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Welcome to What a Creep! The
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show with Margardonio and Sonia
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Mansfield talking about creeps from
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the past to the present.
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This is your quick guide
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to the biggest creeps, jerks,
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assholes and losers, the best
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of the worst. From two
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nice ladies who want the world
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to be a little less creepy.
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Welcome back to what a creep
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this is Margot Donahue and my cohort
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in creepage and as always is the
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amazing Sonia Mansfield. Hey Sonia. Hello
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my friend. We are the podcast
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that talks about creeps from the past
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to the present. Today we have a
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couple of creeps that were heart
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throbs at one point in their lives.
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Hunkies. Young actors? Yeah, you probably saw
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them on your, you know, teen beat.
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magazine or whatever. What did the Tiger
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Beat? Tiger Beat? There was Team Beat.
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There's, you know, Teen People and... Oh yeah,
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yeah, you know, it could have been there. But
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we'll be talking about them. But just so
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you know, if this is your first time
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listening, we always end the show
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with somebody who is not a creep
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or something that is not creepy. So you
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feel a little bit better about the world.
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We know how tough that is these days,
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but we're doing our best everybody. We're
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always looking for suggestions for creeps
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and non-crips and here are some
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great places you can find us.
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We're on Facebook. We have a
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basic Facebook page, but that's where
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Shit, fuck damn! There you go.
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Twice I've had people send me their
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the mail and then they get sent back
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to me. It's so bizarre. What's up with
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So if you're interested, email me. There was
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somebody Jennifer. Jennifer, I sent you an
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We want to give people credit.
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for the work they do digging
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up the dirt on these creeps.
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So go check them out if
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you're looking for a deeper dive.
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Fabulous place to start. We also
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That's my favorite sleep t-shirt. I
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ridiculously good t-shirts. Yeah, I agree.
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I think that's everything, is it?
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I think so. All right, Sonia.
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Should we get into it? Let's
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get into it. Okay. Ricky Schroeder.
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Probably best known. Wake up, Champ!
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Wake up, Champ! Champ! It's a
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movie called The Champion, y'all. It's
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John Voight, plays a boxer, and
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Ricky Schroeder is his son, and...
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spoiler alert, he gets killed at
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the end in a boxing ring.
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And Ricky went into everybody's hearts
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because he was his beautiful little
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face. He was a little toehead
5:14
kid. I just said, wake up,
5:16
chimp, cup. Anyway, he, yeah, no,
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he was a very gifted child
5:20
actor. He was probably best known
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as Ricky on Silver Spoons. That's
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where I knew and from. You
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and I together. You do. And
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then we also have Fred Savage,
5:31
probably best known as Kevin Arnold
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on the Wonder Years or maybe
5:35
the Grand... Would you do anything
5:37
out to... Margot is such a
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good mimic. She is such a
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good mimic. I'm punchy y'all. I
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was up way too late last
5:46
night watching Adolescence. You're all on
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Netflix. I've had... I had some
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a... I had some aureos and
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like... a diet coke I'm ready
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so let's do it he was
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also the grandson in the princess
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bride and then he did movies
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like the wizard and little monsters
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and you know vice versa anyway
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yeah they oh that's right one
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of the body switching movies vice
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versa We love, we're very entertained
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by the bodies. Body switching movies,
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that's one of our things. Yep.
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These two have a lot in
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common. Both successful child actors and
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it turns out they're both total
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creeps! Whoo! I put them together.
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Trigger warning, domestic violence and sexual
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harassment. Yay! Okay. I can't tell
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anymore. No, I know, right? Honorable
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Gregor was at oppressor at the
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White House. I know. an episode
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of this motherfucker just like a
6:37
month ago. Yep. Again, we're ahead
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of the curve, y'all. All the
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people that were like, who's that?
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Google, then found our podcast. Welcome
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to the parties, pal. Welcome to
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the party. Okay, so sources for
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this episode for Ricky Schroeder, the
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sources are his very own Facebook.
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T.M.Z. Vanity Fair, Variety Fair, Variety,
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Yahoo News, and Wikipedia for Fred
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Savage. deadline Hollywood reporter page six
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rolling stone vulture and always Wikipedia
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all of this is linked in
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our show notes I did make
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any of this up let's start
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with Ricky Schroeder Richard Bartlett Schroeder
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was born April 13th 1970 in
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Brooklyn what he's an air raise
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and Brooklyn yeah yeah yeah raised
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in Staten Island though that that
7:20
that explains there you go His
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parents were Diane and Richard, both
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former employees of AT&T. As a
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child, he did, he did like
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catalog model, adorable, adorable kid. Yeah.
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And a handsome grown man. He's
7:33
a good-looking person. Good-looking human. Yeah.
7:35
We're not in denial here. He
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might be ugly on the inside,
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but he's very handsome. Yeah, so
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he was, you know, did a
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lot of catallings. But is he
7:45
hot? But is he hot? That's
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all that matters. He did a
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lot of catalogs. He did a
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lot of like advertising, modeling, stuff
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like that. You know, he was
7:56
in like 60 different ads. He
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made his film debut in The
8:00
Champ. That was 1979. Wake up
8:03
Champ. Wake up Champ. He became
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the youngest Golden Globe winner that
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year for that movie. So he
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would have been, he was like
8:11
nine years old. He was really
8:13
good in that movie. It's a
8:15
tearjaker, but yeah. Oh, by the
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way, sorry, Sonia, I interviewed somebody
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who was the trainer for John
8:22
Voight in that movie, because he
8:24
was trained John Travolta for Saturday
8:26
Night Fever, and he said the
8:28
guy was a wanker. Yeah, surprised.
8:30
We have an episode on John
8:32
Voight. Anyway, continue, I'll shut up.
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You, no, you are fine. He
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did a lot of movies in
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the, like, 70s after the champs,
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I'm sorry, after the champs, so
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it would have been 70s, early
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80s, and a lot of tear
8:47
jokers, he was really good at
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crying, he was very good at
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that. But then he goes on
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to do silver spoons and that
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was on for five seasons, so
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82 to 87, he's on there.
9:00
And then Jason Bateman joined and
9:02
I was like, Ricky Schroeder, who?
9:04
Aaron Gray. Aaron Gray. My brother
9:07
had a big crush on her.
9:09
Yeah. I was all in on
9:11
Jason Bateman once I saw Jason
9:13
Bateman. But anyway, he did Silver
9:15
Spoons. And then, you know, later
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he did like Lonesome Dove, great
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mini series. You've never seen it.
9:22
He was on NYPD Blue for
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a couple of season. Yep. And
9:26
he did start his own production
9:28
company where he shot like a
9:30
reality series about like people who
9:32
were in the Army. He did
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a documentary called The Fighting Season,
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where he spent like 100 days
9:39
in Afghanistan and filmed all these.
9:41
documentaries about army guys and stuff
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and good for him whatever that's
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great yeah fine anyway enough of
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his resume so Schroeder got married
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in 92 to Andrea Bernard they
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have four children that's holding Luke
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Cambry and Faith those are cute
9:56
names actually yeah yeah they all
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appeared yeah I no doubt yeah
10:00
they are like no doubt yeah
10:02
they are like no doubt yeah
10:04
they are like really good looking
10:06
um He and like all the
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kids are in it. Oh, he
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was kind of maybe wanting them
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to be in the business. I'm
10:15
sorry. Say that again. It doesn't
10:17
appear that a little bit. Oh,
10:19
sorry everybody. Just like me. My
10:21
internet is unstable. They did a
10:24
TV movie together. Who did? It's
10:26
Ricky Schroeder and his kids. Oh,
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it called Our Wild Hearts. I've
10:30
never seen it. I've never seen
10:32
it. I've never seen it. I'm
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sure it's I'm sure I'm sure
10:36
it's adorable. In 2000 he joined
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the Church of Latter-day Saints because
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that's what his wife was a
10:43
Mormon but they got divorced in
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2016 and now he's super Christian
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so he made the switch. So
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he's no longer well they're Christian
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but it's a different sect it's
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a different sect. Is it? He
10:56
was Mormon and now he's Christian.
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Okay. Yes, that's what I'm trying.
11:00
There you go. But they are
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divorced. I want to make it
11:04
very clear. So in April, they
11:06
were like he would have been
11:08
22. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. In April
11:11
2nd, 2019, he got arrested in
11:13
Los Angeles for punching his girlfriend
11:15
in the face. No. Nope. He
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was charged with domestic violence and
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then those charges were dropped. He
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was then arrested again 28 days
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later. Not the movie, just happened
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to be 28 days late. Again
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for domestic violence, for punching his
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girlfriend, and again in press charges.
