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Lurio. The

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boy waxed what up. Twerk

1:00

is in the building. Everyone's

1:04

getting on my nerves today. This

1:06

is my favorite talk. Oh,

1:08

great. Wonderful. Boom.

1:13

Such an honor. Amen.

1:17

What's going on? What's

1:20

going on this week? You

1:22

know, just a little late today. Yeah

1:27

See as usual you

1:29

know say you nigga. Well,

1:31

we've been waiting for wax

1:34

all day. Oh

1:36

So he must ain't tell you that he

1:38

just sent me the email. I got something

1:40

emails at three o 'clock time. He said I

1:44

Got a lot forward to

1:46

the hour time Yeah, 421 I

1:48

got it exactly but who knows anything

1:50

you see and I'm saying Happy

1:53

to be here and bully in the Beast

1:55

podcast. That twerk did the podcast without

1:57

you. He

1:59

did. I guess so, because he

2:01

said you don't like, you said. Yeah,

2:04

he sent me that 421. I

2:06

gotta tell you I got proof.

2:09

Everything is, everything is twerk's fault. I

2:12

always know that. We

2:15

all know nothing. Are you drunk?

2:18

Who? You.

2:22

My own drink what happened tell

2:24

me what are you a

2:26

leaner shit? It's like you're delayed

2:28

or something. Yes. Yeah computers

2:30

are delayed you you are No,

2:32

yeah, no, I'm chilling what

2:34

happened. What's going on? Maybe your

2:37

braids are too tight It's

2:39

probably is mm -hmm. I just

2:41

got them. Uh -huh. You

2:43

just got what? I

2:45

just got them done you can't

2:47

tell no They

2:49

always look the same to me, dusty

2:52

like you. They

2:54

probably be the same thing. It's

2:56

probably the same. You know what it is?

2:58

I think like, do you ever

3:00

dye your hair? Why

3:03

would I do that? That's what

3:05

girls do, right? I feel like you

3:07

should dye your hair because you know

3:09

when like, you're here sometimes when it's

3:11

like the natural color kind of makes

3:13

you look a little dusty. Yeah.

3:17

Does that look? Does that look I'm

3:19

gone? Like a nigga from Nook. I'm

3:23

from Linden though. Like a nigga

3:26

from Linden specifically. A

3:29

nigga from Linden. This is your boy

3:31

all day long. Why 'all

3:33

look like that from Linden? We

3:35

try to stay out of the way, man. They

3:37

don't like to put shoes on, even those socks

3:39

on. You know, we understand that,

3:42

you know, beating your meat really means

3:44

disciplining it. You see what I'm saying? That's

3:46

what the terminology is. We understand certain

3:48

things like that. That's why we move the

3:50

way we move. Being out

3:52

there, being on flashlights, I can put on flashlights on

3:54

us all day because we know what happens when

3:56

you do that. Look at the news. Well,

3:59

Twerk is representing Jersey right

4:01

now with his Rutgers University buddy.

4:04

He don't look like that. Twerk

4:07

is two different guys. Twerk going walking. 'all

4:10

look the same to me. What you wearing?

4:12

Hold on. Y 'all not the same guy? No,

4:15

that's yeah, I'm

4:18

very I'm very very much different You know

4:20

I'm saying I probably don't have to do

4:22

as much as other people and there's some

4:24

people I don't I have to do a

4:27

little bit more But I rather you know

4:29

take the get out the way set the

4:31

stance. You know, I mean, I don't do

4:33

too much So I like this work right

4:35

now twerk twerk has got something going on

4:37

twerk is building he grown in that in

4:39

that field So I expect them, you know

4:41

move a little bit. So you try to

4:43

say he out here just Got anything going,

4:46

too? No,

4:48

I'm saying you do. Yeah,

4:52

that's me. I don't mind that. You know what mean?

4:54

I ain't missing nothing out. It's like, if I throw

4:56

another shirt, I want to get my hair done. If

4:58

I'm going to miss out on anything, probably not. So

5:00

I'll probably, you know, I'd rather put

5:02

that money in something else like a new boat. I want

5:04

to see like we need to do a wax makeover. You

5:08

know when they go on the

5:10

style channel and they be gone with

5:12

the women, we're gonna send you

5:14

with the women. Ellen,

5:17

I see Ellen do it. Now

5:19

you know, get in there while Ellen is

5:21

canceled. She

5:23

is. I

5:26

don't get on fucking nothing. Ellen ain't been

5:28

on in like five years, right? Yeah.

5:33

Damn, I don't watch TV. See, I don't got a chance to

5:35

watch TV or nothing. I don't get a chance to do this

5:38

type of stuff. That's why I'm out the loop. That's

5:40

why I like the bully in the beast. Because y 'all

5:42

keep me updated with all the news and stuff. I

5:44

have no idea what's going on. I'm not getting too busy

5:46

getting your hair done. I

5:48

got to get it done. Come on.

5:50

See how fucking long this shit is?

5:52

She's a monster. a problem. I

5:55

can't wait till you cut it. Yeah.

5:59

My wedding day. Oh,

6:01

so never. Okay. Anyway, let's get into

6:03

the word on the street. Speaking

6:07

of cutting off dreads, DDG,

6:09

he cut his dreads off.

6:11

There's actually a whole cutting

6:13

dreads off challenge going on

6:16

right now on social media.

6:18

Cutting the locks. People are

6:20

cutting their locks off. They're

6:22

letting them go. They're walking

6:24

into a new era. You

6:29

said your wedding day. Yeah,

6:32

my wedding day, I believe that's the day

6:34

that, you know, I know I'd be fully

6:36

completed of that old stage of what I

6:39

used to be. You know I'm saying? I

6:41

feel like, come on, Wax, it's time. Your

6:44

old stage. Now,

6:46

I'm talking about just like the whole finish of

6:48

the totality that like sometimes you still got to

6:50

keep your feet in the water because you're still

6:52

doing certain things. You know I'm saying? Till that

6:55

all blow over. You know I'm saying? Until you

6:57

finish the beef and make sure the beef is,

6:59

you know, the two big daughters shaking each hands,

7:01

then you'd be like, I can step over here.

7:03

I'm still in certain things, so I just can't

7:05

move away from yet. That's why

7:07

I still got my hair. It's very,

7:09

very long on all that stuff, clear. That's

7:11

clear. Back to the

7:13

waxed church boy. Hey, are you done sitting in the

7:15

front row? Why would you do that? Now I'm

7:17

just here. Why would

7:19

I do what? No, I was always

7:21

wondering, what would it take to cut

7:23

your hair? It's like, would you feel

7:26

like you lost your strength? No. No,

7:29

I haven't dressed for a long time. I

7:31

just started growing dress when I moved to

7:33

Miami. Like all the ones. Bro,

7:35

that's like 20 years. I had a. Yeah,

7:38

I mean college is about to be I

7:40

graduated college in 2010. So about 15 years

7:42

now. But when I moved to Miami, I

7:45

started growing my dress, but I had cornrows

7:47

for years. I had a church boy who

7:49

weighs haircut, you know I'm saying? So it's

7:51

not like I had. This is my only

7:53

stage that I had in my life. I

7:55

understand the stage. I get

7:57

it. Why did you go? Why

8:00

did you grow dreadlocks? You want

8:02

to get the wicks? No,

8:05

you know, all to the side, the real

8:07

reason why I grew my dreads is because

8:09

I was about to beat up every barbershop

8:11

dude in the world. You know what I

8:13

said? Like I couldn't take it. It's like

8:15

it's like a really a gossip type of

8:17

situation. It was like. Why these dudes, I

8:20

don't give a fuck. Y

8:22

'all niggas talk like bitches. You

8:24

know I'm saying? I didn't realize, you know, now I

8:26

have my pop music cut my hair when I was

8:28

like, I started going to barber shops. I'm like, this

8:30

is some bitch shit. You see what

8:32

I'm saying? I couldn't do it. And I was

8:34

about to beat up a couple of barbers and I

8:36

was like, I ain't getting my hair cut no

8:38

more. I can't even sit down and give a dude

8:40

that much of me. You know what I'm saying?

