JIU JITSU WITH VINNIE HACKER

JIU JITSU WITH VINNIE HACKER

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this guy came up to

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me and he was like,

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what I mean because they

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don't know what you mean.

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Damn. Hey

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everyone and welcome back

1:20

to another episode of

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the comment section show

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starring me your favorite

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who cares about me

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onto the guest Today

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we have yet another

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all-star episode with the

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one the only the hilarious

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the gorgeous the stunning.

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Oh my god so many

1:42

adjectives grace Amaku I would

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love to be belated Valentine's.

1:47

Thank you. I literally posted

1:49

my Valentine pick today. I don't

1:51

know. It's about a time to

1:53

construct. It doesn't matter. Honestly, me

1:55

and Grace, we go way back. We

1:57

do. You and I. You're like

1:59

one of my first... first influencer

2:01

friends. Yeah, for real. And

2:03

boy, they be dropping like flies.

2:06

Yeah, you gotta be real careful.

2:08

That roster gets smaller every year,

2:10

huh? Don't let it be an

2:13

election year. Oh, jump down. My

2:15

phone was calling my, oh my

2:17

gosh, I say Trump, oh

2:19

lord. And it's like, sometimes

2:21

you know. Right. Sometimes I feel

2:24

like you, yeah, you get this.

2:26

Sometimes you know. but you're hoping

2:28

for the best. You're like, I

2:30

feel like I know and I hope

2:32

you prove me wrong. And then when they

2:35

don't, you're like, see I knew.

2:37

And then I also I'm like,

2:39

I'm so open-minded. I'm so pathetic

2:42

childers. I never put anybody in

2:44

a box. I wouldn't want that to

2:46

happen to me. Man, put me in

2:48

a box. I joke all the time

2:50

about how you are. One of the

2:53

funniest people I've literally ever

2:55

met but I was just

2:57

telling Dylan because I had

2:59

Dylan on earlier Yeah, I

3:01

was just telling her that

3:03

hanging out with you I

3:05

feel like what people describe

3:07

hanging out with Will Farrell's

3:09

like which is you could just never

3:11

tell if it's a bit or

3:13

if it's for real You can

3:16

never tell what will feral for

3:18

real? I should be a lyricist

3:20

I'm trying to find a new

3:22

manager right now, because I'm actually

3:24

rebranding. Okay, T, love that for

3:26

you. I decided I needed to

3:29

take my, my Gothic creator career,

3:31

seriously. You've got a really, really

3:33

fantastic job if you haven't

3:35

been taking it seriously. If

3:37

this is, you're just freeballing,

3:39

that's crazy. You're doing great.

3:41

It is. But like so

3:43

you're a comedian Right so

3:46

that was my goal. Yeah

3:48

comedy It's always been your

3:50

goal which I've known Yeah, so

3:52

even before I was a nurse So

3:54

yeah, and when I'm looking for managers

3:56

and I'm like how do I explain

3:58

to them my career? It just doesn't

4:00

make them like, I'm a creator for

4:03

the Oscars, but I also speak

4:05

for forms, but like, my views, they

4:07

come and go, you know what I'm saying?

4:09

Then there was the meet and create,

4:11

and it was just like. And it's

4:13

also one of those things where

4:16

you're an artist who fell into

4:18

making content. Yes. And that's, and

4:20

that tends to happen with a lot

4:22

of the people I've had on my show

4:24

too, who are like, they are artists

4:26

who just so happened to go viral.

4:28

No, I am a creator, but I've

4:30

also been doing this longer. Like it's,

4:32

they're just kind of working, they sometimes

4:34

work at odds, which is annoying. Yeah,

4:36

no, because like people, they're just now

4:38

trying to respect the content creators, but

4:41

for real, and even that's barely. They're

4:43

like, wait, what are you? They always

4:45

just want to know how we get

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money. I'm like, which is the least

4:49

interesting thing I think about what it

4:51

is we do. Yeah, the money is

4:53

interesting, sure, but like it's. It's the

4:55

shit we get to do that fascinates

4:58

me. I'm like, damn, you guys really

5:00

want me in there, huh? I can

5:02

get money anywhere. I get

5:04

money. I go to McDonald's, get

5:07

some money right now. Sometimes

5:09

I think to myself, I'm like, I,

5:11

you guys want me there, all right,

5:13

I mean, I'll go. Right. And then

5:16

pop out and I, and then like,

5:18

okay, so I sometimes I feel bad,

5:20

because I'm like, okay, it's

5:22

kind of imposta syndrome. They

5:25

would probably be better for

5:27

this. That is your imposter

5:29

syndrome. I could tell you that

5:31

confidently. Oh yeah. That's what that

5:33

is for you. And I sit

5:36

in it. Okay. But you are

5:38

doing, you've been doing Santa for

5:40

a while. Mm-hmm. And is Santa

5:43

what you've always wanted to do

5:45

or do you want to do

5:47

acting or porkie? Or porkie nillos

5:50

dough. Do you just want to

5:52

do both? Mm-hmm. Porkie. I yeah

5:54

I think and you know I

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always tell people like one

5:58

of the first you and I

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ever hung out was at that

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ambulance premiere. Which was also. Which

6:05

was ridiculous and we should not

6:07

have been there. They never should

6:09

have let us in there. Why

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was Walley following me? I was

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like, Walley was a huge fan

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of great. I was like, I

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was like, I was a huge

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fan of great. I was like,

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I was like, I was like,

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I'm going to take a lap

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and then you came back your

6:28

own look and you showed me

6:30

pictures that you took with it.

6:32

How long were you gone for?

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I thought you really got for

6:37

a couple minutes. That's all it

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takes, huh? For Grace, yeah, that

6:41

is. That's what I love about

6:43

you. You are like, Grace is

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one of the most fearless people

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I've ever met for many reasons.

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One of them being like, you

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truly will walk a party by

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your fucking stuff. You don't care

6:56

all. Oh, yeah. I admire you,

6:58

because I am a fucking bitch

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when it comes to stuff like

7:02

that. I tell my team all

7:04

the time, I'm like. Can I

7:06

at least bring two people? Yeah.

7:08

And they're like, no. Can I

7:10

bring one? Yeah. Okay, last answer,

7:13

three. And then they're always like,

7:15

no, you have to go alone.

