take the whole like equality

34:27

thing a little too far right where they're like, well, or

34:29

we're supposed to be equals. I'm like, yes, we are equals,

34:31

but like, also, you can take care of

34:33

me just as much as I can take care of you.

34:35

It can go both ways, right, but initially

34:38

we want you to like take the ball

34:40

and run with it, like the balls in your court. Yeah.

34:43

Like the way I see it is like I know

34:46

that I can take care of you.

34:47

I know everything I'm bringing to the table, and

34:50

I'm putting off that energy like I'm putting

34:52

off a strong, independent woman. I'm putting off a woman who

34:55

can take care of herself. And I get

34:57

that can also be intimidating.

34:59

I don't think it's intim dating to the wrong person, to the

35:01

right person, And so

35:03

if I'm putting off all that energy and

35:06

they're not either receptive to it or can't

35:08

put that same energy back, then

35:11

that's where I'm like, Okay, I got the eck mm

35:14

because you can't even like show up. Yeah

35:16

you put in two dates, two dates, bravo

35:19

my guy, two dates? I know. Yeah,

35:21

a lifetime we're working on here, Like if that's

35:23

the if that's the goal, Yes, what

35:25

are you gonna do for a lifetime? Two dates ain't nothing?

35:28

Oh my gosh, no, I will say, like, because I've been

35:30

dating my boyfriend, Yeah, do you have a nickname

35:33

for months? I really love nicknames.

35:35

I know, well, I don't know you got you gotta give

35:37

it because I feel like I'm gonna give things away if I

35:39

give it. Yeah, Like I don't have like, you know, a cowboy like

35:42

yours. That was good? On

35:44

hold on next time, I'll have one, Okay.

35:47

But that's the thing about him is like he always

35:50

initiates, like I don't

35:52

have to overthink or wonder, and

35:54

he's showed me that like I need to too,

35:56

Like it is a fine balance now. But he

35:59

is so good in an everything.

36:01

See, and that is attractive, yes,

36:04

like that can overpower anything

36:06

else that may be Like that is so attractive.

36:09

It's been like that since day one, like even just

36:11

to get to our first day, like you know how you just

36:14

like sometimes it's back and forth for

36:16

two weeks, just like how you, how's it going? How

36:18

was your day? You have any plans this weekend? But nothing

36:20

ever comes of it, Like he was just like, hey, I'd

36:22

like to take you out. How does Friday work? You

36:24

know? And that's when we met. And that's how you can

36:28

know right away without wasting time back

36:30

and forth texting.

36:32

Yeah, and I like I don't like the wondering,

36:34

like I'm I've realized. Like I

36:36

think in my twenties, I loved the Chase.

36:38

I loved the game.

36:39

You know.

36:40

I think everybody goes through that phase of like, Okay,

36:42

you want the push and pull because that's what you see

36:44

in the movies.

36:45

And I still do want like a movie love, but

36:47

I don't want the game. No, I just want

36:50

to know how you feel, good or bad.

36:53

Like I'm very upfront with who I am, and

36:56

I'm gonna be upfront with how I feel.

36:58

And if you aren't, and I'm

37:00

sitting here like how do you feel? What do you think? No,

37:02

I'm not I'm not fifteen years old again exactly.

37:05

That's the thing. Like we're over games,

37:07

and I think it's just they still

37:09

want to do that. You know, Oh I don't need

37:11

a texture right now, I can't be too available

37:14

whatever. It's like, I don't do that. No,

37:16

I've never done that on dating apps recently. I mean

37:19

back then, like you said, like in my twenties.

37:21

Yeah, Like when I was first on dating apps, I was like, oh,

37:23

I can't respe I don't want to be too like yeah, it's made a part

37:25

of like learning people right like that, I

37:27

think you just go through that phase but

37:30

not in your thirties. No, we don't have time for that.

37:32

Nobody got time for that exactly. So

37:35

now you're just like planning on this chilling

37:37

out. You're just not looking well.