8:42

He like touching and he like, ah, like, bro, what's

8:44

up, man? You

8:49

know how me great chef stairs out

8:51

there. That's men I hate a man to

8:53

do my food because I don't know the

8:55

last time he touches me I Have no

8:57

idea the last time he touches me that

8:59

is so that's why I'm like Why is

9:01

this motherfucker touching my food because I know

9:03

I touch my me not because you

9:05

touching me today. You don't even know You

9:07

just do it for no reason right you

9:10

just touching me. That's funny So you never

9:12

had a man do your hair retweet your

9:14

hair or nothing? Right,

9:16

you know drugs ain't no fucking way for what

9:18

like that's for a man a massage you in

9:20

a shit like that with certain things for women

9:22

and certain things for men And I think it

9:24

does then that's both sides. I think certain men

9:26

should do certain things for women I don't think

9:28

a woman should do that for a woman No,

9:30

I think a man should do that for a

9:32

woman and certain things. I think a woman should

9:34

do that for a man I don't think a

9:37

man's another man should do that for another man.

9:39

No Everybody played a thing man. It's like having

9:41

a boy. Yeah, yeah, these women out here starting

9:43

to try to be sinners Like, where the fuck

9:45

you become a sinner? Why you not the point

9:47

guard? Right. You're

9:49

a great point guard. Do you

9:51

know what I'm saying? Like, how are we? It's dope. Stop

9:54

trying to be sacked. How do

9:56

you find a person to do your hair?

9:58

I mean, I feel like you've had the

10:00

same style ever since I've known you. You

10:02

use the same person? Do you

10:04

show them a picture? No. I've been talking about

10:06

having a bunch. the motherfucking styles. But this right

10:08

here, the style and stage I'm in right now

10:10

is like, I really can't have too much vulnerability.

10:12

So I got to, I mean, get it in

10:15

or something like that. could throw these motherfuckers in

10:17

there. Yeah, I'm saying that I got a bunch

10:19

of fucking here and all that vulnerability where I'm

10:21

at right now. No way. I'm

10:24

vulnerable right now. Very, very vulnerable. So I

10:26

got to run. I got to do certain things

10:28

that I got to do right now or

10:30

fight or anything. I got to tuck

10:32

these things away. And my hair is

10:34

all out in mad different shit. My

10:36

hair belongs to motherfucking. That shit's too vulnerable

10:38

for me. So nah. But

10:40

yeah, I definitely, I stopped cutting

10:43

my hair and shit because

10:45

of Barbers, man. What DGD was

10:47

doing. What DGD, what DGD

10:49

was doing, he was doing a

10:51

live stream for the pet

10:53

last week, a 24 hour,

10:55

24 seven live stream. And it was

10:57

called a hittathon. And he had different

10:59

rappers come in and beat makers came

11:01

in and they were making tracks like

11:04

recording live and making hits and I

11:06

guess if you can see it

11:08

in the top left corner, it's like

11:10

every time you got a certain amount

11:12

of subs subscriptions Subscriptions He would do

11:14

something so when he reached 40 ,000 subscriptions,

11:16

he had to cut his dreads.

11:18

So that's what happened there That's cool.

11:21

I'm saying doing it for a reason.

11:23

I guess you're muted. Marriage would be

11:25

Marriage would be something that I'd be

11:27

like, okay Now all we want to

11:29

decide, you know I'm saying? No,

11:31

when we get the episode with the

11:33

with the even one that's coming up.

11:37

What do you say? What's the episode

11:39

that's coming up that's even for us?

11:43

What do you mean even? What episode are

11:45

we on right now? What the fuck?

11:47

283. So when we get

11:49

to 300, you cut your dreads.

11:51

Oh. Oh,

11:55

I like that. We

12:02

get to 300. That's

12:05

it. Chop, chop, motherfucker. That

12:08

just might be a thing. I mean,

12:10

I just never had a goal to reach.

12:12

Nobody never asked me to say that.

12:14

So it might be it might be two

12:16

ninety nine. Who knows? You know what

12:18

I'm saying? I have no idea. Just I

12:20

don't even have a 300. Chop the

12:22

big chop. Either he cuts his

12:24

dreads or we cut him off

12:26

in a fucking podcast. Or

12:28

he's going to show off his bald spot. Off

12:33

with his head. Listen,

12:37

if you know what, I got a bald spot. Everybody

12:42

with when locks have a

12:44

bald spot. You think

12:47

so? It was all last week. And

12:49

you in the club you

12:51

was in the club shaking

12:53

your dreads and one of

12:55

them fell out You ain't

12:57

really got a ball spot

13:00

if you sit there and

13:02

you got the 2k What

13:04

anyway, let's move on to

13:06

talk about Marvin's that so

13:08

he locked the people in

13:10

the church, you know that's

13:12

just close the doors We

13:14

got to get $40 ,000

13:16

out of these folks or

13:18

nobody is leaving. So

13:21

I did the math. We

13:23

got this many people here. So

13:25

that's about $20 a person, $20

13:27

a person online. Run

13:29

your pocket. Yeah,

13:32

I mean, it's supposed to be a

13:34

cheerful given. You know I'm saying? Giving from

13:36

your heart. You know, some people probably

13:38

want to give more than 20. You know

13:40

what I'm saying? So exactly. It's a

13:42

way to do everything. You know I'm saying?

13:44

And. I see the way he was

13:46

doing is like some people look at that

13:49

as some force and blessings to people

13:51

force and blessings upon people like some people

13:53

like I want it's my last $20

13:55

for gas and he like listen give that

13:57

last $20 of God is one of

13:59

the blessings you're not going through but if

14:01

you're not living life through full of

14:03

faith and by sight you'll look at your

14:05

bank account like I can't afford that

14:07

20 well I'm sad and but you live

14:09

in life only through faith I

14:12

think he needed everybody in that church to actually do

14:14

to understand which way he was going. But

14:16

a lot of people, I guess, there are other people looking by

14:18

sight and they're not looking by faith. So how would

14:20

it have happened? He said

14:22

the whole situation has

14:24

been misinterpreted, that he

14:26

wasn't holding people hostage. He

14:29

said that's offensive and that

14:32

that was never his intent. So

14:34

I do like, see, that's

14:36

why I rock with the pastor

14:38

of the church that I

14:40

listened to I listened to Zion

14:42

Church in DC and like

14:44

Keith battles. That's the pastor there.

14:48

And he obviously all pastors

14:50

ask for a giving

14:52

offering at some point in

14:54

time in the service,

14:56

right? But one thing I

14:58

like about him is like he makes

15:01

it clear, like, yes, give whatever

15:03

you suppose, like you said, gift, cheerfully.

15:05

But at the same time, it

15:07

does say, you know, Times are rough

15:09

right now. And if you

15:11

don't have it, this is

15:13

not, God is not asking

15:15

you to give nothing. Like

15:17

you get what I'm trying to say.

15:19

He's not asking you to, I have

15:21

absolutely nothing here. Yes, if you can

15:23

give, give, but if you cannot give,

15:25

you cannot give. And some people can't

15:28

give all the time. Maybe they give

15:30

more later. Maybe they gave more before.

15:32

And maybe this is just in this

15:34

time. They don't have it to give.

