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We are joined today by a
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woman who I just adore, look
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up to, and who I can't
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wait. to have in front of
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me for a whole hour, so
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I can pepper her with questions.
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Today's guest is Bellamy Young, who
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you probably love as I do,
3:09
from her role playing Melody Mellie
3:11
Grant in ABC's hit series scandal.
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Yes, she won the Critics Choice
3:16
Award. Yes, she's gone on to
3:18
star on other series. Yes, she
3:21
is a singing and acting legend,
3:23
a theater baby, and a brilliant,
3:25
heart forward woman who is an
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author and now a podcast host.
3:29
She's also just one of the
3:31
loveliest people I have ever met.
3:34
And I can't wait to sit
3:36
with her today and talk about
3:38
how she balances all these things,
3:40
her career, her fascination in the
3:42
world, and her work as an
3:44
ambassador with CARE. Care is the
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world's leading humanitarian organization that
3:49
is dedicated to saving lives
3:51
and defeating poverty around the
3:53
world. And the work that
3:55
Bellini has done with care,
3:58
the women that she met.
4:00
The change she has seen made
4:02
in conversations from Honduras to Jordan
4:04
to Nepal to Tanzania to Ukraine
4:06
to Vietnam to name a few
4:09
inspired her to make sure. The
4:11
stories that touched her in her
4:13
work could touch the rest of
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us. So in partnership with Care
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she has launched an incredible new
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with Care. And she will take
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all of us around the world
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to have inspiring conversations with women
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leaders that are changing this planet
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for the better. I am absolutely
4:33
thrilled that she's here. And I
4:35
can't wait to ask her about
4:37
all of her favorite shows and
4:39
about the life-saving work that she
4:41
gets to champion every day. Let's
4:44
hear from Bellamy Young. How
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are you? I'm so good,
4:57
how are you? I'm great,
4:59
I'm so excited, you're here.
5:01
I'm so happy to be
5:03
here, thanks so much. Well,
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I have so many questions
5:08
for you. I mean, first
5:10
and foremost, I suppose I
5:12
should say, my president, welcome
5:14
to the podcast. What I
5:16
would give, Bellamy. We have
5:18
to laugh because we can't
5:20
cry. Yeah, what I would
5:22
give. It would be so
5:24
nice. But I guess. We
5:26
persist. We persist. That's all
5:28
we can do. I have,
5:30
like I said, a million
5:32
questions for you about what
5:34
you're up to and your
5:37
work and all these things,
5:39
but before we dive into
5:41
any of that, I love
5:43
to kind of go back
5:45
to catch up. And I
5:47
want to know about who
5:49
you were as a kid,
5:51
because there's so much I
5:53
know about your life, your
5:55
career, your advocacy, your activism,
5:57
your collegiate, your collegiate career,
5:59
your I wonder if we
6:01
could kind of bend space
6:03
time and we could hang
6:06
out with Bellamy at nine
6:08
while we had this chat.
6:10
Would you see, do you
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think you'd see yourself who
6:14
you are today in her?
6:16
Oh, it's such a beautiful
6:18
question, isn't it? Because we,
6:20
I mean, when you do
6:22
work on yourself, you try
6:24
and bring back little pieces
6:26
of you that you've. straight
6:28
from over the years. And
6:30
so that's definitely been a
6:32
question I have asked myself
6:35
before. I don't think when
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I was nine and 1979,
6:39
there would have been any
6:41
idea that I could have
6:43
conceived of any part of
6:45
this life. Like I'm such
6:47
a 20th century human, so
6:49
just the 21st centuryness of
6:51
it all is continually outside
6:53
my scope. And I, but
6:55
I also, I do think
6:57
I thought that freedoms and
6:59
that sort of thing were
7:01
inextricably a course that moved
7:03
forward, so I think I
7:06
took that for granted as
7:08
a nine-year-old. I loved to
7:10
sing when I was nine,
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but I don't think I
7:14
could have dreamed to have
7:16
a career where I got
7:18
to do what I loved
7:20
for a living. Like that
7:22
didn't seem feasible or, practical.
7:24
Yeah, nine-year-old Amy, she was
7:26
honey doing some pageants because
7:28
that's what happens. North Carolina.
7:30
I was adopted, I was
7:32
in foster care for a
7:35
little while and my adopted
7:37
family thought they found out
7:39
about my biological family and
7:41
so tried to give me
7:43
opportunities sort of based on
7:45
this one little sheet of
7:47
paper like a paragraph on
7:49
my quote-unquote mom and two
7:51
lines on my... biological dad.
7:53
I have met them now.
7:55
My wonderful biological parents had
7:57
the opportunity to meet them
7:59
and turns out none of
8:01
that stuff we thought was
8:04
true. So where we thought
8:06
they thought that oh her
8:08
biological mother is a singer
8:10
so we better give her
8:12
opportunities to sing and I
8:14
met her and she's like
8:16
mmm no or you know
8:18
like so a lot of
8:20
the path of my life
8:22
was predicated on a mistake
8:24
but you can also call
8:26
it fate or luck or
8:28
grace because I deeply love
8:30
where I am in my
8:33
life. And I have fought
8:35
to be able to say
8:37
that sentence, but I stand
8:39
firmly planted two feet rooted
8:41
into the ground with gratitude
8:43
for, like I say, being
8:45
able to get to do
8:47
what I love. And by
8:49
the grace of that, sometimes
8:51
being able to help anybody
8:53
who needs it. That's so
8:55
special. And I think it's
8:57
really interesting, you know, you
8:59
said two things that kind
9:02
of light up for me,
9:04
that when you work on
9:06
yourself, you get to collect
9:08
pieces of yourself, and you
9:10
said that you've fought really
9:12
hard to like your life
9:14
so much. I think there's
9:16
something really interesting, and this
9:18
is something I'm kind of
9:20
noodling on in my own
9:22
journey right now. I wonder
9:24
why it is so many
9:26
of us who do the
9:28
jobs we do, who entertain,
9:31
who want to bring books
9:33
to life, who want to
9:35
create these sort of vessels
9:37
for the human experience that
9:39
might create some empathy or
9:41
some catharsis or make someone
9:43
feel seen or represented. It's
9:45
not lost on me that
9:47
we all are healing while
9:49
we do this. Stuff we're
9:51
running away from until we're
9:53
ready to face it or
9:55
do you think we face
9:57
what what life gives to
10:00
us because we have love
10:02
our characters and maybe through
10:04
loving them we learn how
10:06
to love ourselves better. I
10:08
think it's yes and I
10:10
think it's all of the
10:12
things you know I think
10:14
first of all I deeply
10:16
believe souls come in with
10:18
a mission and there's a
10:20
heartbreaking breathtaking randomness for where
10:22
that soul lands, gender, geography,
10:24
socioeconomics, you know, like, because
10:26
all the souls, they come
10:29
in with the same hopes
10:31
and dreams and wants and,
10:33
and, but very particular path
10:35
in mind. And I think
10:37
ours, those of us that
10:39
are drawn into this work,
10:41
and I mean this in
10:43
the largest umbrella, come in
10:45
on a path of empathy
10:47
and sometimes we apply that
10:49
empathy last to ourselves. You
10:51
know, we lead with the
10:53
curiosity, we often are people
10:55
pleasers, so we try to
10:57
understand so that we can
11:00
excuse things that we see
11:02
around us or things that
11:04
are happening in a room
11:06
or in the world. But
11:08
I do think that the
11:10
conscious work can begin when
11:12
we take a pause and
11:14
apply that empathy to our
11:16
own. experience life path so
11:18
that we can get sort
11:20
of clear of the dust
11:22
storm that is our pain,
11:24
you know, when we kind
11:26
of like rain down a
11:29
little love on that so
11:31
it settles to the ground
11:33
and then our vision is
11:35
cleared, then we can really
11:37
cleanly use that empathy and
11:39
curiosity to assess what
11:41
we see around us again in
11:43
the room or in the world
11:46
and assess our part in it
11:48
because we don't you know we
11:50
can't care in everything we it's
11:53
not ours is not a role
11:55
for you know every day in
11:57
every situation but we're here for
12:00
a reason and we can help
12:02
but we can help and engaging
12:04
in the world with love and
12:07
curiosity and a full heart. I
12:09
feel like, you know, nobody gets
12:11
out of life. If we can
12:14
leave this place a little bit
12:16
better than we found it, then
12:18
I think that's the measure of
12:21
success. I love that. It interests
12:23
me because you've got such passion
12:25
about your calling and about... humanity
12:28
at large, that's so clear. And
12:30
yet, you went to school for
12:32
a completely different course of education
12:35
and took a hard left, which
12:37
by the way, was my journey.
