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boys and girls, ladies and germs. This
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is Tim Ferriss. Welcome to another episode
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of The Tim Ferriss Show, where it
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is my job to deconstruct world -class performers,
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people who are arguably the best at
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what they do. How do they do
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it? What are their influences? Favorite books,
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frameworks, lessons learned, things
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that you can apply to your
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own life. And I have someone
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you may not have heard speak
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before on the podcast today, Rich
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Barton. close friend of Chris Saka
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and some other guests we've had.
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He is the co -founder and
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co -executive chairman of Zillow, a company
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transforming how people buy, sell, rent,
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and finance homes. Before Zillow... Rich
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founded Expedia within Microsoft in 1994
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and successfully spun the company
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off as a public company in
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1999. He served as president,
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CEO, and board director of Expedia
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and later co -founded and served
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as non -executive chairman of Glassdoor.
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He has done so many
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different companies and he has a
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use that is tactical and
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diligence. I
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know ADQ a little bit. He's
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a friend. And there was a
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point at which, you know, I
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like to observe magic product things.
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And of course, Apple has tons.
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But my typical morning news setup
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is I'm kind of doing my
5:44
email and sifting through things while
5:46
I drink my coffee. And I've
5:48
got my iPad set up next
5:50
to it, rolling, you know, CNBC
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quietly on mute. And
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at one point, a couple of years ago,
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I moused off the left edge of
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the screen and it seamlessly went onto the,
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and all of a sudden my mouse
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was on the iPad. And I was like,
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oh my God, it just decided because
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it was the same guy logged in, it's
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an extended monitor. And I texted him
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immediately. I'm like, oh, Eddie. Why
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do you have CNBC?
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playing concurrently is that just old
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habits die hard or is it
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let's see if anything cataclysmic or
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monumental has happened that i need
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to be aware of it's my
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favorite source of news because business
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news is generally happy yeah got
6:31
it just don't wallow in the
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bullshit yeah and regular news makes
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me feel bad yeah and cnbc
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at best makes me feel good
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and most of the time is
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just mid That's fine. And I
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get the news. I'm interested in
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business and companies and strategy and
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trends. And it is a pretty
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funny channel. It kind of gets
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on repeat. You don't need to
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watch it very long. But they
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get good interviews too. I usually
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don't have the volume on. I
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have the closed caption scrolling. And
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then if something catches my eye,
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I don't know how to do
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it. So let's take a closer
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look then at the other screen.
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Yeah. You have your coffee.
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Yeah. What time is this? Yeah,
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I'm a pretty early riser. 6 .30
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I get up usually and long
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before Sarah, my wife. And so
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these hour and a half, two
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hours I get in the morning
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are nice. My kids have all
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left the house now. There was
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a routine when my kids were
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in the house that was obviously
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very different and really fun. I
7:34
can talk about that. But now
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I have two hours of... Just
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catch up on the stuff in my news
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feed, which is my inbox, my email inbox.
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I'm kind of old school that way. And
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as I go through that, I'm catching up
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on the news on my iPad. I
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have a smoothie every morning with
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lots of stuff. What's the stuff? No
7:54
supplement kinds of things, but lots
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of... Cat testicles? I
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am not one of those
8:01
guys. I am not one of
8:04
the longevity supplement people, but
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I'll tell you what's in it.
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It's about three or four
8:10
ounces of oat milk,
8:12
ice, an apple. It used to
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be a banana. I've switched to kind
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of two -thirds of an apple. Pistachios,
8:20
macadamias, a
8:23
handful of blueberries. My
8:25
favorite electrolyte. I'm getting ready for my
8:27
workout. It's not very big. My
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favorite electrolyte is Procari Sweat. Yeah, the
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blue can, man. I had a
8:33
lot of that when I lived there
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as an exchange student. My nutritionist
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says that's the one. And I'm like,
8:39
okay, I'd been taking another one,
8:41
using another one. She's like, no, this
8:43
is the one. Not much. A
8:45
prune. Prune. Prune. Keeps
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things moving. Keeps things moving, and that's
8:50
very important. Young people out
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there don't really realize how important that is
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yet. But as you age, you
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realize how that can affect your day,
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really. Having everything moving. Here's a little
9:00
hack. I'm not really a hacky guy,
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but I do have a lot of
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quirks, I guess. Hyperice, you
9:06
know that company that makes the, okay, they have
9:08
a thing. I think they bought a bunch of
9:10
products, but there's a back one called the Venom. You
9:13
must have run into that. I
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think it heats and vibrates. Yes.
9:17
Yeah. So
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I actually, for my whole kind
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of 45 minutes of that routine
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at the kitchen table, you know,
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with a lot of light coming
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in as soon as the sun's
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up, I have it on repeat.
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I'm wearing that Venom. Oh, my
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God. That loosens everything up, too.
9:35
you mentioned before your workout. So
9:37
this is all pre -workout? Yeah.
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I need to get things going
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and feel settled, a little bit
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settled, and brain on before I
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work out. Coffee helps, too.
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Coffee helps all that. Yep. And I don't
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drink a lot of coffee. Today I had
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a little too much because I'm off time
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zone a little bit. But I'll have one,
9:56
maybe two cups. And that'll be the caffeine
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for the day. Yeah, got it. So I
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go through that and once everything's, you know, make
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my ablutions and change into my
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workout stuff. Rinse your face with
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some holy water. And
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pretty much every day I do a workout.
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I can't really get my mind right without that.
10:13
All right. So we're going to talk about
10:15
the workout for people who are audio only. This
10:18
guy looks like a, I don't
10:20
know how you, a Marvel character
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meets Abercrombie and Fitch model. Not
10:25
to mention scion of business. It's
10:27
unfair. I don't know how I
10:29
got the short straw in this
10:31
genetic and habit lottery, but we're
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going to talk about the training
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because I have this working pet
10:38
theory that longevity may be inversely
10:40
correlated with the number of things
10:42
that you do for longevity. In
10:44
other words, there are a few
10:47
things that really matter, but then
10:49
there's a long tail. of things
10:51
of questionable value that also have
10:53
unknown, uncharted side effects. So when
10:55
you start throwing the kitchen sink
10:57
plus plus at your body, the
10:59
likelihood of you heading in the
11:02
wrong direction is probably higher or
11:04
just as high. My observation is
11:06
the harder you push against something,
11:08
the harder it pushes back. And
11:10
I think the people who are
11:12
pushing really hard at the longevity
11:15
and the supplement thing and the...
11:17
The whole day scheduled out lifestyle
11:19
things to improve health span. Yeah.
11:21
Most of that's probably not useful. Yeah.
11:24
There's some basics, you know, and maybe
11:26
the most important basic is when I was
11:28
younger, my kids were in the house
11:30
because I got up early. I was to
11:33
get the kids to school parent. Yeah.
11:35
While Sarah became more beautiful. She stays up
11:37
late and I love to cook. I've
11:39
had several jobs as a kid growing up
11:41
where I was a short order chef
11:43
and worked in a lot of kitchens and
11:45
I love to cook. And
11:47
so our house is set up.
11:50
We have a kitchen island with
11:52
a big bar with stools. And
11:54
the cooktop is on the other
11:56
side. And whenever the kids wandered
11:58
downstairs -eyed, I was their short -order
12:00
breakfast chef. And anything they wanted,
12:03
I would make, which was so
12:05
fun. It was like the breakfast
12:07
buffet with the Four Seasons or
12:09
something. Whatever they wanted. I could
12:11
whip it up really, really fast
12:13
because you get that skill when
12:16
you're a short -order chef. My younger
12:18
boy had some kind of ADHD
12:20
stuff and started taking the meds.
12:22
I can't remember how old he
12:24
was, 10, 12. And
12:26
those meds make kids, it's an
12:28
appetite suppressant. Oh, for sure. Okay. So
12:31
maybe you know. And I was
12:33
a typical parent. Our primal urge is
12:35
to feed our children. That's it.
12:37
Like feed and care for our
12:39
children. That is the overriding program. That
12:41
kind of puts everything else down. And
12:44
so I got to the point where I
12:46
was so worried about how skinny he was
12:48
and he wasn't eating the rest of the
12:50
day. He was hungry in the morning. And
12:52
I would like make a 12 egg frittata
12:54
and like put potatoes in it and sausage
12:56
in it. And he downed the thing. And
12:59
I'm like, okay, he's good for the day. The
13:01
anaconda diet, just one huge meal.
13:03
And it works. Yeah. And the
13:05
punctuation on this one, aside from
13:08
that just being really quality time.
13:10
regardless of what kind of mood the
13:12
kids are in is just really quality.
13:14
I cherish it. I took a picture
13:16
most days. Okay. Totally
13:19
candid. There's no posing. I would sneak
13:21
a picture every day. And now I
13:23
have a folder called the breakfast club
13:25
on my, you know, in my picture,
13:27
my iPhone pictures. And I have like
13:29
a thousand pictures and it's a time
13:31
series of these kids growing up. Yeah.
13:33
It's a virtual possession, but it's my
13:35
most prized possession. All right, we're going
13:37
to double click on a bunch of
13:39
things we passed over. Let's
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hop for the entrepreneurial set listening.
13:45
This is also related to more
13:47
than just pure entrepreneurship, but let's
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see if this is dead end
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or if it takes us somewhere.
13:53
Who was Brad Chase? Brad
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Chase? Yeah. What impact did he have
13:58
on your life? He was a great
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guy. He was my first real boss
14:02
out of college. It's not
14:04
quite right, but it's close to right. Brad
14:06
was a group product manager at
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Microsoft. Microsoft was my, you know,
14:10
I'll call it my first job
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out of college. It
14:14
had, this is 1991, Microsoft had only
14:16
about 3 ,000 people at the time.
14:18
And just for reference, because I have
14:21
no idea, how many employees do you
14:23
think they have now? It's
14:26
going to be a multiple of
14:28
that, of course. 300, 400 ,000. Yeah,
14:30
orders of magnitude. Multiple orders of magnitude.
14:32
Two to three. And the
14:34
product managers were kind of this elite
14:36
little group of really smart people. We
14:38
weren't very big. And he was my
14:40
boss, and we were working on MS
14:42
-DOS 5, which maybe I would say
14:45
we'll have to go two standard deviations
14:47
at in your audience distribution curve to
14:49
find anybody who really knows what MS -DOS
14:51
5 was. But it was a really
14:53
big operating system for Microsoft at the
14:55
time, and we made an upgrade. And
14:57
the feature was we
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broke the 640K barrier.
15:03
which you're not going to engage on
15:05
the geeky stuff. But it was
15:07
a really big product. And my job
15:09
was to create the packaging, manage
15:11
the manufacturing, and figure out how to
15:13
get this physical product into the
15:15
Egghead. Some of you will remember Egghead.
15:17
Egghead was a retail software store.
15:20
And to push the product out into
15:22
Egghead. That was my first job.
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And Brad was a guy who, he's
15:26
one of my mentors. I only
15:28
worked him for a short period of
15:30
time. Big
15:32
idea, thinker, you know, big
15:34
risks, big bets. And he encouraged me.
15:36
At a very young age, he funded
15:38
me to take a really big swing
15:41
at something and supported me in it.
15:43
And it failed miserably. Is this the
15:45
book project? Yeah. You want to tell
15:47
people about it? Well, I don't know
15:49
how that interesting is, other than the
15:51
lesson of take big swing. It is,
15:53
but the details help paint a picture.
15:55
People can conjure a visual in their
15:57
head. All right. It's become a huge
15:59
series. It's a series for dummies, blank
16:01
for dummies. Yep. And the
16:03
book that the dummies series
16:05
was founded on was DOS for
16:08
dummies, believe it or not. It
16:10
was like the best -selling. book
16:12
about software of all time. And
16:14
I was like, I'm a young
16:16
product manager. I want to sell
16:18
more MS -DOS 5 upgrades. And
16:21
I was like, okay,
16:23
we have all these software retailers where
16:25
people go. But the really big thing
16:27
at the time, believe it or not,
16:29
was Barnes & Noble and Borders Bookstores.
16:31
Bookstore experience was huge back then. And
16:34
DOS for Dummies sold millions and
16:36
millions of copies of this book
16:38
in Barnes & Noble and Borders.
16:42
was like, why don't we do a
16:44
bundle with DOS for Dummies and
16:46
have that be the manual for the
16:48
upgrade? Bundle it together,
16:50
the book and the upgrade.
16:52
Seems reasonable. And distribute it through
16:55
bookstores. How brilliant. And
16:57
so I went and met with
16:59
one of the Riggio guys at Barnes
17:01
& Noble. I met with the
17:03
guy who created the Dummies series, this
17:05
guy John. So I met with
17:08
all these people. We designed the product.
17:10
It was really, I was feeling
17:12
pretty like a big deal. Built a
17:14
bunch of it at probably cost
17:16
us $8 to $10 a unit, which
17:18
is a lot for cogs, right?
17:21
Cost of goods sold. I can't remember
17:23
how many we built, but it
17:25
was at best a C, maybe
17:27
a D. What was the
17:30
retail price? You hit the
17:32
problem. The problem was... People are going
17:34
in to buy a $12 book. And it
17:36
was a $54 price tag or a
17:38
$49 price tag, which is basically what the
17:40
software cost at Egghead. And it kind
17:42
of looked a bit too much like a
17:44
book. I kind of made it look
17:46
like a book. It wasn't the
17:48
greatest cover. Anyway, I'm embarrassed about what it
17:50
looks like now. I have one, of
17:52
course, as a reminder. But yeah, the
17:55
shock value was too much. People didn't realize there
17:57
was software in it. And
17:59
so we ate a bunch. We
18:01
ended up getting rid of all
18:03
the inventory, but it was not
18:05
a success. And the amazing thing,
18:07
depending on where your audience is
18:10
in their careers, like you work
18:12
at a lot of places out
18:14
there and great organizations encourage innovation,
18:16
encourage big idea people to take
18:18
big swings and do not punish
18:20
them when it doesn't work out
18:22
according to plan. If that
18:24
happens too many times, maybe there's a
18:26
pattern and somebody should go find another
18:28
job. But Brad Chase, back to Brad,
18:31
sat me down. I thought I was for my review
18:33
and I thought I was going to, who knows?
18:35
It was a 10, $20 million mistake. And
18:38
I was a young kid. And
18:40
he said, I remember distinctly, he said,
18:42
all right, what's your next big
18:44
idea? Amazing.
18:46
That is that Microsoft was and
18:48
is an amazing organization because of that
18:50
kind of culture. Wow. How
18:53
have you, if you have sort
18:55
of taken that forward into companies
18:57
that you've built or just philosophically
18:59
or operationally speaking, how do you
19:01
encourage that? Because there must be
19:03
some constraints on things so that
19:05
you don't light the whole house
19:07
on fire. Yeah. Right. Yeah. How
19:09
do you think about enabling people
19:11
to innovate? You don't want learned
19:13
helplessness where they're afraid to do
19:15
anything. Right. At the same time,
19:17
you don't want some rogue trader
19:19
like. That's right. That's
19:22
right. or whatever. Yeah, it's really hard.
19:24
But everything ultimately boils down to
19:26
the people that you hire and the
19:28
people you choose to work with
19:30
and the people you keep. And
19:33
saying your culture is XYZ
19:35
is very different from having
19:37
people who channel those traits
19:39
that you want. And so
19:41
my method for doing this
19:43
is to make sure we're
19:45
really diligent about finding those
19:47
innovators and the entrepreneurs sometimes
19:49
who the intrapreneurs, let's call
19:51
them, the inside entrepreneurs, and
19:53
protect them a little bit
19:55
because sometimes they're different. And
19:57
mainline corporate culture sometimes rejects,
20:00
often rejects the innovators and
20:02
the ones who want to
20:04
disrupt whatever, just rock the
20:06
boat a little bit. And
20:08
you really do need to
20:10
rock the boat to innovate.
20:12
And so the leadership needs
20:14
to hire, cultivate, protect, and
20:16
invest in those people. Yeah.
20:18
The foreign bodies so they don't get
20:21
rejected by the corporate immune system. Which is
20:23
just, it's just natural. Yeah. You know? All
20:26
right. So let's come back to one
20:28
thing you mentioned. You said,
20:30
in effect, not totally true, but let's
20:32
consider Microsoft first job out of college. What
20:34
was the actual first job college? I
20:36
was, you know, I was one of these
20:38
high performance. Confession coming. Yeah. I
20:40
was just one of those kids. You know, I
20:42
went to Stanford. Was
20:45
an engineer. Management consulting? Yes.
20:48
No. Say it ain't so rich. I know,
20:50
but it was funny. There's a good
20:52
story here. I
20:54
mean, I don't know if it's a good story, but we'll tell it. Yeah,
20:56
man. I was like, success kid. Do
20:58
well. Loved that, identified that way. And
21:00
so, of course, whatever the hardest job
21:03
that came to interview at Stanford when
21:05
I was a senior, of course, that's
21:07
the job I wanted. And there was
21:09
like strategic planning at Disney. There was
21:11
the kind of investment banking training program,
21:13
analyst program. And there was like the
21:15
strategy management consultant. And those were like
21:17
the big ones. And it was the
21:19
most competitive, hardest to get. So that's
21:21
how I got tracked. And I took
21:23
a job as a strategy consultant in
21:25
Cambridge, right out of college. I
21:28
knew pretty damn quickly it wasn't for
21:30
me. Was it like BCG? It was
21:32
a spinoff of BCG called Alliance Consulting
21:34
Group. Great group of people. Super smart.
21:36
It was going into a recession, though,
21:38
in 1989. And so a lot
21:41
of people ended up losing their jobs.
21:43
However, the interesting thing was one
21:45
of my besties at Stanford, Nina
21:47
Roberts, who was an engineer with me.
21:49
We were both interviewing for all the same
21:51
jobs. And, you
21:53
know, she didn't get the big job. But
21:56
she got this little tech company in
21:58
Seattle, Microsoft, which, of course,
22:00
I knew. The companies that I really loved
22:02
were Microsoft, Apple. All I needed to
22:04
do was buy Microsoft and Apple stock back
22:06
in 89. That would have been, yeah,
22:08
I wouldn't be talking with you now. Microsoft,
22:11
Apple, I liked Patagonia. That was a brand
22:13
that I identified with. Anyway, Nina got the job
22:15
as a product manager at Microsoft. And
22:18
she went to Seattle. I went
22:20
to Cambridge. And we kept
22:22
in close touch. And I knew pretty quickly
22:24
it wasn't for me. And she
22:26
knew Microsoft was the place for me and
22:28
was like on the horn with me every
22:30
week saying, you got to come out here,
22:32
you got to come out here. And so
22:34
it took about a year to finally get
22:36
the flight out and the job offer. How
22:38
did you know it wasn't for you? What
22:40
about it wasn't for you? Because there are
22:42
some people who thrive in those environments, right?
22:44
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. You
22:46
know, a trite answer would be... up
22:48
in a suit and tie and wearing
22:50
uncomfortable shoes wasn't for me. I liked
22:52
to go barefoot. That really
22:54
wasn't what it was. It
22:57
kind of makes you feel important
22:59
when you dress up. And I was
23:01
presenting things to CEOs and stuff,
23:03
and it did feel important. And I
23:05
got a really good business school
23:08
education in competitive strategy, the Michael Porter
23:10
stuff. I basically got an MBA
23:12
in this one year. What I discovered
23:14
about myself... And I discovered
23:16
it there. I probably knew it before,
23:18
but I hadn't really focused on it.