15:36

And he says, if you don't have

15:38

it to give, no, like that's not,

15:40

we don't want that. If anything, you

15:42

do the person, we probably looking to

15:44

bless. You know what I

15:46

mean? And I rock with that more

15:48

than. forcing people like it kind of

15:50

reminds me of the housewives. They just

15:52

did an episode and they did like

15:54

a fundraiser. And it's

15:56

not my girl Kelly is on

15:58

the housewives of Elena. I love her

16:01

rock with her, but I think

16:03

she was wrong because she kind of

16:05

press one of the girls and

16:07

was like, well, everybody bought something but

16:09

you. And I'm like, damn, you

16:11

like it's like, what if she really

16:13

didn't happen? But

16:16

if she really ain't have it, but

16:18

she was trying to support her, you

16:20

know what I mean? Like you don't

16:22

really know what people go through. So

16:25

like when it comes to like monetary

16:27

things, I always get uncomfortable anywhere, but

16:29

I'll try not to judge people. Or

16:32

you'd like to get them there? I don't

16:34

think that this one. Yeah, not on this one.

16:36

I think that, like I said, it's different

16:38

ways to do everything. You have to

16:40

be in a certain place in your life with God

16:42

to understand where he was coming from. You see what

16:44

I'm saying? It's like, And the

16:46

Bible says that the rich man gave a

16:48

little bit, he gave more than a poor man,

16:50

but that two pennies meant more than God, that

16:53

he gave his last, meant more than

16:55

God than the rich man gave all them.

16:59

I'm saying, so if you enter the word

17:01

and enter that, and you'd be like,

17:03

you know what, I can't be God giving

17:05

and stuff like that. And then it's - Yeah,

17:07

but see, my class is talking about, if you

17:09

got the $20 to feed your kids tonight,

17:11

and that's your only 20, I'm not gonna ask

17:13

you. to give me that $20 and you

17:15

got babies crying in the house. So

17:17

that... In faith, if you

17:19

give unto God, into God,

17:22

before you walk out that church, somebody

17:24

probably gonna drop $500 in your pocket.

17:26

Maybe, and that is by faith, but

17:28

at the end of the day, I

17:30

pastor would not have taken that $20.

17:33

He would have been like, these people

17:35

need to focus on feeding their kids

17:37

when you give, when you could give.

17:39

You can't force people to give. That's

17:41

just... There was people

17:43

in there that probably ain't have $3, let

17:45

alone 20. How you gonna give what

17:47

you don't got? You

17:49

can't give what you don't got. If

17:51

you're telling everybody they gotta give $20 before

17:53

you, ain't no faith if you ain't

17:55

got $20 to give. If you got $2

17:58

in your pocket and they ask it

18:00

for 20. Except

18:03

for the things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.

18:05

Now, if you went up there with that $2, you

18:07

might have somebody who just like, hey, put this up

18:09

there for me and hit go 18 more dollars. You

18:11

just don't even know. Yeah, but there was more. I

18:13

promise you, there was more than one person in that

18:16

church that didn't have 20 out. I

18:19

just think it's wrong. You give people, give

18:21

how they how they supposed to give. You believe

18:23

that you're going to give. There

18:25

you go. But you got you

18:27

got money in your bank account, right?

18:29

Did you give every single dollar

18:31

to God? No. You

18:34

don't have to feed your children. You still

18:36

have to. He doesn't want you

18:38

to, that's why 10%, he don't want you to

18:40

give all your money to, that's not what

18:42

it is, you still gotta take care of yourself.

18:46

Now what you, like I said, you guys gotta

18:48

be in a certain time in your life and

18:50

certain place in your life with God to understand

18:52

that fully and completely. Like I said,

18:54

there's definitely ways to do it. Other pastors

18:56

said, you know, we don't do

18:58

that here. We don't have to do that here.

19:00

We want charitable givers, what you get from

19:02

your heart. And if you there with God and

19:04

be like, you know what? God, I just

19:06

got this blanket. I'm asking for a blessing. I'm

19:08

gonna give up everything today. That's on you.

19:10

And everybody got their own personal relationship with God.

19:13

Right, but you can't force that out of

19:15

them. No, no, of

19:17

course. That's one, two. Not everybody is a

19:19

member of that church. Some people just

19:21

came as a visitor. Okay, maybe people,

19:23

somebody came because they down bad and

19:25

just the baddest they ever been down. And

19:27

they just coming in there for the

19:29

first time and you talking about, give us

19:31

your $20. Give me that. Yeah. It's

19:35

my first time at church. I ain't even

19:37

you get what I'm saying. That's how I'm saying

19:39

the whole thing as a whole and him

19:41

understanding that he should have never it was to

19:43

close the doors for me. And I know

19:46

this is like a old school approach. They used

19:48

to do that back in the day. But

19:50

like what's the blessings for

19:52

you? Yeah, to be honest

19:54

with you, I send my

19:56

offering in electronically. OK, so

19:58

I'm a bedside Baptist, but

20:00

I still sending my offerings.

20:02

But. Like I said, you

20:05

don't hold nobody in the

20:07

church to do it, to

20:09

get it. God

20:11

ain't never tell you to do that. I ain't see

20:13

that in the Bible. way. Hold

20:15

nobody down, hold nobody accountable for what they're

20:17

going to do. Like I said, everybody got their

20:19

own journey. But I could be a little

20:21

biased because I'm a pastor son and I understand

20:23

what actually goes into it. I know the

20:26

bills got to be paid, the electricity being on,

20:28

paying other people electricity bills, they're rent. their

20:30

food when their kids can't eat. The

20:33

church actually do a lot for the community.

20:35

Yeah, they do. Certain churches. Yes,

20:37

other people do still. I'm a thousand percent

20:39

with you. But hopefully we all pick the

20:42

right church to go to and dwell in

20:44

that congregation when you know that this is

20:46

the right place. You know they got there.

20:48

But like I said, some people was visiting

20:50

that day. You get what I'm saying?

20:52

I ain't know this was the wrong church. I

20:54

ain't know we was going to get held hostage

20:56

today. I would

20:58

have came next Sunday. But

21:02

you know what? You use a big

21:04

name like him, too. I think automatically they

21:06

look at it like, oh, you getting

21:09

to see him for free. You

21:11

getting it, you know, like. And

21:14

I promise you, he got $40 ,000.

21:17

Yeah. And it would have helped to also say,

21:19

you know what? This offer right here is

21:21

going to. So and so, you know what I'm

21:23

saying? So give give Charlie give with your

21:26

heart and you might get some people to go

21:28

and get more than $20. That's what I'm

21:30

saying. So just I agree. It might be somebody

21:32

in the church that could have paid that

21:34

whole 40. But

21:37

they might not have liked the way he asked

21:39

for it. Why am I turning all this color? Yeah,

21:42

exactly. He's like, listen, we got 10

21:44

women in here that is right now down.

21:46

Nothing can't feed. They just lost their

21:48

houses. We already got them. Let's let's church.

21:51

Let's put off and for them. Let's

21:53

give it off from these 10 ladies that's

21:55

up here on the thing like when

21:57

you're doing stuff like that people don't not

21:59

gonna think it's going in your pocket

22:01

people looking at him like you're trying to

22:03

grab That's what it looks like I'm

22:05

sorry because it's like I don't even believe

22:08

that was his church He actually say

22:10

he got rid of not with his church

22:12

events somebody else passes church so he's

22:14

going towards and stuff like yeah, this I'm

22:16

saying so you gonna pull up and

22:18

try to press us before You

22:23

got a thousand online. They got

22:25

a thousand these seats. It's quick

22:27

math, too. No, that's even

22:29

that's what makes this area, though,

22:31

when he did that, though. I'm like,

22:33

hold on. I know he ain't

22:35

break down. How many. All

22:39

right, man, make it nice and easy

22:41

for you to swallow. You know what I'm

22:43

saying? That's

22:45

what passes before. You know what

22:47

I'm saying? You're that good word. Let

22:49

me get that. You gotta be

22:51

able to make somebody talk me into

22:53

what I'm supposed to be doing.

