"Modern Mating Explained" is a special seminar series that explores the deeper psychological bases for mating in the modern world.

For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade of coaching and education of thousands of students around the world. Join him in this special seminar series as he explores deep questions of the psychological bases for mating in the modern world. Subscribe now.

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I’m going to repeat this phrase that I’ve said before but I think it needs to be hammered in: “It is better for you to lose the girl being your true self than to get her being a fake self.” Let me repeat that. It is better to lose the girl being your true self than to get her being your fake self. Let me try that again. It is better to lose the girl being your? True self, than to get her being your? Fake self. Right. The reason why a lot of guys aren’t able to get girls, or attract a woman being their true selves, is because they don’t know who their true self is, and that’s a deep, deep thing that I’ll unpack over the period of hours. And this is the sort of thing you would take weeks in therapy discovering.

But that point is the narcissist’s point. So, what I’m not saying is that anybody who learns how to talks to women is therefore a narcissist. After all, I have a little free course called How to Start a Conversation With Women. There’s nothing wrong with learning conversation skills

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