23:20
I believe the world is somewhat divided.
23:22
It isn't totally binary, but it's a
23:24
continuum. But it's maybe a barbell. Clients
23:26
and servers. Which
23:28
is kind of a geeky software
23:31
architecture reference, but people get
23:33
it. There are all
23:35
of these industries that
23:37
are set up to be
23:39
service provision industries. Lawyers,
23:42
doctors, consultants, academics. And
23:44
the benefit of these industries is
23:46
you get to indulge your curiosity
23:48
and deal with lots of different
23:50
clients and lots of different problems.
23:52
But oftentimes with consulting, you're not
23:54
seeing things through to the finished
23:56
product. And it
23:58
was apparent to me really quickly
24:00
that I derived my jollies, on
24:03
the other hand, from being a
24:05
builder and the client. loved
24:08
what the clients were doing more than what we were
24:10
doing when I was a consultant. So it became clear
24:12
to me that I was a client. I wanted to build
24:14
things. I derived my jollies that way. And so I
24:16
started looking. And it was good to discover at a
24:18
pretty young age. And then I got
24:20
to Microsoft and it was like, I
24:22
was a kid in a candy store.
24:24
I never left the place. Thank God for
24:27
Nina, was it? Nina. Wow. I hope
24:29
she still gets a box of chocolates. We're
24:32
still close. She's great. All
24:34
right. So let's talk about
24:36
then. Microsoft
24:38
and Expedia. How does this
24:41
happen? I'll just leave it
24:43
broad. Well, back
24:45
to the earlier conversation we had
24:47
about taking big swings and intrapreneuring.
24:49
The how on how this happened
24:51
is that Expedia was a, quote,
24:53
venture startup inside of Microsoft. And
24:55
then it spun out and we
24:57
can get to that. But the
24:59
real reason I even got into
25:01
it and left the operating system
25:04
group was that my wife, Sarah,
25:06
who you just saw. is a
25:08
doctor and she was applying to,
25:10
she was in medical school at
25:12
Northwestern and was applying to her
25:14
residencies. She's an OBGYN. And there's
25:16
only one residency, OBGYN residency in
25:18
Seattle where I lived with only
25:20
six or seven residents a year
25:22
and one of the most attractive
25:24
residencies in the country. So super
25:26
competitive. We were engaged and then
25:29
soon married after that, we got
25:31
married pretty young. And
25:33
I was like, well, she's not going
25:35
to match out here in Seattle, so
25:37
I'd better get ready to move to
25:39
New York City, or this probably would
25:41
have been New York City where she
25:43
matched. This was during the Windows 95
25:46
launch. I left the Windows 95 team,
25:48
and I went to the consumer division
25:50
at Microsoft, which was kind of small.
25:52
Now, this is going to maybe
25:54
sound like a side quest, but when
25:56
you say you moved, did you just
25:58
put in a request? How easy is
26:01
that to do? At great companies, it's
26:03
relatively easy. Relatively easy. Especially for people
26:05
who are tagged as high potential. But
26:07
it's still not easy, of course. Brad,
26:09
who was my boss at the time, couldn't
26:12
believe we're launching Windows 95. This is
26:14
going to be the biggest launch of all
26:16
time in the software industry. Maybe one
26:18
of the biggest product launches of all time.
26:20
I don't know if you remember that.
26:22
I do. It was a big deal. And
26:24
about six months before we launched, I
26:26
had a big job there. I interviewed for
26:28
jobs over in the consumer division. and
26:30
took on a portfolio of multimedia
26:32
CD -ROMs. And the reason I did this,
26:35
I was interested in consumer marketing,
26:37
obviously, but the reason I did this
26:39
was that I was going to have
26:41
to leave Microsoft. And I
26:43
wanted to start a company. And it wasn't going
26:45
to be an operating system. That
26:48
just wasn't going to happen for reasons
26:50
that we don't need to get into, but
26:52
the government made clear to Microsoft at
26:54
one point. So I figured it was going
26:56
to be a consumer software company, and
26:58
I wanted to go learn that. And the
27:00
folks over there were fantastic. Microsoft was
27:02
fantastic. And I took on a portfolio of
27:04
CD -ROMs. Some of you out there will
27:06
not even know what that is. This
27:08
is kind of basically precursor to the internet.
27:10
It's the thing your doctor gives you
27:12
that you can't make any use of with
27:14
all your images. It's true. It's true. And
27:16
some artists, some musicians still hand
27:19
out CDs. It's the artifact that
27:21
your doctor gives you. It
27:24
was what came in the
27:26
red envelopes at Netflix. Anyway,
27:28
so these things were
27:31
like, Wikipedia before Wikipedia
27:33
was called Encarta. It
27:35
was a multimedia CD -ROM.
27:37
And one of the products
27:39
in my portfolio of
27:41
rando ideas was an Encarta,
27:43
so an encyclopedia of
27:45
travel guides. This is really
27:48
good. You take a whole bookshelf, a
27:50
whole shelf of... Travel guides cram it
27:52
down onto one CD -ROM, pictures, audio.
27:54
Wow, what could be better for travel
27:56
planning? And that was one of them.
27:58
And I remember going into my first
28:00
product review with Bill Gates and others,
28:02
which was kind of every six months,
28:04
every year kind of thing that the
28:06
product people did. And I
28:08
was used to business plans with
28:10
billions of dollars from the operating
28:12
system group. And I was responsible
28:14
for this thing. And I'm like,
28:16
Bill, this is tiny. The whole
28:18
travel book industry in the US
28:20
is maybe $100 million. And that's
28:22
the whole thing. And so really,
28:24
A, there's not an opportunity. And
28:26
B, you can't travel with the
28:28
CD -ROM. The
28:30
laptop at that point was this compact suitcase
28:33
that weighed 20 pounds. I'm like, that's when
28:35
you want the travel guy when you're traveling.
28:37
So even though I know it's your idea
28:39
and it's kind of fun, it's
28:41
not going to work.
28:43
That said, I demoed Easy
28:45
Saber on Prodigy. Prodigy
28:47
was an online service. Oh, yeah. Okay.
28:49
And I was a geeky online guy.
28:51
Right. And EasySaber was
28:53
a tool for travel
28:55
agents to use at home
28:58
on Prodigy to access the
29:00
airline reservation systems. Okay. So
29:02
it wasn't meant for consumers, but I could
29:04
get access to it on Prodigy. And I
29:06
demoed that for him. He actually knew about
29:08
it. I demoed that for him. I'm like,
29:10
this is a change of the world thing.
29:12
If we can have consumers. be able to
29:14
do this, then we can become the largest,
29:16
e -commerce wasn't a word then, we could
29:18
become the largest seller of travel in the
29:20
world. That was my pitch, my dream. The
29:22
pitch further went, and fund me on the
29:24
outside because I'm going to have to move
29:26
to New York because my wife, she's not going
29:28
to match out here. And this doesn't want
29:30
to be a Microsoft business anyway. It's travel
29:32
first, software second, not software first, travel second.
29:35
He agreed with all that. He thought it
29:37
was an awesome idea. He also liked
29:39
that we could rebuild all the mainframes on
29:41
Windows NT, which is a different conversation.
29:43
So he loved it. He greenlit it. He
29:45
was my first venture capitalist. He said,
29:47
no, don't go do it on the outside.
29:49
Do it here. We have a great
29:51
team that we'll put together. And I'm sure
29:53
Sarah will match her residency at University
29:55
of Washington. High degree of
29:57
confidence. That
29:59
was the end of that. She did match.
30:01
I honestly, to this day, don't know
30:03
if there was any thumb on the scale.
30:06
I doubt he had that kind of
30:08
power, but she matched. I stayed in Seattle.
30:10
He had promised me that he'd consider
30:12
spinning it out if it got big enough.
30:14
And then that's what happened. So we
30:16
spun in the height of the internet bubble,
30:18
which is so bubbly that people today
30:20
who think we're in a bubble have no
30:22
concept. I mean, you remember. Oh, yeah.
30:24
I moved out right before the Thelma and
30:26
Louise car went off the cliff. I
30:28
mean, I moved out to the Bay Area
30:30
in 2000. It was crazy. Impeccable timing. We
30:33
all thought we were the smartest people in
30:35
the world. We really did. And we all thought
30:37
this. people in New York City just didn't
30:39
get it. And then there was
30:41
comeuppance. But Expedia was a really
30:43
good business. I was working for Balmer
30:45
at the time. And I
30:47
asked Steve for $100 million to spend on
30:49
a television advertising campaign because I said,
30:51
we are becoming. We can do this. We
30:54
are in the pole position. We can
30:56
build the biggest brand and travel. And
30:58
Steve laughed at me like,
31:00
no, we don't do that. I
31:02
said, well. Dogshit.com is
31:04
going public right now at a billion -dollar
31:07
valuation. It wasn't quite that. It was like
31:09
$500 million, which seemed big at the
31:11
time. Really dumb, stupid stuff in my closet.com
31:13
was going public. Put it
31:15
on the web. Anyway, and I was
31:17
like, the public markets would give us
31:19
$100 million, and it'll cost basically nothing.
31:21
And so let's give this a try.
31:23
Let me spin this thing out. It's
31:25
a good HR experiment, human resources experiment,
31:28
too. Now, just explain for folks, why
31:30
does spinning something out make sense? What
31:32
are the advantages of doing that to
31:34
them and to you? Okay.
31:36
I mean, the financial answer to
31:38
that is unlocking value that is stuck
31:40
in a company. And this happens
31:42
a lot. That's kind of
31:44
the most uninteresting one. Unlocking
31:47
value meaning... It's not getting valued
31:49
by the shareholders as being part
31:51
of Microsoft. Right. But if you
31:53
take it public or do something
31:55
outside of Microsoft, all of a
31:57
sudden... It could attract its own
31:59
investor base that were interested in
32:01
in particular. So there's a conglomerate
32:03
discount, generally speaking, in the public
32:05
markets where the more... stuff you
32:07
have in a big company, the
32:09
less the individual businesses are valued.
32:11
There was a period of American
32:13
business history where conglomerates actually got
32:15
a premium, like in the GE,
32:17
the Jack Welch GE days, and
32:19
Honeywell, and there were all these
32:21
big conglomerates. And then the pendulum
32:23
swung the other way. Microsoft could
32:25
have cared less about the financial
32:27
play, though, however. I pitched it
32:29
mostly as an HR experiment. Microsoft
32:32
was getting so big. at
32:35
the time, that people could hide
32:37
out in random corners of Microsoft. And
32:39
as long as Windows NT, the
32:41
operating system, succeeded, or Microsoft Office succeeded,
32:43
they could make a lot of
32:45
money off their stock options. And
32:48
so that's basically
32:50
a compensation accountability disconnect.
32:53
And so some of the
32:55
best people at Microsoft, there
32:58
was this... Field of dreams, wild
33:00
opportunity outside of Microsoft, even though it
33:02
was the place everybody wanted to work at
33:04
the time. Probably still is. There were
33:06
great people, like I'll just say like me,
33:08
like I would not have stayed. I
33:10
would have gone out and started something on
33:12
the outside because the opportunity was so
33:15
great. And so Steve Ballmer understood
33:17
this really well. This was like
33:19
a talent retention pitch. Sort of, sort
33:21
of. And so he's like, yeah, we'll take a
33:23
flyer on it. And that was great. And Greg Maffay,
33:25
who was the CFO at the time, he became
33:27
my chairman and he was really supportive. He
33:29
and I still work together. He's been a
33:31
great mentor to me. We took 150 people out
33:34
of Microsoft. We gave them the choice if
33:36
they wanted to stay or come. All
33:38
but, I think, two people. We had
33:40
150. I was all but two people decided
33:42
to come, take the adventure, give it
33:44
a rip. I was 32 years old, 31,
33:46
32 years old. Now, were you pitching
33:49
those people yourself? Yeah. What was the pitch?
33:51
Because it's going to be different than
33:53
the pitch to... Walmart, right? Yeah,
33:55
way different. I mean, it was,
33:57
I had had this idea for a
33:59
while. And so the people I recruited
34:01
back to an earlier comment I made,
34:03
the people that were on the team
34:06
were the people who were the adventurers
34:08
and the ones who wanted to, who
34:10
would have left. Okay. And so this
34:12
was all about the adventure. The hardest
34:14
sell was not the people. It was
34:16
the spouses. And
34:18
I remember several dinners like with
34:20
an S1 for those, you know,
34:23
it's an IPO document with our
34:25
Expedia draft of the S1 lying
34:27
on a dinner table at Wild
34:29
Ginger in Seattle with a skeptical
34:31
spouse. The S1 is highlighted and
34:33
like there's annotation and I'm having
34:35
to answer like, you know, those
34:37
were my toughest investors actually. It
34:39
worked out really well, maybe too
34:41
well, because Expedia was a real
34:43
business. We actually were profitable and
34:46
growing like crazy. I mean, obviously,
34:48
digital travel agent made a lot
34:50
of sense. And so when Thelma
34:52
and Louise went off the cliff, as you
34:54
say, we were already public. And we'd gone
34:56
to the moon. The stock price had gone
34:58
to the moon. We crashed back down, but
35:00
we had a real business. And
35:02
very shortly... hop back up on
35:04
the climb and just climbed from
35:07
there and were very successful. Microsoft,
35:09
however, crashed with Thelma
35:11
and Louise and it took 17 years
35:13
for Microsoft to re -achieve the same
35:15
stock price it had in November
35:17
of 99 when we spun Expedia out.
35:19
So the HR experiment kind of
35:22
failed. How long did it take Expedia
35:24
to recover or to get back
35:26
on the climb? I mean, to re
35:28
-achieve the all -time high, probably a
35:30
couple of years. Yeah, but a couple
35:32
versus 17. Yeah, but the valuations
35:35
were a bit nutty, right? So it
35:37
was obvious that Expedia was on
35:39
the right path very quickly. And there
35:41
was kind of a flight to
35:43
quality with internet investors, which meant find
35:45
the profitable recent IPOs, which there
35:47
were not many. And let's invest in
35:50
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Maybe this is not a good
37:20
question, but I have to ask,
37:22
how did you learn to pitch?
37:24
How did you learn to pitch
37:26
different stakeholders? Because you're talking about
37:28
employees, bomber, gates,
37:30
spouses. That is a
37:33
skill set. Persuasion. Yeah.
37:35
How did you develop that? It
37:37
just must have been an
37:39
innate thing that got a lot
37:41
of exercise as I was
37:43
growing up. I was an engineer
37:45
by degree, but never a
37:47
practicing engineer. I was an engineer
37:49
because I liked technology. What
37:52
type of engineer initially? The
37:54
story there kind of answers the
37:56
question. I was an industrial
37:58
engineer. But I wanted to
38:00
go study in Italy my junior year. Now,
38:03
industrial engineer would be like you end up
38:05
going to a smart design or one of
38:07
those types of companies. Or how
38:09
are you thinking your path would unfold?
38:11
It's not a degree anymore at
38:13
Stanford. It's called management science and engineering.
38:15
And then there's kind of a
38:17
symbolic systems thing. The industrial engineering degree,
38:19
which kind of sunsetted, was really
38:22
a kind of manufacturing efficiency. I got
38:24
it. Okay. I got it. Optimization,
38:26
simulation. Lots of
38:29
computer work going in because it's
38:31
a design of making things more efficiently.
38:33
Yeah, kind of like the operations,
38:35
research, finance department at other places. That's
38:37
right. I did it just because
38:39
it was a Bachelor of Science, not
38:41
a Bachelor of Arts. And it
38:43
was the most businessy of the engineering
38:45
disciplines. At Stanford, they called it
38:47
imaginary engineering because the mechanical and the
38:49
electrical folks didn't respect us. And
38:52
probably deservedly because we were more interested
38:54
in business. But anyway, I did this because...
38:57
I had all these other
38:59
interests and skills around persuasion
39:01
and people and entrepreneurialism. Already
39:04
at that point as an undergrad. Already.
39:06
Already. As a kid, I had all that.
39:08
I probably was a good pitch person
39:10
already, but had a lot of support and
39:12
exercise of that. You mentioned Italy in
39:14
passing, so we're going to come to Italy.
39:16
But how did you get that exercise
39:19
when you were younger? I went to Italy,
39:21
so I got off the industrial engineering
39:23
track. And Stanford was awesome. I came back.
39:25
And I'm like, well, you can't get
39:27
an accredited degree now. I'm like, I don't
39:29
care. And Nina's dad was
39:31
a professor at the time. And he
39:33
said, well, Stanford, you can self -design
39:35
an engineering degree. So let's just design
39:37
one for you. So I designed one.
39:40
So my degree is called General Engineering
39:42
Colon Industrial Economics. Anyway,
39:45
you know, unlike a lot of kids today,
39:47
I worked real summer jobs. You know, my
39:49
kids generally did. Actually, my kids have worked
39:51
real summer jobs. So we were talking like
39:53
busboy? Yeah, I mean, my daughter, I'm just
39:56
thinking of what their jobs are right now.
39:58
My daughter spent, you're going to know this
40:00
place, you know, after Gurney's was redone, it
40:02
became like this club scene. This is out
40:04
in Montauk. Once they got fancied up. Took
40:06
away the day passes for the locals, you
40:08
bastards. Anyway, yeah. So
40:13
it was after her sophomore
40:15
year in college, I think,
40:17
sophomore year. And I'm
40:19
like, honey, you've got to. place to
40:21
stay out in the Hamptons you don't
40:23
need to get on the track the
40:25
track that every smart kid is supposed
40:27
to take you don't need to do
40:29
that why don't you get real experience
40:31
so she came and lived in our
40:33
house out in Montauk and was the
40:35
who's the person that stands at the
40:37
counter when the hostess the hostess at
40:39
the club part of Gurney's oh god
40:41
okay where it was like that was
40:43
two thousand dollar tables yeah yeah that's
40:45
quite an education it's an amazing human
40:47
nature human nature job oh my god
40:49
she had a crazy
40:51
successful interesting learning experience yeah yeah and
40:53
we had fun watching it happen and
40:55
we also got tables set anyway when
40:57
i was a kid i was the
40:59
ice cream man so i ran my
41:01
own ice cream business this is in
41:03
connecticut i went to high school in
41:05
connecticut i learned how to do house
41:08
painting as a crew member of a
41:10
buddy of mine and then after one
41:12
year doing that like well well i
41:14
can bid the jobs myself And
41:16
I can hire a crew. And so
41:18
I had my own painting company for
41:20
a couple years, which was hugely profitable
41:22
for a kid. I mean, I made
41:24
a ton. I had to pay for
41:26
all my expenses at college, not my
41:28
tuition. My parents covered the tuition. But
41:30
I had to pay all my other
41:32
expenses. So making, back then, I would
41:34
make like $15 ,000 or $20 ,000 in
41:36
summer painting. And that was a boatload
41:38
of money. And so I had
41:40
run my own businesses. Got it.
41:42
All right. I knew I liked it. And
41:45
why did you go to Italy at all?
41:47
Why did I want to go when
41:49
I was in school? I have no Italian
41:51
heritage, as you can probably tell. But
41:55
I went to Italy and Greece when I
41:57
was in high school with my Latin teacher.
