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It's the second date update with

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Frito and Katie on Y100. Hey

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Miguel! Sounds like you're having some

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problems with Sabrina. What's going on?

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Yeah, it's weird. Actually, we haven't

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really had any problems. I guess

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we really aren't having any problems.

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But the whole thing is, it's

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been pretty casual. Like, not really

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serious. It's been about a month

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and a half of seeing each

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other. And then last week. I

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don't know what happened man, but

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it's just been, it's been really

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rough. Man, I hate to hear

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that. Well, what's going on? What's

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been happening? I wish I knew, because

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she just, she won't talk to

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me. Like, not really. Like, I

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might get a text back, but

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mostly, I don't, I like, I've

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tried calling her, and that's just

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a losing battle for most

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people nowadays. Like, I don't,

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you know. But I really can't. Even

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then I don't know how we got here

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like to this point. Well, can you share

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your series? You said you had some suspicions

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I I almost hate to actually say it

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but I'm thinking it might be her parents

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Like I know for a fact her

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parents do not like me and Sabrina.

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She's the youngest She's the baby right

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of the family and I've looked past a

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lot of this BS like I'm not dating

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her old man, you know, but yeah, that's

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the only thing I can think of that I

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might have I don't I've wrecked this

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whole thing. Okay. I know I'm

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not making much. Well, just, just

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so we ask, is there any

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reason you've given them, like

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her parents, to not like

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you specifically? Like, dude, what

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did you do? Yeah. It's only been

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a month and a half? Yeah, I've

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never even met them. Like a

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hand of God, I think it's more,

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I don't fit whatever their expectations

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are for Sabrina, I guess.

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How do you know? Her

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family, they've got a

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pretty good, like they're

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rich. Right. Yeah. It's not like,

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it's not like they've always had

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money or anything. Like to hear

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Sabrina tell her dad is some

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like a hot shot doctor or

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something and her mom was in

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business law. I think. Wow. Yeah.

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So I think I guess I

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should say they've always been pretty

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well off, but it wasn't like

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generational wealth or whatever. Like they

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didn't inherit it. They worked hard

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is what I mean. But anyway,

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they're pretty stressful careers, right. Those

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two things. And I guess they

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actually. They have high hopes for

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where their kids would end up

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and then by extension who their

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kids would end up with too

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I guess. And then you come.

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Yikes. Well that sounds like a

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lot of pressure. Yeah. She hates

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it. She always had to battle

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these super high expectations and things

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and they're always pushing her to

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be better and do better and

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it's never good enough and I

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think that just now that just

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extends to me. Like yay. Okay,

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well, what's wrong with you, man?

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Like, why aren't you cutting it

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if you haven't even met them?

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I'm not some deadbeat or anything.

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But also, I'm not over here

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trying to go for my doctorate.

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You know what I mean? That's

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not in my cards. I've got

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a good job. I pay my

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own bills. I'm responsible. I'm just

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not on that level. I'm more

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blue-collar than blue blood. Okay. Is

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there any reason in particular you

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can think of as you can

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think of as to why it?

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So they came down to spend

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the weekend with her right before

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she got all weird or whatever.

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I don't know what what they

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said what was going on during

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that time together. Maybe it was

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intervention or like it come to

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Jesus meeting or something. Wow, it

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really feels yes. It really feels

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like there's like it drove a

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wedge between us. Like I like

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to show Sabrina that I really

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do care about her and I'm

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invested in whatever this is. I

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think it's still so new, but

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like. regardless of how the parents

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feel, I like to see where

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this goes. He's undeterred. All right.

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Love to see it. Well, let's

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do this. We'll get Sabrina lined

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up and talk to her next

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on Frito and Katie. It's the

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second date update with Frito and

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Katie on Y100. Hey, Miguel and

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Sabrina, not been together long, but

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long enough to know that her

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parents don't like him. That's, uh.

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Plus. I did like that he

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said he was one, he was,

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he was blue collar, not blue

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blood. Yeah, yeah, man. He just

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thinks that maybe the parents have

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this very specific idea of a

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man. Rich people stuff? Yeah, like

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Sabrina with and he doesn't bid

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the bill. No, which's possible, I

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can see that. And then something

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happened, the parents came into town

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and now she's just kind of

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MIA. So let's figure out if

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we can't get this back on

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track. Right. Right. Hi, yeah, what's

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up? Hey, Sabrina, we're freedom and

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Katie from Y100. We are calling

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you today because we actually give

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away a date night package on

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our show where you get to

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pick like whatever you'd want to

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do and wherever it is you'd

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go, all of that. We even

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pay. It's a really cool thing.

