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Love ya. I'm

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gonna start this one off. Hey friends

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and family who missed you, love you,

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hi, good morning, good evening, how are

1:56

you? Okay, great. It's weird, they don't

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talk hard. Best friends that... I'm

2:00

watching it. Is this our last

2:02

podcast until you go on tour?

2:04

Technically, I'm on tour while this

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is out. No, I'm on stage.

2:08

Poop in my pants. No, you're

2:10

killing me. You're jumping for joy.

2:12

I'm watching it all right now

2:14

on TikTok and in social medias.

2:16

Instagram. You're doing so good. You

2:19

look great. Oh, definitely look great.

2:21

Yeah, that I got down. For

2:23

the first show. How is tour

2:25

for the first show. How is

2:27

tour. It's timeless tour 2.0 for

2:29

me. How are you going to

2:31

pack for this? I've been stressing

2:33

about that nonstop and doing nothing

2:35

about it. So I'll probably pack

2:37

last minute. You know what I

2:39

saw at Century City Mall the

2:41

other day? What? A Cal Pack

2:44

store in person. Do you know

2:46

what Cal Pack store in person?

2:48

Do you know what Cal Pack

2:50

is? They're like, toilet trees or

2:52

makeup, which you don't have or

2:54

like... They're great. They're like different

2:56

sizes. They're clear. They're colorful. They're

2:58

chic. They're sturdy. It's a nice

3:00

way to organize in the back.

3:02

Calback. Go to Central City Mall.

3:04

They also have like, uh, tummy

3:07

there. Mmm, money. Well, I'm just

3:09

thinking about, um, like, what do

3:11

I wear? But I'll probably, I

3:13

don't know, I got these like,

3:15

comfortable, I thought you were going

3:17

shirtless the whole time. Yeah, should

3:19

I. You know, I have to

3:21

think about it. You know, just

3:23

budget. You know what I mean?

3:25

You'll save so much. True. I

3:27

don't know. Are you packing? Should

3:30

you get better shoes though? You

3:32

need good shoes for jumping. Yeah.

3:34

You need some like fitness shoes.

3:36

Honestly, you should dress like fitness.

3:38

No, no, no, no. You get

3:40

the sweat bands. Qut out a

3:42

quut. Sweat shirt, take the sleeves

3:44

off and like deep v gray.

3:46

Have you noticed, have you noticed

3:48

dad cut down all his hoodies?

3:50

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't

3:52

know who told him to do

3:55

that, but it's the most, the

3:57

most adorable thing I've ever seen.

3:59

Why does he do that? I

4:01

don't know. He comes over with

4:03

a full video. Oh, it's for

4:05

his, uh, his button ups, right?

4:07

Maybe he cuts him himself. Oh,

4:09

maybe to put the button up

4:11

underneath. Every single one, I have

4:13

no idea. Are you gonna change

4:15

your outfit every night, like my

4:18

tour, 26th, whatever? No. Ha. No.

4:20

You only have 13, right? Yeah,

4:22

yeah. I'm not a big alpha

4:24

change guy. That's Chris's world, right?

4:26

But your old boy, it could

4:28

be like a new shirt. Yeah.

4:30

Mine's like involved. Maybe I'll bring

4:32

some of my jerseys. Yeah, there

4:34

you go. Oh, yeah, you should

4:36

do it. I could wear the

4:38

jersey. Oh, yeah. Yeah, everywhere you

4:41

go. Just go there. like go

4:43

to some um well I'm almost

4:45

not get carried away here not

4:47

everywhere I go I'm not going

4:49

to go buy something right right

4:51

right at the back yeah I

4:53

think oh I got it take

4:55

it off throw it to the

4:57

crowd oh yes yes yes yes

4:59

that is a good idea that

5:01

is a good idea that is

5:03

a good idea buy it and

5:06

throw it away yeah don't just

5:08

buy it give it out what

5:10

I hope that's happening is that

5:12

I'm actually able to go out

5:14

into the ground to the ground

5:16

and sing with everybody without having

5:18

to take a meet and greet

5:20

and greet right Yeah, there's a

5:22

meeting great. There you go. Tell

5:24

him right now though, like, hey,

5:26

fine. Well, no, because it's already

5:29

happening. Yeah, remind him. I'm saying,

5:31

this is why I'm going to

5:33

my wish. Okay, but for future

5:35

shows, for the shows coming up

5:37

after this first one. Ryan's very

5:39

sorry, he couldn't take the selfies,

5:41

he wanted to with you. Yeah,

5:43

he's very sorry, he couldn't take

5:45

the selfies he wanted to with

5:47

you. Yeah, he's just going to.

5:49

And Chris is very serious. He's

5:52

got these legit set times, new,

5:54

new looks, like it's, we're on

5:56

it. So I don't have time

5:58

to be like, you know. It's

6:00

not me opening up for you where

6:02

no music could be playing and no

6:04

one really cares because they're just like,

6:07

yeah, we're outside waiting for Megan, you

6:09

know, like, it's a show. Music has

6:11

to go. It's crazy you didn't even

6:13

have any ears while you were opening

6:15

for me because we would all talk

6:17

backstage about you of like. Should we

6:19

let him finish his song or do

6:21

we give him one more they were

6:23

like what do you need Megan are

6:25

you okay and I was like I'm

6:27

fucking ready to go and then they

6:29

would go all right and they would

6:31

he would just walk up to you

6:33

mid show and a mid song I

6:35

go well let him finish the song

6:37

like after the song I'm okay but

6:39

you would see him and go shut

6:41

it down are you ready for mega

6:43

trainer? I was like wait Steve our

6:46

boy Steve gave me a thumbs up

6:48

gave me a thumbs up gave me

6:50

a It's over now. Yeah. So I

6:52

turn it off, they're like, what are

6:54

you doing? I got the thumbs up,

6:56

it was done. Steve, Steve. So we

6:58

had to figure it out. Steve was

7:00

so incredible. He was my hero. He

7:02

was part of our crew, our team,

7:04

and every night he would hand me

7:06

my ukulele. And that's like the hardest

7:08

part of the show, I think, because

7:10

it would go over all my fake

7:12

hair or all my juice. And like

7:14

during rehearsal, put it on backwards. I

7:16

was like, nope, I'm writing. And he

7:18

was like, oh, boy. I think he

7:20

was wearing many hats for that. He

7:22

did. A lot of people were doing

7:25

extra jobs. And I love that. Fred.