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He's currently engaged to an actress
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named Julie Trammel. They say she's
11:36
an actress, but I went to
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IMDB and she is not there.
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So I did some more Googling
11:43
and apparently she wasn't a stage
11:45
production of the Sound of Music
11:47
once. So I guess. Yeah. So
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she's an actress y'all. I went
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to her Instagram where she has
11:53
about 2,000 followers and you can
11:55
see pictures of her in the
11:58
ricker like at Maralago. How old
12:00
is she? And what does she
12:02
look like? She's pretty and is
12:04
she blonde? She. No. Like a
12:06
dark. like not quite brunette not
12:08
really blonde also I would say
12:10
not she's not age inappropriate like
12:13
she might be a lit yeah
12:15
she might be a little younger
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than him but not like gross
12:19
not like like the White House
12:21
spokesperson whose husband's what 36 years
12:23
older than no oh yeah no
12:25
no no no no what did
12:27
somebody referred to her recently as
12:30
like a Kirklin brand oh Timu
12:32
Barbie. Timu Barbie. She actually, I'm
12:34
sorry, we're all over the place
12:36
today. Yeah. She actually, this week,
12:38
they were talking about, somebody brought
12:40
up France and France is like,
12:42
we want back the Statue of
12:45
Liberty. Like, no, they don't really
12:47
want that. But it's just simple.
12:49
They were joking. But she's like,
12:51
well, we're for Americans. They'd be
12:53
speaking German right now, which is
12:55
something her old husband's generation would
12:57
say, guys. I wish it wasn't
13:00
true either, but we wouldn't have
13:02
fallen home without them. for France
13:04
we would all be speaking the
13:06
Queen's English right now. So exactly.
13:08
Thank you and that's a better
13:10
point. So bitch please. Bitch please
13:12
be quiet. So anyway you could
13:14
go to their Instagrams you could
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see pictures of them like being
13:19
together and go into Marilago and
13:21
stuff and I think that's all.
13:23
Huh? Was he hitting her? No
13:25
no no different different girl. Okay.
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Yes. He is one of those
13:29
people that believes Trump won the
13:32
2020 election. Because of course he
13:34
does, he's anti-vax, because, quote, our
13:36
bodies are our own. Yeah. You
13:38
know, we get to decide what
13:40
goes in and what goes out,
13:42
understood. That's what he says. Guess
13:44
what though? Not pro choice. Not
13:47
pro choice. Interesting. Interesting. Isn't that
13:49
interesting? It's like, our bodies our
13:51
own. Not you ladies. Not you.
13:53
The body inside your body belongs
13:55
to somebody else. You got to
13:57
control it. Right. Right. But the
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real reason I put him on
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this list though is because in
14:04
November 2020, Ricky Schroeder is the
14:06
one who helped pay the bail
14:08
for Kyle Rittenhouse. And if you
14:10
don't know who Kyle Rittenhouse is,
14:12
boy are you lucky. Boy, I
14:14
fucking envy you. Yeah. Kyle Rittenhouse
14:16
is a dickhead, but also a
14:19
17-year-old who traveled to a Black
14:21
Lives Matter protest in Wisconsin with
14:23
a gun, you know, to protect
14:25
stores and shit from looting because
14:27
that's worth killing people about. Like
14:29
they're not insured or something either
14:31
people. Like calm your teeth. Dude,
14:34
dude just went there to kill
14:36
people. Looking for a fight. Yeah,
14:38
and he found one and he
14:40
fatally shot, he murdered two people
14:42
and injured a third. and he
14:44
was rightfully arrested. and Ricky Schroeder
14:46
was like, I'm outraged in him
14:48
and like the might pillow founder,
14:51
like put up his bail. Good
14:53
company, you're keeping their ricker, like,
14:55
or Rickster, whatever the fuck nickname
14:57
he used to go by on
14:59
Silver Spoons, I can't remember. I
15:01
think they called him Richard on
15:03
NYPD Blue, I think they, they,
15:06
it was no longer, or just
15:08
Rick's, it might have been Rick.
15:10
It might have been Rick. Maybe
15:12
it was. Yeah, he, my God,
15:14
it's like the Tony Danza School
15:16
of Acting where he just always
15:18
has to play a character with
15:21
his own. No, no, no, I'm
15:23
saying that he was, no, I'm
15:25
sorry, sorry. He, he was, his,
15:27
his stage names, Ricky Schroeder, but
15:29
I think when he was on
15:31
my PD Blue, he's, when he
15:33
was on my PD Blue, his
15:35
character was named Rick. No, I
15:38
don't remember his character's name. I
15:40
just remember there were a character's
15:42
name. I just remember there, I
15:44
just remember there, I just remember,
15:46
I just remember, I just remember,
15:48
there, there, there, France, Dennis, France.
15:50
My roommate interviewed him, said he
15:53
was a great guy. Dennis, France,
15:55
really nice man. Adam Riske is
15:57
a big fan. Oh, I'll let
15:59
him know. Yeah. So Kyle Rittenhouse
16:01
gets out on bail, thanks to
16:03
Ricky Schroeder and my tello guy.
16:05
He was charged, by the way,
16:08
for murder, and he was acquitted
16:10
because murder is legal now in
16:12
America. the reputations of the men
16:14
that he killed. And I'm not
16:16
saying, I hate this expression, but
16:18
I'm not saying that they were
16:20
perfect or they, I mean, yeah,
16:22
but he brought a gun across
16:25
the state line to do it
16:27
because there's different laws in different
16:29
states and then when he's underage
16:31
and he's underage and it's a
16:33
black lives matter thing and you're
16:35
a white man with a gun
16:37
looking for people looking for trouble.
16:40
So, yeah. And he's an asshole.
16:42
That too. Oh, he's such a
16:44
prick and he's such a... Oh,
16:46
God, he's such a... Oh, God,
16:48
he's such a... Oh, God, he's
16:50
such a crybaby. Like, he could
16:52
tow one of those maggots who
16:55
like dishes it out and then
16:57
can't... take it
16:59
when you like
17:01
give them just
17:03
the slightest big
17:05
pushback. We're talking
17:07
about Kyle Rittenhouse,
17:10
by the way.
17:12
Ricky Schroeder is
17:14
also very similar.
17:16
So he posts
17:18
that bail, you
17:20
know, everyone's like,
17:22
what the fuck
17:24
Ricky Schroeder? Why
17:27
are you doing
17:29
that? you know,
17:31
he's like, and
17:33
he's like, I,
17:35
you know, I'm
17:37
a big supporter
17:39
of gun ownership.
17:42
And I'm in
17:44
the NRA. And
17:46
he said, it
17:48
quote, made me
17:50
mad. This boy
17:52
is innocent. And
17:54
he will be
17:57
proven innocent. And
17:59
I did what
18:01
any father should
18:03
have done. And
18:05
that's get a
18:07
kid out of
18:09
jail that doesn't
18:11
deserve to be
18:14
there. Hard pass.
18:16
He totally deserved
18:18
to be there.
18:20
And he should
18:22
still be. So
18:24
he pays the
18:26
bail. And then
18:29
Ricky Schroeder is
18:31
like, I'm getting
18:33
death threats on
18:35
social media. So
18:37
he calls the
18:39
cops, the cops
18:41
come to Schroeder's
18:44
house, they go
18:46
through all his
18:48
negatives, negative quote,
18:50
social media posts.
18:52
And they're like,
18:54
um, these aren't
18:56
death threats. People
18:58
just don't like
19:01
you. It was,
19:03
I went through some of the
19:05
posts that they were, he was
19:07
like, I'm getting death threats. And
19:09
it was like, someone said, to
19:11
be honest, I thought he was
19:13
dead. And
19:15
then someone else said, this was
19:18
a racist move, pure and simple.
19:20
And then my favorite that says
19:22
Ricky Schroeder can shove that silver
19:24
spoon right up his own ass.
19:29
And he's like, I'm getting death threats.
19:31
There's a, there's a congressman, a Republican
19:33
congressman who released of voicemails of like
19:35
death, and they were death threats for
19:37
sure. But there was like a bunch
19:39
of them. And I'm, and I've, and
19:42
a bunch of people, it was on
19:44
threads. And so all these people were
19:46
responding. It was more like, Oh, too
19:48
bad. What's for dinner tonight? Yeah. and
19:51
prayers. Thoughts and prayers. Exactly. Thoughts
19:54
and prayers to you. Yeah.
19:57
So the cops determined
19:59
there were no
20:01
credible threats and that they would monitor
20:03
the situation, quote, unquote. A bunch of
20:05
celebrities also tweeted and
20:08
they were like, what the fuck,
20:10
Ricky Schroeder, what's wrong with you?