22:55

That's what I like. Talk me into

22:57

what I'm supposed to be doing.

22:59

Don't hostage me. Yeah,

23:02

talk me into what I'm supposed to

23:04

be doing. But you ain't gonna lock me

23:06

down. You can't tell somebody you're not

23:08

gonna have a story. No more. No, that's

23:10

not how you teach somebody. That's

23:13

not how you teach somebody. You don't chop

23:15

David JJ off. That's not. You got to

23:17

tell them why. You

23:20

have sexy for marriage guys, but there's

23:22

so many things and I'm still sneaking

23:25

but I'm not married. So I'm still

23:27

my mom. You are speaking. I'm

23:30

sneaking. Do your mother know you have

23:32

sex? No way.

23:34

These babies just popped

23:36

out with this sort. I

23:39

listen, I always scream blood test, blood

23:41

test, blood test. No reason. I don't

23:43

I wasn't there, but I don't know

23:45

what they talking about. They just like

23:47

me. You know what saying? But, you

23:49

know, sin is a sin. And

23:52

I don't think that he was trying to, you

23:54

know, you got to be somewhere with God in

23:56

your life to accept anything, you know I'm saying, in

23:58

life. Do you have some people in the

24:00

streets just talking to you? You might get offensive of

24:02

it. But look what the words say. It might be

24:04

a test. His whole world is

24:07

a test. His whole thing is a rehearsal. So

24:09

if you in it and that's that direction with God,

24:12

you understand what you're saying. So that,

24:14

you know, a lot of times pastors every

24:17

wording for everybody anyway when

24:19

people preach it. Yes, I don't

24:21

try to hold 2 ,000 people

24:23

hostage and make the same

24:25

word. They

24:28

might have listened to that four weeks from now and

24:30

be like, damn, I get what he was saying. Let

24:32

me give him that 20. But that's,

24:35

that's in a time though. You

24:37

can't, you know what I mean? Let's

24:40

get into another word and that's

24:43

helping some people with some advice. Get

24:45

into that good advice, that advice. So

24:49

if the people want to reach out to

24:51

us, twerk. Yeah, it's

24:53

good, everybody. So y 'all can send us an

24:55

email at the billion of these podcasts at gmail

24:57

.com or you can send us a DM at

25:00

billion of these podcasts on IG. Yeah.

25:04

Yeah. So we're going to get straight into it.

25:07

What's up, Wax and L 'Oreal? I really

25:09

need your advice. I've been talking to

25:11

this girl for about two months now

25:13

and she's amazing in every way. Smart,

25:15

driven, funny, you name it. I was

25:17

just about to ask her to be

25:19

my girlfriend, but here's the thing. On

25:22

our third date, we went back to

25:24

her place and I let her know

25:26

I am a virgin. She

25:28

was totally cool with it, but then

25:30

I asked her how many guys she's been

25:32

with and she said, uh, 28. I'm

25:35

not trying to judge her, but

25:37

that really shocked me. She's only

25:40

20. I'm also 20. And she

25:42

comes off like the type who's

25:44

all about her studies. She's the

25:46

top of her class, school captain.

25:48

And now she's even in med school. The

25:50

thought that she's been with so many

25:52

guys in just a few years is messing

25:54

with my head. I really like her,

25:56

but I can't shake the feeling that I'm

25:58

just another number to her. I keep picturing

26:01

all the guys she's been with whenever

26:03

I'm in bed with her. Do you think

26:05

I could get over this and move

26:07

forward? Or is this going to keep lurking

26:09

in the back of my mind forever? I

26:11

love your honest take. Please help me out.

26:13

Well, help me out really quickly, guys. He

26:17

slept with her. Yeah, of

26:20

course. You know what saying? He want to be

26:22

number 29. And I'm saying, I don't mind that young

26:24

man. She actually do need her because she's going

26:26

to teach you in a lot of moves. She had

26:28

28 guys, so she know a little bit more.

26:30

She's to help you for your next woman. It's probably

26:32

not going to be the one that you actually

26:34

meet because you're probably never going to stop thinking about

26:36

that. The account is more hired.

26:38

Every man wants his account more than

26:40

his girl, please. But we

26:42

can't blame her because girls can't

26:44

beat their meat. They can't

26:46

discipline their self to you know.

26:50

to have their pussy be disciplined. We

26:52

could beat our meat. After we

26:54

beat our meat and we broke

26:56

discipline. That shit ain't going nowhere. It's going

26:58

to save us a bunch of money. But then

27:00

you can't just be playing with their stuff. It's like

27:03

that's going to make them more horny. They're going

27:05

to want more things. So, you know, I think that

27:07

you can't blame her. You just got to sit

27:09

there and take it. Learn the

27:11

lesson. Learn how to fuck. Because

27:13

I think she could be able to teach you

27:15

with 28 guys. She can definitely, definitely teach you

27:17

something. No, she got her whole face out the

27:19

way. Yeah,

27:22

but 28 is still, you know, whole phase is

27:24

just having more than one penis a year for

27:26

maybe two years. You know I'm saying? So that's

27:28

four guys. 28

27:30

guys. Jesus Christ. How

27:32

old is she? She's 20. They're

27:34

20. You

27:37

know what? I like that she was

27:39

honest. She didn't even have to tell you.

27:42

She told you the truth. That means.

27:44

No, that means she's an honest girl

27:46

and like that I like about her

27:48

because she could have made it up.

27:50

She could have lied, but it seems

27:52

as though she told him the truth,

27:54

which to me that shows that she

27:56

really likes him. She also knows how

27:58

to focus on goals and sticks to

28:00

them. So if she decides that she

28:02

wants to be with you, I'm pretty

28:05

sure she won't cheat on you. She

28:07

seems like. Listen, you're going to have

28:09

to learn how to get some confidence

28:11

in yourself and not worry about other

28:13

men. And I mean, you can

28:15

listen to waxes route and I get

28:17

it. Like some men don't want a

28:19

woman that's been with other guys. But

28:21

at the end of the day, it's

28:23

like she is it could be a

28:25

better woman for you. You're thinking about

28:27

her past instead of somebody that. best

28:30

fit for you. It shouldn't don't let

28:32

like somebody's past the things that happen

28:34

before you jeopardize like your future. See

28:36

how she acts with you. Now if

28:38

she's outside throwing herself at other men,

28:40

then she's probably not done fucking around.

28:42

She's probably likes attention from men or

28:45

whatever the case. But if she's all

28:47

into you and everything is about you

28:49

and she treats you good, the fact

28:51

that you're nothing to worry about, the

28:53

fact that you're thinking about other men

28:55

is crazy. Unless she's

28:57

entertaining other men. And

29:00

put 28 is like,

29:03

you know, it's like, you know, girls make bad

29:05

decisions all time. Have you slept with 28

29:07

women? Me?

29:10

Of course not. That's a

29:12

lot. That's a lot

29:14

of. You slept with way more than

29:16

28 women in your life. Who's

29:20

Helen? You see what I'm

29:22

saying? Exactly. Even worse. But

29:24

you know, it's

29:26

like. Again with this bottle of water right

29:28

here all these men touched if I you

29:30

asked me to get that bottle of water

29:32

from across the room and it touched 10

29:34

people You were still drinking but let one

29:36

person put their finger in it You see

29:38

you But

29:42

this is what we have

29:44

to deal with a man

29:51

Just put that finger in the hand of the car. Well,

29:55

the difference is you can't clean that

29:57

water after that. You

29:59

could clean a lot of girls don't know how to

30:01

they don't know how to clean that pussy. They not.