7:27

I miss you grew. I miss you

7:29

team. He was signing up for, I

7:31

gotta get. Megan's brother off stage in

7:33

time. Yeah, a lot of people, my

7:35

team was the best because they all

7:37

were like, we're just here, they kept

7:39

saying that they love the tour, that

7:41

they've never had more fun, they were

7:43

sad it was ending. And I was

7:45

like, how? You're doing the hardest work?

7:47

Like, aren't you tired? And they're doing

7:49

the hardest work. Like, aren't you tired?

7:51

And they're like, all right. You had

7:53

the good vibes and trickle down. I

7:55

got my people. You're like, yeah. There

7:57

we go again. Yeah. It's the same

7:59

thing working with Jim, who's on our

8:01

podcast. week. Oh we love Jim. He

8:04

he set the vibe and he just

8:06

had a great time and then everyone

8:08

else had a great time. It's a

8:10

lot of pressure but once you learn

8:12

that you you kind of get you

8:14

get it for the rest of your

8:16

life. I'm gonna give him one song

8:18

no good riddance Green Day. And the

8:20

time of your life. For selfies. I'll

8:22

take selfies during that's I'm gonna sing

8:24

and take selfies. That's nice. I think

8:26

he would like that or would you

8:28

like that or would you not like

8:30

that? Because that's a big secret going

8:32

around and I'm like, let me feel

8:34

that water out first. Like, is that

8:36

exciting? I was like, I think he

8:38

would like it. Yes. I know she's

8:40

listening and you can't really say no.

8:43

Would it be stressful or would you

8:45

be like, oh hell yeah? I'd be

8:47

like stuck but I'm a creature. I'd

8:49

be like, oh my god, Darryl's here,

8:51

he's gonna rub my feet. I think

8:53

people are just so used to being

8:55

or working with you and seeing you

8:57

as the artist and what you like.

8:59

I like opposite. Right. But that's what

9:01

we're all thinking. Or like maybe I

9:03

was like, I would love if Darryl

9:05

surprised me and mom's like. What if

9:07

he doesn't want anyone to surprise him?

9:09

And then I was like, yeah. No,

9:11

I would love nothing more than from

9:13

Mugumi to surprise me. But if I

9:15

could have it exactly my way on

9:17

tour, I would want no one near

9:19

me every night in my green room

9:22

before the show. Well, no, even the

9:24

LA show I wasn't going to bug

9:26

you. Like, I want to be alone.

9:28

Wait a second. Can I not bug

9:30

you at the LA show? What the

9:32

fuck are you talking about? You. You

9:34

can do whatever you? You can do

9:36

whatever you want. That's going to do

9:38

whatever you want. That's going to do

9:40

whatever you. That's what I want. because

9:42

you I am here because of you.

9:44

You are queen. Do you genuinely want

9:46

me? I will by then. That's the

9:48

last show. I will be like, please

9:50

hang out with you. Yeah, but it's

9:52

my first time doing this. So in

9:54

the beginning I'd like I thrive on

9:56

your opposite with me in this, but

9:58

I'm like, I was so upset. The

10:00

most I was upset on tour besides

10:03

being exhausted was when I would get

10:05

off like the show, like the show,

10:07

like the show, like the show, like,

10:09

like, like you thought and crushed it

10:11

they were gone well because I mean

10:13

an empty room and I go oh

10:15

lonely artists you know sometimes they were

10:17

showering because it was like hurry I

10:19

know there was a lot of and

10:21

there was always something they were doing

10:23

but it's tough because you you have

10:25

to shower it to take all the

10:27

stuff off like people like let's give

10:29

her time and that's what I can

10:31

hate everyone's like give her space I'm

10:33

like get on top of me like

10:35

that's like I was like to the

10:37

point where I say Darryl stay in

10:39

the bathroom as I shower I want

10:42

to talk about how good that show

10:44

was you know what I mean I

10:46

would bring in no my sister I

10:48

was like let's have a chat come

10:50

on in after the show I'm down

10:52

it's before it's like I want I

10:54

need to be A lot of artists

10:56

are like full meditate. Yeah, I want

10:58

that, I want that. I want that.

11:00

I'm like for it. I didn't get

11:02

it going dude. I hated bullshitting with

11:04

people before my shows like for your

11:06

tour. I was losing my mind. That's

11:08

crazy because that was me. No, no,

11:10

no, no, no. No, no, no. No,

11:12

he had to share. People would show

11:14

up, and I'm like, I need to

11:16

just. I don't want to chat with

11:18

anybody. No, yeah, that's the hard part.

11:21

That's the hard part. That's why I

11:23

drank so much. Because then I could

11:25

talk to and then I could bullshit

11:27

anybody because I was drunk. But when

11:29

I'm sober, I'm like, oh, I don't

11:31

like doing that. No, yeah. I think

11:33

that's over. I'm like, oh, I don't

11:35

like doing that. No, yeah. I think

11:37

that tour for me was the first

11:39

tour for me. and those were fun

11:41

but there were yeah there's there's some

11:43

tough ones that you're like I got

11:45

to see them but like this is

11:47

the last time you know like yeah

11:49

we're gonna do this and then next

11:51

tour and then it sucks because then

11:53

you get looked at as like a

11:55

diva but I know but I'm exhausted

11:57

everyone only has a certain amount of

12:00

social energy I call I call them

12:02

coins I have a certain amount of

12:04

coins in my little social pocket yeah

12:06

social battery charge piggy bank coin purse

12:08

you know Like I can't give them

12:10

all up before I need to save

12:12

them for the big show. And then

12:14

you can get the extra. I heard

12:16

Harry Styles would like meditate and then

12:18

do a spin class. Yeah, it's bad.

12:20

And then get on stage. And he's

12:22

my hero. Yeah. I would meditate, eat

12:24

a burger, put my kids in the

12:26

bath and send them away after I

12:28

pick their buggies, and then I'd get

12:30

on staying. No, spin class is crazy.

12:32

I was like, oh, you have no

12:34

children. Like you're like shredded, hot dude

12:36

for life. Yeah. I was like, what

12:39

do you need to spin class? You

12:41

had a bike? And I was like,

12:43

yeah, you had a bike. That's a

12:45

wild thing. He's a hero. I would

12:47

love a cold plunge before a show.