12:39
So I'm just absolutely geeked on
12:42
how you figured it out. I
12:44
thought I was going to be
12:46
a heart surgeon. I wanted to
12:49
be a cardiothoracic surgeon. Whoa, wait,
12:51
were there people in your family
12:53
that are surgeons or what did
12:56
like, little Sophia, how did little
12:58
Sophia be like, no, no, I
13:00
want to cut on hearts? I
13:02
don't know. I think for me,
13:05
I always loved science. I'm a
13:07
naturally kind of nurturing person and
13:09
I really like to fix things.
13:12
That's something I've definitely had to
13:14
work on. You know, not everybody
13:16
wants things to be fixed all
13:19
the time. Sometimes people just need
13:21
to vent. So I've learned to
13:23
say to my loved ones, do
13:26
you want to be heard or
13:28
do you want my help? And
13:30
then I kind of know how
13:33
to be present when they're going
13:35
through something. That's how I stopped
13:37
myself from trying to fix. But
13:40
I think that natural inclination just,
13:42
I don't know. I don't know
13:44
if it was. watching medical shows.
13:47
I don't know what it was.
13:49
I just thought that's what I
13:51
wanted to do. And then I
13:54
sort of got, you know, knocked
13:56
over the head with the beautiful
13:58
reality that a play was a
14:01
book come to life. And I
14:03
thought, I actually think this is
14:05
what I want. do. Literature is
14:08
my favorite thing. I think I'm
14:10
going to go to school for
14:12
theater and when I told my
14:15
parents that my senior year in
14:17
high school, you can imagine how
14:19
well that transition went. But here
14:22
we are. And when I was
14:24
reading about your story, I was
14:26
like, wait a second, wait a
14:29
second, you were going so hard
14:31
into science and then also pivoted
14:33
into theater and literature and how...
14:35
How for you, how? Well, first
14:38
let me say, like, you're still
14:40
doing your dream, like in metaphor,
14:42
you're still like healing hearts, in
14:45
your work and in your life
14:47
and in your creative endeavors. So
14:49
I think, I think it's, I
14:52
think you stayed true to the
14:54
impulse, if not the exact, you
14:56
know. non-metaphorical implementation of that. So
14:59
you do a good job, little
15:01
tiny Sophia. You did right. You
15:03
chose right. And I loved science
15:06
always. It was where I felt
15:08
the most awe and grace. You
15:10
know, it felt... what some people
15:13
feel about organized religion. And I
15:15
love, like I grew up going
15:17
to Catholic school, I was raised
15:20
Methodist, like that religion was part
15:22
of my life growing up as
15:24
a child, but I always saw
15:27
the human hand in it and
15:29
that gave me misgivings. And with
15:31
science, I felt that... overwhelming smallness
15:34
and the interconnectedness and the wonder
15:36
and it just pulled me just
15:38
oh my whole heart mind body
15:41
everything was pulled there and you
15:43
know I was doing okay studying
15:45
and figuring a couple things out
15:48
North Carolina and got to college
15:50
and you know we're not all
15:52
not all of us there's not
15:55
alignment between what we dream and
15:57
what we can do. Some things
15:59
just have to become interests and
16:02
passions and loves so I was
16:04
not that great at physics on
16:06
the international level and I had
16:08
to quickly pivot and my mom
16:11
was an English teacher. still like
16:13
bless her she died in Christmas
16:15
of 2023 but still one of
16:18
the best teachers I ever had
16:20
mentally unstable but like the most
16:22
beautiful mind I've ever come in
16:25
contact with and so it was
16:27
a really easy pivot to be
16:29
like oh I'll do English because
16:32
I I get that like she
16:34
taught me to write and I
16:36
could interpret like all that and
16:39
I thought I'll do a double
16:41
major and maybe somebody will confuse
16:43
it for thinking I went to
16:46
the drama school. So it was
16:48
a bit of a con and
16:50
a bit of a dodge. I
16:53
love it. And where does the
16:55
singing fit into that? Well, I
16:57
wouldn't have my first dad, my
17:00
adopted dad had just died before
17:02
I went to college and I
17:04
wouldn't have... I'd gone so far
17:07
away, I don't think, if Yale
17:09
hadn't had this like amazing a
17:11
cappella scene, which I loved so
17:14
much, and I thought, oh. if
17:16
I can get in that school,
17:18
I can sing and I can
17:21
get a good education and she
17:23
can't, my mom can't say I
17:25
shouldn't go because they meet 100%
17:28
of demonstrated financial need and my
17:30
mom like I say it was
17:32
just a high school English teacher
17:35
and so not just was a
17:37
high school English teacher who is
17:39
that is a field of people
17:42
who are not financially rewarded for
17:44
the impact they have on the
17:46
world. So I applied early admission,
17:48
got deferred, I'm southern so I
17:51
thought they were just being polite
17:53
and that they would tell me
17:55
later that I was not invited
17:58
to come to school with them.
18:00
No! I built out like 12
18:02
more applications over Christmas. Re-submitted my
18:05
application and bless their hearts. They
18:07
let me in. You sound like
18:09
they were giving you a bless
18:12
your heart. I did. They're all
18:14
honey. Aren't you sweet? I know.
18:16
Bless your heart. You are just,
18:19
you are just lovely. That's so
18:21
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I would imagine just, you know,
22:02
based on what you're sharing, it's
22:05
so clear how much you loved
22:07
your mom, and I'm so sorry,
22:09
you know, for her passing. And
22:12
when we heal, we have to
22:14
be really honest about what we
22:17
come from, and you know, you
22:19
talk about her instability and the,
22:21
all the sort of good old
22:24
college tries that she gave love
22:26
that wasn't always good for her.
22:28
Was being able to get far
22:31
enough away to not go home
22:33
to do your laundry or not
22:36
have a surprise visit, you know,
22:38
from a parent to the dorms?