20:12
But my favorite was Chad Lowe,
20:14
who is Roblo's little brother, Chad
20:17
Lowe, also did sitcoms in the
20:19
80s. And life goes on. Remember
20:21
that show? Jesse? Oh, yeah, yeah.
20:23
Yeah. And he said, I had
20:25
a conversation with Ricky Schroeder many
20:28
years ago. that makes today's news,
20:30
not surprising at all. Let's just
20:32
say it was the last time
20:34
we spoke. Wow. I wonder how the
20:36
Low Brothers get along, because I
20:39
think Rob is Republican. Like he
20:41
was friends with the Supreme Court
20:43
judge that everybody hates. Oh,
20:46
Kavanaugh? Yeah. No, not Kavanaugh.
20:48
He's probably friends with Kavanaugh, too.
20:50
No one might think it goes
20:52
up. John Roberts? The Black
20:54
one. Oh, Thomas. Clarence Thomas, sorry, Thomas.
20:56
He's friends with Clarence Thomas. Yeah, Boblow
20:59
is friends with Clarence Thomas and doesn't
21:01
think it's a bit. I know, I
21:03
know. This was like five years ago,
21:05
I read this one. You know, I
21:07
guarantee you, Roblow is like, well, I
21:09
just care about the money and limited
21:12
government. And then the minute you
21:14
confront, yeah, and then the minute
21:16
you confront him with actual shit,
21:18
he's probably like, well, I don't like
21:20
that. I like gay people, I'm cool with
21:22
that. Yeah, I was in Behind the
21:24
Camber Loba or whatever the fun.
21:27
That's right. He wasn't behind the
21:29
candle opera. When that came out,
21:31
my brother John, he actually, he
21:33
wrote, he sent a text that
21:36
said, oh my god, I'm so
21:38
horny. He was watching this behind
21:40
the camera. It goes Matt David
21:43
and Michael Douglas, the sex scene.
21:45
That is like the most horrible
21:47
thing to watch. Yes. Oh my
21:50
god, we should do that
21:52
for dorky. Oh, we should
21:54
totally do that for dorking
21:56
out. Okay, we'll put it
21:58
on the list. Okay, so. He does
22:00
all this shit with Kyle Rittenhouse
22:02
and we're like, fuck this guy
22:05
right. Then, May 2021, Schroeder like
22:07
puts this shit up on his
22:09
own social media. So hence the
22:12
link to his own Facebook. He
22:14
goes to Costco and he's harassing
22:16
the employee, an employee about the
22:18
mask mandate. Like he's just like
22:21
such a burden. This first of
22:23
all, put on a fucking mask.
22:25
You have to wear shirt and
22:28
shoes as well. Just do. Yeah,
22:30
and he's harassing this man who's
22:32
like, you know, if you go
22:34
to Costco and I think a
22:37
lot of us are going to
22:39
Costco these days because we're not
22:41
going to target, you know, you
22:44
have to show your Costco card
22:46
and things like that. And this
22:48
is the pandemic was still going
22:50
on at the time and they
22:53
had a mask mandate and it's
22:55
to keep people safe. Like, look,
22:57
if you want to endanger yourself,
23:00
I don't give a fuck. Like,
23:02
deserve to shop without your fucking
23:04
koodies. So, he's harassing this employee.
23:06
Post the video on his social
23:09
media with, like, all of his,
23:11
like, fans or whatever. And they're
23:13
like, you tell him, Ricky, you
23:16
know, whatever. And I'm like, people
23:18
who do this shit are the
23:20
worst because that employee does not
23:22
make the rules for Costco. They
23:25
don't have any power. You're just
23:27
being, and it's, but if it's
23:29
a statewide. Cool. Then everybody has
23:32
to follow it. Yeah, just imagine
23:34
like the the thought process for
23:36
Ricky Schroeder was like, I'm gonna
23:38
bully this retail employee about shit.
23:41
They don't have control over and
23:43
I'm gonna film it and I'm
23:45
gonna post it on my social
23:48
media like I've done something awesome.
23:50
You haven't done anything awesome. You're
23:52
being a stupid ignorant fuck and
23:54
you're you're exposing that man to
23:57
a lot of bullying that he
23:59
doesn't deserve right? Right. Also, you're
24:01
telling on yourself to everybody else.
24:04
We all know now who you
24:06
are. So he got all shitty
24:08
about it. He tried to implore
24:10
all his people to like, get
24:13
a refund from Costco, return your
24:15
cards, blah, blah, blah, you know.
24:17
He was totally shitty to that
24:20
poor employee. A manager came out
24:22
and like, gave him a refund
24:24
on the spot. She was like,
24:26
here you go, bye. Get the
24:29
fuck out. People love Costco, dude.
24:31
Yeah, they love Costco. By the
24:33
way, all these people that were
24:36
like, I'm boycotting Costco. They're totally
24:38
not boycotting Costco. No. So after
24:40
the incident, then Schroeder's like, hey,
24:42
I'm real sorry, like, I apologize
24:45
if he hurt the employees' feelings.
24:47
Fuck that, the fuck the feelings
24:49
crowd. Fuck the feelings crowd. Fuck
24:52
you. Like. By the way, and
24:54
again, like his stunt didn't do
24:56
shit. I'm sure nobody refunded their
24:58
cards. Costco's positively rolling in it
25:01
right now because we've all ditched
25:03
target to shop there, so they're
25:05
fine. But he wasn't really sorry,
25:08
right? Because he did this, but
25:10
then just a couple months later,
25:12
he did it again. He went
25:14
there, like you do. you know,
25:17
it's a museum I go, yeah,
25:19
yeah, I don't know, I don't
25:21
know, I don't know why he's
25:24
in Kansas, but okay, he goes
25:26
there, flips out on security guards
25:28
who ask him to wear a
25:30
mask, he starts calling them Nazis,
25:33
and that they should only be
25:35
enforcing God's law, God's law, God's
25:37
plan, like, so he's not, sorry,
25:40
he's just gonna go do it
25:42
somewhere else. I went to all
25:44
his social media channels. It's just
25:46
all like God's Law bullshit with
25:49
some magga and transphobic garbage sprinkled
25:51
in here and there. So yeah.
25:53
don't need to follow him I
25:56
checked for you there's nothing good
25:58
there most recently he is the
26:00
founding member of the council on
26:02
pornography reform I don't know what
26:05
that is reform pornography I don't
26:07
know is he gonna make it
26:09
better exactly I don't know plots
26:12
now better writing I don't know
26:14
but a writing I don't know
26:16
but apparently like He is, I'm
26:18
trying to figure it out, because,
26:21
and I'm trying to figure it
26:23
out without clicking on all the
26:25
links, by the way, because this
26:28
shit looks fucking spammy and I'm
26:30
not looking to infect my computer
26:32
with whatever his pornography reform is,
26:34
but I think he's interested in
26:37
making sure that they're not using
26:39
AI in pornography, and I'm like,
26:41
but. Who cares? Well, no, I
26:44
think, does he mean like a
26:46
revenge porn or something? Like, somebody
26:48
can just get your, yeah. I
26:50
don't, but I don't think so.
26:53
Like, I think it's just, you
26:55
know, the idea of, like, not
26:57
using real people in pornography. I
27:00
didn't read anything about it being
27:02
about revenge porn, but also. We're
27:04
not for revenge poor. No, we're
27:06
against that. Yeah, just FYI. And
27:09
we would also like rules against
27:11
that sort of thing. But like
27:13
he, you know, he's like, hey,
27:16
I'm on this council of pornography
27:18
reform. I'm making a documentary. It's
27:20
called erotic erosion. I don't, I
27:22
haven't been able to see anything
27:25
about it. It's not on IMDB.
27:27
It's not on Wikipedia when I
27:29
Google it. All it comes up
27:32
is like interviews with him where
27:34
he mentions it. Erotic erosion. Yeah,
27:36
and then... That sounds like a
27:38
new order album. Yeah. I would
27:41
listen. Erosion. Erosion. Erosion. But then
27:43
it's got a hashtag that says,
27:45
let's tear down Satan's Kingdom, and
27:48
I'm like, oh. Oh. Oh. Oh.
27:50
I guess, I guess. I mean,
27:52
I would need to see it
27:54
first because maybe it's cool. I
27:57
don't know. Satan's kingdom is probably
27:59
a roller coaster, right? It sounds
28:01
like a roller coaster. I don't
28:04
know. But, um, I'm looking at
28:06
that project with some serious side
28:08
eye because of who it's coming
28:10
from. So, that's our little segment
28:13
on Ricky Schroeder. Rick, let's talk,
28:15
Rick, about Fred Savage. What would
28:17
you do if I say what?