7:17

I'm like, fuck. I'm not gonna

7:19

go then. Alone. But Grace doesn't

7:21

just go alone. Grace doesn't just

7:23

go alone. Grace makes friends. Like

7:25

all the famous people in the

7:27

world want to be friends with

7:30

Grace. You remind me a lot

7:32

of Teve. Tevee is the same

7:34

way. She knows. I know me

7:36

me being so judgmental as soon

7:38

as I'm I know me being

7:40

so judgmental as a friend like

7:42

all my guy friends are like

7:44

grease please give me one chance

7:47

I'm like I don't know I

7:49

know me me being so judgmental

7:51

as soon as men talk to

7:53

me but I'm like why what

7:55

do you need something from her

7:57

are you okay yeah back oh

7:59

she would hate you would hate

8:01

you She's a saebio-sexual! Hey! Wait,

8:04

back to your stand up really

8:06

quick. I'd love to know how

8:08

that's going and how you like

8:10

it. Because I'm a big scaredy

8:12

cat of stand-up. And you know

8:14

this. I think I've told you.

8:16

I've been trying to work out

8:18

to it, but I'm a big

8:21

scaredy cat. You'd be a great,

8:23

um, heckle, like, not heckler, but

8:25

like, crowd work. I think I'd

8:27

be good at crowd work too.

8:29

But I also like, I love

8:31

stand-up so much that I want

8:33

it to be like, like, that's

8:35

how most. comics are doing their

8:38

shit now. Yeah, I've seen I've

8:40

had a few. My wife. Oh

8:42

girl back to back to back

8:44

to back. Yeah. Have y'all ever

8:46

heard him actually? Do I say,

8:48

I don't know as you're supposed

8:50

to. You know, I've heard a

8:52

joke or no, it's just mostly

8:55

making fun of the audience. Okay,

8:57

good. Yeah. By an actual black

8:59

man. He wishes. Anyways, back to

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Santa. I'd love to know how

9:03

that's going for you, how you

9:05

like it. Yeah, I mean, I

9:07

like it, but like, same thing,

9:09

like being a content creator. They

9:12

don't respect you as much as

9:14

like a stand-up. And it's weird

9:16

because like people like come up

9:18

to me and like I bring

9:20

a lot of people to the

9:22

audience. Yeah, totally. But then they're

9:24

like, who are you? And I'm

9:26

like, well, if I make you

9:29

laugh. Isn't that what the job

9:31

is? Yeah, it's like at the

9:33

end of the day. You gotta

9:35

get done. Yeah, we're gonna done.

9:37

But my last show was at

9:39

the comedy store, which is love.

9:41

The most legit place if you

9:43

have an LA. Los Angeles. Came

9:45

out to the comedy store. It's

9:48

like the number one comedy club

9:50

in LA. Yeah. I was super

9:52

happy to do that. Oh, and

9:54

how to go. It was good.

9:56

I was definitely nervous. I was

9:58

stressed out. It was like the

10:00

week after the wildfires. Yeah, so

10:02

it's a little harder. Girl, I

10:05

couldn't think. But I still, people

10:07

were like, you're so hard on

10:09

yours. And I'm like. You are

10:11

so hard on yourself, that is

10:13

true. I know that's true. Because

10:15

I critique yourself far more than

10:17

you compliment yourself. Yeah. But you're

10:19

also an artist and that's what

10:22

artists do. Yeah. Right. Where do

10:24

you pull most of your material

10:26

from, do you think? Definitely life.

10:28

I mean, people, like, men see

10:30

my fro and they don't know

10:32

how to act. Legitimately, like, it's

10:34

crazy. Like, you start short-circuiting. They're

10:36

like look at you. I want

10:39

you to be my activist queen.

10:41

I'm like, no! You know that

10:43

like, you know that Dr. Umar

10:45

audio? That's like, at ease, my

10:47

queen. Beautiful, chocolate, melonine, goddess. What

10:49

do you mean you want to

10:51

eat up the prince? What do

10:53

you think? I'll be, I'll be

10:56

like, okay, this is what you

10:58

see right now. But best believe,

11:00

I'm gonna throw on that. 30-inch

11:02

blonde wig and they're like oh

11:04

girl what do you mean well

11:06

why would you do that to

11:08

your beautiful African your beautiful African

11:10

like you said don't piss me

11:13

down enough enough okay you got

11:15

two for the price of one

11:17

you should be happy I think

11:19

they know better and then they

11:21

never know how to act. When

11:23

it comes to stand up, speaking

11:25

of men, do you ever get

11:27

critiques from men? Unsolicited advice from

11:30

other comics? Or even in the

11:32

audience, I've heard that too, like

11:34

some female comics that have been

11:36

on there, like, literally audience members

11:38

will come up to me and

11:40

try to give me notes. Yeah.

11:42

I don't think, bro, what are

11:44

you talking about? Like, I'm open

11:47

to critiques, but like, you don't

11:49

even know anything about the crap.

11:52

Anything so why you come up

11:54

to me telling me I shouldn't

11:56

be saying something? Yeah, Jesus Christ

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Anxiety. Stop! Anxiety! I say

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that like before I go

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to bed. Anxiety. Stop. That's

13:13

what mine sounds like too. Just

13:16

sirens going off like crazy. Just

13:18

no rhyme or reason. Okay, we

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were talking about notes, unsolicited notes

13:22

on your sets. Yes, anxiety stops.

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That's very true. Yeah, I had

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one girl, Mary Beth Braun, when

13:29

she was on my show, she

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said that some guy followed her

13:33

out of the club and was

13:35

like giving her notes on her

13:38

tags. Oh. And then she said.

13:40

Why would I do that? I

13:42

thought this was for you. I

13:44

thought you were just sending me

13:46

stuff. She's like, getting in a

13:49

car? She's like, oh, I'm not

13:51

doing that. Do you? Are you

13:53

lost? What's the silliest piece of

13:55

advice you've gotten? The silliest. This

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guy came up to me and

14:00

he was like, you shouldn't say

14:02

you know what I mean because

14:04

they don't know what you mean.

14:06

You said, well that's okay. A

14:09

semantic Sammy, what? Cementic Sammy, what?

14:11

Because some people, I don't want

14:13

to name names, don't know what

14:15

you mean. And it's him. Yeah,

14:17

I came up in the club

14:20

looking cute. You know what I

14:22

mean? We don't know what you

14:24

mean. Hey, buddy, it's just a

14:26

figure of speech. Hello? So the

14:28

crowd doesn't know, like if you

14:31

say, you know, and they think

14:33

they're helping. Yeah. What do you

14:35

typically say when you get? Oh,

14:37

I'm so, I'm so sweet. So

14:40

passive, so sweet. Grace. You say

14:42

thank you. Oh, I didn't think

14:44

about that. Oh! We turned into

14:46

an anime girl. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

14:48

Gosh. You're like, you're right. I'd

14:51

never see them again. Yeah, that's

14:53

crazy. Yeah, that's really all you

14:55

can do, huh? I had a

14:57

page Gallagher on and she told

14:59

me that a guy went before

15:02

her and completely bombed. Like didn't...