22:40
Did that also give you a
22:43
respite to kind of find yourself
22:45
and your own independent strength from
22:47
what was being modeled for you
22:50
at home? You know, both the
22:52
amazing and the dedicated and the
22:55
hard? I love that you're being
22:57
gracious enough to use the past
22:59
tense because that was a lifelong
23:02
situation. I mean, LA wasn't far
23:04
enough, you know, like I, it
23:07
was. because when you're a heart
23:09
and your mind and your mental
23:11
health they're intertwined like that physical
23:14
distance is sort of ancillary, you
23:16
know, it's great they can't walk
23:18
in your room at any moment
23:21
of any day, it's great they
23:23
can't be up in your physical
23:26
business all the time, but you
23:28
know, there were still decades of
23:30
time where I spent, you know,
23:33
three hours a day on the
23:35
phone with her and told her
23:37
everything that I did, and you
23:40
know, there was, it was a
23:42
long, long, long road of... healing
23:45
and I won't say like division
23:47
but it took a lot of
23:49
work. My very first therapist when
23:52
I got to LA was like,
23:54
okay you're going home for Christmas
23:56
so I just want to give
23:59
you the opportunity to, while you're
24:01
there, put on your lab coat,
24:04
just in your mind, little white
24:06
coat that you can just observe.
24:08
And that was sort of the
24:11
first little bit of a little
24:13
bit of distance. Like you said
24:15
it so beautifully, do you need
24:18
me to listen or do you
24:20
need me to fix them? Like
24:23
that's just knowing there's a little
24:25
separation. There's all love and we're
24:27
holding it all with love, but
24:30
there's choice in that... that cushion,
24:32
that buffer zone, there is choice.
24:34
And so that began many, many
24:37
decades of loving work, seeing both
24:39
of us for who we really,
24:42
really were. And now that she's
24:44
gone, that was the part of
24:46
the healing too is not forgetting
24:49
any of it. Because it all,
24:51
just like everything in the world,
24:54
it all informs. who we are
24:56
and what we do, what we
24:58
choose for our lives, for ourselves,
25:01
every moment of every day, and
25:03
if we are ignoring things or,
25:05
you know, deciding that that's not
25:08
factoring in, it's all factoring in.
25:10
It all filters in, it all
25:13
factors in, and so the most
25:15
loving thing to do is to
25:17
be present enough to notice and
25:20
decide with intention and... Yeah, but
25:22
just presence. That's what that's what
25:24
that's that that wound up being
25:27
That softness because I for so
25:29
many years tried to like I'm
25:32
gonna be good at this or
25:34
I did this right or you
25:36
know all the silly stuff that's
25:39
force and when you realize that
25:41
the softness of presence is the
25:43
true source of power seat of
25:46
power and from that all decisions
25:48
can flow and decisions that you're
25:51
far prouder of so that's that
25:53
journey yeah that's so beautiful I
25:55
think soft power is something that's
25:58
really been underestimated and You know,
26:00
it's not lost on me that
26:02
we're at a moment in the
26:05
world where I think there's a
26:07
lot of shock, you know, not
26:10
just in our country, but around
26:12
the globe at seeing the U.S.
26:14
kind of rip up all of
26:17
its pledges. It's like softest and
26:19
best kinds of power, you know,
26:21
the things that have led to
26:24
better global health outcomes. And
26:26
the kind of 30,000-foot view, you
26:29
know, the space station view, maybe
26:31
if we're talking about the whole
26:33
world, it's not lost on me
26:35
that we see that in kind
26:37
of every level of society and
26:39
what works and what doesn't. And
26:42
when you talk about how you've
26:44
had to carry this sort of,
26:46
you know, more whole version of
26:48
yourself throughout your life and through
26:50
all your work and, you know,
26:52
out... in LA and back back
26:55
now on the East Coast. I've
26:57
experienced a version of a soft
26:59
power and it's something you know
27:01
your your lab coat analogy I'm
27:03
like oh yeah I do that
27:05
sometimes. The stand back and observe.
27:08
isn't something I think I felt
27:10
as confident to do as a
27:12
younger person. I was so scared
27:14
that people would think I didn't
27:16
know what I was doing if
27:19
I didn't have input or a
27:21
way to help. And now I'm
27:23
very happy to just sit and
27:25
listen. And I have observed the
27:27
most beautiful, soft power in the
27:29
Shonda Rimes world. How about that?
27:32
Oh my God. And of course
27:34
everybody wants us to talk about
27:36
scandal and I want to ask
27:38
you 647 questions about it because
27:40
I loved it so much. I
27:42
have 648 answers. Thank God. It's
27:45
dawning on me as I'm listening
27:47
to you talk that some of
27:49
what I've seen in the Gray's
27:51
anatomy world watching her, watching Ellen,
27:53
watching Kimri, watching all these people.
27:56
What she's built are these spaces
27:58
where people are excellent. But it's
28:00
not like a bully demand. It's
28:02
a, you can be this. And
28:04
if you come in here, this
28:06
is the level we play at.
28:09
It's like an elite sport. And
28:11
it's kind. And it's tender and
28:13
people have real honor and gratitude
28:15
about their jobs. I don't know.
28:17
I don't think it's an accident
28:19
that we're having this conversation in
28:22
this moment. Because now you've obviously
28:24
got the perspective on what a
28:26
cultural phenomenon the show was, how
28:28
valuable it was to all of
28:30
us, how it got us through
28:32
the first two years of the
28:35
current president's first term. Did you
28:37
have any clue how different it
28:39
was when you read the pilot
28:41
script or could you just not
28:43
even imagined it imagined it imagined
28:46
or could you just not even
28:48
imagined it imagined it imagined Well,
28:50
you know they didn't let me
28:52
read the script. I was just
28:54
on just in for a recurring
28:56
I had two lives in that
28:59
pilot Sophia. I'm so lucky I
29:01
fell ass backwards into that dream
29:03
and I am So lucky I
29:05
mean, it's you know, it changed
29:07
my life utterly utterly. There's no
29:09
qualifier to that it changed my
29:12
life full stop period deep gasp
29:14
of gratitude So no, I don't
29:16
I don't think I was Given
29:18
the script I read it when
29:20
I got the part and then
29:22
I went and did it and
29:25
But I can tell you it
29:27
was and the the you know
29:29
the pilots always one thing but
29:31
when we came back and did
29:33
those first seven And I was
29:36
just supposed to be there for
29:38
three so I was like right
29:40
but It was instantly different and
29:42
I've I'm lucky enough to have
29:44
you know been a guest star
29:46
on a thousand things and so
29:49
you as a guest are you
29:51
really see it all because nobody's
29:53
behaving well around you. So you
29:55
really see the truth. No one
29:57
cares what you think so they
29:59
don't care enough to hide anything.
30:02
So I was like, oh man.
30:04
So I've been on a thousand
30:06
sets and I got to scandal
30:08
and it was just instantly different.
30:10
It was just instantly different and
30:13
over the course of the seven
30:15
years only grew in that regard
30:17
and you said something that made
30:19
me realize it was we were
30:21
all seen. So we were hired
30:23
to do what was inside us
30:26
and that we could share. And
30:28
then we were supported in every
30:30
way so that we could give
30:32
that. Not in a coddled actors
30:34
get everything, you know, like what
30:36
kind of algae do you want
30:39
in your smoothie kind of? Oh
30:41
God, no. But in a, oh,
30:43
you want to have a baby?