28:20
I'm sorry. So Frederick Aaron Savage,
28:22
born July 9th, 1976 in Chicago.
28:24
Yeah, Chicago boy. His parents are
28:26
Joanne and Lewis Savage. They were
28:29
like real estate brokers. He grew
28:31
up in Illinois before they moved
28:33
to Southern California. He's got a
28:36
younger brother named Ben. I believe
28:38
Ben is also an actor. And
28:40
then he's got his sister is
28:43
like Kayla Savage and she's like
28:45
an actress and a musician. I've
28:47
never seen her in anything, but
28:49
his brother I definitely have. For
28:52
a savage show that was on
28:54
for like a hundred years and
28:56
then they, something. Oh my God,
28:59
was he on, he was on
29:01
Boy Meats. Boy Meets World or
29:03
Your Boy Meets World. That was
29:05
him. Yeah. So Fred Savage first
29:08
showed up in a movie called
29:10
The Boy Who Could Fly, and
29:12
then he does a bunch of
29:15
like guest spots, right? He's in
29:17
like Twilight Zones and Crime Story
29:19
and you know, things like that.
29:21
And then he is the grandson
29:24
and the Princess Bride, where Peter
29:26
Falk's reading the story. Such a
29:28
good movie. Such a good movie
29:31
and like Fred Savage is really
29:33
good and he's a good. It's
29:35
a good little part. They're all
29:37
they're both great actors. We're not
29:40
talking about their talent. Yes. Yeah.
29:42
Yes. I and then in 88
29:44
he does the wonder years. I
29:47
loved the Wonder Years when it
29:49
was first on. My God, I
29:51
watched every week. I cried my
29:53
eyes out at the last episode
29:56
about the dad and all that
29:58
stuff. Yeah, I was into it.
30:00
So the parents were so good
30:03
on that show. They were so
30:05
good. I loved Wonder Years and
30:07
my parents loved it too. It
30:09
was a show that like we
30:12
could all watch together. He was
30:14
nominated for Golden Globes for that.
30:16
He was nominated for Emmy's. At
30:19
the age of 13, he was
30:21
the youngest actor to be nominated
30:23
for Best Actor because it's like
30:25
lead actor, not supporting. So then
30:28
it turns out, so the show
30:30
is canceled in 93. And part
30:32
of the reason it was canceled
30:35
was Fred Savage, who was then
30:37
16. and his co-star Jason Harvey,
30:39
who was 20, sexually harassed someone
30:41
who worked in the costume department.
30:44
Yeah, so she said that they
30:46
verbally and physically harassed her daily.
30:48
Daily. Just trying to picture what
30:51
you could get away with in
30:53
1993 on a set. I mean,
30:55
Jesus Christ. Yes. She constantly, it
30:57
was constantly, it was constantly ignored.
31:00
Even the actor who played the
31:02
dad was just like, you should
31:04
take Fred Savage's virginity, like made
31:07
the super. Oh, Dan, Luria, no!
31:09
No, no, bad, shame, she was
31:11
32 at the time. Like, imagine
31:13
some fucking child. Yeah, you're just
31:16
like harassing you. Yeah, and he's
31:18
got power because it's his fucking
31:20
show. Yeah, he's the star of
31:23
the show. So people are like,
31:25
he's a kid, she should just
31:27
tell him to fuck, you know,
31:29
fuck off. He's the star of
31:32
the show. Yes, he's, he's the
31:34
lead. Like, he was constantly pestering
31:36
her to go on dates with
31:39
him, he would try to touch
31:41
her, confess. love to her all
31:43
the time, tried to get her
31:45
to have an affair with him.
31:48
The dad actor says the things
31:50
he's saying. The Jason Harvey, who
31:52
apparently is a real piece of
31:55
work too, also did like more
31:57
lurid things. I'm going to put
31:59
that in quotes. They didn't get
32:01
into details on that, but he
32:04
also apparently hit her and he
32:06
would like simulate sex acts in
32:08
front of her. Or Jason did
32:11
that. Jason did that. I remember
32:13
him from Peaway's Big Adventure. Yes.
32:15
Braddy. I'm always ready. Roll. There's
32:17
a reason he's so good. He's
32:20
going to play Dickheads. Yeah. So,
32:22
you know, the network was like,
32:24
no, she's just a disgruntled employee.
32:27
Like, they really, really dismissed her.
32:29
But they. They did settle out
32:31
of court with her and then
32:33
they canceled the show. I think
32:36
they were going to cancel the
32:38
show anyway to be honest with
32:40
you. Those kids were getting older
32:43
and yeah. It always happens. It's
32:45
true. They're getting older and they're
32:47
getting less cute. Yeah. They're in
32:49
the college and they all go
32:52
to the college together and it
32:54
never makes sense because everybody goes
32:56
to different colleges because you don't
32:59
want to be around these people
33:01
anymore. That's right. Yeah. So wonder
33:03
years this canceled, savage moves on
33:05
to... other things. He starts doing
33:08
the law and order special victims
33:10
unit, guest spots, he played the
33:12
mole and Austin Powers gold member.
33:15
I don't know if you remember
33:17
that, but he has like a
33:19
huge mole on his face and
33:21
like Austin Powers can't not say
33:24
anything about his mole and he's
33:26
just like moly moly moly moly
33:28
moly moly moly mopo. The best
33:31
is an uncle buck. Buck Melanoma,
33:33
moly Russell's wart. One of my
33:35
favorite seeds. He did a lot
33:37
of voice work, and then he
33:40
started directing. So he did like,
33:42
he started directing like Nickelodeon and
33:44
Disney Channel stuff, so like that's
33:47
so Raven and he. Montana and
33:49
then he moves on to like
33:51
modern family and two broke girls
33:53
and he's he's making quite the
33:56
name for himself directing sitcoms good
33:58
for him so did potty and
34:00
mouth yeah yeah exactly he goes
34:03
back to acting in 2015 he
34:05
does a show called the grinder
34:07
I never watched it I know
34:09
the app I don't know the
34:12
app I know of the app
34:14
you don't margo sure So he
34:16
does that show and then in
34:19
2017 the Me Too movement is
34:21
in full swing and another costume
34:23
designer comes out and her name
34:25
is Young Hu Wang and she
34:28
comes out and says that Fred
34:30
Savage like assaulted her intimidated her
34:32
intimidated her filed in a complaint
34:35
against him including assault battery and
34:37
discrimination. He denies it. She says
34:39
he would routinely yell at her,
34:41
curse at her demeanour. Demean her.
34:44
and she's like I was just
34:46
trying to do my job you
34:48
don't you don't have to do
34:51
that at your job you don't
34:53
have to demean people you don't
34:55
have to yell at them you
34:57
have to curse at them come
35:00
on yeah she said that he
35:02
hit her three times what yeah
35:04
in the arm apparently yeah but
35:07
hitting is hitting but also we
35:09
don't hit people no don't touch
35:11
people yeah she was just trying
35:13
one time she was just trying
35:16
to Don't pay me no mind
35:18
and keep your hands to yourself.
35:20
Yes, she's trying to like brush
35:23
some dandruff or something off his
35:25
suit and he like got really
35:27
aggressive with her like his temper
35:29
went up. She said that he
35:32
was really shitty to the female
35:34
crew in general and that he
35:36
was constantly yelling profanities at the
35:39
female employees. Uh, what the fuck,
35:41
asshole, I need my coffee! I
35:43
need it! I'm Fred Savage! I'm
35:45
Fred Foggins! What are you in
35:48
our words? What? Yeah, I get
35:50
picked. Fox was like, he didn't
35:52
do anything. They totally, you know,
35:55
we're like, he's fine. We didn't
35:57
investigation of... put that shit in
35:59
quotes. You know, and then he
36:01
issued a statement that says like,
36:04
along the lines of her coming
36:06
out and saying these things is,
36:08
um, undermining all the women who
36:11
are really, who are really, who
36:13
are really the victims. I know,
36:15
this is just in Baldoni's bots
36:17
are doing that too. Yeah, yeah,
36:20
yeah, fucking assholes, by the way.
36:22
Is the same. Hi, if you're
36:24
there. I, if that's you. Yeah.
36:27
So he says, you know. I
36:29
cannot let these people in particular
36:31
denigrate me while harming the message
36:33
of thousands of women and others
36:36
who have suffered and continue to
36:38
suffer. Buck off, don't speak for
36:40
us. Yeah, you don't speak for
36:43
us, Fred Savage. And super glad
36:45
that he wants to support all
36:47
the people who feel like they're
36:49
being mistreated to come forward because
36:52
in 2021, Fred Savage is now
36:54
the executive producer of a one-year's
36:56
reboot that they were going to
36:59
be doing. And the Atlanta. That's
37:01
right. With the black family. Yes.
