12/18/24: “What Do You Do?” is Becoming an Inappropriate Question

12/18/24: “What Do You Do?” is Becoming an Inappropriate Question

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12/18/24: “What Do You Do?” is Becoming an Inappropriate Question

12/18/24: “What Do You Do?” is Becoming an Inappropriate Question

12/18/24: “What Do You Do?” is Becoming an Inappropriate Question

12/18/24: “What Do You Do?” is Becoming an Inappropriate Question

Wednesday, 18th December 2024
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Wednesday, December 18th. You're out

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of social setting. You're meeting

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people for the very first

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time. What's a common question

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you ask as an icebreaker? Where

1:12

do you live? How do you know

1:14

the hosts? What do you do? That

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last one, that's a

1:20

really challenging question. We

1:22

need to deal with this. You

1:24

see, for the last hundred years, what

1:27

you do for a living. is

1:29

equal to who you are. Your social

1:31

standing is reflected by your job, your

1:33

income certainly is, your level of education or

1:35

expertise, you tell somebody what you do

1:37

for a living, you're pretty much telling them

1:39

how much education you've got. And

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you're also telling them, by answering what you

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do for a living, you're also telling them

1:45

whether it's really worth their time to even

1:47

just talk to you. Well,

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that is a challenge for

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a lot of people. I mean... For some folks

1:54

this is nothing new State home moms have

1:57

dealt with this forever. but

1:59

now So many

2:01

others are dealing with this too

2:03

because we now have 10 ,000 people

2:05

retiring every day. And if you're

2:07

one of those folks whose adult

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lives have all been centered on

2:12

what you do, you've now got

2:14

to figure out how do you

2:16

answer that question when somebody says,

2:18

what do you do? Stay

2:21

at home dads, career changers

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who are in between jobs, gig

2:25

workers who frankly don't do

2:27

any one thing. They do a

2:29

lot of different things. Baby

2:31

boomers who are forced into retirement

2:33

because of ageism. People who

2:35

got laid off from work. All

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of these folks struggle to

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answer the question when asked by

2:41

a stranger at a cocktail

2:43

party. So what do you do?

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So on the one hand, you need to be

2:49

ready. If you're ever asked

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the question, what do you do? And

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you got to think about this.

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So ask yourself this. What makes you

2:59

happy? You happy

3:01

being a spouse or a parent?

3:03

A hobbyist? You love being a

3:05

volunteer? you love sitting on boards?

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Reframe your answer. Instead of referring to

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a job that you no longer have

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or a career you've left, you want

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to reframe your skills. Don't relate it

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to work, but to some other aspect

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of your life. What do I do?

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I play the guitar all day. What

3:24

do you do? I work out all

3:26

day. What do you do? I play

3:28

golf. What do you do? I volunteer. Reframe

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your skill set. What do you do?

3:34

I love doing puzzles. And then

3:36

take some small steps. Go get

3:38

some new hobbies. Go do new

3:40

things. Go meet new people. And

3:43

you could use that as your

3:45

answer. What do you do? Oh,

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I rediscover. I reinvent myself every

3:49

day. And that will allow you

3:51

to change how you introduce yourself

3:53

to new people. And the next

3:56

time you meet somebody, instead of

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asking yourself, asking them,

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what do you do, you can ask a new

4:02

question. What are you up to

4:04

these days? Or how your day today? Or

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What are you like doing? I'll

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tell you what one friend of mine does.

4:12

He left his job he now spends most

4:14

of his time helping other executives get used

4:16

to not having a job. So when he's

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asked, what do you do? He

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says, I don't do. I used

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to do, but now what I do is help

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people who do do stop doing. That's

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