12:49

That'd be the dream. Oh, that would

12:51

have been great. Someone, we heard a

12:53

rumor, someone had a cold plunge on

12:55

tour. That's a success. Yeah, but if

12:57

you just get the floaty ones, the

12:59

floaty ones, they just blow up and

13:01

it's like quick dip. But how you

13:03

get the water so cold? Ice? It's

13:05

like, yeah, they buy a bunch of

13:07

ice. Yeah. Seven and 11. Put ice

13:09

in as people do. All right. Seems

13:11

like a bit of a waste, but

13:13

yeah. to me. Maybe you just have

13:15

the whole crew getting up a whole

13:18

bunch. Youts aren't, you know, like, that

13:20

would be worth it. Yeah, I get

13:22

all my dancers in there, like, come

13:24

on, one at a time, get in,

13:26

they would hate it. I know my

13:28

dancers, they'd be like, no. I know

13:30

we already talked about this, but you

13:32

gotta try that snorkel out, bro. Dude,

13:34

do money, you know, wear a snorkel

13:36

in the club. I watch my husband.

13:38

It's not that important to get your

13:40

head down there, my dude. I did

13:42

it once and had a migraine for

13:44

the rest of the day. You need

13:46

a quick dip. A quick dip. Quick

13:48

dip. You gotta go down there and

13:50

think? No, because the longer you stay

13:52

down there, when you come up, it's

13:54

like, ah, warmth. Because first of all,

13:56

your ears aren't cold anymore, or as

13:59

cold. And then you're like, wow, I've

14:01

already crushed. 10 seconds. No! What's happening?

14:03

I have to try it though just

14:05

because he's just try it. Add

14:07

him on it. Just try it

14:09

once. Your intro for your

14:11

tour is phenomenal. Some of

14:13

your best work yet and I

14:16

was honored to be a part of

14:18

it. Am I? Who knows? Thank you

14:20

very much and Jaybird remixed

14:23

it. D money helped me with

14:25

bringing the idea to life

14:27

and then Zena held it down.

14:30

She's my DP. She was? Yeah. Yeah,

14:32

it look great. It's gonna

14:34

be a great tour opener.

14:36

Do you have a logo? Yeah, yeah.

14:38

Oh yeah, you do? I love it.

14:40

Nepo sibling. Oh my God, it's

14:43

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sono-ello.com/working on it. I've been working on

18:56

working on it. I've noticed you're you're

18:58

really good at at setting boundaries. You're

19:00

like getting better at setting. Yeah. Yeah.

19:02

Yeah last night we were supposed to

19:05

go out. Do a little boys night.

19:07

And we're going to play poker. And

19:09

he was like, you know what? You

19:11

know what? You're just not feeling it.

19:13

No, you're bail. I love that. Thank

19:15

you for that. I'm not feeling it.

19:18

And I was like, wow, respect. I

19:20

also, I feel like I've earned my

19:22

stripes in terms of bailing. Like, D

19:24

money has bailed on me a few

19:26

times. I was like, I can. I

19:28

can get one. You're so right. I

19:30

can get one. You're so right. He

19:33

used to be really mad at that.

19:35

Well, I just had a pit in

19:37

my stomach of like, they didn't feel

19:39

right. I think we're gonna have the

19:41

best time and I hate losing money.

19:43

I think at 30, we should start

19:45

listening to that pity pit pit. Yeah.

19:48

There was just an uneasy start today.

19:50

I think we just do a little

19:52

movie night. And then Megan got involved

19:54

and we watched the last show girl.

19:56

What a beautiful film. Pamela Anderson is

19:58

a beautiful actor. I got to work

20:01

with Mimi Webb. I love her so

20:03

much. We wrote a song yesterday with

20:05

our good friend Cole and Darryl comes

20:07

in as I'm recording vocals with her

20:09

and he explains to me like hey

20:11

Ryan doesn't want to do the poker

20:13

thing and I was like great don't

20:16

go I need you like I'm exhausted

20:18

and he was like well we were

20:20

thinking maybe we could do a movie

20:22

at like six and I was like

20:24

you want to watch a movie without

20:26

me. I was like, are you dead-ass

20:28

asking me that in front of my

20:31

friends? You're asking if you could do

20:33

something without me? He was like, well,

20:35

yes. And I was like, fuck you

20:37

guy. Like, I'm about to be done

20:39

working. Give me a second. We'll put

20:41

the kids down. We'll watch a movie.

20:44

And he's like, oh, gosh. It just

20:46

changed the movie we were gonna watch.

20:48

Did it? We're gonna watch The Brutalist.

20:50

Yeah. What's that? I would watch that.

20:52

Adrian, no. You said, you said I

20:54

get picked because it's my mood and

20:56

I said, go ahead. I know, but

20:59

I, but I kept you in mind

21:01

for my pick. That's crazy. You didn't

21:03

have to do that. It's all on

21:05

you, man. You fucked up. You know,

21:07

you suffered yourself, dude. I loved the

21:09

movie. You dug your grave and then

21:11

you put dirt on you. It was

21:14

a fine movie. It was tough to

21:16

watch movies after anora. It's true. Yeah,

21:18

but I love Pam Anderson. We love

21:20

Pammy. We love Jamie Lee Curtis. Yeah,

21:22

Jimmy Lee Curtis is giving award. Come

21:24

on, I know she just got one,

21:27

but give another, you know, she was

21:29

so good. She's the best example. The

21:31

last show girl, that's what it's called,

21:33

right? If you struggle with caring too

21:35

much about what people think, watch Jamie

21:37

Lee Curtis. She doesn't give a fuck.

21:39

I want to be her so... in

21:42

person I met she is that she

21:44

yeah I was like oh my god

21:46

you don't understand we know you feel

21:48

like she's like strong presence nice seems

21:50

like well you're cute yeah I love

21:52

her I love her handsome brother yeah

21:54

she just says her thoughts out loud

21:57

I love it sober it's nice right

21:59

it's good life no no no no

22:01

I think yeah who's in it more

22:03

important Kate Hudson Yeah, good job, good

22:05

job, good job, on Netflix, streaming, it's

22:07

great. Yeah, I was worried about them

22:10

and they got to the premiere and

22:12

they took red carpet picks and I

22:14

was like, good job, boys, you're doing

22:16

your stuff. Do you have, do you

22:18

have the video from that? I didn't

22:20

get it in time. It was such

22:22

in the moment, like hilariousness that I

22:25

just wasn't quick enough. We, we, we

22:27

have the, the memory for ourselves forever.

22:29

My goal for 2025 was just to

22:31

get out there more. Do things that

22:33

make me feel uncomfortable. And that's things

22:35

like premieres. Especially going to a premiere

22:38

that I have no business going to.