42:00
And just had these awesome kind
42:02
of kid high school trips. And
42:04
while I was in Italy, I
42:06
literally fell in love with the
42:08
whole vibe. The food, the wine,
42:10
the girls, the family, culture, the
42:13
kind of work is not as
42:15
important, you know. And I kind
42:17
of fell in love with it
42:19
and kept going back. So I
42:21
went to study. And then after
42:23
I sold Expedia to Barry Diller, we
42:26
were public and Barry Diller bought it. And
42:28
we had three little kids and I was leaving
42:30
after Barry bought it. I wanted to give
42:32
space to the next team. And I
42:34
said, let's go back to Italy. And so
42:36
we moved to Florence for a year after
42:38
we sold Expedia. In fact, Nina, who I
42:40
was talking about before, she was living there,
42:42
married to a European guy. And
42:45
I'd gone to Stanford there when
42:47
I was a junior, and I'd
42:49
kept in touch with the woman
42:51
who ran the Stanford program, Linda.
42:53
And so we kind of moved
42:55
to Florence and went back to
42:57
school and learned how to paint
42:59
and started road biking. Anyway, so
43:01
I love the whole Italy vibe.
43:03
Let's take a closer look at
43:05
the Barry Diller transaction. Yeah, yeah.
43:07
How did that come to be?
43:09
And what were the most important
43:11
aspects of that deal? Could be
43:13
deal structure, could be timing, could
43:16
be anything. But how does that
43:18
even happen? Yeah, so Expedia had
43:20
been public for maybe four years
43:22
and had become very successful and
43:24
pretty big, pretty highly valued in
43:26
the market. And I
43:28
think it came about, I mean, Barry
43:30
was kind of interested. He was
43:32
building a... interactive conglomerate
43:34
called IAC. USA Networks. I think
43:36
he owns most of the popular
43:38
dating apps, things like that. IAC
43:40
buys a lot of stuff. And
43:42
then spun it out as Match.com. He
43:46
was post his media career, he got
43:48
into interactive media and he started buying
43:50
stuff. And a
43:52
guy, his kind of key corporate
43:54
development strategist and all around
43:56
great freaking guy who worked for
43:58
him was a young guy
44:00
named Dara Kazushahi. Okay.
44:03
Folks might recognize that,
44:05
man. I may be miscrediting
44:07
or giving you too much credit,
44:09
Dara, but probably not. I think
44:11
Dara's idea was consolidate the players
44:13
in the online travel space. That
44:15
it was already big, but it
44:18
was going to be much bigger. And
44:21
Microsoft was the majority owner,
44:23
but didn't have anybody on
44:25
the board. Even there,
44:27
65 % of the company didn't have anybody on
44:29
the board. They knew me, and they trusted Greg
44:31
Maffei, who had left as CFO and was
44:33
running a company. an unbelievable level of trust. It
44:35
just didn't matter to Microsoft, right? Yeah, I
44:37
guess. It just didn't matter. Just as a percentage
44:40
of the total. And at some point, somebody
44:42
came in. I won't name names. Somebody came in
44:44
and said, we need to focus at Microsoft.
44:46
We need to get things focused. We're too scattered.
44:48
And an easy thing to do was to
44:50
take a big offer from Barry Diller. And so
44:52
they did. It was a bit of a
44:54
two -step deal. IAC
44:57
and Dara and Barry bought Microsoft
44:59
65%. And then maybe, so
45:01
we were public but captive to
45:03
IAC. And Barry Diller was
45:05
my chairman for a while. And
45:07
then maybe eight months later,
45:09
bid for the rest of it.
45:11
And consolidated it down. I
45:13
think they kind of pushed us
45:15
to buy the number two
45:17
player, which was Hotels.com. And so
45:19
we mashed those things together.
45:21
And I moved on at that
45:23
point. So when in that
45:25
journey, the Expedia journey, did you
45:27
feel the highest high? For
45:29
instance, I would imagine when you
45:31
were working summers and on
45:33
your way through high school and
45:35
college, there was probably a
45:37
moment, I'm just guessing here, but
45:39
when you had your first
45:41
big summer with that painting gig
45:43
and made $15 ,000, $20 ,000. My
45:47
God, you must have felt rich. Yeah,
45:49
we went to the high lie. You
45:51
know what the high lie is? Yeah.
45:53
Took the crew to the high lie.
45:55
Yeah, so with the Expedia journey, was
45:57
it the tail end with the Barry
45:59
Dillard transaction? No. Because there's
46:01
mixed emotions there, right? Yeah. And I didn't control
46:03
the company. I learned that henceforth I would
46:05
control the companies that I started. No,
46:08
I mean, that was great and it
46:10
made sense and it created value. No,
46:12
the highest highs were probably
46:14
around the spin out. and the
46:16
IPO. There's kind of a funny
46:19
IPO story that my wife, Sarah,
46:21
was pregnant with our first child,
46:23
Will, during the roadshow. Okay,
46:25
so this is November of 1999.
46:28
It's really pitching to the buy side. So
46:30
it's pitching to the mutual funds, the investors.
46:32
Okay, got it. And it used to be,
46:34
I think now is a lot more on
46:36
Zoom, which it should be, by the way. But
46:39
it was a rite of passage back then for
46:41
companies going public, and a lot more companies went
46:43
public then. And it
46:45
was 15 cities over
46:47
three weeks, five meetings a
46:49
day, six meetings a day, chartered
46:52
private plane with banker team and CFO
46:54
and CEO zipping around the country. Okay.
46:56
Exhausting and exhilarating and repetitive and kind
46:58
of boring. Also really fun anyway. So
47:00
Sarah was pregnant and she wasn't due
47:02
until December, but we had been on
47:04
the road for. Two and a half
47:06
weeks already, we'd filled the book 30
47:08
times over, which means we had a
47:10
lot more demand. We knew the offering
47:12
was going to be successful. These were
47:14
back in the days when the offerings
47:16
were a little bit managed to the
47:18
advantage of the inside banker people. But
47:21
anyway, that's a different story. So it
47:23
was going to work. The IPO was
47:25
going to work. And I called the
47:27
Red Show off a day early. I
47:29
flew back to Seattle, exhausted. I
47:31
get in bed at like one
47:33
in the morning after getting home.
47:35
Sarah's super pregnant. I
47:37
get a tap on the shoulder
47:40
at... 3 a .m. And
47:43
she said, she's an OB, so she
47:45
knows what's going on. Although that's not always
47:47
the case, but she knows what's going
47:49
on. And she said
47:51
to me, honey, this
47:53
is like IPO day. If our baby
47:55
is born on the IPO day, do
47:57
I really have to name him Expedia?
48:00
Which is what I promised the team. And
48:05
then we went to the hospital
48:07
and while the IPO was happening, My
48:09
son was being born. That was,
48:11
yeah, my, my, my, my oldest was
48:13
being born. And so that was
48:15
actually the high point right there. Wow.
48:17
All right. Now we're tracking the
48:20
path. So now you're painting a vase
48:22
of fruit and Florence living the
48:24
life of a naked. It was a
48:26
naked woman. It was like, it
48:28
was like trying. There we
48:30
go. Charcoal. Charcoal
48:32
drawing of naked lady changing poses every
48:35
10 minutes. What could be a better
48:37
way to learn art? What a lovely
48:39
way to learn art. Living
48:43
the life of a refined gentleman. Costa
48:45
and wine and culture and
48:47
road biking. Little cap, maybe. Little
48:50
cap, of course, no helmet. Taking
48:53
Italian classes in the morning. Yeah,
48:55
yeah. So here and there. Sounds
48:57
like a great life. It was
48:59
fun. So how the hell does
49:01
Zillow happen? Yeah. Do
49:03
you start getting fidgety? I mean,
49:05
what happens there? Yeah, I
49:07
was still pretty young. So probably,
49:10
I was like 35, 36. And
49:13
I was hoping art, music, thought
49:15
I might write books, whatever, you
49:17
know, find the next chapter. Because
49:19
I really didn't need to, I
49:21
had enough to take care of
49:23
myself for the rest of my
49:25
life. But something I discovered, I
49:28
was still on a few boards,
49:30
including the IAC board, which had
49:32
bought Expedia and Netflix, where I'd
49:34
been on the board since like
49:36
2000. And still, I'm still on
49:38
that board and a couple others.
49:40
So I was still involved in
49:42
the business world from a kind
49:44
of long, in a long distance
49:46
way. Though I had
49:49
an amazing time learning experience, I didn't
49:51
find my next calling. And I was
49:53
still really curious about the business world
49:55
and what was going on. So
49:57
I knew that we weren't going to stay
49:59
in Italy. We were going to move back and
50:01
I was going to do something else, which
50:03
is great to learn. And
50:06
we did. Did it in Florence for a
50:08
little over a year. We spent
50:10
a few months skiing with the family, which was
50:12
really fun. In the mountains. And you came
50:14
to the U .S. I am going on
50:16
a hunting expedition. Did you already have an
50:18
inkling of what you were going to do? A
50:20
little bit. I didn't know if I really
50:22
had another startup in me. Because
50:24
I knew how much work it
50:26
was. And I adjusted my life
50:28
to prioritize some things I hadn't
50:31
prioritized when I was younger. Like
50:33
living well and family and body
50:35
and mind. And I was very
50:37
curious in all kinds of different
50:39
things. So the venture capital opportunity
50:41
was available to me to go
50:43
be a GP at a venture
50:45
capital firm. And I was kind
50:47
of headed in that direction. And
50:49
then my Zillow co -founder, Lloyd
50:51
Frank, who was a guy I
50:53
went to Stanford with and did
50:55
Expedia with. He was still at
50:58
Expedia and he got fired by
51:00
our good friend, Eric, who was
51:02
running Expedia at the time, probably
51:04
for good reason. Awesome guy,
51:06
really smart. I
51:08
won't follow up on that. We
51:10
don't need to. It's a fun story.
51:13
So Lloyd got fired, and Lloyd's like, wait,
51:15
wait, wait. Don't move to
51:17
California. Let's just sit in an office and brainstorm
51:19
for a while. And so
51:21
we did. We did, and we
51:23
went through a bunch of ideas. He went
51:25
off on one that was kind of Dropbox
51:27
before Dropbox. It was obvious that the kind
51:29
of cloud storage thing was going to be
51:32
huge. And I said, go figure that
51:34
out. See what it costs. And so he disappeared
51:36
for a couple weeks. So we were kind of sharing
51:38
an office and came back. He's like, yeah, 100 %
51:40
this is going to work, but there's going to
51:42
be no profit. There's no profit. Microsoft
51:45
and Google are going to give this away. were
51:47
you guys brainstorming? We were brainstorming. And his dad was
51:49
a stockbroker. He had an extra couple of rooms
51:51
in his office, and he just gave them to us.
51:53
New York City? No, no. This is Seattle. Oh,
51:55
Seattle. Seattle. Yeah, yeah. So we're in Seattle. Because we
51:57
didn't sell our house in Seattle. When we moved
52:00
to Italy, we moved back to our house. But we
52:02
were looking for a new house. We
52:04
were going to maybe move to
52:06
California or something in Seattle. Our
52:08
family was getting bigger. And so
52:10
we went through a series of
52:12
ideas. And then at one point,
52:14
I said, hey, you know, back
52:16
when we started Expedia, we also
52:18
wrote a plan for an electronic
52:20
stockbroker, matchmaking service, all the classified
52:22
categories, basically, and all the kind
52:24
of agent categories were all obvious
52:26
that. We were on a little
52:28
team of people researching big ideas
52:30
inside of Microsoft. How would the
52:32
web change industry? And so we
52:34
had all these plans. Expedia
52:36
was one of the ideas. There
52:38
was basically to create a digital
52:40
real estate marketplace. And
52:42
I dusted that off and I said, hey,
52:44
what about that? I mean, you're looking for
52:46
a house right now. It's really freaking hard.
52:49
This is 2003. And
52:51
I can't get the price
52:53
of a home online. I
52:55
can't even get the address. Because
52:57
the industry had been very good at
52:59
defending their special data. Making it opaque.
53:01
Yeah, yeah, yeah. And we were the
53:04
power to the people guys. We were
53:06
the guys who freed all that information
53:08
for the regular traveler. And we were
53:10
like, well, wants to be power to
53:12
the people here too, right? And we
53:14
couldn't believe that it hadn't changed. And
53:16
so that was the dawn of Zillow.
53:19
So he convinced me not to move. And I
53:21
said, well, I'll be CEO, but I'm not
53:23
going to work that hard. He's like, don't worry,
53:25
I'll do it. Just be CEO.
53:27
I need you to be CEO because you have to raise
53:29
money and stuff. Oldest trick in the book. So
53:33
maybe I am a four -hour work with a
53:35
cat kind of guy. I said, look, I don't
53:37
want to do it full -time. You can use my
53:39
name. Of course, he was like, yeah, sure, whatever.
53:41
You can do whatever you want, Rich, knowing I'd
53:43
be sucked in. Let the line out. He totally
53:45
managed me. Yeah, I
53:47
think I'm in charge now. Lloyd
53:49
was in charge. So when you
53:52
say you're brainstorming, there's an entire
53:54
universe of possibilities. Yeah. What constraints
53:56
or criteria are you applying to
53:58
that brainstorming? What are you looking
54:00
for? I think most great
54:02
ideas, there's just a big, obvious
54:04
problem. I like consumer stuff. And
54:06
so that means the way I
54:08
interface with the world, the way
54:10
we all interface with the world
54:12
is rife with problems. And
54:14
all those problems are business opportunities. And
54:16
when you see a particularly big, oh
54:19
my God, why is it this way?
54:21
Those are probably the bigger opportunities. It's
54:24
almost as simple as that.
54:26
We identified this big dislocation.
54:28
We knew 100 % that
54:30
there would be a leading
54:32
digital real estate marketplace in
54:34
the US. At some point.
54:36
At some point. Inevitability. Inevitability.
54:38
And business model, who knows?
54:40
Who cares? It's a giant.
54:42
It's a big pond. And
54:45
so my business criteria for
54:47
doing stuff is, is it a
54:49
big pond? And are there
54:51
good fishermen? Because the travel CD
54:53
-ROM wasn't big enough. You said
54:55
100 million. That's the entire
54:58
market. Plus, you're not going to
55:00
carry a briefcase that you're
55:02
doing weight training with inadvertently to
55:04
read the thing. A lot
55:06
of entrepreneurs make this mistake of
55:08
identifying a really big problem,
55:11
but it is just a small
55:13
opportunity. And then there are
55:15
ones where I know Bill Gurley
55:17
was on the pod. a
55:19
couple years ago, talking about the Uber thing.
55:22
You were involved there a little bit.
55:24
I was one of the first three
55:26
advisors when it was called Uber Cab
55:28
LLC, way back in the day. And
55:30
for people who didn't pick up, Dara. Oh,
55:33
sorry, Dara's the CEO. Current CEO
55:35
of Uber. He was the CEO of
55:37
Expedia after, you know, two
55:39
after I left as well. Anyway, a
55:41
lot of people make a mistake, is
55:43
what I was going to say. of
55:45
identifying a real problem, but it's just
55:47
too small. Uber kind
55:49
of, to a lot of people,
55:51
looked too small because it was
55:54
a black car tan, the total
55:56
addressable market. But the insight that
55:58
you and Curly and Travis and,
56:00
I guess, JCal and others had
56:02
was that actually, no, it was
56:04
going to take not just the
56:07
black car market, but... taxi, transportation,
56:09
and then ultimately more. It can
56:11
expand the total addressable market. That's
56:13
right. Car ownership. Yeah. Just
56:15
transportation. And of course,
56:17
obviously, it's beautifully played out that way.
56:19
It took a little while to
56:21
see, but it's amazing. Anyway, so big
56:23
pond, good fishermen, after identifying the
56:26
big problem. And I guess that was
56:28
the guiding thing here. I knew,
56:30
Lloyd and I knew, there would be
56:32
a digital real estate marketplace. We
56:34
didn't know what the business would be.
56:36
We didn't know how we were
56:38
going to play. And we started
56:41
poking at ideas for attracting audience
56:43
with software. And we made a
56:45
couple of big mistakes before we
56:47
landed on the solution. What
56:49
were some of the big mistakes? And
56:51
how costly, how risky were they? Pretty
56:53
small venture numbers at that point. And
56:55
Lloyd and I were funding it ourselves.
56:58
We put the first $5 million total in
57:00
with a couple of friends. Costly,
57:04
but not that costly. Side
57:06
note also, what Garrett Camp
57:08
did with Uber early on.
57:10
There was self -funding for
57:12
a while. It wasn't expensive.
57:14
It wasn't overly expensive. It's
57:16
a good way to go as a
57:18
second -time founder or a non -first -time
57:20
founder if you actually have some resources. Because
57:23
you end up with more of the company
57:25
down the road. I love
57:27
Gurley. We're really close. But by
57:29
the time Gurley or the venture
57:32
capitalists come in, If they're
57:34
writing the first check, they're going to end up with
57:36
a big chunk of the company, which is great, especially
57:38
if you get somebody like Bill. But
57:40
we were able to do it ourselves.
57:43
We were enamored of Google, everyone
57:45
was at the time. The
57:48
magic business model that they
57:50
sort of discovered or innovated, iterated
57:52
on that came from another
57:54
company was the AdWords, the digital.
57:56
auction -based marketplace. it came from
57:58
another company. Yeah. I might
58:00
not know that wrinkle. Yeah, it
58:02
did. Meaning they acquired something?
58:05
I'm thinking, what's the guy's name
58:07
who did that startup incubator
58:09
factory? Gross? Oh, Bill Gross? Yeah.
58:12
I may be getting this wrong. Am I making
58:14
this idea lab? He did idea lab.
58:16
A lot of companies kind of sort of
58:18
spun out of that, but one of them
58:20
was... a search engine whose
58:22
name I'm forgetting. We can look it
58:25
up later. The
58:27
whole basis of the search
58:29
engine was AdWords. Did
58:32
Google acquire that or are they just
58:35
being a better mousetrap? I
58:37
think the latter, but I'm not an expert. Regardless,
58:39
I don't want to speak out of turn.
58:41
We'll put the story in the show notes.
58:43
There's a good story there, I'm sure. Why
58:47
I brought it up was we were
58:49
enamored of Auctions
58:51
have huge geek appeal
58:53
for mathy idealists. And
58:56
we were like, well, obviously the U
58:58
.S. housing market should be at auction,
59:00
and that's the most efficient mechanism for
59:02
price discovery, which of course it is.
59:04
And we were like, okay, so that's
59:06
our business. We're going to auction homes. And
59:10
what we learned trying to
59:12
auction a home that our buddy
59:14
Gordon got us kind of
59:16
on consignment was that Well, two
59:18
things. One, to have an
59:20
auction work, you kind of need
59:22
a real -time liquid market. Okay?
59:25
Duh. Okay. So
59:27
you need all the bidders there at the same time. Okay.
59:30
Well, the housing market doesn't work that way.