30:45
Great, let me. You don't have
30:47
to stop work. Let's figure out
30:49
how to do this. And now's
30:52
the time to do this, because
30:54
you also have a paycheck. So
30:56
this is wonderful. When Katie got
30:58
to have a baby on the
31:00
show, Carrie had a couple. And
31:03
we would... Myola could bring her
31:05
kids to work. We made a
31:07
whole space for the kids to
31:09
play it eventually, but we, you
31:11
know, no problem. Let's incorporate little
31:13
breaks. I think we called it
31:16
hummingbird bird. would need to go
31:18
breastfeed. I mean, this is care
31:20
that is not regular on a
31:22
set and also doesn't take much
31:24
effort and yields, you know, you
31:26
still have your 17-hour work days
31:29
and they're still wearing stilettos high
31:31
as my eyeballs and remembering all
31:33
their lines and doing their perfect
31:35
work and also being a mother.
31:37
And it was just lovely also,
31:40
also I do remember. Also I
31:42
do remember. One
31:44
woman, someone lady wanted to do
31:46
what was having a first go
31:48
at intimate moment and were a
31:51
little, uncomfortable with the notion and
31:53
Shonda immediate was like, listen, I
31:55
need you guys to kiss in
31:57
the scene, but if you're more
32:00
comfortable kissing in a parka, I'll
32:02
put you outside. Like, I'll do,
32:04
like, however you want it, I
32:06
just need the emotional connection. I'm
32:09
not here to exploit you. Now,
32:11
meanwhile, I realize that Tony and
32:13
Scott had to take their shirt
32:15
off all the time. So I
32:18
realize, I realize there's a balance,
32:20
but if we were, listen. But
32:22
no, it was always. And Carrie
32:24
also must be credited with being
32:27
an incredible, thoughtful, indefatigble number one.
32:29
I mean, first year that we
32:31
did press together, I remember she
32:33
was somewhere maybe in Italy doing
32:36
jango press at that point, and
32:38
Carrie and Darby and I were
32:40
going to sombs, something who knows,
32:42
one of the early, our times
32:45
on the carpet, and you know,
32:47
she knew we didn't know much
32:49
about doing anything on the carpet.
32:51
And we get a text from
32:54
Kerry, like, what do you need?
32:56
Do you know, you know, this
32:58
is how you stay on? Do
33:00
you have stylists? Like, I mean,
33:03
we were just really held in
33:05
love in that whole show. And
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we, everybody met it with love.
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A bunch of theater kids, just
33:12
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33:14
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37:11
sweet whenever I get to see
37:13
you all together it just brings
37:15
me so much joy because you
37:18
you made something enormous but you
37:20
you also you make it in
37:22
this little world and as much
37:24
as all of us who watched
37:27
it got to enjoy it nobody
37:29
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37:31
all and there's just something priceless
37:33
about that. I feel the same
37:36
way with you know all my
37:38
castmates from my first show from
37:40
One Tree Hill like we show
37:43
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37:45
it gave me the sort of
37:47
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37:49
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37:52
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37:54
we were all stupid and you
37:56
know adorable but we didn't know
37:58
you know our ass from our
38:01
elbow and it's like When you
38:03
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38:05
finally remember saying to a girlfriend
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of mine, I was like, oh,
38:10
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38:12
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38:19
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38:21
their siblings, they're gonna get laid
38:23
out. And it's like, oh, I
38:25
get it. There's a, it is
38:28
a really kind of priceless dynamic.
38:30
And I think what a cool
38:32
thing for you all to have
38:34
been able to do that. And
38:37
also probably to have been able
38:39
to do it. Like a little
38:41
more from your adulthood, you probably
38:43
had even more fun than we
38:46
did. Oh, yeah. No, that's the
38:48
other thing. We were all old
38:50
people already. Like when we started,
38:52
so we, there was no, like,
38:55
everybody had a burgeoning at least
38:57
sense of self. So there was
38:59
less acting out in confusion and,
39:01
you know, because LA is such
39:04
a head spinner, much less success.
39:06
So, We were all pretty grounded
39:08
about all of that. And if
39:10
we weren't, Kerry instantly grounded. You
39:13
know, like she was like, I
39:15
remember we were season five, they
39:17
wanted us to do Good Morning
39:19
America to launch the season and
39:22
we were like, that means we
39:24
have to be in hair and
39:26
makeup at 1.30am, and Kerry was
39:29
like, well, I'm going to be
39:31
here. I think it's amazing. They're
39:33
going to promote a season 5
39:35
of a show. I mean, that's
39:38
really special. And we were like.
39:40
She does, she's got such a
39:42
beautiful, she has such a spirit
39:44
of leadership. It's incredible. In everything
39:47
she does, I just absolutely adore
39:49
her. The level of thoughtfulness, it's
39:51
a little boggling, it really is,
39:53
and how hard she works to
39:56
make this world a better place,
39:58
you know, through her work, through
40:00
her activism, everything. That's what's really
40:02
interesting is that's how she and
40:05
I are friends. I know, because
40:07
you know, the same person, feebush,
40:09
the same wonderful person here making
40:11
things better. You shouldn't like everything
40:14
in your mind, body, soul. to
40:16
like be of service and love?
40:18
It's been really special to have
40:20
her sort of you know in
40:23
my group of political peers if
40:25
you will to have somebody who
40:27
likewise I know is up at
40:29
two in the morning reading you
40:32
know the report on maternal wellness
40:34
and and will listen to me
40:36
you know yammer about it's it's
40:38
so I think special and I've
40:41
thought a lot about it for
40:43
all of you because the world
40:45
of scandal was amazing. You guys
40:47
as actors, the chemistry between people,
40:50
the writing, I mean that work
40:52
was amazing and culturally to begin
40:54
that show when Barack Obama was
40:56
the president to take us into
40:59
the first two years of Trump's
41:01
first term. It's such a cultural
41:03
phenomenon, not just an entertainment phenomenon.
41:05
Do you think now, looking back,
41:08
do you think we needed to
41:10
be in the time of Obama
41:12
for scandal to be possible? And
41:15
do you think it helped people
41:17
care maybe a little bit more
41:19
about politics? Because I don't know
41:21
if I don't know as a
41:24
viewer. If the resistance would have
41:26
spoken the language so well so
41:28
fast, had y'all not been on
41:30
the air? Oh, I hope Shada
41:33
hears you say that. I do.
41:35
I think that would, I think
41:37
she'd be really grateful that you
41:39
held that thought in your heart
41:42
even for a moment. You
41:44
know, what she's always told us,
41:46
because I can't speak to her,
41:48
you know, process or intentions, but
41:51
what she's always told us is
41:53
how much she loved the West
41:55
Wing and how much she always
41:57
wanted to write her West Wing.
41:59
Me too. You're right? Come on.
42:01
And that, you know... Her enduring
42:04
commitment is that television looked like
42:06
the world. Yes. So this was
42:08
she met Judy Smith who scandal
42:10
is based on and she thought,
42:12
oh, that's my end. And she
42:14
just all of a sudden could
42:17
see, she was like, this is
42:19
my DC story. But that's also
42:21
why it was a, she knew
42:23
it had a ending spot. And
42:25
I do think we squeaked out
42:27
one extra year. because of real
42:29
life circumstances. I don't think Meli
42:32
would have been president. I think
42:34
Jeff was supposed to have, I
42:36
think Jeff was supposed to have,
42:38
I think Jeff was supposed to
42:40
have, you know, he won and
42:42
then we shot him or something.