22:40

But I got invited to go and

22:42

I said, you know what? This looks

22:44

like a great show. I do want

22:46

to see it. and I want Ryan

22:48

and I to be the next Matt

22:50

Damon Ben Affleck and so I thought

22:53

you know what I'm gonna bring my

22:55

Ben Affleck to this which will make

22:57

me feel more comfortable I won't be

22:59

alone and we'll have no matter what

23:01

we'll have a great night we get

23:03

there we get in line for the

23:05

pictures which is my least favorite part

23:08

because it feels kind of like you

23:10

know hurting the cattle but we did

23:12

it we got in line. We were

23:14

behind Harry Jousy. Tall guy. That was

23:16

cool. That's cool. And then the sweet

23:18

guy helping us on the carpet put

23:21

up Ryan's name next to my face.

23:23

No, no, he put he has my

23:25

name on. I'm sorry. Hey, what do

23:27

you do? What are you doing? Start

23:29

with his name? I know buddy. Start

23:31

with Darryl, please. How do you even

23:33

have your name? I don't know. And

23:36

he was trying to figure out how

23:38

to change it. Because Ryan is famous.

23:40

I ran out there. with all the

23:42

people I just did like a little

23:44

one because we were gonna take them

23:46

together so then I stepped to the

23:48

side and then Darryl starts to run

23:51

to walk out and he's with all

23:53

the photographers like for the main shot

23:55

but he couldn't figure out to get

23:57

Darryl's name on the phone so he's

23:59

holding it up it just says Ryan

24:01

so all the camera Ryan over here

24:04

Ryan over here and Darryl just that

24:06

sweet boy should have said I've had

24:08

people yell for me because they don't

24:10

know who I am and they're like

24:12

Megan China. No, they did. Did they

24:14

yell for him? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

24:16

Sweetie. But it was a great moment.

24:19

I love you. It was grounding. We

24:21

are crushing. We are crushing this. We

24:23

are crushing this. We are crushing this.

24:25

We are crushing this. We are crushing

24:27

this. We are so bad at that

24:29

shit, too. And then the show was

24:31

beginning in an hour, so we had

24:34

an hour to show. And they literally,

24:36

I was like, okay, come home, I'm

24:38

such a bad influence. I was like,

24:40

come home, you did the hard part.

24:42

And he was like, no, we're going

24:44

to wait it out until maybe like

24:47

cake gets here. And we'll just see

24:49

what happens. We'll just maybe like cake

24:51

gets here and we'll just see what

24:53

happens. We've got to watch the show.

24:55

We've got to watch the show. We

24:57

got to watch the show. We can't

24:59

watch the show. We can't watch the

25:02

show. We can't watch the show. We

25:04

can't watch the show. back and cheese

25:06

balls. I'm like, I'm having a blast.

25:08

And then the lovely people that sat

25:10

down were like, oh, these chairs are

25:12

open. Kata Hudson's parents. Goldie Hahn and

25:14

Kurt Russell. Legends. The most iconic. Happy

25:17

and as cool as people. Yeah, how

25:19

you doing? Good. He's like, it's crazy

25:21

over there. I go. Yeah, it's a

25:23

bit much. We ran away. You're hiding.

25:25

You're super successful. And they were just

25:27

having snacks, talking live, dude. We got

25:30

to hang with her mother-in-law, Kate's mother-in-law.

25:32

Melissa? Melissa? Melissa? I think it was

25:34

Melissa. I do think... I think it

25:36

was Melissa too. Yeah, names are right.

25:38

She was awesome. She's looking at theirs.

25:40

She's like, how did you guys get

25:42

to this premiere? What are you doing

25:45

here? I just go, we have no

25:47

business being here. I got an email

25:49

and then Ryan goes, no, wait, no,

25:51

I did, I did Kate and in

25:53

all of her's podcast. Yeah, we did

25:55

their podcast. Oh, right. There was like,

25:57

oh, we have no business being here,

26:00

we don't know why. We don't know

26:02

we can't know. She's with Kay Hudson.

26:04

We're friends with Kay Hudson. We did

26:06

her. We did her. We did her.

26:08

We did her. We did her. We

26:10

did her. We did her. We did

26:13

her. We did her. We did her.

26:15

We did her. We did her. We

26:17

did her. We did her. We did

26:19

her. We did her. We did her.

26:21

We did her. We did her. We

26:23

did her. We did her. We did

26:25

her. We did Yeah. And I mentioned

26:28

working on it. She's like, oh, that's

26:30

very nice. I love the sibling. I

26:32

was like, yeah, actually, Kate's pod inspired

26:34

our pod because the sibling revelry. And

26:36

then I was like, we can do

26:38

the siblings, dude. Let's go. I can

26:41

be Oliver. I'll be Kate. Yeah. She's

26:43

so perfect. So funny. And we met

26:45

Chat. And you met Chat. My name's

26:47

Gerald, nice to meet you. And he

26:49

just said, hello. Hello? Yeah. Thanks, man.

26:51

Very cool. Like, what's up? He's like,

26:53

oh, so. And then he's got this

26:56

part where he's wrapping in the locker

26:58

room. So it's over, we're leaving the

27:00

theater. And he's a rapper? Yeah. I

27:02

go, yo, bro, you write that? He's

27:04

like, no, wrote something better and walked

27:06

away. Classic chat, thanks. But it was

27:08

fun, fun show. I was so proud

27:11

of you guys. Oh my God. Boy's

27:13

Night. It's tough. Like, yeah, I first

27:15

thought I was like, should I go

27:17

with you? And that's a whole thing.

27:19

I gotta get dressed so I gotta

27:21

do my, I am. But it's so

27:24

nice to have you. Thank you. We

27:26

appreciate you. We love your friendship. Oh,

27:28

I love it. I love people watching.

27:30

I love hearing Darryl's takes on everything

27:32

and... Seeing the world through his eyes.

27:34

I love watching shit with you because

27:36

you're that it's a one-shot, you know,

27:39

you'll be like in a chance to

27:41

direct I'm like, oh, what, where? And

27:43

he's like, the name. You'll see. Yeah,

27:45

and he goes, you'll see. I never

27:47

watched TV like that. Yeah. I didn't

27:49

know. Do you look at the names

27:51

in the intro of a TV show

27:54

or a movie? Before I didn't. Give

27:56

a fun view. But now I do.

27:58

Now I understand. Oh, good for them.

28:00

Yeah. And I'm like, oh, what? Where?

28:02

And he's like, like, the name. Yeah.

28:04

Yeah. Yeah, we're re-watch an ER and

28:07

we're also watching Severance and there was

28:09

like an episode of ER in the

28:11

first season. Adam Scott, the main guy

28:13

in Severance. Yeah. Like no lines, maybe

28:15

one line, just like rolls in on

28:17

a gurney and he's like, oh my

28:19

heart. Oh, in ER, yeah. Yeah, we're

28:22

seeing a lot of people that were

28:24

like, oh shit. Their origin story. Yeah.