30:03

Well, then you shouldn't be with a girl that doesn't

30:05

know how to clean her pussy. That's

30:07

that's a problem, especially for who really knows until

30:09

you go into the to the restaurant and

30:12

go in the back. Like you want to sit

30:14

down there every time you want to clean

30:16

your hands, thinking that your hands are the dirtiest

30:18

thing out there. Well, you should definitely go

30:20

in the back of the restaurant before you choose

30:22

to buy it. Yeah,

30:25

that's what exactly I'll eat at restaurants

30:27

no more, because I know how it is

30:29

back there. And even girls, if you

30:31

know how to actually clean yourself and what

30:33

they actually deal with their pussy, bro,

30:35

you won't even do it. Men care about

30:37

women's past. Women care about men's future.

30:39

If you know that this man is about to be

30:41

a fucking bum for the rest of his life, you

30:43

don't you don't want to be with him. But men

30:45

care about women's past. If she was not so good

30:47

in her past, it's like, and

30:49

that's just really balancing out. Everything in

30:52

life needs a balance. And you

30:54

know what? That could be his loss,

30:56

Wax. That could just be his

30:58

loss because just because a woman doesn't

31:00

have experienced past doesn't make her

31:02

a good girl or the right one.

31:04

That just makes you insecure because

31:06

you can't stop thinking about other people.

31:09

If I'm thinking about the future, I'm

31:12

not thinking about the future with

31:14

him with several other women. I'm

31:16

thinking about our future together if I'm

31:18

thinking about that man. And if I'm thinking

31:20

about anything from his past, is that

31:22

I want him to be better than his

31:24

past. And when he's with me. That's

31:26

for sure. So as long as I'm a

31:28

better woman than I was before I

31:30

was with this man, then he should, and

31:32

I'm a good woman to him. That's

31:34

all that should matter, because if that's the

31:37

case, then I'm not going to have

31:39

a man either. Like if I'm her. Yeah.

31:44

And I believe that again, I wish. Because

31:46

I had fingers in my water bottle as

31:48

well. Yeah. But

31:51

my water is clean and I know how

31:53

to clean my water. OK. So

31:55

that's not the difference but like i

31:57

said i wish men understood that you know

31:59

the woman past is not whatever because

32:01

y 'all do it but i tell you

32:03

that's the reason why we care about your

32:05

past how many people put their finger

32:07

in this water and i gotta drink it

32:09

you see what i'm saying If you're

32:12

my wife and we doing all type of

32:14

everything, it's like, but now you're thinking

32:16

about how many meeks actually touched thing. If

32:18

that's all you're thinking about when marrying

32:20

a person, that's pathetic. Like, I don't want

32:22

to just think about sex when I'm

32:24

thinking about marrying a person. Like, all the

32:26

things he said about her is good

32:28

attributes. The only thing that is not as

32:30

positive. So it's kind of like giving

32:32

up. 80 % for 20. It's like this

32:34

girl has a good head on her shoulder.

32:36

She's at the top of her class.

32:38

She's going to med school. That means that

32:40

she's going to raise your kids just

32:42

as well, because she's bright. She's going to

32:44

make sure they have a bright future.

32:46

And y 'all will always be good, even

32:48

if you decide to be a bum, because

32:50

she is going to be a doctor

32:52

or a nurse or whatever the fuck she's

32:54

doing in her medical field. Like

32:57

she's, she's succeed. And

32:59

she got you. So clearly

33:02

she got some kind of charisma. Hi,

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34:32

you know what I'm saying, Lorielle? No.

34:34

So push like this. You know how

34:36

much that, real fast, you know how much that chicken

34:38

is going to be great for you, is probably going to

34:40

taste good, is going to be

34:42

nutritious for your body. But if you're going

34:44

at back of that restaurant and see that

34:47

chicken was on the floor, they

34:49

probably cleaned it. But are you going to still

34:51

buy that chicken or want that chicken after you

34:53

know that chicken was on the floor? And it's

34:55

going to a good thing? You know with that

34:57

chicken digested before it even got to you, you

34:59

can't fucking, and what the other

35:01

bitch be for, whatever the fuck

35:03

else you're going to do, like, that's

35:05

just life. You just have to,

35:07

like, accept people for who they are

35:09

or don't. Like, you can get

35:11

a virgin that's boring, that's broke, that

35:13

don't never motivate you, that makes

35:15

you miserable, that you only touched you.

35:17

Or you can have a woman

35:19

that... the woman of your dreams and

35:21

you're just more concerned about the

35:23

guys that she dated. Like that.

35:25

You know what? She should probably go back

35:27

to one of them because clearly you're not man

35:29

enough for her. Boop. Now

35:31

let's move on. Especially

35:36

because she kept it all the way.

35:38

You call her smart driven. You said

35:40

all these positive things about her. And

35:43

then it is really. You

35:45

thinking about what other people are going to

35:47

think about it. You shouldn't even promote the

35:49

fact that she was there. I am with

35:51

that's why from now on, I never had

35:53

a. How

35:55

many men have you been with before? None. Never.

36:00

Never touched a man in my life. And

36:03

if one sees me, I'm walking past

36:05

him. I never

36:07

touched a man. Back. Back.

36:11

Thank you, Loria. That's like getting

36:13

married to be a liar. I

36:15

just make sure the numbers don't. So

36:19

lie it's being a liar because

36:21

if you really don't know the exact

36:23

number you you can't say you

36:25

gotta say zero because you don't know

36:27

I Don't want to lie to

36:29

be one though. It could be zero

36:31

or five hundred But if you

36:33

really don't know the exact number you

36:36

you really can't say it could

36:38

be zero because you don't know I'm

36:40

not gonna lie. I don't the

36:42

only ex I had passed away Let's

36:44

move on more to okay Now,

36:47

we got another email, you

36:49

know what to do. If you want

36:51

to reach out to us, twerk, let them

36:53

know again what they should do. Yeah,

36:55

man. Email us. The

36:57

Bullying the Beast podcast at gmail .com or hit us

36:59

up on Instagram. Bullying the

37:01

Beast podcast. No, though. Appreciate it. I

37:04

do want to know really quickly,

37:06

though. What did you think, twerk, about

37:08

the last the last person I

37:10

wrote in? That.

37:15

There are too many bodies. Yeah, I don't ask questions. I

37:17

don't want to know the answers to So I would never

37:19

know if you have a million bodies and I'll never know

37:21

that's a dumb question to ask I don't give a damn

37:23

if it's one body because I don't as soon as I

37:26

find out Who was it? Do I know this person? Is

37:28

anybody in this building one of the people you fuck? So

37:30

I don't ask I'm going in this building.

37:32

What the fuck it I don't know in

37:34

the park But yeah, I'd rather just not

37:36

know you could keep that you better have

37:39

a car effect. We have

37:44

is buy a car without even knowing nothing

37:46

about it. Good job. No,

37:48

I'm with you. No, but you just said

37:50

to lie even about the number. And I'm

37:52

telling you that the more I think about

37:54

it and the older I've gotten in life,

37:56

I don't want to let people know about

37:58

my past relationships. No, I

38:01

don't have a past relationship. Nothing

38:03

that bothers me. Like I thought about

38:05

it the other day because I

38:08

was about to not say open up

38:10

because that's not even the right

38:12

word, but I guess kind of. Like

38:14

I was talking to this guy

38:16

and I almost spoke on like past

38:18

relationship, like the abusive one. And

38:20

like I almost spoke on it. And

38:22

I was like, the

38:24

fuck I'm not telling this nigga that. What, to

38:27

make him think that he could beat by us?

38:29

No. Like Tim, you don't

38:31

tell. I'm like not talking about nothing at

38:33

all, any bad thing that happened before. So

38:35

this nigga thing, he could get away with

38:37

it. And like, that's what we on. Nigga,

38:39

I'm not on none of that shit. If

38:41

you put if a nigga put his hands

38:43

on me today. Totally

38:47

different than when I was the

38:49

age I was when it went through

38:51

it before. Like it's totally there.