42:45
I can't even remember, I'm not
42:47
even sure, but I know I
42:49
wasn't and then I was and
42:51
I do think that was, I
42:53
think she had some things to
42:55
say from the mouth of a
42:57
female president. because she had been
43:00
writing on Hillary's campaign and so
43:02
I just think she was she
43:04
was ready to write some speeches
43:06
that she did not have the
43:08
opportunity to write and so maybe
43:10
afforded herself the right opportunity to
43:13
share some of those ideas. I
43:15
love that. Gosh because I was
43:17
going to ask when you're doing
43:19
something so special with people you
43:21
love so much you don't want
43:23
it to end so we didn't
43:26
want it to end. Yeah that's
43:28
what I was going to ask
43:30
like did you feel ready to
43:32
move on but Maybe if, I
43:34
guess never, but also if you
43:36
got an extra year, that must
43:38
feel so great. I think so.
43:41
And I, like I say, you'll,
43:43
you'll see Sean one day and
43:45
you'll ask her the truth of
43:47
that. But I think that's, that
43:49
was everybody's feeling. And we, I
43:51
know, Josh was like, please, my
43:54
kid is still in college, you
43:56
know, just a couple more years.
43:58
And we would have stayed together
44:00
forever forever and also we knew
44:02
she was right to finish. where
44:04
she knew she wanted to finish.
44:07
You know, it's, we've all also
44:09
been on shows that are still
44:11
going. past maybe where they should
44:13
have landed and I want everybody
44:15
to have jobs God knows and
44:17
also it does feel a little
44:19
more like work when you're in
44:22
that phase so it never felt
44:24
like one day one day on
44:26
our set never felt like work
44:28
it always felt like joy and
44:30
curiosity and there was a story
44:32
to tell and we were lucky
44:35
to be there telling it together.
44:37
You guys all had such great
44:39
language and that's something I think
44:41
is true of the West Wing
44:43
as well like Aaron Sorcan. writes
44:45
the hell out of a scene.
44:47
Shonda Rimes writes the hell out
44:50
of a scene. Did it take
44:52
getting used to the kind of
44:54
cadence and the politics of it
44:56
all? Or do you feel like
44:58
you really just found yourself in
45:00
all of that dialogue and in
45:03
all of that verbiage really? No.
45:05
We all like... scandal paste was
45:07
a real thing and we drill
45:09
drill drilled like I say we're
45:11
like theater babies so we're having
45:13
to run minds and like just
45:16
you just get it till it's
45:18
so in your marrow that you
45:20
can you know a walk and
45:22
talk is like impossible but like
45:24
walk down those halls and hit
45:26
it hard speeding like Tabasco style
45:28
and then like you know not
45:31
mess up the steady cam guy
45:33
it's yeah it's a. It was
45:35
quite intentional and I think they
45:37
found it. I can't speak to
45:39
that. Katie Lowe will be able
45:41
to speak to that. I feel
45:44
like they found it in Katie's
45:46
audition really just because Katie's a
45:48
natural fast talker and it just
45:50
it was always great writing but
45:52
with the speed it just lived.
45:54
It just sang and And our,
45:57
you know, it was so hard
45:59
for guest stars, it's so hard
46:01
to step into that and meet
46:03
that pace. And I always, you
46:05
know, we were a loving embrace
46:07
for anyone that joined us, but
46:09
the pace was a bit of
46:12
a sissify and hurdle. But we
46:14
loved it and having Shonda in
46:16
my brain, I mean, I am
46:18
a, Lord, I am a bear
46:20
of, self-doubting little bear constantly and
46:22
having Shonda's sort of Shonda's idea
46:25
of Melli like my way or
46:27
the highway 17 hours a day
46:29
five days a week was personally
46:31
radically transformative just to act as
46:33
if of it all oh yeah
46:35
oh some people live in this
46:37
life a whole different way than
46:40
I am you know it's yeah
46:42
and then she gives these little
46:44
perfect one-act plays like me and
46:46
Tony and Jeffy or just Oh,
46:48
it was just the most satisfying
46:50
creative experience. My stars. I mean,
46:53
you know. Oh, it's just so
46:55
cool. It's so cool. If you
46:57
had the chance to do some
46:59
sort of a reunion, like a
47:01
reboot or a movie or something,
47:03
would you just jump? Oh, we'd
47:06
all get on a plane tonight.
47:08
I swear. There's nobody that would
47:10
be like, I don't know. I
47:12
mean, we'd have to, Kerry's busy,
47:14
we'd have to work around her
47:16
schedule, but, but I think she'd
47:18
do it too. Yeah, in an
47:21
instant. Oh, I love that so
47:23
much. Now, right around when the
47:25
show was ending, you started working
47:27
with care, right? That was all
47:29
2018. Yeah, yeah, I started in
47:31
2018. Exactly. And was that an
47:34
organization you met through the political
47:36
world kind of overlap of scandal,
47:38
or did that happen in a
47:40
completely different way? My dear friend
47:42
Renee Jones that I know through
47:44
UTA is who drew them into
47:46
my life and me into theirs.
47:49
And I was so grateful because
47:51
of course we all know care.
47:53
Care is the care package, you
47:55
know? It's 80 years old because
47:57
right after the Second World War,
47:59
humans in America realized that humans
48:02
in Europe might need things because
48:04
they'd been bombed and gone through
48:06
a war and were impoverished and
48:08
in need. And so they would
48:10
make these care packages and send
48:12
them to Europe and it made
48:15
such an impact. And everybody, you've
48:17
gotten a care package right in
48:19
your life or send one? And
48:21
you know how. loved you feel
48:23
and from that this incredible organization
48:25
grew from that little acorn and
48:27
there's still that bespoke thoughtful intentional
48:30
organization they go into local areas
48:32
and they ask what the need
48:34
is and then they hire from
48:36
the local area, they hire folks
48:38
and help create infrastructure that allows
48:40
those folks to create lasting transformational
48:43
intergenerational change for themselves. And Care's
48:45
goal is like teach a man
48:47
to fish. They're not, we don't
48:49
want to be there forever and
48:51
we don't want, you know, we're
48:53
just like giving you aid in
48:56
a way that we think you
48:58
need. It's very... thoughtful, intentional, local-based,
49:00
and they plan for their own
49:02
obsolescence so that change can continue
49:04
to happen. And I loved that
49:06
they, you know, they have the
49:08
data, right? Like the science says,
49:11
if you lift up women and
49:13
girls, they bring their families and
49:15
their communities with them. So that's
49:17
how they focus their work as
49:19
in partnership with women and girls,
49:21
giving them, you know, safe spaces
49:24
to learn and to get health
49:26
care and to have market access
49:28
and it's just been transformational, truly
49:30
transformational, but still born out of
49:32
that, just humans, knowing that we're
49:34
all connected, wanting to help other
49:36
humans. It changes everything. It surely
49:39
does. Like the tiniest thing, the
49:41
tiniest thing. I think about, actually
49:43
the episodes that just came out
49:45
today, Lillian, who works in the
49:47
care office at Tanzania, she's the
49:49
only care officer we talk to.