28:26

Which at the time, that was a

28:28

huge deal. That was a huge. Yeah,

28:30

pretty cool. That's what I want. I

28:32

want to be like on an SVU

28:34

or like one of those shows that

28:37

last forever, Gray's not being, I want

28:39

to be like, my leg is broken.

28:41

We've got one cooking in the oven,

28:43

this is going to take a couple

28:45

years. A show? Yeah, yeah. We'll all

28:47

be actors. Yeah. We got all future

28:50

us. It's there. We're ready to be

28:52

actors. We just got other shit to

28:54

do, but I know, who's got the

28:56

time to act. We're doing the time

28:58

to act. We want to know what

29:00

we want to do. I was like,

29:02

are you going to do my calendar

29:05

for the year and just tell me

29:07

what's up? And they were like, no,

29:09

we want to hear your dreams and

29:11

goals. And I was like, this is

29:13

a fun idea. Who came up with

29:15

this? I don't know. Tommy was like,

29:17

we want to hear what you want

29:20

to do this year. Like, what do

29:22

you want to accomplish? I was like,

29:24

what the problem? They're like, no, we

29:26

don't know what you want to do.

29:28

God, this is job. You know, every

29:30

day is going to be fun at

29:33

the office, you know? Yeah, job is

29:35

tough. A job is a job at

29:37

the end of the day when you

29:39

have a job. You're like, I don't

29:41

want to do this. No matter what

29:43

it is. I just said yes to

29:45

a couple state fairs. And I'm like,

29:48

that'll be. fun and then I'm gonna

29:50

get there and go ooh you know

29:52

I don't know who knows right now

29:54

you're having fun you're back in the

29:56

studio I'm back and so I'm writing

29:58

for other artists I'm very happy I'm

30:00

like these songs are amazing I'm wearing

30:03

some bangers those I was playing it

30:05

to Joe Joe Federman my best dean

30:07

oh nice she was like easy dude

30:09

easy dude easy hits and I was

30:11

like wow thank you no it's hard

30:13

writing for other people I haven't done

30:16

it in so long and I'm like

30:18

what do you want to you want

30:20

to say you want to say because

30:22

I want to say because I You're

30:24

also a young boy, you know, what

30:26

do you feel? Oh yeah, you want

30:28

to talk about Magnus? Oh, I got

30:31

to write with Magnus Farrell, so excited,

30:33

he's so talented, amazing, if you don't

30:35

know him, look him up. And he's

30:37

funky, so full, very talented, and him

30:39

and his best friend Gabe, who's an

30:41

incredible producer. They're both like 20, 21,

30:44

and I'm 31, like, I don't know,

30:46

you know, like... what you read about

30:48

today and I wrote like a course

30:50

I always do homework just in case

30:52

to be like hanging do you like

30:54

this and they were just playing me

30:56

all these incredible songs they were working

30:59

on they're so good and I was

31:01

like I could give you some bubble

31:03

gum pop I'm not sure what I

31:05

could do for you but as a

31:07

fan like I love all your songs

31:09

so much but maybe there's not like

31:11

that hook that I could sing back

31:14

to you right away and maybe we

31:16

write that today like one of those

31:18

that like haunts you in your sleep

31:20

in your sleep that's very catchy that's

31:22

very sketchy this is good we don't

31:24

think about that stuff that's very interesting

31:27

and i was like okay but i

31:29

was like sweat in the whole time

31:31

like is this cool well i think

31:33

it turned out to be like a

31:35

great song so i love it gets

31:37

really someday just thinking about it gets

31:39

trapped my head immediately i know right

31:42

how you know when Riley can sing

31:44

it back to you oh yeah the

31:46

song we did for that s really

31:48

hard the song we did with the

31:50

new web I hope it gets released

31:52

someday Riley won't stop singing it I

31:54

know it's so cute I don't know

31:57

where he'll start singing it and I'm

31:59

like oh untrapped in my head he

32:01

starts singing it and I'm like oh

32:03

yeah it's trapped again so I still

32:05

got my catchy right skills which is

32:07

good because I've new albums I have

32:10

to get done. I don't know what

32:12

my sound should be. If you if

32:14

you want to call in or comment

32:16

below where do you want Megan Trainer's

32:18

music to go? Where do you want

32:20

Megan Trainer's music to go? I have

32:22

a couple ideas. You have some ideas.

32:25

I have I just think what if

32:27

you just tried something so left field

32:29

of what you do. Or just like

32:31

like what? I don't know dude. My

32:33

trainer Bella is like, do you slop

32:35

pop? What are you doing? I'm like,

32:37

they got it covered, dude. I got

32:40

like babies. I don't want them to

32:42

come to set. I'm just like popping,

32:44

you know, I'm just like bent over,

32:46

it's just like, bat, bat. Yeah, the

32:48

Charlie X thing too is so good,

32:50

but she lives that, she's out there

32:53

being a potting girl. That's why it,

32:55

it's believable because that's her, because that's

32:57

her, you know, you know. I just

32:59

want to put good music out that

33:01

makes people happy. You know what I

33:03

really like, which is really comforting and

33:05

nice. I love when my mom friends

33:08

go, did you know that my kid's

33:10

school is doing a whole performance to

33:12

one of your songs? Oh, I go,

33:14

oh, God, really? When should I go?

33:16

Should I show up? Be a hero?

33:18

That's magical. That's magic. I don't know.

33:20

I love being in the family room.

33:23

Okay. I don't know. I like, I

33:25

like that. We're having dance parties. organs

33:27

moving, you know, to get like, get

33:29

the poop out and get the poop

33:31

out. And so after every meal, we

33:33

have like dance parties sometime, mostly at

33:36

night before bed. We do a big

33:38

dance party and we're playing two songs

33:40

over and over again, like Aberchedabra and

33:42

then I want to run away like

33:44

anything EDM DJ. I'm like, oh, I

33:46

want to play. What am I song?

33:48

Riley now after every song goes dead.

33:51

He's dancing, Dad, I wrote this song.

33:53

Yeah. I'm like, wow, did this. Good

33:55

job. He did, he wrote one song.