15:04

get one laugh then she went

15:06

on killed and then the rest

15:08

of the comics went and then

15:10

she said at the end the

15:13

first guy came back and told

15:15

her hey I have a bunch

15:17

of notes for you how you

15:19

could do better and she goes

15:22

well I mean the goal was

15:24

to make people laugh right so

15:26

like I did that right yeah

15:28

it's like they think they're in

15:30

a whole another tear like but

15:33

it's like we are actually in

15:35

a whole another two they literally

15:37

Men do not think women are

15:39

funny. And even if you were

15:41

to remove some sort of bigotry

15:44

or prejudice, they don't think online

15:46

people are funny. Like they can't

15:48

be funny because they were online.

15:50

They never actually watched your shit.

15:52

They never actually like... See you

15:55

as a comic like or even

15:57

a human They see you as

15:59

some they see us as like

16:01

Charlie DiMillo They're like you have

16:04

only fans. No, I don't have

16:06

Just because I'm a woman on

16:08

the internet doesn't mean I have

16:10

only fans. Yeah, that's so real

16:12

because even when I was trying

16:15

to move like two years ago

16:17

With Billy we were like touring

16:19

homes and then I would tell

16:21

them like oh I work online

16:23

like and I didn't want to

16:26

tell them exactly what I did

16:28

because it's like privacy for whatever

16:30

reason because they're older though they're

16:32

like oh like they think it's

16:34

sex work which like even if

16:37

it was who gives a fuck

16:39

I have you want the money

16:41

or not is what I always

16:43

say like yeah But

16:46

then like then I started just telling

16:48

people outright what I did because I

16:50

was like I need you to understand

16:53

So that you don't get too judgmental

16:55

before you approve. Yeah, you didn't respect

16:57

Yeah, like it's and even when you're

16:59

amongst and I'm sure you've noticed too

17:02

because we go to a lot of

17:04

the same things like sometimes when you

17:06

meet traditional celebrities They either love you

17:09

or they think they're so offended that

17:11

they have to share space for you.

17:13

Oh my goodness. Oh my goodness. There's

17:16

no in- in-between. They either like love

17:18

online people. Or they are like, I

17:20

can't believe I have to fucking sit

17:22

at a table with this. Yeah. And

17:25

I'm just crazy. I've been thinking about

17:27

that. I like, Dan, you really pent

17:29

up. Man, you're so mad I'm here.

17:32

Like, cause like they had to fit

17:34

into this little box in order to

17:36

become a celebrity, mysterious. Exactly. Quiet, private,

17:38

and I'm over here, who called about

17:41

poo? At the after party. Being silly,

17:43

got you in the room. There you

17:45

in the room. Sorry. I think that's

17:48

why too I've always been like, I'll

17:50

never turn my back on the internet,

17:52

like, even if I move into other

17:55

forms of entertainment like you are too,

17:57

I would never be like, yeah, fuck

17:59

the internet. I mean, not for those

18:01

reasons, for other reasons maybe, but for

18:04

like the reasons of like being ashamed

18:06

of coming from the internet. I was

18:08

like, I don't give a fuck. I'm

18:11

not, yeah. It gave me everything I

18:13

have now. I'm grateful to the internet.

18:15

Extremely grateful. And even like, you said

18:18

you were a nurse, which we talked

18:20

about in the very first episode, but

18:22

that was eons ago. I worked in

18:24

22. I like with signing the form

18:27

today, I said 2024, no, 2025, oh

18:29

my God. I know, it's been a

18:31

million years since we felt. Like when

18:34

we talked about it, even then, I

18:36

feel like it truly has shifted completely

18:38

in my head, like how much more

18:40

respect I have for people who have

18:43

been able to transcend the internet. So

18:45

like, that's why I love people like

18:47

Quinta Bronson or like ESA who came

18:50

from the internet and I'm transcended and

18:52

still love the internet. And we look

18:54

up to them. I know. Because they

18:57

got to put us on Abbott Elementary.

18:59

Oh my. Can you or mad? That

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would be so great. You or not?

19:03

You or not? It would, no, this

19:06

is my year of DMing. That's actually

19:08

so real. Everybody. I love that. I

19:10

do have, do you have a cast

19:13

of direction, I say, hey, let me

19:15

know. Here's my real. Here's the password.

19:17

How have auditions been going for you?

19:20

I've only done a few. It's so

19:22

hard. It's so hard. After the actor's

19:24

strike. Yeah, especially. I feel like self-tapes

19:26

to make me feel like I want

19:29

to die. And I wish that wasn't

19:31

the case. Do I have to lure?

19:33

Yeah, because you're taking acting classes and

19:36

stuff. I know you have, and you've

19:38

told me. Girl, every noise in the

19:40

fucking world. Next is gonna be bears.

19:42

I know, it's gonna sound like a

19:45

bug's money fight out there soon. Liance?

19:47

You gotta ask me about my lovely.

19:49

And trust me, I will, Grace. We

19:52

talked about it on the first one,

19:54

too, I remember. Me not knowing what

19:56

I'm going to say. You have to

19:59

ask me about it. Real. Oh, no

20:01

acting classes. That's where we were. You're

20:03

taking them. I would love to know

20:05

your thoughts on them because I'm gonna

20:08

start doing it this year Yes, okay.

20:10

I'm gonna refer you because please do

20:12

it's hard to find good ones They

20:15

like to take your money And you

20:17

learn nothing like for like three years.

20:19

I said wait a minute Oh my

20:22

god, there was one school I went

20:24

to, I almost punched the mic, what

20:26

school? I went to and like one

20:28

of the classes, the scene was like

20:31

there was a doctor and a patient

20:33

and the patient was having cramps. Okay.

20:35

And the teacher was like, you're not

20:38

supposed to show that you're in vain.

20:40

That was my last class. I was

20:42

like, hey, I've heard all I needed

20:44

here. I was like, a man is

20:47

not gonna tell me how I connect

20:49

myself with, if I'm on my cycle,

20:51

oh my goodness, you will not hear

20:54

the end of it. I'm shouting, and

20:56

it's like, and so that's kind of

20:58

how it starts, like how those celebrities

21:01

tune themselves and wait to be in

21:03

this box and then I come out

21:05

saying, no, I'm screaming, I'm winning, I'm,

21:07

nah. Must it on the be-ho, like...