49:52
We used to talk to care
49:54
program participants, but she's done over
49:56
$700, $700,000, she's the only care
49:58
officer we talked to. We used
50:00
to talk to care program participants,
50:02
but she's done. like she was
50:05
like no no you what do
50:07
you need what what do you
50:09
need in your life that would
50:11
make your life better than the
50:13
women thought and they said, oh,
50:15
well, it'd be so good if
50:17
we didn't have to take our
50:20
kids to the fields with us
50:22
to harvest because it's like very
50:24
hard to manage our children and
50:26
get the crops and she's out
50:28
great. So let's make daycare. And
50:30
the VSLA made a daycare and
50:33
started with just 21 kids from
50:35
the people who were doing the
50:37
harvesting and This year, this is
50:39
maybe four years later and they're
50:41
doing a brick and mortar school
50:43
for 93 students and it's transformed
50:46
everything. Of course, it's also return
50:48
on the investment of the women's
50:50
money. Of course, but it allows
50:52
them just to breathe a little
50:54
to go to work and do
50:56
well at their job and their
50:58
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51:01
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51:03
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51:05
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54:49
about my exact favorite kind of
54:51
thing, which is when the math
54:54
and the morals meet? Because so
54:56
many people think that you can
54:58
do well or you can do
55:00
good for the world. And that
55:02
is like a complete lie. usually
55:04
set in motion by the powers
55:06
that be who want to hoard
55:09
wealth and not share with people.
55:11
And programs like the ones you're
55:13
talking about, when you invest in
55:15
a community that some might call
55:17
underdeveloped or whatever adjective, sometimes all
55:19
people need is a jumpstart. It's
55:22
not that different to certain states
55:24
in our country getting huge economic
55:26
boosters with the infrastructure bill that
55:28
President Biden and Vice President Harris
55:30
passed. When you get an infrastructure
55:32
project and you're going to reinforce
55:35
and upgrade every bridge in a
55:37
community like, I don't know, Pittsburgh,
55:39
famous for bridges, not only does
55:41
that make your roads safer, but
55:43
everybody in town who works construction,
55:45
steel, car rentals, trucking, you know,
55:47
down the line to the sandwich
55:50
shops at the ends of the
55:52
bridges, everybody's making more money. And
55:54
so sometimes all you need is
55:56
you need the wind in the
55:58
pinwheel to get it going and
56:00
then it keeps going and so
56:03
It's why I think organizations like
56:05
care are so special because exactly
56:07
what you said. They're not coming
56:09
in saying, we're here to help
56:11
and we know what's best. And
56:13
now we're gonna build an office
56:15
here and we're gonna have employees.
56:18
They're saying, we're gonna come help
56:20
you get started and the pinwheel's
56:22
yours. And that's the way we
56:24
heal, I think, not just neighborhoods
56:26
and municipalities, but the planet. And
56:28
it's why I think it's so
56:31
cool that. You're using your platform
56:33
not just to work with them,
56:35
but this story you're talking about
56:37
when you said the episode for
56:39
our friends at home Bellamy launched
56:41
a podcast called She Leads with
56:44
Care. And it's so inspiring to
56:46
hear these stories of these incredible
56:48
volunteers, organizers. I've listened to some
56:50
of this and gone, oh. that's
56:52
a really good thing to take
56:54
to our local food bank or
56:56
I want to send this to
56:59
three of my friends who really
57:01
care about maternal wellness and have
57:03
them listen to this because it
57:05
feels relevant to what we're working
57:07
on you know with moms that
57:09
are fire victims in LA and
57:12
like it's it's such a lovely
57:14
place to sit and be inspired
57:16
so thank you for doing this
57:18
not just because the world needs
57:20
it but like Selfishly, I really
57:22
needed it. I've been so sad
57:25
and stressed out. No, that's why
57:27
I did it. It came during
57:29
COVID. I was so alone and
57:31
depressed and feeling so unconnected to
57:33
the world and I kept looking
57:35
for stories of hope and connection
57:37
and I kept coming back to
57:40
these care stories. Yes. I thought,
57:42
oh, if I need this. Why
57:44
are we not sharing these women's
57:46
stories with the world? And it's
57:48
not mine to tell. You got
57:50
to let them tell their story.
57:53
You know, I mean, there's no
57:55
substitute for a lived experience and
57:57
I never want to put words
57:59
in anybody's mouth. So we just
58:01
set out to try and... And
58:03
it turned to be, you know,
58:05
we're novices, you're so good at
58:08
this, but we were, we had
58:10
a long learning curve with doing
58:12
a podcast in multiple languages all
58:14
around the world, shipping equipment, you
58:16
know, getting women to, you know,
58:18
four hours where there, where there
58:21
might be Wi-Fi and from really
58:23
rural locations and translating and, you
58:25
know, doing voiceover, you know, that's
58:27
appropriate to the region and to
58:29
the woman because you'd want her.
58:31
life, her life force to stay.
58:34
But it just meant everything to
58:36
me and this year was a
58:38
especially hard year, last year in
58:40
particular, and in so many ways
58:42
personally and in the world. And
58:44
every time I would sit down
58:46
to have a conversation, I would
58:49
cry like more times during the
58:51
conversation just out of gratitude and
58:53
awe and the humble enormity of
58:55
First of all, again, going back
58:57
to the 21st century living, that
58:59
I can have a conversation with
59:02
somebody in Nepal and, you know,
59:04
ask them about to tell me
59:06
about their lived experiences. Miracle. It's
59:08
magical. It's so cool. And then
59:10
to like learn about all these
59:12
things and to be reminded also
59:15
of the grace and gifts that
59:17
we have. I particularly think about
59:19
village savings and loans, like you're
59:21
saying we. Still in the world
59:23
so many places women don't have
59:25
access to Financial freedom. I know
59:27
in America it was what 1974
59:30
when women could get a bank
59:32
account and there is in my
59:34
lifetime I was born in 1970
59:36
I spent since my lifetime that
59:38
a woman could get a bank
59:40
account in that kind of thing
59:43
in America So that still doesn't
59:45
happen in the rest of the
59:47
world so allowing people not even
59:49
investing in people allowing women to
59:51
invest in themselves So much. I
59:53
know it was 1974 I believe
59:55
was a was a bank account
59:58
and then I I can't recall.
1:00:00
going to look and I'll follow
1:00:02
up with you. It was like
1:00:04
1983 or 1988 for a business
1:00:06
loan. Business loan, you're
1:00:08
right, that's true. What? What?
1:00:11
And to your point, you
1:00:13
know, we use that data,
1:00:15
that 90% reinvestment around the
1:00:17
world. It's a, it's a
1:00:19
a stat that we use,
1:00:21
you know, in philanthropy and
1:00:23
social change to talk about
1:00:25
building a better global economy,
1:00:27
and it's often ascribed to,
1:00:29
you know, the developing world,
1:00:31
whatever that, you know, means,
1:00:33
depending on who's using the
1:00:35
term. And women reinvest
1:00:37
90% of what you invest
1:00:39
in them into their children
1:00:41
and into their community and
1:00:43
into their families. And with
1:00:45
men, they invest 90% in
1:00:47
themselves. So the ROI on us is
1:00:50
major and now when you look at
1:00:52
America, women are the
1:00:54
single largest creators of
1:00:56
small businesses in the
1:00:58
country. And among women,
1:01:00
yes, among women, women of
1:01:02
color are leading. And so the
1:01:05
way I think about it when
1:01:07
I put on, you know, my
1:01:09
financial hat, my investor hat is
1:01:12
if 51% of the population has
1:01:14
historically been
1:01:16
under-resourced. We've been
1:01:18
underserved. Yep. Which means we're
1:01:20
missing out on profits, 51%
1:01:22
of the population could be
1:01:25
generating. Yep. And if women
1:01:27
of color in particular have
1:01:29
experienced so much more withholding,
1:01:31
they get underfunded at so
1:01:33
much a greater rate than
1:01:35
even you or I would,
1:01:37
imagine how much unmade profit
1:01:39
is sitting in those sectors
1:01:41
of our country. So I
1:01:43
get really excited when we
1:01:45
start to be able to
1:01:47
prove. these metrics because all
1:01:49
it means is that everybody
1:01:51
does better. Everybody
1:01:54
wins. Everybody wins!