33:57

It's called Bad Eye, which is interesting

33:59

because he has. a bad eye and

34:01

I wonder if he his clocking that

34:03

he's like it's called bad eye and

34:06

I was like cool how's it going

34:08

he goes it's so silly and

34:10

that's his song and now I

34:12

know it's coming off when he's like

34:14

do you want to hear it I'm

34:16

like yeah he's like and I do

34:18

it with him I'm like and I

34:21

do it with him I'm like blah blah

34:23

blah blah blah blah blah blah

34:25

blah blah and he's like yeah

34:27

we should record it Come to

34:29

my office. Come to my office.

34:31

Come to my office. Talk business.

34:33

We just dance. Yeah, we

34:36

just dance. Yeah, he puts his

34:38

hands on like this. He's working

34:40

those apric-cadabra arms.

34:42

True. Love that song without

34:45

much. Lady Gagga commented on

34:47

my sick talk and Instagram.

34:49

Oh, you're a personal one

34:51

now? Mm-hmm. She said something

34:54

like a true beauty or

34:56

something. A beauty. She

34:58

loves me and I love her. What

35:00

else are we working on? I don't

35:02

know, we can check a voicemail if

35:04

you'd like. You got something? Do

35:06

you money over there? I'm just

35:09

working on acting class. Oh yeah.

35:11

Acting class? I talked a little

35:13

bit. When you weren't here on

35:15

the last pod about marriage counseling

35:17

and how we loved it. Oh

35:20

yeah. Yeah, that was great. I

35:22

like that. Nice little check-in. You

35:24

know, check-in. What like marriage

35:27

therapy? Yeah, I don't know if

35:29

you've mentioned that Just how

35:31

I'm the attachment one didn't I

35:33

say that I thought that was from your

35:35

personal therapy. Oh, no, no, that

35:37

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See Mint Mobile for details. I've

40:03

been working on working on it. We

40:05

do our own individual therapy and now

40:07

we're doing couples therapy like once a

40:10

month just to check in. That's where

40:12

we discover that I I always go

40:14

I'm codependent but actually I have an

40:16

attachment style where I'm super attached to

40:18

people. Oh okay so that's the information

40:21

you learned from. Yeah and there's he

40:23

said a lot of relationships there's an

40:25

anxiety one. Hello. And there's an avoiding

40:27

one. I'm very proud of you guys

40:29

actually. To tackle this early on instead

40:32

of holding on to shit, you know,

40:34

let's get a counselor? I'm not going

40:36

to hold on anything anymore. And we'll

40:38

just let it out because raising kids

40:40

is difficult. And this is impressive to

40:43

me. I've asked a lot of married,

40:45

like friends of ours if they've ever

40:47

tried it and they're like, love it.

40:49

I have heard one married couple say

40:51

that couples therapy was a bad idea.

40:54

You know what the killer of all

40:56

relationships is? Is like resentment and holding

40:58

it in and holding it. That's why

41:00

I worry about you. I'm like, you're

41:02

a big stuff at down guy, you

41:05

know what I mean? Oh my god,

41:07

you always just meant great if I'm

41:09

like, you're a big stuff at down

41:11

guy, you know what I mean? Oh

41:13

my god, you always just meant great

41:16

if I can. I didn't want to

41:18

tell like... I'm here for you. I

41:20

go, that's so nice. No one's ever,

41:22

yeah, you probably never felt like no

41:24

one was there for you. You're gonna

41:27

listen to my stupid bullshit. Yeah, stupid

41:29

bullshit, my stupid bullshit. Oh. So

41:31

that was different for me. I was

41:34

like, oh, put that on a t-shirt.

41:36

I used to push it. I love

41:38

her so much. Yeah, that's like, that's

41:41

why relationships are hard and but like

41:43

also amazing. You're like, oh, I feel

41:45

supported. I feel like you're, I always,

41:48

thank you for listening. Because I had

41:50

nothing to do with her. I just,

41:52

unfortunately, my brain gets real down. I

41:54

get real down into these depths. And

41:57

then you start thinking things. I feel

41:59

fantastic now. Right, but don't drown alone.

42:01

Right, right, right. Don't ask for health.

42:04

So you guys get to talk some

42:06

stuff out? Yeah. Is it like a

42:08

duke out or just a reasonable? This

42:11

one wasn't a duke out? No. It

42:13

was like, because we're aware of what's

42:15

happening. We're like, I start to think,

42:18

why isn't he there for me? And

42:20

he starts to think, why is she

42:22

yelling at me? And then we're just

42:24

fighting by ourselves over here. Fug you,

42:27

you know, like, we're just, he's like,

42:29

does it feel like this? And I

42:31

was like, yes, we're spinning in circles.

42:34

Yeah. And basically he said that when

42:36

you're in the cycle, that you can't

42:38

have an argument. you have to kind

42:41

of just like step away for a

42:43

second calm yourself down. Oh remind yourself

42:45

that you're being triggered so like he

42:47

says he I love that he talked

42:50

about himself too because I was like

42:52

are we the only ones he's like

42:54

this is every relationship you're totally normal

42:57

and I was like oh good yeah

42:59

he was like I have to remind

43:01

myself like take a deep breath your

43:04

husband is not trying to ruin your

43:06

life and he goes I know you're

43:08

not trying to ruin my life, so

43:11

why do you? And now I laugh

43:13

with him and I go, oh, you're

43:15

a good guy, you're not trying to

43:17

ruin my life, ruin my day? And

43:20

that's helped so much. And then we

43:22

laugh and that would giggle. He's like,

43:24

are you trying to ruin my life?

43:27

I'm like, no, are you? He said

43:29

like a lot of a lot of

43:31

couples fights, what's happening is just like

43:34

their inner child trauma, and you're playing

43:36

it out with the other person. So

43:38

it's not has nothing to do with

43:41

them and that that's the thing too

43:43

is like sometimes when we get into

43:45

little arguments and I'm feeling upset I

43:47

like I know like she's not trying

43:50

to hurt my feelings but she is

43:52

hurting my feeling then why am I

43:54

I think I'm having a breakthrough I

43:57

think I think we're on to something

43:59

and then you say because of me

44:01

Megan can become something you could we

44:04

could be mean we could be mean

44:06

we could be mean I could be

44:08

mean I could be mean and I

44:10

can be mean and I mean like

44:13

what to say that Like, she learned

44:15

that for me. But sometimes it's confusing

44:17

because he's like, I love that. I

44:20

love you just being honest with me.