38:53

I'm a totally different person. So it's

38:55

like that's not happening. So I'm

38:58

like, why even bring it up? Like

39:00

why even it's just let's just

39:02

talk about me and you. I don't

39:04

want to talk about nothing. Thank

39:06

you. See. Except

39:09

unless you doing something behind my

39:11

back on the side type shit. Now

39:13

I want to talk about what's

39:15

going on now though. You know it.

39:20

Because niggas are trying to do some sneaky shit. Like, oh,

39:22

you said you only want to talk about me and you.

39:24

So I tell you about my wife. Like, nah, nigga. But

39:27

I think I always, I used to always, if

39:30

I didn't want to deal with a girl too

39:32

long is like, I want her to tell me

39:34

everything the dude did for her to leave him.

39:36

And now I know exactly what the duty is

39:38

for her to leave me too. Or you know

39:40

what you can get away with, just both sides.

39:43

Thank you. Because

39:46

I'm not going to lie, I do that to

39:48

Niggas too. I do that to

39:50

Niggas too. Like if a nigga be like, yeah, because you

39:52

know that she cheated on me, I'm like, oh, this

39:54

nigga got a little dick. what

40:00

that means. But I be

40:02

thinking, I promise you, like if a nigga

40:04

tells me, like if he's telling me a

40:06

story, he's like, yeah, me and my ex

40:08

didn't work out. And if I'd be like,

40:10

why? And he'd be like, cause she cheated

40:12

on me. The first thing I think is

40:14

this nigga is whacking bad. Yeah,

40:17

I could hear that. Let's see that.

40:19

Because if you was the faithful one

40:21

the whole time and she cheated on

40:23

you, because it'd be one thing if

40:26

it was just like a get back.

40:28

Cause a get back me, you cheated

40:30

on her and she cheated back. That's

40:32

what I do. Like I'm a cheat

40:34

back kind of person like I said

40:36

I've never been faithful to any of

40:38

my Boyfriends, but it's because they had

40:40

cheated and I cheated and then I'm

40:42

like, yeah, fuck you nigga. You don't

40:44

know this, but I'm still fucking with

40:47

you What I said, I don't care

40:49

Well, he shouldn't have cheated on me.

40:51

He wouldn't know I got cheated on. I don't feel bad So

40:54

never crash your car because we

40:56

have a car that could be crashed.

40:58

I didn't crash my car. I

41:00

gave somebody a ride. No.

41:05

All girls don't listen to this.

41:07

All young girls listen to this. Beep

41:11

beep in his car. Don't

41:13

play with me, bitch. And

41:16

here we go, though. If I

41:18

got to that level, it's because

41:20

the level of disrespect with this

41:22

nigga was far beyond to infinity

41:24

and beyond. So yes,

41:26

we laughed. Yes.

41:30

No, but he had cheated numerous times,

41:32

whatever, whatever. But I got my get

41:34

back. But anyway, we'll move on.

41:37

So. Give

41:42

us some more bite. Like

41:44

I said, man, Bullying the Beast

41:46

podcast on Instagram and the Bullying

41:48

the Beast podcast at gmail .com

41:51

via email. Period. Hey,

41:53

Bullying the Beast, I got some

41:55

real drama going on and I need y 'all

41:57

take on it, pronto. I'm

41:59

a woman in my 20s and for some reason,

42:01

the women in my life, especially the

42:04

older ones, seem to have it out

42:06

for me. They criticize

42:08

my every move, my outfits, my

42:10

attitude. And don't let them be

42:12

in a bad mood because guess who they're

42:14

taking it out on? Me. It

42:16

feels like they're always waiting for me

42:18

to slip up just so that they can

42:20

pounce. Even my mom and my aunts

42:22

can be petty, like making huge

42:24

deals out of the smallest things. Sometimes

42:27

it feels like I can't breathe

42:29

without being judged or insulted. Meanwhile,

42:31

the men treat me like I

42:33

actually matter. They're more laid back.

42:35

They'll correct me without knocking me

42:37

down, and I can make mistakes

42:39

without getting my self -esteem shredded. My

42:42

dad, he's a total sweetheart to

42:44

me. My uncles, a breeze to talk

42:46

to. It's night and day compared

42:48

to the women and how they act

42:51

around me. I'm at my

42:53

wit's end here because I don't understand why this is

42:55

happening. Are these women just being

42:57

petty, or is there something about me

42:59

that sets them off? Why do they seem

43:01

to resent me so much? I'd love

43:03

any advice you could give. to help me

43:05

deal with all this shady behavior. I'm

43:07

ready to stop feeling like a target. Help.

43:09

Thank you in advance. I appreciate all

43:11

you do. It's

43:15

a two -sided poem. Wait,

43:17

wait, wait. What did you say to

43:19

her? I said it's giving Joy Taylor.

43:21

That's what I'm picturing in my head,

43:24

like writing this email. Joy

43:26

Taylor again? Girl, that was with

43:28

a skit bail list from the

43:30

Fox Sports Network. I was sleeping

43:32

around with the whole company was

43:34

Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

43:36

Okay. Would you say what? Yeah,

43:39

it's like the two -sided coin is like, you know

43:41

how many people wish they had somebody to help

43:43

guide them and strengthen them? These women are just showing

43:45

you all the mistakes that they made and they

43:47

don't want you to make it. The men going to

43:49

do that. You know I'm saying? When I'm with

43:51

my niece and stuff comes to me, you know, I

43:54

mean, I'll talk to my sister's heart more hard.

43:56

Like, what the fuck going on? But I want to

43:58

talk to my niece is like. Yeah, Uncle Wax,

44:00

you understand. And you know what mean? But I'll be

44:02

on my sister's heels about, yo, I need to

44:04

go and talk to these girls and make sure they

44:06

don't point. But the boys be fucked. These motherfuckers

44:08

up on nephews and stuff get fucked up. So you

44:10

got to understand what the uncles and stuff probably

44:12

doing to the boys and what the moms and stuff

44:14

is doing. That's right. I want you to make

44:17

mistakes. Yeah, they probably was a

44:19

baby in her. The men are baby in

44:21

her. They are. But to be

44:23

supposed to because we think that the woman is

44:25

doing their job. The women want them. They got

44:27

to be bad. Good cop. And the boys get

44:29

baby by the women. There

44:31

you go. They can go to the woman and

44:33

the dude's like, I ain't giving no fucking money. You

44:35

can go to mommy and get a $10 real

44:37

quick. My father never gave me

44:39

no brain. Not giving no fucking bread, bro.

44:42

I knew my mom would go look me out and hook

44:44

me up. You know I'm saying? But my sister's the

44:46

same thing. My mom, like, you know, the

44:48

girls ain't getting no too much from the woman. You

44:50

know I'm saying? The girls get everything from the brothers

44:52

and men. The girls just take it. I got money,

44:54

if I'm bringing my money out or whatever, my sister

44:57

just take the money and I can't do nothing about

44:59

it. That's just what it is. You know what I'm

45:01

saying? But let it be the opposite. Let one of

45:03

my nephews and them grab my money of my hand

45:05

and, you know what the fuck I'm gonna do

45:07

to you, boy? So it's a balance

45:09

and I think that's actually love. You got

45:11

some love in it. You know,

45:13

just work on some of the things that

45:15

they do or that they think they see and

45:18

that they keep criticizing. Look at

45:20

it as a fuel. Don't fight it. You

45:22

know I'm saying? Just try to get better.

45:24

See what they're talking about. Try to improve

45:26

in those areas. And I think that you'll

45:28

find yourself being a better woman because I

45:30

know certain people say certain things in my

45:32

life when I was young. I understand it.

45:34

But as I'm going through life, I understand

45:37

exactly. And I see myself saying what my

45:39

dad used to say to me. You

45:41

see what I'm saying? So I think

45:43

it's love attached to that. It's

45:45

definitely love attached to that. But

45:47

I just feel like sometimes young

45:49

women that are in their 20s,

45:51

You feel like you know everything.