37:03
He was then fired for inappropriate
37:05
conduct. He was known to tell
37:08
me if any of these things
37:10
sound familiar. He did an intimidate,
37:12
bully, and torment female crew members
37:15
while they were doing their jobs.
37:20
surprise, like the things that all
37:22
the other women were saying, he
37:24
was doing those things. One of
37:26
the women, the women, because six
37:29
different, six women came forward. They
37:31
did an interview also with the
37:33
Hollywood reporter, and they said that
37:35
they would see two different sizes
37:38
of bread savage, that he would
37:40
like, seem very caring, and he
37:42
was very charismatic and he was
37:44
very charismatic and he was very
37:47
charismatic and very supportive. And then
37:49
sometimes they said that he would
37:51
just flip in an instant and
37:53
his eyes would go dead. Oh!
37:56
Isn't that awful? It's an awful
37:58
way to describe it. They said
38:00
that he would only do, like
38:02
he wouldn't do that in front
38:04
of like other actors or executives,
38:07
that it was like his absolute
38:09
like best self. And then like
38:11
any like employee who doesn't have
38:13
power would see this totally different
38:16
Fred Savage. I've had bosses like
38:18
that. Yes. I have also had
38:20
bosses like that. So one woman
38:22
said that Savage. took her to
38:25
dinner. He was married, by the
38:27
way, married at the time. Oh,
38:29
who's the lucky gal? Actually, they're
38:31
still married. He's married to Jennifer
38:33
Lynn Stone. They've been married since
38:36
2024. They have three kids together.
38:38
Well, so one of the women
38:40
said that he took her to
38:42
dinner, he was trying to like
38:45
help her with her writing career.
38:47
He even met her parents and
38:49
that he would like offer her
38:51
expensive gifts and that she would
38:54
decline them and things like that.
38:56
And She he invited her to
38:58
like go to a dinner with
39:00
a bunch of Wonder Years colleagues
39:03
she got up and was using
39:05
the restroom and he entered the
39:07
restroom while she was walking out
39:09
pushed her into a stall and
39:11
had and he had the dead
39:14
eyes and He started trying to
39:16
kiss her and like grab on
39:18
her and that she said like
39:20
she had to like she had
39:23
to shoulder check him to get
39:25
out like oh God That shit
39:27
is fucking scary. Hey babe, I
39:29
just took a pee and now
39:32
I'm super orany. Come in here.
39:34
It's so gross. It's so hot.
39:36
Sonia, when a guy just bust
39:38
through a bathroom door when you've
39:40
just done number two, you just
39:43
want to watch your hands and
39:45
get on with your life. So
39:47
nasty. And then, so she, you
39:49
know, pushes past him, she leaves.
39:52
He texts her that night and
39:54
asks her to come to his
39:56
house. She showed all these texts
39:58
to Hollywood reporter by the way
40:01
and She needed this person for
40:03
work, you know, so she's like,
40:05
I tried to remain neutral and
40:07
I laughed it off like, ha
40:10
ha, have a good night, no,
40:12
right, we've all done, which we've
40:14
all done, no, how fucking crazy
40:16
and mean, and how violent somebody
40:18
is at the drop of a
40:21
hat, which happens all the time.
40:23
Yeah, she said, I was honestly
40:25
scared of him for the first
40:27
time. I would be too, I
40:30
am now, I am now too.
40:32
She said that he continued to
40:34
text and call for a couple
40:36
of a couple of weeks. asking
40:39
to meet. One time he just
40:41
sent the word tonight, like it's
40:43
going to happen tonight, which obviously
40:45
is terrifying. She said for weeks
40:48
she didn't hear from him and
40:50
then he sent a voicemail. He
40:52
left a voicemail I should say
40:54
and he she played it for
40:56
the Hollywood reporter and it says
40:59
it's your old friend Fred. We've
41:01
worked together for a while and
41:03
then we didn't and then I
41:05
was a huge asshole. a huge
41:08
asshole. And I'm really sorry, and
41:10
I kind of owed you an
41:12
apology for a minute here. And
41:14
so the truth is, I really
41:17
like you, and I want to
41:19
be friends, and I'm so sorry
41:21
that I fucked up. All right.
41:23
Okay, it's an apology. It's an
41:25
acknowledgement of bad behavior. I would
41:28
like, you need to actually state
41:30
what that behavior is. It's really
41:32
not okay. Seriously, you should just
41:34
say that, not just, oh if
41:37
I did anything. Yeah. Yeah, but
41:39
if I did anything that makes
41:41
you uncomfortable. Sorry, it's just because
41:43
I really like you. It's because
41:46
I'm so attracted to you. Yeah,
41:48
sorry. You just look how crazy
41:50
you make me. Mm-mm. Oh, I've
41:52
heard that line before. Oh, yeah.
41:55
Ugh. There was apparently also a
41:57
younger crew member that like Savage
41:59
like was like pursuing on the
42:01
set as well. She declined to
42:03
speak to the Hollywood reporter. Yeah,
42:06
because she wants to protect her
42:08
career because yeah, she's Exactly. What
42:10
is going to say? Yeah, but
42:12
one of the other women who
42:15
spoke up said that he was
42:17
very controlling of that woman's daily
42:19
behaviors, he was manipulative, he was
42:21
erratic, they all feel very protective
42:24
of her, and it's the reason
42:26
a lot of them decided to
42:28
finally speak up. What the fuck
42:30
is wrong with this guy? It's
42:32
not like... Hollywood is banging down
42:35
your door. It's not like you
42:37
have this huge movie career or
42:39
you have a huge show. I
42:41
mean, you know what I mean?
42:44
Like it's a big opportunity you're
42:46
given to like take the brand
42:48
and put it in a new
42:50
way. Why not just focus on
42:53
the fucking work? My whole point.
42:55
You're not, these people think they're
42:57
so fucking special and it's like
42:59
you're not, you're replaceable dude. Like
43:02
the fact. Fred Savage, you are
43:04
replaceable. It's like Wehan on Blow
43:06
Deck Down Under, who treats the
43:08
women on there like he's on
43:10
Love Island and he's deciding who
43:13
he wants to sleep with and
43:15
who's not good for him. And
43:17
it's like, we're just fucking working
43:19
here. Just let us work. The
43:22
entitlement. Just trying to work and
43:24
he is harassing them. 20th century
43:26
television did their own investigation and
43:28
fired him because they actually they
43:31
probably had some real shit yeah
43:33
they found some real shit I
43:35
think that this lends a lot
43:37
more credibility to the women who
43:40
spoke up before I believe yes
43:42
and you know the costume designer
43:44
from the grinder They reached out
43:46
for a quote from her and
43:48
she said this was a long
43:51
time coming and I am not
43:53
the least bit surprised. Perfect. Yeah.
43:55
And you know, and then he
43:57
releases a statement that says, like,
44:00
since I was six years old,
44:02
I have worked on hundreds of
44:04
sets with thousands of people and
44:06
I always strive to contribute in
44:09
an inclusive, safe, and supportive work
44:11
environment. devastating to learn that there
44:13
were co-workers who feel I have
44:15
fallen short of these goals. Once
44:17
again, stayed explicitly what you did
44:20
wrong. That is a huge part
44:22
of the apology. Well there are
44:24
some incidents being reported that absolutely
44:26
did not and could not have
44:29
happened. Why could they not have
44:31
happened? I wonder. Any one person
44:33
who feels hurt or offended by
44:35
my actions is one person too
44:38
many. I'm sorry you're offended by
44:40
my actions. But he's not sorry
44:42
for his actions. Right. Exactly. Exactly.
44:44
I'm sorry I put you in
44:47
an uncomfortable position by my behavior.
44:49
Boom. And state the behavior. Boom.
44:51
Yep. Nope. He doesn't know how
44:53
to apologize. 20 plus years of
44:55
experience, you know. You're welcome, Fred
44:58
Savage. Yeah, yeah. If you're a
45:00
Fred Savage type out there, this
45:02
is your problem. Let me tell
45:04
you right now. Say you're really
45:07
sorry. Say you're sorry. State what
45:09
you did, what was wrong. Say
45:11
why it was inappropriate. And then
45:13
say what you're going to do
45:16
to do to not do that.
