Traumatized Motherfuckers

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Traumatized Motherfuckers

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It's the pub ep of the month! What waits inside your self? STRESS, BIG EMOTIONS, MISALIGNMENTS, AND HUMILIATING MEMORIES, anyone? Let's summarize these stops on our spooktacular self-adventure. VIDEYUM!For the full ride, including DISASSOCIATIO
Video!It's that time. Whether you're NC, LC, or BC (bitter contact), it helps to integrate evidence and recognize your personal "ENOUGH."For more help with the holidays, check patreon.com/traumatizedmotherfuckers and find the free Holiday Survi
Following up on last episode: When are we softening towards ourselves in compassion... vs. self-victimizing? There's a simple way to know. Get the full 250+ episode catalog in the Fort!Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/traumatized-m
It's the public summary of our work from the past month! The filthiest words: love yourself. 🤮 Why does trauma create barriers between us and... not hating us? Talkin' lost relationships, criteria for love, loss of self, and the endless self s
Education and Responsibility are important for t-recovery... But progress peters when self-punishment predominates. Without self-compassion, regression becomes reality. Let's talk about the requirement for self-compassion and 5 ways to do it.Wa
Ready for a less depressing outlook on relationships after trauma? Well, it exists, but it comes from the other side of the world. Today, our good friend Incanthatus gives us the two-sided account of how to have a healing relationship - all par
We know, we know.... Anxious or avoidant, early learning calls all the shots. Or does it? Is attachment style a lifelong trait? A characteristic you can't shake? Or should we see attachment as an opposing set of default brain instructions? We'r
Let's talk about the emotional detachment self-preservation tactic known as "Decathecting." You might know it as abandonment, ghosting, or relational deactivation. Throw in some black and white thinking, and we've got a pretty standard CPTSD ta
Sarah's Series of Unfortunate Events.Sarah: Age 24, College Student, Cat Savior, COVID Survivor, Narcissistic Abuse Recoverer, Victim of Grooming, Brave-ass Motherfucker. A disruptive early family life opens the door to predatory relations...
Ever feel like you're not allowed to be yourself? Like your words aren't valid? Like your only utility is performing for others? And all the rest is "N/A?"Yeah... So, as you might guess, mental health podcasting got to be a hard effort after be
THANK GOD, this asshole is about to shuttup and hand over the mic. Today, let's hear from our good friend Cassie, who has endless insight to offer. Let's dig into her take on gender, sexuality, and finding her identity - or, as she titled the r
Sorry for the switch in plans - sometimes a Motherfucker's computer breaks, so does the car-house, and everything goes to freck.But here we are, reflecting on how surprisingly calm the day went, nevertheless. No panic attack. No anxiety, anger,
So, we've learned to identify what counts as "abuse" with more clarity. We've accepted our early challenges and intend to move on from them. BUT, still find ourselves getting sucked into relationships that recreate our old circumstances and men
Welcome to the fullest of the full, most extensively extended version of the episode! Thanks for being a diehard MF. So why are all of your romantic (and otherwise) relationships chronically abusive? Especially when you're soooo dead set on bre
Well, I'm a sucker and I won't leave you hanging. Everyone gets Part II - take your "self" motivation and do something with it. So we dove down and reconnected with the fact that we're real, actual, autonomous animals on this planet last time.
Life calls. So, let's talk a personally-based mashup of dissociation under abuse, depersonalization, and being driven to make big changes when the "loss of self" becomes indisputable, the anger aligns, and your dog's life is the final motivator
So you forgot you exist in your own life, huh? Maybe you've been numb for a minute. Maybe your crutches have become wheels. How do you break out of the mental/emotional disconnection and restart your will to live - for your self. I got tips.You
Just seeing some negativity that needs to be stomped out - our perception of "lost" versions of ourselves. Stop hating who you think you are now. Stop worrying about "who you used to be." Stop assuming you can never be that person again. It's a
Ever wonder where your feelings went? Yeah, well, we all do. But ever wonder if you really exist at all? Intense stress will do that to you, from your emotions to your mental faculties, and finally all the way down to your attachment to your ow
You know those times in life when everything abruptly changes, and it's tragic and beautiful all at once? Take some of mine. instagram.com/archiewheeliepup to see his journey $3/mo - Get full content on PatreonSupport this show http://supporter
Born "different." Overcoming challenges that "normal" species members don't even notice. Constantly falling on his face. Flailing. Sometimes, freezing up with overstimulation. But always getting up and trying again.Today, I'm talking about my w
Mushbrain makes words hard. Let's just rap for another minute or 20 about relationships, standards, expectations... and do a mini exercise.  $3/mo - Get full content on PatreonSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/traumatized-motherfucke
So we allllll wonder, "Why do I end up with people who abuse me and relationships that sink me?" Answer: How long've you got for this discussion?Well, as relationally traumatized fuckers, this is the focus of the show for the foreseeable future
Heads up, emotional.If you're already feeling too many feelings, uh, probably don't listen.If you're failing at feeling - hey, this cracked my sternum wide open, maybe it'll release your emotions and remind you how to "experience" too.If you're
Who's ready to pinpoint their trauma-self narratives? Yeah, no one. I know.  $3/mo - Get full content on PatreonSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/traumatized-motherfuckers. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
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