45:54

When I was in my 20s,

45:56

early 20s, I felt like I

45:58

knew everything and nobody couldn't tell

46:00

me anything. And like, especially because

46:02

I was getting money. I

46:04

was on television. Like

46:06

there was like people would talk to

46:08

me and don't get it fucked up.

46:10

The right people could get through to

46:12

me because I've never I'm always been

46:14

the same now. I've always been the

46:16

same. But like the right people, even

46:18

to this day, the right people could

46:20

get through to me. But like, I

46:22

don't listen to everybody. So what I

46:24

would notice with a lot of the

46:26

young ladies these days is they don't

46:28

want to embrace and take in what

46:30

the older people are saying to them.

46:32

And they do meet it sometimes with

46:34

a little sass, like, I know what

46:36

I'm doing. And then when you

46:38

get to be in your 30s, then

46:40

you start to be like, oh, shit, they

46:42

was only trying to help me out.

46:45

But I was I was being defensive and

46:47

on the defense. Don't get it fucked

46:49

up. There are some families that are a

46:51

little weird and you beat a cute

46:53

one in the family. So the women be

46:55

a little jealous. That has happened as

46:57

well. But what you're saying is your whole

46:59

family is giving you might have a

47:01

little sassy attitude and you think you know

47:03

better than the rest of the family. And

47:06

you don't do that. And

47:08

you don't. OK. It might seem like

47:10

you. You see. Yeah, you'll see when

47:12

you get older, but like, just embrace

47:14

them because for real, like, some people

47:16

have no one. Some people don't have

47:18

a village around them and they wish

47:21

that they had an aunt that'd be

47:23

like, ah, I know you're gaining a

47:25

couple pounds, or we're a little boyfriend

47:27

at. You know, you put that shirt

47:29

on. Thank you. It's

47:31

only because they love you. They fucking with

47:33

you because they love you. You know what

47:35

I mean? Like I said, if it was

47:37

one person hating on you, it might be

47:39

because cute. But when you say the whole

47:41

family's kind of like this, my family, I'm

47:43

kind of like this. You know that with

47:45

my nieces. Like I'll be kind of hard

47:47

on them, but that's because I know that

47:49

this shit ain't easy out here. So it's

47:51

like from me, you go and get it.

47:53

And if anything, I'm the one that's going

47:56

to understand more than everybody else because I'm

47:58

outside. You know what I mean? Like

48:00

nobody else in my family ain't outside like me

48:02

like they would be. You get what I'm trying

48:04

to say? So I'm like, if anybody going to

48:06

be able to talk, if you

48:08

talk about tough love, this while in a

48:10

way I'm kind of scared to have kids

48:12

because I give tough love. And

48:14

like all of my nieces I've had

48:16

issues with at a point in time

48:18

and almost no, all of them have

48:20

come to me later on in life

48:22

and basically was like, you know, Thank

48:24

you for being that time. I thought

48:26

you were being hard just on me.

48:28

But now if I get with you,

48:30

you really wanted me to be something. Like,

48:33

thank you. But it takes a while.

48:35

Like, I still, I think I'm still working

48:37

on one right now. Like, you know,

48:39

and it does, it's hard. No,

48:41

it's hard. It's hard because she

48:44

feels like she know better and

48:46

because she's kind of an adult,

48:48

but I'm the real adult. And

48:51

I'm still not a full adult. That's

48:54

how I know that little bitch ain't an adult

48:56

because I'm still trying to figure it out. No,

48:59

for real. No, you gotta

49:01

let them pour into you. You know what I

49:03

mean? And if it's too

49:05

much, pull one to the side that

49:07

you care about the most and be like, you

49:09

know, sometimes I hurt my feelings because they're not. Trust

49:12

me, that'll melt them and they'll stop.

49:15

But you just gotta be real with them.

49:17

If it's that harsh, if it's that harsh. You

49:21

put them on the side. They'll be

49:23

a little as if they know this is

49:25

what she did. She's like, girl, you'd be

49:27

out here with these things. You ain't coming

49:29

home to three, four o 'clock in the

49:31

morning doing this type of shit now. Fuck

49:33

you. Yes, but like I said, that's

49:35

why you go to the one that's closest to

49:37

you. If you be like, listen, I know that

49:39

I might not be living how I want, but

49:41

it really does hurt my feelings. Like pouring to

49:44

me a different kind of way because it's not,

49:46

that's not helping. Like that's why I'm saying, talk

49:48

to the person you're the closest way out of

49:50

the circle, the Dandada, because that's usually

49:52

the one. Get to everybody. Yeah. That's usually

49:54

the one and you got to let them know

49:56

if this is really truly hurting your feelings

49:58

or if you're just being sensitive thinking they supposed

50:00

to baby you like the niggas. No,

50:03

don't do it daddy little girl

50:06

not you get I'm saying not

50:08

mama Mama supposed to turn him

50:10

into a woman. Yeah, there

50:12

you go Daddy's supposed to get them boys

50:14

in straight because I'm boys even act like

50:16

or try what you motherfucking I'm on your

50:18

heels, but it's all tough love for all

50:20

my nephews call me if anything really wild

50:22

going on They call the uncle wax first,

50:24

you know I'm saying like of course you

50:26

the uncle wax got me regardless of what

50:28

I don't care if they had a fucking

50:30

side of the road they draw going to

50:32

cops in the case of them, they going

50:34

to call Uncle Wax first. You see, they

50:36

know to call me last because I'm going

50:38

to kill their ass. You

50:40

know, I'm going to kill their ass the whole

50:42

way home. I'm

50:44

going to kill you if you do that.

50:47

Now, I'm really the one they

50:49

call last. I'm the you, you

50:51

the fun uncle. I'm the motherfucking

50:53

that they like, oh, we do

50:55

not want to call auntie. That

50:57

is me. That's me. No,

51:00

see, the boys probably want to be the

51:02

last. But the girls is gonna be

51:04

like, yo, I'm Uncle Rex. No, yeah, yeah,

51:06

yeah, okay. I'm like, yell at me

51:08

and stuff like that. I ain't gonna hold

51:10

you. I'm tough the boys. tough on

51:12

the boys and the girls. I'm

51:14

a beast. Yeah,

51:16

it's different over here, though, because I

51:18

feel like everybody beats so nice. not

51:21

too soft on the girls either. You

51:23

can't be because it all depends on now.

51:25

If my sister was so hard on them,

51:27

I could tone it down a little bit.

51:29

It all depends on the situation and How

51:31

soft I see them on it. You know

51:33

what I'm saying? They soft over this motherfucker.

51:37

They soft over this bitch. So

51:39

I'm the one that come in like,

51:41

what the fuck? No. No.

51:44

This is what we doing. This

51:47

is what we doing or everybody

51:49

could not. I'm the type of

51:51

person that will threaten not to

51:53

speak to the whole family if

51:55

you don't do the shit. Y

51:58

'all will never see me again. OK,

52:04

all right. You got to be a leader, be leader.

52:07

So yeah, so make sure make

52:09

sure you talk to your family,

52:11

love on your family. Some people

52:13

ain't got that family and they

52:15

wish that, you know, they wish

52:17

that they can have somebody ride

52:19

them like that. Yes.

52:21

OK, let's get into some black

52:23

excellence and celebrate some folks. We

52:25

got. Oh,

52:27

yes. We got to

52:29

talk about Jersey native

52:31

Senator Cory Booker. He

52:33

made history. Yes.

52:36

Breaking the record for the

52:38

longest speech on the Senate

52:40

floor. He spoke for 25

52:42

hours straight. And I'm

52:44

talking about he did not

52:47

stop to pee, eat nothing, drink.

52:50

He 25. I

52:52

feel like that's me sometimes. Look,

52:54

I feel like how many times I'm

52:56

thinking parted though. None.