45:18
No, what are you going to
45:20
actually do? And then that's all
45:22
you need to say. Yeah, that's
45:24
it. And that's our creep Fred
45:27
Savage. Good job. Boy, that makes
45:29
me mad. Yep, we don't like
45:31
it when people don't take accountability
45:33
for their actions. That's the thing.
45:36
Just take some fucking accountability. Okay,
45:38
Sonia, I can't see you. Because,
45:40
let me see. Can I do
45:42
that? I disappeared. Yeah, how do
45:45
I get you to be in
45:47
the corner while I do this?
45:49
Maybe that's... Nobody puts Sonia in
45:51
the corner in the corner. Y'all
45:54
watch me. It's not doing it.
45:56
Oh, it's doing it now. Okay.
45:58
Okay, so Sonia something that recently
46:00
happened Sometimes, especially when there's somebody
46:02
that's a whistleblower type of person
46:05
that they're coming in to say,
46:07
this is the real shit that
46:09
happened, in book publishing, and I'm
46:12
an author, it takes months, years
46:14
to get a book together, right? It's
46:16
a lot of fucking work. And a
46:18
lot of, and it's a slow
46:20
process, and it's amazing when a
46:23
book can come out and nobody
46:25
knew about it. There's a lot
46:27
of trust that has to happen
46:30
there. And there's a woman,
46:32
Sarah Wynne Williams, who
46:34
wrote a book about her
46:36
time at Facebook. She's from
46:39
New Zealand, and she wrote
46:41
a book, and it's called
46:44
Careless People, and I tell
46:46
Sonia, all I've been hearing
46:49
is Careless Whisper in My
46:51
Head, ever since I
46:53
started. I know. She was, so she
46:55
started in 2011, she's from
46:58
New Zealand, and she was
47:00
the public policy director at
47:02
Facebook, and the book is
47:04
called Queerless People. She worked
47:07
there for six years, and
47:09
then she was let go,
47:11
because she was complaining a
47:13
lot about the behavior of
47:16
her direct. her boss, her
47:18
direct boss, and then
47:20
also Cheryl Sandberg and
47:23
Mark Zuckerberg for being
47:25
unprofessional. And we all kind
47:27
of wondered about what those people
47:29
are like. And I don't know
47:31
about you. I was not, I
47:33
was one of those women that
47:35
was like, I gave a lot
47:38
of side eye to Cheryl Sandberg
47:40
and her whole, you know, lean
47:42
in and lean in and lean
47:44
in, but okay, right. That's my
47:46
see that's mine. I'm just be that
47:49
one girl to be at the table.
47:51
That's what you got to work for
47:53
So she this is you all know
47:55
what Facebook is and Facebook is a
47:58
company that started by a man who
48:00
was trying to rate girls at Harvard
48:02
College. And that was like how the
48:04
site, so that's the level of mentality
48:07
that we have with our CEO Mark
48:09
Zuckerberg. In 2011, let's think back, Obama's
48:11
in office, and Obama's in office. I
48:14
was like, can we just remember, like,
48:16
at least it was calm then, y'all,
48:18
come on, you remember that. Yeah, I
48:21
know. There were literal whole days where
48:23
I didn't think about the government. I
48:25
didn't have to check the news. I
48:27
didn't have to, I know. So, she's
48:30
in a role, it's an international role.
48:32
The thing with Facebook is that they're
48:34
always trying to get more people to
48:37
sign up for Facebook. and then they
48:39
want you to sign up and they
48:41
want you to use it so that
48:43
they have all this data on you
48:46
that they can mine and then they
48:48
can sell to people to for ads
48:50
or they can or governments around the
48:53
world that want to I don't know
48:55
control elections that are happening in their
48:57
area so Sarah is she came from
49:00
Google which had its own kind of
49:02
nightmare stuff but she She petitioned to
49:04
work for Facebook like she really like
49:06
she wooed them She went out there
49:09
like I want to work for you
49:11
You need somebody like me. I will
49:13
get you in front of all these
49:16
world leaders Because they want to go
49:18
like tough places are like China There's
49:20
just certain sections of the world where
49:23
they don't have free internet or it's
49:25
not widely available and so she was
49:27
working with these countries to provide this
49:29
right so they're gonna they had something
49:32
where they're going to provide free internet
49:34
internet internet or to people around the
49:36
world and they're saying go go ahead
49:39
No, I'm sorry, go ahead. No, no,
49:41
I'm sitting in water. You go ahead.
49:43
Okay, okay. A lot of countries have
49:46
different privacy laws as well. So like,
49:48
Tony's the, Sony's the tech person, by
49:50
the way. So like, hmm. Yeah, but
49:52
yeah, but I have done some work
49:55
about this where I work too. Like,
49:57
there are different companies, sorry, different countries
49:59
have different. privacy laws have different laws
50:02
surrounding how you can handle people's data
50:04
and what you can share and not
50:06
share and things like that. And so
50:08
if you're Facebook and you have a
50:11
law that say maybe works for the
50:13
United States, it's probably not going to
50:15
work for China. And then it's like
50:18
you have to come up with like
50:20
a whole new set of, there literally
50:22
are different versions of Facebook like all
50:25
over the world. And they needed someone
50:27
like her to help them navigate. Well,
50:29
how to build those relationships with these
50:31
governments. She was someone who worked in
50:34
the New Zealand Embassy. She had experience
50:36
working with different type different forms of
50:38
government. So they needed that and it's
50:41
tech, especially these kinds of companies that
50:43
are all over the world. they need
50:45
stuff like this. Right, and so she,
50:48
that was her whole thing, was like,
50:50
I know how to get in front
50:52
of these people, I will get them
50:54
in front of you, and then you
50:57
have to think about, like you said,
50:59
the privacy laws for every region, and
51:01
especially, they started really realizing that elections
51:04
were being influenced by Facebook, and so
51:06
some countries don't like that and wanted
51:08
to put a lid on that. But
51:11
Mark is always looking for Mark and
51:13
Cheryl and all of them. They just,
51:15
their whole dictate is to get more
51:17
people to sign up for Facebook, right?
51:20
And they'll buy the competition if they
51:22
have to, but that's all they want.
51:24
They just want to get people on.
51:27
So they would promise countries, we will
51:29
put the internet in your, and we
51:31
will do it to your specifications and
51:33
we'll do everything for you and she'd
51:36
be working in these moments and I
51:38
know how she feels. for a long
51:40
time and then it's getting right to
51:43
the point where you're going to sign
51:45
on the dotted line and then somebody
51:47
goes, wait a second, does that mean
51:50
we can't do blah blah blah? Well,
51:52
tell them that to take that out
51:54
and just like, fuck you. Months to
51:56
put together. Like people have no idea
51:59
all the work you put into something
52:01
and they just want to change it
52:03
on a whim Yeah, so she travels
52:06
with With Cheryl and Mark and she
52:08
talks about the time that I wanted
52:10
to let me just say that she's
52:13
are not creeping also because they're trying
52:15
to get you to not read this
52:17
book and there are a lot of
52:19
stories right now where Facebook successfully sued
52:22
the McMillan publishing so that she cannot
52:24
promote her book anywhere So she's not
52:26
doing any interviews, she can't post on
52:29
Facebook, she can't post on any social
52:31
media, and she can't, I don't think
52:33
anywhere around the world she can do
52:36
it. So there are essentially, the, by
52:38
the way, meta is always going on
52:40
about how they're about free speech, and
52:42
they just want to do, they don't
52:45
want to fact-check articles on their site,
52:47
they don't want to like look into
52:49
like fake elections and fake stuff, they
52:52
don't give a shit about that. All
52:54
of a sudden, they gave a shit
52:56
about it. Yeah. All of a sudden,
52:59
they don't want you to get your
53:01
hands on a book. Same, because. Same,
53:03
same stuff with our administration right now.
53:05
Right. We're, you know, blocking people from
53:08
coming into the country because they maybe
53:10
have said something shitty about predator Trump
53:12
on their social media. And it's like,
53:15
oh, I thought we were all about
53:17
free speech. Exactly. What are you doing?