37:40

It leads me into Valentine's Day,

37:42

which I want to hear your plans because

37:44

for me, I'm going to go to

37:47

Gallentine's brunch.

37:48

Obviously no men will be there, but

37:51

then I am going to a singles.

37:52

Event, hopefully with this Verdico subside, since

37:54

was be going this evening, so

37:57

the one at Gioda's Park really is

38:00

oh no. So hopefully I can get

38:03

over this and maybe at that event tonight it'll

38:05

be great and exciting and

38:07

maybe I'll meet some people.

38:09

But if not, I am gonna go visit my girlfriend

38:11

in Denver, Colorado. What. I

38:14

love that.

38:14

That's like my Valentine's trip to myself.

38:16

I'm like, if I'm not gonna do this anymore where I'm like

38:20

chilling and sad on Valentine's Day,

38:23

Like for that weekend, I'm gonna

38:25

go out and see my best friend and we're gonna go snowboarding.

38:28

Do it? Oh my gosh.

38:29

Yeah, yeah, I've never had a good

38:31

Valentine's Day. Honestly, Okay, so

38:33

are you anticipating a good win this year?

38:35

Then? Yeah, well I did tell him that and he's like,

38:37

okay, well then I want to make this one double special.

38:40

So we're gonna go to dinner on Valentine's

38:42

Day. But it's like a work night. Yeah, can't

38:44

you know, cool night? Yes, So I'm just dinner

38:46

and then I think the weekend after Yeah,

38:49

well, on Friday, we're gonna do like a second

38:51

Valentine's Day, which I don't know what that entails.

38:54

You get the whole week. Yeah, I'm really excited.

38:56

I'm excited for you. I'm not gonna get my hopes, No,

38:59

I am, because I trust him. He

39:02

doesn't let me down like he likes to listen. You

39:04

know what, we've also learned, like me and

39:06

my girlfriends have learned that we are constantly waiting

39:09

for the other shoe to drop because we have

39:11

been taught that the other shoe

39:13

always drops because we've been in relationships

39:16

that way.

39:17

But if he's given you no reason to

39:20

question any of that for three

39:22

months, then you have to let go

39:24

of the feeling of the other shoe going to drop. Yes,

39:27

because if it does drop. At that point, it's on him,

39:30

it's not on you stopping it from happening.

39:32

Does that make sense?

39:32

Yeah, it's just like it's kind of hard. You really

39:35

have to change your habits in your way of thinking because you're

39:37

so used to that. Well, you're protecting yourself

39:39

and I totally respect that, as you should. Ye,

39:42

But at this point, if he's given you no reason

39:44

not to believe and trust in who he is, you

39:47

have to, like, as I told my

39:49

girlfriend, you have to let at least one of the walls

39:51

down.

39:52

Yes. Oh, that's a good way to look at it.

39:54

Like if you can't let them all down, at least let

39:57

go of one right now because

39:59

they deserve that, you know, and then you

40:01

can slowly break down the others. But one, And

40:03

this could be your step for that is like, Okay,

40:06

you're not having high expectations, but you

40:08

are expecting him to do what he says and

40:11

what he's told you he's going to do. Yes, and

40:14

that's what he said, so you got to believe him, right,

40:16

with no other underlying Like don't

40:19

get my hopes up.

40:20

Yeah, I mean I've never I didn't even have that

40:22

thought until I just said it, and I was like, why would you even say

40:24

that? Like that hasn't even been in my head, like you

40:26

know, But I also I have a little creepy

40:28

monsters hanging out in the back of her head, I know. But

40:30

I'm also like easy to please. I don't know. I don't need

40:32

like the whole like grand like five

40:35

hundred dollars steak meal, you know what. He

40:37

don't need it, but you deserve it. Well,

40:41

thank you. You already told him I don't need it, so dang it,

40:44

dang it, why did I say that? But he will do

40:46

something that's perfect for you. Yeah,

40:48

because he thinks you deserve it. Also, if

40:50

he's the right guy, that's true

40:52

and vice versa. Just like you do something for his birthday

40:55

or whatever and be like you deserve it. Yeah,

40:58

you don't want it or you don't need it, but like you deserve

41:01

it. When they say I don't want it, I usually do

41:03

because I'm like you do. You're just saying

41:05

that. Listen, every down, every woman,

41:08

just like every man, wants to be treated

41:10

like a queen or a king.