59:32
It's just, you know, it's a long period
59:34
of time. You want to show it to
59:36
a lot of bidders. You know, that didn't
59:38
work. The second thing, which is obvious, is,
59:40
and to all those innovators out
59:43
there, If you have to
59:45
educate your customer on how
59:47
to buy the thing that you're
59:49
doing, if it's a radically
59:51
new way to do it from
59:53
decades or hundreds of years
59:55
of ingrained human behavior, it's a
59:57
pretty heavy lift. It's got
59:59
to be super duper simple, obvious,
1:00:01
and 10 times better than
1:00:03
the current way. And we didn't
1:00:05
check any of those boxes.
1:00:07
But in pursuit of price discovery,
1:00:09
we found the Zestimate, which
1:00:11
was our killer feature. And the
1:00:13
visual on the Zestimate that's
1:00:15
in my head that kind of
1:00:17
popped in our collective heads
1:00:19
on the home auction web experiment
1:00:21
was a real -time estimated value
1:00:23
algorithmically driven as your Google
1:00:25
Maps zooming over neighborhoods looking. We
1:00:28
wanted prices on every roof
1:00:30
because everything should have a price.
1:00:32
And the timing of that
1:00:34
is pretty wild, right? And it's
1:00:36
just like how things line
1:00:38
up. I mean, how long had
1:00:40
the aerial view? been around
1:00:42
prior to you guys. Short. It
1:00:44
was short. Short. And there
1:00:46
was no iPhone. There were no
1:00:48
smartphones. Yeah. But it was
1:00:50
obvious. I was like, whoa. And
1:00:52
then I also had in
1:00:54
my head, homes are for American
1:00:56
homeowners, oftentimes their largest asset
1:00:58
and the bulk of their wealth. And
1:01:02
people care a lot about it. Yeah.
1:01:04
So I knew they wanted to know
1:01:06
the value. I knew that was catnip.
1:01:08
Okay. In my gut, I knew that
1:01:10
was candy. We did. The team knew
1:01:12
it was candy. And I'm like, oh,
1:01:14
it's an investment. And so let's plot
1:01:16
the home value like a stock chart.
1:01:18
And so the aerial view with the
1:01:20
numbers, any home's value laid out like
1:01:23
a stock chart. Those were the two
1:01:25
things. And when we discovered that, we
1:01:27
were kind of off to the races.
1:01:29
Okay. So at the time,
1:01:32
was it just... Rentable infrastructure,
1:01:34
AWS. You get it going, you launch,
1:01:36
and it's up to the right. Just
1:01:38
a nice, smooth rocket launch. Is that
1:01:40
what happened? AWS didn't exist. I know.
1:01:44
You baited
1:01:46
me. No, dude, man. This
1:01:48
was like server in a closet. Yeah,
1:01:51
this was server in a closet.
1:01:53
true you forbade Christmas lights or something?
1:01:55
You're preserving electricity and compute power
1:01:57
and all this stuff. I don't remember
1:01:59
that. I don't remember. The things
1:02:01
of lore. David Bightel, who was our
1:02:03
CTO at the time, and still
1:02:06
is, and was CTO at Expedia with
1:02:08
me too, he may have told
1:02:10
that story somewhere, so it may actually
1:02:12
be right. Yeah, I believe. I
1:02:14
remember our launch blog post with Garrett,
1:02:16
who worked for David. What's
1:02:19
the professor in? It's Doc.
1:02:21
From Back to the Future.
1:02:23
3 .2 gigawatts. Whatever. Because
1:02:26
we launched and millions of people
1:02:28
showed up because Walt Mossberg, who
1:02:30
was the equivalent? Is there any
1:02:32
equivalent of Walt Mossberg now? It's
1:02:35
like the Oprah of tech at
1:02:37
the time. I mean, God. And
1:02:39
Walt loved it. And Walt published.
1:02:41
And millions of people came on
1:02:43
day one. And of course, the
1:02:45
big server in the closet tipped
1:02:47
over for a while. And it
1:02:49
was painful. But Amy Butinsky, who
1:02:51
was running our marketing at the
1:02:53
time, said, don't worry, we'll make
1:02:55
lemonade out of lemons. And the
1:02:57
headline the next day in the
1:02:59
San Francisco Chronicle was, house porn
1:03:01
site Zillow launches and falls over.
1:03:03
Because it's so popular or something
1:03:05
like that. And she's like, yeah,
1:03:07
that's going to be good press.
1:03:11
Anyway, I'm a big believer in the product
1:03:13
being the most important part of the
1:03:15
marketing mix, if that makes sense to you.
1:03:18
Gurley actually challenged us when we launched.
1:03:20
He was on the board. Benchmark and
1:03:22
TCV were our A -round funders. And
1:03:25
he was on the board at the time.
1:03:27
And we had had kind of a spend. advertising
1:03:29
dollars mindset at Expedia because we really needed
1:03:31
to grow exposure to the brand. And Gurley
1:03:33
said, well, what if we didn't have any
1:03:36
marketing budget? And that launched, we were like,
1:03:38
no way, you can't do that. made
1:03:40
us think a lot more creatively
1:03:42
about the features that we built,
1:03:44
the way we built them, and
1:03:46
then the way we PR communicated
1:03:48
them. And I've since developed a
1:03:51
pretty good playbook around, I guess,
1:03:53
what I would call provocation marketing.
1:03:55
When you have really provocative feature that you
1:03:58
know people are going to feel emotional about
1:04:00
one way or the other, and they're going
1:04:02
to talk about it, you're on to something. What
1:04:05
are some aspects of that toolkit
1:04:07
or the playbook? Yeah, I mean,
1:04:09
having data, having a stream of
1:04:11
data that people are interested in
1:04:13
at Glassdoor, which I did with
1:04:15
Bob Homan, who was at Expedia
1:04:18
with me as well. Glassdoor is
1:04:20
another example of that. When you
1:04:22
have constantly changing data that people
1:04:24
are interested in, you can almost
1:04:26
think about feeding that data to
1:04:28
hungry consumers in a Bloomberg -like
1:04:30
way. And so the playbook that
1:04:32
Amy kind of put together was
1:04:35
building a PR data distribution infrastructure
1:04:37
down to the local. me who
1:04:39
Amy is. Amy was our marketing
1:04:41
chief at Zillow. She's still on
1:04:43
the board today. And she was
1:04:45
really creative about recognizing that there's
1:04:47
an infinite news hole for housing
1:04:49
data at local newspaper level once
1:04:52
upon a time. And
1:04:54
if you could wire that
1:04:56
up to just feed, constantly feed,
1:04:58
the endless appetite. Housing is
1:05:00
just an important topic, right? And
1:05:02
there's always space in the
1:05:04
paper for a story on housing
1:05:06
and changing prices. And so
1:05:08
we set up a mechanism to
1:05:10
feed that data, which was
1:05:12
a terrific brand builder for us,
1:05:14
rather than spending ad money.
1:05:16
And then just having this estimate
1:05:18
be so provocative, like high
1:05:20
school boyfriends, house philanthropist development team
1:05:22
that are trying to figure
1:05:24
out who's a good target, whatever.
1:05:26
Lots of applications. Lots of
1:05:28
applications, yeah. I know you
1:05:30
had a lot of fans. I think
1:05:33
the Arizona attorney general was a fan.
1:05:35
That's a deep cut. Wow. No,
1:05:38
but this is of interest to
1:05:40
me because there is opposition also. Oh
1:05:42
yeah. Right. And my God, I
1:05:44
mean, the number of, I don't think
1:05:46
they were actual ulcers, but just
1:05:49
the rollercoaster ride that I was also
1:05:51
on with Uber from a regulatory. mobbed
1:05:55
up local fill in the blank
1:05:57
perspective. It was just nonstop battles. that
1:05:59
was just part of the deal. And
1:06:01
actually part of the playbook. Honestly,
1:06:04
it's the same provocation marketing. It's the exact
1:06:06
same thing. It's exactly the same. So what
1:06:08
happened with you guys? We
1:06:10
were provocative to some of the
1:06:12
industry players who were big lobbyists. The
1:06:15
Taxi Commission, Uber's case. In our
1:06:17
case, a lot of the real
1:06:19
estate professional associations. A lot of
1:06:21
voters. They were not thrilled. They're
1:06:24
not thrilled, or they think they're
1:06:26
not thrilled. They don't realize until
1:06:28
later that it could be helpful,
1:06:30
but whatever. Yes, they were provoked.
1:06:32
No industry that likes change. Most
1:06:34
people don't like change. I'm one
1:06:36
of the people that loves change,
1:06:39
but most people don't. You
1:06:43
may like change when you're
1:06:45
the instigator of the change.
1:06:47
Well, that's awesome. It
1:06:49
leaves me more open to change coming
1:06:51
from the outside, too, though. I do
1:06:54
believe. Obviously,
1:06:56
this is just human nature. Yeah,
1:06:58
but the equivalent of the taxi commission
1:07:00
in the Uber case was these
1:07:02
real estate professionals and a lot of
1:07:04
places we had them lobbying to
1:07:06
have us outlawed. They're
1:07:09
not licensed. How can they make an
1:07:11
appraisal? You know, whatever, whatever thing they're
1:07:13
going to make up. We knew we're
1:07:15
on really strong legal ground. And
1:07:17
so we weren't so
1:07:19
worried about that. But
1:07:21
the strategy for combating
1:07:23
that resistance was literally
1:07:25
probably the same thing
1:07:27
you guys did at
1:07:29
Uber, which was we
1:07:31
knew the legislators, state
1:07:34
legislators, not to mention
1:07:36
federal legislators, were big. fans
1:07:38
of the site and the
1:07:40
service. Yeah. Okay. And
1:07:42
so all we had to
1:07:44
do was make sure we just
1:07:46
activated that latent love for
1:07:48
the product itself and made it
1:07:50
obvious that this way is
1:07:52
the future way. And the lobbyists
1:07:54
got nowhere and it was
1:07:56
overcome. Yeah. In the case of
1:07:58
Uber, I don't want to
1:08:00
make this overly about Uber, but
1:08:02
also Turns out
1:08:04
when people have something that is incredibly
1:08:06
convenient and useful, they do not want
1:08:08
it taken away. And if elected
1:08:11
officials like the service or are
1:08:13
even ambivalent about the service, they
1:08:15
do love getting reelected. And man,
1:08:17
oh man, if there are a
1:08:19
lot of your constituents using that
1:08:21
app and you take it away,
1:08:23
they're not going to be super
1:08:25
happy about it. Power to the
1:08:27
people, baby. I mean, like you
1:08:29
build. magic stuff for masses of
1:08:31
consumers that they want to talk
1:08:33
about with their friends unprompted on
1:08:35
the sidelines of the soccer game
1:08:37
or what have you. Have you
1:08:39
tried Uber? Have you tried Zillow?
1:08:41
Have you tried Expedia? Whatever. It's
1:08:43
like you're definitely on to something.
1:08:45
And having popular support, as we're
1:08:47
learning politically right now, is having
1:08:49
big populist support is ultimately where
1:08:51
the power is derived. Sometimes
1:08:54
you can go too far. We don't
1:08:56
need to talk about that. Of course you
1:08:58
can go too far. In fact, it
1:09:00
may be that you need to go too
1:09:02
far to establish where the frontier is.
1:09:04
All right. Well, I can't not take the
1:09:06
bait on that one. What does going
1:09:08
too far look like? I
1:09:11
was thinking specifically Uber. Oh, all right.
1:09:14
Because some cities, municipalities, or
1:09:16
Airbnb. You can push too
1:09:18
hard. You can push too
1:09:20
hard. And learn some lessons
1:09:22
about how much lease you're
1:09:24
going to be given by
1:09:26
the popular support. Because it
1:09:28
does tip into a point
1:09:31
where like with Airbnb, you
1:09:33
know, this is not a story. I
1:09:35
know this guy's a little bit, but it's
1:09:37
not a story I'm intimately familiar with,
1:09:39
nor was I an early investor or anything.
1:09:41
But, you know, they did piss off
1:09:43
some homeowners, you know, in certain cities, not
1:09:45
just the hotel owners. And,
1:09:47
you know, so they found the line.
1:09:49
And I think they managed it really,
1:09:51
really well because they lead from the
1:09:54
heart. I think other companies
1:09:56
may have not obviously led
1:09:58
from the heart and had difficulty.
1:10:00
At Zillow, our job was
1:10:02
a little easier. Also, with those
1:10:04
battles, I remember there were
1:10:06
early on a number of locations
1:10:08
that were incredibly important. Not
1:10:10
just from a ride volume perspective,
1:10:12
but from a precedent setting
1:10:14
perspective. So if you win a
1:10:16
few of those precedent setting, then
1:10:19
you don't necessarily have to do
1:10:21
a full frontal assault on the next
1:10:23
10 locations. Because people have gotten the
1:10:25
message, you can be a little more
1:10:28
diplomatic about it. Which people figure out
1:10:30
over time. But then there's
1:10:32
the next country, and then whatever. Anyway, there's
1:10:34
always something. But provocation
1:10:36
marketing with a heart. With
1:10:39
the end consumer's best interests
1:10:41
in mind. That's a winner.
1:10:44
So if you were teaching a class, maybe you already
1:10:46
have, I have no idea, related
1:10:48
to provocation marketing. All right, there you
1:10:50
go. You get to choose. You
1:10:52
can go back to your alma mater,
1:10:54
wherever it might be. You're teaching
1:10:57
a class. What would other elements of
1:10:59
the class be? Other resources, principles,
1:11:01
anything at all? While I try to
1:11:03
figure out a structure here on
1:11:05
the fly to give a couple other
1:11:07
examples of stuff that I've been
1:11:10
involved with. So I co -founded Glassdoor. which
1:11:12
many people out there
1:11:14
may know. And our provocation
1:11:17
data marketing feature was
1:11:19
how much money do people
1:11:21
make? Okay. Not individuals,
1:11:23
but the product manager at
1:11:25
XYZ company or the
1:11:27
developer or the customer service
1:11:29
representative. And our model
1:11:31
was, we knew that salaries was
1:11:33
kind of a little bit taboo
1:11:35
for a lot of people. So
1:11:38
it was inherently secret and provocative.
1:11:40
Okay. And then, Robert Homan,
1:11:42
who is my co -founder
1:11:44
and the team, they had
1:11:46
a data collection problem because
1:11:48
it was ultimately user -generated content.
1:11:50
People would need to share
1:11:52
their salaries in a way
1:11:54
that we believed in order
1:11:56
to get enough data to
1:11:58
provide anything interesting to everybody
1:12:00
else. And so their innovation,
1:12:02
after kind of hand -cranking
1:12:04
it with survey, their innovation
1:12:06
was give to get. You
1:12:09
show me yours, I'll show you
1:12:11
mine. Very good. That's very
1:12:13
clever. Very clever. And say, hey, I'll give
1:12:15
you a little taste, but if you want to
1:12:17
see any more data, you've got to share
1:12:19
your salary and your title and your company. We
1:12:21
promise you'll be anonymous. And
1:12:23
do a company review. How many people
1:12:26
screw that up? We're the only person
1:12:28
in that position. And
1:12:30
we have protocols for that. We
1:12:32
did have protocols for that. It
1:12:35
worked really. And we also then solicited
1:12:37
feedback on what it's like to work
1:12:39
at the company. And, you know, CEOs
1:12:41
are kind of public figures. So, okay,
1:12:43
we're going to let you review the
1:12:45
CEO performance. Yeah. And
1:12:48
we knew all those things
1:12:50
would provoke. We knew some
1:12:52
CEOs would go crazy, you
1:12:54
know. So there's another example
1:12:56
while I'm formulating a framework.
1:12:58
Another one is with another
1:13:00
former Expedia guy, Mark Britton.
1:13:02
We founded a company called
1:13:04
Avo, which was in the
1:13:06
legal space. And we
1:13:08
decided to rate attorneys, systematically
1:13:11
rate attorneys. This had never happened before.
1:13:13
It was just kind of like trip advisor
1:13:15
for attorneys. You need to kind of
1:13:17
trip advisor for anything, right? These are business
1:13:19
models that are well -trodden now, but these
1:13:21
were kind of innovative back in the
1:13:23
day. And of course, we were
1:13:25
going to get sued because we were
1:13:27
rating attorneys. Yeah,
1:13:30
definitely a great way to kick the hornet's nest. Some
1:13:33
investors, when we were raising money, I
1:13:35
remember traveling around, you know, doing the Sandhill
1:13:38
Shuffle with Mark. And, you know, I
1:13:40
remember some people saying, well, is this legal?
1:13:42
You're going to get, can you rape
1:13:44
people? You know, you're going to get sued.
1:13:46
You know, I'm not going to invest.
1:13:48
And we were like, yeah, we're
1:13:50
going to get sued. You know, did
1:13:52
you see Die Hard? You remember Die Hard
1:13:54
where the German terrorist leader is waiting
1:13:56
for the last lock to open and he
1:13:58
needs the power to go down in
1:14:00
order to be able to get the bearer
1:14:02
bombs out of the Nakatomi Plaza safe? And
1:14:05
the people are like, how is he going
1:14:07
to get the power to go down? And
1:14:09
he's like, he said. Ladies and gentlemen, I'll
1:14:12
give you the FBI. And they
1:14:14
came in on those things and the FBI, the
1:14:16
playbook said, all right, cut the power. Anyway,
1:14:21
that was exactly the launch strategy of
1:14:23
ABBA. was like, here come the suits.
1:14:25
I'll give you the FBI. Anyway, was
1:14:27
perfect because it created all kinds of
1:14:29
noise. I'm struggling with the
1:14:31
structure. here, let's go with the lawsuits.
1:14:33
All right, so the Sandhill Shuffle, for
1:14:35
people who don't get that reference. So
1:14:37
Sandhill Road, if you could imagine going
1:14:39
to like, This is not going to
1:14:41
be the best comparison. You go to
1:14:43
Kuwait, and there's a shopping mall with
1:14:46
Balenciaga and Prada and all the fanciest
1:14:48
brands, all the aspirational brands. Well, if
1:14:50
there were such a place, but it
1:14:52
was all the highest -end venture capitalists, that
1:14:54
would be Sand Hill Road. And
1:14:56
now it's more distributed, but still. It's
1:14:58
a thing, right? Oh, yeah. If you go
1:15:00
stay at the Rosewood and you're right
1:15:02
around the corner, that's got its own stories.
1:15:04
That's a strange place. Fantastic.