21:10

Like... I talked to Leo Gonzales about

21:12

this too, like, because we're both... Neither

21:14

of us have ever taken an acting

21:17

class, but we're going to. And we

21:19

joked about it on the, on the

21:21

pod too, but I was like, I

21:24

know I'm going to this year, so

21:26

I need to. That's on my list.

21:28

Moana. Yeah. Whistle

26:46

while you work. From Disney,

26:49

on March 21st, the

26:51

magical tale, Snow White,

26:53

Snow White, Snow White,

26:55

that started at all.

26:57

I believe you're looking

26:59

for me. Arrives in

27:01

theaters. Magic, mirror on

27:04

the wall. Experience the

27:06

Disney classic. Who's the

27:08

fairest one of all?

27:10

Like never before. We

27:12

haven't even been in

27:15

Regolshgen. That's

32:00

seven seconds too long So it's

32:02

my term. I get up to

32:04

them. I'm like hey guys. It's

32:06

so nice to meet you Cynthia.

32:08

I love you Arianna. I love

32:10

you. We're gonna do like a

32:12

video where we we pose like

32:14

masculine and then we're gonna end

32:17

feminine and Cynthia was like oh

32:19

what? Absolutely, that's it. And Aria

32:21

was like, what? They're not knowing

32:23

at all what you're talking about.

32:25

I was like, Aria, please, we

32:27

got this, we got this, we

32:29

got this. And so in the

32:31

video, you can tell Ariana was

32:33

still, was still trying to get

32:35

the vibe. She was trying to

32:37

get the vibe. And I could

32:39

have explained it better possibly. But

32:42

we had 10 seconds. Yeah, and

32:44

when they say 10 seconds, they

32:46

mean fucking 10 seconds. Like literally.

32:48

Like, like literally Cynthiaia at the

32:50

L. Wicked Premier. for like hosting

32:52

stuff, but they said one question,

32:54

one question. Okay. Only one question!

32:56

I was like, yeah, I heard

32:58

you the first time, got it.

33:00

But I went to the Globes

33:02

dude, I was standing on the,

33:05

the others, they'll literally shoot me

33:07

dead if I go on the

33:09

other side of that shrub. Like

33:11

the shrub that's in all the

33:13

videos, like, they will kill me.

33:15

So I was standing on the

33:17

other side of it before carpet

33:19

opened, because I was like... you

33:21

know, there's no room anywhere and

33:23

I'm really close to everyone. So

33:25

I was standing on the other

33:27

side and then she, this girl

33:30

starts walking past me, she comes

33:32

back, she goes, are you press?

33:34

And I go, yes I am,

33:36

I'm within style, she goes behind

33:38

the shrub. I was like, oh

33:40

okay, no I know, I was

33:42

just standing over here because it's

33:44

kind of crowded, so I was

33:46

waiting till carpet opens. Not one

33:48

laugh. She could not, if she

33:50

could have killed me with her

33:53

eyes, she would have. And I

33:55

said, oh, okay. Well, yeah, I'll

33:57

go ahead and get behind that

33:59

shrub girl. Thank you, sweetie. Thank

34:01

you. Yeah, that's the best though.

34:03

I love, I did that yesterday

34:05

at the airport. They're like, you

34:07

need, you need to talk to

34:09

that agent. I say that agent.

34:11

Like, because she started it. Like,

34:13

because she started it. Like, no.

34:15

So deeply, I'm serious. Like, it's

34:18

so, Grace is so deeply serious.

34:20

But about so many things, which

34:22

is one of the things I

34:24

love most about you. Other than

34:26

how fucking hilarious you are. But

34:28

my sister literally texted me and

34:30

said, please bring up the video

34:32

that you filmed with Markel where

34:34

your wig flew off. Oh yeah.

34:36

And I was like, Markel. He

34:38

was so quick to want to

34:41

post it. I said, wait, let

34:43

me just give my makeup on.

34:45

So that was actually like refilm

34:47

number like three or four. Yeah,

34:49

at that point. The way Markel

34:51

falls back and hits the bed

34:53

and his bounces right off. And

34:55

he did that every single thing.

34:57

He's so energetic He's he's got

34:59

so much energy and he's must

35:01

be an Olympic gymnast or something

35:03

He has to be in another

35:06

life. He could be yes in

35:08

this life He could be when

35:10

I had him on he was

35:12

all over the place He was

35:14

telling me he's like oh girl.

35:16

I'm going to Taylor Swift tomorrow

35:18

with Charlie and I go really

35:20

he goes. Yeah, I don't know

35:22

much about that white girl, but

35:24

I'm gonna have fun Literally everybody

35:26

loves like he is when you

35:29

when you talk about charmer He

35:31

is like the one number one

35:33

I remember when we were at

35:35

the premiere and they were like

35:37

pushing everyone away like the lady

35:39

was like this is only for

35:41

this area And so we he

35:43

was like hiding behind like one

35:45

of a podium in the building

35:47

waiting for Ariana's boyfriend to come

35:49

out so he could get a

35:51

video with him and he got

35:54

it He just gets he gets

35:56

that like he always gets no

35:58

fear. No, not at all. Hands

36:00

up to these people Yeah, I

36:02

saw him at in the mix,

36:04

Tiketok in the mix in Arizona.

36:06

Oh yeah. Yeah, I saw him

36:08

backstage after I finished working. He

36:10

was like, oh girl, I'm here

36:12

because I know Cardi's coming here.

36:14

And I go, yeah, they were

36:17

telling me no one's really going

36:19

up to her or they're not

36:21

allowed to. And he goes, oh

36:23

I know, but I just hang

36:25

out. Yeah. I was like, any

36:27

better. So, jokes on me, so

36:29

cool. I wish. That's how I

36:31

feel when I see your stuff

36:33

too. I'm like, Grace, what are

36:35

you? Grace, get down from there.

36:37

I have to remember, I wanted

36:39

to remember to bring this up.

36:42

One time, Grace text me out

36:44

of the blue, just a picture

36:46

of her smiling with a chip

36:48

tooth. No context. Like none at

36:50

all. And I said, Grace, what

36:52

is this mean? You didn't pick

36:54

up your face time. And then

36:56

I said, Grace, what does this

36:58

mean? And I said, are you

37:00

okay? And then you didn't text

37:02

me back for hours. And then

37:05

when you did, you're like, oh

37:07

yeah, no big deal. Grace, what

37:09

the fuck are you talking about?