44:22

And I'm like, but it's also me,

44:24

right? We love just like a little

44:27

quick battle. Like pick up emotionally. Yeah,

44:29

yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

44:31

yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, fuck you

44:34

know? But that's not good, that's like

44:36

our childhood shit. Yeah. So unfortunately, that's

44:38

what you gotta you gotta gotta live

44:40

with, you gotta live with, Yeah, we're

44:43

working on it! Yeah, that's why like

44:45

he'll cry first, like way faster. Oh

44:47

yeah, big cryer over here. And I'm

44:50

like, we're not even there yet, my

44:52

dude. And honestly, as soon as I

44:54

cry, boom, defense down. Yeah, and I

44:57

go, I'm sorry for making you cry.

44:59

I forget who I was some pot

45:01

I was listening to. I can't, I

45:03

might have been Matt and Shane's, but

45:06

he was like, yeah, one time I

45:08

had this college professor. I got women

45:10

figured out, just cry. Just cry first.

45:13

Yeah, dude, when he cries, I go,

45:15

fuck, I lost. I literally go, fuck,

45:17

it's over now, I gotta fucking say

45:20

sorry. I'm sorry I made you feel

45:22

like, but then you can cry back

45:24

to you. And then Burke Chrysler, he

45:27

just started doing couples therapy with Leon,

45:29

his wife, and he's like, yeah, but

45:31

I go in there because I gotta

45:33

win. And then if we don't have

45:36

something to fight about, I'll find something

45:38

from the past. And so we could

45:40

do it out. And if we tie,

45:43

I win. Tie is a win. A

45:45

tie is a win. A tie is

45:47

a win. A tie is a win.

45:50

So funny, bro. No, no, I have

45:52

to go in there and win. No,

45:54

sometimes I feel like that. I tell

45:56

them too. Sometimes I feel like that.

45:59

I tell them too. I'm like, I

46:01

tell them. No, I feel like that

46:03

I feel like that I tell them.

46:06

I tell them. I tell them. I

46:08

tell them. I tell them. I tell

46:10

them. I tell them. I tell them.

46:13

I tell them. I tell them. I

46:15

tell them. That picture over there by

46:17

the way fuck you and I'm like

46:20

whoa you brought that out of nowhere

46:22

You just like picked up something to

46:24

fight about you know, and I'm talking

46:26

about me. Yeah, it's like my it's

46:29

the cutest thing you do and you're

46:31

like oh yeah well this shoe and

46:33

I'm like that it's like my it's

46:36

the cutest thing you do and you're

46:38

like oh yeah well this shoe and

46:40

I'm like that It's good, yeah, he's

46:43

gonna be the best for our kids,

46:45

best for our marriage, best for you,

46:47

my partner, my best friends, my best

46:50

friend, my partner, um, yeah. It's really

46:52

cool, it's inspiring. Riley being four challenging

46:54

adds to the mix, right? Riley's getting

46:56

smarter, which is harder. Yeah, smarter is

46:59

harder, harder, because smarter is harder, because

47:01

he's now like, what boundaries can I

47:03

push? Like acts like you're gonna hear

47:06

me? I'm like, you know, literally, I'm

47:08

like, hello? Or he's like playing with

47:10

the toy and he's not listening and

47:13

I'm like, okay, well, yeah, let me

47:15

give you a chance. I gotta take

47:17

the toy if you're not gonna listen.

47:19

And then I take the toy and

47:22

then I take the toy and then

47:24

for the next couple hours. Hey dad,

47:26

remember when you took my toy, I

47:29

didn't like anybody? Yeah, he knows what

47:31

he doesn't like and doesn't like and

47:33

he like, what? That's not you. Oh,

47:36

a little smack. A little smack. Little

47:38

smack, he's not. Cuz, and it was

47:40

because he loves you after? It's because

47:43

he loves me so much. Did he

47:45

kiss you after? Did he kiss? Not

47:47

right after. Smack and a kiss. I

47:49

got a smack and a kiss. I

47:52

got a smack. I said, and it's

47:54

because I said, how was your day

47:56

today? I missed you so much because

47:59

I was like, hey, we don't use

48:01

our hands to. tell each other how

48:03

we feel. That's not it. We use

48:06

our words. I was like, are you

48:08

feeling something? He goes, I feel mad.

48:10

I was like, mad. Are you mad

48:12

at mommy? He's like, I'm mad at

48:15

mommy. I'm mad at you. I missed

48:17

you. And I was like, oh my

48:19

love. That's you. You get mad at

48:22

me because you miss me. Yes. Yes,

48:24

he is very much me. And as

48:26

I finish this story, I got, I

48:29

said, that's totally okay. You could be

48:31

mad at Mommy. I missed you too.

48:33

I was mad. I missed you so

48:36

much. But instead you could just tell

48:38

me I missed you, I loved you,

48:40

I loved you, I loved you, I

48:42

loved you, and all night. And I

48:45

love you even when we're not together.

48:47

I love you especially when we're not

48:49

together. I miss you. He's like, I

48:52

miss you too. And I was like,

48:54

so next time we don't have to

48:56

use our hands, right? He's like, right.

48:59

I was like, we just say, well,

49:01

we're not together. I miss you. He's

49:03

like, I miss you too. And I

49:05

was like, so next time we don't

49:08

have to use our hands, right? He's

49:10

like, right. We just say I miss

49:12

you. I miss you. I miss you.

49:15

I miss you. I miss you. Yeah,

49:17

it's a reteach them. Because I say

49:19

it's so much that I was like,

49:22

that's crazy. But I did it and

49:24

I was like, it's working. Yeah, had

49:26

a breakthrough. That was phenomenal. It was

49:29

great. It's a great monologue. It's a

49:31

great monologue. It's a great monologue. It's

49:33

a great monologue. Yeah, yeah, right? I

49:35

was like, it's totally okay, my dude.

49:38

He didn't realize that I love you.

49:40

Yeah, being the fun and cool is

49:42

so easy. It's so easy. Show up

49:45

just game on. You're just like a

49:47

hero no matter what. Yes. What? I

49:49

had I had work all day and

49:52

then I had to see him at

49:54

the hardest times and like go take

49:56

a bath. Go brush your teeth. Go

49:58

the bit. I just walk in and

50:01

he goes, hey, bad, bad. Because we

50:03

play hey bad a bad. So I

50:05

want to be on TV for your

50:08

kids. I'm ready. All right. We got

50:10

a voice mail. This is a tricky

50:12

one. We're gonna have to think and

50:15

use our brain. My brain hurts. We

50:17

are not therapists though, but we are

50:19

not therapists, but we are not therapists,

50:22

but we have a lot of therapy.

50:24

Let's see here. Working on a hotline,

50:26

66141463. My name is Lauren. I just

50:28

wanted to maybe get some advice. I

50:31

first want to say that I love

50:33

the three of you guys. You're phenomenal.