1:15:06
Fantastic. Love that bar. And
1:15:10
then you have, you name
1:15:12
it, right? Everybody's there. All the
1:15:15
big players. And so that's
1:15:17
the Sandhill Shuffle. So why not
1:15:19
be afraid of lawsuits? What
1:15:21
did you guys know that the guys who
1:15:23
said, I'm not going to touch that with
1:15:25
a 10 -foot pole? Well, the founder CEO,
1:15:27
Mark Britton, was my general
1:15:30
counsel at Expedia. And he
1:15:32
worked Securities Exchange Commission prior
1:15:34
to that. He was a
1:15:36
real attorney. And the
1:15:38
way we did it, we were 100 %
1:15:40
convinced of our legal grounds. And
1:15:42
so people could still just consume so much
1:15:44
energy, right? No doubt. So we raised money to
1:15:46
deal with that, but we knew it was
1:15:49
going to be pretty cheap lawsuits. And
1:15:51
we could provide the legal, most of
1:15:53
the legal billing ourselves anyway. And so
1:15:55
it would be cheaper than hiring some
1:15:57
fancy firm. We were convinced. And, you
1:15:59
know, after we won the first few
1:16:01
suits, you know, they lost steam. The
1:16:03
lawyers lost steam on suing. So it
1:16:05
caused some venture capitalists to not do
1:16:07
it. But the more kind of disruptive
1:16:10
oriented folks were like, yeah, great. So
1:16:12
what happened with Ava? It did pretty
1:16:14
well. It did pretty well. We had
1:16:16
trouble. So in a kind of trip
1:16:18
advisor for legal sort of way, it
1:16:20
did really well. Ultimately. these
1:16:23
kind of trip advisory digital middlemen who
1:16:25
were kind of SEO on one side,
1:16:27
collecting Google search traffic on one side
1:16:29
and trying to monetize leads on the
1:16:31
other. As time wore on,
1:16:34
a lot of those business models
1:16:36
got somewhat disintermediated. And so the protection
1:16:38
against that is usually to go
1:16:40
down into the workflow of the transactions
1:16:42
of the industry, which is, say,
1:16:44
what we've done at Zillow. or what
1:16:46
Expedia does. So could you explain
1:16:48
that just one more time and maybe
1:16:50
an example would be helpful. So
1:16:52
let's just say there's a TripAdvisor for
1:16:54
X. Like you said, they're kind
1:16:56
of harvesting traffic on the SEO side.
1:16:58
So their pages are engineered in
1:17:00
such a way. That's right. Maybe also
1:17:02
using ad spend to drive traffic
1:17:04
to these reviews, which are then monetized
1:17:06
on some level. That's right. Some
1:17:08
people can see, but by selling those
1:17:10
leads out the other side of
1:17:12
the marketplace. So literally a lead middleman.
1:17:15
How would they get intermediated?
1:17:17
Michael Porter, Five Forces, would
1:17:19
say, look, if you have
1:17:21
an over -dependency on any supply
1:17:23
of customers, you're strategically exposed,
1:17:25
for obvious reasons. If you
1:17:27
have an over -dependency on
1:17:29
any supplier, you're strategically exposed. Business
1:17:32
Strategy 101 says diversify your sources
1:17:35
of customers and your sources of
1:17:37
supply so that nobody gets too
1:17:39
much leverage over you. Also,
1:17:41
it's like a single point of
1:17:43
failure, right? Absolutely. Factory went down
1:17:45
because of XYZ. That's a problem. We're
1:17:47
dealing with that right now in the country
1:17:49
because COVID discovered that we had lots
1:17:51
of supply chain single points of failure. Anyway,
1:17:53
we don't need to sidetrack on that. So
1:17:56
in that example, if you're
1:17:58
primarily getting your traffic from
1:18:00
Google, paid or free,
1:18:03
you're developing a serious dependency on
1:18:05
Google. And Google, of course, in
1:18:07
its own search for increased value,
1:18:09
starts looking vertical, which means down
1:18:11
into your business. And so people
1:18:13
probably noticed over the years that
1:18:15
Google started doing reviews, and then
1:18:17
they did their own mess. So
1:18:19
they're doing their Yelp reviews and
1:18:21
their TripAdvisor reviews, and then they
1:18:24
started doing... airline schedules and hotel
1:18:26
bookings and restaurant reservations and, and,
1:18:28
and. And so when the big
1:18:30
guy that you're getting all your
1:18:32
customers from starts taking a more
1:18:34
than passing interest in your business
1:18:36
model because they want to capture
1:18:38
more value, you better figure out
1:18:40
something else. Yeah. Okay. So strategically
1:18:42
speaking, my defense against that in
1:18:45
my digital marketplaces has been twofold.
1:18:47
One, build a giant brand that
1:18:49
customers know and love. And therefore,
1:18:51
most of your traffic and customers
1:18:53
comes directly to your app and
1:18:55
sites. You have to have
1:18:57
a brand to do that in
1:18:59
order to have power. And then
1:19:01
two, look down your funnel and
1:19:03
look into the workflow of the
1:19:06
business you're in, be it travel
1:19:08
or real estate or legal or
1:19:10
jobs for the verticals that I've
1:19:12
done stuff in. And make sure
1:19:14
you become digitally integral to the
1:19:16
workflow. You're building tools for the
1:19:18
industry. Ultimately,
1:19:20
maybe even doing the transactions
1:19:22
and having a platform for
1:19:24
the transactions. And that,
1:19:26
in a nutshell, is what Zillow's long
1:19:28
-term strategy is. We're basically building a
1:19:30
super app, a one -stop shop application
1:19:33
for anybody who's renting or buying.
1:19:35
Soup to nuts, everything integrated. All the
1:19:37
professionals plug in and workflow. And
1:19:39
that, we have a big brand. We
1:19:41
source almost all of our customers
1:19:43
directly. Not all, but most.
1:19:45
And we're embedded in the
1:19:47
workflow, solving real customer problems.
1:19:49
And the business is great
1:19:51
and growing. All right. So
1:19:53
I haven't forgotten about the Provocation Marketing
1:19:55
class. However, I think this is a great
1:19:58
place to buy you some more time
1:20:00
and talk about naming. Okay, oh. How do
1:20:02
you name companies? You saw that live
1:20:04
post. I
1:20:06
played around with blogging like all of
1:20:08
us. It really stuck with some,
1:20:10
and it didn't with others. I probably
1:20:12
only had like 10 posts on my
1:20:14
blog. But one of them was naming,
1:20:16
because I've had a lot of fun
1:20:18
naming companies. And I gave advice on
1:20:20
naming, I think, the title of the
1:20:22
post. The site it's on is called
1:20:25
hopperanddropper.com, which is a fly fishing term. which
1:20:28
nobody's gone to. I only had 20
1:20:30
visitors, Tim being one. Lucky
1:20:32
21. I
1:20:35
have a few rules about naming.
1:20:37
First, when you're trying to
1:20:39
brand a company, if you're building
1:20:41
a consumer brand especially, you have two
1:20:43
broad ways you can go. The
1:20:45
easy way and the hard way. I'll
1:20:48
forgive the four -hour work week and the
1:20:50
four -hour body, but I'll tell you that there
1:20:52
are no shortcuts. You
1:20:54
take the shortcut to the long road,
1:20:56
my coach Jimmy says. Anyway, the
1:20:58
easy way is if you're building a
1:21:00
travel site to call it hotels.com,
1:21:02
airlinetickets.com, you name it. Every category has
1:21:05
a literal word.com. And the advantages
1:21:07
to that are it's easy to explain
1:21:09
to people what you do. And
1:21:11
the disadvantages to that are you
1:21:13
don't own any brand of equity because
1:21:15
you can't own a word that
1:21:17
previously exists. And so you're nondistinct and
1:21:19
nondistinctive. There's an in -between way.
1:21:21
which is to use an existing
1:21:24
word but make a new application of
1:21:26
it, Apple, computer, amazon.com, and that's
1:21:28
viable. But you have to build a
1:21:30
new definition for that word, which
1:21:32
those companies obviously did successfully. The hard
1:21:34
way and the best way, I
1:21:36
think, for consumers is to make up
1:21:38
a word. Make up
1:21:40
a word. which is super hard because
1:21:42
you have to tell people what the
1:21:44
word means. You have to define it
1:21:46
for them. But once you do, you
1:21:48
own that word. The definition of that
1:21:51
word is yours and only yours. And
1:21:53
so I like the hard path because
1:21:55
I like building brands. And with provocation
1:21:57
marketing, I think I can get a
1:21:59
big audience early, which begins to familiarize
1:22:01
people with the brand. So I was
1:22:03
confident in my ability to, my team's
1:22:05
really ability to do that. Okay,
1:22:07
so now when you're making up a word, what do
1:22:09
you do? And I think this is what you're referring to.
1:22:11
Okay, so high point Scrabble letters. Do you play Scrabble? It's
1:22:14
been a minute, but yes, I've played Scrabble.
1:22:16
Okay, you know that there are different point
1:22:18
numbers on each letter as you play Scrabble.
1:22:21
And do you remember what the high point
1:22:23
ones are? I don't. Okay. Their
1:22:25
Z is 10. X
1:22:29
is 10. That's the highest points you can
1:22:31
get. A, E, I, O, U are 1. Here's
1:22:33
why. Q is 10 too. Here's
1:22:35
why. Z, X, and
1:22:38
Q are super rare letters. A,
1:22:40
E, I, O, U are super common.
1:22:42
And so rule number one is pick
1:22:45
the super rare letters and pick them
1:22:47
because they're very distinctive. They jump off
1:22:49
a page when you read. They stick
1:22:51
in people's brains in a way that's
1:22:53
not crowded. So all my stuff has
1:22:55
Zs and Xs and some Qs actually
1:22:57
too. Rule number two, fewer
1:22:59
syllables is better than more. I kind
1:23:01
of learned this lesson with Expedia. Expedia
1:23:04
was too many syllables. It's worked
1:23:06
out fine. We've overcome that. The
1:23:08
company's overcome that now, but it was,
1:23:11
in hindsight, was a lot. I
1:23:13
liked it because of rule number
1:23:15
three, which is it was evocative
1:23:17
of positive things, speed, expedition.
1:23:20
So it said adventure and speed, and
1:23:22
that all felt good in that
1:23:24
word. But fewer syllables. I think two
1:23:26
syllables is the sweet spot because
1:23:28
I also want it to be a
1:23:30
good dog name. So if the
1:23:32
word could be a good dog name,
1:23:34
you're onto something like you can
1:23:37
call for it. Yeah. Zillow. Anyway, another
1:23:39
one is it can be turned into
1:23:41
a verb pretty easily. So pick a
1:23:43
word that can be turned into a
1:23:45
verb. So it probably, the dog name
1:23:47
and verb probably means it ends in
1:23:49
a vowel sound. And then the last
1:23:51
one is people, double letters and palindromes
1:23:53
are good too. So anything that is
1:23:55
unique, a unique word form, double letters,
1:23:57
people remember, they jump off the page
1:23:59
and palindromes are. words that are the
1:24:01
same forward and backward spelled, right? So
1:24:03
just interesting, interesting words. Yeah. Anyway, that's
1:24:05
my handbook. Palindrome, like my friend Mike
1:24:07
Kim back in the day. I
1:24:10
was struggling to think of one. I couldn't
1:24:12
pull one on the fly. Taco Cat. It's
1:24:15
a good game. So you're in the game
1:24:17
space. the name of Taco Cat. That
1:24:20
is a funny game, isn't
1:24:22
it? It's so stupid. It's
1:24:24
so fun. It's so good.
1:24:26
So I'm thinking of double
1:24:28
letters. So there are names.
1:24:30
Expedia had... X. Has an
1:24:32
X. X speed. Good connotation
1:24:34
with pre -existing words or
1:24:36
concepts. Maybe one syllable too
1:24:38
long. Then you got Zillow.
1:24:40
Zillow, that's a sweet spot. Kind
1:24:42
of named it. I'm imagining this
1:24:44
Labrador Retriever, right? Yeah. And
1:24:46
starts with a Z. Like how
1:24:48
many words start with a Z? That's
1:24:50
great. And two double letter LLs.
1:24:52
Soft ending. Double letter, but I'm not
1:24:54
sure because I am not up
1:24:56
to speed with my Scrabble glass door.
1:24:58
Glass door in the mid, you
1:25:00
know, in the middle. It was pretty
1:25:02
evocative of having people peer is
1:25:04
transparency. Power of the people and transparency
1:25:06
is a big thing. And we
1:25:08
really liked kind of looking in through
1:25:10
the glass door inside of a
1:25:12
company. Two syllables, not a great dog
1:25:15
word, you know, but two double
1:25:17
letters. So it kind of jumps off
1:25:19
the page. It's an interesting looking. I
1:25:22
would say we get kind of
1:25:24
a B on that. But Robert
1:25:26
did a very good job with
1:25:28
marketing that. All right. So if
1:25:30
you need more time, I'm
1:25:32
not going to forget about it,
1:25:35
the provocation marketing curriculum. And it
1:25:37
could just be one seminar. It
1:25:39
doesn't have to be ongoing, just
1:25:41
if that complicates the envisioning process.
1:25:43
Find a seven deadly sin zone,
1:25:46
something that is emotionally core to
1:25:48
us. That
1:25:50
you know is going to incite
1:25:52
an emotional response. All right.
1:25:54
Okay. So some topic
1:25:56
that people are emotional about.
1:25:58
And then go address
1:26:00
some sacred cow, you know,
1:26:02
some taboo or sacred
1:26:04
cow in that space. Most
1:26:06
of the ideas that you could probably
1:26:09
think of with that outline would be
1:26:11
really negative. And then get
1:26:13
rid of all those. Because I do believe
1:26:15
a cheap way to get attention is
1:26:17
to scare people. Okay. But I
1:26:19
think it's cheap. It's a cheap
1:26:21
way to lead is to scare people.
1:26:24
Effective, but cheap. And
1:26:26
it doesn't make people feel
1:26:28
good to be scared. So
1:26:30
if you're building a brand
1:26:33
and a service, you want
1:26:35
people to be provoked, but
1:26:37
feel good or tickled or
1:26:39
entertained, you know? And so
1:26:41
that is where I would
1:26:43
head with the seminar. end
1:26:45
up brainstorming about getting people's ideas
1:26:47
for that. Let's touch on briefly, mention
1:26:49
Bill Gurley. Of course, famous venture
1:26:51
capitalist. He's been on the show. Brilliant
1:26:53
guy. Also quite hilarious. And local.
1:26:56
And local. Hey, Bill. Yeah. Yeah. He's
1:26:58
right down a couple of blocks
1:27:00
from where we're sitting right now. You
1:27:02
have spent time at Benchmark Capital,
1:27:04
which way back in the day, I
1:27:06
mentioned this to Bill when I
1:27:08
first moved to Silicon Valley. A
1:27:10
book was recommended to me called E -Boys
1:27:12
way back in the day. And
1:27:14
putting aside how Bill may or may
1:27:16
not feel about it, we didn't really
1:27:19
get into it. I'm sure there's lots
1:27:21
of stuff that could stand some fact
1:27:23
-checking, but it was incredibly inspirational and
1:27:25
so entertaining. I mean, this was the
1:27:27
heyday, right? I mean, this was just
1:27:29
rocket ships everywhere. So fun.
1:27:31
So you've spent time
1:27:33
at and with Benchmark. What
1:27:36
led you to that? Was
1:27:38
that kind of biding time
1:27:40
until you figured out which
1:27:42
next big swing to take?
1:27:44
What was the motivation? And
1:27:46
then also, what did you
1:27:48
learn there or what came
1:27:50
into greater resolution or clarity
1:27:52
while you were there? Yeah.
1:27:54
Okay. So
1:27:56
as we chatted about before, when
1:27:58
I was coming with my
1:28:00
family back from sabbatical, I'm a
1:28:03
big believer in the sabbatical
1:28:05
in Italy and was considering the
1:28:07
next. career move. I got
1:28:09
to know first Bruce Dunleavy and
1:28:11
at benchmark and then Bill
1:28:13
and the other guys. I did
1:28:15
read E boys then too,
1:28:18
which was, you know, romantic
1:28:20
kind of, you know, in a weird way,
1:28:22
but you know, for business geeks like me
1:28:24
and you maybe romantic. And
1:28:26
I also knew that I had a personality
1:28:28
that did want to have my fingers in
1:28:30
a lot of stuff. I
1:28:32
did. I knew that. I liked to do lots of
1:28:34
things and I want to do lots of things and I
1:28:36
could do lots of things. I could think about lots
1:28:38
of things. And so in the
1:28:40
course of trying to figure out prior to
1:28:42
Zillow, trying to figure out what to do,
1:28:44
I got to know those guys really well.
1:28:46
They invited me to a bunch of stuff
1:28:48
to sit in on stuff. I knew I
1:28:50
would be good at that. I knew I
1:28:52
liked doing that. And then a condition with
1:28:54
Lloyd Frank of doing the Zillow thing and
1:28:56
taking the CEO title, I said, look, you
1:28:58
know I'm going to do a bunch of
1:29:00
other things too. I'm going to start more
1:29:03
companies. And I'm going to
1:29:05
do the venture capital thing. And
1:29:07
he's like, all good, no problem. And
1:29:09
so as a way to keep
1:29:11
myself stimulated and seeing lots of stuff
1:29:13
and get down to the valley,
1:29:15
I was in Seattle, which was not
1:29:17
really a venture pop -ed at the
1:29:19
time. Cloud computing hadn't happened yet.
1:29:21
We did have Amazon, Expedia, and Microsoft.
1:29:25
And so the action on the cutting edge
1:29:27
was down in the valley. I had
1:29:29
some boards I was on down there as
1:29:31
well. And so I took the venture
1:29:33
partner job with Benchmark, which is a pretty
1:29:35
ill -defined position, as a way to keep
1:29:37
me going to the valley and keep
1:29:40
me in the flow of the latest stuff.
1:29:42
And I really loved that. I
1:29:44
do believe that ended up benefiting all
1:29:46
the other stuff I was doing as
1:29:48
well. I really love that team. I
1:29:50
love that team to this day. How
1:29:52
did it benefit the other things? Was
1:29:54
it just seeing around corners, kind of
1:29:56
getting an idea of what's coming before
1:29:58
most other people have a chance to?
1:30:01
Yeah, and thinking of new ideas for
1:30:03
companies too. But I'm a big believer.
1:30:05
There are some companies that hold on
1:30:07
to their people and say, you can't
1:30:09
go do other things. Don't sit on
1:30:11
other boards. I really like. executives that
1:30:13
are on my teams to have another
1:30:15
board. And if you love it, set
1:30:17
it free. If you're scared about losing
1:30:19
people and you're being too retentive, that
1:30:22
means you're too insular probably. And
1:30:24
you got to give to get. If
1:30:26
you give time and get interested in
1:30:28
other business models, you help them. But you
1:30:30
end up learning a bunch of stuff
1:30:32
for your own company. I've learned so
1:30:34
much from sitting on the board of Netflix
1:30:36
that I've imported to my other companies.
1:30:39
Can you explain, just for folks who may
1:30:41
not be familiar, what does it mean
1:30:43
to sit on a board? What does
1:30:45
that actually mean? It depends board to board,
1:30:47
I'm sure, on responsibilities and expectations. But
1:30:49
along with that, you must have lots
1:30:51
of requests to join X, Y, or Z
1:30:53
boards. How do you choose? the
1:30:56
boards to be a part of.
1:30:58
Okay. What it means to sit
1:31:00
on a board is when a
1:31:02
company's private, it means help the
1:31:04
CEO and the leadership team build
1:31:06
the company. Okay. So
1:31:08
it's really being an advisor
1:31:10
and a coach and somebody
1:31:12
with a lot of business
1:31:14
building experience to help pick
1:31:16
the right strategy. You're not
1:31:18
running anything, but you're basically
1:31:20
coaching the entrepreneurs who oftentimes
1:31:23
are less experienced, sometimes not.
1:31:25
but oftentimes less experienced. And
1:31:27
I would always recommend assembling a board
1:31:29
of people with real experience who are going
1:31:31
to be engaged. And so it's a
1:31:33
company building exercise. And then when fundraising, it's
1:31:35
time to fundraise, can totally help with
1:31:37
the next fundraising, can help with recruiting. One
1:31:39
of the very best at this is,
1:31:41
I mean, there's so many good ones. Bill
1:31:44
is really good, as you've seen in
1:31:46
the Uber case, at really helping build companies.