37:11

What are you talking about? What

37:13

are you talking about? What are

37:15

you talking about? What are you

37:17

talking about? What does it make

37:19

life more? That

37:21

was the day of the

37:23

Hunger Games premiere. You chipped

37:25

your tooth at the Hunger

37:28

Games premiere? Right before? The

37:30

carpet. How? On a chicken

37:32

wing. Really? Yeah. Damn. Patrick

37:34

my home's wife probably would

37:36

have guessed that. Fried chicken.

37:38

Both wrong answers by the

37:40

way. That's your husband. That's

37:42

my man. My man. My

37:44

man. My man. How about

37:46

just eating too, just got

37:48

too into it? Just enjoying

37:50

myself. At this point, I

37:52

should probably get it done

37:54

well, I don't know. But

37:56

yeah, I was like, this

37:58

is a night, I'm gonna

38:00

meet Viola Davis and everyone

38:02

compares me to Viola Davis.

38:04

Want to make it good.

38:07

I chip my tooth. It

38:09

was such a hectic. Every

38:11

day is. Every day is

38:13

a winding room. Like, shit.

38:15

That's why I said you're,

38:17

you are so fantastical in

38:19

so many ways. That's like

38:21

the only word I can

38:23

think to describe you. Because

38:25

it's not like awful, but

38:27

it is insane. Like you're

38:29

saying, it's crazy and I'm

38:31

pretty cool. But it's not

38:33

bad. It's just a lot.

38:35

It's just a lot. It's

38:37

literally a lot. I feel

38:39

like a sex to grace,

38:41

that's so many times, are

38:43

you okay? She's like, yeah,

38:46

why wouldn't I be? Yeah,

38:48

of course, I mean, shit

38:50

my tooth, but like, but

38:52

other than that, I'm chilling.

38:54

Oh, I can breathe better

38:56

now. Right? With one less

38:58

tooth. No, there you go.

39:00

A lot more area. Yeah.

39:02

You said mouth breathing's never

39:04

been easier. Okay. Women in

39:06

STEM. When it comes to

39:08

acting, what would you say

39:10

is like a dream? Like

39:12

show, roll, anything like that.

39:14

What kind of whatever? It's

39:16

happening. What's happening to me?

39:18

Hello, Drew. It is me

39:20

again. No, I would, I

39:22

know I would eat that

39:25

up and I got the

39:27

physique for it. Right. Anything

39:29

Marvel. Because Grace is jagged.

39:31

You're jacked, bro. I just,

39:33

and I mean that very

39:35

literally. I started you jitsu

39:37

with Vinny Hacker. I saw

39:39

that. See what I mean?

39:41

That's the shit I'm talking

39:43

about. I'm like, what do

39:45

you mean? You're doing Jujitsu

39:47

with Vinny Hacker. What are

39:49

you talking about? He posted

39:51

on a story, looking for

39:53

a studio, and then there's

39:55

this guy that owns a

39:57

studio and he's in love

39:59

with me, so I was

40:01

like, oh, you're gonna play.

40:04

So I said, hey, I

40:06

got a guy for you,

40:08

and then you went to?

40:10

He's legit, he trained Chad

40:12

Bozeman, like he's legit. So

40:14

how is Jujitsu with Vinny

40:16

Hacker? Is it fun? He

40:18

came to me, he's like,

40:20

we gotta do a tournament.

40:22

I said, wait. What are

40:24

you duos? The two of

40:26

you should do WWE. What?

40:28

He would kill at it.

40:30

I mean, he did boxing,

40:32

now he's doing Jiu-Jitsu, but

40:34

I'm like, so the day

40:36

after I had to leave

40:38

to go speak at Harvard,

40:40

random fun. Which we will

40:43

talk about. Yes, please go

40:45

on. But... Ever since he's

40:47

been posting that he's been

40:49

there ever since I'm like

40:51

dude come on like I'm

40:53

not gonna wear it's been

40:55

a week and you're already

40:57

like a blue belt or

40:59

whatever Next belt is I

41:01

don't even know I just

41:03

you're not going to continue

41:05

in your Jujitsu journey. I

41:07

want to but like I

41:09

like to do things like

41:11

hand in hand like he

41:13

ran. You swear to the

41:15

head without me. I'm walking.

41:17

You should start doing something

41:19

about him. Right. You should

41:22

go and turn him. He

41:24

loves anime is what you

41:26

said. Well like I'm like

41:28

I mean He looks like

41:30

a guy that would love

41:32

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41:34

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42:02

He seems like he does. Very,

42:04

very chill, but very like nerdy.

42:06

That's why it's like, oh, well,

42:09

I did Jiu-Jitsu with Vinny Hacker

42:11

the other day. Right. Right. And

42:13

you know what's funny is when

42:16

I brought a W-W-E, I realized

42:18

that one time Grace text me

42:21

and said, do you want to

42:23

go to W-W-E-Raw with me? And

42:25

I was like, Grace, it's a

42:28

Thursday. Yeah, and I said oh,

42:30

because I'm not gonna let you

42:32

I didn't think it was never

42:35

mine in the way you wrote

42:37

it made it sound like you

42:40

just decided not to go anymore

42:42

You said if you were thinking

42:44

of going with me forget it.

42:47

I think I think it passed

42:49

already. Yeah And he's Samo and

42:51

I think. Oh, Roman Reigns. Yes.

42:54

Yeah, everybody loves him. Roman Reigns.

42:56

When people say that Billy looks

42:58

like Jason Momoa, I don't get

43:01

that really, but he does look

43:03

like Roman Reigns. They do look

43:06

a lot of like him in

43:08

Rome. Yeah. Way more than Jason

43:10

Momoa, I would say. But like,

43:13

yeah, Roman Rhine, yeah, I would

43:15

love to see with Roman Rhine's.

43:17

I know he's married, but that

43:20

would be great if you were.

43:22

Get to the next question. Yeah,

43:25

I was gonna say, actually, say

43:27

it's my next question, which is,

43:29

how's the love life? We did

43:32

talk about that in the last

43:34

episode too. Oh my gosh. I

43:36

don't know where to start. What

43:39

do I do? Like good or

43:41

bad? Is it good? Bad mid?

43:43

I've like, kind of like sworn

43:46

off men. Right. Because I'm valuing

43:48

myself more. Which is a good

43:51

thing I have for you. Yeah.