52:58

He didn't eat. Wow,

53:03

that's how the body works. He

53:05

like trains his body. I looked

53:07

it up because I was like, can

53:09

you go 24 hours? Yeah, I was like,

53:11

can you go 24 hours without PN?

53:13

And they said it's like can be deadly.

53:15

But he trained his body for months

53:17

like. So he was able to

53:19

do it. Well,

53:22

congratulations, bro. mean, wow,

53:25

you know, 24 hours of

53:27

talking. I don't know. Was

53:29

he in front of 25

53:31

hours? Was

53:33

he in front of a bunch of women because

53:35

they don't mind engaging for that long. He was

53:37

in front of the Senate asshole. And

53:39

then they like ask him questions. Like

53:41

the only time he gets a break

53:43

is if someone else asks a question.

53:45

So that's the only time he's allowed

53:48

to stop talking, but it's still considered

53:50

as part of his speech because that's

53:52

just someone asking him to respond. So.

53:56

I like Cory Booker, man. God bless

53:58

you, brother. I mean, that's. Yeah, I

54:00

changed Newark around. Yeah,

54:03

yes, he did. So in this

54:05

regards, I mean, so congratulations to him. I

54:08

can't do it. You know I'm saying? You

54:11

know, I can't. I couldn't do it. I

54:14

just don't see the motivation to do

54:16

it. Whatever motivated you do it. Thank

54:18

you. Thank God that it gave you

54:20

enough strength to be able to do

54:22

that because I know people. That's why

54:24

it's big in the news because people

54:26

ain't just doing that shit. Well, he

54:28

had to speak on things as far

54:30

for the Democratic Party. He spoke on

54:32

a lot of things from the Russia

54:34

and Ukraine war to relief and foreign

54:36

countries, U .S. aid concerns about cuts

54:38

and Medicaid. flashes to the

54:40

Social Security office. Shout out to Shade

54:42

Room for giving me a nice little

54:44

breakdown of everything. But yeah,

54:46

it's so many things that

54:49

actually affect not only us, but

54:51

like our parents. Like

54:53

people, they forget that like they

54:55

are affected by the Medicaid and

54:57

the Social Security. They already told

54:59

our stupid asses we ain't getting

55:01

nothing. So like they have

55:03

worked for that. And they, some

55:05

people depend on that, you know, they're

55:07

retired or whatever and that's fucked

55:09

up because if you work for something

55:11

and you're telling them that they're

55:14

going to get it, they they're depending

55:16

on that. So now that you're

55:18

cutting back things that you know that

55:20

it's just fucked up. So it's

55:22

like we got to protect our elderly

55:24

as well. Like we forget that

55:26

like we're going to be the elderly

55:28

one day and we're going to

55:30

want people to fight for us. They're

55:32

too old to be fighting for

55:34

themselves. They should be able to have

55:36

their health care. And like it's

55:38

just disgusting that things. that this new

55:40

administration is doing. So, let's

55:42

just... That's what Marvin Saab should

55:44

have been like. This is for all

55:46

the social people who lost their

55:48

social security. Let's go ahead and put this

55:50

in there. You know I mean? Talk them. They're building fun.

55:52

I wouldn't mind. There

55:54

you go. You got to talk in church before

55:56

you do that because... The roof button. I wouldn't

55:59

mind. Everything. My

56:01

home guys said they ain't always fixing the roof at

56:03

the church. The

56:06

A .C .U. unit always going out.

56:08

The A .C .U. unit always out. We

56:10

need new fans. The

56:13

Quiet Knee Rose show. Yes.

56:17

Come on, man. OK, but shout out to

56:19

Cory Booker for making a history. Yeah,

56:22

Price is the best nap after Price

56:24

is sleeping right now. Nah, he's definitely sleep

56:26

right now. I'm sleep for him. I'm

56:29

tired, so I know he is. And we're

56:31

going to get into where in the

56:33

world is Wax. Nice.

56:35

Lord. Yeah. So this

56:37

is a segment where our listeners, do you

56:39

have me in the building the beats page

56:41

or say, yo, get your boy wax, man.

56:43

And they always send me videos. And so

56:45

wax, man, you got to let me know

56:48

what the fuck are you doing in this

56:50

video? You

56:53

see, I'm gone. That's not me for

56:55

sure. Did

56:58

I really look like who? What

57:02

are you doing?

57:06

Is that why you were

57:09

going to Vegas? Listen,

57:12

I was on my way to Vegas and the

57:14

dude kept on wild. And I said, listen, the

57:16

airplane is like a library. Don't act up in

57:18

here. I don't know. Do

57:20

you see what happened to my ferment? Only

57:23

thing they said was get your hand out my pocket

57:25

with my connections and some some shits are going off.

57:27

He was wallowing it back. So I had to yoke

57:29

his ass up and bring his ass out, man. I

57:31

did this a multiple time. Listen,

57:35

I got a lifetime with

57:37

JetBlue. I ain't got a word about ever

57:39

worrying about a fight again. They look me out. You

57:41

guys used the Garrity on the plane. Hey,

57:43

I gotta be scared. Yeah, I

57:46

think we all see what women and

57:48

children are anywhere. I think every

57:50

man should be security at all times.

57:52

No, they caught you waxed. This

57:54

is crazy. I

57:57

told everybody to put their cameras down. Who's

58:01

on drugs? Yeah. All

58:03

right, y 'all. We gonna get

58:05

out of here. Um, twerk,

58:07

let the people know where they can follow

58:09

you, find you, support you. Yo,

58:11

yeah, man. Hit me up on

58:13

Instagram, AngeloScarphone. Yo, fashion

58:15

stylist, people in the fashion

58:17

industry, clothing designers. Hit me up.

58:20

I got a new series I'm doing called $100

58:22

or less, where I have you guys. I have

58:24

a $100 budget and you guys got to get me right

58:26

for $100 or less. You guys pick a store or wherever,

58:28

and we're going to make it happen. Give me a right,

58:30

because I that. I love that. I saw one of the

58:32

episodes out there. I think I told you before. I think

58:34

that that's such a dope concept. Keep going.

58:36

I should aspire. I love it. Did you

58:38

were you talking to Judge Mathis or am

58:40

I crazy? No, I was talking to a

58:42

comedian named LeVar Walker. Oh, I

58:45

saw something that said Judge

58:47

Mathis. At the comedian

58:49

that was interviewing, he gets confused for Judge

58:51

Mathis all the time. So I just

58:53

asked about that and he was like, yeah.

58:55

That's hilarious. Okay. Well, y 'all

58:57

make sure y 'all check out twerk over

58:59

there. Wax, where can the people

59:01

follow you find you and support you? Yes

59:05

wax King W X K Y and

59:07

G, you know, that's all the clips that

59:09

we have one hand show I'm a place

59:11

to go underscore SC man book a

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trip pick a guy's trip. You know, I

59:15

got the cab in Houston. We got the

59:17

boat rides We got the four -wheeler track in

59:19

the back with the four -wheelers. You've got

59:22

the golf carts, you know Come book some

59:24

have your bachelor party here. Come have your

59:26

wedding your wedding reception like I said before

59:28

I'm still looking for fake weddings. So If

59:30

y 'all want to have, I need some promo. So if 'all

59:32

want to have a wedding back here, I got the suits,

59:34

I got the dresses, I got the ring, I got, I

59:37

get somebody to make the cake. You

59:39

know, come enjoy yourself. A lot of people don't

59:41

want to get married until they get married. So

59:43

you all know how marriage is until you get

59:45

married. So don't jump into it. Head first, put

59:47

your feet in the water a little bit. Come

59:49

on. You need to have reality shows come up

59:51

there and do that because they have plenty of

59:53

fake weddings on their show. Somehow

59:56

let me I got a great venue You know I'm

59:58

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