1:31:49
Okay. And a public company is a little
1:31:51
different. Yeah, I had one thing and I've
1:31:53
never. been on a board. Really? Yeah, no,
1:31:55
I've dodged it, I guess, in a sense. So
1:31:58
you have a negative impression? No,
1:32:00
no, it's not a negative impression.
1:32:02
You dodged it. Well, I feel
1:32:04
like, yeah, dodge is a strong
1:32:06
verb to use. That was a
1:32:08
missile coming at you. I felt
1:32:10
like at the time when these
1:32:12
opportunities have come up, that I
1:32:14
did not have clear criteria. And
1:32:16
I don't want to commit to
1:32:18
things reactively, which is part of the
1:32:20
reason why I'm asking you. Okay,
1:32:22
got it. And also, it seems like,
1:32:25
and definitely correct me if I'm
1:32:27
wrong, but another responsibility of a board
1:32:29
is to fire leadership if it
1:32:31
comes down to that. So it can
1:32:33
be better roses and looking forward
1:32:35
to the future and a lot of
1:32:37
good things, but it also comes
1:32:39
with responsibilities to handle the tough times.
1:32:42
Those are probably the most, especially for a
1:32:44
public company, those are the most important
1:32:46
times too. When you're company building as a
1:32:48
private company, it's a little less important. That's
1:32:51
good context. But it's something that I've
1:32:53
been not necessarily reconsidering because I think
1:32:55
you should. I think you'd be good.
1:32:58
Okay, tell me. Well, you're a coach.
1:33:00
Yeah. That's all it is. Okay. I
1:33:02
mean, it's what it primarily is. You're
1:33:04
instinctively a coach. And you
1:33:06
have a lot of experience sets
1:33:08
and you look for far analogies.
1:33:10
You look for, oh, this situation
1:33:12
here is a lot like this
1:33:14
other situation. And that makes you
1:33:16
a good communicator. And that is
1:33:18
oftentimes what good coaching is. I
1:33:20
shouldn't say inadvertently because it's not
1:33:22
inadvertent, but informally do that already
1:33:24
with a lot of the founders
1:33:26
that I'm involved with. Which
1:33:29
is fine too, but it's that same. In
1:33:31
the best of circumstances, it is that
1:33:33
same way on a board. And
1:33:36
those are the only boards
1:33:38
that I'm involved with is those
1:33:40
that are really there to
1:33:42
coach and give advice. Sometimes,
1:33:46
oftentimes, in a public company, when you
1:33:48
get into the public markets where
1:33:50
your responsibilities are a little different, you
1:33:52
have these hardcore responsibilities to represent
1:33:54
shareholders. And the only real power you
1:33:56
have is kind of capital allocation
1:33:58
a little bit. And who is the
1:34:00
CEO? Capital allocation, meaning how do
1:34:02
they spend? Raising
1:34:05
money, spending money,
1:34:07
usually not to the budgetary, but
1:34:09
big, big acquisitions, whatever. Big
1:34:11
changes in the cap table, in
1:34:13
the balance sheet that will
1:34:15
affect shareholders. Oftentimes,
1:34:17
public companies, depending on their age,
1:34:20
usually as they get older, they
1:34:22
stop acting like a private board,
1:34:24
where it's really about the strategy
1:34:26
and coaching and helping and building,
1:34:28
and then becomes more about institutional
1:34:30
shareholder services, rates, directors. What
1:34:32
is that? Oh, wow. Okay, so
1:34:34
they're like, the lawyer's competing to
1:34:36
have good ratings on Avvo. Kind
1:34:39
of. Okay. This is something
1:34:41
I haven't heard anything about. If
1:34:43
a board tips into, let's
1:34:45
call them professional directors who are
1:34:47
really worried about their board
1:34:49
director reputation, it becomes more about
1:34:51
them and process and CYA. Cover
1:34:54
your ass. Yeah, because you only get
1:34:56
sued, whatever. you don't look bad, whatever. Versus,
1:34:59
let's build a company. Yeah, that doesn't
1:35:01
sound fun. I've really actually never had
1:35:03
a board tip into that. I've had
1:35:05
some boards devolve into finger pointing and
1:35:07
what have you, but in the private
1:35:09
space, right? So I'm on a
1:35:11
few public boards, but they're all really
1:35:13
their strategy and how can we grow and
1:35:15
how can we help you and how's
1:35:17
the team doing? And so if I don't
1:35:19
get a good ISS rating, which I
1:35:21
have some of the worst there are out
1:35:23
there, really I do. Wait,
1:35:26
wait, who actually determines the rating? I
1:35:28
don't really know the process and I
1:35:30
don't really give a rip, but some
1:35:32
survey, it's going to stick up job,
1:35:34
these things. Stick
1:35:36
up job. They rate, give us
1:35:38
what we want or else. Look, it's
1:35:40
like bond ratings or whatever. These
1:35:42
ratings firms, they do ratings and then
1:35:44
they sell consulting services to the
1:35:46
customers. It's just a classic. And
1:35:49
mutual funds and ETFs, whatever, hire
1:35:52
them. They can't track every company,
1:35:54
so they look at the ratings and how
1:35:56
we should vote on the proxy issue. Blah,
1:35:58
blah, blah. Anyway, I've got
1:36:00
very low ratings for lots of
1:36:02
nonsensical reasons, but I don't
1:36:04
care. I
1:36:07
personally don't care, but a board
1:36:09
that's full of directors who really
1:36:11
do care is not as fun.
1:36:13
Framework for you, which you asked.
1:36:15
Greg Maffay, who's on my board
1:36:17
at Zillow and who I've worked
1:36:19
with for a long time, I
1:36:21
mentioned already, and Jay Hogue kind
1:36:23
of gave me the same advice. Jay's another venture
1:36:25
capitalist who I work a lot with. We're on
1:36:27
boards together. Construct. A
1:36:29
good construct that Greg told me
1:36:31
early in my career was, is
1:36:33
it local? Is it fun? Is
1:36:36
it lucrative? Yeah.
1:36:38
It's a good place to start. Those are
1:36:40
good points. You can zoom
1:36:42
now a little bit, but you
1:36:44
really don't want to spend your traveling.
1:36:46
That's another thing that put me
1:36:48
on the sidelines is I knew a
1:36:50
few people who just seemed like
1:36:52
traveling salesmen in a sense. It was
1:36:55
like George Clooney from Up in
1:36:57
the Air. when he's just traveling around
1:36:59
a different city every other week.
1:37:01
Soul crushing. Yeah. It's not quite that
1:37:03
way. But yeah, I mean, so
1:37:06
local is, Greg, when he laid it out
1:37:08
for him, he's like, it's got to be two
1:37:10
out of three at least. If it can
1:37:12
be all three, trifecta score. And lucrative meaning potentially
1:37:14
lucrative. Like the businesses, you would buy the
1:37:16
stock as a gross stock. And
1:37:18
this is as good a point as
1:37:20
any, to just explain the... I guess,
1:37:22
compensation structure. How does it work? You
1:37:25
get an equity grant, you have options
1:37:27
to invest over time, and I suppose
1:37:29
it depends on the state and stage
1:37:31
of the company. Private
1:37:33
companies often are not compensated because
1:37:35
you're the venture capitalist. Right. So you're
1:37:37
the funder. So you're doing it
1:37:39
because you already own a chunk of
1:37:41
the company. So that's your compensation.
1:37:44
And most startups, most private companies can't
1:37:46
afford to pay. Now, the late -stage
1:37:48
startups, the forever startups now, I'm
1:37:50
sure Stripe directors make a lot of
1:37:52
money. Public companies,
1:37:54
it's really just like salary
1:37:56
bands based on the size of
1:37:58
the company. I mean, it's
1:38:00
like for most kind of mid
1:38:03
-cap public companies, I would guess
1:38:05
it's $200 ,000 to $350 ,000
1:38:07
a year. Most companies for big
1:38:09
meetings, committee meetings, whatever, not
1:38:11
a huge chunk of time. So
1:38:13
it's nice. And then usually
1:38:15
they enable the directors to choose
1:38:17
if they want it. Some
1:38:19
part has to be in stock.
1:38:22
And some could be in
1:38:24
cash. Anyway, I
1:38:26
have a ton of experience with
1:38:28
those. So fun, local, lucrative. Potentially lucrative.
1:38:30
Potentially lucrative. And fun has got
1:38:32
to be like, it's a proxy for
1:38:34
maybe it's a cool company, whatever,
1:38:36
that's fun. But really, it's the boardroom
1:38:38
dynamic. You look around the
1:38:40
table and at the leadership team
1:38:42
and are these interesting? Is it a
1:38:45
collegial? Everybody's rowing together in the
1:38:47
same boat kind of situation. Or is
1:38:49
it a, we got old factions
1:38:51
fighting and these guys want that and
1:38:53
these ones want that. And like,
1:38:55
you know, run away. Less Game of
1:38:57
Thrones. Yeah, exactly. Like no fun.
1:38:59
No fun. All right.
1:39:01
So we're drinking our
1:39:03
carbonated Japanese citrus. Yes. Yuzu
1:39:06
coconut water. Feeling very well
1:39:09
hydrated and infused. And that
1:39:11
is. as smooth slash awkward
1:39:13
a segue as possible to
1:39:15
do a callback to something
1:39:17
you mentioned earlier, which was
1:39:19
da -da -da -da -da. And then
1:39:21
I started paying attention to
1:39:24
things I had neglected before
1:39:26
that and da -da -da -da,
1:39:28
including health and body, things
1:39:30
like that. So when did
1:39:32
that happen? Was it a
1:39:34
gradual development of wellness habits,
1:39:37
self -care, or was there a
1:39:39
reckoning? At some point, what
1:39:41
happened? Yeah, I mean, I
1:39:43
think for a lot of
1:39:45
people, it's a health reckoning
1:39:47
for them or for somebody
1:39:50
else that kind of shocks
1:39:52
them into, you
1:39:54
know, and maybe an overlay of general age.
1:39:56
You know, the substrate is age. And
1:39:59
ultimately, everybody probably figures this
1:40:01
out. Some later, sooner than others.
1:40:03
What is your age now?
1:40:05
I have no idea. I can't
1:40:07
tell. I'm 57. Okay, God.
1:40:09
Wow. You really held on to
1:40:11
the youthful glow. Everything's falling
1:40:13
apart. Look at me. American
1:40:16
history acts as of 10
1:40:18
years ago, and then it's just
1:40:20
the crow's feet are turning
1:40:22
into crow's legs. But you seem
1:40:24
to be very active. I
1:40:26
am. And for me, it was
1:40:29
that same thing. It was
1:40:31
a catalyst. It was a pretty
1:40:33
sudden external catalyst. Not my
1:40:35
health, but my wife's and children's.
1:40:38
So I have three kids, Will,
1:40:40
Josie, and Russell. And Josie and Russell are twins.
1:40:43
And twin pregnancies
1:40:45
are high risk,
1:40:48
definitionally. And
1:40:50
so I was
1:40:52
age maybe 35,
1:40:54
34, running Expedia
1:40:56
as a really
1:40:58
young public company
1:41:00
CEO. The company's
1:41:02
doing great, but I had
1:41:05
to deal with stuff like
1:41:07
9 -11 in the travel business.
1:41:10
And I had been a pretty, not
1:41:12
quite sleep under the desk, but
1:41:14
kind of work all the time kind
1:41:16
of guy for a long time.
1:41:18
Because I love my work, whatever. We
1:41:21
socialized with Microsoft people and then
1:41:23
Expedia people, and this was our lives.
1:41:25
We talked about it at dinner.
1:41:27
So I was pretty neglectful. While I
1:41:30
was a weekend warrior type basketball
1:41:32
player and tennis player and snowboarder, I
1:41:34
didn't yet realize that I had
1:41:36
to maintain myself in order to be
1:41:38
able to do those things. So
1:41:40
I was just working too hard, working
1:41:42
all the time. When Sarah
1:41:45
was pregnant with Josie and Russell,
1:41:47
she went into labor really early.
1:41:49
We were on our way up
1:41:51
to Whistler. And she was... For
1:41:53
those who understand these things, I
1:41:55
think she was 27 weeks pregnant
1:41:57
out of a 40 -week typical
1:42:00
gestation period, which is very early.
1:42:02
It's not very, very early, but
1:42:04
it's danger early. And so
1:42:06
we were driving on our way. So
1:42:08
I was like, I think something's going
1:42:10
on. Let's go stop by
1:42:12
the hospital. So we stopped
1:42:14
by the hospital just so her
1:42:16
OB could check her out.
1:42:18
And she was partially dilated and
1:42:20
just some small contractions. Sarah
1:42:23
thought nothing of it. The shoemaker's kids
1:42:25
have no shoes. Sarah's like,
1:42:27
oh, fine. I'll just keep the seat
1:42:30
reclined as we drive up to Whistler.
1:42:32
And her doctor, Edith, said, not only
1:42:34
you not going up to Whistler, you're
1:42:36
not going home. You are going to
1:42:38
be admitted to the hospital. We're going
1:42:40
to put you on muscle relaxants. So
1:42:42
that began a kind of a six -week,
1:42:44
very scary period of my life and
1:42:46
her life where she was in the
1:42:49
hospital making sure that the babies didn't
1:42:51
get born. I was taking care of
1:42:53
my... -year -old Will. And
1:42:55
then everything turned out great. She
1:42:57
carried them to 35 weeks
1:42:59
or something, 36 weeks. Kids
1:43:01
are perfect. The birth was a little hard.
1:43:03
The kids were perfect. And it
1:43:06
all worked out. But in the course of that
1:43:08
period of time, it got me to reassess my
1:43:10
life and how I led my life and what
1:43:12
my priorities were and how I needed to take
1:43:14
care of myself mentally and physically. I kind of
1:43:16
had the realization that for sustainability, I was going
1:43:18
to have to start doing a bunch of things.
1:43:20
If I wanted to do the things I love
1:43:22
to do for the long term, I was going
1:43:24
to have to really build my foundation. I
1:43:27
decided to quit my job at
1:43:29
that point too. I was still CEO.
1:43:31
IAC had just acquired the company
1:43:33
and I made the decision at that
1:43:35
point, but that this lifestyle was
1:43:37
not, I didn't need it. Needed a
1:43:39
change. And
1:43:41
what were some of
1:43:43
the... changes? How did you layer
1:43:45
things in? Did you boil the ocean all at
1:43:47
once? And I was like, all right, here are
1:43:49
the 12 new things I'm starting. Did you layer
1:43:51
it in? And would you
1:43:53
have done anything differently? I started just
1:43:56
exploring things. The big change was we
1:43:58
moved to Italy six months later, or
1:44:00
maybe eight months later. And I developed
1:44:02
a whole new set of things I
1:44:04
did when we were living in Italy.
1:44:06
I took up road biking, which is
1:44:08
a very Italian, a social Italian thing
1:44:10
to do, which was great. It was
1:44:12
great for making friends too. But
1:44:14
I had a period of time after that
1:44:16
where I was in Seattle and I started, you
1:44:18
know, I remember the first real class, the
1:44:20
kind of thing I'd ever done was hot yoga.
1:44:23
And I was like, wow, this is amazing. I
1:44:25
feel incredible after I come out of that class
1:44:27
and it's, you know, strength and
1:44:29
some conditioning, I guess, and really interesting
1:44:31
and kind of a mental thing
1:44:33
too. And I started doing that. And
1:44:36
then I didn't hire a trainer until
1:44:38
much later, but I eventually got there.
1:44:40
I didn't lift weights for a long,
1:44:42
long time. I was more just kind
1:44:44
of running. I took up running. I
1:44:46
ran a couple of marathons. You know,
1:44:48
I discovered my body was not built
1:44:51
for, my joints were not built for
1:44:53
marathons. Anyway, I did a bunch of
1:44:55
things, Tim. Recognizing
1:44:57
that I felt better when
1:44:59
my body felt better and
1:45:01
my mind felt better when
1:45:03
my body felt better. And
1:45:06
it's just built over time to the
1:45:08
age I am now where like the
1:45:10
physiology of what's happening to my body
1:45:12
and my bone density, my muscle mass
1:45:14
at my age, it's like I'm like
1:45:16
continually been ramping up how much I
1:45:19
do. A, because it makes me feel
1:45:21
good. But B, because I'm, you know,
1:45:23
just age wise deteriorating. And if I
1:45:25
want to snowboard, I've snowboarded 35 days
1:45:27
this year and it's been amazing. And
1:45:30
like if I want to keep
1:45:32
doing stuff like that, I've got to
1:45:34
be strong. So what does the
1:45:36
current regimen look like? Generally
1:45:38
speaking, I'm sure there are exceptions and
1:45:40
maybe travel or go to various places,
1:45:42
but what does the general regimen look
1:45:44
like? Probably a couple
1:45:46
hours total of zone two
1:45:49
-y type stuff, you know,
1:45:51
bike, rowing, maybe tread. My
1:45:53
knees kind of are not great
1:45:55
running, but the treadmill, a softer
1:45:57
treadmill works, but the Peloton is
1:46:00
my favorite one there. And then
1:46:02
weightlifting, different. body parts, maybe four
1:46:04
times a week. And
1:46:06
then a lot of just play
1:46:08
stuff, you know, a lot of, a
1:46:10
lot of snowboarding and sports sports.
1:46:12
Yeah. I play tennis. I like
1:46:14
to do a lot of stuff with my body in
1:46:16
the world. Yeah. How do you
1:46:18
fit that in? I mean, you got
1:46:20
a lot going on. You like
1:46:22
building, you continually as our mutual friend,
1:46:24
Chris Saka has in one of
1:46:26
his, one of his suggested topics for
1:46:29
exploration since I asked him, like
1:46:31
you continually put yourself back in the
1:46:33
arena. Yeah. Right. As a builder.
1:46:35
Yeah. You are on several boards. I
1:46:37
mean, there are demands. I'm sure
1:46:39
there's a lot of inbound that you
1:46:41
say no to. How do you
1:46:43
think about the self -care? Is it
1:46:45
sort of the first thing that you
1:46:47
block and then that's it? For
1:46:49
me now, priority was that is my
1:46:51
family and my health is essential
1:46:53
to my family's health too. So my
1:46:55
family and my health and my
1:46:57
state of mind, but I am not
1:46:59
operating. Seven, eight months
1:47:01
ago, after my second or third stint
1:47:03
as CEO at Zillow, I kind
1:47:05
of kicked myself back upstairs. And
1:47:08
so I'm no longer the day
1:47:10
-to -day CEO, which is terrific. It's
1:47:12
helped. But I've always been the
1:47:14
guy who my joke was, I'm
1:47:16
very much a delegator. I'm very
1:47:18
much a pick great people and
1:47:20
then give them lots of space.
1:47:22
And actually, a leadership development technique
1:47:24
I often coach is for a
1:47:26
senior leader or a middle management
1:47:28
type leader. I encourage them to
1:47:30
really take a vacation and disappear.
1:47:32
And most people think that's going
1:47:35
to be harmful to their business
1:47:37
or their career. And what I
1:47:39
try to coach them on is,
1:47:41
no, that is actually the way
1:47:43
you develop your leaders. One of
1:47:45
the ways you develop your leaders.