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Oh, yeah, you know what? I'm

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sorry. Do you have the right

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number? I mean, I'm pretty sure.

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Yes. I know how it sounds.

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Okay, we know how it sounds.

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You're probably racking your brain thinking

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you didn't enter some kind of

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online contest. So like, hey, hey,

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hey, hey, just hear me, hey,

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I'm here, just hear me out.

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Okay, I don't know what all

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your parents are saying, but like,

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regardless of how they felt. Yeah.

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Yeah. You have got to be

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kidding me. Uh-huh. Listen, what do

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my parents have to do with

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any of this? I know. I

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mean... Because I know what they

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must think of me, but I

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just want a chance, okay? I

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promise, the more they get to

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know me. Listen, listen, listen, just

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stop it. All right. They had

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nothing to say about you at

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all. As a matter of fact,

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they barely acknowledge that you exist.

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Oh, ouch. Is that actually? I

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think that's worse somehow. Okay, all

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right. So is this in his

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head then? Is that the thing?

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No, no, listen, listen, you guys.

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He's right. They don't like him.

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And or I should say, I

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should say they don't like the

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idea of him. I guess that's

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more accurate. Listen, it's nothing personal.

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They're like that with every guy

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that they didn't hand select out

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of like, I don't know, a

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Brooks Brothers catalog or something. Right.

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But now I need Miguel to

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stop with me. I just, I

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need some space. I just, I

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can't. I just don't know how

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I can can really cope with

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him. That's the way he is

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apparently. I'm just... I'm still just

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trying to come to terms with

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it. That's the way he is.

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What way is that? Yeah. Oh

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my God. Oh my God. Oh

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my God. Okay. He's just, he

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is so bad with the little

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things, I guess. Like, so we

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spend a lot of time at

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my house and I think it's

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because of the pool or, you

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know, whatever. He's like sitting there.

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I'm doing normal chores or something

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and his is just sitting on

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the couch with his feet up

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on his phone Not a care

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in the world. So my parents

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were coming down one weekend and

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I was I was not prepared

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for it I was just like

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I was freaking out. I'm cleaning

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everything. I'm going nuts like Washing

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the damn walls you guys and

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and Miguel is me going through

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it and he just can sit

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to continue to sit there like

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a bump on a And watch

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all his shows and he got

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all slack-jawed. He doesn't have a

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cool And that's just how he

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is. And I'm sorry, but you

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cannot reprogram that. You just can't.

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Okay. But you never asked for

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help. How was I supposed to

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know? Oh my God, of course

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I wanted help. You never offered.

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You acted as if it barely

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registered that I was running around

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like a deranged Amelia Bedelia or

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something like that. You know, you

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met him? You're kind of intense.

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And somehow you get even more

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serious when you're cleaning. It's like

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you're on admission. And I'm not

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trying to get in the middle

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of that. I don't want to

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jam you up or like lose

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my arm or something. Just give

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me a list of stuff I

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could do next time and I'll

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pitch in. I swear. Well, if

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I'm stressed on time, that means

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that I don't have any of

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it. Just didn't make your list,

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okay? Just use your eyes, Miguel,

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and your brain, and maybe a

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dust. Anyway, give a girl a

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break. Most of the mess is

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yours. I'm cleaning up after you

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constantly. And that's only adding to

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my stress. And I want you

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to be present enough to see

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what a girl needs to get

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it done and to just do

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it. I don't know, sort of

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anticipate my needs maybe. Don't ask.

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Just do it. Guys aren't psychic.

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You know that right? We have

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to tell us what you want.

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Unless we share a house, I'm

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not touching anything without instructions and

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even then, they got to be

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pretty damn beat. Oh no, no,

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no, no, no, no, do not

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try and say this is an

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every man thing, it's not. I

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think it's not unreasonable to ask for

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a little bit of help, Miguel, when someone

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is basically living at your place, hello. And

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you know, it's a shame because I really

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do like you. I just I don't want

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to go through a lifetime of this and

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just become becoming some old nag, you know,

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just because you don't understand that the dishwasher

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doesn't magically unload itself or the vacuum doesn't

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run in the middle of the day when

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we're at work or

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something you know you know like

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damn dude is a big

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deal deal well look let's

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see what people think I

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maybe they've been there

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have some thoughts thoughts or advice

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yeah like y 'all hang

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on the line line okay