1:01:56
It's opportunities, it's
1:01:58
cultural growth. It's
1:02:00
social change. It's the GDP of a
1:02:02
country. Yeah. It's all of it. And
1:02:04
it goes back to what we were
1:02:07
talking about, about sets. What you guys,
1:02:09
what you can identify and name
1:02:11
that you had on the set
1:02:14
of scandal, because women were in
1:02:16
seats of power benefited the men
1:02:18
also. And I will never forget
1:02:20
one of the most impactful days
1:02:22
of my whole career, full
1:02:24
circle moment, playing a cardiothoracic
1:02:26
surgeon on a TV show.
1:02:28
My mom was like, she
1:02:31
finally did it. My wonderful
1:02:33
head of props, lovely man
1:02:35
named Jordan, local Toronto guy,
1:02:37
one of my favorite humans I've
1:02:39
ever worked with, sidled up to
1:02:41
me one day and I'd been
1:02:43
meeting with our camera department to
1:02:45
go over something and he said, you
1:02:48
know, I really love coming to work here.
1:02:50
And I was like, Jordan, I was
1:02:52
like, dude, we love you. And he goes,
1:02:54
he goes, I love you, man. And I
1:02:56
always feel really special when my guy friends
1:02:59
call me man. I'm like, I made it
1:03:01
in. You're like, yeah. And he goes, he
1:03:03
goes, I love you man. He goes, but
1:03:05
it's bigger than that. He said,
1:03:07
you and Katie, because our showrunner
1:03:09
was a wonderful woman named Katie
1:03:12
Wes, she said, you've made this place so
1:03:14
nice. And it's really nice for me too.
1:03:16
And like, I'm a single white
1:03:18
guy with an expendable income.
1:03:21
And I'm having a nicer time than
1:03:23
I normally do. Like that's it.
1:03:25
Everybody's happier because somebody
1:03:27
thought about child care. Everybody's
1:03:30
doing better because somebody thought
1:03:32
about the lived experiences of everyone
1:03:34
in the room so everyone's quality
1:03:36
of life got better. I think
1:03:38
about you think on the first
1:03:41
trip I went for care I
1:03:43
went to Rwanda in 2019 and
1:03:45
I met this woman named Bridget
1:03:47
who was a VSLA participant. She'd
1:03:49
saved up just like... Well, we think
1:03:52
of as pennies from what her husband would
1:03:54
give her to get groceries or to get
1:03:56
soap or whatever. And it took about a
1:03:58
year to save up enough to invest. and
1:04:00
herself and join a VSLA and another
1:04:02
year until it came time for them
1:04:04
to invest in her and they're like
1:04:06
what's your dream you know what what
1:04:08
do you need to take out of
1:04:10
the fund and she wanted five chickens
1:04:13
and they got she got the five
1:04:15
chickens and you know paid back her
1:04:17
investment and all that sort of thing.
1:04:19
I met her almost six years later,
1:04:21
honey, she had a thousand chickens, she
1:04:24
had two farms, she employed three men,
1:04:26
she gave the community, she got 850
1:04:28
eggs a day, the nutrition in the
1:04:31
community, which had usually subsisted on cassava
1:04:33
and cassava-based products. Yeah, God had soared
1:04:35
through the roof. But one of the things
1:04:37
that made her happiest is that her
1:04:39
marriage was better. It was so much
1:04:42
happier and kinder in her
1:04:44
house because there was equality,
1:04:46
less fear, less status.
1:04:48
And I just think about
1:04:50
that when we're all allowed
1:04:53
to participate with our whole
1:04:55
heart. We're all allowed to give,
1:04:57
all that we have to give,
1:04:59
then everything calms down. Yeah. And
1:05:01
everything can reach its
1:05:04
highest potential. Well, and
1:05:06
what that is, is the
1:05:08
opposite of scarcity. Amen. And
1:05:10
whether there's scarcity or not
1:05:12
scarcity mindset even. That's it.
1:05:15
But this idea that, you know,
1:05:17
pre- 1974, God forbid, you had a
1:05:19
bank account, what are you going to
1:05:21
do with it? You're not looking to
1:05:23
use it as a bully club. You
1:05:25
just want to build something. And so...
1:05:28
I think the us and them
1:05:30
thing is so toxic because what
1:05:32
it actually does is it just
1:05:34
puts everyone in the scarcity mindset.
1:05:37
It puts everyone in the competitive
1:05:39
experience in their own house, like
1:05:41
your friend Bridget, and then you
1:05:43
flip it, everybody grows, everybody
1:05:46
does better, incomes get
1:05:48
bigger and more stable, education
1:05:50
gets bigger and more stable,
1:05:53
nutrition in community gets bigger,
1:05:55
expanded, more stable, doing better
1:05:58
and her husband didn't. anything
1:06:00
because she succeeded. They both
1:06:02
won. Yeah. You know, the two
1:06:04
of them, the one plus one,
1:06:06
became three. Yeah. Instead of one
1:06:08
and one fighting over one. And
1:06:10
I think that is, that's
1:06:12
a universal story. And that's
1:06:15
part of why I think
1:06:17
your, your podcast, like, everybody
1:06:19
you're interviewing around the world
1:06:21
is in a unique place with
1:06:23
a unique experience, but the core
1:06:25
of the story is so universal.
1:06:28
Yeah. When I'm, you know, sitting here
1:06:31
pouring over the articles
1:06:33
and panicking about, you
1:06:35
know, what's going to happen
1:06:37
to all the kids that
1:06:39
are about to lose access
1:06:41
to education with no Department of
1:06:44
Ed, podcasts like yours are
1:06:46
really fortifying for me. So
1:06:48
thank you so much. It
1:06:51
did land in an unexpected
1:06:53
time. Much of this platform
1:06:56
that you've built is so
1:06:58
clearly... positive. Is it weird
1:07:00
to think like I was
1:07:02
a kid who grew up
1:07:04
and wanted to sing and
1:07:06
and maybe study science? And
1:07:08
now I'm like out here
1:07:11
as this, you know, positive
1:07:13
influence for social change and
1:07:15
activism and advocacy. Is
1:07:17
it crazy a little bit or
1:07:20
does it just feel right? I don't
1:07:22
know. I don't know. I don't know.
1:07:24
I think when I engage
1:07:26
in socials. It is often
1:07:29
with trepidation because I'm
1:07:31
always afraid of me to
1:07:33
see something that crushes me. It
1:07:35
just crushes me. Because people are
1:07:38
so mean. Yeah, it's really
1:07:40
like it, it takes, yeah, it takes a
1:07:42
lot. It really, I have. I have fear
1:07:44
around it, so I never want to be
1:07:46
a part of contributing to anyone else's fear.