1:47:47
Because if you're really disconnected, you're
1:47:49
on a surf trip in Indonesia
1:47:51
and you have zero connectivity for
1:47:53
two weeks. Do it
1:47:55
for two weeks. And be disconnected.
1:47:57
And your teams are going to have
1:47:59
to figure out how to deal
1:48:01
with stuff that's important. And they're going
1:48:04
to have to create systems and
1:48:06
policies and rules ahead of time that
1:48:08
will outlive the surf trip. That's
1:48:10
true. But from a leadership perspective, sometimes
1:48:12
the real leader of an organization
1:48:14
is not necessarily the one with the
1:48:16
title. And when somebody's
1:48:18
really disconnected, the senior
1:48:20
leader is disconnected, leadership
1:48:23
is sort of an emergent property. And
1:48:25
it kind of emerges. So this is
1:48:27
a long way of saying I kind
1:48:29
of have always felt that way about
1:48:31
my universe too. I believe the most
1:48:33
secure people are willing to let go
1:48:36
and roll the dice on the other
1:48:38
people and answer the question, who is
1:48:40
your successor? If you were hit by
1:48:42
a bus, who would take over? And
1:48:45
the less secure people, the more
1:48:47
insecure people put themselves in a
1:48:49
position where they seem indispensable to
1:48:51
senior management and couldn't possibly leave.
1:48:53
okay, that person is not promotable.
1:48:55
The person who has cultivated leaders
1:48:58
under them, that person is totally
1:49:00
promotable, even though that person's more
1:49:02
expendable too. And so it's
1:49:04
that fine thing. Long -winded way of me
1:49:06
saying, I've always had a lot of things
1:49:08
going on. And my joke was, if
1:49:10
I'm doing my job really, really perfectly, I
1:49:12
can be on my surfboard. And
1:49:16
nobody knows when you don't show up
1:49:18
to work if you have eight jobs. Everybody
1:49:22
always thinks you're working on the other
1:49:24
thing. I'm being glib, and gets
1:49:26
a little bit of a
1:49:28
chuckle, but I am a seriously
1:49:30
leverage -oriented person. So it's not
1:49:32
that hard. What are
1:49:35
other ways that you
1:49:37
identify opportunities for leverage
1:49:39
or think about leverage?
1:49:41
In a life context,
1:49:43
it is just surrounding
1:49:45
yourself with great people
1:49:47
who care. who have
1:49:49
skills and who care about
1:49:51
whatever the mission is, be it
1:49:53
building a business or building
1:49:55
a family. Sarah is amazingly smart
1:49:57
and capable and cares, and
1:49:59
the stuff that she's in charge
1:50:01
of is going to happen
1:50:03
well. That's an unbelievable
1:50:06
feature to have in a partner as you're
1:50:08
looking for a partner. Lots
1:50:10
of stuff matters in finding a
1:50:12
partner. It's really a
1:50:14
partnership. If you guys are going to have a
1:50:16
baby, that's a business of sorts. I
1:50:19
think it's mostly about picking the right
1:50:21
people. Any recommendations for people
1:50:24
who are hiring folks they
1:50:26
have not known for a
1:50:28
long period of time? Any
1:50:30
recommendations for the hiring process?
1:50:32
Because a lot of people
1:50:34
interview well who don't necessarily
1:50:36
perform well. They know what
1:50:38
to say. And reference checks
1:50:40
often are conflicted. I've had
1:50:42
the worst luck with taking
1:50:44
reference checks at face value.
1:50:46
There's some ways to kind
1:50:48
of work with that. Yeah.
1:50:51
Two things, I would say. One
1:50:53
is my favorite section of the resume,
1:50:55
I guess now LinkedIn. It's not
1:50:57
really a section on LinkedIn, but it's
1:50:59
always in the very bottom, which
1:51:01
is the interests. Okay.
1:51:04
And I want to... somebody,
1:51:06
if in an interview situation,
1:51:08
talking about their interests and
1:51:10
why they put them there
1:51:12
and then just asking them
1:51:15
basic questions and watching whether
1:51:17
or not they have any
1:51:19
passion to see a real
1:51:21
spark. Because if they put it
1:51:23
there, that is what they're interested in and they'd
1:51:25
better be able to light up on it. When
1:51:27
I was earlier in my career, I would always
1:51:29
make up business cases around some interest. How
1:51:32
big is the ski industry because you put
1:51:34
skiing, whatever. And that was always a fun stepping
1:51:36
off point. So finding
1:51:38
people's passion. I want to find
1:51:40
people who are passionate people. And
1:51:42
then the second thing is get
1:51:44
used to pulling the pitcher off
1:51:46
the mound quickly. Firing someone.
1:51:48
Yep. Okay. It's hard when
1:51:50
you're early in your career. It's
1:51:52
not as hard later. All
1:51:54
of my mistakes as a leader
1:51:56
have been leaving. Almost all
1:51:58
of them have been leaving the
1:52:00
pitcher on the mound too
1:52:03
long, hoping that the arm would
1:52:05
get better. What have you
1:52:07
learned in terms of process for
1:52:09
firing? Any approach, go -to phrases,
1:52:11
rules? If you've got someone,
1:52:13
you're going on your two -week
1:52:15
surf trip. There's someone below you
1:52:17
who is going to fill
1:52:19
that leadership void and he or
1:52:21
she is going to have
1:52:23
to fire someone. And they're like,
1:52:25
hey boss, I don't want
1:52:27
to bother you, but this is
1:52:29
something I haven't done before.
1:52:31
Give me some advice. Don't
1:52:33
do it via text. Be
1:52:35
an upstanding person. Have
1:52:37
some courage. You've got to
1:52:39
be face -to -face. But it's actually
1:52:41
not that hard. My advice
1:52:44
would be, look, if you're not
1:52:46
happy with the performance of
1:52:48
this person, I guarantee you the
1:52:50
person isn't happy either. Therefore,
1:52:52
you can increase love in the world
1:52:54
by releasing that person to find where that
1:52:56
person belongs. That person belongs
1:52:58
somewhere else. That person's going to be happy
1:53:00
somewhere. Help that
1:53:02
person find that somewhere. But
1:53:05
you're going to be happier when you
1:53:07
release that person. That person's going
1:53:09
to be happier too. And so if
1:53:11
you make it a partnership, if
1:53:13
you make it a joint decision effectively,
1:53:15
or at least get the interests
1:53:17
aligned, which it almost always is, it's
1:53:19
not as hard. And when you
1:53:21
do that, you naturally are being human.
1:53:23
If you're looking for shared alignment,
1:53:25
that means you care. That means you're
1:53:28
showing heart. And having heart in
1:53:30
this situation is really important. And
1:53:32
then in terms of the delivery,
1:53:34
the conversation, any tips on how to
1:53:36
manage that? You do have to
1:53:38
be ready for a lot of stuff
1:53:40
to come up. And as the
1:53:43
person in the power, holding power in
1:53:45
this situation, you have to wear
1:53:47
it. You have to understand and be
1:53:49
sympathetic and non -argumentative in order to
1:53:51
get people on the same page.
1:53:53
Oftentimes, just like in life with anything,
1:53:56
people really do need to get
1:53:58
it out and be heard. And
1:54:00
that's great. That's great. And
1:54:02
then asking advice on the way
1:54:04
out too, like for voluntary
1:54:06
or involuntary termination. Sometimes it's hazy,
1:54:09
right? And soliciting information on
1:54:11
the way out for yourself and
1:54:13
the organization is often appreciated
1:54:15
and often revealing too. So that's
1:54:17
good. Exit interview. Exit interview
1:54:19
is important in as casual a
1:54:21
setting as you can make,
1:54:23
as you can muster. I believe
1:54:26
the entrance, the one month
1:54:28
post. Start is a really great
1:54:30
time to get observations from
1:54:32
new people too. They haven't been
1:54:34
fully indoctrinated yet and they
1:54:36
probably are good consultants right then.
1:54:40
So random question. I don't know.
1:54:42
You could be covered in tattoos,
1:54:44
but what is the story of
1:54:46
this tattoo? Family. All
1:54:49
right. Five of us in the
1:54:51
family. Things we love. So it looks
1:54:53
at a quick glance, looks like
1:54:55
a snowflake, but those are trees. It's
1:54:57
made up of five trees. It's
1:54:59
a snowflake in total shape, and it's
1:55:01
a starfish in the negative space. My
1:55:05
daughter, Josie, when she was 16,
1:55:07
which is too young to get
1:55:09
a tattoo, asked
1:55:11
Sarah if she could get
1:55:13
a tattoo. Or asked her
1:55:15
more specifically, would she get a tattoo
1:55:17
with her? And Sarah's like,
1:55:20
well, you met Sarah. Like, sure. And
1:55:24
she's like, and then brought it to me,
1:55:26
and I was like, okay, let's design one as
1:55:28
a family. No Wile E. Coyote. The
1:55:30
first versions, you know those on the
1:55:33
back of a minivan, the family of
1:55:35
five with the stick figure mom. That
1:55:37
was what Josie drew. Josie's
1:55:40
very creative. You're creative, honey. But it
1:55:43
was funny. That was the first version. And
1:55:45
we were sharing. different versions and iterating
1:55:47
and at some point sarah said maybe we
1:55:49
should bring you know this artist friend
1:55:51
joe park into this and he'd never designed
1:55:53
a tattoo we brought him and he
1:55:55
was super psyched to do it so then
1:55:57
he led the creative iterations and we
1:55:59
ended up with we ended up with this
1:56:01
they they look exactly the same but
1:56:04
they're not they're all unique they form a
1:56:06
cohesive trees you're saying the trees are
1:56:08
unique too so anyway I dig it. Yeah.
1:56:10
I love it. I was the only
1:56:12
one who got it in a really visible
1:56:14
place and everybody else got jealous because
1:56:16
I like to be able to look at
1:56:18
it and remember my family. And
1:56:21
we did this maybe five,
1:56:23
six, seven years ago. I
1:56:25
thought we'd get more. Sarah's gotten two more
1:56:27
tattoos, but I haven't gotten any more.
1:56:29
You know, I think tattoos are, you don't
1:56:31
have any, do you have some? It's
1:56:33
a, it's a very few people have one.
1:56:36
Yeah, I've been considering getting my
1:56:38
first, which is in some
1:56:40
ways kind of similar. It'd actually
1:56:42
be in a very similar
1:56:44
location right here with my dog's
1:56:46
paw prints. It's hard
1:56:48
for me to imagine regretting that. You
1:56:50
won't. Yeah, I don't think I will. Interestingly,
1:56:57
our older boy, Will, was of age to
1:56:59
get a tattoo. He was 18, I think,
1:57:01
at the time, maybe 19. But
1:57:03
the twins... It wasn't legal to
1:57:05
get one in Washington State or most
1:57:07
states. And so Josie was actually
1:57:09
going to high school for a year in Spain
1:57:11
at the time, and Spain didn't have that restriction. So
1:57:13
she got the design and got it in Spain. And
1:57:16
we have that house in Montana,
1:57:18
and Montana doesn't have any restrictions.
1:57:20
So on the way to go
1:57:22
skiing one time, Russell went to
1:57:25
some sketchy place in Bozeman and
1:57:27
got the tattoo. So we all
1:57:29
got them in different places. It's
1:57:31
funny. Any other, I mean, I
1:57:33
guess getting a tattoo is not
1:57:35
necessarily a recommendation you're making, but
1:57:37
any thoughts for, let's just say
1:57:39
there are people listening who are
1:57:42
type A or otherwise builders who
1:57:44
can sometimes be consumed perhaps by
1:57:46
the scale and scope of what
1:57:48
they're doing or hope to do,
1:57:50
and they're planning on kids or
1:57:52
they have very young kids. What
1:57:54
would your recommendations be to those
1:57:57
people? So the planning on the
1:57:59
kind of constant delayers, which there
1:58:01
are a lot of, you know,
1:58:03
maybe some right here. There
1:58:07
are a lot of out there. Yeah.
1:58:09
Okay. And I think the fundamental logic
1:58:11
is this is an important thing and
1:58:13
I don't have enough time. Yeah. Right
1:58:15
now. And so I'll wait till it's
1:58:17
a better time. There's
1:58:20
never a better time. There's
1:58:23
never a good time. So point
1:58:25
number one is. It's not going to get better.
1:58:27
It's not going to feel better. And
1:58:29
then point number two is
1:58:31
we're built for this. We
1:58:35
are the successful evolutionary product of
1:58:37
a lot of people who figured
1:58:39
this out, which means we have
1:58:41
a lot of encoded knowledge about
1:58:43
how to do this and how
1:58:45
to deal from our bodies and
1:58:47
our minds and our relationships and
1:58:49
even just how we parent. It's
1:58:52
encoded. A lot of it is
1:58:54
encoded. So it's, you know what?
1:58:56
it's probably going to work pretty
1:58:58
well. And so, I don't know
1:59:00
if I'd call myself a birther.
1:59:02
I'm an encourager of like, let's
1:59:04
have more babies. And I'm a
1:59:06
really big believer in how it's
1:59:09
such an important part of our
1:59:11
own mental health to have, at
1:59:13
least for me, to have children
1:59:15
and from a growth perspective. And
1:59:17
it kind of, as we get
1:59:19
older, our ego focus naturally, the
1:59:21
diameter of our ego sphere gets
1:59:23
broader and broader and children just.
1:59:25
blow it way out and that
1:59:28
is really a positive for most
1:59:30
people to realize that their needs
1:59:32
and wants are trivial you know
1:59:34
i think that's a positive so
1:59:36
anyway i encourage it yeah for
1:59:38
me it's not a bad timing
1:59:40
looking for better timing thing it's
1:59:42
more of a navigating the bizarre
1:59:45
aspects of modern dating being in
1:59:47
my public slash semi -public position
1:59:49
and As someone who's already,
1:59:51
for a lot of good reasons, slow
1:59:54
to trust, getting to a point where
1:59:56
I feel like I can pull the
1:59:58
trigger. I think that's solvable, but it's
2:00:00
not trivial. I never had to deal
2:00:02
with that, but I totally. How old
2:00:04
were you guys when you met? 22.
2:00:07
Wow. Yeah. In
2:00:09
a pub in Cambridge, Mass. Look
2:00:11
at that. Maybe that's my next
2:00:13
move. Go pub
2:00:16
crawling, Cameron. It's hard, though. I
2:00:18
totally get what you're saying. It's
2:00:20
hard. For the people
2:00:22
with young kids and balancing things,
2:00:25
I guess I would just always
2:00:27
advise to don't wait for an
2:00:29
external catalyst to make sure you're
2:00:31
prioritizing your family life and your
2:00:33
personal health. Because a lot of
2:00:35
people out there are not doing
2:00:37
that. And eventually it comes home
2:00:39
to roost one way or another. And
2:00:42
the sooner you can kind of... things
2:00:44
in perspective. It's kind of a confidence game
2:00:46
in general. It's a courage and confidence
2:00:48
game in general. If you
2:00:50
have high confidence in your abilities,
2:00:52
there is no better time for
2:00:54
at least, you know, the kinds
2:00:57
of jobs in the sit at
2:00:59
a desk, use a computer type
2:01:01
jobs. There's no better time in
2:01:03
the history of the world to
2:01:05
be able to have a good
2:01:07
balance between having work and life
2:01:09
interweave. I'm a huge believer in
2:01:11
what I call cloud HQ, cloud
2:01:14
headquarters at Zillow. Post -pandemic, I was
2:01:16
a huge believer in office culture
2:01:18
before that, but the pandemic opened
2:01:20
my eyes to just how much
2:01:22
more inclusive the cloud headquartered the
2:01:24
Matt Mullenweg. Matt was very influential
2:01:26
on me early in the pandemic.
2:01:29
I had him blue jeans
2:01:31
Zoom into an early company
2:01:33
meeting early in COVID and
2:01:35
lay out his game plan
2:01:37
for the distributed corporation. Yeah,
2:01:39
for people who don't know.
2:01:41
Super helpful. Yeah, Matt Mullenweg, generally
2:01:44
associated with WordPress, founder
2:01:46
and CEO of Automatic,
2:01:48
spelled M -A -T -T -I
2:01:51
-C, and pioneer of
2:01:53
distributed workforces. And as
2:01:55
a design principle from
2:01:57
the outset, has built
2:01:59
that company to be
2:02:01
distributed, and therefore was
2:02:03
very anti -fragile when COVID
2:02:05
came along. And there
2:02:07
are some other standout examples. I mean, Shopify
2:02:09
did really well also. But
2:02:12
you're right. I think if
2:02:14
this can't lend itself, I mean,
2:02:16
modern technology and the options
2:02:18
available to some type of balance
2:02:20
or the option to pull
2:02:22
different levers where it would have
2:02:24
been far difficult even 10
2:02:26
years ago. We can generalize
2:02:28
and say it's been great for moms, but
2:02:30
it's more than just moms. But
2:02:33
it has enabled
2:02:35
really smart, very
2:02:37
experienced moms who may have historically
2:02:39
decided to take the off ramp
2:02:41
into primarily momhood rather than primarily
2:02:43
climbing the corporate ladder or just
2:02:45
executive leadership path. It's enabled them
2:02:47
to come back. And likewise now
2:02:49
for a father, like as long
2:02:52
as the company doesn't get angry
2:02:54
when they see you in your
2:02:56
car on the zoom, because you're
2:02:58
at a, dentist appointment for your
2:03:00
kid or something. As long as
2:03:02
that doesn't make the CEO get
2:03:04
angry, because that's not the way
2:03:06
I did it when I came
2:03:08
up and look how great I
2:03:10
turned out. I've got
2:03:12
to do it this way. I kind of
2:03:14
chuckle when I listen to all that. I'm like, you
2:03:17
people, open your minds.
2:03:19
This opens doors. This doesn't
2:03:22
close doors. Let me
2:03:24
ask a couple of quick questions. They
2:03:26
don't need to have quick answers, but
2:03:28
just as we start to land the plane.
2:03:32
What books have you
2:03:34
either gifted a lot
2:03:36
to other people or
2:03:38
reread yourself? Either one.
2:03:40
I am not your
2:03:42
typical person, probably sitting
2:03:44
in the seat and
2:03:46
that maybe I am
2:03:48
not a nonfiction business
2:03:50
book. Sorry, Tim. That's
2:03:52
okay. Yeah. I tend not to read
2:03:55
that stuff. The older I get, I occasionally
2:03:57
will read a biography now, but they
2:03:59
mean more now the older you get. I
2:04:01
am fully a, I'm a big
2:04:03
reader and it's fiction and generally
2:04:06
good fiction. Although I do have,
2:04:08
you know, cheap thrills.
2:04:10
Yeah, I do. I do.
2:04:12
I really love beautiful, beautiful
2:04:14
fiction. I dabble. I've
2:04:16
always dabbled in the kind
2:04:18
of science fiction, magical realism
2:04:20
stuff as well. I believe
2:04:22
for me, at least escape
2:04:25
from the cranked up. quick
2:04:27
twitch, always on alert, operational
2:04:29
stuff that business people go
2:04:31
with. Yeah, exactly. To get
2:04:33
my brain, I have monkey
2:04:35
brain, okay? And to get
2:04:38
my monkey brain to relax,
2:04:40
escaping into a fiction novel
2:04:42
for me is just a
2:04:44
fantastic release. So with
2:04:46
all that said, what stuff do I
2:04:48
like and that I've gifted? Recently,
2:04:50
I gifted The Oceans and the Stars.
