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This is t J Janet and j Rod's second date
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update on kJ one O three. You got Allison from
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us staying on the second date update. Hi Allison, Hey,
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how are you? I want to get you another date with Mark, which I mean you thought you were on
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good terms right oops?
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Yeah? Yeah, this has been very strange. So I've been
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talking to Mark for like the last.
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Month or so and everything was going really.
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Well, and then we had our first date and I'm
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being ghosted.
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It's okay, So just you had the date and that
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was it. No contact, that was quick.
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Yeah, you got nothing, no text, no plans, It's just gone.
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What did you do?
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I didn't do anything. There's like, honestly, there's no reason
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and this doesn't happen to me. I don't get ghosted.
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I do the ghosting.
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I don't know what's here.
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You're this is you're a first time ghosted and you've
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got to figure out what's going on here.
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Hi.
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Yeah, okay, well you know all this word say, we'll
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get Mark on the phone and we'll just ask him. Hey, Hey,
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you don't do the ghosting, does yeah?
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Mark?
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We need to get Mark to call you so then you can ghost him and you can feel in your
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comfort zone.
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Thank you, someone who understands my pain.
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Okay, hold on, Alison and we'll talk to him. Coming up.
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This is t J Jennadan g Rids Second date update
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on kJ one O three. Got Mark on the second
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date update. I'm Mark.
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Hey, we're going.
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Allison says, Hey, Hey, I don't get ghosted. I'm the
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one that does the ghosting. But you did one date
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with her. There's a what happened?
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Uh?
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You know she's just not the one.
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Why is not the one? Wow?
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Well she filled my gold digger test.
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You're okay, tell us about the gold digger test.
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I mean, you know she it was obvious.
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She's all about what kind of car I have, what
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kind of clothes I'm wearing, and she's.
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Looking at the value of my house.
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She was like Paris Hilton on steroids.
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Oh my god. Really, Mark, Okay, Allison, Allison, come on
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in here. I'll just be honest. I didn't get gold
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digger vibe from you.
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No, like I like nice things, though, it's not a
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crime to like nice things.
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Like nice things.
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I just don't want to be paying for your lifestyle.
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You don't have to. I have a good job.
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My job's way better than yours.
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Damn, then you should have paid for dinner. She told
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me she could only go.
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To certain restaurants. I had to put like two hundred
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bucks down for this this Bilwia that was small.
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I'm guessing she suggested the restaurant you paid for dinner,
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And you're like, no, okay, is this how it's going to be two hundred dollars for dinner. This ain't happening.
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So you're judging me just because I want to go to a nice restaurant and like nice things. And I
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was supposed to go guilty about that because you can't
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keep up with my lifestyle.
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You can feel whatever. You just just leave me out
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of it.
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And what is the secret test anyway?
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Yeah? Yeah, yeah, it protects me from people like her.
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You know, I'm not a gold digger. I got my
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own gold.
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If the Jimmy Choose fit.
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Whoa, I don't wear Jimmy.
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I don't wear Jimmy Chow.
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I can't afford Jimmy choos.
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Well, that's why you're trying to find some guy to
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pay for him.
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Okay, Mark Brutal, It's okay, Allison, but you've already said
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I have money. You make money.
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I'm not looking for somebody else to pay for things
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that I can't. But I'm also not looking for a
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gold digger. I think it's respectful.
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For a man to pay for dinner on the first day.
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So you're out marked, that's it.
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Yeah, you know, I'm a saving for retirement, and I figured.
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Wow, dude, come on, okay, all right, why Mark, We're
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gonna let you go. Thanks for coming on the second update.
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Oh sure, no problem, Okay, bye, Okay, Allison. I will
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say I get what he's saying about. I couldn't date
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anyone either. That's gonna be like, let's always go to
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an expensive restaurant, because I even if I just paid
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for myself, I don't go to expensive restaurants, So I
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get that. But that doesn't mean gold dig or someone
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that expects the man to pay for your expensive lifestyle.
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Right, Yeah, and maybe I do have expensive taste.
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I definitely don't need a man to take care of me like I'm some damsel and distress.
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Sure he's saving for retirement, You're like whatever, all right, Allison,
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thanks for coming on the second date off date, Thanks so much? All right? Is she at fault for having
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an expensive lifestyle, which you know someone she dates is
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gonna if it wants to buy a dinner, Sorry, I
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go to expensive restaurants. Or is he at fault for
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wanting to say for retirement? I don't know, what do
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you think? Four O five one two seven. Let's just
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discuss this. I know, if you can fund your lifestyle
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and you like expensive things, is that an issue? Yeah? No,
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but if you're expecting I'm always like, if someone else
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is paying, I get the cheaper thing on the menu.
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Clearly I don't. I don't suggest the expensive restaurant. And
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if on first dates, you know, first date with a guy,
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she's like, well, these are the only restaurants I'll go to.
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You know what better in those restaurants too, right, Yeah,
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let's discuss the second eight update kJ one O three
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