41:12

They want to be treated like they are the prize

41:14

that they are the best thing on earth. Yes,

41:16

that is just literal human nature and

41:19

everybody should get to feel that feeling.

41:21

They should so hold

41:23

out for that. I agree. I believe you already

41:25

found it though, so wow, you never know. I

41:28

don't know, but I feel good about it. I know.

41:30

We still got to talk more about him though, Like we can get into

41:32

more details here in a minute on the on the Q

41:34

and A. But real quick before we end this, movies

41:37

you've watched because I always got to do a check in with you.

41:39

You're gonna be proud, okay, ready, so these

41:41

are all Netflix, I think. Okay,

41:44

so I'll be proud because on Netflix, or

41:46

just proud to be watched movies. Yeah, no,

41:49

no, they just watch movies, okay. Society

41:51

of the Snow about that plane crash in

41:53

the mountains, okay, was Bobby then talking

41:55

about that, yes Lunchbox that he watched it,

41:57

got it and it's really good. Give

42:00

them ratings? Oh should I give them rating? Yeah? Okay,

42:03

Society. Now I would say four

42:05

out of five airplanes okay,

42:08

very unbrand. Okay. The

42:10

airplanes normally are supposed

42:12

to do something kind of like a little off kilter random

42:16

it's my body's okay, I

42:20

don't know. Yeah, I met

42:22

like off kilter like freezing quirky, got

42:25

dark? Sorry the vow.

42:27

It's Rachel McAdams. I never seen that. No,

42:30

it's new. It's not new, Honey, stop it.

42:32

Nope, honey is not Nope, No, this

42:35

has been out for you. No no, no, no, no no no, you

42:38

just just get added on to now. I figure,

42:40

but I thought it was maybe like an It

42:43

is new er in like the last maybe

42:45

ten years. Are we sure? I am

42:47

positive.

42:48

I watched it when it came out, and

42:50

it came out on like a Valentine's Day, like seven years

42:53

ago.

42:53

That's why I feel like I have seen it.

42:55

But you

42:57

give your review of the newly released

43:00

valve. Stop it wait, give

43:02

me and then I'll get out. I'll tell you when it came out.

43:06

Give me three and a half? Oh

43:08

Dan, five much? Valves again

43:12

on brand? You

43:14

don't like it? It was okay? You

43:17

don't like the like the sappy? Yeah? Really?

43:20

Because there's also another one on Netflix of the same

43:22

thing where she lost her memory? What is

43:24

the one on? But I don't want to give spoilers?

43:28

Well, what's it called? Though I remember the name of it? Obviously,

43:30

wasn't it better? You came lu Is

43:33

like a Hulu original. Oh my goodness, and

43:35

I think it was it with one of the Sprouse twins. Yes,

43:37

yeah, I know what you're talking about. It was kind of the same, and

43:40

that.

43:40

Came after the Valve, so it technically copied the valve.

43:43

You want to know what? It came out more

43:47

more than wait,

43:51

I thought it looked familiar. I was

43:53

having dayshaw Voo when I was watching it. So I've seen chanting.

43:55

Tatum is in a few wrong coms, so

43:58

and so was Rachel mc gap Adams. Look, we're

44:00

gonna this is lack of sleep. I watched it this

44:02

week. We're just gonna go with that. I really love

44:04

that you thought it was new. You just pulled the lunchbox.

44:06

I'll be like, guys, I just discovered this, and you're

44:08

like, dude, that's been out for Like, guys, the

44:10

I phone has a camera. Did you know that?