50:35

Darryl has been a fan since I

50:38

was child, Megan. You speak to me.

50:40

And Brian, I think you're doing an

50:42

awesome job. But I wanted to call

50:45

in. and see if you guys give

50:47

me any kind of advice. I'm currently

50:49

dealing with some unrequited love. Back story,

50:52

my best friend and I have been

50:54

best friends for about 15 years. I

50:56

met him through my ex-fiance. my

50:59

best friend turned out

51:01

to be somebody that

51:03

I could turn to,

51:05

which then turned into

51:07

a Friends of Benefits

51:10

thing, and when we

51:12

decided to do that,

51:14

we had a conversation

51:16

about ending it when

51:18

somebody's feeling grandbogg. Well,

51:20

my feeling is grandbogg,

51:22

and I did not

51:24

end it. And then

51:27

he got into a

51:29

relationship. We've seen best

51:31

friends, whatever. But the

51:33

last two-ish years, we

51:35

have gotten close to

51:37

him ever. He's no

51:39

longer in that relationship.

51:41

We started our friends

51:44

with benefits thing again.

51:46

And I brought up

51:48

looking into a relationship

51:50

and possibly going down

51:52

that route. He shot

51:54

me down. that he

51:56

doesn't see me that

51:58

way, that he loves

52:01

me in every other

52:03

way, but he just

52:05

doesn't see it as

52:07

a romantic thing. And

52:09

I'm having a hard

52:11

time dealing with that

52:13

and trying to not

52:15

lose my best friend,

52:18

but also mourning a

52:20

relationship that I never

52:22

had. And I just

52:24

wanted to see if

52:26

you had me by

52:28

summer. So thank

52:30

you. Bye. Lauren. I'm fired

52:33

up. You're fired up. There's

52:35

nothing worse than friends with

52:37

Benny's and you have. Yeah.

52:39

You always get attached. That's

52:41

why you're there. Yeah. I

52:44

mean, I personally don't. Everyone's

52:46

different. But I'm just gonna

52:48

start off by saying guys

52:50

are stupid. Yes. Correct. They

52:52

don't know what great thing

52:55

to have right in front

52:57

of them. And

52:59

that's obviously what's happening with this

53:01

gentleman. He's missing. Sorry about the

53:03

ass. Sorry. The opportunity to love

53:05

his best friend. I know. It's

53:07

very sad. I don't know. Lauren,

53:09

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine

53:11

how difficult that is right now.

53:13

I just know when I was.

53:15

had been if I did a

53:17

friends of benefit moment I always

53:19

liked them and I was like

53:21

word dating every time every time

53:23

and I would get crushed when

53:25

it ends you know so I

53:27

know I couldn't do that but

53:30

at first I was thinking like

53:32

oh you should get distance with

53:34

this guy so he can feel

53:36

like what is my life without

53:38

her instead of always being there

53:40

for him and then you said

53:42

like well I don't want to

53:44

lose him as a friend as

53:46

well tricky thing that's tricky dare

53:48

already think Oh, you gotta stop

53:50

talking to this guy. You gotta

53:52

leave him in the dust. Because,

53:54

you know, he's a... He's not

53:56

a good friend if he's doing

53:58

all this. That's not a good

54:00

friend. That's not a good best

54:02

friend. There's plenty of... other best

54:04

friends out there that won't hurt

54:06

your heart like that. There's also

54:08

people out there that will love

54:10

you unconditionally. Yeah, it won't be

54:12

like, it won't be, what is

54:14

this? I just, it sounds like

54:17

he's saying things, he doesn't mean,

54:19

you know, it sounds like he's

54:21

all I really like being your

54:23

friend. No, you don't. No, you

54:25

don't. He's trying to get in.

54:27

Yeah. He's using new babies. Yeah.

54:29

He's using your new babies. Yeah.

54:31

I was so used, dude. Friends

54:33

of benefits, I was only being

54:35

used. Now I look back like,

54:37

ugh. Yeah. I know he's your

54:39

best friend, but he's not a

54:41

good friend. And then when the

54:43

relationships come, you know, it's like

54:45

you can do that and then

54:47

get into a relationship, you can't

54:49

stay friends with the person in

54:51

the relationship. You can't do that.

54:53

So Lauren, choose you. Choose you

54:55

yeah, that's great advice instead of

54:57

like thinking of it like oh

54:59

no I have to end this

55:01

and that Show him what life

55:04

is like without you because you're

55:06

special. He's already he's already broken

55:08

your heart twice now. Don't let

55:10

him do it a third time.

55:12

Yeah, I let a guy do

55:14

that over and over again And

55:16

I wrote a song about called

55:18

wave check it out And now

55:20

I look back like what was

55:22

I doing? You know, well if

55:24

you'll get through it You poured

55:26

your heart out there. Respect. Oh,

55:28

so nice. Thanks for listening. All

55:30

right. I think this is a

55:32

lovely podcast. There's a nice show

55:34

on. Have fun on tour. What

55:36

are the other shows coming up?

55:38

Where are they? Oh man, we

55:40

talked about this today. We got

55:42

D.C. We got Philly. We got

55:44

Boston. We got New York again.

55:46

Two shows in New York because

55:48

the first one was sold out.

55:51

Chicago. Chicago. We got Atlanta. We're

55:53

coming back. to Houston, Dallas, LA,

55:55

Anaheim. Don't forget about San Francisco.

55:57

San Fran is right before those

55:59

last two, yeah. That's gonna be

56:01

a huge deal. Where do you

56:03

end? Anaheim. And then we're going

56:05

to go into Disneyland. Okay. We

56:07

should. Riley said, he was like,

56:09

we should go to Disney. We

56:11

should. And I was like, let's

56:13

do a family Disney trip afterwards.

56:15

I think Riley would really enjoy

56:17

Riley Magoumi. Oh my God, I

56:19

cannot wait to see Magoumi at

56:21

Disneyland. Yeah. That'd be so very

56:23

nice. All the lines. He's going

56:25

to be like, what? Yeah, but

56:27

we'd like stand a hotel that

56:29

night. I mean. Don't tease me

56:31

with a good time. I love

56:33

that Pixar Hotel. It was awesome.

56:35

I don't think it'd been. No,

56:38

you haven't. It's brand new. It's

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brand new. It was under construction

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too. It's probably even newer. All

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right. Maggie, my manager's calling. Okay,

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thank you all. Love you all

56:48

so much. Love me Maggie, love

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you, Megumi. Okay, bye, bye. Gloria

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