53:19
Right. Here we are. And during her
53:21
time there, she worked with Cheryl Sandberg,
53:24
and Cheryl Sandberg had a book that
53:26
came out. It was in 2013. It
53:28
was a huge hit. For some reason,
53:31
people could not stop talking about this
53:33
fucking book. But it was called Lean
53:35
In. And Cheryl is a very accomplished
53:38
woman. She's, she went to, I was
53:40
listening to by the Chelsea Devantes. Divine
53:42
Trash? Is that the name of her
53:44
podcast? I'll look it up when we're
53:47
done. But Chelsea Devontas, just look up
53:49
Chelsea Devontas, and she was talking about
53:51
this today, that, yeah, this book is
53:54
all about, Cheryl Sandberg is a very
53:56
unusual person. grew up in very privileged
53:58
life. She attended Harvard twice. She married
54:01
well. She married somebody who works at
54:03
the companies. She worked at Google. Then
54:05
she gets to Facebook. And she's just
54:07
zooming up the corporate ladder. And her
54:10
lean in is the message, I think,
54:12
is that women need to make themselves
54:14
more visible in the environment. But how
54:17
do you do that when they don't
54:19
want to see you? Right? When they
54:21
or they only want to see this
54:24
little part of you and she doesn't
54:26
really answer that question but Cheryl was
54:28
Always talking about also that the the
54:30
problem that that women being parents and
54:33
being workers is Being yeah being a
54:35
mother and a worker are very difficult
54:37
things to manage and it shouldn't be
54:40
we should have we should make it
54:42
easier for moms to be able to
54:44
work so the kids can know that
54:46
a mother can support her family and
54:49
all this stuff but the however is
54:51
She broke water and she's in the
54:53
hospital and she's pushing out a baby.
54:56
Up to the point that she was
54:58
in labor with her first child, she
55:00
had her laptop open on her belly
55:03
and the doctors had to take it
55:05
out of her cold dead hands basically.
55:07
She was getting emails. As she's in,
55:09
she broke water and she's in the
55:12
hospital and she's pushing out a baby.
55:14
and they're emailing her and demanding that
55:16
she get bullet points for somebody that's
55:19
going to meet another person in another
55:21
country. And we had conversations about this
55:23
off the air about, you know, women
55:26
and working and when a woman gets,
55:28
has a baby, she has to worry
55:30
about do I still have a job?
55:32
Will I still have, will I have
55:35
the chance at promotions? Will I be
55:37
taken seriously? Will I have time for
55:39
my kid? Or am I going to
55:42
be a car all the time driving
55:44
everywhere? It's going to be up to
55:46
nannies. And Annie, they can't even really
55:49
afford. So they say that they're about,
55:51
Cheryl says that she's about women, but
55:53
she's really about. Cheryl. And Cheryl's a
55:55
real odd duck from what I can
55:58
understand. She tells the story about they
56:00
were on a private jet, and the
56:02
jet had a, they were flying somewhere,
56:05
and there's a group of them, and
56:07
it had a bed in there, so
56:09
that if anybody wanted to take a
56:11
nap, you could just go in there
56:14
and take a nap. And Cheryl went
56:16
in there to lounge on the bed,
56:18
and she asked Sarah who was pregnant
56:21
or second kid, but she was pregnant
56:23
again, and she said, hey, come lay
56:25
on the bed with me, let's, let's
56:28
snuggle. And Sarah was
56:30
like, I really don't want to lay
56:32
in the bed with you. I'm super
56:34
pregnant. I won't be able to get
56:36
up again. It's very uncomfortable for me
56:39
to get in and out of bed.
56:41
And she said, Cheryl just gave her
56:43
the iciest look and then walked by
56:45
her and said, you should have gone
56:47
into the bed. And then just walked
56:50
away. She didn't get to take as
56:52
much and this is another thing like
56:54
women You want to take time off
56:56
to have your baby and be a
56:58
mother for like what two months that
57:01
you get here in America and They
57:03
were getting on her nothing. It's nothing
57:05
and women have to worry about When
57:07
I come back will I still have
57:09
a job once again? Will it you
57:12
know, will they make account accounting for
57:14
me? Which that men don't worry about
57:16
and also like? takes its toll on
57:18
you physically, it's a huge fucking deal.
57:20
It's natural, it is natural, but it's
57:23
still a huge fucking deal. Like it
57:25
destroys your brain and your body. Right.
57:27
maternity leave is for you to take
57:29
care of this tiny human, but it's
57:31
also for you to like recover because
57:34
your hormones are out of whack, your
57:36
body is not the same. Like your...
57:38
your home like it's just everything is
57:40
all over the place you it's hard
57:42
to work and I have this friend
57:45
who told me she's like just remember
57:47
your job won't love you back yes
57:49
her that's why she's making bullet points
57:51
for people as she's in labor but
57:53
like you want to be you want
57:56
to do a good job you want
57:58
to be taken seriously you want to
58:00
make sure that you're still going to
58:02
have a job when you come back
58:04
so you that's why she's making bullet
58:07
points for people as she's in labor
58:09
to show like I'm serious serious. You
58:11
can depend on me. I am a
58:13
good employee. Please don't, like, fill my
58:15
position while I'm gone. Even though legally
58:18
you're protected, it doesn't matter. Like, they
58:20
could still replace you. Yeah. Like, you
58:22
know, not, not legally, quote unquote. No,
58:24
but they can make you really uncomfortable.
58:27
They could put somebody else in the
58:29
job you did have and then put
58:31
you on a shitty job and then
58:33
put you on a shitty job and
58:35
wait for you to cry and then
58:38
quit. Yes, yeah, they just make you
58:40
so miserable that you want to quit.
58:42
Yes. In addition to dealing with Cheryl
58:44
and Cheryl has like a real, there's
58:46
a whole thing when she talks about
58:49
Cheryl has one of her employees gives
58:51
her the company credit card and tells
58:53
her to go out and buy lingerie
58:55
and they bought like $12,000 with a
58:57
lingerie and they were like, it's very
59:00
odd. What the fuck are you actually
59:02
doing? Dude, just do your own shopping.
59:04
What are you doing? I mean, there's
59:06
another great story is, I don't know
59:08
if you got to this, because I
59:11
finished the book, I listened to it
59:13
on Spotify, definitely. I'm the world's, I'm
59:15
the world's slowest reader. Did you read
59:17
about the Global Organ Donation Initiative? No,
59:19
I haven't got that far yet. That's
59:22
one of the things Cheryl wanted to
59:24
do was that she wanted to be
59:26
able, if you wanted to donate to
59:28
donate your organs. You can go to
59:30
Facebook and you can just directly donate
59:33
your organs to somebody. Which is the
59:35
dumbest idea I've heard in my fucking
59:37
life. I just don't understand it. And
59:39
it's one of those things like you've
59:41
ever had a boss. Do you put
59:44
it on marketplace? Do you put it
59:46
on market? I'm not kidding you. Available.
59:48
And they was and they and they
59:50
tried to explain to her like, you
59:52
know, different countries around the world have
59:55
different. about things like you're not supposed
59:57
to be able to sell your body
59:59
parts your kidneys and stuff it's also
1:00:01
it's like and so Sandberg when they
1:00:03
said to her like there there's actually
1:00:06
the real fear of like organ harvesting
1:00:08
and trafficking yes like there's a thing
1:00:10
it's a thing and so she said
1:00:12
that that Sandberg said do you mean
1:00:14
to tell me if my four-year-old was
1:00:17
dying and the only one that would
1:00:19
save her kidney The only way to
1:00:21
save that are Kenny, that was I
1:00:23
couldn't fly to Mexico and get a
1:00:26
new one and just put it in
1:00:28
my handbag. And they said, no, you
1:00:30
can't do that. That's actually illegal. You're
1:00:32
putting a heart in your purse and
1:00:34
your coach clutches? He sounds like the
1:00:37
mom. She sounds like what? Uh-oh, Sonia.
1:00:39
Say that again, I missed you. She
1:00:41
sounds like the mom from arrested development
1:00:43
is what she sounds like. Like how
1:00:45
much can milk cost? Right. $10? Like,
1:00:48
yeah, clueless. And so they said, well,
1:00:50
we could put like a button on
1:00:52
the site and says if you'd like
1:00:54
to be an organ donation person, you
1:00:56
want to donate your organs? Here are
1:00:59
your, you know, here are the places
1:01:01
you can go in the country that
1:01:03
you live in. You don't have to
1:01:05
fly to Mexico to put a kidney
1:01:07
in your purse. You can just, you
1:01:10
know. So, and she, but she thought,
1:01:12
she just, I don't know if you've
1:01:14
ever had like, also had a boss
1:01:16
that like gave you this really weird
1:01:18
dictate. Like, can you see if you
1:01:21
can make this happen? And it's like
1:01:23
the dumbest fucking idea. You really want
1:01:25
to? Yeah. But you can't? So then
1:01:27
they get madder and madder at you
1:01:29
because you're not giving them the answer
1:01:32
that they want to hear. And it's
1:01:34
so fucking frustrated. and it seems like
1:01:36
that's what she was putting up with.