44:13

Oh my gosh, don't tell him

44:16

next Queen Pins And I know you said, yeah

44:19

like that. I liked it. It's cheesy, but I loved

44:21

it. I would say, no

44:24

Queen or Pins. Okay, That's what I was gonna do. Anything

44:27

else Mam

44:30

packs five out of five five out of

44:32

five. Tampa phones. Okay

44:34

again, Cubon's on brand, Say tamp PACs,

44:37

tam PACs. It's funny.

44:39

Now they're gonna be like, why tampac. That's true. It's

44:41

like a little yeah teaser.

44:43

Yeah, five out of five. You liked it too. Uh, it

44:46

was a little cheesy, but like, I don't

44:48

know, I just enjoyed.

44:48

I really enjoyed the end where it like showed everything

44:51

and I was like, that's crazy, crazy.

44:53

Like that was and it was based on true story

44:55

right now? Oh yeah, it was a true story. That's why it's

44:57

so wild. I was like, this is insane.

44:59

This is all over freaking cubons. Okay,

45:03

nowhere, that's on Netflix. It's

45:05

about a girl that gets stuck in a shipping

45:07

crate why in the ocean, and

45:10

she has to survive.

45:12

That sounds like a nightmare. Is it a horror movie?

45:15

No, you love movies.

45:17

It wasn't to me.

45:18

I mean I love Halloween, That's what I'm saying. You love

45:20

horror movies, So like, was it a horror movie?

45:22

But you don't think it was? Probably? I mean it's definitely

45:24

a horror something situation

45:27

on Netflix. See what it classifies

45:29

as. What is it like a thriller,

45:33

mystery what I

45:36

don't know?

45:36

It doesn't say, Oh yeah,

45:40

it doesn't it it hasn't Okay, yeah, I can't see

45:43

what it's ready to ask.

45:44

I think it might be a thriller. I'm

45:46

gonna say, why am I bad at

45:48

this about it? Giving? Yeah?

45:51

Given the little thing? How about just four out of

45:54

five? Four out of five? Okay, no more,

45:56

no more system? We're

45:59

out of five, all right, So

46:01

that's a good one. Dang. You can watch a lot of movies. I'm

46:03

so proud I have. And then this one,

46:06

no hard feelings. Jennifer Lawrence. Cute

46:08

movie, isn't it. I thought it was really good. You

46:11

liked it? Yeah? I thought the trailer looked really that's a little

46:13

bit more sappy. Oh you thought? Yeah,

46:15

but it was really cheesy too. It was cheesy.

46:18

But like, also, Jennifer Lawrence is just hilarious. She

46:20

is so I love her like she is so funny.

46:23

I think that's why what did you give that one? I'm

46:25

gonna give this four and a half out

46:27

of five? Feelings for abby

46:31

like you don't understand the system? Do you?

46:34

Or?

46:35

Uh? Yeah? I four out of five

46:37

four and a half out of five. Dates you're

46:41

done. But

46:44

yeah, I do agree with you that that was a good movie. That's

46:46

a funny one. But don't watch that one with kids.

46:49

Oh definitely not. Oh my gosh, no,

46:51

not a kid, it's not. But

46:53

it was surprisingly a lot better than I thought watching

46:56

the trailer, I was like, this is really stupid, but

46:58

it was actually good. No, I agree with you. And

47:00

then final one, Oppenheimer, ooh,

47:03

the big blockbuster of last year. What do

47:05

you think? Which is a lot for me because that's a long movie.

47:07

I'm really proud of you just in general that you watch all these

47:09

movies. Thank you? Is this because you do not have a boyfriend?

47:13

Yeah, he's been trying to get me to watch more movies

47:15

too, because he was actually I've been trying for

47:17

like three years and then

47:19

he started dating this man who we still don't have a

47:21

nickname for. When

47:24

he's like movies and you're like, yeah, well

47:27

see, it's not fun when you're just sitting by yourself.

47:29

I guess I just get kind of bored. What else am I

47:32

supposed to do? Abby rude?

47:38

I don't know, its just me, but now I

47:40

fall asleep through movie? Oh

47:42

yeah, like I think I fell asleep through that one, but it was

47:45

good. It was just long through Oppenheimer.