43:53

We're saying it through tears, but

43:55

we're happy about it. I'm happy.

44:00

have you the things? No, I

44:02

yeah, so I value myself more

44:04

so I just that it's just

44:06

I don't really have options but

44:09

I did put a Samoan man

44:11

at a party the other day.

44:13

Wait a second now I need

44:15

to hear all about it. Whatever

44:18

you can tell me. Um, you

44:20

could tell me the real stuff

44:22

offline, but you could tell me

44:25

whatever. Girl, I got a video.

44:27

Yeah, I gotta see those for

44:29

sure. Oh my gosh, she is

44:31

so fun. He's like, he's like

44:34

six, three. Yeah. He got a

44:36

nice jawline. He got like curly

44:38

hair. Long hair? Woof good. I

44:42

love wolf cuts on dudes. I

44:44

think they look great. I think

44:46

they look great too. I'm an

44:48

advocate of especially minority dudes, long

44:51

hair. Please. I love it. White

44:53

guys. You guys are okay. It

44:55

can be 50-50. It's either thick

44:57

and less just makes you look

44:59

like somewhat spicy ethnic. Oh yeah.

45:02

Like Vikings or whatever. Or the

45:04

other side is stringy and greasy.

45:06

What's happening? Cut it off. Yeah.

45:08

Please. Minority men always look better.

45:10

I think it's just it's a

45:12

look for everyone. Majestic! What's that

45:15

horse that everyone's like here be

45:17

out? Spirit? Yeah. Yeah, it's giving

45:19

spirit. I love that though. Okay,

45:21

actually, no, the story is actually

45:23

hilarious. So, it was a party,

45:25

one of those parties that's like,

45:28

they like, invite everybody. Yeah. But

45:30

then they like... cut it off,

45:32

but they only invite, they only

45:34

let like VIPs through and I'm

45:36

like, bro, why would y'all oversell

45:38

a party? Yeah. Anyway, so we

45:41

get to the party, it's bare

45:43

because they keep not letting people

45:45

in, but I see him from

45:47

a distance and I'm like, oh

45:49

my gosh, I know him. And

45:51

so I go up to him

45:54

and I'm like, bro, bro, you

45:56

remember me? And I believe you,

45:58

I believe that's exactly what you

46:00

said to him. And he was

46:02

like, you know how hot guys

46:04

talk, oh. Like they've never, they're

46:07

all noises. All noises and good

46:09

posture, right? Yeah, these good posture

46:11

and yeah, I think so. And

46:13

then hair, these things. Oh. There

46:15

it goes. Yeah, that's why I'm

46:17

not a hot guy. I mean,

46:20

we have a good stuck. I'll

46:22

be like, oh, give me a

46:24

second. No, I'm not sure but

46:26

I'm like, you gonna you gonna

46:28

be feel stupid when I show

46:31

you This is our mutual friend

46:33

I introduced us and I showed

46:35

him a picture and he and

46:37

he was like wait I think

46:39

you're talking about another Another God

46:41

like me and I said oh,

46:44

I'm sorry and then this old

46:46

white kid comes up and he's

46:48

like Okay, guys, if we're talking

46:50

about whose hair is better, it's

46:52

definitely her hair. And I was

46:54

like, no, no, no, actually, I

46:57

was, he's like, no, you are

46:59

a beautiful black queen, okay? So

47:01

you do not let anybody tell

47:03

you anything different, and he turns

47:05

to him, he's like, you need

47:07

to worship the ground she stands

47:10

on, okay? Okay, if she tells

47:12

you to tap dance, you're going

47:14

to tap dance. If she tells

47:16

you this, we do that. You

47:18

guys are the future. You guys

47:20

are the future. You guys

47:23

are the future, okay? Why people have

47:25

been in charge for so long? You

47:27

guys though? I look into your eyes

47:30

and I see the future. Oh God.

47:32

And I'm over here like... And then

47:34

you're like this, he looks at you

47:36

and you're going... I did actually, I

47:39

actually did that at one point. And

47:41

the dude was just like so intently

47:43

listened to him, even though it was

47:46

like, a lot of it was like...

47:48

come on doing yeah hey all right

47:50

enough he was like listening to him

47:52

and he was being like and tell

47:55

me I said wait hold on who

47:57

is this man and where where can

47:59

I tell you I follow you like

48:01

what's good and so he leaves and

48:04

then we just stop bantering You united

48:06

against a common enemy. We did. Those

48:08

are the best though. That's true. That

48:11

is true. It's kind of like enemy

48:13

turned lovers in five minutes. You're like,

48:15

I'm gonna laugh you right out of

48:17

those pans. Hey. Well, I'm really happy

48:20

for you. I'm happy for me too.

48:22

And if it's a Sam one, dude,

48:24

most likely I know who it is.

48:27

So like, I can't wait for you

48:29

to give me more details. You're gonna

48:31

scream. I hope so. In a good

48:33

way, hopefully. I'll be by your family.

48:36

Imagine you show me that I go,

48:38

oh! Like in a horrifying. Oh my

48:40

god, he taught me, um, he told

48:43

you once. What, something someone? Wow! Oh,

48:45

a foul moon, that's what it's called.

48:47

Yeah, I'm not doing it. I kept

48:49

doing it. It sounded like toad, but

48:52

it was close. Wait,

48:55

how is it? Sorry. It's it's

48:57

a Chee-hoo. Chee-hoo. Yeah, yeah. I

48:59

can't do it on here. I'll

49:01

I'll literally hurt our sound sound

49:03

people on the accident, but yeah,

49:06

it's a Fauumu If you say

49:08

that to him, it'll impress him.

49:10

Yeah, yeah, I'll teach you lots

49:12

of words that I can impress

49:14

him You know what's

49:17

funny is, do you remember when that

49:19

audio was trending, where it was like,

49:21

do you have your passport? Did you

49:23

get your shots? And they're like, me

49:25

when I go to Ireland, or whatever,

49:27

to men. Someone made one that said,

49:29

me when I go to someone to

49:31

look for people who look like Jason

49:33

Memoah or Drew's. Boyfriend at the time

49:35

which I we were obviously not engaged

49:37

at the time me correcting me feeling

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they need to correct it But I

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said I comment tonight because it was

49:43

funny, but I commented on and I

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said Jason was Hawaiian so you will

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not find him there I can promise

49:49

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49:51

don't need to go to Somo just

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My dad was a bouncer for

56:11

years, just because my uncle, even

56:13

Billy, did bouncing for a

56:15

tiny bit. Just big dudes who

56:17

can fight. So they're like, and

56:20

y'all look good. Yeah, and they're

56:22

charming as hell. And when I

56:24

went to school in Hawaii, every

56:26

single. club I ever went

56:28

to was obviously Sam when

56:30

dudes bouncing. And when I

56:32

was underage and I was using

56:34

a fake, I would be like, I'd

56:36

go up to them and I'd be

56:39

like, hi, oh my god! I'd be

56:41

like, talofa, talofa, malole, so you're, yeah.