2:04:52
Do you know Mark Halperin? Oh,
2:04:54
no. Okay. He's a
2:04:57
guy who's a little older than I
2:04:59
am and writes characters that are just
2:05:01
about in my phase of life. Like
2:05:03
a beautiful, luscious prose writer. Really smart.
2:05:05
Wrote Soldier of the Great War and
2:05:07
A Winter's Tale and Freddy and Frederica.
2:05:09
I don't know if you've heard of
2:05:12
any of these books. There's
2:05:14
a little bit of magic in
2:05:16
them. Magic is a prime character
2:05:18
in all these books. It's this
2:05:20
luscious prose and epic stories of...
2:05:22
War and romance and exploration and
2:05:24
relationships. And this latest one is
2:05:27
I highly recommend. It's a kind
2:05:29
of on the edge of retirement,
2:05:31
just under admiral or like a
2:05:33
low level admiral in the U .S.
2:05:35
Navy who almost becomes head of
2:05:37
the DOD, but doesn't get it
2:05:40
because he speaks his mind. And
2:05:42
then he gets commissioned as a
2:05:44
rebuke on this new weird ship.
2:05:46
And I'll just say that. And
2:05:48
that's a setup for him. taking
2:05:50
this really more fast attack destroyer
2:05:52
into the Middle East. And he's
2:05:55
kind of a war guy. He's
2:05:57
a vet. And he's
2:05:59
a pretty engaged political kind of,
2:06:01
I call him an offensive
2:06:03
realist in the John Mearsheimer mold.
2:06:05
Kind of hawkish, would be
2:06:07
perceived as hawkish. You know, believes
2:06:09
in strong defense. The protagonist.
2:06:11
This is the author. I got
2:06:14
it. Mark Halperin. This is
2:06:16
his mindset. So that manifests in
2:06:18
basically romantic stories of... heroic,
2:06:20
you know, war efforts, which is, you
2:06:23
know, I'm a boy. I like that stuff. I
2:06:27
recommend Oceans and Stars is great. The
2:06:29
only one of his that I probably
2:06:31
reread is A Winter's Tale, which was
2:06:33
my first one I ever read by
2:06:35
him. It's just a beautiful, beautiful story
2:06:38
of early 20th century life near New
2:06:40
York City and upstate New York. You
2:06:42
might actually like it. I might dig
2:06:44
it. I read Last of the Mohicans
2:06:46
just to take a walk through that
2:06:48
area and that time period. Authors I
2:06:50
like. I like. Haruki Murakami, kind of
2:06:52
magic. Neil Stevenson is like, some people
2:06:54
don't like his latest book, Polostan. I
2:06:56
don't know if he's the one who
2:06:58
wrote Snow Crash. Oh, yeah. Okay, so
2:07:00
you know him. Snow Crash.
2:07:02
I had pizza with him in
2:07:04
Seattle with a couple of other
2:07:06
guys. And I was like, wait,
2:07:08
you do Victorian era calisthenics with,
2:07:10
oh, and you make swords? Wait,
2:07:12
what? I mean, lots of.
2:07:14
And he's got the beard. Oh, amazing beard.
2:07:16
Yeah. I actually kind of froze up
2:07:18
when I met him. It doesn't
2:07:20
happen to me very often, but
2:07:23
he's kind of a hero. And he's
2:07:25
in Seattle. Yeah, he's right there.
2:07:27
Yeah, he's right there. So I see
2:07:29
him occasionally at our sushi place.
2:07:31
I'm like, I get scared. But his
2:07:33
latest Polo Stom, I highly recommend.
2:07:35
Okay, I haven't read it yet. Some
2:07:37
people are giving me grief for
2:07:39
it. It's, you know, authors when they
2:07:41
get. Successful. 7 ,000 pages?
2:07:43
Well, it's long. A lot of his
2:07:45
stuff is long, but it's not that
2:07:47
long. It's not like Cryptonomicon or something.
2:07:49
Which I loved. Me too. But
2:07:52
authors, as they get successful, sometimes they
2:07:54
have too much power over their editors,
2:07:56
and so they get a little self
2:07:58
-indulgent. Which, for me, with
2:08:00
a beautiful prose writer, I'm like, take me
2:08:02
along. Fine. I will indulge your self -indulgence,
2:08:04
and I don't mind it. But this
2:08:06
one takes 100. to 150 pages to break
2:08:09
into, but then it just goes. Then
2:08:11
it rips. Then it rips, yeah. So anyway,
2:08:13
I highly write. And it's going to
2:08:15
be a trilogy. And so it's
2:08:17
only the first one, so I'm like, know, I
2:08:19
can't wait. Anyway, I love, you can tell,
2:08:21
I love to read fiction. And
2:08:23
do you lean these days,
2:08:25
if you're gifting, have you gifted
2:08:27
those books that you mentioned? I've
2:08:30
gifted Oceans and Stars, but I'm such a Kindle
2:08:32
person, and so many of us are digital readers
2:08:34
now. It's kind of hard to gift. Yeah, it
2:08:36
is. It's more, You know,
2:08:39
group chat. Yeah. You know, book
2:08:41
group, group chat. That's how most
2:08:43
of the book discovery happens for
2:08:45
me now. Have you read any
2:08:47
of Ted Chang's stuff? Uh -uh. Oh,
2:08:49
man. Who is it? Okay, so
2:08:52
Ted, C -H -I -A -N -G. Okay. He
2:08:55
has, last I checked, is
2:08:57
two collections of short stories. There
2:08:59
is one which I always script
2:09:01
the title of. It's...
2:09:04
stories of your life
2:09:06
and other stories, something like
2:09:08
that. And one of
2:09:10
those short stories was the basis for
2:09:13
the movie Arrival with Jeremy Renner.
2:09:15
Amazing movie. So one of his short
2:09:17
stories was the basis for that.
2:09:19
And then I read that collection and
2:09:21
pretty much everyone who read it
2:09:23
was just like, I don't understand how
2:09:25
this guy does this. And if
2:09:27
they happen to be writers, they're also
2:09:29
just like, sad clown tear. How
2:09:33
does someone even begin to create something like
2:09:35
this? His second collection came out, Exhalation. And I
2:09:37
didn't want to buy it because I didn't
2:09:39
want to be disappointed. I like, there's just no
2:09:41
way, right? Like that first one was Appetite
2:09:43
for Destruction. Like, yeah, you can't do that twice.
2:09:46
And then the second
2:09:48
was just unbelievably good. And
2:09:51
not all of them will hit
2:09:53
necessarily, but the ones that hit. are
2:09:55
just incredible. And they're like one
2:09:57
night read short story, a collection of
2:09:59
one reads. I would say a
2:10:01
lot of them are one night reads.
2:10:03
Some of them end up being
2:10:05
a little bit longer, but he, along
2:10:07
with other writers too, Kenneth Liu,
2:10:09
I think is LIU. He has the
2:10:11
paper Menagerie, which was actually gifted
2:10:13
to me by Matt Mullenweg, blends
2:10:15
or alternates in a sense
2:10:17
between sci -fi and fantasy in
2:10:19
this really compelling way. Cool. So
2:10:21
you get these like little
2:10:24
ginger snacks in between your, Pieces
2:10:26
of Sushi. That sounds right up
2:10:28
my alley. Resets. So highly,
2:10:31
highly recommend. And I
2:10:33
think for the longest time, he wasn't, maybe
2:10:35
he still isn't a full -time writer. That's the
2:10:37
part that really got me, where it's like, okay,
2:10:39
he writes technical manuals for A, B, or
2:10:41
C, and then in his spare time, he wins
2:10:43
Hugo and Nebula Awards. It's just like, oh,
2:10:45
come on. Yeah. There's
2:10:47
hope for, I always kind of wished
2:10:49
I became a writer. I like to write,
2:10:51
but I'm not that good. And I've
2:10:53
never dedicated time to it. In
2:10:56
that vein, this guy, Amor Tolles, do
2:10:58
you know him? Oh, so good. I've only
2:11:00
- He was a banker. I know. Finance.
2:11:02
Well, that's another one. Until he was
2:11:05
like 40. No, I know. The
2:11:07
only thing I've read of his is
2:11:09
Lincoln Highway, which, I mean, it
2:11:11
is such a page turner. It's so
2:11:13
beautifully architected. And I read that,
2:11:15
and I, through someone named Hugh Howey,
2:11:17
shook hands with Amor very briefly
2:11:20
at a restaurant. We happened to bump
2:11:22
into each other. And
2:11:24
I found out about the finest background. I
2:11:26
was like, you gotta be kidding me. I
2:11:28
know. You gotta be kidding me. I learned
2:11:30
that he was on somebody's pod. He gave
2:11:32
a great pod when Lincoln Highway came out
2:11:34
to somebody who cracks open artists. It might've
2:11:36
been like Brian. Oh, compliment. It
2:11:38
might've been compliment. Yeah, very well. Who
2:11:40
like gets to artists, right? Yes. And by
2:11:43
the way, for people who don't know, quick bit
2:11:45
of trivia. So Brian Koppelman,
2:11:47
co -creator of Billions and co -writer
2:11:49
of Rounders and all these movies
2:11:51
and TV shows and so on. Also
2:11:54
discovered Tracy Chapman as a
2:11:56
musician back in his A &R
2:11:58
days. Really? Yeah. Isn't
2:12:01
that wild? He's a talented guy. Yeah.
2:12:03
So it wouldn't surprise me if Amor was
2:12:05
on that show. Yeah, he was on
2:12:07
there and got him to crack up. And
2:12:09
then he was kind of surprised by
2:12:11
Brian's questions, I think, and didn't know Brian.
2:12:13
And all this stuff came out. Amazing.
2:12:17
All right. This is the billboard
2:12:19
question. If you could put
2:12:21
anything on a billboard. message,
2:12:24
quote, reminder, anything at all, obviously metaphorically,
2:12:26
just to get something in front of
2:12:28
a lot of people. You asked this,
2:12:30
so I did think about it a
2:12:32
little bit. And my initial response
2:12:35
that I latched onto came from
2:12:37
that movie Bowfinger. I don't know if
2:12:39
you ever saw Bowfinger. It's a
2:12:41
cult classic, and a lot of you
2:12:43
people out there haven't seen it,
2:12:45
but I highly recommend it. It's Eddie
2:12:47
Murphy Tour de Force and Steve
2:12:49
Martin and Heather Graham. It's
2:12:51
super quirky. Eddie Murphy plays two
2:12:53
roles in it, which he did
2:12:55
for a while in lots of
2:12:57
movies. And he plays
2:12:59
one of his roles. He plays
2:13:01
a paranoid Hollywood celebrity who thinks
2:13:03
and in fact is being followed
2:13:05
by people who are making a
2:13:07
movie about him with him starring
2:13:09
it unbeknownst to him. That's the
2:13:11
setup. Steve Martin's directing. And
2:13:14
he gets super, he's already a
2:13:16
paranoid guy, but he gets super paranoid.
2:13:18
It's like people are following me.
2:13:20
And he goes to a thing that
2:13:22
I don't know what kind of
2:13:24
culty LA religion it's representing, but it's
2:13:26
called mind head. And
2:13:29
he goes in and he has his first
2:13:31
counseling with the high priest of mind head. And
2:13:33
the religion is based on three happy premises. I'm
2:13:35
not going to remember them all, but, but
2:13:37
happy premise. Number one was something like, there
2:13:40
is no giant foot in the sky about
2:13:43
to step on me. Okay, this is like a
2:13:45
mantra you have to repeat. The
2:13:47
third one is my favorite, and that was what I was
2:13:49
going to put on the billboard, and that is, even
2:13:51
though I feel like I
2:13:53
might ignite, I probably won't.
2:13:57
Okay, that goes on my billboard.
2:13:59
That or my favorite Burning Man
2:14:01
bar ever had that giant neon
2:14:03
saw on top of this kind
2:14:06
of cozy geodesic dome playing groovy. music
2:14:08
decorated as an aquarium. Anybody out there? It's
2:14:10
like, it was at Burning Man a while ago
2:14:12
and it hasn't come back. It was our
2:14:14
favorite spot. And the sign
2:14:17
said, don't panic. I
2:14:20
will say more. That's it. Don't panic.
2:14:22
So that's on the billboard. Don't panic. I
2:14:25
think a lot of my job
2:14:27
as a leader, explicitly or naturally
2:14:29
or otherwise, is to naturally bring
2:14:31
people off of their high. High
2:14:34
beta, high swings, high mood swings.
2:14:36
People have a tendency towards fear
2:14:38
and panic. And almost
2:14:40
always it's going to be just
2:14:42
fine. And when it's not,
2:14:44
it doesn't matter anyway. Right. Okay?
2:14:47
Yeah. All right. And it
2:14:49
can cause a lot of a
2:14:51
happier life and a calmer
2:14:53
community and a better, healthier community
2:14:55
and family if everybody just
2:14:57
takes a little breath before getting
2:15:00
scared. Or
2:15:02
sending a text or whatever. Even though I
2:15:04
feel like I might ignite, I probably
2:15:06
won't. Is that basically related to the Don't
2:15:08
Panic? I think so. I think that
2:15:10
led me to the Don't Panic. I think
2:15:12
so. And I'm not saying I actually,
2:15:14
I don't move through the world feeling as
2:15:16
if I might ignite. I really don't.
2:15:18
But I think a lot of people, especially
2:15:20
in the modern news feed, iPhone,
2:15:22
TikTok, Twitter world, do
2:15:24
feel that way. And
2:15:26
so it's even more important. It's
2:15:29
why meditation is on the rise.
2:15:31
It's why we're looking for escapes.
2:15:33
We're looking to give our brains and
2:15:35
bodies just a break from the constant
2:15:38
barrage. And it's causing mental health problems
2:15:40
we all are familiar with. And I
2:15:42
think that's part of it. It's just
2:15:44
too easy to get mad or scared
2:15:46
or outraged or whatever. Go take a
2:15:48
rafting trip for a week that's disconnected.
2:15:50
That's going to be on the rise.
2:15:52
Those are growth businesses, right? The
2:15:57
hailstorm of doom. Exactly.
2:15:59
It's so unhealthy. Have
2:16:01
you taken any sabbaticals since Italy? Oh,
2:16:04
yeah. I mean, I've had
2:16:06
multiple retirements. Now, are those failed
2:16:08
retirements or did those have an end point
2:16:11
where you're like, I'm going to take a
2:16:13
year and then I'm going to dust off
2:16:15
my gloves and get Italy one was a
2:16:17
failed one, although I suspected. I was really
2:16:19
young, right? The others, no. It's just been
2:16:21
sabbaticals. How long are they typically? You
2:16:23
know, the Italy one was
2:16:25
the longest one, but I've
2:16:27
kind of built shelter into
2:16:29
our family's routine now. So
2:16:32
it's just a part of the
2:16:34
normal cycle of the seasons, you know,
2:16:36
and a really key component of
2:16:38
that. It's not always achievable, especially now.
2:16:40
Starlink and traveling Starlink and Starlink
2:16:42
at my surf camp and Starlink on
2:16:44
my Airstream. Like it's harder and
2:16:47
harder to disconnect, but disconnection is really
2:16:49
a key part of it, I
2:16:51
think. I think disconnection, the behavior you
2:16:53
observe when people are disconnected, like
2:16:55
with my family, when we do, we
2:16:57
rafted the Grand Canyon this year
2:16:59
with a big group of friends and
2:17:01
family. And when you watch the
2:17:03
younger people, it's very unsettling for the
2:17:05
first only like three or four
2:17:08
hours. And then when
2:17:10
they realize it's over, it's total
2:17:12
mean reversion to human behavior,
2:17:14
playing games, doing crafts, taking a
2:17:16
hike, you know, painting
2:17:18
a picture. You know,
2:17:20
it's totally beautiful what happens.
2:17:22
And everybody is happy. Well,
2:17:24
you can't not be happy making a
2:17:26
friendship bracelet or playing Taco Cat. What
2:17:28
are we? I don't want to give
2:17:30
that away. I don't want
2:17:33
to give your game. Oh, no, you didn't. But
2:17:35
you can't not be happy when you're doing that
2:17:37
and not looking at your thumb. Yeah. Highly
2:17:40
encouraged. Rich. Tim.
2:17:42
It's so nice to see you, man. It's great to
2:17:44
see you. We've covered a lot of ground. It was
2:17:46
fun. Wow. If
2:17:48
people want to learn more things
2:17:50
about Rich, should they be visitor 22
2:17:52
to your blog? No, I don't
2:17:54
think so. The blog is totally vestigial.
2:17:56
It's an appendix that needs to
2:17:58
be removed. Hopper and
2:18:00
dropper. The writing
2:18:02
thing, I've had a lot of offers
2:18:04
to do that with. I've just
2:18:07
never felt like I enjoyed reading any
2:18:09
of those business guy ego books.
2:18:11
I just don't find them very interesting.
2:18:13
And I don't want to be
2:18:15
one of those. Kind of jerk -offs,
2:18:17
you know? Maybe do a writer's retreat
2:18:19
or an MFA, compressed MFA, and
2:18:21
take a stab at fiction. Just saying.
2:18:23
Even if you never publish anything,
2:18:25
it's a good muscle to train for
2:18:27
a bit, just to play with
2:18:29
it. I'm doing more creative things deliberately
2:18:32
now, and it feels good. Yeah.
2:18:34
Like, I took a Procreate painting on
2:18:36
my iPad during COVID, and it's
2:18:38
so... I'm so... I feel so good.
2:18:40
And I, like, catch myself going
2:18:42
back and looking at my works. Like,
2:18:44
we had a party. And
2:18:46
I'll show people what I painted.
2:18:48
And it's not good, but it
2:18:50
makes me feel good. I did
2:18:52
exactly the same thing during COVID.
2:18:55
Procreate. And you go through these
2:18:57
tutorials. There's something very soothing about
2:18:59
it. Oh, that Australian gal who
2:19:01
I think works at Procreate who
2:19:03
gives the tutorials. She's so awesome.
2:19:05
Yeah, so many good ones. Is
2:19:07
there anything you would like to
2:19:09
say? Any closing comments? Formal public
2:19:11
complaints you'd like to lodge? No,
2:19:14
no, I guess I should thank you.
2:19:16
You perform a good service. You provide a
2:19:18
good service for a lot of people
2:19:20
with this pod and with your books. And
2:19:23
certain people need it more than
2:19:25
others. And I really don't think
2:19:27
people are looking for shortcuts. That
2:19:29
may have been where you started
2:19:32
a little bit. I really just
2:19:34
think people are just looking to
2:19:36
lead better, happier, slightly more efficient.
2:19:39
lives, improving lives. They want to improve
2:19:41
themselves. And you really help people do
2:19:43
that. And the diversity of the guests
2:19:45
that you bring on this pod is
2:19:48
really inspiring. So yeah, it's great. Thank
2:19:50
you. Thanks, man. It's great to be
2:19:52
here. Yeah. Awesome to have you. Everybody
2:19:54
listening, we're going to include everything
2:19:56
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2:20:09
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