47:47

Yeah, what would you give that one? For a rating three

47:50

and a half out of five atomic bombs boom

47:54

boom.

47:54

I feel like that was also on brand, but like, well, well at

47:56

least it's not in the title Oppenheimer's.

48:00

Yeah. Okay, okay,

48:02

I'm impressed. Yeah, any you have.

48:05

I did watch the No you

48:07

don't like animated movies, right, Yeah,

48:09

I did watch The Orient in the Dark.

48:11

It just came to Netflix.

48:12

It's a it's about this kid who's

48:14

afraid of the dark, and it was a cute movie, a

48:16

great family movie. Okay, yeah, I think

48:18

you can watch it, and mine give it like three out

48:21

of five eyeballs.

48:23

Oh, okay, now I want to watch it because I don't know what

48:25

that means. Yeah, and the whole time you're gonna

48:27

be like, I've all such a freak? Does she mean by that? Oh?

48:30

That's funny. That's the only

48:32

one I think I have watched. Oh.

48:34

I did watch Past Lives like Lunchbox,

48:36

and Mike said to watch I didn't like it.

48:39

You didn't like I thought it was fine. And

48:41

I love romantic movies and rom coms

48:44

and stuff. I didn't love it,

48:46

though. What's it on. It's

48:48

on Paramount Plus for free. You can watch

48:50

it. Oh and it was.

48:52

It was good. It just wasn't like they

48:55

both hyped it up and I thought it was gonna be really

48:57

good. Yeah, they liked it over you like Lunchbox would

48:59

like a rom you

49:01

know.

49:01

But I have noticed Mike and lunch both like indie

49:04

movies a little bit more than me. And it is a little

49:06

bit indie, okay, like something

49:08

you'd see at like a film.

49:09

Festival kind of. And I don't know that I

49:11

love those. I don't either. Yeah,

49:14

so I don't know that I would recommend that one. Okay,

49:17

I don't think I have any new recommendations for you.

49:19

What I know, My gosh, this is weird.

49:21

I've been watching a lot of TV shows, so

49:24

and I again, I've I've also learned

49:26

the genres you like, and I don't.

49:29

Oh, horror usual. You

49:31

should watch Reacher with him though, okay

49:34

on Amazon. I have heard that. But it's

49:37

so good. Okay. It has two seasons.

49:39

There's only like eight fi those I think in each season.

49:42

I can do that. Yeah, and it's an action

49:44

it's like all action based because when it's

49:46

like six or six seasons or more, I'm

49:48

like.

49:48

Oh my gosh, I can't take I do think a third

49:51

season is coming, though, so watch it now.

49:53

I think you'd like it or do you like action movies?

49:56

Right?

49:56

Oh? And then the one that Amy and Eddie also

49:59

started, the war one

50:01

about the bombers

50:04

with Elvis, not actually

50:06

Elvis but the guy who played Office Again.

50:09

I told you guys my memory sex right now, TV

50:14

plus war movie?

50:16

What is it called? Unlike googling, No,

50:19

none of those are it. It just came out Masters of

50:21

the Air okay, and it

50:23

has uh nah,

50:26

Austin Butler. Yep, thank you. I'm

50:28

just gonna call him Elvis.

50:31

Yeah, those two if you watch anything,

50:33

that one only has like four

50:36

episodes now Masters of the Air mass

50:38

okay, so you can watch it now and like be caught up and

50:41

then reach her on Amazon. Love it and

50:44

the nickname who we still don't have will

50:47

like it also, Okay,

50:49

do you have a nickname?

50:50

Before we go over to listener Q and I don't. I

50:52

really got a thing to give away to you better

50:54

have one for next

50:57

time, yep.

50:57

Okay for listener Q, and it not for next

50:59

time for listener Q and I oh listener Q and A yeah

51:02

you have like two seconds.

51:05

Okay, we're gonna meet you guys all over there. That's

51:09

the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks

51:11

for listening. Be sure to check out the other two

51:13

parts this weekend. Go follow the show on

51:16

all social platforms. Show

51:18

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51:20

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