1:01:38
And it's a lot of, you know,
1:01:40
long hours away. There's also like, there's
1:01:43
just, she had a male, she accused
1:01:45
a male superior of hers, or direct
1:01:47
report, that she had a report to
1:01:49
directly, excuse me, of sexual harassment, and
1:01:51
they did some investigating and decided that's
1:01:54
not what really happening. And they decided
1:01:56
that. She must be kind of a
1:01:58
pain in the ass. And so she
1:02:00
thinks that... Yeah, it's always the lady's
1:02:02
fault. Right. It's the lady's fault. Meta
1:02:05
claimed that the investigation, this is from
1:02:07
Rolling Stone, but it claimed that the
1:02:09
investigation to the William, when Williams' harassment
1:02:11
claims was thorough and took longer than
1:02:13
the average case. Yeah, I bet. Involving
1:02:16
a review of all the documents she
1:02:18
provided and 17 witness interviews and 17
1:02:20
witness interviews. I somehow don't believe. They
1:02:22
also, they wanted to do all kinds
1:02:25
of things in China to make it
1:02:27
easier for the Chinese government and then
1:02:29
was explained to them like, you could
1:02:31
literally get people killed in China if
1:02:33
you do the things that they're telling
1:02:36
you to do in order to be
1:02:38
in China. Like you cannot do these,
1:02:40
it will cause real harm and they
1:02:42
didn't fucking care because they just want
1:02:44
those numbers. They were told I mean
1:02:47
look what he's doing now. He don't
1:02:49
give a fuck doesn't give a flying
1:02:51
fuck Anyway, this book is great. It's
1:02:53
available get it from your library get
1:02:55
a Libby app or if you have
1:02:58
you know audible or if you have
1:03:00
Spotify You know if you can get
1:03:02
a subscription. This is my whole point.
1:03:04
I want you to get this book
1:03:06
because they don't want you to have
1:03:09
it and it's not because She didn't
1:03:11
do due diligence. I guarantee her publisher
1:03:13
really worked overtime to make sure that
1:03:15
they dotted their eyes and crossed the
1:03:17
T's and made sure they don't want
1:03:20
to be sued by Facebook. I'm sure.
1:03:22
Be sued by a billionaire. Like no
1:03:24
one wants this. But I'm saying if
1:03:26
they went through all this trouble to
1:03:28
have her, they did their research themselves.
1:03:31
They absolutely put somebody in charge of
1:03:33
that and they made sure. So this
1:03:35
is the deal right now. They don't
1:03:37
want you to read her book. So
1:03:39
I say to do the not creepy
1:03:42
thing this week is to, even if
1:03:44
you don't, just say on your social
1:03:46
media, I can't wait to read careless
1:03:48
people by Sarah Wynne Williams and I
1:03:50
hope you do too. I want them
1:03:53
to know that. They can't bully people.
1:03:55
It's not going to stop people. They're
1:03:57
so fucking dumb. When you ban somebody
1:03:59
from doing something, that's all they want
1:04:01
to fucking do. When my parents said,
1:04:04
you can't watch Three's Company because it's
1:04:06
too racy. Guess what I wanted to
1:04:08
watch? Three's Company. Three's Company. Yep. The
1:04:10
minute I tell Calvin, he can't have
1:04:12
something. Oh, he wants it so bad.
1:04:15
It's the only thing he could fucking
1:04:17
think about until he gets it. Yes.
1:04:19
Yes. Yes. And it's natural and it's
1:04:21
normal and it's normal and it's normal
1:04:24
and it's normal and it's normal and
1:04:26
it's normal and it's normal and it's
1:04:28
normal and it's fine. That's all I'm
1:04:30
going to say. Sarah Wynne Williams, she
1:04:32
is our not creep this week and
1:04:35
her book is actually really well written.
1:04:37
And she does her own audio book.
1:04:39
I downloaded it. Yeah. And I think
1:04:41
she did a great job with it.
1:04:43
She's a good storyteller. She really knows
1:04:46
how to paint the picture. Yep. And
1:04:48
I admire it. And so that's our
1:04:50
not creep this week. Great choice. I
1:04:52
downloaded that book on my iPad. through
1:04:54
like Apple Books. Yes, super easy. Super
1:04:57
easy. Go to your library, get the
1:04:59
Libby app, and at least request it
1:05:01
on the Libby app. Just do that.
1:05:03
So that they download the sample. Download
1:05:05
the sample, like whatever we do, just
1:05:08
make sure people are out there. And
1:05:10
it is a bestseller, but like make
1:05:12
sure it continues to be a bestseller
1:05:14
because this is the only way we
1:05:16
fight. This is the only way we
1:05:19
win. Is when we can get things
1:05:21
like this that they can't control. That
1:05:23
they can't control. Yep. Well, if you
1:05:25
like the sound of our voices, and
1:05:27
by golly, why wouldn't you at this
1:05:30
point? So can I co-host a show
1:05:32
called Dorking Out, where we dork out
1:05:34
about movies? What did we dork out
1:05:36
about last time? Oh my God, but
1:05:38
did we dork? Postcards from The Edge.
1:05:41
Thank you. Postcards from The Edge. Great
1:05:43
movie. It was a fun episode. This
1:05:45
week, we are doing primal fear. Back
1:05:47
to our 90s thrillers. 90s thrillers. I
1:05:49
saw I was streaming on Paramount and
1:05:52
I was like, I want to see
1:05:54
this movie tonight. I needed like something
1:05:56
to like change my mood. And so
1:05:58
it's Richard Gear. Edward Norton's first movie.
1:06:00
Amazing. I just watched it again the
1:06:03
other night, it was really good, so
1:06:05
we can't wait to talk about that.
1:06:07
I can't wait to talk about it.
1:06:09
Everyone knows, I love my 90s thrillers,
1:06:12
so, actually I love my 80s and
1:06:14
90s thrillers, but boy, this one's gonna
1:06:16
be fun, this one's gonna be fun.
1:06:18
It's super fun. You can reach out
1:06:20
to all those places I met at
1:06:23
the top of the show for your
1:06:25
suggestions for creeps and or non creeps,
1:06:27
or if you just want to do
1:06:29
something on your own. Our email once
1:06:31
again is what a creep podcast at
1:06:34
g-mail.com and if you would like some
1:06:36
stickers I'm supposed to get a new
1:06:38
batch from death by stickers that's supposed
1:06:40
to arrive soon. I will drop them
1:06:42
in the mail for you. What a
1:06:45
creep podcast at g-mail.com. Yeah, Sonia where
1:06:47
can they find you? You can find
1:06:49
me at the Sonya show.com and the
1:06:51
Sonya show on Facebook and Instagram. I
1:06:53
know, I know, but barely at those
1:06:56
places. I'm mostly on Blue Sky and
1:06:58
Tikk. And again, at the website, you
1:07:00
can always find me on the website.
1:07:02
Where can people find you, my friend?
1:07:04
You can find me at Brooklyn Fitchick.com.
1:07:07
I'm at Brooklyn Fitchick for Threads and
1:07:09
Instagram. Yeah, I know how that sounds.
1:07:11
Look. We're content creators, we have to
1:07:13
promote our work somewhere, y'all. We're working
1:07:15
on it. We're working on it. We
1:07:18
are thinking about it, we are working
1:07:20
on it. I'm at Brooklyn Margot for
1:07:22
TikTok and also for Blue Sky, and
1:07:24
then you could follow me on the
1:07:26
YouTube at my name, Margot Donahue. I
1:07:29
have a book coming out later this
1:07:31
year, and I've been posting really fun
1:07:33
clips about Saturday Night Fever on there.
1:07:35
They're fun, they're
1:07:37
fun. Come check it
1:07:40
out, have a
1:07:42
good time. a good time. All
1:07:44
right, everybody, that's
1:07:46
the show for you
1:07:48
today. you Thank you
1:07:51
once again again by
1:07:53
or welcome if
1:07:55
this is your first
1:07:57
time. We liked
1:07:59
having you here. like to
1:08:02
We'll be back
1:08:04
next week with a
1:08:06
new episode. So
1:08:08
in the meantime, y
1:08:11
'all, a please be
1:08:13
kind, in be safe. y'all,
1:08:15
please Just don't be
1:08:17
a creep, be a
1:08:19
a creep. Be creep. Thank
1:08:22
you for listening to us talk
1:08:24
about creeps. You can follow us
1:08:27
creeps. You can follow us at Twitter, and Instagram.
1:08:29
on Facebook, don't follow us too
1:08:31
closely. But You can
1:08:34
email us your creepy stories at
1:08:36
wet email us your gmail .com. at But
1:08:38
please keep your dick pics
1:08:40
to yourself. But please
1:08:42
keep your dick fixed to
1:08:44
yourself. I'm
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