An Unexpected Way to Learn to Be Less Reactive

An Unexpected Way to Learn to Be Less Reactive

Released Thursday, 9th January 2025
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An Unexpected Way to Learn to Be Less Reactive

An Unexpected Way to Learn to Be Less Reactive

An Unexpected Way to Learn to Be Less Reactive

An Unexpected Way to Learn to Be Less Reactive

Thursday, 9th January 2025
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Have you ever wondered why you react strongly to certain situations or why your emotions sometimes seem to take control? In this enlightening episode of The Mindful Coach Podcast, I explore the fascinating world of the limbic system - a crucial part of our nervous system that shapes our emotional experiences and responses - and holds the key to helping us learn to make better choices instead of being reactive.

Understanding the Limbic System

Drawing from my experiences with Hakomi training and insights from John Eisman, I explain the limbic system's role in our daily lives. From the joy of greeting a beloved pet to the instant defensiveness when criticized, our limbic system is constantly at work, influencing our behaviors and relationships.

Key Insights:

  • The limbic system as the emotional powerhouse of our brain
  • How automatic responses can hinder genuine presence and connection
  • The importance of recognizing limbic reactions in ourselves and others


Cultivating Mindful Awareness

I discuss practical techniques to develop a more conscious relationship with your limbic responses:

  • Intentional Presence: Learning to bring focused attention to everyday interactions
  • Pausing and Savoring: A simple yet powerful exercise to enhance positive experiences
  • Choosing Response over Reaction: Developing the ability to make conscious choices in emotionally charged situations


The Power of Choice

By understanding and working with our limbic system, we can transform our automatic reactions into thoughtful responses. This shift not only enhances our personal relationships but also empowers us in our professional lives, especially as coaches and helping professionals.

Whether you're looking to improve your emotional intelligence, enhance your coaching skills, or simply live a more mindful life, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tools to help you navigate the complex world of emotions with greater ease and intention.

Takeaways:

  • Understanding the limbic system is essential as it influences our emotional responses daily.
  • Mindfulness allows us to consciously choose how we respond to our limbic reactions.
  • Noticing and savoring positive moments can enhance our overall emotional well-being significantly.
  • Developing awareness of our responses can prevent us from reacting impulsively in challenging situations.
  • Practicing mindful awareness helps us recognize subtle emotional cues in ourselves and others.
  • Embracing the present moment can transform mundane experiences into profound moments of joy.


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The Mindful Coach Podcast

Imagine you could uplevel every conversation you will ever have for the rest of your life. What would be the impact—professionally and personally?How we show up in conversations—our presence, communication, and awareness—is the fastest way to improve the quality of our personal and professional lives. Yet, few people are ever taught how to cultivate this presence intentionally.That’s what The Mindful Coach Podcast is all about.In each episode, we explore the power of mindful communication—how awareness, somatic intelligence, and deep listening can turn ordinary conversations into extraordinary experiences. Through real conversations with coaches, leaders, and professionals, we uncover practical ways to build resilience, reduce reactivity, and create deeper connections with those we serve.This podcast is also a gateway to a supportive professional community—the Mindful Coach Association (https://mindfulcoachassociation.com)—where mindful professionals gather to learn, connect, and grow in a space dedicated to authentic connection and skillful presence.If you're ready to take this work further, check out my flagship program:Mindfulness Communication and Presence for Professionals—an immersive training designed to help you cultivate presence, master communication, and transform your interactions in work and life.If you're a coach, leader, or professional who values mindful communication and presence, visit The Mindful Coach (https://themindfulcoach.com) to learn more.Join us as we explore what it truly means to show up—for ourselves, our clients, and the world.Together, we are a mighty force.

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