1:07:48
I want if somebody notices something that I
1:07:50
have in my heart and want to share,
1:07:52
I want them to feel like they got
1:07:55
hugged afterwards. I want them to feel a
1:07:57
little bit better about themselves. I want them
1:07:59
maybe to remember. that that joy is
1:08:01
in them too. Oh yeah, I had
1:08:03
a day like that too. Or, you
1:08:05
know, like to see themselves reflected and
1:08:08
to see a space for safety and
1:08:10
love. I really, really, that's all I
1:08:12
want. That's what I want to share.
1:08:15
And also, I'll say in these times
1:08:17
where I get scared and hopeless and
1:08:19
start to feel disconnected again like in
1:08:22
COVID, the only tonic. is to
1:08:24
know that people are doing the
1:08:26
work and that if we all
1:08:28
did just, you know, if we
1:08:30
all just made a few choices
1:08:32
in our day that connected us,
1:08:34
if we were all just a
1:08:36
little bit of service, or if
1:08:38
we all just raised up a
1:08:40
little bit of positivity, the aggregate,
1:08:42
like that butterfly effect, those ripples.
1:08:44
I mean there's nothing could stop
1:08:46
us with that intentional love and
1:08:48
that sort of the fuel and
1:08:50
the engine of that progress goodness
1:08:52
inclusion help just helping each other
1:08:54
we're all going to need help
1:08:56
we all are and we're all
1:08:58
going to be in a position
1:09:00
to give help and so if
1:09:02
we just stay present and open
1:09:04
enough to see where we are
1:09:06
on the seesaw and tune in
1:09:08
and engage in life. I think
1:09:11
I spent a lot of time
1:09:13
hiding in my life and so
1:09:15
now I just always want to
1:09:17
be the loving act for myself
1:09:19
is to engage with all
1:09:22
the positivity I can because we
1:09:24
are all so capable of making
1:09:26
good change in this world if
1:09:28
we feel safe enough to do
1:09:30
so. I love that. When
1:09:33
you think about all of
1:09:35
this, you know, how all these
1:09:37
elements and passions and beliefs
1:09:39
kind of add up into
1:09:41
the work you do, and really
1:09:44
I think into the person you
1:09:46
are in the world, and you look
1:09:48
kind of out at the horizon
1:09:50
line, whatever is ad for
1:09:52
you, for us, is there something
1:09:55
that pops up that you go
1:09:57
that's my work in progress?
1:09:59
or is it kind of
1:10:02
continuing
1:10:04
to figure out how
1:10:06
to hold the whole
1:10:09
thing? We think my
1:10:11
work in progress
1:10:13
is showing up honestly.
1:10:17
Yeah, like getting through
1:10:19
the stuff from
1:10:21
my childhood, getting
1:10:24
through the people
1:10:27
pleasing. getting through
1:10:29
the may I add very
1:10:31
happy years of spending all
1:10:33
my time pretending to be
1:10:36
someone else which was you
1:10:38
know on screen and off
1:10:40
and then you know
1:10:42
COVID happened the industry
1:10:44
changed like there's been
1:10:47
some years of nowhere to
1:10:49
hide and lots happened in
1:10:52
my personal life during
1:10:54
that time and through
1:10:56
the work on myself
1:10:58
and by being
1:11:01
scrupulous about who
1:11:03
I surround myself with. I just try
1:11:05
and what I surround what I feel
1:11:07
my day with right like I love
1:11:09
to work hard I love to work
1:11:11
hard it makes me really happy it
1:11:14
makes you feel engaged I really love
1:11:16
to work hard but but you have
1:11:18
to like be sure that you're we
1:11:20
have such a little time on this
1:11:22
planet and so you have to really
1:11:24
be sure you're not chasing your tail
1:11:26
right that what you're doing is in
1:11:28
alignment with your heart and you know
1:11:30
with your why your soul came on
1:11:33
this planet, whatever its mission might
1:11:35
have been. So you find
1:11:37
those people that are safe
1:11:39
to share your heart with
1:11:41
and your truth. And this
1:11:43
year has just afforded
1:11:45
me the opportunity to
1:11:47
decide whether or not to share
1:11:50
that more broadly. Like I
1:11:52
wrote a little article about my
1:11:54
mom and all she went through
1:11:57
and to the podcast and haughty
1:11:59
wrote. Why a sci-fi like the
1:12:01
first novel on a trilogy with
1:12:03
my dear friend Fay we're gonna
1:12:06
put it out in June That's
1:12:08
my dream Oh my god we
1:12:10
had so much fun sphere. Oh
1:12:12
my we just had the best
1:12:15
time. So the the Ethereum code
1:12:17
book one the spark look for
1:12:19
it, but so it's been really
1:12:21
fun to Just yeah just meet
1:12:23
each moment in a much more
1:12:26
honest way and that still that
1:12:28
will still make me stutter sometimes.
1:12:30
I used to really stutter when
1:12:32
I was being honest because it was
1:12:34
just too scary. How like singing
1:12:37
helped because singing is such an
1:12:39
honest gift you give either yourself
1:12:41
or if someone might be listening
1:12:43
but it helps get you on
1:12:45
your breath and in your body
1:12:47
and but I still stutter if
1:12:49
I'm like that's how I can
1:12:51
tell I'm not in a safe
1:12:54
situation. Yes. Is when I, when
1:12:56
I am giving my truth and
1:12:58
it starts to flutter me, I
1:13:00
think, oh honey, maybe, you know,
1:13:02
throttle down, maybe this isn't the
1:13:04
place or the time. But so
1:13:07
yeah, I think, I think showing
1:13:09
up honestly in my life is
1:13:11
my, is my continued work in
1:13:13
progress. And who knows where that'll
1:13:15
go? Who knows? That's beautiful.
1:13:18
I think especially when
1:13:20
the sort of gift in
1:13:22
the curse. of this beautiful
1:13:24
job is that you get
1:13:26
so good at performing and
1:13:28
you're also always
1:13:30
expected to be on and
1:13:32
being a human in the
1:13:34
world and wanting to go
1:13:37
be in the world wanting
1:13:39
to go walk through Manhattan
1:13:41
means you probably have to
1:13:44
perform for people even on
1:13:46
your day off and it
1:13:48
can be so hard to
1:13:50
learn. how to just be
1:13:53
yourself when you're not
1:13:56
on. And I think, you
1:13:58
know, when you said... at
1:14:00
the top of the hour, you
1:14:02
were talking about how it's a
1:14:04
lifelong journey, you know, the distance
1:14:06
and the healing and the reclaiming
1:14:09
all those parts of yourself.
1:14:11
That's one of the things I'm
1:14:13
trying to reclaim is like, who
1:14:15
am I when I'm not trying
1:14:17
to make someone else this
1:14:19
day? Because that's such a gift,
1:14:22
but it's also a gift I
1:14:24
have to give away every time. And
1:14:26
when was the last time I gave
1:14:28
it to me? And I'm
1:14:30
working on it. Baby steps.
1:14:33
Baby steps. And often
1:14:35
awareness, right? That'll
1:14:38
elanon adage awareness
1:14:40
acceptance action, right? Yep.
1:14:42
That's it. Oh my goodness.
1:14:44
You're just such a joy. Thank
1:14:47
you for this. I'm like, I
1:14:49
want to talk about a thousand
1:14:51
more things with you, but not
1:14:54
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