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This is t J, Jannet and j Rod's second date update.

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On kJ one O three Mary from Okay, see on

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the second date update.

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Hi Mary, I listened to you guys all the time

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when I'm driving to work, and I listened to a

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second date update as well. So mine is the typical

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story where the dude fails out on the second date for.

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Just no reason.

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Yeah, which, if you listen, you know that there actually

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is a reason. You just don't know what the reason is.

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Yeah, we will, That's true.

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The first date was great. It was just fun and

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we had a lot of common interest and we're both

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like avid runners and we were into cooking shows and

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we like the same kinds of food, et cetera. And

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he was so sweet he paid for dinner. So I

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told him, Hey, next time it's going to be my treat.

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I'll pay.

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And we scheduled a second date and we were communicating,

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we had text conversations, we had a FaceTime and everything

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being normal, like we were definitely going on to second date,

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and then he sent this weird text. It is like

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some things have changed and I'm probably not going to

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be able to hang out with you. So I thought, okay,

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something came up, so I texted back, no problem, is

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everything okay? And he said it's all good, but it's

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not all good for me because I've been.

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I take all bad.

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None of this is good, dude, exactly. It's been like,

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oh my gosh a week or so and he hasn't

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replied it at all.

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Okay, so you know how this works. We'll get him

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on the phone and go what happened, Sean? Why don't

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you seem to want to go with Mary again and hopefully get you another date?

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Okay, okay, all.

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Right, we'll do it.

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Next second date up date kJ went all three TJ Janet,

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Jay Roun in the morning.

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It's Teach, Janet and j Rids Second date update on

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kJ one O three.

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We got Sean on the second date update. Uh, really

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weird that Mary went on a date with you. You

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guys communicated after the date, you had a second eight

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set up, and out of the blue, you're like, yeah, some things have changed.

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Nice, have a nice.

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Life, man, I can't hang out with you. What's why

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are we avoiding another date with Mary?

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I mean I got kind of weirded out after she

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told me that she siloaded my house. She zillowed your house, yeah, which,

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like I don't know, maybe people do that, but like

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then she texted me a picture of my house and

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asked if it was my house.

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Okay, Janna doesn't seem a problem with this.

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And then she asked me if that was all my furniture and stuff that was in the pictures. Clearly she

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was looking at him, and then she kept sending me

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more pictures of like photos from inside of my house.

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Okay, So so is this just weird that she's like

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interested in your space or what I mean?

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I was getting like scream like stalker vibes, like it's

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coming from inside the house.

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Like literally literally from inside. Yeah. I mean it was

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like creeping me out, like.

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It's my house, like you haven't even been there, Like

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it's just weird.

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Okay, Mary, come on in here, Mary.

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Okay, don hi, Oh my gosh, it's not a big deal.

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It's just Billow.

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Well what does that even mean.

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It's sillo, it's there when you look at people's houses,

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that's what we do. She wants to know what.

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Anybody can look at anyone's house. And I was just

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curious about your house, that's.

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All, okay, But why were you curious about my house.

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More importantly, how did you get my address?

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Okay, so you told me what neighborhood you live in,

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and I know your name, and I've found your adjucate

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us in public records.

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Okay, okay, all right, okay, good, Because I was like,

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does anyone else think that that's like a little stalker ish?

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No, how is it stalking? I listen, anyone can find

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your address, anyone can streat you your house. I mean,

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anyone can zillow again.

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But why do you care so much about my house?

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Oh my gosh, it's just curious. It's just because it's

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your house. I'm interested in you.

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Sean, Yeah, I think it may be a little too

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interested in me, and it is just weird stuff going on.

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No, we know it's Oh my gosh, I don't think it's.

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Weird at all.

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It's just I know, don't It's just fun to see

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where people live and we like each other, we're dating.

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I will say that. I when I'm driving through a

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neighborhood and I see a house on Zillow, like, oh, let me look at this house. Let me see if

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there's how much do you think this house is worth? What the inside of this house looks like and sometimes

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there's pictures on the inside of the house. I've never

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gone to public records though, to like, you know, find

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an address of someone that I met. I'm not saying

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it's weird, but I just get where Sean might be

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creeped out. I don't think it's weird. I just think

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you should have kept it to yourself. Yeah, okay, we

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all do those things, but you just don't tell anybody openly.