56:43

Teach me that! Oh, I would love

56:45

to teach you that. Yes. Okay, so

56:47

like, well, well, well just saying hi

56:49

first is talofa, talofa, there you

56:51

go, that's just high, and then

56:53

by is. By, well when you

56:55

say goodbye and you say

56:57

like, you say tofah, soyfua,

57:00

which means like, tofah,

57:02

soyfua. Tofah, soyfua. Yeah,

57:04

that means goodbye, I

57:07

wish you good, and I wish

57:09

you good health. Good health. Yeah.

57:11

So like, tofah, soyfua.

57:13

Or just the shortened

57:16

version is fah, which is

57:18

just bah. Boyfah! That's so

57:20

funny. And it's also

57:23

someone's language is all

57:25

about inflection too, so they're

57:27

very like, their words go

57:30

up and down. Yeah, they're

57:32

up and down, up and

57:34

down, up and down. So

57:36

like, when I say, Talofah,

57:38

Malole-soifua, that means like, it's

57:40

good to see you in

57:43

good health, it's good to

57:45

see you. So you say,

57:47

Malole-le-soifua. My Lola soy food

57:49

that's perfect. Look at you

57:51

nailing it. There's a lot at

57:54

stake here I don't think

57:56

you have no idea I

57:58

don't think you understand One

58:00

is, I love you,

58:02

which is

58:04

alofa-a-tuh. Alofa-tuh.

58:08

Alofa-tuh.

58:10

Alofa-a-tuh.

58:12

Yeah, it's a

58:14

little too soon

58:16

for that. Yeah,

58:19

you keep that in

58:21

the chain. I will.

58:24

You could say,

58:26

um, Qui-o means

58:28

shit. Oh, yeah. Like exclam-claim,

58:30

when you exclaim it, oofa.

58:32

Oofa! He cut me off,

58:35

oofa! Sousu pokey means suck

58:37

my dick. You want to say

58:39

that? Just in case. Pokey, wait,

58:41

pokey. Pokey, bull. Yeah, yeah. I

58:43

know, it's unfortunate. How

58:46

does that? Pokey means dick.

58:48

It's like a colloquial way of

58:50

saying dick in someone, pokey. P-O-K-I.

58:53

P-O-K-E is the Hawaiian word for

58:55

like fish. Oh, they cut the fish. Wow. So,

58:57

okay. It's like when you say it's

58:59

so funny because when I was learning

59:01

someone language in college, my professor the

59:03

first year was obviously a full-salm one

59:05

man and he moved from someone who

59:07

was teaching and he said like he

59:10

didn't know any English when he moved

59:12

to Hawaii, so he was like learning

59:14

as he was going to school and

59:16

stuff. and pokey and poquet are two

59:18

different words like poquet means fish pokey

59:20

means dick so he said like whenever

59:23

people would offer him pokey thought they

59:25

were fucking with him like he was

59:27

like are you what do you try to say

59:30

what are you trying to say you want

59:32

some pokey so that's a good one

59:34

for you I would say talofa and

59:36

puka means puka means chubby or

59:38

fat like it depends on how you

59:40

use it's really think of red puka

59:42

hey puka Pooky. Yeah. I hope

59:44

you're happy. We've been talking about

59:47

all kinds of things. I can't

59:49

believe I didn't bring up your love

59:51

interest sooner. I know, let

59:53

me find out you're marrying into

59:55

my family. I would be so

59:58

excited. I'll shit myself. I do

1:00:00

want to give you some silly little fun

1:00:02

facts about yourself. Oh, that we've

1:00:04

been. Are you serious? Yeah, absolutely.

1:00:06

I'm trying to turn, I'm trying

1:00:08

to take Nardmoor's gig. I'm trying

1:00:11

to over it. Well, let's see. Okay,

1:00:13

it says, well, obviously we haven't here

1:00:15

that you were a pediatric nurse, which

1:00:17

we already knew. You were a featured

1:00:19

speaker at Harvard Business School, a

1:00:22

panel, this past month period, period,

1:00:24

Smarty pants. We love that. We

1:00:26

love that. I taught content

1:00:28

creation, but like, but

1:00:30

like, it's like, you

1:00:33

said, just to be

1:00:35

yourself. Yeah, just smile

1:00:37

and be sunshine and

1:00:39

happy. Me when I

1:00:41

did anything for fours, I'm

1:00:43

like, girl, I don't know what

1:00:46

the fuck they asked me. Oh

1:00:48

my gosh, that was what I'd

1:00:50

be like, hang out, no businesses,

1:00:54

what's your job? I didn't

1:00:56

know people knew me. Most humorous.

1:00:59

Right. I was like, for people

1:01:01

to vote, they have to know

1:01:03

me. I was like, how y'all

1:01:05

know me? Like I thought I

1:01:07

was just being like a little

1:01:09

Kremlin. Like, running around, just like

1:01:11

doing mischief. Well, turns out

1:01:13

you were making people giggle.

1:01:15

I was voted. Most likely they

1:01:18

want to be stranded on an island

1:01:20

with which I felt was racially charged

1:01:22

Right and I said we're both gonna

1:01:25

die if we get stranded on

1:01:27

island together you're crazy. I would go

1:01:29

up to the To how's gonna say

1:01:31

the pastor of the school The president

1:01:33

the president of the school demand

1:01:35

demand a recount. It says for

1:01:37

your high school dancing with the

1:01:39

staff night you did a seated dance

1:01:42

performance to thinking about you

1:01:44

by Frank Ocean Yeah Hey,

1:01:46

why'd you do that? Do you have

1:01:48

any comments on that? You know,

1:01:50

and it was a promposalish.

1:01:53

Yeah, it was a promposal for

1:01:55

one of my friends. For like,

1:01:57

like you were asking someone or...

1:01:59

were asking. They were asking

1:02:02

10-1. But yeah, that was...