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We eventually you would have seen my.

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House in real life.

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But like now, no, Yeah, I'm sure he looked up

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a bunch of things that are just on the internet

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about me before we went out. I mean, just to see.

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I was just excited about.

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You and you're on your way, but I wasn't like, oh, what.

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Kind of furniture do you have?

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And let the driveway look like Sean, I guess you're

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just not one of those one of those people. Schools

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are Oklahoma City. We're gonna let you go, Sean.

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I appreciate it.

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Yeah, all right, thanks, buddy.

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I just thought we had and I thought we could

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talk openly. I don't know, I didn't realize it would

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be I just I zillow houses all the time, and

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I love seeing where people live and I don't, I

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guess because I didn't think it was creepy at all.

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That's why I was so open with him.

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Sure because I.

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Well, yeah, thanks for coming on the second date.

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Updates.

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Sorry we couldn't ktch you another date with Sean. But

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you keep listening to him every day?

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Okay, okay, I'll listen to you, guys. I love you, guys.

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Take care bye.

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Okay, So, is is it stockersh to to go fight Janus? No? No, no?

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So okay, okay, let me flip this. Though you got

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on one date with a guy, you like him enough

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to go out again. He's going, Hey, here's some pictures

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of the inside of your house.

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No, you think that's tired?

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I told her.

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You don't tell me?

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Okay, it's not weird.

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To do it?

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Okay, so weird if you're not willing to tell them,

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doesn't that mean it's weird to do it? If you're

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not what?

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No, why wouldn't you tell them?

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Perfectly acceptable and tell people everything?

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Okay, Okay, some things to ourselves, okay, four oh five

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for six l one and she's haven't had like a reasonable person's opinion on this. Oh no, I wasn't saying

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not you. I'm just saying other other reasonable, other more

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more reasonable than Janet. People who's just a little bit reasonable.

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Let's talk about this second date update kJ Weddle three TJ, Janet,

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J Rod in the morning, Samantha and Haarra. What's up?

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Okay, so I have a discussion about the topic pans.

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Okay for people just joining us, they went on a date,

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they were gonna go out again. She sent them some

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pictures of his house. Hey, I found you on Zillo.

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It's like, how'd you find my address? I went on

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public records and found your address and then stalked you

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on Zillo And here's some pictures of the inside.

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Of the house.

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He's like, whoa, this is like one day that. This

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is very this is the stalker vibe. Yes, your thoughts?

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Okay.

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So in the dating world, there is so many people

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that lie, so you don't know their backstory. So yes,

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I am one of those people that go and look

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up everything about that person because most of them are

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still married.

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Oh yeah, I don't.

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Think there's anything wrong with researching somebody. Oh yes, yes, wait,

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wait tell me about this. What is this where you

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go to see if somebody has court records. Oh yeah, wow, yeah, okay, if.

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They're still married, yeah, if they're going through a divorce,

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all that stuff.

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Is on there.

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If they aren't paying their bills and they have claims

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against them. So what was what was your full legal

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name again and address? Okay, interesting, I'll just want to

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find out some stuff about our listeners. So you're saying

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for most people, they do it as a matter of trust.

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Do you think it's weird that she's doing it just

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as I just wanted to see her house because I like you. Is that a little more creepy? Like maybe

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he would have understood if she's like, hey, I was just trying to see if you were legit.

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Sorry, you just don't talk about it exactly.

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Okay, just don't talk about it.

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We don't have to tell everybody everything we do.

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Don't talk about it.

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You just be sneaky to try to find out if

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the other person is sneaky. Yeah, that's what you do.

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That's how you investigative words.

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You're not supposed to tell them that you're being a creep.

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Yeah, I got you. You're being a creep. There's a

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word for it. Don't be a creep okay, don't don't

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tell you in her creepiness. Thank you, Samantha.