1:02:04

Dancing with the staff night,

1:02:06

why that night? And just

1:02:08

like everything else in my

1:02:10

life, no rhyme or reason.

1:02:12

Just vibes. So now that

1:02:15

I think about it, I thought

1:02:17

it was a talent show. You

1:02:19

said, well I heard there was

1:02:21

going to be a tension given

1:02:23

to me, so I will be

1:02:25

there. Wow, I remember that. Oh

1:02:27

wow, it's taking me back. No,

1:02:29

next question, please. It was

1:02:32

like Timothy Shalomaid's like dance

1:02:34

that he did at the talent show.

1:02:36

That's how I feel about it. His

1:02:38

was cool though. You're just having

1:02:40

a war flashbacks to it. Help,

1:02:43

hell. Cut the camera. This last

1:02:45

one says that your mom is

1:02:47

a professor who started a Shea

1:02:49

Butter Company. Yeah, after years

1:02:51

of making Homemade Shea

1:02:54

better for Grace and

1:02:56

her siblings when they're

1:02:58

growing up. Yes, it's a

1:03:00

beautiful thing. It is. And

1:03:02

how do you pronounce the

1:03:04

name? It's Alokosha, but actually

1:03:07

even funner fact, Alo

1:03:09

Yoga came for us. So

1:03:11

now we have to change the

1:03:13

name. What the fuck Grace? Yeah.

1:03:16

Just everything, it's just

1:03:18

you're like... Funny you bring

1:03:20

that up. It's a fun fact to

1:03:22

everything. Yeah, I can't like, I can

1:03:24

say the name, but it changed again.

1:03:26

But it's a beautiful thing that

1:03:29

your mom did that. Yeah, that's

1:03:31

beautiful. She's amazing. Like she has

1:03:33

like her elixir that she makes

1:03:35

for us, like, yeah, totally. Because

1:03:37

I have like eczema and then

1:03:39

my other sister will have like

1:03:42

psoriasis. So she'll like make us

1:03:44

our like own natural like

1:03:46

home-based. Like tinctures and stuff.

1:03:48

I love that. Okay, your mom's

1:03:51

a smarty pants too. She's amazing.

1:03:53

I love that. You come from

1:03:55

a talented family. I know

1:03:57

you're gonna marry into mine.

1:04:01

Tofo! Yeah! No. What was it?

1:04:03

Tof... It's a ta-lofah. Ta-lofah. And

1:04:05

then tofah, soyfua. Tofah, soyfua. I'll

1:04:08

text it to you. In my

1:04:10

language we have Tufiaqua, so that's

1:04:12

why I was getting it mixed

1:04:14

up. Right. Tufiaqua is like, God

1:04:16

forbid. So we'll go, Tufiaqua. Like

1:04:18

if something's happening. I rebuke, I

1:04:21

rebuke, I rebuke. Yeah, Jesus, it's

1:04:23

not my portion. Okay, last thing.

1:04:25

I would love to know if

1:04:27

you have any advice for anyone

1:04:29

who maybe wants to get into

1:04:31

a concert concertion or maybe as

1:04:34

an artist and finds themselves feeling

1:04:36

like they need to lean towards

1:04:38

concertion. Do you have any advice

1:04:40

for anyone? I would say, I

1:04:42

think for... us, like the reason

1:04:44

why we have such longevity is

1:04:46

because money wasn't the goal. T.

1:04:49

period. Which is hard, you know,

1:04:51

because it's like you want to

1:04:53

make money doing your art, but

1:04:55

I saw this video the other

1:04:57

day talking about like having a

1:04:59

plan B. Yeah. And that being

1:05:02

a power, because then like you're

1:05:04

not putting all your eggs in

1:05:06

one basket. That's T. Yeah. You're

1:05:08

not really committing to it fully.

1:05:10

Like you can't be a hundred

1:05:12

percent in two places. Yeah. And

1:05:15

it'll, and your art will flourish,

1:05:17

because you have... You have your

1:05:19

source and then like you can

1:05:21

creatively, without pressure, create, create, create,

1:05:23

creator. I fucking love you. You're

1:05:25

the best. I can't wait to

1:05:28

grow old together honestly. Oh my

1:05:30

god. It's very iconic. I know

1:05:32

that's why I was like one

1:05:34

thing about me. I'm gonna ride

1:05:36

for grace. I'm going to be

1:05:38

alongside each other. I'm a colleague.

1:05:40

I'll be like, I got the

1:05:43

house names. No! Come over with

1:05:45

my cousin apparently I I fucking

1:05:47

love you 60 Thank you so

1:05:49

much for coming back. I love

1:05:51

this. I love this. I love

1:05:53

you. Love you. And everyone else

1:05:56

loves you, obviously. But just in

1:05:58

case, just in case, they have

1:06:00

no idea who you are, which

1:06:02

would be insane, but just in

1:06:04

case they don't, where can everybody

1:06:06

find you? I can find me.

1:06:09

Grace underscore Africa on Instagram, TikTok,

1:06:11

and on YouTube. And hopefully the

1:06:13

two of us in Abbott Elementary

1:06:15

soon. Yes, yes. Winter Bronson, please.

1:06:17

They should make us both PE

1:06:19

teachers, but were bad. Oh my

1:06:22

good. And we can both like

1:06:24

have our access to it. Yes!

1:06:26

Look at us. Quinta, we already

1:06:28

have it half written. We already...

1:06:30

It's like 40% of the way

1:06:32

down already. If they let me

1:06:35

improv, I'll go crazy. Let's do

1:06:37

it. Let's do it. Why is

1:06:39

this kid going slow? No. Your

1:06:41

turn. I can't imitate a fob,

1:06:43

I don't think. I do my

1:06:45

best. I'd be like, yeah, what

1:06:47

she said. I'll just be annoying.

1:06:50

Not annoying. And you know what?

1:06:52

They need, they always need that.

1:06:54

They need more silly geese. You

1:06:56

and I are ready for the

1:06:58

job. We are. We're clipped. Grace

1:07:00

is the silliest goose I've ever

1:07:03

met. Thank you all so much

1:07:05

for tuning in. Thank you to

1:07:07

my amazing guest grace and I'll

1:07:09

see you so much to my

1:07:11

amazing all-star guest grace. And thank

1:07:13

you for tuning in. Once again,

1:07:16

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1:07:18

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1:07:20

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1:07:29

you so much for tuning in.

1:07:31

Thank you to my amazing guest

1:07:33

grace and I'll see you next

1:07:35

week. Bye.

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